Christine Carter: The 1-minute secret to forming a new habit | TED

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚

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Transcriber: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Camille Martรญnez
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็ฟป่จณ: Yasushi Aoki ๆ กๆญฃ: Moe Shoji
00:13
I don't know about you,
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็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใฏใฉใ†ใ‹็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
00:15
but when our family got the stay-at-home order in March of 2020,
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2020ๅนด3ๆœˆใซ่‡ชๅฎ…ๅพ…ๆฉŸๅ‘ฝไปคใŒๅ‡บใŸๆ™‚
00:18
I came out of the gates pretty darn hot.
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็งใฏใ™ใ”ใๅผตใ‚Šๅˆ‡ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
00:22
"Embrace not being so busy," I wrote.
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ใ€Œๅฟ™ใ—ใใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆญ“่ฟŽใ—
00:25
"Take this time at home to get into a new happiness habit."
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ใ“ใฎๅฎถใซใ„ใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใงๅนธใ›ใฎ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใ‚’ ่บซใซใคใ‘ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€ใจๆ›ธใใพใ—ใŸ
00:30
That seems hilarious to me now.
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ไปŠใ‹ใ‚‰ๆ€ใ†ใจๆป‘็จฝใงใ™
00:34
My pre-coronavirus routines fell apart hard and fast.
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ใ‚ณใƒญใƒŠไปฅๅ‰ใฎ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฏ ้€Ÿใ‚„ใ‹ใซๅดฉใ‚ŒๅŽปใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
00:39
Some days I would realize at dinnertime
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ใจใใซใฏๆ™ฉๅพก้ฃฏใฎๆฎตใซใชใฃใฆๅˆใ‚ใฆ
00:42
that not only had I not showered or gotten dressed that day,
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ใ‚ทใƒฃใƒฏใƒผใ‚’ๆตดใณใฆใ„ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ ็€ๆ›ฟใˆใฆใ‚‚ใŠใ‚‰ใš
00:46
but I hadn't even brushed my teeth.
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ๆญฏใ•ใˆ็ฃจใ„ใฆใชใ„ใ“ใจใซ ๆฐ—ใฅใๅง‹ๆœซใงใ—ใŸ
00:49
Even though I have coached people for a very long time
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็ง‘ๅญฆใซๅŸบใฅใ„ใŸ ๅŠนๆžœ็š„ใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃๅฝขๆˆๆณ•ใ‚’
00:52
in an effective, science-based method of habit formation,
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้•ทๅนด ๆŒ‡ๅฐŽใ—ใฆใใŸใซใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใš
00:56
I struggled.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใงไธŠๆ‰‹ใใงใใšใซใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
00:58
Truth be told, for the first few months of the pandemic,
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจ ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใฎไฝ•ใƒถๆœˆใ‹ใฏ
01:02
I more or less refused to follow my own best advice.
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใง่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆœ€ๅ–„ใฎใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒใ‚คใ‚นใ‚’ ใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ„ๅ‘ณๆ‹’ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
01:07
This is because I love to set ambitious goals.
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ๅฃฎๅคงใช็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ‚‹ใฎใŒ ๅฅฝใใชใŸใ‚ใงใ™
01:11
Getting into a good little habit
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ๅฐใ•ใช่‰ฏใ„็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใ‚’ ่บซใซไป˜ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ
01:14
is just so much less exciting to me
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้ ๅคงใช่ฏใ€…ใ—ใ„็›ฎๆจ™ใจๆฏ”ใน
01:16
than embracing a big, juicy, audacious goal.
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ๅผตใ‚Šๅˆใ„ใซๆฌ ใ‘ใพใ™
01:22
Take exercise, for example.
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ไพ‹ใˆใฐ้‹ๅ‹•ใงใ™
01:24
When the coronavirus hit,
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ใ‚ณใƒญใƒŠใŒๆต่กŒใ—ๅ‡บใ—ใŸๆ™‚
01:26
I optimistically embraced the idea
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็งใฏๆฅฝ่ฆณ็š„ใซ
ใ‚ธใƒงใ‚ฎใƒณใ‚ฐใฎ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฏ ็ฐกๅ˜ใซๅ–ใ‚Šๆˆปใ›ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
01:29
that I could get back into running outside.
