On tennis, love and motherhood | Serena Williams and Gayle King

1,403,795 views ・ 2017-05-22

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譯者: Kairan Wang 審譯者: Yang He
00:13
Gayle King: Have a seat, Serena Williams,
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蓋爾·金:請坐,塞雷娜·威廉姆絲,
00:15
or should we say, have a seat, mom.
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或是應該說「請坐吧,母親。」
00:18
(Cheers)
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(歡呼聲)
00:21
So no doubt, you guys are like me.
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毫無疑問,你們和我一樣。
00:23
You saw the release of Serena
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大家都看到塞雷娜上周發佈的, 穿著黃色泳裝的照片,
00:25
in that great yellow bathing suit last week
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00:27
and when I saw it, all I could think of was,
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當我看到那張照片的時候, 我一直在想:
00:30
"Gosh, why couldn't she have waited til we sat onstage for TED?"
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「天哪,她為什麼不等到 TED 演講時再公開呢?」
00:34
I was very selfish, I know.
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我知道自己很自私。
00:36
So I asked you about that picture,
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我問了你那張照片的事,
00:37
and you said nobody was supposed to see that picture.
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你說你原來沒打算 讓其他人看到那張照片。
00:40
What do you mean?
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這話是什麼意思?
00:41
Serena Williams: Well, actually, it was an accident.
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塞雷娜:那其實是一場意外。
00:44
I was on vacation, just taking some time for myself,
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我當時在度假, 只是給自己留點私人時間,
00:47
and I have this thing where I've been checking my status
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我就用 Snapchat 檢視自己的狀態,
00:52
and taking pictures every week to see how far along I'm going --
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每周拍些照片來記錄自己的變化。
00:56
GK: And sharing it with friends, maybe?
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蓋爾:然後可能會分享給朋友們?
00:58
SW: No, actually I have just been saving it,
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塞雷娜:不,其實我只想保存下來。
01:00
and I didn't really tell a lot of people,
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說實話,我沒有告訴很多人,
01:02
to be quite honest,
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01:04
and I'd been saving it,
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我一直在保存照片,
01:05
and you know how social media is, you press the wrong button and --
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但是你也知道社交媒體, 按錯了一個按鈕就…
01:08
(Laughter)
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01:09
GK: And there it was.
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(笑聲)
蓋爾:就成這樣了。
01:11
SW: So 30 minutes later -- my phone doesn't ring that much --
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塞雷納:所以 30 分鐘之後… 我的電話向來不怎麼響,
01:14
and 30 minutes later, I missed like four calls,
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30 分鐘之後, 就有四個未接來電,
01:16
and I'm like, that's weird,
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我當時就想,有點奇怪啊,
01:18
and then I picked it up and I was like, oh no.
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然後我接了電話。 我心想:「噢,不。」
01:21
But it was a good moment.
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但那其實正合時機。
01:22
I was gonna wait literally just five or six more days -- that's OK.
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我原本打算再多等個五六天, 沒關係的。
01:26
GK: I know, because it was weird, Serena, because it only said 20 weeks,
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蓋爾:我知道,因為這很奇怪, 因為上面只寫了20 週,
01:29
so it's not like there was a whole lot of information on it.
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所以並沒有透露很多信息。
01:32
SW: Exactly, so that's what I've been doing all this time.
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塞雷納:沒錯, 我一直以來都是這麼做的。
01:35
I've been just tracking it.
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我一直在追蹤記錄。
01:36
18, 19 -- every week I'd just take a picture and save it,
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18 週,19 週… 每週我都會拍下照片並保存起來,
01:39
and I've been so good about it,
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本來一切都很順利, 結果這次失手了。
01:41
and this was the one time that I slipped.
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01:45
GK: There you go. Well, congratulations.
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蓋爾:就這樣公佈出來了。 好吧,恭喜你。
01:48
SW: Yes, thank you.
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塞雷娜:謝謝。
01:49
GK: It really is OK. When you heard the news,
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蓋爾:其實真的挺好。 當你得知這個消息時,
01:51
were you excited? Were you afraid? Were you worried?
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你是興奮,還是害怕或者擔憂?
01:54
That you were pregnant, I mean.
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我指的是當你得知懷孕的時候。
01:56
SW: So I heard it two days before the beginning of the Australian Open,
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塞雷娜:我是在澳網公開賽 開賽前兩天得知的,
02:01
which is one of the biggest grand slams.
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這是最重要的大滿貫比賽之一。
02:02
GK: You found out two days before?
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蓋爾:開賽前兩天才得知?
02:04
SW: Yeah, so it was two days before, and I knew.
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塞雷娜:是的,兩天前才知道。 我非常緊張。
02:07
I was nervous.
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02:09
I wasn't quite sure what to think,
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我不知道當時應該想些什麼,
02:11
but I just knew that at that moment
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但那時候我只知道,集中精力 打好澳網公開賽才是最重要的,
02:13
it was really important for me to just focus right there
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02:16
at the Australian Open,
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02:17
and I was definitely not sure what to do.
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但我完全不知道該做什麼。
02:21
I was like, can I play?
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我心想:我能參賽麼?
02:23
I know it's very dangerous, maybe, sometimes in the first 12 weeks or so,
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我知道開始的 12 週是非常危險,
02:28
so I had a lot of questions.
