Bruce Feiler: Agile programming -- for your family

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
Translator: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Morton Bast
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๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Surie Lee ๊ฒ€ํ† : K Bang
00:15
So here's the good news about families.
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์ž, ๊ฐ€์ •์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ข‹์€ ์†Œ์‹์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:18
The last 50 years have seen a revolution
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์ง€๋‚œ 50 ๋…„๊ฐ„ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์˜๋ฏธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ
00:21
in what it means to be a family.
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ํ˜๋ช…์ด ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:23
We have blended families, adopted families,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—” ํ˜ผํ•ฉ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ์ž…์–‘ ๊ฐ€์กฑ,
00:25
we have nuclear families living in separate houses
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๊ฐ๊ฐ์˜ ์ง‘์— ์‚ฌ๋Š” ํ•ต๊ฐ€์กฑ,
00:27
and divorced families living in the same house.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ•œ ์ง‘์— ์‚ฌ๋Š” ์ดํ˜ผ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:30
But through it all, the family has grown stronger.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ํŠผํŠผํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์„ฑ์žฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:33
Eight in 10 say the family they have today
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚  ์—ด ์ค‘ ์—ฌ๋Ÿ์€ ์ง€๊ธˆ์˜ ๊ฐ€์ •์ด
00:36
is as strong or stronger than the family they grew up in.
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์ž์‹ ์ด ์ž๋ž๋˜ ๊ฐ€์ •์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ํ˜น์€ ๊ทธ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•ด์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:40
Now, here's the bad news.
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์ž, ์ด์ œ ๋‚˜์œ ์†Œ์‹์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:42
Nearly everyone is completely overwhelmed
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๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‚œ์žฅํŒ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ƒํ™œ ์†์—
00:45
by the chaos of family life.
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ์••๋„๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:47
Every parent I know, myself included,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋Š”, ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ €๋ฅผ ํฌํ•จํ•ด์„œ
00:49
feels like we're constantly playing defense.
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ฐฉ์–ด์ ์ธ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:52
Just when our kids stop teething, they start having tantrums.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์˜ ์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค ์ž๋ž„ ๋•Œ์ฏค์ด๋ฉด, ์„ฑ์งˆ์„ ๋ถ€๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ 
00:55
Just when they stop needing our help taking a bath,
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋ชฉ์š•์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ์ฏค์—๋Š”,
00:57
they need our help dealing with cyberstalking or bullying.
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์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์—์„œ ์Šคํ† ํ‚น์ด๋‚˜ ๊ดด๋กญํž˜์„ ๋‹นํ•ด์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋„์›€์„ ํ•„์š”๋กœ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:00
And here's the worst news of all.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋‚˜์œ ์†Œ์‹์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:03
Our children sense we're out of control.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ œ์–ดํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:06
Ellen Galinsky of the Families and Work Institute
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"๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ์ผ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์†Œ"์˜ ์—˜๋ Œ ๊ฐˆ๋ฆฐ์Šคํ‚ค๊ฐ€
01:09
asked 1,000 children, "If you were granted
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์ฒœ ๋ช…์˜ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋ถ€๋ชจ์˜
01:11
one wish about your parents, what would it be?"
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์†Œ์›์„ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋“ค์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ?"
01:14
The parents predicted the kids would say,
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์€ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ• ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์ƒํ–ˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ .
01:17
spending more time with them.
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๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ํ•ด๋‹ฌ๋ผ๊ณ .
01:20
They were wrong. The kids' number one wish?
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์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”. ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์ œ์ผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ์†Œ์›์€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ,
01:22
That their parents be less tired and less stressed.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ๋œ ํ”ผ๊ณคํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋œ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:27
So how can we change this dynamic?
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์—ญํ•™ ๊ตฌ๋„๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ€ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
01:29
Are there concrete things we can do to reduce stress,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๊ณ ,
01:32
draw our family closer,
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๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋” ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์ดํ•˜๊ณ ,
01:34
and generally prepare our children to enter the world?
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์„ธ์ƒ์— ๋“ค์–ด์„ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ๋” ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
01:39
I spent the last few years trying to answer that question,
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์ด ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋‹ต์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ ์ž
01:42
traveling around, meeting families, talking to scholars,
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๋ช‡ ๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์—ฌํ–‰ํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ ,
01:45
experts ranging from elite peace negotiators
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์ด ๋ถ„์•ผ์˜ ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€๋“ค, ์—˜๋ฆฌํŠธ ํ‰ํ™” ๊ต์„ญ์ž,
01:48
to Warren Buffett's bankers to the Green Berets.
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์›Œ๋ Œ ๋ฒ„ํŽซ์˜ ์€ํ–‰๊ฐ€๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ํŠน์ „ ๋ถ€๋Œ€์›๊นŒ์ง€ ๋งŒ๋‚˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ณด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:52
I was trying to figure out, what do happy families do right
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์ €๋Š” ์ฐพ์•„๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์ž˜ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€๋ฅผ,
01:55
and what can I learn from them to make my family happier?
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๋˜, ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ ๋‚ด ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋” ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€๋ฅผ.
02:00
I want to tell you about one family that I met,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
02:02
and why I think they offer clues.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ค ๋‹จ์„œ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ณด๋ ค ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:05
At 7 p.m. on a Sunday in Hidden Springs, Idaho,
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์ผ์š”์ผ ์ €๋… 7์‹œ ์•„์ด๋‹คํ˜ธ์ฃผ ํžˆ๋“  ์Šคํ”„๋ง์Šค์— ์‚ฌ๋Š”
02:08
where the six members of the Starr family are sitting down
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6๋ช…์˜ "์Šคํƒ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ(Starr family)"์ด
02:10
to the highlight of their week: the family meeting.
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ํ•œ ์ฃผ ์ค‘ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ผ, ๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ชจ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:13
The Starrs are a regular American family
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์Šคํƒ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์€ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ๊ฐ€์ •์˜ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์„œ๋กœ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š”
02:16
with their share of regular American family problems.
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ํ‰๋ฒ”ํ•œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์˜ ๊ฐ€์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:18
David is a software engineer. Eleanor takes care
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๋ฐ์ด๋น„๋“œ๋Š” ์†Œํ”„ํŠธ์›จ์–ด ์—”์ง€๋‹ˆ์–ด์ด๊ณ ,
02:21
of their four children, ages 10 to 15.
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์—˜๋ ˆ๋…ธ์–ด๋Š” 10์‚ด๋ถ€ํ„ฐ 15์‚ด๊นŒ์ง€์˜ 4๋ช…์˜ ์ž๋…€๋“ค์„ ๋Œ๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:24
One of those kids tutors math on the far side of town.
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๊ทธ ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ๋™๋„ค์—์„œ ๋จผ ๊ณณ์—์„œ ์ˆ˜ํ•™ ๊ณผ์™ธ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ณ 
02:27
One has lacrosse on the near side of town.
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ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ๋™๋„ค์˜ ๊ทผ์ฒ˜์—์„œ ๋ผํฌ๋กœ์Šค๋ฅผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ( ํ•˜ํ‚ค์™€ ์œ ์‚ฌํ•œ ์šด๋™)
02:30
One has Asperger syndrome. One has ADHD.