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01:32
I picked a half-marathon to train for
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็›ฎๆจ™ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใƒใƒผใƒ•ใƒžใƒฉใ‚ฝใƒณใ‚’้ธใณ
01:34
and spent a week or so meticulously devising
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๏ผ‘้€ฑ้–“ใใ‚‰ใ„ใ‹ใ‘ใฆ
ใ™ใ”ใ่ฉณ็ดฐใชใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐ่จˆ็”ปใ‚’ ็ถฟๅฏ†ใซ็ซ‹ใฆใพใ—ใŸใŒ
01:38
a very detailed training plan.
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01:41
But then I actually only stuck to my ambitious training schedule
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ใใฎ้‡Žๅฟƒ็š„ใชใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใฏ
ใปใ‚“ใฎ๏ผ’ใ€๏ผ“้€ฑ้–“ใ—ใ‹็ถšใใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ
01:45
for a few weeks.
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01:46
All that planning and preparation
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ๅ…ฅๅฟตใช่จˆ็”ปใจๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒ
01:48
led only to a spectacular failure to exercise.
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็ตๅฑ€ใฏ้‹ๅ‹•ใ—ใใ“ใชใ†ใ“ใจใซ ใคใชใŒใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
01:54
I skipped my training runs,
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้‹ๅ‹•ใจใใ‚Œใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ๅฅๅบทใฎๅคงๅˆ‡ใ•ใฏ
01:56
despite feeling like the importance of exercise
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ใ“ใ‚ŒไปฅไธŠใชใ„ใใ‚‰ใ„ ใฏใฃใใ‚Šๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใŸใซใ‚‚ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใš
01:59
and the good health that it brings
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้‹ๅ‹•ใ‚’ใ‚ตใƒœใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
02:02
has never been more bracingly clear.
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02:06
The truth is that our ability to follow through on our best intentions,
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่‰ฏใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚Š้‚ใ’ใŸใ‚Š
้‹ๅ‹•ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช ๆ–ฐใŸใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใ‚’่บซใซใคใ‘ใŸใ‚Š
02:12
to get into a new habit like exercise
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02:14
or to change our behavior in any way, really,
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ใฉใ‚“ใชๅฝขใงใ‚ใ‚Œ ่กŒๅ‹•ใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹่ƒฝๅŠ›ใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ
02:17
doesn't actually depend on the reasons we might do it
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ใใ†ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ€ใ†็†็”ฑใ‚„
02:20
or on the depth of our convictions that we should do so.
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ใใ†ใ™ในใใจใ„ใ†็ขบไฟกใฎๅผทใ•ใซ ไพๅญ˜ใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใ‹
02:26
It doesn't depend on our understanding of the benefits
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ใใฎ่กŒๅ‹•ใŒใ‚‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ™ ๆฉๆตใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ็†่งฃใ‚„
02:29
of our particular behavior
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02:31
or even on the strength of our willpower.
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ๆ„ๆ€ๅŠ›ใฎๅผทใ•ใซใ•ใˆไพๅญ˜ใ›ใš
02:34
It depends on our willingness to be bad at our desired behavior.
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ๅคงไบ‹ใชใฎใฏๆœ›ใพใ—ใ„่กŒๅ‹•ใซใŠใ‘ใ‚‹็„กๆง˜ใ•ใ‚’ ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใชใ‚“ใงใ™
02:41
And I hate being bad at stuff.
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็งใฏ็„กๆง˜ใชใฎใŒๅซŒใ„ใงใ™
02:45
I am a go-big-or-go-home kind of a gal.
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ๅŠ็ซฏใซใ‚„ใ‚‹ใใ‚‰ใ„ใชใ‚‰ ใ‚„ใ‚ใฆใ—ใพใˆใจใ„ใ†ๆ–นใงใ™
02:48
I like being good at things,
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็งใฏๅ„ชใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆœ›ใฟ
02:50
and I quit exercising
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็„กๆง˜ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใใชใ‹ใฃใŸใŸใ‚
02:52
because I wasn't willing to be bad at it.
