What comes after tragedy? Forgiveness | Azim Khamisa and Ples Felix

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譯者: Lilian Chiu 審譯者: Adrienne Lin
00:13
Azim Khamisa: We humans have many defining moments in our lives.
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亞辛卡米薩:我們人類在一生中 有許多決定性的關鍵時刻。
00:18
Sometimes these moments are joyous,
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有時,這些時刻是喜悅的,
00:20
and sometimes they are heartbreaking,
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有時,它們是讓人心碎的、
00:23
tragic.
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悲劇性的。
00:25
But at these defining moments, if we are able to make the right choice,
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但在這些關鍵時刻, 如果我們能做出對的選擇,
00:30
we literally manifest a miracle
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我們就可說是創造出了一個奇蹟,
00:33
in us and others.
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在我們心中,也在他人心中的奇蹟。
00:37
My only son Tariq, a university student,
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我的獨子塔瑞克是個大學生,
00:39
kind, generous, a good writer, a good photographer,
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是個仁慈、慷慨的 優秀作家及優秀攝影師,
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had aspirations to work for National Geographic,
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他的志向是要為國家地理雜誌工作,
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engaged to a beautiful lady,
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他和一位美麗女子訂婚,
00:49
worked as a pizza deliveryman on Fridays and Saturdays.
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在星期五和星期六兼差做比薩外送。
00:54
He was lured to a bogus address
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他被一個年輕人幫派 誘騙到一個假地址。
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by a youth gang.
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00:59
And in a gang initiation,
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在幫派入會儀式中,
01:01
a 14-year-old shot and killed him.
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一個 14 歲的孩子射殺了他。
01:06
The sudden, senseless death
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這突然發生又無意義的死亡,
01:10
of an innocent, unarmed human being;
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帶走了一個無辜且手無寸鐵的人;
01:15
the overwhelming grief of a family;
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造成一個家庭無法言喻的悲傷;
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the total confusion as you try to absorb a new, hideous reality.
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當你試圖理解這個驚駭的新現實時, 感到的是完全的困惑。
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Needless to say it brought my life to a crashing halt.
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更不用說,我的人生因而崩毀、停止。
01:29
One of the hardest things I've ever had to do
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我所做過最困難的一件事,
01:31
was to call his mother, who lived in a different city.
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就是打電話告訴孩子的母親, 她住在另一個城市。
01:34
How do you tell a mother she's never going to see her son again,
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你要如何告訴一位母親, 她永遠無法再見到她的兒子、
01:37
or hear him laugh,
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無法再聽到他的笑聲、
01:39
or give him a hug?
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無法再擁抱他?
01:42
I practice as a Sufi Muslim.
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我是蘇菲派穆斯林。
01:44
I meditate two hours a day.
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我一天會做兩小時的冥想。
01:47
And sometimes,
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有時候,
01:48
in deep trauma and deep tragedy,
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當創傷很深、悲慟很深時,
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there is a spark of clarity.
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會有一絲清明出現。
01:55
So what I downloaded in my meditation
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所以,我在冥想中所下載下來的是
01:58
is that there were victims at both ends of the gun.
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在那把槍的兩端都有受害者。
02:02
It's easy to see that my son was a victim of the 14-year-old,
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很容易看出,我兒子是那位 14 歲孩子手下的受害者,
02:06
a little bit complicated to see that he was a victim of American society.
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比較難看出,那位 14 歲孩子 是美國社會的受害者。
02:12
And that begs the question, well, who is American society?
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這就帶到了一個問題, 誰是美國社會?
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Well, it's you and me,
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嗯,就是你和我,
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because I don't believe that society is just happenstance.
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因為我不相信社會只是偶然。
02:20
I think we are all responsible for the society we've created.
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我認為,對於我們所創造 出來的社會,我們都有責任。
02:25
And children killing children is not a mark of a civil society.
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孩子殺害孩子, 這並不是文明社會的常態。
02:30
So nine months after Tariq died,
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塔瑞克過世後九個月,
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I started the Tariq Khamisa Foundation
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我成立了塔瑞克卡米薩基金會,
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and our mandate at the Tariq Khamisa Foundation
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塔瑞克卡米薩基金會的使命,
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is to stop kids from killing kids
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就是要阻止孩子殺害孩子,
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by breaking the cycle of youth violence.
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我們要打破年輕人暴力的循環。
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And essentially we have three mandates.