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ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ์•„์Šคํผ๊ฑฐ ์ฆํ›„๊ตฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋˜ ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ADHD๋ฅผ ์•“๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:33
"We were living in complete chaos," Eleanor said.
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"์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋‚œ์žฅํŒ ์†์— ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€์š”."๋ผ๊ณ  ์—˜๋ ˆ๋…ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ์ง€์š”.
02:36
What the Starrs did next, though, was surprising.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋†€๋ž๊ฒŒ๋„, ์Šคํƒ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์€
02:40
Instead of turning to friends or relatives,
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์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜ ์นœ์ฒ™๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋„์›€์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ ,
02:42
they looked to David's workplace.
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๋ฐ์ด๋น„๋“œ์˜ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋‹ต์„ ์ฐพ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:45
They turned to a cutting-edge program called agile development
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ์• ์ž์ผ(agile) ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ์ด๋ผ ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ตœ์‹  ํ”„๋กœ๊ทธ๋žจ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:48
that was just spreading from manufacturers in Japan
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์ด๋Š” ์ผ๋ณธ ์ œ์กฐ์—…์ฒด๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ
02:51
to startups in Silicon Valley.
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์‹ค๋ฆฌ์ฝ˜๋ฐธ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ฒค์ฒ˜๊ธฐ์—…์—๊นŒ์ง€ ์ „ํŒŒ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:54
In agile, workers are organized into small groups
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๊ทผ๋กœ์ž๋“ค์€ ์ž‘์€ ๊ทธ๋ฃน์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์–ด์ ธ
02:57
and do things in very short spans of time.
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๋น ๋ฅธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์•ˆ์— ์ผ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:00
So instead of having executives issue grand proclamations,
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์‹ค๋ฌด์ž๊ฐ€ ์ง€์‹œ ์‚ฌํ•ญ์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ 
03:03
the team in effect manages itself.
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ํŒ€๋ณ„๋กœ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๊ด€๋ฆฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:06
You have constant feedback. You have daily update sessions.
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์ง€์†์ ์ธ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ณ , ๋งค์ผ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ํ™œ๋™์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:08
You have weekly reviews. You're constantly changing.
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๋งค์ฃผ ๊ฒ€ํ† ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Š์ž„์—†์ด ๋ณ€ํ™”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:12
David said when they brought this system into their home,
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๋ฐ์ด๋น„๋“œ๋Š” ์ด ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์„ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์ •์— ๊ฐ€์ ธ์™”์„ ๋•Œ
03:15
the family meetings in particular increased communication,
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๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๋Š˜์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ ,
03:19
decreased stress, and made everybody
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์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๊ฐ€ ํ•ด์†Œ๋˜๊ณ ,
03:21
happier to be part of the family team.
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๋˜ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ๊ตฌ์„ฑ์›์œผ๋กœ์„œ ๋”์šฑ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:24
When my wife and I adopted these family meetings and other techniques
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ด ๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜์™€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ๋“ค์„
03:27
into the lives of our then-five-year-old twin daughters,
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์ €ํฌ 5์‚ด ์Œ๋‘ฅ์ด ์ž๋งค์—๊ฒŒ ๋„์ž…ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
03:31
it was the biggest single change we made since our daughters were born.
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์ €ํฌ๋Š” ๋”ธ๋“ค์ด ํƒœ์–ด๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ์ดํ›„๋กœ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ณด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:35
And these meetings had this effect
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์ด ๋ฏธํŒ…์€ 20๋ถ„๋„ ์•ˆ๋˜์ง€๋งŒ
03:37
while taking under 20 minutes.
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ํšจ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๋ณด์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:39
So what is Agile, and why can it help
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๊ณผ์—ฐ ์• ์ž์ผ(Agile)์ด๋ž€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ์š”? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒํ•ด์„œ
03:41
with something that seems so different, like families?
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๊ฐ€์ •๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ „ํ˜€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ„์•ผ์—์„œ๋„ ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ๊นŒ์š”?
03:44
In 1983, Jeff Sutherland was a technologist
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1983๋…„, ์ œํ”„ ์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ๋Š”
03:47
at a financial firm in New England.
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๋‰ด์ž‰๊ธ€๋žœ๋“œ ๊ธˆ์œต ํšŒ์‚ฌ์˜ ๊ณผํ•™ ๊ธฐ์ˆ  ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:49
He was very frustrated with how software got designed.
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์†Œํ”„ํŠธ์›จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋””์ž์ธ๋˜๋Š” ์ ˆ์ฐจ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ค์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:52
Companies followed the waterfall method, right,
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๊ทธ์˜ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ณตํ•™ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๋ก ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:55
in which executives issued orders that slowly trickled down
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ง€์‹œ ์‚ฌํ•ญ์ด
03:58
to programmers below,
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ํ”„๋กœ๊ทธ๋ž˜๋จธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ๋Š๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌ๋˜์–ด์™”๊ณ 
03:59
and no one had ever consulted the programmers.
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์•„๋ฌด๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ๋Š” ์ƒ์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:02
Eighty-three percent of projects failed.
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒํ•ด์„œ 83%์˜ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ๋“ค์€ ์‹คํŒจํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:05
They were too bloated or too out of date
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ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์™„์„ฑ๋˜์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ์—๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ถ€ํ’€๋ ค์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
04:07
by the time they were done.
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์ด๋ฏธ ์“ธ๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์ง„ ํ›„์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:10
Sutherland wanted to create a system where
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์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ๋Š” ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€
04:12
ideas didn't just percolate down but could percolate up from the bottom
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์œ„์—์„œ ์•„๋ž˜๋กœ ์Šค๋ฉฐ๋“œ๋Š”๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹Œ ๊ทธ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์˜ ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด
04:16
and be adjusted in real time.
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์‹ค์ƒํ™œ์— ์ ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:19
He read 30 years of Harvard Business Review
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๊ทธ๋Š” 30๋…„ ๊ฐ„ "ํ•˜๋ฒ„๋“œ ๋น„์ง€๋‹ˆ์Šค ๋ฆฌ๋ทฐ"์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•ด ์™”๋Š”๋ฐ,
04:22
before stumbling upon an article in 1986
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1986๋…„, ์šฐ์—ฐํžˆ ํ•œ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:25
called "The New New Product Development Game."
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"์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์‹ ์ œํ’ˆ ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ ๊ฒŒ์ž„"
04:28
It said that the pace of business was quickening --
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๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค์˜ ์†๋„๋Š” ๋นจ๋ผ์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ,
04:30
and by the way, this was in 1986 --
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- ์ฐธ, ์ด ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋Š” 1986๋…„๋„์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค -
04:32
and the most successful companies were flexible.
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•œ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋“ค์€ ์œตํ†ต์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ „ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:36
It highlighted Toyota and Canon
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ํ† ์š”ํƒ€์™€ ์บ๋…ผ์„ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•˜๋ฉฐ
04:38
and likened their adaptable, tight-knit teams to rugby scrums.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์œตํ†ต์„ฑ๊ณผ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•œ ํŒ€์›Œํฌ์„ ๋Ÿญ๋น„ ์Šคํฌ๋Ÿผ์— ๋น„์œ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:42
As Sutherland told me, we got to that article,
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์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ๊ฐ€ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋ฉฐ
04:45
and said, "That's it."
