4 larger-than-life lessons from soap operas | Kate Adams

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Katherine Cho ๊ฒ€ํ† : Jihyeon J. Kim
00:12
In 1987, Tina Lord found herself in quite the pickle.
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1987๋…„์— ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜ ๋กœ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ณค๊ฒฝ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:16
See, this gold digger made sure she married sweet Cord Roberts
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๋ˆ์„ ๋…ธ๋ฆฐ ์ด ์—ฌ์ž๋Š” ๋งˆ์Œ์”จ ์ฐฉํ•œ ์ฝ”๋“œ ๋กœ๋ฒ„์ธ ์™€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:19
just before he inherited millions.
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์ˆ˜ ๋ฐฑ๋งŒ ๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฌผ๋ ค๋ฐ›๊ธฐ ์ง์ „์ด์ฃ .
00:22
But when Cord found out Tina loved his money
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ฝ”๋“œ๋Š” ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋งŒํผ
00:24
as much as she loved him,
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๊ทธ์˜ ๋ˆ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ๋˜์ž
00:26
he dumped her.
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๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:27
Cord's mother Maria was thrilled
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์ฝ”๋“œ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ ๋งˆ๋ฆฌ์•„๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ปํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
00:29
until they hooked up again.
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๊ทธ ๋‘˜์€ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋งˆ๋ฆฌ์•„๋Š” ๋งฅ์Šค ํ™€๋ด์„ ๊ณ ์šฉํ•ด ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๊ตฌ์• ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ณ 
00:31
So Maria hired Max Holden to romance Tina
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00:33
and then made sure Cord didn't find out Tina was pregnant with his baby.
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ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ์ฝ”๋“œ์˜ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์กŒ์Œ์„ ์•Œ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:37
So Tina, still married but thinking Cord didn't love her
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ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•œ ์ƒํƒœ์ง€๋งŒ ์ฝ”๋“œ๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ 
00:40
flew to Argentina with Max.
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๋งฅ์Šค์™€ ์•„๋ฅดํ—จํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๋กœ ๋– ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:42
Cord finally figured out what was going on
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์ฝ”๋“œ๋Š” ๋งˆ์นจ๋‚ด ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ๋Š”์ง€ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๊ณ 
00:44
and rushed after them, but he was too late.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋’ค์ซ“์•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋Šฆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:47
Tina had already been kidnapped,
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ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๋ฏธ ๋‚ฉ์น˜๋˜์–ด
00:49
strapped to a raft and sent over a waterfall.
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๋—๋ชฉ์— ๋ฌถ์ธ ์ฑ„ ํญํฌ ๋ฐ‘์œผ๋กœ ๋–จ์–ด๋œจ๋ ค์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:52
She and her baby were presumed dead.
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๊ทธ๋…€์™€ ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ์•„์ด๋Š” ์ฃฝ์—ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐ๋์ฃ .
00:55
Cord was sad for a bit,
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์ฝ”๋“œ๋Š” ์ž ์‹œ ์ŠฌํŽ์ง€๋งŒ
00:58
but then he bounced right back
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜์—ฌ
00:59
with a supersmart archaeologist named Kate,
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์ผ€์ดํŠธ๋ผ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋˜‘๋˜‘ํ•œ ๊ณ ๊ณ ํ•™์ž์™€
01:03
and they had a gorgeous wedding
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์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์„ ์น˜๋ €์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:04
until Tina, seemingly back from the dead, ran into the church holding a baby.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์ฃฝ์—ˆ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์‚ด์•„๋‚œ ๋“ฏ ํ•œ ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ์•ˆ๊ณ  ๊ตํšŒ๋กœ ๋›ฐ์ณ๋“ค์–ด์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” "๋ฉˆ์ถฐ์š”!"๋ผ๊ณ  ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ณค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:09
"Stop!" she screamed.
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01:11
"Am I too late?
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"๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋Šฆ์—ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
01:12
Cord, I've come so far.
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์ฝ”๋“œ, ์ „ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€ ์™”์–ด์š”.
01:15
This is your son."
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋‹น์‹  ์•„๋“ค์ด์—์š”."
01:19
And that, ladies and gentlemen,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„, ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด
01:20
is how the soap opera "One Life to Live" introduced a love story
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"ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ์‚ด ์ธ์ƒ"์ด๋ผ๋Š” 25๋…„๋™์•ˆ ๋ฐฉ์˜ํ•œ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ์˜
์‚ฌ๋ž‘ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ ์ค„๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
that lasted 25 years.