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基本上,我們有三項使命。
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Our first and foremost is to save lives of children.
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第一項且最重要的一項, 是要拯救孩子的性命。
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It's important to do. We lose so many on a daily basis.
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做這件事很重要。 我們每天都失去好多孩子。
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Our second mandate
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我們的第二項使命,
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is to empower the right choices so kids don't fall through the cracks
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是要讓孩子們能做出對的選擇, 這麼一來,他們才不會因為被忽略
03:01
and choose lives of gangs and crime and drugs and alcohol and weapons.
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而去選擇幫派、犯罪、 毒品、酒精,及武器的生活。
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And our third mandate is to teach the principles of nonviolence,
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我們的第三項使命, 是要教導不使用暴力的原則,
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of empathy, of compassion,
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要用同理心、同情心,
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of forgiveness.
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以及寬恕待人。
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And I started with a very simple premise
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我從非常簡單的前提假設開始:
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that violence is a learned behavior.
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暴力是一種習得的行為。
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No child was born violent.
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沒有孩子是生來就暴力的。
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If you accept that as a truism,
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如果你能接受這是個自明之理,
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nonviolence can also be a learned behavior,
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那麼不使用暴力也可以 是一種習得的行為,
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but you have to teach it,
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但這件事得用教導的,
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because kids are not going to learn that
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因為孩子並不會 透過潛移默化就學會。
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through osmosis.
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03:36
Soon after that, I reached out to my brother here,
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沒多久之後,我向我兄弟伸出手,
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with the attitude that we had both lost a son.
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我的態度是,我們都失去了一個兒子。
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My son died.
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我的兒子死了。
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He lost his grandson to the adult prison system.
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他因為成人監獄體系 而失去了他的孫子。
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And I asked him to join me.
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我邀請他加入我。
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As you see, 22 years later, we are still here together,
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如你們所見,22 年後, 我們還一起在這裡。
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because I can't bring Tariq back from the dead,
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因為我無法讓塔瑞克起死回生,
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you can't take Tony out of prison,
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你無法把東尼帶出監獄,
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but the one thing we can do
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但我們能做一件事,
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is make sure no other young people in our community
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就是確保我們的社區中 沒有其他年輕人
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end up dead or end up in prison.
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最後的下場是死亡或入獄。
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With the grace of God,
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感謝上帝的慈悲,
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the Tariq Khamisa Foundation has been successful.
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塔瑞克卡米薩基金會一直很成功。
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We have a safe school model
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我們有一個安全學校模型,
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which has four different programs.
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該模型有四個不同的計畫。
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The first one is a live assembly with Ples and me.
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第一,普雷斯和我去現場參與集會。
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We are introduced,
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主持人會介紹,
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this man's grandson killed this man's son,
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這個人的孫子殺了這個人的兒子,
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and here they are together.
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而他們一起來到這裡。
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We have in-classroom curriculum.
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我們有在教室內進行的課程。
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We have an after school mentoring program, and we create a peace club.
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我們有課後的指導計畫, 還創立了一個和平俱樂部。
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And I'm happy to share with you
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我很高興能和你們分享,
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that besides teaching these principles of nonviolence,
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除了教導這些不使用暴力的原則,
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we are able to cut suspensions and expulsions by 70 percent,
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我們還能夠把休學和退學減少 70%,
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which is huge.
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這數字很大。
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(Applause)
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(掌聲)
04:43
Which is huge.
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這數字很大。
04:45
Five years after Tariq died,
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塔瑞克過世後五年,
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and for me to complete my journey of forgiveness,
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為了完成我的寬恕之旅,
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I went to see the young man who killed my son.
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我去探望殺害我兒子的年輕人。
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He was 19 years old.
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他那時 19 歲。
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And I remember that meeting because we were --
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我記得那次會面,因為我們……
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he's 37, still in prison --
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他現在 37 歲,仍然在監獄,
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but at that first meeting, we locked eyeballs.
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但在第一次會面時, 我們四目相對看著彼此。
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I'm looking in his eyes, he's looking in my eyes,
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我看著他的雙眼,他看著我的雙眼,
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and I'm looking in his eyes trying to find a murderer, and I didn't.
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我看著他的雙眼,試圖找到 一個殺人兇手,但我沒找到。
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I was able to climb through his eyes
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我能夠越過他的眼睛,
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and touch his humanity that I got
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接觸到他的人性,讓我了解到,
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that the spark in him was no different than the spark in me
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他內在的火花 和我內在的火花並沒有不同,
和在座各位也沒有不同。
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or anybody else here.