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所以我有很多顧慮。
02:30
GK: But not only did you play, Ms. Williams, you won.
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蓋爾:但你不僅參加了, 威廉姆絲女士,你還贏了。
02:34
(Cheers)
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(歡呼聲)
02:36
SW: Yeah.
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塞雷娜:是的。
02:40
May I just say, 23 grand slams to you.
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蓋爾:我得對你說, 你贏得了 23 場大滿貫賽事冠軍。
02:44
SW: Thank you.
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塞雷娜:謝謝你。
02:45
(Applause)
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蓋爾:而且還在懷孕期間。
02:46
GK: While pregnant!
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(掌聲)
02:48
SW: Well, I was looking for another handicap, so ... no.
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塞雷娜:我只想多打一場障礙賽。
02:51
GK: Did you play differently that game, knowing you were pregnant?
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蓋爾:你得知自己懷孕後, 在比賽時有什麼不同?
02:54
SW: I did. It wasn't very easy.
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塞雷娜:是的,確實不容易。
02:56
You hear all these stories about people when they're pregnant,
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聽說過很多關於懷孕後的說法, 孕婦會感到噁心和疲憊。
02:59
they get sick and they get tired.
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03:01
GK: Have you had morning sickness?
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蓋爾:你有晨吐嗎? 塞雷娜:我運氣不錯,還沒有。
03:03
SW: No, I've been so fortunate and so I haven't.
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03:05
But they get really tired and they get really stressed out,
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但她們都感到疲憊和非常緊張,
03:09
and I had to really take all that energy,
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而我必須把這些能量 通通放進紙袋裡,然後扔掉,
03:12
put it in a paper bag, so to say,
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03:14
and throw it away,
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03:15
because I really felt like I didn't have time
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因為我覺得真的沒有時間 去處理任何額外的情緒和事情,
03:17
to deal with any extra emotions, any extra anything,
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03:20
because pregnant or not, no one knew,
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無論會否懷孕,沒人知道結果,
03:23
and I was supposed to win that tournament
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而我每次參加賽事, 就應該在那場賽事中取勝。
03:25
as I am every tournament that I show up.
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03:26
I am expected to win,
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大家期待我得勝, 而如果我輸了,那將是更大的新聞。
03:28
and if I don't win, it's actually much bigger news.
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03:30
GK: Yeah, when you don't win, that's a big story.
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蓋爾:是的,如果你沒有贏, 那將是一件大事。
03:33
SW: Yes, so for me, I had to really take anything negative
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塞雷娜:是的,所以對於我來說, 所有的負能量和情緒,
03:36
and any emotions that I was feeling at that point
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03:39
and kind of just bottle them up
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我必須把它們通通壓抑住。
03:41
and really figure out what the next step for me to do was.
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並且弄清楚下一步要做什麼。
03:44
GK: You have a lot of support. You have a lot of love.
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蓋爾:你得到很多支持和愛戴。
03:47
Even when I was coming here, people stopped me at the airport.
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即使我到這裡來時, 人們也在機場攔住我,
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I was saying to the flight attendant, the pilot, "Guess where I'm going?"
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我對空服員和機長說: 「猜猜我要去哪裡?」
他們說:「我的天, 我們很高興她懷孕了。」
03:53
They said, "Oh my God, we're so glad she's pregnant."
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但是你也總是會遇到些怪人,
03:55
But then you always have these cranky Yankees.
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來這裡的路上,有人跟我提起 伊利耶·納斯塔塞。
03:58
On the way over here, somebody was telling me about Ilie Nastase,
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他說了些很刻薄、不適當的, 我敢說含有種族歧視的言論。
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who said some very unkind, inappropriate, dare I say racial things.
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你還回應他了。
04:04
You have responded to him.
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你說什麼了?
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I'm not even going to dignify what he said,
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我就不重複他說的話了,
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but you responded. Why did you respond?
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但是你回應了, 你為什麼要回應呢?
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SW: Well, I think there are very inappropriate comments,
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塞雷娜: 我認為這是 非常不恰當的評論。
不僅如此,我一直 非常支持我的同胞。
04:12
and not only that, I've been really supportive of my peers
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04:15
and the people that I've worked with.
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以及那些和我共事的人。
我作為職業選手將近 20 年了。
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I've been a pro for almost 20 years,
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04:18
and so for me, it's really important to hold women up,
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所以對我來說, 支持女性真的很重要。
04:21
and it's something that these young women,
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這些年輕女士,
她們會來更衣室, 她們想要與我合照,
04:23
they'll come to the locker room, they'll want to take pictures with me,
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對我而言,
04:26
and for me, it's just like,
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我非常想作爲她們的優秀領袖 和一個好的榜樣,
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I want to be able to be a good leader and a good example for them.
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所以…
04:31
So not only --
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(掌聲)
04:32
(Applause)
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04:33
Not only did he have rude things to say about me and my peers,
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不僅是因爲納斯塔塞 對我和我同伴們的粗魯言論,
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I felt it was important for us to stand up for each other
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我認爲為彼此相互支持,
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and to stand up for myself.
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對自己支持是非常重要的。
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And at that point it was really important for me to say,
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那個時候,我必須要說出來:
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like, I'm not afraid, I'm not going anywhere,
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我不害怕,我哪兒也不去。
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but this is inappropriate,
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但這不合適。
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and there's time and there's a place for everything.