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้‹ๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใพใ—ใŸ
02:56
Here's why we need to be willing to be bad:
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็„กๆง˜ใชใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹็†็”ฑใฏ
02:59
being good requires that our effort and our motivation
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ๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸ่กŒๅ‹•ใฎใŸใ‚ใซใฏ
ๅŠชๅŠ›ใจใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจใŒ ๆฏ”ไพ‹ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใงใ™
03:04
be in proportion to each other.
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03:07
The harder something is for us to do,
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใปใฉ
03:09
the more motivation we need to do that thing.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅผทใ„ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒ ๅฟ…่ฆใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
03:14
And you might have noticed,
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ใŠๆฐ—ใฅใใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒ
03:16
but motivation isn't something that we can always muster on command.
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ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ ใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ๅฅฎใ„่ตทใ“ใ›ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
ๅฅฝใ‚€ใจๅฅฝใพใ–ใ‚‹ใจใซใ‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใš
03:21
Whether we like it or not,
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03:22
motivation comes and motivation goes.
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ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใฏใ‚„ใฃใฆใใฆใฏ ๅŽปใฃใฆใ„ใใพใ™
03:27
When motivation wanes,
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ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒ่ฝใกใ‚‹ใจ
03:29
plenty of research shows that we human beings
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ๅคšใใฎ็ ”็ฉถใŒ็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ
ไบบ้–“ใฏๆœ€ๅฐๅŠชๅŠ›ใฎๆณ•ๅ‰‡ใซ ๅพ“ใ†ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจ
03:32
tend to follow the law of the least effort,
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03:35
meaning we just do the easiest thing.
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ใคใพใ‚Š ๆฅฝใชๆ–นใซๆตใ‚Œใ‚‹ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™
03:39
New behaviors tend to require a lot of effort,
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ๆ–ฐใŸใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใ‚’่บซใซไป˜ใ‘ใ‚‹ใซใฏ ๅคšใใฎๅŠชๅŠ›ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
03:42
because change is really hard.
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ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
03:45
To establish an exercise routine,
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้‹ๅ‹•ใฎ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใ‚’่บซใซไป˜ใ‘ใ‚‹ใซใฏ
03:48
I needed to let myself be kind of half-assed about it.
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็”ŸๅŠๅฏใซใ‚„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่จฑๅฎนใ™ใ‚‹ ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™
03:52
I needed to stop trying to be an actual athlete.
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ใ‚ขใ‚นใƒชใƒผใƒˆใซใชใ‚ใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ ใ‚„ใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
03:57
I started exercising again
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้‹ๅ‹•ใ‚’ๅ†้–‹ใ—ใŸๆ™‚
03:59
by running for only one minute at a time.
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๏ผ‘ๅบฆใซ๏ผ‘ๅˆ†้–“ใ ใ‘ ่ตฐใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใ—ใพใ—ใŸ
04:02
Every morning, after I brushed my teeth,
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ๆฏŽๆœ ๆญฏใ‚’็ฃจใ„ใŸใ‚‰
04:04
I'd change out of my pajamas and walk out the door,
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ๅฏๅทปใใ‹ใ‚‰็€ๆ›ฟใˆใฆ ๅค–ใซๅ‡บใฆ
04:07
my only goal, to run for one full minute.
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๏ผ‘ๅˆ†้–“ใ ใ‘่ตฐใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ™
04:12
These days, usually I actually do run for 15 or 20 minutes,
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ใ“ใฎ้ ƒใงใฏๆ™ฎ้€š 15ใ€œ20ๅˆ† ่ตฐใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒ
04:16
but on the days that I'm totally lacking in motivation
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ใ‚„ใ‚‹ๆฐ—ใŒๅ‡บใชใ„ๆ™‚ใ‚„
04:19
or I just feel like I have no time,
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ๆ™‚้–“ใฎใชใ„ๆ™‚ใซใฏ
04:21
I still do that one minute.
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ไปŠใ‚‚๏ผ‘ๅˆ†ใ ใ‘่ตฐใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใฎใ‚’ ใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
04:23
And this minimal effort always turns out to be way better than if I did nothing.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใชๆœ€ๅฐ้™ใฎๅŠชๅŠ›ใงใ‚‚ ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใšใฃใจใ„ใ„ใ‚“ใงใ™
04:29
Maybe you relate.