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01:26
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
01:27
Now, if you've ever seen a soap opera,
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์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
01:29
you know the stories and the characters can be exaggerated, larger than life,
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์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์™€ ์ธ๋ฌผ๋“ค์ด ํ˜„์‹ค๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ณผ์žฅ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์•Œ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ 
01:34
and if you're a fan, you find that exaggeration fun,
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ํŒฌ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ ๊ณผ์žฅ์ด ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ 
01:37
and if you're not,
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ํŒฌ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
01:39
maybe you find them melodramatic or unsophisticated.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ณผ์žฅ๋˜๊ณ  ์„ธ๋ จ๋˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:42
Maybe you think watching soap operas
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ํ˜น์€ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋‚ญ๋น„๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ 
01:44
is a waste of time,
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01:45
that their bigness means their lessons are small or nonexistent.
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ํ—ˆํ’ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ตํ›ˆ์ด ์‚ฌ์†Œํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:50
But I believe the opposite to be true.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:53
Soap operas reflect life, just bigger.
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์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋Š” ์‚ถ์„ ๋‹จ์ง€ ํฌ๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
01:57
So there are real life lessons we can learn from soap operas,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์—ฐ์†๊ทน์„ ํ†ตํ•ด์„œ ์–ป์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹ค์ƒํ™œ ๊ตํ›ˆ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
02:01
and those lessons are as big and adventurous
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๊ทธ ๊ตํ›ˆ๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ์ค„๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด
02:04
as any soap opera storyline.
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ํฌ๊ณ  ๋ชจํ—˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:07
Now, I've been a fan since I ran home from the bus stop in second grade
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์ €๋Š” 2ํ•™๋…„ ๋•Œ ๋ฃจํฌ์™€ ๋กœ๋ผ์˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ ์žฅ๋ฉด์„ ๋ณด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
02:10
desperate to catch the end of Luke and Laura's wedding,
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๋ฒ„์Šค ์ •๋ฅ˜์žฅ์—์„œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ง‘๊นŒ์ง€ ํ•„์‚ฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋›ฐ์–ด๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ํŒฌ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:13
the biggest moment in "General Hospital" history.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ "์ข…ํ•ฉ ๋ณ‘์›"์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์ด์—ˆ์ฃ .
(๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
02:17
(Applause)
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02:18
So you can imagine how much I loved my eight years
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์ œ๊ฐ€ '์ง€๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋„๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ'์˜ ๋ณด์กฐ ๋ฐฐ์—ญ ๋‹ด๋‹น์ž๋กœ 8๋…„๊ฐ„ ์ผํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
02:21
as the assistant casting director on "As the World Turns."
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์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ํ–‰๋ณตํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ƒ์ƒํ•˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:24
My job was watching soap operas,
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์ œ ์ง์—…์€ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ 
02:26
reading soap opera scripts
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๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ๋Œ€๋ณธ์„ ์ฝ๊ณ 
๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ์— ์ถœ์—ฐํ•  ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋“ค์˜ ์˜ค๋””์…˜์„ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:28
and auditioning actors to be on soap operas.
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02:30
So I know my stuff.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€์ฃ .
02:33
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
02:34
And yes, soap operas
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๋„ค, ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ณผ์žฅ๋˜๊ณ 
02:36
are larger than life,
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02:39
drama on a grand scale,
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๋Œ€๊ทœ๋ชจ์˜ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ๋งž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๋งŒ
02:40
but our lives can be filled with as much intensity,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‚ถ์ด ๊ทธ๋งŒํผ ๊ฐ•๋ ฌํ•จ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋“ ์ฐฐ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ 
02:44
and the stakes can feel just as dramatic.
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๊ทธ๋งŒํผ ๊ทน์ ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
We cycle through tragedy and joy
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋น„๊ทน๊ณผ ๊ธฐ์จ ์‚ฌ์ด๋ฅผ ์ˆœํ™˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์ธ๋ฌผ๋“ค์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
02:50
just like these characters.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•œ๊ณ„์ ์„ ๊ฑด๋„ˆ๊ณ  ์š”๊ดด์™€ ์‹ธ์šฐ๋ฉฐ ๋œป๋ฐ–์˜ ๊ตฌ์›์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ 
02:52
We cross thresholds, fight demons and find salvation unexpectedly,
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02:56
and we do it again and again and again,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:59
but just like soaps, we can flip the script,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋น„๋ˆ„์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐ˜์ „์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:02
which means we can learn from these characters
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์ด๋Š” ๋ฒŒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์›€์ง์ด๋ฉฐ
03:04
that move like bumblebees,
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์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋Œ๊ณ  ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š”
03:06
looping and swerving through life.