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每件事都有最合適的時機地點。
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And that really wasn't the time and the place.
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那個時候真的不合適。
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GK: We cut the part where you said you're not going anywhere,
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蓋爾:我們要把你說的 你哪兒都不去的部分剪掉,
因爲九月份你就滿 36 歲, 36 歲你的寶寶要出生了。
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because you'll be 36 in September. Baby's coming, 36.
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05:00
And your coach said age is always important,
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你的教練也說, 年齡是很重要的。
05:02
but in tennis it's very important,
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尤其是在網球界, 這是尤其重要的。
05:04
but he has no doubt that you're coming back.
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但他很確定你還會回來。
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Have you thought, am I coming back?
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你有沒有想過:「我要回球場嗎?
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Will I take some time off?
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否要給自己多一些休息時間呢?」
05:10
I know the women on the tour are saying,
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我知道公開賽的很多女選手在說,
05:12
"How long does it take to have a baby? Two years will she be gone?"
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「懷孕生孩子需要多久? 她要離開兩年嗎?」
05:15
What are you thinking?
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你怎麼看?
05:16
SW: Well, I'm always trying to defy the odds, you know,
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塞雷娜:你知道, 我一直都在努力克服困難。
對我來說一切都取決於信念。
05:19
so for me everything is really mental.
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05:21
I definitely plan on coming back. I'm not done yet.
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我計劃當然是回歸, 我的使命還沒有完成。
05:24
I'm really inspired by my sister.
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我姐姐給了我很大的鼓舞。
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She's a year older than me, and that's something that --
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她比我大一歲,
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if she's still playing, I know I can play.
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所以如果她還在打網球, 那麼我知道我也可以。
05:30
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
05:32
And there's so many -- Roger Federer, he's a little bit older than me
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還有很多人——羅傑·費德勒, 他也比我大一些,
05:35
and he's still winning everything, so I'm like, I know I can do that too.
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他還在一直拿冠軍, 所以我知道我也可以。
05:39
So that's been so inspiring to me, especially recently,
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這一切都在鼓舞著我, 尤其是最近,
05:43
and I know that it's something I want to do.
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我知道這是我想要去完成的。
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And my story is definitely not over yet.
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我的故事還沒結束。
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I was talking to my coach about it,
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我和我的教練聊天,
05:49
and we were talking about how this is just a new part of my life,
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我們在聊這會成為 我新生活的一部分,
05:54
and my baby's going to be in the stands
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我的寶寶會站在觀眾席上,
05:56
and hopefully cheering for me, not crying too much.
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但願能為我加油打氣, 而不是一直哭個不停。
05:59
GK: No, you wrote a beautiful letter to your baby yesterday
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蓋爾:不,你昨天給你的寶寶 寫了封很美的信。
06:01
that you said -- from the oldest mommy to the youngest one,
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你說—— 從老母親到年輕媽媽,
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to the oldest, to the youngest, I can't wait for you to get here.
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從最年老的到最年輕的, 我都期盼著你的到來。
06:07
A lot of people feel that.
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很多人都有這種感受。
06:09
I saw you about a year ago, because I think about your life, Serena.
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我一年前見到你,塞雷娜, 我在思考你的人生。
06:12
You've had three life-changing things in a six-month time:
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你在短短六個月的時間裡, 經歷了人生的三個轉折點。
06:16
pregnant, huge win, fell in love.
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懷孕、比賽獲勝、墜入愛河。
06:19
And when I saw you last year,
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我去年見到你的時候,
06:21
I was saying, "How's your love life? Da da da."
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我問:「你的感情生活如何?」 諸如此類的問題。
06:23
You said, "I met a guy. He's a nerdy, kinda geeky guy.
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你說:「我遇見了一個人, 有點書呆子,有點宅,
06:26
You won't know who he is."
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你肯定猜不到他是誰。」
06:27
I said, "What's his name?"
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我問:「他叫什麼名字?」
06:29
SW: I remember talking to you about that, yes.
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塞雷娜:是的,我記得這段對話。
06:31
GK: And you said, "Alexis Ohanian." I said, "I know him!" He's awesome.
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蓋爾:你說:「亞歷克西斯·奧哈尼安。」 我就說:「我認識他,他棒極了。」
06:35
But I would never put you with a nerdy geek,
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但是我從沒想到, 你會跟一個書呆子在一起。
06:37
and you said, you neither.
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你說你也沒想到。
06:38
SW: I'm going to be honest with you, I didn't either,
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塞雷娜:我必須誠實的說, 我也沒想到。
但這對我來說是件幸運的事。
06:41
but it's been the best thing for me.
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蓋爾:為什麼幸運?
06:43
GK: The best thing why?
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他不像個超級宅男嗎?
06:45
Does that look like a nerdy geek?
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06:46
Look at the shirt.
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看看他的 T 恤。
06:48
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
06:49
No, he's a very nice guy.
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不,說真的,他人很好。
06:50
SW: You can tell he's into technology.
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塞雷娜:看得出來 他的確是個技術宅男。
06:52
GK: He's a very, very nice guy.
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蓋爾:他人非常非常好。
06:53
I like him very much.
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我很喜歡他。
06:55
So how did he succeed when others have failed?