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"๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ด๊ฑฐ์•ผ."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:47
In Sutherland's system, companies don't use
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์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ์˜ ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์—์„œ, ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋“ค์€
04:49
large, massive projects that take two years.
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2๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํฐ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:52
They do things in small chunks.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž‘์€ ๋ฒ”์œ„๋กœ ์ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
04:54
Nothing takes longer than two weeks.
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์–ด๋–ค ์ผ๋„ 2์ฃผ๊ฐ€ ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:56
So instead of saying, "You guys go off into that bunker
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"์ €๊ธฐ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์‹ค์— ํ‹€์–ด๋ฐ•ํ˜€์„œ ํ•ธ๋“œํฐ์ด๋ž‘
04:58
and come back with a cell phone or a social network,"
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์†Œ์…œ ๋„คํŠธ์›Œํฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์™€." ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ ,
05:01
you say, "You go off and come up with one element,
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"์•„์ด๋””์–ด ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์™€์„œ
05:04
then bring it back. Let's talk about it. Let's adapt."
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ด๋ณด๊ณ , ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์— ์ ์šฉํ•ด๋ณด์ž." ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:06
You succeed or fail quickly.
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๊ฒฐ๊ณผ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์„ฑ๊ณต ํ˜น์€ ์‹คํŒจ๋ฅผ ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
Today, agile is used in a hundred countries,
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚ , ์• ์ž์ผ(agile) ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๋ก ์€ 100์—ฌ ๊ฐœ์˜ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๊ณ 
05:13
and it's sweeping into management suites.
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๊ฒฝ์˜๊ณ„๋ฅผ ํœฉ์“ธ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:16
Inevitably, people began taking some of these techniques
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋‚˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅผ๊นŒ, ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด์„ ํ™œ์šฉํ•ด
05:18
and applying it to their families.
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์ •์— ์ ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:21
You had blogs pop up, and some manuals were written.
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๋ธ”๋กœ๊ทธ์—์„œ๋„ ์ด์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ธ€์„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์•ˆ๋‚ด์„œ ๋˜ํ•œ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:23
Even the Sutherlands told me that they had
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ์˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์€
05:25
an Agile Thanksgiving,
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์• ์ž์ผ ์ถ”์ˆ˜๊ฐ์‚ฌ์ ˆ๋„ ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:27
where you had one group of people working on the food,
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ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋ฃน์€ ์š”๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ ,
05:29
one setting the table, and one greeting visitors at the door.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์ƒ์„ ์ฐจ๋ ธ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋˜, ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ทธ๋ฃน์€ ์†๋‹˜์„ ๋งž์ดํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:32
Sutherland said it was the best Thanksgiving ever.
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์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ๋Š” ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์ถ”์ˆ˜๊ฐ์‚ฌ์ ˆ์„ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:36
So let's take one problem that families face,
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์ž, ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์˜ˆ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
05:39
crazy mornings, and talk about how agile can help.
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์ •์‹ ์—†๋Š” ์•„์นจ, ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์• ์ž์ผ์ด ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
05:42
A key plank is accountability,
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ์ฑ…์ž„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:44
so teams use information radiators,
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ํŒ€์€ ์ •๋ณด ๊ณต์œ ํŒ์ด๋ผ ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๋Š”,
05:46
these large boards in which everybody is accountable.
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๊ด€๋ฆฌํ•˜๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํฐ ๊ฒŒ์‹œํŒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:49
So the Starrs, in adapting this to their home,
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์Šคํƒ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์€ ์ด๋ฅผ ์ ์šฉํ•ด
05:51
created a morning checklist
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์•„์นจ ํ™•์ธ ๋ชฉ๋ก์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:53
in which each child is expected to tick off chores.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ํ•  ์ผ์„ ์ ์–ด ๋†“์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด์ง€์š”.
05:57
So on the morning I visited, Eleanor came downstairs,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ•œ ์•„์นจ์— ์—˜๋ ˆ๋…ธ์–ด๋Š” ๋‚ด๋ ค์™€
05:59
poured herself a cup of coffee, sat in a reclining chair,
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์ปคํ”ผ๋ฅผ ํƒ€๊ณ , ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:02
and she sat there,
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ์•‰์•„
06:03
kind of amiably talking to each of her children
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์•„์ด๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:06
as one after the other they came downstairs,
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ํ•œ ๋ช…์”ฉ ๊ณ„๋‹จ์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค์™€์„œ๋Š”
06:08
checked the list, made themselves breakfast,
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๋ฆฌ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ , ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์•„์นจ ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๊ณ ,
06:11
checked the list again, put the dishes in the dishwasher,
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๋ฆฌ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ , ์‹๊ธฐ ์„ธ์ฒ™๊ธฐ์— ๊ทธ๋ฆ‡์„ ๋„ฃ์–ด๋†“๊ณ ,
06:13
rechecked the list, fed the pets or whatever chores they had,
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๋˜ ํ™•์ธํ•ด, ์• ์™„ ๋™๋ฌผ์—๊ฒŒ ๋จน์ด๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์ด ํ•ด์•ผํ•  ์ผ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:16
checked the list once more, gathered their belongings,
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋” ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ , ์ค€๋น„๋ฌผ์„ ์ฑ™๊ธฐ๊ณ 
06:19
and made their way to the bus.
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๋“ฑ๊ต ๋ฒ„์Šค์— ์˜ค๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:21
It was one of the most astonishing family dynamics I have ever seen.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ณธ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์—ญํ•  ๋ถ„๋‹ด ์ค‘ ๋‹จ์—ฐ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:26
And when I strenuously objected this would never work in our house,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์ง‘์—์„œ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹คํ–‰ํ•˜๊ธฐ์—๋Š”
06:29
our kids needed way too much monitoring,
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์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ํ†ต์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜์ž
06:31
Eleanor looked at me.
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์—˜๋ ˆ๋…ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์ €๋ฅผ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด๋ฉฐ ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:32
"That's what I thought," she said.
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"์ €๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด์š”,
06:33
"I told David, 'keep your work out of my kitchen.'
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๋ฐ์ด๋น„๋“œ์—๊ฒŒ ํšŒ์‚ฌ์ผ๊ณผ ์ง‘์•ˆ ์ผ์„ ๋ถ„๋ฆฌํ•˜๋ผ๊ณ  ์–˜๊ธฐํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ,
06:36
But I was wrong."
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ‹€๋ ธ์–ด์š”."
06:37
So I turned to David: "So why does it work?"
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ๋ฐ์ด๋น„๋“œ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์—ˆ์ง€์š”. "์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ด๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ–ˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?"
06:39
He said, "You can't underestimate the power of doing this."
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๊ทธ๋Š” "์• ์ž์ผ์˜ ํž˜์„ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ณผ์†Œํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•˜์‹ ๊ฑฐ์—์š”" ๋ผ๋ฉฐ,
06:42
And he made a checkmark.