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์บ๋ฆญํ„ฐ๋“ค๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ ๊ตํ›ˆ๋“ค์„ ํ†ตํ•ด
03:09
And we can use those lessons
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03:11
to craft our own life stories.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋งŒ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ฐฝ์กฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:13
Soap operas teach us to push away doubt
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์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ์˜์‹ฌ์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
03:17
and believe in our capacity
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์„ ๋ฏฟ๋„๋ก ํ•ด์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:19
for bravery, vulnerability,
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์šฉ๊ธฐ, ์•ฝ์ 
03:22
adaptability and resilience.
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์ ์‘๋ ฅ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํšŒ๋ณต ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
03:25
And most importantly, they show us
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ
03:27
it's never too late to change your story.
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋Šฆ์€ ๋ฒ•์€ ์—†์Œ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌํ•˜์—ฌ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ๊ตํ›ˆ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:31
So with that, let's start with soap opera lesson one:
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ํ•ญ๋ณต์€ ์„ ํƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:34
surrender is not an option.
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
03:36
(Laughter)
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"All My Children"์˜ ์—๋ฆฌ์นด ์ผ€์ธ์€ ์˜ค์ „ํŒ ์Šค์นผ๋ › ์˜คํ•˜๋ผ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:38
"All My Children"'s Erica Kane was daytime's version of Scarlett O'Hara,
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03:42
a hyperbolically self-important princess
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๊ณผ์žฅ๋˜๊ฒŒ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ณต์ฃผ์ด์ง€๋งŒ
03:45
who deep down was scrappy and daring.
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๋งˆ์Œ ๊นŠ์€ ๊ณณ์€ ๊ฐ•๊ฒฝํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋‹ดํ•˜์ฃ .
03:48
Now, in her 41 years on TV, perhaps Erica's most famous scene
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TV์— ์ถœ์—ฐํ•œ 41๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์—๋ฆฌ์นด์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ์žฅ๋ฉด์€ ์•„๋งˆ
03:52
is her alone in the woods
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ํ˜ผ์ž ์ˆฒ์†์—์„œ
03:54
suddenly face to face with a grizzly bear.
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๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ํšŒ์ƒ‰๊ณฐ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๋Š” ์žฅ๋ฉด์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:57
She screamed at the bear,
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๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๊ณฐ์—๊ฒŒ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์นฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:59
"You may not do this!
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"๋„ˆ๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์•ˆ๋ผ!
04:00
Do you understand me?
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๋‚ด ๋ง ์ดํ•ดํ•ด?
04:02
You may not come near me!
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ๋‚ด ๊ณ์— ์˜ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์–ด!
04:04
I am Erica Kane
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์—๋ฆฌ์นด ์ผ€์ธ์ด๊ณ 
04:06
and you are a filthy beast!"
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ๋”๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ง์Šน์ด์•ผ!"๋ผ๊ณ  ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ณค์ฃ .
(์›ƒ์Œ)
04:09
(Laughter)
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04:10
And of course the bear left,
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๊ณฐ์€ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋– ๋‚ฌ๊ณ 
04:12
so what that teaches us
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
04:14
is obstacles are to be expected
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์žฅ์• ๋ฌผ์€ ์˜ˆ์ƒ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๊ณ 
04:16
and we can choose to surrender or we can stand and fight.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•ญ๋ณตํ• ์ง€ ์‹ธ์šธ์ง€ ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
Pandora's Tim Westergren knows this better than most.
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ํŒ๋„๋ผ์˜ ํŒ€ ์›จ์Šคํ„ฐ๊ทธ๋ Œ์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ž˜ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์‹ค๋ฆฌ์ฝ˜ ๋ฐธ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์—๋ฆฌ์นด ์ผ€์ธ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ .
04:24
You might even call him the Erica Kane of Silicon Valley.