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所以為什么是他獲得你的芳心, 而不是其他人呢。
06:57
How was he the one that you knew, this is the one for me?
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你是怎麼知道的 他就是那個對的人?
07:01
SW: Well, I'm not going to say that,
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塞雷娜:好吧,我不會告訴你,
07:04
but ...
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但是...
07:05
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
07:06
GK: Say it, Serena, say it!
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蓋爾:說吧,塞雷娜,說出來!
07:08
SW: Well ...
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塞雷娜:呃...
07:09
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
07:12
Yes.
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他就是那個人。
07:13
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
07:16
GK: But you know what I mean.
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蓋爾:你知道我的意思。
07:18
SW: He is very loving and he's very kind, and my mom says he's very considerate,
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塞雷娜:他很可愛、很善良, 我媽媽也說他替人着想。
07:22
and when she said that to me,
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當她這麼跟我說的時候,
07:23
I was like, you know, he really is,
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我覺得他真的是如此。
07:25
and it's the little things that really make a huge difference in life.
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生活裏的一點一滴 能造成很大不同。
07:28
GK: Like?
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蓋爾:比如呢?
07:30
SW: Something simple.
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塞雷娜:一些簡單的細節,
07:31
My fashion company, we have a show every year,
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我的時裝公司每年都有一場秀。
07:34
so in our show last year, I was running around like crazy,
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我們去年的秀場上, 我幾乎是瘋了一樣到處忙碌。
07:37
because I do everything for the show,
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我爲那場秀心力交瘁,
07:39
and everything for it,
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奉獻了一切,
07:40
so I was running around like crazy,
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所以我忙得跑來跑去,
07:42
and he, it was a simple gesture of this shirt that he had,
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他當時有一件簡單襯衫,
07:45
and he just wanted to make sure that I had the same one,
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他想確定我也有一件一樣的。
07:49
and it was -- it's a weird story.
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這是一件奇怪的事情。
07:51
It was better in person, I promise.
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對我來說感受不一樣,我保證。
07:53
GK: Was it a wonderful proposal?
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蓋爾:你的求婚很讚吧?
07:55
Or was it a Beyoncé song?
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還是說就像碧昂絲的一首歌,
07:57
"If you like it then you ought to put a ring on it"?
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「如果你喜歡就給它戴上戒指」?
08:00
Were you feeling pressure to get married?
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你對於婚姻感到有壓力嗎?
08:02
Did you know it was coming?
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你當時有意識到它的到來嗎?
08:03
SW: Yeah, I actually never felt pressure to get married
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塞雷娜:是啊,我對於結婚, 從來沒有什麼壓力。
08:06
and I can't say I'm the marrying type of person.
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但我也不是那種很想結婚的人,
08:08
I really love my life.
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我真的很熱愛我的生活,
08:11
I love my freedom.
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我熱愛我的自由。
08:12
I heard that kind of changes.
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我聽說過婚姻會帶來改變,
08:14
But I love everything that I do,
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但我熱愛我所做的一切,
08:18
and I love my career,
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我也喜愛我的職業,
08:20
and I always felt like I didn't want anything to interfere with that.
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我也總是希望, 不讓任何事干擾我的職業。
08:23
I've actually been so career-oriented
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我甚至是以職業爲中心。
08:25
and in fact, when he proposed,
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實際上,當他求婚的時候,
08:28
I was almost angry.
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我幾乎是生氣了,
08:29
Not almost. I was angry,
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不是幾乎,我就是生氣了。
08:30
because it was right in the middle of my training season,
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因爲那時正好是我的訓練季,
08:33
and I said, "I gotta win the Australian Open.
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我說:「我要贏澳網公開賽。
08:35
I can't fly to Rome."
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我不能飛到羅馬去。」
08:37
Because he wanted to take me to Rome,
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因爲他想帶我去羅馬。
08:39
and I said, "I can't. I gotta win."
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我說:「我不能去,我要贏。」
08:41
But that's how focused I was.
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我就是那麼專注。
08:42
GK: This is a girl that says, "No, I can't go to Rome." OK.
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蓋爾:好的,我們的塞雷娜是個說 「不,我不能去羅馬」的女孩。
08:45
SW: But I was really focused on reaching my goals
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塞雷娜:但我真的特別 專注於達成目標。
08:48
and I knew at that point there was one player that I wanted to pass.
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我那個時候知道, 我想超越一個選手。
08:51
I wanted to pass Steffi Graf's record,
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我想打破施特菲·格拉夫的記錄。
08:53
and that really meant a lot to me,
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這對我真的意義非凡。
08:55
and when I put my mind to something,
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當我全神貫注地投入一件事情。
08:57
I really am determined to reach it
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我堅決要達到目標。
08:58
no matter what.
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無論如何。
09:00
GK: You know, you said that for you --
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蓋爾:你知道嗎, 你說,於你而言——
09:02
I've heard you say that winning is addictive to you.
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你說過對你來說勝利是會上癮的。
09:04
SW: It is.
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塞雷娜:的確。
09:06
GK: What do you mean?
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蓋爾:那是什麼意思?
09:07
SW: I feel like winning for me is superaddictive.