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ํ•œ๋งˆ๋””๋ฅผ ๋ง๋ถ™์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:44
He said, "In the workplace, adults love it.
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"์ง์žฅ์—์„œ๋Š” ์–ด๋ฅธ๋“ค์ด ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๊ณ 
06:46
With kids, it's heaven."
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์•„์ด๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜๋ผ๋ฉด, ์ด๊ฑด ์ฒœ๊ตญ๊ณผ๋„ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”."
06:48
The week we introduced a morning checklist into our house,
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์ด ์•„์นจ ํ™•์ธ ๋ชฉ๋ก์„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์ง‘์— ๋„์ž…ํ•œ ์ฒซ ์ฃผ์—
06:51
it cut parental screaming in half. (Laughter)
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์ €ํฌ ๋ถ€๋ถ€์˜ ์ž”์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜์œผ๋กœ ์ค„์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (์›ƒ์Œ)
06:55
But the real change didn't come until we had these family meetings.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ณด์ธ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
So following the agile model, we ask three questions:
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์• ์ž์ผ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๋ก  ํ•˜์—, ์ €ํฌ๋Š” 3๊ฐ€์ง€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค:
07:02
What worked well in our family this week,
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์ด ์ฃผ์— ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์ž˜ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€
07:04
what didn't work well, and what will we agree to work on in the week ahead?
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๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์ž˜๋ชปํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€, ๋˜ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•ด์•ผํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
07:08
Everyone throws out suggestions
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ ,
07:10
and then we pick two to focus on.
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๊ทธ ์ค‘ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:12
And suddenly the most amazing things started coming out of our daughters' mouths.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ์ž ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ๋”ธ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ผ๋“ค์„ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:16
What worked well this week?
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์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ์— ์ž˜ํ•œ ์ผ์€?
07:18
Getting over our fear of riding bikes. Making our beds.
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์ž์ „ํ„ฐ ํƒ€๊ธฐ์˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•œ ๊ฒƒ, ์นจ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ •๋ˆํ•œ ๊ฒƒ,
07:21
What didn't work well? Our math sheets,
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์ž˜ ์•ˆ๋œ ์ผ์€? ์ˆ˜ํ•™ ์‹œํ—˜์„ ์ž˜ ๋ชป ๋ณธ ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ
07:24
or greeting visitors at the door.
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์†๋‹˜๋“ค ๋งž์ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ ๋ชปํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
07:27
Like a lot of parents, our kids are something like Bermuda Triangles.
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๋งŽ์€ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์•„์ด๋“ค์€ ๋ฒ„๋ฎค๋‹ค ์‚ผ๊ฐ ์ง€๋Œ€์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
07:31
Like, thoughts and ideas go in, but none ever comes out,
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์ƒ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋“ค์ด ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋‚˜์˜ค์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:33
I mean at least not that are revealing.
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์ตœ์†Œํ•œ ๋“œ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„์š”.
07:35
This gave us access suddenly to their innermost thoughts.
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์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋งˆ์Œ ๊นŠ์ˆ™ํ•œ ๊ณณ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ๋“ค์„ ๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:39
But the most surprising part was when we turned to,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ ์€
07:40
what are we going to work on in the week ahead?
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ๋ญ˜ ํ• ์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–˜๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:43
You know, the key idea of agile is that
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์• ์ž์ผ์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ
07:45
teams essentially manage themselves,
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๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ํŒ€๋“ค์ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ๊ด€๋ฆฌํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ ์ด๊ณ ,
07:47
and it works in software and it turns out that it works with kids.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์†Œํ”„ํŠธ์›จ์–ด ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ์— ํ™œ์šฉ๋˜๊ณ , ์•„์ด๋“ค๊ณผ๋„ ์ž˜ ๋งž๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐํ˜€์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:50
Our kids love this process.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์€ ์ด ๊ณผ์ •์„ ์ฐธ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ด์š”.
07:52
So they would come up with all these ideas.
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์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์™”์–ด์š”.
07:54
You know, greet five visitors at the door this week,
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์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ์—๋Š” ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๋ช…์˜ ์†๋‹˜์„ ๋ฌธ ์•ž์—์„œ ๋งž์ดํ•˜๊ณ ,
07:56
get an extra 10 minutes of reading before bed.
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์ž ๋“ค๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์‹ญ ๋ถ„๊ฐ„ ์ฑ…์„ ๋” ์ฝ๊ณ ,
07:59
Kick someone, lose desserts for a month.
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์Šต๊ด€์„ ๋Š๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•œ ๋‹ฌ ๋™์•ˆ ๋””์ €ํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๊ฒ ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋“ฑ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
08:01
It turns out, by the way, our girls are little Stalins.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋”ธ๋“ค์ด ์ž‘์€ ์Šคํƒˆ๋ฆฐ๊ฐ™์ด ๋Š๊ปด์ง€๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”.
08:04
We constantly have to kind of dial them back.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ง€์†์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋“ค์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋ฐ›์•˜์ง€์š”.
08:07
Now look, naturally there's a gap between
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์ž์—ฐ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š” ์–˜๊ธฐ๋“ค๊ณผ
08:09
their kind of conduct in these meetings and their behavior the rest of the week,
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์‹ค์ œ ํ•œ ์ฃผ ๋™์•ˆ์˜ ํ–‰๋™ ์‚ฌ์ด์—๋Š” ๊ฐ„๊ทน์ด ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
08:12
but the truth is it didn't really bother us.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:14
It felt like we were kind of laying these underground cables
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๋งˆ์น˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ˆ˜ ๋…„๊ฐ„ ๋•… ์†์— ๋ฌปํ˜€ ๋“œ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š๋“ฏ์ด
08:16
that wouldn't light up their world for many years to come.
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์ง€ํ•˜ ์„ ๋กœ์ธ ๊ฒƒ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋Š๊ปด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:20
Three years later -- our girls are almost eight now --
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์‚ผ ๋…„์ด ์ง€๋‚˜, ์ €ํฌ ๋”ธ๋“ค์€ ์ด์ œ ์—ฌ๋Ÿ์‚ด์ด ๋‹ค ๋˜์—ˆ๊ณ ,
08:22
We're still holding these meetings.
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์•„์ง ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ๋ชจ์ž„์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:25
My wife counts them among her most treasured moments as a mom.
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์ œ ์•„๋‚ด๋Š” ์ด ๋ชจ์ž„์„ ์—„๋งˆ๋กœ์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์†Œ์ค‘ํ•œ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„ ์ค‘์˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋กœ ๊ผฝ๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
08:29
So what did we learn?
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๊ณผ์—ฐ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋ฐฐ์šด ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?
08:32
The word "agile" entered the lexicon in 2001
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"์• ์ž์ผ"์ด๋ž€ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” 2001๋…„ ์‚ฌ์ „์— ๋“ฑ๋ก๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:34
when Jeff Sutherland and a group of designers
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์ œํ”„ ์„œ๋”๋žœ๋“œ์™€ ์ผ๋ จ์˜ ๋””์ž์ด๋„ˆ๋“ค์ด
08:36
met in Utah and wrote a 12-point Agile Manifesto.