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05:21
So I wasn't expecting that. He was remorseful.
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這是我沒有預料到的。他感到後悔。
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He was articulate. He was well-mannered.
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他表達能力很好。他很有禮貌。
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And I could tell that my hand of forgiveness had changed him.
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我能看得出來,我的寬恕改變了他。
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So with that, please welcome my brother, Ples.
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所以,說到此,讓我們 歡迎我的兄弟,普雷斯。
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(Applause)
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(掌聲)
05:38
Ples Felix: Tony is my one and only daughter's one and only child.
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普雷斯菲利克斯: 東尼是我的獨女的獨子。
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Tony was born to my daughter,
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東尼是我的女兒所生的。
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who was 15 when she gave birth to Tony.
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她生東尼的時候才 15 歲。
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Mothering is the toughest job on the planet.
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當母親,是地球上最困難的工作。
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There is no tougher job on the planet than raising another human being
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在地球上,最困難的工作 莫過於養育另一個人,
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and making sure they're safe, secure
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並確保他的安全、安穩,
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and well-positioned to be successful in life.
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並做好準備能在人生當中成功。
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Tony experienced a lot of violence in his life as a young kid.
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東尼小時候就經歷過許多暴力場面。
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He saw one of his favorite cousins
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他看著他最喜歡的一位表親
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be murdered in a hail of automatic weapon fire
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在自動武器槍擊事件中被謀殺,
那個事件有幫派涉入, 地點是在洛杉磯。
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and gang involvement in Los Angeles.
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06:15
He was very traumatized in so many different ways.
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他在許多方面都受到嚴重創傷。
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Tony came to live with me.
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東尼之後來跟我住,
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I wanted to make sure he had everything a kid needed
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我想要確保他能得到 邁向成功所需要的一切。
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to be successful.
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06:27
But on this particular evening,
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但就在這個夜晚,
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after years of being with me
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當時他已跟我同住數年
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and struggling mightily to try to be successful
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並非常努力試著要成功,
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and to live up to my expectations of being a successful person,
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想達到他母親的期許, 成為成功的人,
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on this one particular day, Tony ran away from home that evening,
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就在這一天,東尼在晚上離家,
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he went to be with people he thought were his friends,
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他去找他認為是朋友的那些人,
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he was given drugs and alcohol
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他們給他毒品和酒精,
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and he took them
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他接受了,
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because he thought they would make him feel carefree.
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因為他認為這些東西 能讓他感到無拘無束。
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But all it did was to make his anxiety go higher
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但結果這些東西只讓他更加焦慮,
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and to create a more ...
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創造出了他更……
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more deadly thinking on his part.
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更致命的想法。
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He was invited to a robbery,
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他們邀他加入搶劫計畫,
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he was given a 9mm handgun.
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他們給他一把九釐米手槍。
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And at the presence of an 18-year-old who commanded him
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在場有位 18 歲的孩子發號施令,
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and two 14-year-old boys he thought were his friends,
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另外兩位 14 歲男孩是他認定的朋友,
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he shot and killed Tariq Khamisa,
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他在他們面前射殺了塔瑞克卡米薩,
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this man's son.
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這個人的兒子。
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There are no words, there are no words
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沒有任何言語,沒有任何言語
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that can express the loss of a child.
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能夠表達喪子之痛。
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At my understanding that my grandson was responsible
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就我了解,我的孫子 要為這件謀殺負責。
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for the murder of this human being,
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07:31
I went to the prayer closet, like I was taught by my old folks,
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照我父母親教我的,我進入禱告室,
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and began to pray and meditate.
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開始禱告和冥想。
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The one thing that Mr. Khamisa and I have in common,
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卡米薩先生和我有一個共通點,
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and we didn't know this, besides being wonderful human beings,
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除了我們人都很好以外, 我們當時並不知道
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is that we both meditate.
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我們兩人都會冥想。
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(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
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It was very helpful for me
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那對我很有幫助,
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because it offered me an opportunity to seek guidance and clarity
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因為那讓我有機會尋求引導和清明,
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about how I wanted to be of support of this man and his family in this loss.