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塞雷娜:我覺得對於我來說, 勝利真的很容易成癮。
09:10
I feel like once you experience it,
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我覺得只要你擁有過勝利,
09:12
you always want to get that feeling again,
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就會一直想再得到它。
09:15
and when I won my first championship, I was only 17 years old,
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我第一次獲得冠軍時只有十七歲,
09:18
but I never forgot that feeling,
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但是我永遠忘不了那種感覺。
09:20
and I feel like every time I win one,
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在每一次我贏得比賽的時候,
09:23
I want to reach that feeling of your first championship.
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我都想獲得第一次奪冠的感覺。
09:25
There's really no feeling in the world like that.
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世上沒有任何一種感覺 能與之相提並論。
09:28
And it's like, all these years of training
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正如這些年所有的訓練,
09:31
and being a little kid and playing,
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從孩童時代就開始,
09:33
and then winning is a wonderful experience.
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然後終於獲勝,這是一種奇妙的體驗。
09:36
So for me I've always felt like I loved that feeling,
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我非常喜歡這種感覺。
09:41
and obviously I don't like the feeling of losing. I feel like --
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很顯然,我不喜歡輸的感覺。 我覺得——
09:44
GK: No, in fact, people close to you say you're a very bad loser.
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蓋爾:不,事實上, 熟悉你的人都說你輸不起。
09:47
SW: I'm not the best loser.
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塞雷娜:我確實有點輸不起。
09:49
GK: That you're very, very, very bad.
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蓋爾:你是完全輸不起。
09:51
Listen, no athlete, no champion likes to lose.
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聽我說,沒有運動員, 沒有哪個冠軍是喜歡輸的。
09:53
I get that.
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這個我明白。
09:54
But they say when it comes to losing, you are very, very, very bad at it.
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但是有人說,當輸了的時候, 你表現非常糟糕。
09:58
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
09:59
SW: I'm number one at losing too, so you know, that's all I can say.
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塞雷娜:我輸球也是第一, 你知道的,我就說這麼多。
10:03
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
10:04
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
10:07
GK: I'm always curious about the dynamic between you and Venus,
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蓋爾:我對你和維納斯的 關係一直很好奇。
10:10
because everybody that knows you and has followed the story
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因為所有知道你的人, 從你的故事中可以得知,
10:13
knows that you two are very close,
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你們的關係十分親密。
10:15
and you always bring your A game in whatever you do,
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你無論做什麼都要做到 A。
10:17
but I often wonder, when you're playing her,
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但是我常常想,當你與她對陣時。
10:19
do you bring your A- game because you want to do something for her
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你會想做到 A- 嗎, 因為想要為她做些事情,
10:23
or do you bring your A++ game because you want to crush her.
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還是想打垮她,因此做到 A++?
10:26
Is it harder for you playing her or easier?
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對你來說,與她對陣 是更容易還是更困難?
10:28
SW: Well, playing Venus is like playing myself,
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塞雷娜:與維納斯對陣 就像是與我自己比賽一樣。
10:31
because we grew up playing each other, we grew up practicing together.
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因為我們倆是一起長大, 我們一起練球。
10:34
And it was something that has been difficult,
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與她比賽是非常困難的。
10:37
because she's my toughest opponent.
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因為她是我最強的對手。
10:38
She's tall, she's fast,
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她很高,速度很快。
10:40
she hits hard like me, she serves like me.
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她的擊打力度和發球都和我一樣。
10:43
It's really like playing a wall.
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就好像對著牆打球一樣。
10:45
GK: She knows you.
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蓋爾:她了解你。
10:46
SW: She knows where I'm hitting the ball before I hit it,
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塞雷娜:她在我出拍之前 就知道我要打哪兒。
10:49
so it's something that is not very easy,
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所以這是不容易的一點。
10:51
but it's really about, when I go out there,
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但是真正重要的是, 當我走上賽場,
10:54
I really have to shut down my mind and I have to say to myself,
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我必須停止思考, 我必須告訴自己。
10:57
"You know what?
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知道嗎?
10:58
I'm just playing a great player, but today I have to be better.
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我是最優秀的選手, 而且我今天要做得更好。
11:02
I don't care who it is, if it's my sister or it's my friend,
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我不在乎對手是誰, 是我的姐姐還是朋友。
11:06
today is the day I have to show up and I have to be better
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今天就是我表現的時候, 我會做得更好。
11:09
and I have to want it more than anyone else at this moment
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在這一刻, 我比任何地方的任何人,
11:13
anywhere on this world."
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都更渴望勝利。
11:14
GK: So never on the court do you fall back for Venus?
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蓋爾:所以你從未 因維納斯而退縮?
11:18
Because, you know, it was always Venus and Serena.
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因為你知道, 一直都是維納斯與塞雷娜。
11:22
SW: Yes.
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塞雷娜:是的。
11:23
GK: And now baby sister has surpassed older sister.
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蓋爾:但是現在,妹妹超過了姐姐。
11:26
Do you feel guilt about that?
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你為此感到愧疚嗎?
11:28
Do you feel joy in that?
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還是感到開心?
11:29
Is that a difficult position for you?
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這些會對你造成困擾嗎?
11:31
SW: I don't feel anything in there.
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塞雷娜:我沒有任何這種感覺。
11:33
In my life, it still and forever is always going to be Venus and Serena.
