Mentalism, mind reading and the art of getting inside your head | Derren Brown | TED

Translator: Lilly Riantoby Reviewer: Azfa Adid

We are all trapped

Kita semua terperangkap

inside our own heads,

di dalam kepala kita,

and our beliefs and our understandings about the world are limited

kepercayaan dan pengetahuan kita tetang dunia dibatasi

by that perspective,

oleh sudut pandang itu,

which means we tell ourselves stories.

yang berarti kita bercerita pada diri kita sendiri.

Right? So here we are in this infinite data source.

Jadi di sini kita punya sumber data tak terbatas.

There's an infinite number of things that we could think about,

Ada banyak hal yang tak terbatas yang bisa kita pikirkan,

but we edit and delete.

tapi kita ubah dan hapus.

We choose what to think about, what to pay attention to.

Kita memilih apa yang kita pikirkan, apa yang kita perhatikan.

We make up a story ...

Kita mengarang cerita ...

to make sense of what's going on,

untuk memahami apa yang terjadi,

and we all get it wrong.

tapi kita semua salah.

Because we're all trying to navigate with our own skewed compasses,

Karena kita mencoba untuk menavigasi dengan kompas yang miring,

and we all have our own baggage,

dan kita punya keyakinan sendiri,

but the stories themselves are utterly convincing.

tapi cerita itu sendiri sangat meyakinkan.

And we all do this,

Dan kita melakukan ini,

and a lot of the stories that we live by aren't even our own.

dan banyak cerita yang kita jalani bahkan bukan milik kita.

The first ones we inherit at a young age from our parents,

Hal pertama yang kita warisi dari orang tua kita,

who of course have their own skewed beliefs,

yang tentu punya keyakinan sendiri,

their own frustrations, their own unlived lives.

rasa frustrasi, dan kehidupan yang tidak mereka jalani.

And for better or worse, we take all that onboard,

baik dalam untung maupun malang kita membawanya,

and then we go out into the world

dan kita pergi ke dunia luar

thinking maybe we have to be successful to be loved;

berpikir mungkin kita harus sukses agar disukai;

or that we always have to put other people's needs first;

atau kita harus mendahulukan kebutuhan orang lain;

or that we have some big terrible secret we couldn't possible tell people.

atau kita punya rahasia besar yang tak bisa dikatakan.

And it's just fiction, it's just stories,

Dan itu hanya fiksi, hanya cerita,

and we'd worry a lot less about what other people think of us

dan kita tidak terlalu cemas tentang omongan orang

if we realized how seldom they do.

jika kita sadar betapa jarang mereka lakukan itu.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

So I feel that magic is a great analogy for how we edit reality and form a story

Saya rasa sulap menggambarkan cara kita mengubah realita dan bercerita

and then mistake that story for the truth,

lalu menganggapnya realita,

and I've had a 20-year career in the UK

dan saya telah berkarier selama 20 tahun di UK

staging big psychological experiments on TV,

melakukan eksperimen psikologi di TV,

and now that's on Netflix.

dan sekarang tayang di Netflix.

I also have a stage show.

Saya juga punya pertunjukan panggung

I've got my first Broadway show actually coming up, called "Secret."

dan pertunjukan Broadway yang akan segera tayang, namanya "Secret".

Just throwing that out there. No pressure.

Saya tidak memaksa, hanya memberi tahu

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

That should be this year.

Ya seharusnya tayang tahun ini.

And I try to do something new with mentalism, mentalism,

Dan saya mencoba hal baru dengan mentalitas,

which is the dubious art of getting inside your head.

yang merupakan seni yang diragukan masuk ke dalam pikiran Anda.

So there was a heyday for this kind of stage mind-reading,

Ada masa kejayaan untuk tahap membaca pikiran,

which was the 1930s.

yaitu tahun 1930-an.

That's why I'm dressed like this,

Itulah mengapa saya berpakaian seperti ini,

in my most un-TED-like garb.

dalam pakaian saya yang tak seperti biasa.

And there was an act, an act known as the Oracle Act.

Dan ada suatu adegan, yang dikenal sebagai Oracle Act

And in the Oracle Act, members of the audience,

Dan di dalam Oracle Act, para penonton,

as I know you have done,

seperti yang sudah Anda lakukan,

would write down secret questions,

akan menulis pertanyaan rahasia,

the sort of questions you might ask a psychic,

pertanyaan yang mungkin Anda tanyakan ke paranormal,

seal that question into an envelope,

memasukkan pertanyaan itu ke dalam amplop,

and on the outside of the envelope they would write their initials

dan di bagian luar amplop mereka akan menulis inisial mereka

and then roughly where they sat in the audience.

dan kurang lebih di tempat mereka duduk.

