What working parents really need from workplaces | The Way We Work, a TED series

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What working parents really need from workplaces | The Way We Work, a TED series

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Transcriber: Leslie Gauthier Reviewer:
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Every parent is a working parent,
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๋ฒˆ์—ญ: ํ•˜์ • ๊น€ ๊ฒ€ํ† : DK Kim
๋ชจ๋“  ๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ์ผ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:02
whether they have a job outside of the home or not.
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์ง์žฅ์— ์ถœ๊ทผ์„ ํ•˜๋“  ์•„๋‹ˆ๋“  ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
00:05
[The Way We Work]
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[์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹]
00:10
When Angela shows up at the office,
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์•ˆ์ ค๋ผ๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค์— ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚˜๋ฉด,
00:12
know that Angela has been up for at least three hours,
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์ ์–ด๋„ ์„ธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์€ ๊นจ์–ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์†์—๋Š” ์ธ๊ฐ„ ๋ฐฐ์„ค๋ฌผ์ด ์ž”๋œฉ ๋ฌป์—ˆ์—ˆ๊ณ ,
00:14
had her hand covered in human excrement,
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unwedged a small person
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์„ธํƒ๊ธฐ์™€ ๋ฒฝ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๋‚€ ์กฐ๊ทธ๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋„์ง‘์–ด๋ƒˆ๊ณ ,
00:17
who has become lodged in between the washing machine and the wall,
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00:21
gotten down on her hands and knees and picked up oatmeal off the carpet.
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๋ฐ”๋‹ฅ์„ ๊ธฐ๋ฉฐ ์นดํŽซ์— ๋–จ์–ด์ง„ ์˜คํŠธ๋ฐ€์„ ์ฃผ์› ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ์„ธ์š”.
00:24
Domestic labor,
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๊ฐ€์‚ฌ ๋…ธ๋™, ์ฆ‰, ์–‘์œก์€
00:25
which is what parenting is and everything that goes along with parenting,
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์œก์•„์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ์˜ค๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฉฐ ๋‹จ์ง€ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ์ผ๋งŒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:29
itโ€™s not just taking care of a child;
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itโ€™s keeping a household running,
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์ง‘์•ˆ์„ ๊พธ๋ ค๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฉฐ ์„ค๊ฑฐ์ง€๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ 
00:32
washing dishes,
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๋นจ๋ž˜๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ผ์ •์„ ๋นผ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๊ด€๋ฆฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ฃ .
00:33
doing laundry,
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00:34
itโ€™s keeping the schedule tight.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ €๋Ÿฐ ๊ฑด ์ง‘์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์•„๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ง์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:36
We again assume that that work will be done by a wife whoโ€™s at home.
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00:40
The reality has progressed beyond where weโ€™re at policy-wise.
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ํ˜„์‹ค์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ์•Œ๋˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋„˜์–ด์„ฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:46
Most people need multiple sources of income,
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๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ณณ์—์„œ ์ˆ˜์ž…์„ ์–ป์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ,
00:50
women want to work outside of the home --
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์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์€ ์ง‘ ๋ฐ–์—์„œ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
00:52
weโ€™re still expected to do all of the same things.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋ผ๊ณ  ์š”๊ตฌ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์žˆ์ฃ .
00:55
And so now we outsource a lot of that parenting work
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด์ œ ์œก์•„์˜ ๋งŽ์€ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์„
00:59
to other women,
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋งก๊ธฐ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ฃผ๋กœ ์œ ์ƒ‰ ์ธ์ข… ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์ด์ฃ .
01:00
and mainly women of color.
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We donโ€™t give it financial, cultural value,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์œก์•„์— ๊ฒฝ์ œ์ ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์ ์ธ ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ
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and so we donโ€™t see it as real work.
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์ง„์งœ ์ผ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ณด์ง€๋„ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:08
Care is really the backbone of our society.
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๋Œ๋ด„์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—์„œ ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์ฒ™์ถ”์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ์•ผ๋ง๋กœ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ผ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์ผ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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That work is what makes all other work possible.
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01:14
So how should we support parents in the workplace?
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋ฅผ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋„์™€์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
01:17
[Support family leave]
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[๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋Œ๋ด„ ํœด๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์žฅ๋ คํ•˜๊ธฐ]
01:19
There are only two industrialized countries in the entire world
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์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์„ ์ง„๊ตญ ์ค‘์—์„œ ๋‹จ ๋‘ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€๋งŒ์ด
01:23
that donโ€™t guarantee some paid family leave,
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์œ ๊ธ‰ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋Œ๋ด„ ํœด๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์žฅํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:27
and the United States is one of them.