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在我生命裡, 永遠都是維納斯與塞雷娜。
11:36
She's really love of my life, she's my best friend,
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她是我生命中的最愛, 她是我最好的朋友。
11:39
she's my soul mate.
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她是我的靈魂伴侶。
11:41
I mean --
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我是說……
11:43
There's pictures of her pushing me,
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我有幾張她推著我的照片。
11:45
really low-quality pictures or else I would have shared them,
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不太清晰的照片, 不然我就分享給大家了。
11:47
of her pushing me in a stroller on a tennis court,
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在網球場上,她用嬰兒車推著我。
11:50
and she always took care of me.
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她一直照顧我。
11:51
I used to spend all of my allowance money on the ice cream truck and stuff,
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在學校,我把零花錢 都花在冰淇淋那些零食上。
11:55
and she would take her money and give it to me at school
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在學校的時候, 她就把她的錢給我。
11:59
and make sure I had something to eat and she would go without,
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以確保我有東西吃, 甚至她自己沒得吃。
12:02
and that's the kind of person she actually is
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她一直都是這種人,
12:05
since I've always known her.
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從我認識她開始。
12:07
So we always have this incredible respect for each other
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所以我們一直尊重彼此。
12:10
and this incredible love,
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也深愛著對方。
12:12
and I think it's important for people to realize you can be successful
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我認為很重要的是, 你需要意識到你可以成功,
12:15
but you can still have a wonderful relationship.
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同時也可以擁有 一段美好的感情。
12:17
On the court we are mortal enemies,
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在賽場上我們是宿敵。
12:19
but the second we shake hands, we are best friends again.
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但在握手的那一刻, 我們又是最好的朋友了。
12:23
And if I lose, it might be a day later for me,
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如果我輸了, 對我來說可能只是晚了一天。
12:27
but for Venus --
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但是對維納斯——
12:29
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
12:32
GK: There's never a time on the court where you hit the ball
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蓋爾:難道就從來沒有哪一次, 當你在賽場上擊球時,
12:35
and say, "That's for seventh grade when you did the blah blah blah"?
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想到「這一發是為了你七年級 做過的那件事」?
12:38
You never have any moment like that?
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你從來沒有哪一刻這樣想嗎?
12:40
SW: I feel like she should have those moments,
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塞雷娜:我覺得她可能會有這種時候。
12:42
because she's never done anything bad to me,
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因為她從未對我做過什麼壞事。
12:44
but I'm the youngest. I'm the younger sister.
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我是最小的,我是妹妹。
12:46
GK: Serena, she's never done anything bad to you? Really?
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蓋爾:塞雷娜,她真的 從未對你做過任何壞事嗎?
12:49
I have three sisters. I can think of some stuff I've done bad.
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我有三個姐妹, 我想到那些我做過的壞事。
12:52
SW: Unless she brainwashed me to forget them.
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塞雷娜:除非她給我洗過腦了。
12:56
GK: No, but the love you have for her I know is very pure. I know that.
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蓋爾:是的,你對她的愛 非常純粹,我知道。
12:59
SW: Yes. GK: I know that.
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塞雷娜:是的。
13:00
SW: We were always brought up to be superclose,
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我們一起長大,
13:02
and we are incredibly close.
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我們親密無間。
13:04
Not only her.
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不僅僅是她。
13:05
I have three other sisters as well, and we were always so close.
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我其他的三個姐姐也是這樣, 我們關係親密。
13:10
GK: So before a big match, the two of you don't get together
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蓋爾:那麼在大賽之前, 你們會不會聚在一起,
13:13
and say, look, we're going to go out there and -- there's nothing?
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比如說,你看, 我們一起出場。有嗎?
塞雷娜:說起來很好笑, 在澳網公開賽之前,
13:16
SW: Well, it's funny. Before the Australian Open,
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我們一起在更衣室裡,
13:19
we were in the locker room together,
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13:20
and I always pick on her, so I pulled out my camera while she was changing.
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我總和她開玩笑, 她換衣服時,我拿出相機。
13:24
I started taking pictures of her, which is totally inappropriate,
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我給她拍照, 這種做法很不恰當。
13:27
but she was so mad at me.
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她很生氣,對我大叫, 「塞雷娜,不要這樣!」
13:29
She's like, "Serena, stop!" And I was just laughing at her.
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而我還在嘲笑她。
13:31
But that's the kind of relationship that we have, and like I said,
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就像我說的, 我們就是這種關係。
13:36
the second we step on the court,
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在我們踏上賽場的那一秒,
13:37
it was like, we were definitely mortal enemies,
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我們就變成了真正的對手。
13:41
but the second we stepped off, and moments before, we're just --
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但當我們踏出賽場那一刻, 以及上場之前,我們——
13:46
It is what it is, because at the end of the day,
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就是這樣,因為到頭來,
13:48
she'll always be my sister.
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她一直都是我的好姐姐。
13:49
I'm not going to play Australia in --
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我不知道多少年後, 會退出澳網——
13:51
Well, who knows, I've been playing forever,
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誰知道呢,我一直都在打。
13:53
but I don't think I'll be playing in 50 years, say?
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但是我不覺得 我 50 年後會還在打。
13:56
Let's be safe and say 50 years.
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保守一些,說 50 年。
13:57
GK: I don't know, Serena. There's never been anybody like you.