And then the Oracle, the mind reader, would take an envelope one at a time,

Kemudian sang Oracle, akan mengambil amplop satu persatu,

he wouldn't open it,

dia tidak akan membukanya,

but he would attempt to divine what question was sealed inside.

tapi dia akan coba menebak apa pertanyaannya.

And if he got that right, he would try and answer the question

Dan jika dia benar, dia akan coba menjawabnya

for the person too.

untuk penonton itu juga.

And the act spread like wildfire.

Adegan itu tersebar luas.

It's a testament, I think, to the seductive appeal

Saya rasa ini adalah bukti daya tarik

of some powerful figure offering you easy, simple answers

seseorang yang memberi jawaban yang mudah dan sederhana

to life's complex and subtle questions

untuk pertanyaan yang kompleks dan cerdik

and anxieties.

dan rasa cemas.

So thank you all of you that wrote questions.

Terima kasih semuanya yang telah bertanya.

I haven't seen these. I know somebody's guarding them.

Saya belum melihatnya, ada penjaganya.

Thank you so much.

Terima kasih banyak.

I will take those now. Thank you all of you that did this.

Akan saya ambil sekarang. Terima kasih untuk Anda semua.

I should say, probably, a couple of things before I start.

Saya harus mengatakan sesuatu sebelum saya mulai.

In absolute honesty,

Sejujurnya,

first of all I can't see through these envelopes.

Pertama, saya tidak bisa menerawang amplop ini.

They are sealed. They are thick black envelopes.

Amplop hitam dan tebal yang disegel.

You'll know if you wrote one. I can't see through them.

Anda tahu saya tidak bisa menerawangnya.

Secondly, importantly, I don't know any of you

Kedua, saya tidak mengenal satupun dari Anda

and nobody is playing along.

dan tidak ada rekayasa apapun.

That's not what this is.

Tidak ada.

Thirdly ...

Ketiga ...

I don't believe for a second that I have any special psychological gifts,

Saya tidak percaya sedetik pun saya punya bakat psikologis khusus

let alone any psychic ones.

apalagi yang psikis.

So let's begin.

Mari mulai.

Nope.

Tidak.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

OK, this --

OK, ini --

Oh, nice.

Oh, menarik.

OK, this one's interesting. There's a couple here.

OK, ini menarik. Ada dua di sini.

I will start with maybe this one.

Akan saya mulai dengan yang satu ini.

This one's interesting, because the writing undulates.

Ini menarik, karena tulisannya bergelombang.

There's a sort of an up and down thing,

Ada naik dan turun,

which normally -- not always -- normally means

yang biasanya -- tak selalu -- berarti

that the person doesn't know the answer to the question themselves,

orang itu tidak tahu jawaban dari pertanyaan itu sendiri,

so it's normally a question about the future, right?

jadi biasanya pertanyaan tentang masa depan, 'kan?

That sort of suggests uncertainty.

Itu menandakan keraguan.

So I would say it's a lady,

Jadi saya rasa dia seorang wanita,

age-wise it's a little difficult to tell from this minimal handwriting,

Dari segi usia sulit diketahui dari tulisan singkat ini,

but I would expect maybe 30s, maybe 40s, but let's find out.

mungkin 30 tahun-an, mungkin 40 tahun-an, mari kita lihat.

It says -- and a question about the future --

Tertulis -- pertanyaan tentang masa depan --

it says, "JN, center."

tertulis, "JN, tengah."

So it's going to be somebody in this big central section here.

Jadi seseorang di bagian tengah.

If you think this is you, if you wrote one,

Jika Anda rasa ini dari Anda,

could you make a fuss?

bisakah Anda berdiri?

It's a bit difficult for me to see in the center.

Agak sulit buat saya untuk melihat ke tengah.

Hi, give us a wave.

Hai, lambaikan tangan.

So J ...

Nah J ...

Jane? Jessica?

Jane? Jessica?

Jessica: Yes.

Jessica: Ya

Derren Brown: Which one? Jessica: Jessica.

Derren Brown: Yang mana? Jessica: Jessica.

DB: Thank you. Just a guess. Little murmur of approval, thank you?

DB: Terima kasih. Cuma menebak. Bergumam setuju, terima kasih?

