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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Sumin Park ๊ฒ€ํ† : DK Kim
00:12
You're probably familiar with FOMO.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ FOMO์— ์ต์ˆ™ํ•  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:14
[This guy invented the term]
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[์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งŒ๋“  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.]
00:15
That's short for "Fear Of Missing Out."
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'๊ณ ๋ฆฝ๊ณตํฌ๊ฐ'์˜ ์•ฝ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:17
It's that feeling you get
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00:18
when it seems everyone else is doing something better
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ž˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ผ ๋•Œ ๋А๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฐ์ •์ด์ฃ .
00:21
than what you're doing now.
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00:22
But there's another FO you need to know about,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์•Œ์•„์•ผ ํ•  ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ FO๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด๊ฑด ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:25
and it's far more dangerous.
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00:26
It's called FOBO,
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FOBO๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋ฉฐ,
00:27
and it's short for "Fear Of a Better Option."
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'๋” ๋‚˜์€ ์„ ํƒ์˜ ๊ณตํฌ๊ฐ'์˜ ์•ฝ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:30
[The Way We Work]
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[์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•]
(์Œ์•…)
00:34
We live in a world of overwhelming choice.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์„ ํƒ ์†์— ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:37
Even decisions that used to be simple,
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ–ˆ๋˜ ์˜์‚ฌ๊ฒฐ์ •์ด
00:39
like choosing a restaurant or making everyday purchases,
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์‹๋‹น์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ผ์ƒ์šฉํ’ˆ์„ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ด
00:42
are now fraught with overanalysis.
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์ด์ œ ๊ณผ๋„ํ•œ ๋ถ„์„์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋“ ์ฐน๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:44
Technology has only made the issue more pronounced.
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๊ธฐ์ˆ ์€ ์ด ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋” ๋šœ๋ ทํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ์„ ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:46
If you want to buy a pair of white shoelaces online,
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์—์„œ ์‹ ๋ฐœ๋ˆ์„ ๊ตฌ๋งคํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
00:49
you have to sort through thousands of items
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์ˆ˜์ฒœ ๊ฐœ์˜ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์ƒํ’ˆ๋“ค์„ ๋ณด๊ณ 
00:51
and read through hundreds of reviews.
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์–ด๋งˆ์–ด๋งˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ํ›„๊ธฐ๋“ค์„ ์ฝ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ์ € ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์•„์นจ์— ๋งˆ์‹œ๋Š” ๋ผ๋–ผ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ €๋ ดํ•œ ์‹ ๋ฐœ๋ˆ์„ ์‚ฌ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
00:53
That's an astounding amount of information to process
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00:55
to just buy two pieces of string that cost less than your morning latte.
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๊ฑฐ์ณ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ ์–‘์˜ ์ •๋ณด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•  ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฌผ ์ค‘ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋งŒ ๊ณจ๋ผ์•ผ ํ•  ๋•Œ
00:59
Chances are you've experienced FOBO when you've struggled
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01:02
to choose just one from a group of perfectly acceptable outcomes.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ FOBO๋ฅผ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ๋†’์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ํ•œ ๋งŽ์€ ์„ ํƒ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜์ง‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ณด์กดํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ์—
01:05
It's a symptom of a culture which sees value
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01:07
in collecting and preserving as many options as possible.
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๊ฐ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋‘๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”์˜ ์ฆ์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:10
You might wonder why all of this is so bad.
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์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ์™œ ๋‚˜์˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:12
It seems counterintuitive.
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์ง๊ด€์— ๋ฐ˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๋“ฏํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:13
Shouldn't it be a privilege to have so many good options
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์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ ์„ ํƒ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฑด ํŠน๊ถŒ์ด ์•„๋‹๊นŒ์š”?
01:16
to choose from?
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๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” FOBO๋Š” ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•œ ๋ถ„์„ ๋งˆ๋น„๋ฅผ ์œ ๋ฐœํ•˜๊ณ 
01:17
The problem is, FOBO induces such severe analysis paralysis
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01:20
that it can negatively impact both your personal and professional life.