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์œ ํƒ€์ฃผ์— ๋ชจ์—ฌ 12๊ฐœํ•ญ์˜ ์• ์ž์ผ ์„ ์–ธ๋ฌธ์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ์ง€์š”.
08:41
I think the time is right for an Agile Family Manifesto.
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๊ฐ€์ •์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์• ์ž์ผ ์„ ์–ธ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:44
I've taken some ideas from the Starrs and from many other families I met.
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์Šคํƒ€ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋น„๋กฏ, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ๋˜ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด
08:47
I'm proposing three planks.
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์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์›์น™์„ ์„ธ์› ์–ด์š”.
08:50
Plank number one: Adapt all the time.
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์›์น™ 1: ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ ์‘ํ•˜๋ผ.
08:54
When I became a parent, I figured, you know what?
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์ €๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ž, ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ญ”์ง€ ์•„์„ธ์š”?
08:56
We'll set a few rules and we'll stick to them.
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๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์›์น™์„ ์„ธ์šฐ๊ณ , ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ง€์ผœ์•ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ฃ .
08:59
That assumes, as parents, we can anticipate every problem that's going to arise.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€, ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋กœ์จ, ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์˜ˆ์ธกํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:02
We can't. What's great about the agile system
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์ฃ . ์• ์ž์ผ ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์˜ ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ ์€
09:06
is you build in a system of change
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๋ณ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ ,
09:08
so that you can react to what's happening to you in real time.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„์œผ๋กœ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ์— ๋Œ€์‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ง€์š”.
09:11
It's like they say in the Internet world:
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์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท ์„ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ,
09:12
if you're doing the same thing today you were doing six months ago,
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6๊ฐœ์›” ์ „์— ํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ผ์„ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ด ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
09:15
you're doing the wrong thing.
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์ผ์„ ์ž˜๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:17
Parents can learn a lot from that.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
09:19
But to me, "adapt all the time" means something deeper, too.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ œ๊ฒŒ๋Š” "ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ ์‘ํ•œ๋‹ค"๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋” ์‹ฌ์˜คํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:23
We have to break parents out of this straitjacket
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์ด ์ง‘์—์„œ ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ๋“ค์ด
09:25
that the only ideas we can try at home
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๋‹จ์ง€ ์ •์‹ ๊ณผ ์ƒ๋‹ด์˜๋‚˜ ์ž๊ธฐ ๊ณ„๋ฐœ ์ฝ”์น˜,
09:27
are ones that come from shrinks or self-help gurus
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๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋ฌธ์ œ ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€์˜ ๊ตฌ์†์œผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ
09:31
or other family experts.
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๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜์•ผ๋งŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:33
The truth is, their ideas are stale,
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์กฐ์–ธ์€ ์ง„๋ถ€ํ•  ๋ฟ์ด์ฃ .
09:35
whereas in all these other worlds there are these new ideas
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๋ฐ˜๋ฉด์— ๋˜๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์—์„œ๋Š” ์ง‘๋‹จ์ด ๋” ํšจ์œจ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š”
09:38
to make groups and teams work effectively.
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์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:41
Let's just take a few examples.
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๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”.
09:42
Let's take the biggest issue of all: family dinner.
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๋ชจ๋‘์—๊ฒŒ ์žˆ์–ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ์ธ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์‹์‚ฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
09:45
Everybody knows that having family dinner
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์•„์ด๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ๊ฐ€
09:47
with your children is good for the kids.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:50
But for so many of us, it doesn't work in our lives.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งŽ์€ ์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ํž˜๋“ค์ง€์š”.
09:53
I met a celebrity chef in New Orleans who said,
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๋‰ด์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ์–ธ์ฆˆ์˜ ํ•œ ์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ์š”๋ฆฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ,
09:55
"No problem, I'll just time-shift family dinner.
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"๋ฌธ์ œ ์—†์–ด์š”. ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์‹์‚ฌ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š”๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
09:57
I'm not home, can't make family dinner?
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ง‘์— ์—†์–ด์„œ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋ชจ์—ฌ ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด
09:59
We'll have family breakfast. We'll meet for a bedtime snack.
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๋Œ€์‹  ์•„์นจ ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋˜์ง€์š”. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์•ผ์‹์„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋จน์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ์š”.
10:02
We'll make Sunday meals more important."
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์ผ์š”์ผ ์‹์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
10:05
And the truth is, recent research backs him up.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ตœ๊ทผ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋’ท๋ฐ›์นจํ•ด ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:09
It turns out there's only 10 minutes of productive time
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๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์‹์‚ฌ์—์„œ ๋‹จ 10๋ถ„์ด
10:12
in any family meal.
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์ƒ์‚ฐ์ ์ธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ ์ด์ง€์š”.
10:14
The rest of it's taken up with "take your elbows off the table" and "pass the ketchup."
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๋‚˜๋จธ์ง€๋Š” "ํŒ”๊ฟˆ์น˜๋ฅผ ์‹ํƒ์—์„œ ๋–ผ๊ฑฐ๋ผ", ํ˜น์€ "์ผ€์ณก ์ข€ ๊ฑด๋‚ด์ค„๋ž˜" ๊ฐ™์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋กœ ์ฑ„์›Œ์ง€์ฃ .
10:18
You can take that 10 minutes and move it
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๊ทธ 10๋ถ„์„ ํ•˜๋ฃจ ์ค‘ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์œผ๋กœ ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ
10:20
to any part of the day and have the same benefit.
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๊ฐ™์€ ํšจ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:23
So time-shift family dinner. That's adaptability.
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๊ฐ€์กฑ ์‹์‚ฌ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์˜ฎ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์œตํ†ต์„ฑ์ธ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
10:26
An environmental psychologist told me,
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ํ•œ ํ™˜๊ฒฝ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™์ž๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์–ด์š”,
10:28
"If you're sitting in a hard chair on a rigid surface,
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"๋”ฑ๋”ฑํ•œ ๋ฐ”๋‹ฅ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋”ฑ๋”ฑํ•œ ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด
10:31
you'll be more rigid.
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋”ฑ๋”ฑํ•ด์ง€๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ง€์š”.
10:33
If you're sitting on a cushioned chair, you'll be more open."
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ํ‘น์‹ ํ•œ ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์œผ๋ฉด ๋”์šฑ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์ž์„ธ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
10:37
She told me, "When you're discipling your children,
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"์•„์ด๋“ค์„ ํ›ˆ์œกํ•  ๋•Œ,
10:38
sit in an upright chair with a cushioned surface.
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ํ‘น์‹ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์•„์„œ ํ•˜๋ฉด
10:41
The conversation will go better."
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๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋” ์ž˜ ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์งˆ๊ฑฐ์—์š”."๋ผ๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
10:43
My wife and I actually moved where we sit for difficult conversations
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์ €์™€ ์•„๋‚ด๋Š” ๋ฌด๊ฑฐ์šด ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ๋ฉด ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ์„œ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:47
because I was sitting above in the power position.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋” ๋ฌด๊ฒŒ์žˆ๋Š” ์ž๋ฆฌ์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์ฃ .