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ํŒ€๊ณผ ๊ทธ์˜ ๊ณต๋™ ์ฐฝ๋ฆฝ๊ฐ€๋“ค์€ 2๋ฐฑ์–ต ๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ(์•ฝ22์–ต์›)์ง€์› ์•„๋ž˜
04:28
Tim and his cofounders launched the company
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ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:30
with two million dollars in funding.
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04:31
They were out of cash the next year.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ ํ•ด ํ˜„๊ธˆ์ด ๊ณ ๊ฐˆ๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:34
Now, lots of companies fold at that point, but Tim chose to fight.
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์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ ์‹œ์ ์—์„œ ์ ‘์ง€๋งŒ, ํŒ€์€ ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:38
He maxed out 11 credit cards and racked up six figures in personal debt
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์‹ ์šฉ ์นด๋“œ 11๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์ตœ๋Œ€์น˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ˆ˜ ์–ต์›์˜ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๋น›์„ ์กŒ๋Š”๋ฐ๋„
04:42
and it still wasn't enough.
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์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:44
So every two weeks for two years on payday he stood in front of his employees
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ 2๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ 2์ฃผ๋งˆ๋‹ค ์›”๊ธ‰๋‚ ์— ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ง์›๋“ค ์•ž์— ์„œ์„œ
04:49
and he asked them to sacrifice their salaries,
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์›”๊ธ‰์„ ํฌ์ƒํ•ด๋‹ฌ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€ํƒํ–ˆ๊ณ 
๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:53
and it worked.
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04:54
More than 50 people deferred two million dollars,
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50๋ช…์ด ๋„˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด 20์–ต์„ ๋ฏธ๋ค˜๊ณ 
04:57
and now, more than a decade later,
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10๋…„ ๋„˜๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚œ ์ง€๊ธˆ
04:59
Pandora is worth billions.
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ํŒ๋„๋ผ๋Š” ์ˆ˜ ์‹ญ์–ต ๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ (์ˆ˜ ์กฐ์›)์˜ ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:02
When you believe that there is a way
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๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋ฉด
05:04
around or through whatever is in front of you,
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๋ˆˆ ์•ž์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Œ์•„์„œ ํ˜น์€ ๋šซ๊ณ 
05:07
that surrender is not an option,
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ํ•ญ๋ณต์€ ์„ ํƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฏฟ์œผ๋ฉด
05:09
you can overcome enormous obstacles.
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๊ฑฐ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์žฅ์• ๋ฌผ์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:13
Which brings us to soap opera lesson two:
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ตํ›ˆ์œผ๋กœ ์ด์–ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:15
sacrifice your ego and drop the superiority complex.
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์ž์กด์‹ฌ์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ์›” ์ฝคํ”Œ๋ ‰์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ์„ธ์š”.
05:20
Now, this is scary.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฌด์„ญ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:22
It's an acknowledgment of need or fallibility.
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๋ถ€์กฑํ•จ๊ณผ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
05:25
Maybe it's even an admission
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ํ˜น์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋งŒํผ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„
05:26
that we're not as special as we might like to think.
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์ธ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
"๊ฐ•์ธํ•˜๊ณ  ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด"์˜ ์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋‹ˆ ํฌ๋ ˆ์Šคํ„ฐ๋Š”
05:31
Stephanie Forrester of "The Bold and the Beautiful"
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05:33
thought she was pretty darn special.
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์ž์‹ ์ด ๊ฝค ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:35
She thought she was so special,
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๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•ด์„œ
05:36
she didn't need to mix with the riffraff from the valley,
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๊ณจ์งœ๊ธฐ์˜ ํ•˜์ธต๋ฏผ๋“ค๊ณผ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
05:39
and she made sure valley girl Brooke knew it.
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๊ณจ์งœ๊ธฐ์˜ ๋ธŒ๋ฃจํฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ๋„๋ก ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:42
But after nearly 25 years of epic fighting,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์•ฝ 25๋…„์˜ ๋Œ€๋‹จํ•œ ์‹ธ์›€ ์ดํ›„
05:45
Stephanie got sick and let Brooke in.
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์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋‹ˆ๋Š” ์งˆ๋ ธ๊ณ  ๋ธŒ๋ฃจํฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:49
They made amends,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•ฝ์†๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ๊ณ 
05:50
archenemies became soul mates
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๋‘ ์›์ˆ˜๋Š” ์ ˆ์นœ์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
05:52
and Stephanie died in Brooke's arms,
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์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋‹ˆ๋Š” ๋ธŒ๋ฃจํฌ์˜ ํ’ˆ์†์—์„œ ์ฃฝ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:55
and here's our takeaway.