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

I'll take it.

Saya terima.

Alright, so Jessica, I won't ask your age,

Baik, Jessica, saya tak akan tanya usiamu,

but is it a question essentially about the future?

tapi ini pertanyaan penting soal masa depan?

Jessica: Mhm? DB: Yes?

Jessica: Mhm? DB: Ya?

Jessica: Yes. DB: Yes. OK.

Jessica: Ya. DB: Ya. OK

Alright. So what did we ask? What did Jessica ask about the future?

Baik. Apa yang kita tanyakan? Apa yang Jessica tanyakan soal masa depan?

So am I OK with late-30s, early-40s?

Jadi akhir 30-an, awal 40-an?

Jessica: I'll take it. I'm taking it.

Jessica: Boleh saja. Saya terima.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

DB: OK, so it's important,

DB: OK, ini penting,

because we ask different questions depending how old we are.

karena pertanyaan bergantung pada usia.

Just say, "I'll take it" again.

Katakan "Saya terima" lagi.

Jessica: I'll take it.

Jessica: Saya terima.

DB: Virginia? You're from Virginia? Jessica: Yes, I am.

DB: Virginia? Anda dari Virginia? Jessica: Ya, benar.

DB: Yeah. So --

DB: Baiklah. Jadi ---

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

I think this is a lady,

Saya rasa ini seorang wanita

I think this is a lady who wants to leave Virginia.

yang ingin meninggalkan Virginia.

I think you're looking at plans,

Saya rasa Anda sedang menyusun rencana,

it's whether or not things are going to come together to get out.

yang akan berakhir sukses atau gagal.

Just show me your hands.

Perlihatkan tangan Anda.

Other sides so I can see fingernails?

Perlihatkan kuku jari Anda?

OK, I think you have a farm

OK, saya rasa Anda punya peternakan

and it's whether or not you're going to sell your farm and get out of Virginia?

dan ini soal entah Anda akan menjualmya dan pergi dari Virginia?

Is this right?

Benar begitu?

Jessica: Absolutely, that's the question.

Jessica: Tepat sekali, itu pertanyaannya.

DB: Alright. Great. Thank you. It's a great question!

DB: Baguslah. Terima Kasih. Pertanyaan menarik!

What was the actual question? What did you put?

Apa pertanyaan yang sebenarnya? Apa yang Anda tulis?

Jessica: "Will I sell the farm in Virginia?"

Jessica: "Akankah saya jual peternakan saya?"

DB: Will you sell the farm?

DB: Akahkah menjualnya?

Alright, so look, it's a great question if you are pretending to be psychic,

Dengar, ini pertanyaan menarik jika Anda pura-pura menjadi peramal,

because it's about the future,

karena ini soal masa depan,

which means I can give you a yes or no on this.

artinya saya bisa menjawab ya atau tidak.

It means nothing. You have no way of verifying it.

yang mana Anda tidak bisa memastikannya.

And a dangerous thing to do --

Itu berbahanya --

and if I say yes or no, it'll just stick in the back of your mind,

jika saya berkata ya atau tidak, itu hanya masuk ke pikiran Anda

dan bisa memengaruhi keputusan Anda,

and it can't not start to affect decisions you make.

So a dangerous thing to do. However --

Itu berbahaya. Tapi --

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

Yes, I think you will sell the farm,

Ya, saya rasa Anda akan menjual sawah Anda

because I think you're the sort of person

karena saya rasa Anda tipe orang

that in the nicest way will get what you want.

yang akan mendapatkan keinginan Anda.

I think when there are things you want, you tend to focus on them

Saya rasa ketika Anda ingin sesuatu, Anda akan fokus pada hal itu

at the expense of other things

dan melupakan hal lainnya

that you know you probably should be focusing on more,

yang Anda tahu butuh fokus lebih,

would you agree?

Anda setuju?

Educated, you spent a few years in --

Berpendidikan, Anda menghabiskan beberapa tahun di --

Say yes again, the word "yes" quickly? Jessica: Yes.

Katakan "ya" lagi? Jessica: Ya.

DB: No? Jessica: No.

DB: Tidak? Jessica: Tidak.

DB: California? Berkeley? A bit of a guess, but ...

DB: California, Berkeley? Cuma menebak, tapi ...

Jessica: I went to Berkeley, yes. Stop doing this!

Jessica: Ya saya sekolah di Berkeley. Berhenti lakukan ini!

DB: So it's a yes.

DB: Jadi benar.