10:50
So move where you sit. That's adaptability.
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์•‰๋Š” ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ด ๋˜ํ•œ ์œตํ†ต์„ฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:53
The point is there are all these new ideas out there.
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ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:56
We've got to hook them up with parents.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์ด ์ด ์ ์„ ์นœ์ˆ™ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๋„๋ก ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:58
So plank number one: Adapt all the time.
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์ฆ‰ ์ฒซ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์›์น™์€, ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ ์‘ํ•˜๋ผ, ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:01
Be flexible, be open-minded, let the best ideas win.
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์œ ์—ฐํ•ด์ง€๊ณ , ์—ด๋ฆฐ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€์„ธ์š”. ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
11:05
Plank number two: Empower your children.
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์›์น™ 2: ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ํž˜์„ ์‹ค์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
11:09
Our instinct as parents is to order our kids around.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋กœ์„œ์˜ ๋ณธ๋Šฅ์€ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ช…๋ นํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:12
It's easier, and frankly, we're usually right.
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋” ์‰ฝ์ง€์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„ ์˜ณ์•„์š”.
11:15
There's a reason that few systems have been more
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๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์ด ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ด์–ด
11:17
waterfall over time than the family.
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์ „ํ˜€์ ธ ์˜ค๋Š” ๋ฐ์—๋Š” ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:20
But the single biggest lesson we learned
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ๊ตํ›ˆ์€
11:22
is to reverse the waterfall as much as possible.
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์ „ํ•ด์ ธ ์˜ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๋งŽ์ด ๊ฑฐ์Šฌ๋Ÿฌ์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:25
Enlist the children in their own upbringing.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์ž๋ผ๋„๋ก ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
11:29
Just yesterday, we were having our family meeting,
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ์–ด์ œ, ์ €ํฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ ํšŒ์˜๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:31
and we had voted to work on overreacting.
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๊ทธ ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํˆฌํ‘œ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์ง€์š”.
11:33
So we said, "Okay, give us a reward and give us a punishment. Okay?"
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"์ž, ์šฐ๋ฆฌํ•œํ…Œ ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฒŒ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š”๊ฑฐ์•ผ, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€?"
11:37
So one of my daughters threw out, you get five minutes of overreacting time all week.
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ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ํ•œ ์ฃผ ๋™์•ˆ 5๋ถ„ ๊ฐ„ ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ–ˆ๊ณ ,
11:41
So we kind of liked that.
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์šฐ๋ฆฐ ๊ทธ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋ง˜์— ๋“ค์—ˆ์ง€์š”,
11:43
But then her sister started working the system.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹คํ–‰์— ์˜ฎ๊ธฐ์ž,
11:45
She said, "Do I get one five-minute overreaction
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"ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์— 5๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”๊ฑฐ์—์š”?
11:48
or can I get 10 30-second overreactions?"
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด 30์ดˆ์”ฉ 10๋ฒˆ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”๊ฑฐ์—์š”?"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฌป๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
11:51
I loved that. Spend the time however you want.
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์•„์ฃผ ๋ง˜์— ๋“ค์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๋กœ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹จ๋‹ค, ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด์คฌ์ง€์š”.
11:54
Now give us a punishment. Okay.
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์ž, ์ด์ œ ๋ฒŒ์„ ์ •ํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ•˜์ง€์š”.
11:56
If we get 15 minutes of overreaction time, that's the limit.
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ํ•œ๊ณ„์น˜์ธ 15๋ถ„์„ ๋„˜์–ด,
12:01
Every minute above that, we have to do one pushup.
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๊ทธ ์ด์ƒ์ด ๋˜๋ฉด 1๋ถ„๋‹น ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์”ฉ ํŒ”๊ตฝํ˜€ํŽด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:04
So you see, this is working. Now look, this system isn't lax.
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๋ณด์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ž‘๋™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ณด์„ธ์š”, ์ด ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ์€ ๋Š์Šจํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„์š”.
12:08
There's plenty of parental authority going on.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋กœ์„œ์˜ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ถŒ์œ„๊ฐ€ ์ž‘์šฉํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ,
12:10
But we're giving them practice becoming independent,
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋…๋ฆฝ์ ์ด ๋˜๋„๋ก ์—ฐ์Šตํ•  ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:13
which of course is our ultimate goal.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ตœ์ข… ๋ชฉํ‘œ์ด์ง€์š”.
12:16
Just as I was leaving to come here tonight,
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋ฐค ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์˜ค๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ง‘์„ ๋‚˜์„œ๋Š” ์ˆœ๊ฐ„
12:18
one of my daughters started screaming.
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๋”ธ์•„์ด ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ง€๋ฅด๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:20
The other one said, "Overreaction! Overreaction!"
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” "๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด์•ผ! ๊ณผ์ž‰ ๋ฐ˜์‘!" ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ
12:22
and started counting, and within 10 seconds it had ended.
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์ˆซ์ž๋ฅผ ์„ธ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”. 10์ดˆ ์•ˆ์— ๋๋‚ฌ์ง€์š”.
12:25
To me that is a certified agile miracle.
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์ €์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ๋ณด์ฆ๋œ ์• ์ž์ผ์˜ ๊ธฐ์ ์ด์—์š”.
12:29
(Laughter) (Applause)
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(์›ƒ์Œ) (๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
12:31
And by the way, research backs this up too.
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ํ•œํŽธ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋„ ์ด๋ฅผ ๋’ท๋ฐ›์นจํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:36
Children who plan their own goals, set weekly schedules,
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์ž์‹ ๋“ค์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜๊ณ , ์ฃผ๊ฐ„ ๊ณ„ํš์„ ์„ธ์šฐ๋Š” ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด
12:39
evaluate their own work build up their frontal cortex
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ผ์„ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•ด ์ „๋‘์—ฝ ๋Œ€๋‡Œํ”ผ์งˆ์— ์ €์žฅํ•˜๊ณ ,
12:43
and take more control over their lives.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์‚ถ์„ ์ฃผ๋„์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:47
The point is, we have to let our children succeed on their own terms,
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ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€, ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:51
and yes, on occasion, fail on their own terms.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ๋ก , ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์‹คํŒจํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์•˜๊ฒ ์ง€์š”.
12:54
I was talking to Warren Buffett's banker,
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์›Œ๋ Œ ๋ฒ„ํ•์˜ ์€ํ–‰๊ฐ€์™€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ,
12:55
and he was chiding me for not letting my children
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์šฉ๋ˆ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ 
12:58
make mistakes with their allowance.
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์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ•˜๋„๋ก ๋‚ด๋ฒ„๋ ค๋‘์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋ฌด๋ผ๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
13:00
And I said, "But what if they drive into a ditch?"
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์ œ๊ฐ€ "ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ๋ง‰๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ณณ์œผ๋กœ ์น˜๋‹ซ๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด์š”?"๊ณ  ํ•˜์ž,
13:02
He said, "It's much better to drive into a ditch
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๊ทธ๋Š” "6๋ถˆ์˜ ์šฉ๋ˆ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
13:04
with a $6 allowance than a $60,000-a-year salary
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6๋งŒ ๋ถˆ์˜ ์—ฐ๋ด‰์ด๋‚˜, 6๋ฐฑ๋งŒ ๋ถˆ์˜ ์œ ์‚ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ 
13:08
or a $6 million inheritance."