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์ด๋Š” ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ์‚ถ๊ณผ ์‚ฌํšŒ์ ์ธ ์‚ถ ๋ชจ๋‘์— ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์นœ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
When you can't make decisions with conviction,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์— ํ™•์‹ ์ด ์—†์„ ๋•Œ,
01:26
you waste precious time and energy.
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๊ท€์ค‘ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๊ณผ ์—๋„ˆ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚ญ๋น„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋‹คํ–‰ํžˆ๋„ FOBO๋ฅผ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•  ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:28
Luckily, there is a way to overcome FOBO.
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01:30
Here's a secret.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—” ๋น„๋ฐ€์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:31
With any decision you make, you first have to determine the stakes,
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์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒฐ์ •์ด๋“  ๋จผ์ € ์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ณ ๋ คํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:34
as this will inform your decision-making strategy.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜์‚ฌ ๊ฒฐ์ • ์ „๋žต์— ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ •๋ฆฌํ•˜์ž๋ฉด
01:37
When it comes down to it,
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์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋‹จ ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์œ ํ˜•์˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งž๋‹ฅ๋œจ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:38
you only really face three types of decisions in life:
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01:40
high stakes, low stakes and no stakes.
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์œ„ํ—˜ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ๋†’์€ ๊ฒƒ, ๋‚ฎ์€ ๊ฒƒ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ.
01:43
Let's start with no-stakes decisions.
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์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋จผ์ € ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
01:45
These are the minor details of life,
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์‚ฌ์†Œํ•œ ์š”์†Œ๋“ค์ด๋ผ
01:47
where there is almost never an incorrect answer,
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์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ด๋ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฑฐ์˜ ์—†๊ณ 
01:49
and in a few hours, you won't even remember
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๋ช‡ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋’ค๋ฉด ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฐ ๊ฒƒ์กฐ์ฐจ๋„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:51
making the decision.
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01:52
A good example of this is choosing what to watch on TV.
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TV ์ฑ„๋„์ด ์ข‹์€ ์˜ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:55
With thousands of shows, it's easy to get overwhelmed,
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์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ TV์‡ผ ํ”„๋กœ๊ทธ๋žจ ์ค‘ ๋ˆˆ๊ธธ์„ ์‚ฌ๋กœ์žก๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งŽ์ง€๋งŒ
01:58
yet no matter what you pick,
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์–ด๋–ค ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๋“ ,
01:59
the consequences are basically nonexistent.
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋Š” ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:02
So spending more than a few moments on FOBO
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ FOBO์— ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์ด์ƒ์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๊ฑด
02:04
is a massive waste of energy.
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์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ ์—๋„ˆ์ง€ ๋‚ญ๋น„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:06
You just need to move on.
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๊ทธ์ € ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐˆ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:07
When it comes to no-stakes decisions,
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์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์—†๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ
02:09
the key is to outsource them to the universe.
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์š”์ ์€ ์šด์— ๋งก๊ธด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:12
For example, you can whittle down your choices to just two
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์„ ํƒ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‹จ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋กœ ์ขํžˆ๊ณ 
02:15
and then flip a coin.
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๋™์ „์„ ๋˜์ ธ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:16
Or try my personal favorite -- ask the watch.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ์‹œ๊ณ„์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:19
Assign each one of your choices to one half of your watch,
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๊ฐ๊ฐ์˜ ์„ ํƒ์— 30์ดˆ์”ฉ์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ 
02:21
then let the second hand tell you what you're going to do.
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€ ์ดˆ์นจ์ด ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
02:25
Looks like I'll be having the fish.
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๋ณ„๋กœ ์ค‘์š”์น˜ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:26
That brings us to low-stakes decisions.
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์ด๋ฒˆ์—” ์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ๋‚ฎ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋ณด์ฃ .
02:28
These have consequences, but none are earth-shattering,
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๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์˜ํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ ˆ๋Œ€์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉฐ
02:31
and there are plenty of acceptable outcomes.
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๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ผ ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋„ ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:34
Many routine things at work, like purchasing a printer,
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์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ์ผ์ƒ์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค, ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ํ”„๋ฆฐํ„ฐ๋ฅผ ์‚ฐ๋‹ค๋“ ๊ฐ€
02:37
booking a hotel or choosing between possible venues for an off-site
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ํ˜ธํ…” ์˜ˆ์•ฝ์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ–‰์‚ฌ ์žฅ์†Œ๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
02:40
are classically low-stakes in nature.