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讓我知道我該如何在這場損失當中 支持這個人和他的家人。
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And sure enough, my prayers were answered,
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很顯然,我的禱告得到了回應,
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because I was invited to a meeting at this man's house,
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因為我接到邀請,到這個人的家中,
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met his mother, his father,
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去會見他的母親、他的父親、
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his wife, his brother, met their family
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他的妻子、他的兄弟, 會見他們的家人,
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and had a chance to be in the presence of God-spirited people led by this man,
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讓我有機會面對這些具有神性的人, 由這個人所帶領的人們,
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who in the spirit of forgiveness,
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他們帶著寬恕的精神,
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made way, made an opportunity for me
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為我開路,給我機會,
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to be of value and to share with him and to share with children
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讓我能有價值, 並和他以及孩子們分享
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the importance of understanding the need to be with a responsible adult,
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成為負責任的大人非常重要,
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focus on your anger in a way that's healthy,
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用健康的方式來處理憤怒情緒,
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learn to meditate.
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學習冥想。
08:29
The programs that we have in the Tariq Khamisa Foundation
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塔瑞克卡米薩基金會的計畫
08:32
provide so many tools for the kids to put in their toolkit
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提供許多工具給孩子們, 讓他們能收入自己的工具包中,
08:35
so they could carry them throughout their lives.
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讓他們一生中都能帶在身邊。
08:38
It's important that our children understand that loving, caring adults
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很重要的是讓孩子了解有慈愛的成人
08:41
care for them and support them,
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會照顧、支持他們,
08:43
but it's also important that our children learn to meditate,
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但還有一點很重要的, 就是我們的孩子要學會冥想,
08:47
learn to be peaceful,
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學會找到平靜,
08:49
learn to be centered
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學會自信穩重,
08:50
and learn to interact with the other children
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學會和其他孩子互動,
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in a kind, empathetic
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用仁慈、有同情心,
08:54
and wonderfully loving way.
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且很慈愛的方式互動。
08:56
We need more love in our society
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我們的社會需要更多愛,
08:58
and that's why we are here to share the love with children,
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那就是為什麼我們在這裡, 和孩子們分享愛,
09:01
because our children will lead the way for us,
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因為我們的孩子,會為我們領路,
09:04
because all of us will depend on our children.
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因為我們所有人都會仰賴下一代。
09:07
As we grow older and retire, they will take over this world for us,
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當我們年老、退休, 他們會接手這個世界,
09:10
so as much love as we teach them, they will give it back to us.
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所以,我們教導他們多少愛, 他們就會給予我們同等的愛。
09:14
Blessings. Thank you.
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祝福大家。謝謝。
09:15
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
09:22
AK: So I was born in Kenya, I was educated in England,
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亞辛:我在肯亞出生, 在英國受教育,
09:26
and my brother here is a Baptist.
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我的這位兄弟是浸禮會教友。
09:28
I practice as a Sufi Muslim.
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我是蘇菲派穆斯林。
09:31
He's African American,
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他是非裔美國人,
09:32
but I always tell him, I'm the African American in the group.
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但我總是告訴他, 我才是非裔美國人吧,
09:35
I was born in Africa. You were not.
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我是在非洲出生的,你不是。
09:37
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
09:39
And I naturalized as a citizen.
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我入籍成為公民。
09:41
I'm a first-generation citizen.
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我是第一代的公民。
09:43
And I felt that, as an American citizen,
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我覺得,身為美國公民,
09:47
I must take my share of the responsibility
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對於我兒子被謀殺一事,
09:50
for the murder of my son.
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我必須要負我的那一份責任。
09:53
Why? Because it was fired by an American child.
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為什麼?因為開槍的是一位美國小孩。
09:57
You could take the position, he killed my one and only son,
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你可以持不同立場, 認為他殺了我的獨子,
10:00
he should be hung from the highest pole.
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他應該被送上最高的柱子吊死。
10:03
How does that improve society?
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但那又怎麼能改善社會?
10:06
And I know you are probably wondering what happened to that young man.
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你們可能很納悶, 那位年輕人後來如何。
10:10
He's still in prison. He just turned 37 on September 22,
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他還在監獄中。 9 月 22 日時他剛滿 37 歲,
10:15
but I have some good news.
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但我有好消息。
10:17
We've been trying to get him out for 12 years.
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我們花了 12 年試著讓他出獄。
10:20
He finally will join us a year from now.