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ใŠๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚Šใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
04:31
Maybe you've also failed
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็š†ใ•ใ‚“ใ‚‚ไฝ•ใ‹ๆ”นๅ–„ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆ
04:32
in one of your attempts to change yourself for the better.
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ๅคฑๆ•—ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏ๏ผŸ
04:36
Perhaps you want to use less plastic
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ไฝฟใ†ใƒ—ใƒฉใ‚นใƒใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใใ†ใจใ‹
04:39
or meditate more
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจ็ž‘ๆƒณใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ใจใ‹
04:40
or be a better anti-racist.
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ๅผทใ„ๅทฎๅˆฅๅๅฏพใฎ็ซ‹ๅ ดใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ใ†ใจใ‹
04:43
Maybe you want to write a book
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ๆœฌใ‚’ๆ›ธใใŸใ„ใจใ‹
04:45
or eat more leafy greens.
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่‘‰้‡Ž่œใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใจ้ฃŸในใชใใ‚ƒใจ ๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
04:48
I have great news for you.
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่‰ฏใ„็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
04:50
You can do and be those things,
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ใใ‚ŒใฏไปŠใ™ใๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™
04:54
starting right now.
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04:56
The only requirement is that you stop trying to be so good.
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ไธŠๆ‰‹ใใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใ†ใฎใ‚’ ใ‚„ใ‚ใ•ใˆใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ„ใ„ใ‚“ใงใ™
05:03
You'll need to abandon your grand plans,
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ๅฃฎๅคงใช่จˆ็”ปใฏ ใจใ‚Šใ‚ใˆใšๆจใฆใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
05:06
at least temporarily.
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ๅฃฎๅคงใช่จˆ็”ปใฏ ใจใ‚Šใ‚ใˆใšๆจใฆใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
05:09
You'll need to consider doing something so minuscule
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ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใจใ„ใ†็จ‹ๅบฆใฎ ไบ›็ดฐใชใ“ใจใŒ
05:12
that it would be better than not doing anything at all.
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใงใใชใ„ใ‹ ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
05:17
So right now, ask yourself:
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ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ่‡ชๅ•ใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
05:20
How you can strip that thing that you have been meaning to do
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ใšใฃใจใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ ๅฎนๆ˜“ๅŒ–ใ—ใฆ
05:24
into something so easy you could do it every day with barely a thought?
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ใปใจใ‚“ใฉ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใชใ—ใซๆฏŽๆ—ฅใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใธ ใฉใ†ใ‚„ใฃใŸใ‚‰ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:30
It might be eating one piece of lettuce on your sandwich at lunch
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ๆ˜ผๅพก้ฃฏใซ ใ‚ตใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚คใƒƒใƒใซๆŒŸใ‚“ใ  ใƒฌใ‚ฟใ‚น๏ผ‘ๆžš้ฃŸในใ‚‹ใจใ‹
05:34
or going for a one-minute walk outside.
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๏ผ‘ๅˆ†้–“ ๅค–ใ‚’ๆ•ฃๆญฉใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ‹โ€”
05:37
Don't worry -- you'll get to do more.
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจๅข—ใ‚„ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใงๅฟƒ้…ใ—ใชใ„ใง
05:40
This better-than-nothing behavior is not your ultimate goal.
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ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใชใ“ใจใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ ็ฉถๆฅตใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
05:44
But for now, what could you do that is ridiculous easy
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ไฝ•ไบ‹ใ‚‚ๆ€ใฃใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซ ใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ๆ™‚ใงใ‚ใฃใฆใ‚‚
05:48
that you can do even when nothing is going as planned?
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ใ‚„ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใใ‚‰ใ„ใซ ็ฐกๅ˜ใชใ“ใจใฏไฝ•ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:52
Even though you ultimately might want to do more and be more,
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ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซใ‚‚ใฃใจใ™ใ”ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ ใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใฎใ ใจใ—ใฆใ‚‚
05:56
remember that we humans are often too tired
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ไบบ้–“ใงใ‚ใ‚Œใฐ่ชฐใ—ใ‚‚ ็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใŸใ‚Š
05:59
and too stressed
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ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใŸใ‚Š
06:01
and too distracted
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ๆฐ—ใŒๆ•ฃใฃใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆ
06:02
to do the things that we really do intend to do
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ๆ™‚ใ‚„
06:05
and to be the people that we most intend to be.