Oh, and you've been to India recently as well.

Oh, Anda pergi ke India belum lama ini.

There's just a tiny, tiny little thing going on there. Yes? No?

Ada hal kecil yang terjadi? Ya? Tidak?

Jessica: Yes, I just got back from India.

Jessica: Ya, baru kembali dari India.

DB: It's a yes from me, I just don't want to say it like it's written in the stars

DB: Ya, saya hanya tidak ingin berkata jawabannya tertulis di bintang,

because it isn't, and you need to take responsibility for it.

karena memang tidak, dan Anda harus bertanggung jawab.

DB: Have a seat. Thank you. Let's do another one.

DB: Duduklah. Terima kasih. Satu kali lagi.

(Applause)

(Tepuk tangan)

AH, also in the center? AH.

AH, juga di tengah? AH.

This will be a man, a little older, maybe late 40s, I would say from this.

Kali ini seorang pria, agak lebih tua, mungkin akhir 40-an.

AH, center, stand up for me if you think this is you.

AH, yang di tengah, tolong berdiri jika ini diri Anda.

AH. Hi, let's get a microphone to this guy.

AH. Hai, mari beri mikrofon ke pria ini.

Quick as we can, on camera would be amazing.

Secepatnya, di kamera lebih bagus.

Oh, look at that! Freeze. Don't move. Don't move.

Oh, lihat itu! Berhenti. Jangan bergerak.

Keep absolutely still.

Benar-benar diam.

Are you standing? Where are you?

Anda berdiri? Di mana?

Man: I am standing. I'm not that short.

Pria: Saya berdiri tak sependek itu.

DB: OK.

DB: OK.

Alright, now you changed that.

Baik, Anda mengubahnya.

There was just something you did as you got up.

Ada yang Anda lakukan saat berdiri.

Yes or no, have you put something on here --

Ya atau tidak, Anda meletakkan sesuatu --

you're not doing it now, but you did it as you stood up --

Anda sedang melakukannya, tapi Anda lakukan saat bediri --

to do with your left or your left leg or your left foot, yes or no?

ada hubungannya dengan kaki kiri Anda, ya atau tidak?

Man: Yes.

Pria: Ya.

DB: Alright. He was giving us a nice clear signal as he stood up.

DB: Baik. Dia memberi sinyal saat dia berdiri.

Put your weight on your left-hand side and say "yes."

Tumpu berat badan Anda di sisi kiri dan katakan "ya".

Man: Yes.

Pria: Ya.

DB: Take your hand out of that pocket, put your weight on the other side,

DB: Keluarkan tangan dari dalam saku, tumpu berat badan di sisi satunya,

change hands with the mic and say "yes" again.

pegang mikrofon dan katakan "ya" lagi.

Man: Yes.

Pria: Ya.

DB: You have a dislocation

DB: Anda mengalami dislokasi

in the big toe on your left-hand side?

di ibu jari kiri Anda?

Man: Yes.

Pria: Ya.

DB: Thank you so much. Great. Good one! Take a seat. Take a seat.

DB: Terima kasih. Bagus. Silakan duduk.

Can I get the microphone? I'm going to change microphone for this.

Bisa saya ambil mikrofonnya? Saya perlu ganti mikrofon.

Can I grab a mic up? Thank you.

Bisa saya ambil? Terima kasih.

Thank you so much. That would be great there.

Terima kasih banyak.

I'm going to change mic because,

Saya akan ganti mikrofon

hopefully you can now still hear me?

supaya Anda masih bisa dengar?

So I'm going to blindfold myself.

Saya tutup mata dengan kain.

And I'm doing this now so I don't have the clues as you stand up.

Saya lakukan sekarang agar saya tidak tahu saat Anda berdiri,

I can't see where you put your hands.

dan tidak melihat posisi tangan Anda.

I can't see how you respond to what I'm saying.

Saya tak bisa melihat respons Anda.

I can't see what the people next to you are doing either.

Saya juga tak bisa melihat orang di sebelah Anda.

If they know the answers to the question, that's always very helpful.

Jika mereka tahu jawabannya, akan sangat membantu.

I won't have those advantages,

Saya tak punya keuntungan itu.

but strangely,

tapi anehnya,

this frees me up,

ini membuat saya bebas,

and I want this to free you up as well,

dan saya ingin Anda juga bebas,

so if you didn't write a question

jika Anda tak menulis pertanyaan

but you wish that you had done,

tapi Anda berharap telah melakukannya,

you can still take part.