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์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋‚ซ์ง€์š”."๋ผ๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
13:10
So the bottom line is, empower your children.
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์ฆ‰, ์ตœ์†Œํ•œ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ถŒํ•œ์„ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
13:13
Plank number three: Tell your story.
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์›์น™ 3: ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ ค์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
13:18
Adaptability is fine, but we also need bedrock.
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์œตํ†ต์„ฑ์€ ์ข‹์•„์š”, ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ์›์น™์ด ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:22
Jim Collins, the author of "Good To Great,"
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"์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐ์—…์„ ๋„˜์–ด ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ์—…์œผ๋กœ"์˜ ์ €์ž ์ง ์ฝœ๋ฆฐ์Šค๋Š”
13:24
told me that successful human organizations of any kind
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์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜๋“ ์ง€ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์กฐ์ง์€
13:26
have two things in common:
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๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:28
they preserve the core, they stimulate progress.
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ํ•ต์‹ฌ์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค๊ณ , ๊ณผ์ •์„ ๋…๋ คํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:31
So agile is great for stimulating progress,
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์ฆ‰ ์• ์ž์ผ์€ ๊ณผ์ •์„ ๋…๋ คํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ,
13:33
but I kept hearing time and again, you need to preserve the core.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ํ•ต์‹ฌ์„ ์ง€์ผœ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:37
So how do you do that?
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
13:39
Collins coached us on doing something
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์ฝœ๋ฆฐ์Šค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์—…๊ฐ€๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹,
13:41
that businesses do, which is define your mission
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์ฆ‰ ์‚ฌ๋ช…์„ ์ •์˜ํ•˜๊ณ , ํ•ต์‹ฌ ๊ฐ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๊ทœ์ •ํ•˜๋„๋ก
13:44
and identify your core values.
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๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ ์คฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:46
So he led us through the process of creating a family mission statement.
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"๊ฐ€์ • ์‚ฌ๋ช… ์„ ์–ธ๋ฌธ"์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณผ์ •์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์คฌ์ง€์š”.
13:50
We did the family equivalent of a corporate retreat.
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ํšŒ์‚ฌ์—์„œ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹จ์ฒด ํœด์–‘์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
13:52
We had a pajama party.
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์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ง‘์—์„œ ํŒŒ์ž๋งˆ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:54
I made popcorn. Actually, I burned one, so I made two.
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ํŒ์ฝ˜์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ , ์‚ฌ์‹ค ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฅผ ํƒœ์›Œ๋จน์–ด์„œ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
13:58
My wife bought a flip chart.
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์•„๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ด˜๋„๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ–ˆ์ง€์š”.
13:59
And we had this great conversation, like, what's important to us?
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„์ฃผ ์ข‹์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆด์–ด์š”. ๊ฐ€๋ น, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€?
14:01
What values do we most uphold?
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ง€์ผœ์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€? ๋“ฑ์ด์ง€์š”.
14:03
And we ended up with 10 statements.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” 10๊ฐœํ•ญ์˜ ์„ ์–ธ๋ฌธ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
14:05
We are travelers, not tourists.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ด€๊ด‘๊ฐ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์—ฌํ–‰์ž๋‹ค.
14:07
We don't like dilemmas. We like solutions.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐˆํŒก์งˆํŒกํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ , ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ฑ…์„ ์ฐพ๋Š”๋‹ค.
14:11
Again, research shows that parents should spend less time
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋“ค์€
14:14
worrying about what they do wrong
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์€ ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์ž˜๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์‹ ๊ฒฝ์„ ๋œ ์“ฐ๊ณ ,
14:16
and more time focusing on what they do right,
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์˜ณ์€ ์ผ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ
14:20
worry less about the bad times and build up the good times.
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๋‚˜์œ ์ผ์„ ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ , ์ข‹์€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š”๋ฐ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋” ํˆฌ์žํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:24
This family mission statement is a great way to identify
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"๊ฐ€์ • ์‚ฌ๋ช… ์„ ์–ธ๋ฌธ"์€ ์˜ณ์€ ์ผ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€
14:26
what it is that you do right.
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์ •์˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:29
A few weeks later, we got a call from the school.
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๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ํ›„์— ํ•™๊ต์—์„œ ์ „ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:31
One of our daughters had gotten into a spat.
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๋”ธ ์•„์ด ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ๋‹คํˆผ์„ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
14:33
And suddenly we were worried, like, do we have a mean girl on our hands?
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋”ธ์ด ๋ฒ„๋ฅด์žฅ๋จธ๋ฆฌ์—†๋Š” ์•„์ด์ธ๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์— ๊ธˆ์ƒˆ ๊ฑฑ์ •์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:36
And we didn't really know what to do,
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๋ญ˜ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ์ •๋ง ๋ชฐ๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:37
so we called her into my office.
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๊ทธ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ์ œ ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค๋กœ ๋ถˆ๋ €์ง€์š”.
14:38
The family mission statement was on the wall,
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"๊ฐ€์ • ์‚ฌ๋ช… ์„ ์–ธ๋ฌธ"์ด ๋ฒฝ์— ๊ฑธ๋ ค ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ ,
14:40
and my wife said, "So, anything up there seem to apply?"
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์•„๋‚ด๋Š” "์ž, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์ ์šฉ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ˆ?" ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:43
And she kind of looked down the list, and she said,
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์•„์ด๋Š” ๋ชฉ๋ก์„ ํ›‘์–ด๋ณด๋”๋‹ˆ
14:46
"Bring people together?"
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"์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค?"๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
14:48
Suddenly we had a way into the conversation.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:51
Another great way to tell your story
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€,
14:52
is to tell your children where they came from.
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์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์–ด๋””์„œ ์™”๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:56
Researchers at Emory gave children a simple
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์—๋ชจ๋ฆฌ ๋Œ€ํ•™์˜ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์ง„๋“ค์€ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ
14:58
"what do you know" test.
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"๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ˆ" ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:00
Do you know where your grandparents were born?
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์กฐ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋””์„œ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚ฌ๋Š”์ง€ ์•„๋‹ˆ?
15:03
Do you know where your parents went to high school?
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์ด ๋‹ค๋‹Œ ๊ณ ๋“ฑํ•™๊ต๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋””์ธ์ง€ ์•„๋‹ˆ?
15:05
Do you know anybody in your family
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๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ค‘ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋ ค์šด ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์•„ํ”„๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
15:07
who had a difficult situation, an illness, and they overcame it?
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ํ˜น์€ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ˆ? ๊ฐ™์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ๋“ค์ด์ฃ .
15:11
The children who scored highest on this "do you know" scale
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์ด ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธ์—์„œ ๋†’์€ ์ ์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋กํ•œ ์•„์ด๋“ค์€
15:14
had the highest self-esteem and a greater sense they could control their lives.