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์ „ํ˜•์ ์œผ๋กœ ์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ๋‚ฎ์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:42
Some thinking is required,
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์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ํ•„์š”ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ,
02:44
but these aren't make-or-break deliberations,
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์„ฑํŒจ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉฐ
02:46
and you'll probably forget about them in a few weeks.
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๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ์•ˆ์— ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ์žŠ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆด ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:49
Here, you can also outsource decision-making,
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๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€๋กœ ์šด์— ๋งก๊ธธ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
02:51
but you want some critical thinking involved,
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ์ง„์ง€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ํ•„์š”๋„ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
02:53
as there are some stakes.
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์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์ฃ .
02:55
This time, you'll outsource to a person.
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์ด๋ฒˆ์—” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ž๋ฌธ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:57
Set some basic criteria,
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๊ธฐ์ค€์„ ๊น”์•„๋†“๊ณ 
02:58
select someone to present a recommendation,
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์ถ”์ฒœ์„ ๋ถ€ํƒํ•  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•œ ํ›„,
03:00
and then take their advice.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์„ธ์š”.
03:01
Make sure to avoid the temptation to canvass.
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์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๊ตฌํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ณ„์† ๋Œ์•„๋‹ค๋‹ˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด ํ”ผํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:04
Your goal is to clear your plate,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋Š” ์ƒˆ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ง€
03:05
not to kick the can down the road.
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๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋’ค๋กœ ๋ฏธ๋ฃจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:07
Now that you tackled low-stakes and no-stakes decisions,
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์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ๋‚ฎ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋งˆ์ณค์œผ๋‹ˆ
03:10
you've created the space and time you'll need
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์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ๋†’์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‹ค๋ฃฐ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์ค€๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:12
to handle high-stakes decisions.
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒฐ์ •๋“ค์ด์ฃ .
03:14
These are things like "which house should I buy"
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"์–ด๋–ค ์ง‘์„ ์‚ฌ์•ผํ• ๊นŒ."
03:16
or "which job should I accept."
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"์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋ฝํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ?"
03:17
Since the stakes are high and there are long-term implications,
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ์œ„ํ—˜๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ํฌ๊ณ  ์žฅ๊ธฐ์ ์ธ ์˜ํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
03:20
you absolutely want to get it right.
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๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:22
Before we get to work, let's establish a few basic principles
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์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์„ค์ •ํ•ด์„œ
03:25
to guide you through the process.
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์•ž์œผ๋กœ ์ง€์นจ์„ ์‚ผ์•„๋ณด์ฃ .
03:27
First, think about what really matters to you,
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๋จผ์ € ๋ฌด์—‡์ด ์ง„์งœ๋กœ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š”์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด๊ณ 
03:29
and set your criteria accordingly.
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ๊ธฐ์ค€์„ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:31
Second, gather the relevant facts.
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ๊ด€๋ จ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์ˆ˜์ง‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:33
Make sure you collect data about all of the options,
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๋ชจ๋“  ์˜๊ฒฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฐ์ดํ„ฐ๋ฅผ ๋น ์ง์—†์ด ๋ชจ์•„์„œ
03:35
so you can be confident
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ํ™•์‹คํ•œ ์ •๋ณด์— ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ํ•œ
03:36
that you're truly making an informed decision.
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๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•  ๋งŒํ•œ ์˜ต์…˜ ์ค‘์—์„œ
03:39
And third, remember that FOBO, by nature,
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03:41
comes when you struggle to choose just one
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ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํž˜๋“ค์–ด ํ•  ๋•Œ
03:43
from a group of perfectly acceptable options.
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ FOBO๊ฐ€ ์˜จ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:45
So no matter what you choose,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๋“  ๊ฐ„์—
03:47
you can rest assured that the downside is limited.
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๋‹จ์ ์€ ํ•œ์ •๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์•ˆ์‹ฌํ•ด๋„ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:50
Now that you've established some ground rules,
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ์ •ํ–ˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ
03:52
the process can begin.