Maka bergabunglah.

The point of writing the question is only that it just kind of gets

Inti dari menulis pertanyaan adalah untuk mendapatkan

a nice, clear, succinct wording in your head.

kata-kata yang jelas dan ringkas di kepala Anda.

So if you can just find a question in your head,

Jadi jika Anda punya pertanyaan di kepala Anda.

make it clear and succinct, just send it to me,

buat dengan ringkas, kirimkan pada saya,

and I'll try and do this now without anything written down.

dan akan saya coba melakukannya tanpa menulis apapun.

So just start to form questions but send me your name as well.

Mulailah membuat pertanyaan tapi kirim juga nama Anda.

"My name is," whatever that last guy was,

"Nama saya" siapapun nama pria tadi,

and "what's strange about my feet," or whatever the question was.

dan "apa yang aneh dengan kaki saya," atau apapun itu.

So name and question.

Jadi nama dan pertanyaan.

There is somebody already, I'm guessing you're quite near the front,

Sudah ada satu orang, Saya rasa Anda cukup dekat,

because your name is quite clear.

karena nama Anda sangat jelas.

Feels like you're in the center at the front.

Rasanya Anda di bagian tengah depan.

OK, let me just ... Allan?

OK, biarkan saya ... Allan?

Feels like there's an Allan.

Rasanya ada seorang Allan.

And you're going to be quite near the front, vaguely central, I think.

dan Anda cukup dekat di depan, agak ke tengah, saya rasa.

Feels like it's coming from right there.

Rasanya datang dari sana.

There's like a man, maybe early 60s, something like that.

Ada seorang pria, mungkin awal 60-an.

Allan: Yes.

Allan: Ya.

DB: You've got a mic? Great, thank you.

DB: Kau punya mic? Bagus, terima kasih.

Allan, just say "stop" when I get to you so that I know where you are,

Katakan "stop" saat saya menggapai jadi saya tahu di mana Anda berada,

where to face.

kemana harus menghadap.

Allan: Stop.

Allan: Stop.

DB: You a Capricorn? Allan: Yes.

DB: Anda seorang Capricorn? Allan: Ya.

DB: So Allan has something in his head.

DB: Jadi, ada sesuatu di pikiran Allan.

Now, did you hear it, hear the reserve in his voice?

Anda dengar itu, kehati-hatian dalam suaranya?

It's going to be something really tricky.

Ini akan semakin rumit.

I think with you ... Just say "yes" again for me?

Saya rasa Anda... Katakan "ya" lagi

Allan: Yes.

Allan: Ya.

DB: It's going to be either --

DB: Itu adalah antara --

no it's not.

bukan.

It's access, it's a password or access to something.

Itu akses, itu kata sandi atau akses ke sesuatu.

Have you got something, just yes or no, with a password in your head?

Apa Anda punya sesuatu, ya atau tidak, Anda memikirkan kata sandi?

Allan: Yes.

Allan: Ya.

DB: A computer password, that sort of thing?

DB: Kata sandi komputer, hal semacam itu?

Allan: Yes.

Allan: Ya.

DB: Excellent!

DB: Luar biasa!

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

In that case, I'm going to finish on this one. Let me ---

Kalau begitu, akan saya selesaikan yang satu ini.

If I get this right,

Jika saya benar,

they're all going to know what it is, and millions of people potentially.

mereka semua akan tahu apa itu.

You will change it, won't you?

Anda akan mengubahnya, 'kan?

Allan: Of course.

Allan: Tentu saja.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

DB: Just say "of course" again? Allan: Of course.

DB: Katakan "tentu saja" lagi? Allan: Tentu saja.

DB: Alright. If it's a word -- I imagine it's a word, right --

DB: Baiklah. Kalau itu sebuah kata -- Saya rasa itu satu kata, --

just see the password written in front of you,

lihat, kata sandinya tertulis di depan Anda,

big clear block capital letters,

huruf besar yang jelas,

and as you look at it, think for me of a letter somewhere in the middle,

dan saat Anda melihatnya, pikirkan sebuah huruf di suatu tempat di tengah,

don't say it out loud,

jangan katakan itu keras-keras

just get a letter in your head that's in the middle.

pikirkan saja huruf yang di tengah.

Have you got one? Allan: Yeah.

Sudah dapat? Allan: Ya.

DB: OK, stick with that for me.

DB: OK, tetap dengan itu saja.

Ah, you changed it, OK.

Ah, Anda mengubahnya, OK

You changed your mind there.