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ใใ†ใ‚ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใ†่€…ใงใ„ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ๆ™‚ใŒ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
06:10
On those days,
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ใใ†ใ„ใ†ๆ™‚ใซใฏ
06:11
our wildly ambitious behaviors really are better than nothing.
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใชใ“ใจใŒ ๅคง่ƒ†ใช่กŒๅ‹•ใซใชใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™
06:15
A one-minute meditation is relaxing and restful.
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๏ผ‘ๅˆ†้–“ใฎ็ž‘ๆƒณใงใ‚‚ ใƒชใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใ— ่ฝใก็€ใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
06:20
A single leaf of romaine lettuce happens to have a half a gram of fiber
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ใƒฌใ‚ฟใ‚นใฎ่‘‰๏ผ‘ๆžšใซใ ใฃใฆ
้ฃŸ็‰ฉ็นŠ็ถญใ‚„ใ„ใ‚ใ‚“ใชๆ „้คŠ็ด ใŒ ๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
06:23
and loads of nutrients.
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06:26
A one-minute walk gets us outside and moving around,
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๏ผ‘ๅˆ†้–“ใฎๆ•ฃๆญฉใงใ‚‚ ๅค–ใซๅ‡บใฆไฝ“ใ‚’ๅ‹•ใ‹ใ™ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Š
06:30
which our bodies really need.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟ…่ฆใชใ“ใจใงใ™
06:32
So try doing one better-than-nothing behavior.
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใช่กŒๅ‹•ใ‚’ ไฝ•ใ‹๏ผ‘ใคใ‚„ใฃใฆใฟใฆ
06:36
See how it goes.
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ใฉใ†ใชใ‚‹ใ‹่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
06:38
The goal, remember, is repetition,
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็›ฎๆŒ‡ใ™ใฎใฏ ้ซ˜ใ„ๆˆๆžœใงใฏใชใ
06:41
not high achievement.
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็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ™ใ“ใจใงใ™
06:44
So let yourself be mediocre at whatever you're trying to do,
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ ใ‚คใƒžใ‚คใƒใงใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰
06:48
but be mediocre every day.
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ๆฏŽๆ—ฅใ‚„ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
06:50
Take only one step,
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ไธ€ๆญฉใ ใ‘ใงใ„ใ„ใฎใง
06:52
but take that step every day.
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ๆฏŽๆ—ฅ็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
06:56
If your better-than-nothing habit
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใŒ
06:58
doesn't actually seem better than doing nothing,
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ไฝ•ใ‚‚ใ—ใชใ„ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Š ่‰ฏใๆ€ใˆใชใ„ใชใ‚‰
07:00
consider that you're getting started at something
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ไฝ•ใ‹ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ„ใ†ๆ™‚ใฏ ็ฌฌไธ€ๆญฉใ‚’่ธใฟๅ‡บใ™ใฎใŒไธ€็•ช้›ฃใ—ใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’
07:03
and that initiating a behavior is often the hardest part.
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ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ
07:09
By getting started,
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07:10
we're establishing the neural pathway in our brain
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้ ญใฎไธญใซๆ–ฐใ—ใ„็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฎใŸใ‚ใฎ ็ฅž็ตŒๅ›ž่ทฏใŒใงใใฆ
07:13
for a new habit,
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07:14
which makes it much more likely that we'll succeed with something
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ใใฎๅพŒใ‚‚ใฃใจๅคงใใชใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ้ซ˜ใพใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™
07:18
more ambitious down the line.
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07:22
Why is this?
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ใชใœใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†๏ผŸ
07:23
Well, it's because once we hard wire a habit into our brains,
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็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฎใŸใ‚ใฎๅ›ž่ทฏใŒ ้ ญใฎไธญใซๅ‡บๆฅไธŠใŒใ‚‹ใจ
07:28
we can do it without thinking,
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่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใชใ—ใซ ใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Š
07:30
and therefore without needing much willpower or effort.
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ๆ„ๆ€ๅŠ›ใ‚„ๅŠชๅŠ›ใŒ ไธ่ฆใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™
07:35
A better-than-nothing habit
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใƒžใ‚ทใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฏ
07:38
turns out to be incredibly easy to repeat again and again
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ๅฎนๆ˜“ใซ็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ๅฎŸ่กŒใงใ
07:43
until it's on autopilot.