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05:57
Drop your ego.
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์ž์กด์‹ฌ์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ์„ธ์š”.
์ธ์ƒ์— ๋‹น์‹ ๋งŒ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:59
Life is not about you.
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06:00
It's about us,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:02
and our ability to experience joy
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ–‰๋ณต์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ 
06:05
and love and to improve our reality
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์‚ฌ๋ž‘์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ˜„์‹ค์„ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์€
06:07
comes only when we make ourselves vulnerable
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ทจ์•ฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ 
06:10
and we accept responsibility for our actions
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•œ ํ˜น์€ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ฑ…์ž„์งˆ ๋•Œ
๋น„๋กœ์†Œ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:14
and our inactions,
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06:15
kind of like Howard Schultz, the CEO of Starbucks.
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์Šคํƒ€๋ฒ…์Šค์˜ CEO ํ•˜์›Œ๋“œ ์…œ์ธ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
06:18
Now, after a great run as CEO,
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CEO๋กœ์„œ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™œ ์ดํ›„
06:20
Howard stepped down in 2000,
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ํ•˜์›Œ๋“œ๋Š” 2000๋…„์— ๋ฌผ๋Ÿฌ๋‚ฌ๊ณ 
06:23
and Starbucks quickly overextended itself
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์Šคํƒ€๋ฒ…์Šค๋Š” ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ํ™•์žฅ๋˜์–ด
06:25
and stock prices fell.
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์ฃผ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋–จ์–ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:27
Howard rejoined the team in 2008,
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ํ•˜์›Œ๋“œ๋Š” 2008๋…„์— ๋‹ค์‹œ ํŒ€์— ํ•ฉ๋ฅ˜ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
06:29
and one of the first things he did
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๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋จผ์ € ํ•œ ์ผ์ด
06:31
was apologize to all 180,000 employees.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ 180,000๋ช…์˜ ์ง์›๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:36
He apologized.
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:38
And then he asked for help, honesty, and ideas in return.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ต๋ก€๋กœ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋„์›€, ์ •์ง๊ณผ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ์š”์ฒญํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:42
And now, Starbucks has more than doubled
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ง€๊ธˆ, ์Šคํƒ€๋ฒ…์Šค๋Š” ํ•˜์›Œ๋“œ๊ฐ€ ๋Œ์•„์˜จ ์ดํ›„๋กœ
06:45
its net revenue since Howard came back.
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์ˆœ์ด์ต์ด ๋‘ ๋ฐฐ ์ด์ƒ ์ฆ๊ฐ€ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์˜ณ๊ณ  ์•ˆ์ „ํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋Š” ์š•๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํฌ์ƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
06:48
So sacrifice your desire to be right or safe all the time.
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์ž์‹ ์€ ๋ฌผ๋ก , ์•„๋ฌด์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ๋„์›€์ด ์•ˆ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:52
It's not helping anyone, least of all you.
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06:55
Sacrifice your ego.
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์ž์กด์‹ฌ์„ ํฌ์ƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
06:59
Soap opera lesson three:
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์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ๊ตํ›ˆ ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ.
07:00
evolution is real.
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์ง„ํ™”๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:04
You're not meant to be static characters.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ์ •์ ์ธ ์ธ๋ฌผ์ด ๋  ์šด๋ช…์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:06
On television, static equals boring and boring equals fired.
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TV์—์„œ ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฑด ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๊ณง ํ•ด๊ณ ๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:10
Characters are supposed to grow and change.
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๋“ฑ์žฅ์ธ๋ฌผ๋“ค์€ ์„ฑ์žฅํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ณ€ํ™”ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:14
Now, on TV, those dynamic changes
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TV์—์„œ ๊ทธ ๋ฐ•์ง„๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ณ€ํ™”๋“ค์€
๊ฑฐ์นœ ์ „ํ™˜์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:17
can make for some rough transitions,
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07:19
particularly when a character is played by one person yesterday
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ํŠนํžˆ ๋“ฑ์žฅ์ธ๋ฌผ์„ ์–ด์ œ ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์—ฐ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ 
07:22
and played by someone new today.