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終於,一年之後,他將能夠加入我們。
10:23
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
10:30
And I'm very excited to have him join us,
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對於他的加入,我非常興奮,
10:33
because I know we've saved him,
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因為我知道我們拯救了他,
10:35
but he will save tens of thousands of students
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但他將會拯救數以萬計的學生,
10:38
when he shares his testimony
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方法就是分享他的證詞,
10:41
in schools that we are present at on a regular basis.
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在我們經常出席的學校中分享。
10:44
When he says to the kids, "When I was 11, I joined a gang.
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當他對孩子們說: 「我 11 歲時,加入了幫派。
10:47
When I was 14, I murdered Mr. Khamisa's son.
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我 14 歲時,我殺害了 卡米薩先生的兒子。
10:50
I've spent the last umpteen years in prison.
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我過去無數年都在坐牢。
10:53
I'm here to tell you: it's not worth it,"
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我在這裡告訴你們:這並不值得。」
10:56
do you think the kids will listen to that voice?
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你們認為孩子們會聽那個聲音嗎?
10:59
Yes, because his intonations
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是的,因為他的語調,
11:01
will be of a person that pulled the trigger.
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會是一個扣下扳機的人的語調。
11:05
And I know that he wants to turn the clock back.
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我知道,他希望時光能夠倒轉。
11:10
Of course, that's not possible.
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當然,那不可能。
11:12
I wish it was. I would have my son back.
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我希望可以,我也想要我的兒子回來,
11:14
My brother would have his grandson back.
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我兄弟的好孫子也能回來。
11:17
So I think that demonstrates the power of forgiveness.
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我想,那展示出了寬恕的力量。
11:23
So what's the big takeaway here?
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所以,這裡要傳遞的 重要訊息是什麼?
11:27
So I want to end our session with this quote,
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我想用一句引言來結束這場演說,
11:30
which is the basis of my fourth book,
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它是我第四本書的根基,
11:32
which incidentally,
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順便一提,
11:34
the foreword for that book was written by Tony.
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那本書的序言是由東尼寫的。
11:38
So it goes like this: sustained goodwill creates friendship.
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這句話是:持續的善意能創造友誼。
11:42
You don't make friends by bombing them, right?
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我們交朋友的方式 並不是去炸他們,對吧?
11:45
You make friends by extending goodwill.
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你要交朋友,就要把善意延伸出去。
11:46
That ought to be obvious.
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這點應該很明顯。
11:48
So sustained goodwill creates friendship,
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所以,持續的善意能創造友誼,
11:50
sustained friendship creates trust,
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持續的友誼能創造信任,
11:53
sustained trust creates empathy,
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持續的信任能創造同理,
11:55
sustained empathy creates compassion,
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持續的同理能創造憐憫,
11:58
and sustained compassion creates peace.
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持續的憐憫能創造和平。
12:01
I call this my peace formula.
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我把它稱為我的和平方程式。
12:03
It starts with goodwill, friendship, trust, empathy, compassion and peace.
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從善意開始,接著是友誼、 信任、同理、憐憫,最後是和平。
12:09
But people ask me, how do you extend goodwill
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但人們問我,要如何把善意
12:11
to the person who murdered your child?
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延伸到殺害你孩子的人?
12:14
I tell them, you do that through forgiveness.
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我告訴他們,透過寬恕就可以做到。
12:17
As it's evident it worked for me.
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很顯然這方式對我是有用的,
12:19
It worked for my family.
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對我的家人也有用。
12:21
What's a miracle is it worked for Tony,
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奇蹟是,它對東尼也有用,
12:24
it worked for his family,
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對他的家人也有用,
12:26
it can work for you and your family,
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所以對你和你的家人也會有用,
12:29
for Israel and Palestine, North and South Korea,
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對以色列和巴勒斯坦、南北韓、
12:32
for Iraq, Afghanistan, Iran and Syria.
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伊拉克、阿富汗、 伊朗和敘利亞,都會有用。
12:35
It can work for the United States of America.
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對美國,寬恕也會有用。
12:38
So let me leave you with this, my sisters,
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我最後總結,我的姐妹們,
12:41
and a couple of brothers --
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以及少數幾個兄弟們……
12:43
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
12:45
that peace is possible.
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和平是有可能的。
12:48
How do I know that?
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我怎麼知道?
12:49
Because I am at peace.
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因為我就處在和平當中。
12:51
Thank you very much. Namaste.
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非常謝謝你們。謝謝。
12:53
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
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