Intimate photos of a senior love triangle | Isadora Kosofsky

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Intimate photos of a senior love triangle | Isadora Kosofsky

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Hanwool Chung ๊ฒ€ํ† : Jihyeon J. Kim
00:12
Jeanie, Will and Adina are three senior citizens
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๋…ธ๋…„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ง€๋‹ˆ, ์œŒ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„๋””๋‚˜๋Š”
00:16
connected by a special relationship.
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ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์„ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:19
They view their bond as a shield from the loneliness of aging.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ ์œ ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋…ธํ™”์—์„œ ์˜ค๋Š” ์™ธ๋กœ์›€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ณดํ˜ธ์žฅ์น˜๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:24
I first met them at a retirement home in Los Angeles,
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์ €๋Š” LA์˜ ํ•œ ์–‘๋กœ์›์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:27
where I had been photographing for three years.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ 3๋…„๊ฐ„ ์‚ฌ์ง„ ์ž‘์—…์„ ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๊ณณ์ด์ฃ .
00:30
I saw as they approached the gate one night,
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์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ์ €๋…, ์„ธ ๋ถ„์ด ๋Œ€๋ฌธ์— ๋“ค์–ด์„œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์•˜์–ด์š”.
00:33
and felt an immediate connection to them.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ฆ‰์‹œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋Š๊ปด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:36
Although I didn't know the details of their love triangle,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ ์‚ผ๊ฐ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ์ž์„ธํ•œ ๋‚ด๋ง‰์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์—ˆ์ฃ .
00:40
I intuitively felt that I had to find out who they were.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ์•„์•ผ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ง๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
00:45
Questioning a nurse a day later, she said to me,
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ํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋’ค ๊ฐ„ํ˜ธ์‚ฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ดค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋‹ตํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
00:49
"Oh, you're talking about the threesome."
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"์•„, ๊ทธ 3์ธ์กฐ ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์‹œ๋Š”๊ตฐ์š”."
00:52
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
00:53
I was intrigued.
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์ œ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ์ด ๋ฐœ๋™ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:54
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
00:57
The trio set out on a daily adventure to coffee and doughnut shops,
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์‚ผ์ด์‚ฌ๋Š” ์ปคํ”ผ์™€ ๋„๋„› ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ๋“ค, ๋ฒ„์Šค์ •๊ฑฐ์žฅ๋“ค ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจํ‰์ด๋“ค์„
01:01
bus stops and street corners.
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ํƒ๋ฐฉํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์ผ ๋ชจํ—˜์— ๋‚˜์„ฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:04
I soon learned that the purpose of these outings was solace
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์ €๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์™ธ์ถœ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ์ด ๋งˆ์Œ์˜ ์œ„์•ˆ๊ณผ ์˜๋ฏธ์˜ ํƒ์ƒ‰์ด๋ž€ ๊ฑธ
01:08
and a search for meaning.
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๊ณง ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:10
The trio sought to combat their alienation
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์„ธ ๋ถ„์€ ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ๋ง ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ž์‹ ๋“ค์„ ํ•ฉ์น˜๋ฉด์„œ
01:13
by literally integrating themselves in public streets.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ์†Œ์™ธ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:17
Yet, even when arm in arm, no one saw them.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์„œ๋กœ ํŒ”์งฑ์„ ๋ผ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Œ์—๋„ ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ชปํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:22
We often think that as we age, we lose the desires held in our youth.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ณดํ†ต ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ๋“ค๋ฉด ์ Š์„ ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋˜ ์š•๋ง๋“ค์„ ์žƒ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:28
Actually, as a teenage photojournalist when I met the trio,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์€, ์‹ญ๋Œ€์˜ ์‚ฌ์ง„๊ฐ€๋กœ์„œ ๊ทธ ์„ธ ๋ถ„์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ
01:32
I saw their behavior as a mirror
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์ €๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์šธ์„ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:34
to the fears of exclusion and desires for intimacy
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๋ฐฐ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‘๋ ค์›€๊ณผ ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์š•๋ง์ด ๋ณด์˜€์ฃ .
01:38
that I also carried.
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ์ €๋„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:41
I related to their invisibility,
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ํฌ๋ฏธํ•œ ์กด์žฌ๊ฐ์— ๊ณต๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:43
which pained me during my childhood
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ œ ์–ด๋ฆฐ์‹œ์ ˆ์„ ๊ดด๋กญ๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ์—ˆ์ฃ .