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01:29
We should be envying Ghana,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋‚˜, ๋ธŒ๋ผ์งˆ, ํ„ฐํ‚ค, ์„ธ๋ฅด๋น„์•„, ์ผ๋ณธ,
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Brazil, Turkey, Serbia, Japan,
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the United Kingdom,
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์˜๊ตญ, ๋…ธ๋ฅด์›จ์ด, ๋„ค๋œ๋ž€๋“œ, ์Šค์›จ๋ด์„ ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ์›Œํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:35
Norway, the Netherlands, Sweden --
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01:39
weโ€™re lagging behind the world on this.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ๋ถ€๋ถ„์—์„œ ๋’ค์ณ์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:42
When I say paid family leave,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ ๋Œ๋ด„ ํœด๊ฐ€๋Š”
01:44
Iโ€™m not talking about necessarily just newborn maternity leave.
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๊ผญ ์—„๋งˆ์˜ ์ถœ์‚ฐ ํœด๊ฐ€๋งŒ์„ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:48
That includes paternity leave,
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์•„๋น ์˜ ์œก์•„ ํœด์ง์ด๋‚˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ์„ฑ๋ณ„์˜ ์œก์•„ ํœด์ง๋„ ํฌํ•จ๋˜๊ณ 
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all genders,
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families that are adopting and welcoming a new child into their home,
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์•„์ด๋ฅผ ์ž…์–‘ํ•˜์—ฌ ๋งž์ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์ •,
01:54
people bringing foster children into their home,
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์œ„ํƒ ์•„๋™์„ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋ฅผ ๋Œ๋ณด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๋„ ํฌํ•จ๋˜์ฃ .
01:56
taking care of aging parents.
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01:58
You know, at some point in your life,
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์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ์–ด๋Š ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์—”๊ฐ€
02:00
someone that you love and care about is going to need help.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์•„๋ผ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋„์›€์„ ํ•„์š”๋กœ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:04
You should have the right to take time to take care of them.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋Œ๋ณผ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ˆ„๋ฆด ๊ถŒ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ๊ฒ ์ฃ .
02:06
People do their best work
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณณ์—์„œ
02:09
when they feel seen and supported by the people that they work for.
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์ธ์ •๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์ง€์›๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ๋•Œ ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์•„์ฃผ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜์ฃ .
02:14
Itโ€™s pretty simple.
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02:15
[Listen to parents]
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[๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ง์„ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ธฐ]
02:17
Being a parent is often seen as a weakness in the workplace.
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๋ถ€๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ํ”ํžˆ ์•ฝ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฌ๊ฒจ์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:20
You come back and people make a lot of assumptions about you.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋ณต์งํ•˜๋ฉด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์„ ์ž…๊ฒฌ์„ ๋งŽ์ด ๊ฐ–์ฃ .
02:24
You're not invited to go on work trips
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์ถœ์žฅ์— ๊ปด์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
02:26
because assumptions are made that you donโ€™t want to do that,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์ด๋ฅผ ์›์น˜ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ์„ ์ž…๊ฒฌ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:29
or you canโ€™t.
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์ด๋Š” ๊ถŒํ•œ์„ ๋นผ์•—๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
02:30
And that can be really disempowering to people,
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02:33
and itโ€™s really discouraging
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์˜์š•์„ ํ™• ๊บพ์–ด์„œ,
02:34
and it makes them --
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02:35
in a period of time thatโ€™s already stressful --
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์ด๋ฏธ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ์—,
02:39
can make you feel even worse.
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๋” ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:40
[Talk to parents]
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[๋ถ€๋ชจ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ]
02:42
Asking a coworker about how things are going at home
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์ง์žฅ ๋™๋ฃŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์ •์€ ์ข€ ์–ด๋–ค์ง€
์•„์ด๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ด„์œผ๋กœ์จ
02:48
or with their kid,
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02:49
making people feel like they donโ€™t have to hide that.
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์ด๋ฅผ ๊ตณ์ด ์ˆจ๊ธธ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๋„๋ก ๋งŒ๋“œ์„ธ์š”.
02:52
โ€œWhatโ€™s up with your two-year-old?โ€
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โ€œ์ง‘์— ๋‘ ์‚ด๋ฐฐ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์ข€ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?โ€
02:53
Ask to see a picture of their child.
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์•„์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ๋‹ฌ๋ผ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
02:55
[Be flexible]
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[์œ ์—ฐํ•ด์ ธ๊ธฐ]
02:57
For parents, the hours between 5-8pm are really crucial.
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๋‹ค์„ฏ ์‹œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์—ฌ๋Ÿ ์‹œ ์‚ฌ์ด๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ์—๊ฒŒ ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:03
Itโ€™s sometimes the only time you really have with your kids.
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๊ฐ€๋”์€ ๊ทธ๋•Œ๊ฐ€ ์•„์ด๋“ค๊ณผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ์œ ์ผํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜์ฃ .
03:06
Youโ€™re often running to pick them up somewhere
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๋Œ€๊ฐœ ์–ด๋”˜๊ฐ€์—์„œ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐ๋ ค์˜ค๋Š๋ผ,
03:08
or to relieve someone from doing childcare.