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ใ‚„ใŒใฆ่‡ชๅ‹•้‹่ปขใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
07:45
This is because we can do it even if we aren't motivated,
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ใ‚„ใ‚‹ๆฐ—ใฎๅ‡บใชใ„ๆ™‚ใ‚„
07:48
even if we're tired,
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็–ฒใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ™‚
07:50
even if we have no time whatsoever.
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ๆ™‚้–“ใฎใชใ„ๆ™‚ใงใ‚‚ ใ‚„ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™
07:53
And once we start acting on autopilot,
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ใฒใจใŸใณ่‡ชๅ‹•้‹่ปขใซใชใฃใŸใ‚‰
07:57
that's the golden moment
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ใ—ใ‚ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
07:59
that our habit can begin to expand organically.
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็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใŒ่‡ช็„ถใซๆˆ้•ทใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™
08:04
After only a few days of running for just one minute,
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๏ผ‘ๅˆ†ใ ใ‘่ตฐใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใฎใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใฆ ๆ•ฐๆ—ฅใ™ใ‚‹ใจ
08:08
I started feeling a real desire to keep on running,
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจ่ตฐใ‚Š็ถšใ‘ใŸใ„ใจ ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
08:13
not because I felt like I should be exercising more,
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ใ‚‚ใฃใจ้‹ๅ‹•ใ™ในใใ ใจ ๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใฏใชใ
08:16
or because I felt like I needed to impress my neighbors or something,
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ใ”่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใ•ใ‚“ใซ่‰ฏใ„ๆ ผๅฅฝใ‚’ ใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ‚‚ใชใ
08:20
but because it felt more natural to keep running
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่ตฐใ‚Šๆญขใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ‚Š ่ตฐใ‚Š็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ๆ–นใŒ ่‡ช็„ถใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™
08:24
than it felt to stop.
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08:26
Now, I of all people know that it can be incredibly tempting,
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่ช˜ๆƒ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ ็ง่‡ช่บซใ‚ˆใๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™
08:30
especially for the overachievers among us --
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็‰นใซๅ‘ไธŠๅฟƒใฎๅผทใ„ไบบใจใ„ใ†ใฎใฏ
08:33
you know who you are --
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็š†ใ•ใ‚“ ใใ†ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒ
08:35
to encourage ourselves to do more
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใƒžใ‚ทใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใจใ„ใ† ไปฅไธŠใฎใ“ใจใ‚’
08:37
than our designated better-than-nothing habit.
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ใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™
08:41
So I must warn you:
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ๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใŠใใพใ™ใŒ
08:44
the moment in which you are no longer willing to do something unambitious
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้‡Žๅฟƒ็š„ใงใชใ„ใ“ใจใฏ ใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใใชใฃใŸใชใ‚‰
08:49
is the moment in which you are risking everything.
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ๅ…จใฆใŒ็„กใซๅธฐใ™ใ‚‹ๅฑ้™บใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
08:55
It's the moment you end up checking your phone
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็ตๅฑ€ใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใ›ใšใซ
08:57
instead of whatever it is that you intended to do.
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ใ‚นใƒžใƒ›ใ‚’ใ„ใ˜ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ‚Š
09:00
It's the moment in which you stay on the couch
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ใ‚ฝใƒ•ใ‚กใซๅŽใพใฃใฆ
09:03
binge-watching TikTok videos or Netflix.
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TikTokใ‚„Netflixใ‚’ ้š›้™ใชใ่ฆ‹็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
09:07
The moment you think you "should" do more
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ใ€Œใ‚‚ใฃใจใ™ในใใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใจใใซใฏ
09:11
is the moment you introduce difficulty and force
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ๅ›ฐ้›ฃใ‚„ๅผทๅˆถใ‚„่‘›่—คใ‚’ ๆŒใก่พผใ‚€ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Š
09:15
and negotiation with yourself.
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09:18
It's the moment you eliminate the possibility that it will be easy
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็ฐกๅ˜ใงๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใ‚’
09:22
and even enjoyable.