01:46
but has become my greatest asset as an immersive documentarian,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ชฐ์ž…์‹ ๊ธฐ๋ก๋ฌผ ์ž‘๊ฐ€๋กœ์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์ž์‚ฐ์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:51
because I can just fade into my empathy.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋Œ€์ƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ณต๊ฐ์†์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋ผ์ ธ ๋ฒ„๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์—์š”.
01:55
As we walked down the streets of Hollywood,
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๊ทน์ž‘๊ฐ€, ๋ฐฐ์šฐ, ์˜ํ™” ์ œ์ž‘์ž๋“ค๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋“ํ•œ ํ• ๋ฆฌ์šฐ๋“œ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฑธ์„ ๋•Œ
01:57
in a neighborhood of screenwriters, actors and filmmakers,
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02:01
the trio assumed the invisibility that each senior does.
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์—ฌ๋Š ๋…ธ์ธ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•˜๋“ฏ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํฌ๋ฏธํ•ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:05
I would ask myself,
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์ €๋Š” ๊ถ๊ธˆํ–ˆ์ฃ .
02:07
"How is it that no one else sees these three human beings?
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"์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์ด ์„ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ?
02:12
Why is it that I am the only one who sees them?"
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์™œ ๋‚˜๋ฐ–์— ์ด๋“ค์„ ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ?"
02:16
Years later, as I began to share this work with the public,
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๋ช‡ ๋…„ ํ›„ ์ €๋Š” ์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค์„ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์— ๊ณต๊ฐœํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
02:20
I noticed that people are largely uncomfortable with this story.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•ดํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:24
Perhaps it is because the trio doesn't assume conventional notions
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ด๋“ค์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘, ์—ฐ์• , ๋™๋ฐ˜์ž์˜ ์ „ํ†ต์ ์ธ ๊ฐœ๋…์—
02:29
associated with love, romance or partnership.
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๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ผ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
02:33
They were unseen in public and shunned by their peers.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํˆฌ๋ช…์ธ๊ฐ„ ์ทจ๊ธ‰๋‹นํ–ˆ๊ณ  ๋™๋ฃŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ํ”ผํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:37
They wanted to belong somewhere
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋”˜๊ฐ€ ์†Œ์†๋˜๊ธธ ์›ํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
02:40
but only seemed to belong with each other.
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๊ธฐ๋Œˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณณ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค ์„œ๋กœ๋ฟ์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
02:43
I wanted to belong somewhere, too.
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์ €๋„ ์–ด๋”˜๊ฐ€ ์†ํ•˜๊ธธ ์›ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:45
And my camera has been a catalyst for me to belong everywhere.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ ์นด๋ฉ”๋ผ๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋””๋“  ์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์ด‰๋งค์ œ์˜€์ฃ .
02:50
But beyond challenging sociocultural norms about the elderly,
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๋…ธ์ธ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์‚ฌํšŒ๋ฌธํ™”์ ์ธ ๊ธฐ์ค€์— ๋„์ „ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋„˜์–ด์„œ์„œ
02:54
the trio sheds light on fear of remoteness.
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๊ทธ ์…‹์€ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•ด๋‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:58
At the end of each day, they return to their respective retirement homes.
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๋‚ ์ด ์ €๋ฌผ ๋ฌด๋ ต์ด ๋˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฐ์ž์˜ ์–‘๋กœ์›์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:03
Under the surface of their aloneness,
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ํ˜ผ์ž๋ผ๋Š” ๊ทธ ์™ธ์ ์ธ ๊ฒ‰๋ชจ์Šต ์†์—๋Š”
03:06
there is a desire for community, for their people.
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๊ณต๋™์ฒด, ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐˆ๋ง์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:11
There was a sense that they were each yearning for their tribe,
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๊ฐ™์€ ์ฒ˜์ง€์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐˆ๋ง์ด ๋Š๊ปด์กŒ์ง€๋งŒ
03:15
but that comfort comes with compromise,
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๊ทธ ์•ˆ์ •์€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:18
because Will cannot commit to one woman.
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์œŒ์€ ํ•œ ์—ฌ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ๋งŒ ํ—Œ์‹ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:22
Sitting with Jeanie one day in her apartment, she said to me,
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์ง€๋‹ˆ์˜ ์•„ํŒŒํŠธ์— ๊ทธ๋…€์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์•‰์•„์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์ œ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:26
"Sharing Will is a thorn in your side.
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"์œŒ์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์‹œ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•˜๋‹จ๋‹ค.
03:29
A relationship between a man and a woman is private.