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ํ˜น์€ ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๋Œ๋ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด์ฃผ๋Ÿฌ ๋›ฐ์–ด๋‹ค๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:10
I would much rather send a few emails at 8:30pm than be on a call at 5pm.
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์ €๋ผ๋ฉด ์ €๋… ์—ฌ๋Ÿ ์‹œ ๋ฐ˜์— ์ด๋ฉ”์ผ ๋ช‡ ํ†ต์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
์˜คํ›„ ๋‹ค์„ฏ ์‹œ์— ํ†ตํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ฐจ๋ผ๋ฆฌ ๋‚˜์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
03:16
And so I think emphasizing and creating a culture of work
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์—๋Š”
์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋”ฐ์ง€๋Š” ์ „ํ†ต์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ๋Š” ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ
03:19
where itโ€™s the work that gets done,
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03:21
the work is what matters,
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์ผ์„ ์™„์ˆ˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ์ผ ๊ทธ ์ž์ฒด์™€
03:24
the end result is what matters,
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03:25
as opposed to tracking time in a traditional way,
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๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ์ค‘์‹œํ•˜๋Š” ์กฐ์ง ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•˜๊ณ 
์ด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ์†Œํ†ต ์ฐฝ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์—ฌ๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„์ฃผ ์œ ์ตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:29
and opening up the lines of communication around that can be really beneficial.
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03:33
Letting a coworker know that you have their back
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์ง์žฅ ๋™๋ฃŒ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ์˜ ํŽธ์ž„์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
03:36
if they want to say that 4:45 doesnโ€™t work for them as a meeting time,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งŒ์•ฝ 4์‹œ45๋ถ„ ํšŒ์˜๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ์˜์น˜ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋‚˜์„œ์„œ ๋‚˜๋„ ์•ˆ ๋œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ฃ .
03:41
that youโ€™ll step in and say that you canโ€™t do it either, right?
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๊ฒฐ์†๋ ฅ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
03:44
Just something to show solidarity.
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03:46
[Oh yeah ... ]
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[๋ฌผ๋ก ...]
03:48
One other thing,
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ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋” ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ์ „์— ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ชจ์œ  ์ˆ˜์œ ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ˆ˜์œ  ๋ง˜์œผ๋กœ์„œ,
03:49
as a former breastfeeding mother in an office place --
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03:51
a pumping mother --
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03:52
I should say that if you want to clean out your office fridge every now and then,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๊ฐ€๋” ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค ๋ƒ‰์žฅ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ์ฒญ์†Œํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
03:57
that is a really beautiful thing to do for a pumping mother,
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์ˆ˜์œ  ๋ง˜์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:00
because I used to do that in my office.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
04:03
I would put my little cooler that had breast milk amid like
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์ €๋Š” ๋ชจ์œ ๊ฐ€ ๋“  ์ž‘์€ ๋ณด๋ƒ‰๋ณ‘์„
04:09
year-old bottles of salad dressing,
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์ผ ๋…„์ด ๋œ ์ƒ๋Ÿฌ๋“œ ๋“œ๋ ˆ์‹ฑ ๋ณ‘๊ณผ
04:11
pad thai that had become petrified,
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๋‹ค ์ฉ์€ ํŒŸํƒ€์ด ๊ฐ™์€ ์•„์ฃผ ์—ญ๊ฒจ์šด ์Œ์‹๋“ค ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๋„ฃ๊ณค ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:14
just gross stuff.
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04:16
And no one should have to do that, right?
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๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์ž–์•„์š”?
์•„์ฃผ ์ž‘์€ ์ผ, ๊ทธ ์ผ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ์‚ถ์— ํฐ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ผ์œผํ‚ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:18
Again, a very, very small thing
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04:19
that makes a big difference in someoneโ€™s life.
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04:21
In striving to be as efficient as possible,
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ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํšจ์œจ์ ์ด๊ณ ,
04:24
as achieving,
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๋งŽ์ด ์„ฑ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ƒ์‚ฐ์ ์ด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ
04:25
as productive as possible,
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04:26
weโ€™ve drifted away from this notion of care
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋Œ๋ด„๊ณผ ์œก์•„๊ฐ€ ์ค‘๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ผ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์—์„œ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ ธ ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:30
and parenting being important work.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ 
04:33
But we need to talk about these things
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04:35
and bring parenting and family life out into the open,
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์œก์•„์™€ ๊ฐ€์ • ์ƒํ™œ์„ ๊ณต๊ฐœ์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ๋กœ ๋Œ์–ด ์™€์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:40
because we can't fix problems that we don't see.
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๋ณด์ด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ๊ณ ์น  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:44
We canโ€™t fix problems that we donโ€™t talk about.
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์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ๊ณ ์น  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:46
It really doesnโ€™t have to be this hard
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ๊นŒ์ง€ ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ผ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”.
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋•๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:49
and we can do much more to support people.
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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