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蓋爾:我不知道,塞雷娜, 從沒有人像你一樣。
14:00
When you think about it, never been anybody
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你想想,從沒有人像你這樣,
14:02
who has intersected gender and race the way you have,
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超越性別與種族,用這樣的方式,
14:05
the dominance that you have and the scrutiny that you have.
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擁有你這樣的地位與嚴謹,
14:08
And when you were growing up, did you say, "I want to be like that"?
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你小時候有沒有想過 「我想要成為這樣的人?」
14:11
Because now little girls are looking at you
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因為現在有很多小女孩仰慕你,
14:13
saying, "I want to be like that."
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想著「我想要成為那樣的人」,
14:15
Who was the "I want to be like that" for you?
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你小時候有沒有這樣, 誰是你想要成為的人?
14:17
SW: Well, it's interesting, and I'm glad you brought that up.
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塞雷娜:這很有趣, 感謝你帶來這個話題。
對我而言,我小時候一直 想要成為最好的那一個。
14:20
For me, when I grew up, I always wanted to be the best,
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我覺得,如果你想成為最優秀的, 就必須以最優秀的為榜樣。
14:23
and I said, if you want to be the best, you've got to emulate the best.
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14:26
So when I started to go on tour when I was really young,
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當我開始參賽的時候, 那時我還很年輕。
14:29
I would see Steffi Graf, I would see Monica Seles,
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我會觀察施特菲·格拉芙, 以及莫尼卡·塞萊斯,
14:31
and I would even see Pete Sampras,
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我甚至會觀察皮特·桑普拉斯。
14:33
and I would see what they did,
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我會關注他們的一言一行,
14:35
and I noticed that Steffi and Monica
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我注意到施特菲和莫尼卡,
14:37
didn't really talk to a lot of the other players,
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她們並不怎麼和其他選手交流,
14:39
and they kind of were on their own,
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她們比較獨來獨往,
14:41
and they were just so focused
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非常專注。
14:42
and I would see Pete Sampras, the technique that he did,
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我也觀察皮特·桑普拉斯的網球技巧,
14:45
and I was like, "I want to do that."
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並且覺得「我也想做到那樣」,
14:48
So I did that, and I felt that to be the best,
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於是我做到了,
如果你想成爲最好的,
14:51
and if you want to be the best,
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14:53
you have to hang around people
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你得與其他人交往,
14:54
and you have to look at people that are the best,
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你需要向最優秀的看齊,
14:57
because you're not going to be the best
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因爲如果你的目光 不在最頂級的人上,
14:59
if you're looking at someone that's not at the top level.
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那麼你也不會成為頂級的人。
15:01
GK: People say nobody works as hard as you.
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蓋爾:人們都說, 沒人像你這麼努力。
塞雷娜:我的確非常努力, 蓋爾:這也是我所聽說的。
15:04
SW: I'm a very hard worker. GK: That's what I heard.
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15:06
SW: People say, "Oh, she's talented, she's athletic."
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人們會說:「噢,她是天才, 很有運動天賦。」
實際上,我並沒有, 我小時候在同齡人中算很矮小。
15:09
Actually, I wasn't. I was really small for my age.
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我長大之後才開始變高,
15:11
I grew up when I got older,
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15:12
and I had to work really hard,
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我必須得非常努力,
15:14
and I think one of the reasons why I fight so hard and I work so hard
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我覺得我之所以努力奮鬥拼搏,
15:17
is because I was really, really, really small.
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其中一個原因就是我曾經矮小。
15:19
GK: Yeah.
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蓋爾:是啊。
15:21
You are no longer small.
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你現在一點也不矮了。
15:22
SW: No, I'm fully grown now.
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塞雷娜:不,我現在長大了。
15:26
But I was small when I was really young for whatever reason.
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但不知道爲什麼, 我小時候真的特別矮。
15:28
I think Venus maybe ate all the Wheaties.
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也許是維納斯吃掉了所有的麥片。
15:32
GK: You know, the other thing people talk about is your body.
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蓋爾:你知道嗎, 人們還討論你的身材。
15:35
Your body brings men and women to their knees.
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你的身材讓男人和女人都膜拜。
15:38
And I mean in a good way.
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我是說這是一種讚美。
15:40
A lot has been made about your body.
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對你的身材的評價有很多。
15:42
It's a work of art, it's masculine, it's glorious,
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說這是一件藝術品, 非常陽剛也非常美麗。
15:47
there's never been anything like it.
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從沒有人像你一樣,
15:50
Did you have body issues when you were growing up?
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你在成長過程中, 對身材有過什麼情結嗎?
15:52
Have you always been comfortable with your body?
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你一直都滿意於自己的身材嗎?
15:55
SW: It's interesting, because when you're a teenage female
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塞雷娜:這很有趣, 因爲當你還是一個
15:57
growing up in the public eye,
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在公眾視野中成長的少女時,
15:59
it is a lot of scrutiny that you face,
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你面對着很多仔細的觀察,
16:01
and as any female that's a teenager,
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作爲任何一位青少年女性,
16:03
I definitely was not comfortable in my body.
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我那時當然是 對我的身材不滿意的。
16:05
I didn't like it.
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我不喜歡。
16:07
I didn't understand why I had muscles.
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我不懂爲什麼我有肌肉,
16:10
And I stopped lifting weights.