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์—ฐ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
07:25
Recasting happens all the time on soaps.
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์žฌ์บ์ŠคํŒ…์€ ์—ฐ์†๊ทน์—์„œ ์ž์ฃผ ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:29
Over the last 20 years,
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์ง€๋‚œ 20๋…„๊ฐ„
07:31
four different actors have played the same key role
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๋„ค ๋ช…์˜ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋“ค์ด ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์˜ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์—ญํ• ์ธ
07:34
of Carly Benson on "General Hospital."
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"์ข…ํ•ฉ ๋ณ‘์›"์˜ ์นผ๋ฆฌ ๋ฒค์Šจ์„ ์—ฐ๊ธฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:37
Each new face triggered a change in the character's life and personality.
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๊ฐ๊ฐ์˜ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์–ผ๊ตด์€ ์ธ๋ฌผ์˜ ์‚ถ๊ณผ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์— ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ฃผ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:42
Now, there was always an essential nugget of Carly in there,
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ์นผ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ํŠน์„ฑ์€ ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
07:46
but the character and the story adapted to whomever was playing her.
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๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์—ฐ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š๋ƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ธ๋ฌผ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งž์ถฐ์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:51
And here's what that means for us.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:54
While we may not swap faces in our own lives,
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๋น„๋ก ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์–ผ๊ตด์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋„ ์ง„ํ™”ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:57
we can evolve too.
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07:58
We can choose to draw a circle around our feet and stay in that spot,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ฐœ ์ฃผ๋ณ€์— ์›์„ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์•ˆ์—๋งŒ ์žˆ์„์ง€
08:04
or we can open ourselves to opportunities
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ธฐํšŒ์— ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์—ด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:06
like Carly, who went from nursing student to hotel owner,
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๊ฐ„ํ˜ธ ํ•™์ƒ์—์„œ ํ˜ธํ…” ์ฃผ์ธ์ด ๋œ ์นผ๋ฆฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
08:11
or like Julia Child.
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ํ˜น์€ ์ค„๋ฆฌ์•„ ์ฐจ์ผ๋“œ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
08:13
Julia was a World War II spy,
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์ค„๋ฆฌ์•„๋Š” ์ œ 2์ฐจ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ๋Œ€์ „ ์ŠคํŒŒ์ด์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:16
and when the war ended, she got married, moved to France,
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์ „์Ÿ์ด ๋๋‚œ ํ›„, ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ”„๋ž‘์Šค๋กœ ์ด์‚ฌ๊ฐ”์œผ๋ฉฐ
08:19
and decided to give culinary school a shot.
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์š”๋ฆฌ ํ•™๊ต์— ๋„์ „์„ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ธฐ๋กœ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ค„๋ฆฌ์•„๋Š” ์ฑ…๊ณผ ๋ฐฉ์†ก์œผ๋กœ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ด ์š”๋ฆฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ํ˜์‹ ์„ ์ผ์œผ์ผฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:23
Julia, her books and her TV shows revolutionized the way America cooks.
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08:29
We all have the power to initiate change in our lives,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‚ถ์— ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ถˆ ํž˜์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:32
to evolve and adapt.
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์ง„ํ™”ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ ์‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
08:35
We make the choice,
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์„ ํƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:37
but sometimes life chooses for us, and we don't get a heads up.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€๋”์€ ์ธ์ƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋Œ€์‹ ์— ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ , ์˜ˆ๊ณ ๋„ ํ•ด์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋œป๋ฐ–์˜ ์ผ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ฝ”์•ž๊นŒ์ง€ ์˜ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:41
Surprise slams us in the face.
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08:43
You're flat on the ground, the air is gone,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์€ ๋•…์— ๋„˜์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ณต๊ธฐ๋Š” ์—†์–ด์กŒ๊ณ 
08:45
and you need resuscitation.
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์†Œ์ƒ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:47
So thank goodness for soap opera lesson four:
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ ๊ตํ›ˆ ๋„ค ๋ฒˆ์งธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹คํ–‰์Šค๋Ÿฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋ถ€ํ™œ์€ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:51
resurrection is possible.