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์ž์•„ ์กด์ค‘๊ฐ์ด ๋†’๊ณ , ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์‚ถ์„ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์ด ๋›ฐ์–ด๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:19
The "do you know" test was the single biggest predictor
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"์•Œ๊ณ ์žˆ๋‹ˆ" ํ…Œ์ŠคํŠธ๋Š” ๊ทธ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋กœ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ
15:22
of emotional health and happiness.
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๊ฐ์„ฑ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•๊ณผ ํ–‰๋ณต ์ฒ™๋„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:25
As the author of the study told me,
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์ด ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ €์ž๋Š” ๋งํ•˜๊ธธ,
15:27
children who have a sense of -- they're part of a larger narrative
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ํฐ ์ค„๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ถ„์œผ๋กœ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์ธ์‹ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์•„์ด๊ฐ€
15:31
have greater self-confidence.
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๋” ํฐ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:34
So my final plank is, tell your story.
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์ œ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์›์น™์€, ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:37
Spend time retelling the story of your family's positive moments
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๊ฐ€์กฑ์˜ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์› ๋˜ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋“ค์„ ์ƒ๊ธฐ์‹œ์ผœ์ฃผ๊ณ 
15:41
and how you overcame the negative ones.
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ํž˜๋“ค์—ˆ๋˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ทน๋ณตํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€๋ฅผ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ํˆฌ์žํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
15:44
If you give children this happy narrative,
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์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์ค€๋‹ค๋ฉด
15:46
you give them the tools to make themselves happier.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋” ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜์žˆ๋Š” ๋„๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:52
I was a teenager when I first read "Anna Karenina"
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์ €๋Š” ์‹ญ๋Œ€ ๋•Œ ์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ "์•ˆ๋‚˜ ์นด๋ ˆ๋‹ˆ๋‚˜"๋ฅผ ์ฝ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ,
15:54
and its famous opening sentence,
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๊ทธ ์ฒซ ๊ตฌ์ ˆ,
15:56
"All happy families are alike.
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"๋ชจ๋“  ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ๋น„์Šทํ•˜๊ณ ,
15:58
Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."
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๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ๊ฐ์ž์˜ ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค."
16:02
When I first read that, I thought, "That sentence is inane.
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๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ ์ฝ์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ "์ด๊ฑด ๋ง๋„ ์•ˆ๋ผ.
16:05
Of course all happy families aren't alike."
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๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋ชจ๋“  ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ง€ ์•Š์•„." ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์ง€์š”.
16:08
But as I began working on this project,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ,
16:11
I began changing my mind.
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์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:13
Recent scholarship has allowed us, for the first time,
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์ตœ๊ทผ ํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋น„ ๋•๋ถ„์— ์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ
16:16
to identify the building blocks
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์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ๊ฐ€์ •์ด ๊ฐ€์ง„
16:19
that successful families have.
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์„ฑ๊ณต ์š”์ธ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ๋ฐํ˜€๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:22
I've mentioned just three here today:
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ์–ธ๊ธ‰ํ•œ ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€,
16:24
Adapt all the time, empower the children, tell your story.
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ ์‘ํ•˜๊ณ , ์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์œ„์ž„ํ•˜๊ณ , ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ
16:29
Is it possible, all these years later, to say Tolstoy was right?
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๋ช‡ ๋…„ ํ›„์— ํ†จ์Šคํ† ์ด๊ฐ€ ์˜ณ์•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
16:33
The answer, I believe, is yes.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ฏฟ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
16:37
When Leo Tolstoy was five years old,
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ํ† ์Šคํ† ์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค์„ฏ ์‚ด์ด์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ,
16:40
his brother Nikolay came to him
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๊ทธ์˜ ํ˜• ๋‹ˆ์ฝœ๋ผ์ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ
16:41
and said he had engraved the secret to universal happiness
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๊ทผ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ํ–‰๋ณต์˜ ๋น„๋ฐ€์„
16:44
on a little green stick, which he had hidden
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๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์†Œ์œ ์˜ ํ•œ ๊ณ„๊ณก์—
16:47
in a ravine on the family's estate in Russia.
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์ˆจ๊ฒจ๋†“์€ ์ž‘์€ ๋…น์ƒ‰ ๋ง‰๋Œ€์— ์ƒˆ๊ฒจ ๋†“์•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ์—ˆ์ง€์š”.
16:50
If the stick were ever found, all humankind would be happy.
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๊ทธ ๋ง‰๋Œ€๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌ๋œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋ชจ๋“  ์ธ๋ฅ˜๊ฐ€ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด์งˆ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ ์š”.
16:55
Tolstoy became consumed with that stick, but he never found it.
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ํ†จ์Šคํ† ์ด๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋ง‰๋Œ€์— ์‚ฌ๋กœ์žกํ˜”์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ฐพ์•„๋‚ด์ง€ ๋ชปํ–ˆ์ง€์š”.
17:00
In fact, he asked to be buried in that ravine where he thought it was hidden.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋ง‰๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์ˆจ๊ฒจ์ ธ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ ๊ทธ ๊ณ„๊ณก์— ๋ฌป์–ด๋‹ฌ๋ผ๊ณ  ์š”์ฒญํ–ˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:04
He still lies there today, covered in a layer of green grass.
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๊ทธ๋Š” ๋“คํ’€์ด ๋ฎํžŒ ๊ทธ๊ณณ์— ์ž ๋“ค์–ด ์žˆ์ง€์š”.
17:09
That story perfectly captures for me
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์ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ €๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋กœ์žก์•„
17:11
the final lesson that I learned:
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์ตœ์ข…์ ์ธ ๊ตํ›ˆ์„ ์ฃผ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:14
Happiness is not something we find,
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ํ–‰๋ณต์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:16
it's something we make.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ๋ฟ.
17:19
Almost anybody who's looked at well-run organizations
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์ž˜ ์šด์˜๋˜๋Š” ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ฉด
17:23
has come to pretty much the same conclusion.
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๋‹ค ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๊ฒฐ๋ก ์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:26
Greatness is not a matter of circumstance.
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์œ„๋Œ€ํ•จ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๊ตฌ์• ๋ฐ›์ง€ ์•Š ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:28
It's a matter of choice.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์„ ํƒ์˜ ๋ฌธ์ œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:31
You don't need some grand plan. You don't need a waterfall.
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๋ฐฉ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ณ„ํš์ด๋‚˜ ์ „์Šน์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:34
You just need to take small steps,
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๊ทธ์ € ํ•œ ๋ฐœ ํ•œ ๋ฐœ ๋‚ด๋”›๊ณ 
17:36
accumulate small wins,
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์ž‘์€ ์„ฑ๊ณต์„ ์ฐจ๊ทผ์ฐจ๊ทผ ์Œ“์•„
17:39
keep reaching for that green stick.
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๊ทธ ๋…น์ƒ‰ ๋ง‰๋Œ€์— ๋‹ฟ์„ ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ฃ .
17:41
In the end, this may be the greatest lesson of all.
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๊ทธ ๋์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ตํ›ˆ์€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ,
17:45
What's the secret to a happy family? Try.
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ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๋น„๊ฒฐ์ด๋ž€? ๋ฐ”๋กœ, ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
17:49
(Applause)
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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