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๋‚จ์ž์™€ ์—ฌ์ž์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ๊ณต์œ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ฑฐ๋“ .
03:33
It is a couple, not a trio."
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๋‚จ๋…€ ํ•œ ์Œ์ด์ง€ ์„ธ ์ง์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–๋‹ˆ."
03:37
My process is to essentially become the people I document
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๊ด€์ฐฐ์ž๋กœ์„œ์˜ ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ฐจ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ ์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ˆ˜๋…„์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ
03:41
by spending years with them as an observer-occupant,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ง์ ‘ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋˜์–ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ์™ธ์—๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธธ์ด ์—†์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:45
to create a safe space, to then become hidden in plain sight.
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์•ˆ์ „ํ•œ ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด ๋ป”ํžˆ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ณณ์— ์ˆจ์œผ๋ฉด์„œ์š”.
03:50
I was about 17 when I met the trio,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ์ €๋Š” 17์‚ด์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:52
and I shadowed them for four years.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  4๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋“ค ๊ณ์— ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์ž์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ถ™์–ด์žˆ์—ˆ์ฃ .
03:55
We actually see, in the breakdown of social development,
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์‚ฌํšŒ์  ๋ฐœ์ „์˜ ์‹คํŒจ ์†์—์„œ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
that adolescence and old age look strikingly alike,
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์ฒญ์†Œ๋…„๊ธฐ์™€ ๋…ธ๋…„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์น˜๋ช…์ ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋‹ฎ์•„ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
04:03
because both are periods of identity confusion.
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๋‘ ์‹œ๊ธฐ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์˜ ํ˜ผ๋ž€์ด ์ฐพ์•„์˜ค๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์ฃ .
04:07
I identified with the women.
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์ €๋Š” ์ง€๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋””๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:10
But also with Will, who made me aware of the divide in me.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ๋˜ ์œŒ์ด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ œ ์•ˆ์˜ ๋ถ„์—ด์„ ์ธ์‹ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ์ฃ .
04:15
The schism that we each often have
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข…์ข… ๊ฒช๋Š” ๊ดด๋ฆฌ์ธ๋ฐ
04:18
about what we crave and the actuality of our situation.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐˆ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ํ˜„์‹ค ์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ๊ดด๋ฆฌ์ฃ .
04:23
Before shooting this series,
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค์„ ์ดฌ์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „๋ถ€ํ„ฐ
04:25
I was also in love with two different people who knew about each other,
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์ €๋Š” ์„œ๋กœ ์ž˜ ์•„๋Š” ๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ๋„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ๋น ์ ธ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:29
being the object over which they fought.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์•ž์— ๋‘๊ณ  ์‹ธ์šฐ๋˜ ๋Œ€์ƒ์ด ๋˜์–ด์„œ์š”.
04:32
But I also knew what it was like to be at the base of the triangle,
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๋™์‹œ์— ์ €๋Š” ์‚ผ๊ฐ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์ด ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:36
like Jeanie or Adina,
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์ง€๋‹ˆ์™€ ์•„๋””๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
04:38
asking myself,
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์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋ฉด์„œ์š”.
04:39
"Why aren't I enough?"
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"์™œ ๋‚˜๋กœ๋Š” ์ถฉ๋ถ„์น˜ ์•Š์ง€?"
04:43
I would look through my viewfinder and see three elderly figures,
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๋ทฐํŒŒ์ธ๋”๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋น› ๋ฐ”๋žœ ์„ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณด๋ฉด์„œ
04:47
and it became impossible to deny that regardless of age,
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๋‚˜์ด์™€ ๋ฌด๊ด€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€์ •ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:51
we were each in pursuit of filling the proverbial hole through other people.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด์„œ ๊ณตํ—ˆํ•จ์„ ์ฑ„์šฐ๋ ค ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„์š”.
04:58
Perhaps the discomfort of looking at Jeanie, Will and Adina's story
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๋‹ค์†Œ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ง€๋‹ˆ, ์œŒ, ์•„๋””๋‚˜์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋Š”
05:02
is truly a reminder that even at the end of life,
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์‚ถ์˜ ๋์—์„œ ์กฐ์ฐจ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธํ† ๋ก ๋น„์ถฐ๋ดค๋˜
05:07
we may never reach the fantasy we have envisioned for ourselves.
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ํ™˜์ƒ์„ ์ด๋ฃฐ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Œ์„ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๊ฐ์„ฑ์ œ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:13
Thank you for listening.
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๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:14
(Applause)
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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