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08:53
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
08:54
(Applause)
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(๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
08:58
In 1983, "Days of Our Lives"' Stefano DiMera died of a stroke,
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1983๋…„, '์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋‚˜๋‚ ๋“ค'์˜ ์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋…ธ ๋””๋ฉ”๋ผ๊ฐ€ ๋‡Œ์กธ์ค‘์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์‹ค ๊ทธ๋Š” 1984๋…„์—
09:03
but not really, because in 1984
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09:05
he died when his car plunged into the harbor,
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ํ•ญ๊ตฌ์— ์ฐจ๊ฐ€ ๋น ์กŒ์„ ๋•Œ ์ฃฝ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
09:08
and yet he was back in 1985 with a brain tumor.
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1985๋…„์—๋Š” ๋‡Œ์ข…์–‘์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ๋Œ์•„์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
(์›ƒ์Œ)
09:12
(Laughter)
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ๋‡Œ์ข…์–‘์ด ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์ฃฝ์ด๊ธฐ ์ „์—
09:13
But before the tumor could kill him,
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09:15
Marlena shot him, and he tumbled off a catwalk to his death.
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๋ง๋ฆฌ๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์ด์œผ๋กœ ์˜์•˜๊ณ , ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋ฌด๋Œ€์—์„œ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์ฃฝ์Œ์„ ๋งž์ดํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:20
And so it went for 30 years.
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ 30๋…„์ด๋‚˜ ์ง„ํ–‰๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:22
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
09:25
Even when we saw the body,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ์˜ ๋ชธ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ ๋„
09:27
we knew better.
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๋” ์ž˜ ์•Œ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:28
He's called the Phoenix for a reason.
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๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋ถˆ์‚ฌ์กฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ์šฐ๋Š” ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:32
And here's what that means for us.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ตํ›ˆ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋ฐฉ์†ก์ด ๊ณ„์† ๋˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ์—๋Š”
09:35
As long as the show is still on the air,
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09:37
or you're still breathing,
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๊ณ„์† ์ˆจ์„ ์‰ฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
09:39
nothing is permanent.
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์˜๊ตฌ์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:41
Resurrection is possible.
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๋ถ€ํ™œ์€ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:45
Now, of course, just like life,
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๋ฌผ๋ก , ์ธ์ƒ์ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด
09:48
soap operas do ultimately meet the big finale.
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์ผ์ผ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋“ค์€ ๊ถ๊ทน์ ์ธ ํ”ผ๋‚ ๋ ˆ๋ฅผ ๋งž์ดํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:52
CBS canceled my show, "As The World Turns," in December 2009,
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CBS๋Š” ์ œ ๋ฐฉ์†ก "์ง€๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋„๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ"์„ 2009๋…„ 12์›”์— ์ทจ์†Œํ–ˆ๊ณ 
09:57
and we shot our final episode
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์ €ํฌ๋Š” ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ํšŒ๋ฅผ
09:58
in June 2010.
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2010๋…„ 6์›”์— ์ดฌ์˜ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:00
It was six months of dying
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ 6๊ฐœ์›” ๋™์•ˆ์˜ ์ฃฝ์Œ์ด์—ˆ๊ณ 
10:02
and I rode that train right into the mountain.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ ๊ธฐ์ฐจ๋ฅผ ํƒ€๊ณ  ์‚ฐ ์•ˆ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:06
And even though we were in the middle of a huge recession
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €ํฌ๋Š” ํฐ ๋ถˆ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
์ˆ˜ ์ฒœ๋งŒ๋ช…์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ผ์„ ์ฐพ๋Š๋ผ ๊ณ ์ƒํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Œ์—๋„ ๋ถˆ๊ตฌํ•˜๊ณ 
10:09
and millions of people were struggling to find work,
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10:12
I somehow thought everything would be OK.
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์ €๋Š” ์™ ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์งˆ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์•„์ด๋“ค์„ ๋ฐ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ธŒ๋ฃจํด๋ฆฐ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์•„ํŒŒํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ณ 
10:15
So I packed up the kids and the Brooklyn apartment,
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10:17
and we moved in with my in-laws
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์•Œ๋ผ๋ฐ”๋งˆ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹œ๋Œ๊ณผ
10:20
in Alabama.
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:21
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
10:24
Three months later, nothing was OK.
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3๊ฐœ์›” ๋’ค, ์•„๋ฌด ๊ฒƒ๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:27
That was when I watched the final episode air,
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ํšŒ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฉ์†ก๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์•˜์„ ๋•Œ์˜€๊ณ 
10:32
and I realized the show was not the only fatality.