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์ด์ œ ๋” ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:53
Start by identifying a front-runner based on your intuition,
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๋จผ์ € ์ง๊ด€์— ๋Œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์„ ๋‘์ฃผ์ž๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๊ณ 
03:56
then compare each of your options head-to-head
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์„ ํƒ์ง€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์”ฉ ๋น„๊ตํ•ด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
with the front-runner, one-by-one.
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์„ ๋‘์ฃผ์ž์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:00
Each time, choose the better of the two based on the criteria,
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๊ทธ๋•Œ๊ทธ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๊ธฐ์ค€์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‘˜ ์ค‘์— ๋‚˜์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๊ณ 
04:03
and discard the other one.
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๋‚˜๋จธ์ง€๋Š” ์ง€์›Œ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ์„ธ์š”.
04:05
Here's the trick to avoiding FOBO.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ FOBO๋ฅผ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ์š”๋ น์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:07
When you eliminate an option, it's gone forever.
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์„ ํƒ์ง€ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ฑฐํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฑด ์˜์›ํžˆ ์‚ฌ๋ผ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:09
If you keep returning to discarded options,
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ์ด๋ฏธ ์ง€์›Œ๋ฒ„๋ฆฐ ์„ ํƒ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ณ„์† ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์˜จ๋‹ค๋ฉด
04:11
you risk getting stuck.
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์†์ˆ˜๋ฌด์ฑ…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:13
Now repeat this process until you get down to one final choice.
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์ด์ œ ์ตœ์ข…๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆด ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ด ๊ณผ์ •์„ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:16
If you follow this system,
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์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ๋‹ค๋ฉด
04:18
you will usually end up with a decision on your own.
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ํ˜ผ์ž์„œ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌ ์ง“๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:20
On the rare occasion that you get stuck,
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์†์“ธ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๋“œ๋ฌธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
04:22
you will outsource the final decision
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„
04:24
to a small group of qualified people who you trust
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๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ๋„์›€์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ž๊ฒฉ์„ ๊ฐ–์ถ˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜
04:27
and who are equipped to provide you with guidance
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ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ง€์นจ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ˆ˜๋‹จ์„ ๊ฐ–์ถ˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€ํƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:29
on this particular topic.
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04:30
Engage a group of five or less, ideally an odd number of people
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๋‹ค์„ฏ ๋ช…์ด๋‚˜ ๊ทธ ์ดํ•˜๋กœ ๋ชจ์ž„์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์„œ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋ฉด ํ™€์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ์ข‹๊ฒ ์ฃ ,
04:33
so that you have a built-in tiebreaker if you need it.
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ํ•„์š”ํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์— ๋„์›€์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ์„ธ์š”.
04:36
Now that you've made your choice, one last challenge remains.
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์ด์ œ ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ–ˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ๋„์ „๋งŒ ๋‚จ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
You have to commit.
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์‹คํ–‰์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:40
I can't promise you that you'll ever truly know if you've made the perfect decision,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ ธ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์•ฝ์†์€ ๋ชปํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
04:44
but I can tell you this:
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:45
a significant percentage of people in the world
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์„ธ์ƒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€
04:48
will never have to worry about FOBO.
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FOBO์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด์งˆ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:50
Unlike the billions of people who have few options, if any,
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์ „์Ÿ, ๊ฐ€๋‚œ, ์งˆ๋ณ‘์œผ๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ์„ ํƒ์ง€๊ฐ€ ๊ฑฐ์˜ ์—†๋Š”
04:53
due to war, poverty or illness,
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์ˆ˜์‹ญ์–ต ๋ช…์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ
04:55
you have plentiful opportunities to live decisively.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ์ž์œ ๋กญ๊ฒŒ ์‚ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:58
You may not get everything you want,
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์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹ค ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆœ ์—†๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ
05:00
but the mere fact you get to decide is powerful.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์•„์ฃผ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:03
In fact, it's a gift.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ด๊ฑด ์„ ๋ฌผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:05
Make the most of it.
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์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ์œผ๋กœ ๋ˆ„๋ฆฌ์‹œ๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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