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我停止了舉重,
16:11
I was like, I'm not going to do this.
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我覺得我不想再這麼做了,
16:13
But then after I won the US Open,
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當我贏得美國公開賽的時候,
16:15
I realized that my body helped me reach goals that I wanted to reach,
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我意識到我的身體幫我 達到了想要的目標。
16:18
and I wanted to be happy with it,
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我就開始喜歡我的身體了。
16:20
and I was so appreciative of it.
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我很感謝它。
16:22
I'm always healthy.
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我一直都很健康。
16:23
I'm really fortunate and superblessed,
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我很幸運。
16:25
and I felt like not only am I happy with my body,
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我感覺我不只是對我的身體滿意。
16:28
but I want other people and other young girls
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我還想要其他年輕女孩,
16:30
that have experienced what I've experienced
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有着像我同樣經驗的年輕女孩,
16:33
to be happy with themselves.
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對她們自己感到滿意。
16:34
So whatever people say --
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不管人們怎麼說…
16:36
masculine, whatever, too much, too little --
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太剛陽啊,什麼的, 太多了,太少了——
16:38
I'm OK with it as long as I love myself.
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只要我愛我自己,全都可以。
16:41
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
16:46
GK: I know you learn a lot from winning,
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蓋爾:我知道你從 勝利中學到了很多。
16:48
but what have you learned from losing?
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那麼你從失敗中學到了什麼嗎?
16:51
SW: I hate to lose, but I think losing has brought me here today.
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塞雷娜:我討厭失敗, 但我知道是失敗帶我走到今天。
16:54
The only reason I am who I am is because of my losses,
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我之所以成爲今天的我 也是歸功於失敗。
16:57
and some of them are extremely painful,
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有些非常痛苦,
17:00
but I wouldn't take any of them away,
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但我不會選擇抹去 任何一次的經歷。
17:03
because every time I lose,
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因爲每一次當我失敗了,
17:05
it takes a really long time for me to lose again
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下一次再失敗會是很久以後的事情。
17:07
because I learn so much from it.
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因爲我從中獲益良多,
17:09
And I encourage everyone that I talk to --
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我鼓勵身邊的每一個人,
17:12
I'm like, listen, if you lose or if something happens --
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如果你經歷失敗或身處逆境,
17:14
not in sports -- in business or in school --
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不僅是運動,還有事業或學業,
17:17
learn from it.
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從中學習,
17:19
Don't live in the past, live in the present,
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不要活在過去,要活在當下。
17:21
and don't make the same mistakes in the future.
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未來不要再犯同樣的錯誤,
17:23
That's something that I always try to live by.
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這就是我一直盡力做到的事情,
蓋爾:你現在在籌備婚禮,
17:25
GK: Now you're planning a wedding
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我想知道, 會是一場旅行結婚嗎?
17:27
and I want to know, is it a destination wedding
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17:29
in the Catskills or Poconos or are you going to do it in Florida?
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在卡兹啟爾山脈還是波科諾? 或者你們就準備在佛羅里達結婚?
17:33
What are you thinking?
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你怎麼想的?
17:34
Big or small?
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盛大的還是簡約的?
17:36
SW: We're thinking medium size. We don't want to do too big,
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塞雷娜:我們想要一個中型的婚禮, 一方面不想太隆重,
17:39
but then we're like, OK, we can't say no to this person, this person.
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但同時又不想随意拒绝别人,
17:43
So we're thinking medium size and we're just thinking --
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所以我想一個中型的婚禮應該合適,
17:45
My personality is a lot of fun. Hopefully you can see that today.
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我比較喜歡有趣的東西, 你今天也看到了。
17:48
I'm not too serious.
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我不想太嚴肅。
17:50
GK: And you like to dance.
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蓋爾:而且你還喜歡跳舞。
17:52
And the next chapter for Serena Williams is what?
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那麼塞雷娜·威廉姆斯 下一步計畫是什麼呢?
17:55
SW: Oh, next for me.
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塞雷娜:對我來說,
17:57
Obviously I'm going to have a baby
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下一步當然是迎接我的寶寶。
17:59
and I'm going to stay fit and kind of come back and play tennis
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我還要恢復身材,重回賽場,
18:02
and keep working on my fashion line.
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還要持續經營我的時尚品牌, 那一定非常有趣。
18:03
That'll be really fun.
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蓋爾:你知道是男孩還是女孩嗎?
18:05
GK: Do you know if it's a boy or girl?
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塞雷娜:不確定; 我是有感覺到是男還是女。
18:07
SW: I don't. I have a feeling of one or the other.
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18:10
It's a 50-50 chance, but I have a feeling.
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百分之五十的機率, 不過我有感覺。
18:12
GK: Gayle is a unisex name.
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蓋爾:蓋爾是一個很中性的名字。
18:14
Whatever you and Alexis decide, we are cheering you on!
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不管你和阿歷克斯怎麼決定, 我們都支持你們。
18:16
SW: Thank you for that. GK: You're welcome.
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塞雷娜:非常感謝, 蓋爾:不客氣。
18:18
We are cheering you on, Serena Williams. SW: Thank you so much.
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蓋爾:爲你加油,塞雷娜·威廉姆絲。 塞雷娜:非常感謝。
18:21
Thank you guys.
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謝謝大家。
18:23
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
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