Anda berubah pikiran.

I think you settled on a --

Saya rasa Anda setuju ---

I think that's a "B", yes?

Saya rasa itu huruf "B", benar?

Allan: No.

Allan: Tidak

I didn't.

Bukan itu.

DB: Then it's an "I"? Allan: Correct.

DB: Apakah itu "I"? Allan: Benar.

DB: But you had a B. Allan: Yes.

DB: Tapi Anda punya B. Allan: Ya.

DB: Yeah, he changed his mind. He changed his mind.

DB: Ya, dia berubah pikiran.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

So see it written there.

Jadi lihat yang tertulis di sana.

Just keep saying it to yourself in your head.

Terus katakan saja di kepala Anda.

Oh, you play drums, don't you.

Oh, Anda bermain drum, bukan.

Allan: I do.

Allan: Benar.

DB: Just get that out of your head, get that out of your head,

DB: Keluarkan itu dari kepala Anda,

just focus on this one thing for me.

fokus pada satu hal ini untuk Anda.

(Laughter)

(Tertawa)

My job is to sell you a story, right?

Tugas saya menjual cerita, bukan?

I try and do this to all of you, to get you to pay attention

Saya coba lakukan ini, agar Anda memperhatikan

to one thing that I want you to find important,

satu hal yang saya ingin Anda anggap penting,

ignore other things that I want you to ignore,

abaikan hal yang saya ingin Anda abaikan,

and then join up those narrative dots

menggabungkan titik-titik naratif itu

to tell yourself a certain story about what I'm doing,

untuk bercerita tentang apa yang saya lakukan,

and this only works because we are story-forming creatures,

dan ini bekerja karena kita adalah makhluk pembuat cerita,

which means we do this every day.

kita melakukan ini setiap hari.

We go out into this complex and subtle world

Kita pergi ke dunia yang kompleks dan cerdik

full of a complex and subtle people like you and me, Allan,

penuh dengan orang yang kompleks seperti kita, Allan,

and we reduce them to these neat characters

dan kita menjadikan mereka karakter yang rapi

that fit whatever story we're telling ourselves,

yang cocok dengan narasi kita,

and we say, "She's insecure," "He's arrogant," "They can't be trusted."

kita berkata, "dia minder, sombong," "mereka tak bisa dipercaya."

And these are just stories like the story that I can somehow read your mind.

Dan ini hanyalah cerita seperti cerita bahwa saya bisa membaca pikiran Anda.

You're thinking of selling your company as well, aren't you, at the moment.

Anda beripikir untuk menjual perusahaan Anda juga, bukan.

Allan: Correct.

Allan: Benar.

DB: Which is something to do with skin?

DB: Ada hubungannya dengan kulit?

Allan: Yes.

Allan: Ya.

DB: Skin care or something like this.

DB: Perawatan kulit atau semacamnya?

Allan: Uh, yes.

Allan: Ah, Ya.

DB: And I think the reason why I love doing this

DB: Saya memikirkan mengapa saya suka ini

is that it reminds me at least to try and be more alive and alert

adalah karena ini mengingatkan saya untuk lebih waspada

to the complexity and the subtlety of what's real,

terhadap kompleksitas sesuatu yang nyata,

that there's always other stuff going on that we don't know about,

bahwa selalu ada hal yang tidak kita ketahui,

and it means we can get less stuck, we can be kinder to people

dan berarti kita bisa rendah diri, dan baik kepada orang lain

because we can recognize there's always fear behind their stress,

karena kita mengenali ada ketakutan di balik stres mereka,

so we don't need to meet it as defensively,

sehingga kita tidak perlu berlaku defensif,

and we can start to see the stories for what they are

dan kita bisa melihat cerita itu sebagaimana adanya

and recognize that life isn't all about us.

dan menyadari bahwa kehidupan bukan hanya tentang kita.

Oh!

Oh!

Your password, where are you? Where are you? Where is he?

Kata sandimu, Anda di mana? Di mana dia?

Allan: Right here.

Allan: Di sini.

DB: Stand up for me. Your password is "ariboy."

DB: Tolong berdiri. Kata sandi Anda adalah "ariboy."

A-r-i-b-o-y? Is that right? Allan: That's correct.

A-r-i-b-o-y? benar begitu? Allan: Benar.

DB: Then thank you so much. Thank you very much indeed.

DB: Terima kasih banyak. Terima kasih.

Thank you.

Terima kasih.

(Applause)

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