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์‡ผ๋งŒ ์ฃฝ์€ ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹˜์„ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ €๋„ ์ฃฝ์€ ์ž์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:37
I was one too.
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์ €๋Š” ์ง์žฅ์ด ์—†์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
10:39
I was unemployed and living on the second floor
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์‹œ๋Œ์˜ ์ด์ธต์— ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
10:41
of my in-laws' home,
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10:43
and that's enough to make anyone feel dead inside.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ์ •์ด ๋ฉ”๋งˆ๋ฅด๋„๋ก ํ• ๋งŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
(์›ƒ์Œ)
10:46
(Laughter)
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:48
But I knew my story wasn't over,
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10:50
that it couldn't be over.
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๋๋‚ฌ์„ ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์—†์—ˆ์ฃ .
10:52
I just had to tap into everything I had ever learned about soap operas.
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์ €๋Š” ์—ฐ์†๊ทน์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฐฐ์šด ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:58
I had to be brave like Erica and refuse to surrender,
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์ €๋Š” ์—๋ฆฌ์นด์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์šฉ๊ฐํ•ด์ ธ์„œ ํ•ญ๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:01
so every day, I made a decision to fight.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ๋งค์ผ ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ €๋Š” ์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋‹ˆ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์—ฐ์•ฝํ•˜๊ณ 
11:06
I had to be vulnerable like Stephanie
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11:08
and sacrifice my ego.
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์ œ ์ž์กด์‹ฌ์„ ํฌ์ƒํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ €๋Š” ๋งŽ์€ ์ฃผ๋ฅผ ๊ฑด๋„ˆ์„œ ๋„์›€์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:10
I had to ask for help a lot of times across many states.
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11:14
I had to be adaptable like Carly
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์ €๋Š” ์นผ๋ฆฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์ ์‘์„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
11:18
and evolve my skills, my mindset, and my circumstances,
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์ œ ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ๊ณผ ์ •์‹ , ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฐœ์ „์‹œ์ผœ์•ผ ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
11:21
and then I had to be resilient, like Stefano,
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์Šคํ…ŒํŒŒ๋…ธ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํšŒ๋ณต์„ธ๋ฅผ ํƒ€์„œ
11:24
and resurrect myself and my career
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์ œ ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ ์ง์—…์„ ๋ถ€ํ™œ์‹œ์ผœ์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:27
like a phoenix from the ashes.
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์žฌ์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š” ๋ถˆ์‚ฌ์กฐ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
11:30
Eventually I got an interview.
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๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ €๋Š” ์ธํ„ฐ๋ทฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:33
After 15 years in news and entertainment,
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๋‰ด์Šค์™€ ์—ฐ์˜ˆ๊ณ„์—์„œ 15๋…„
11:36
nine months of unemployment
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9๊ฐœ์›” ๋™์•ˆ์˜ ์‹ค์—…
11:38
and this one interview,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด ํ•œ ๊ฑด์˜ ์ธํ„ฐ๋ทฐ ํ›„
11:41
I had an offer for an entry level job.
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์ €๋Š” ์‹ ์ž… ์‚ฌ์› ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ €๋Š” 37์‚ด์ด์—ˆ๊ณ 
11:45
I was 37 years old
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11:46
and I was back from the dead.
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์ €๋Š” ์ฃฝ์Œ์—์„œ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋Œ์™€์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:50
We will all experience what looks like an ending,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:53
and we can choose to make it a beginning.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“ค๋„๋ก ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ธฐ์ ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํญํฌ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๋‚œ ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
11:56
Kind of like Tina, who miraculously survived that waterfall,
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12:00
and because I hate to leave a cliffhanger hanging,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์†์— ๋•€์„ ์ฅ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹ซ์–ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
12:02
Tina and Cord did get divorced,
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ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜์™€ ์ฝ”๋“œ๋Š” ์ดํ˜ผํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
๋‘˜์€ 2012๋…„ ๋๋‚˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์žฌํ˜ผ์„ ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:05
but they got remarried three times before the show went off the air in 2012.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
12:11
So remember,
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12:12
as long as there is breath in your body,
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์‚ด์•„ ์ˆจ์‰ฌ๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ์—๋Š”
12:16
it's never too late to change your story.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ธฐ์— ๋Šฆ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:19
Thank you.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:20
(Applause)
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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