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ๆŽ’้™คใ—ใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
09:25
So that's also the moment
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ใใ†ใ™ใ‚‹ใจ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅผทใ„ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒ ๅฟ…่ฆใซใชใฃใฆ
09:27
that will require a lot more motivation,
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ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ
09:31
and if the motivation isn't there,
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09:33
failure will be.
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ๅคฑๆ•—ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
09:36
Fortunately, the whole idea behind the better-than-nothing habit
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ๅนธใ„ ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใƒžใ‚ทใช็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฏ
09:40
is that it doesn't depend on motivation,
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ๅฅฎใ„่ตทใ“ใ›ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ ใƒขใƒใƒ™ใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซใฏไพๅญ˜ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“
09:43
which we may or may not muster.
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09:46
It's not reliant on having a lot of energy.
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ใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใซๆบขใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใ‚‚ใชใ
09:50
You do not have to be good at this.
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ไธŠๆ‰‹ใใงใใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
09:54
You need only to be willing
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ๅ…จ็„ถ้‡Žๅฟƒ็š„ใงใชใ„
09:56
to do something that is wildly unambitious,
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ใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏ ใปใ‚“ใฎใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใƒžใ‚ทใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’
10:00
to do something that is just a smidge better than nothing.
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ใ‚„ใ‚‹ๆฐ—ใ•ใˆใ‚ใ‚Œใฐ่‰ฏใ„ใฎใงใ™
10:06
But again, don't do more if you feel any form of resistance.
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ๅฐ‘ใ—ใงใ‚‚ๆŠตๆŠ—ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ ใ‚‚ใฃใจ้ ‘ๅผตใ‚ใ†ใจใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจ
10:12
I'm happy to report that after months of struggle,
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ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใŸใ„ใ“ใจใซ ไฝ•ใƒถๆœˆใ‹ใฎๆ ผ้—˜ใฎๆœซ
10:16
I am now a runner.
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็งใฏใƒฉใƒณใƒŠใƒผใซใชใ‚Œใพใ—ใŸ
10:18
I became one simply by allowing myself to be bad at it.
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็„กๆง˜ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่‡ชๅˆ†ใซ่จฑใ™ใ“ใจใง ใใ†ใชใฃใŸใฎใงใ™
10:22
You definitely could not call me an athlete;
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ใ‚ขใ‚นใƒชใƒผใƒˆใจใฏๅ‘ผในใชใ„ใ—
10:25
there are no half-marathons in my future.
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ใƒใƒผใƒ•ใƒžใƒฉใ‚ฝใƒณใซๅ‡บใ‚‹ไบˆๅฎšใ‚‚ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
10:28
But I am consistent.
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ใšใฃใจ็ถšใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™
10:30
To paraphrase the Dalai Lama,
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ใƒ€ใƒฉใ‚คใƒปใƒฉใƒžใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
10:32
the goal is not to be better than other people
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็›ฎๆจ™ใจใ™ในใใชใฎใฏ ไป–ใฎไบบใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸ่€…ใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใฏใชใ
10:34
but rather to be better than our previous selves.
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ไปฅๅ‰ใฎ่‡ชๅˆ†ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸ่€…ใซ ใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ‚ใ‚Š
10:39
And that, I definitely am.
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ใใฎ็‚นใฏใงใใฆใ„ใพใ™
10:42
When we abandon our grand plans and great ambitions
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ๅคงใ„ใชใ‚‹่จˆ็”ปใ‚„ๅคงๆœ›ใ‚’ๆจใฆใฆ ็ฌฌไธ€ๆญฉใ‚’่ธใฟๅ‡บใ™ใชใ‚‰
10:45
in favor of taking that first step,
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10:48
we shift.
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ๅค‰ๅŒ–ใŒ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™
10:50
And paradoxically,
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้€†่ชฌ็š„ใงใ™ใŒ
10:52
it's only in that tiny shift
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ๅคงใ„ใชใ‚‹่จˆ็”ปใ‚„ๅคงๆœ›ใŒ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็”Ÿใพใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏ
10:55
that our grand plans and great ambitions
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ใ“ใฎๅฐใ•ใชๅค‰ๅŒ–ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใฎใงใ™
10:59
are truly born.
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11:02
Thank you.
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ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
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