Gayle Tzemach Lemmon: Meet the first women to fight on the front lines of an American war

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2015-07-02 ・ TED


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Gayle Tzemach Lemmon: Meet the first women to fight on the front lines of an American war

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Every group of female friends has the funny one,
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the one you go to when you need a good cry,
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the one who tells you to suck it up when you've had a hard day.
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And this group was no different.
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Except that this was a community of groundbreaking women
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who came together --
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first to become teammates, then friends, and then family --
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in the least likely of places:
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on the Special Operations battlefield.
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This was a group of women whose friendship and valor was cemented
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not only by what they had seen and done at the tip of the spear,
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but by the fact that they were there
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at a time when women -- officially, at least --
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remained banned from ground combat,
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and America had no idea they existed.
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This story begins with Special Operations leaders,
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some of the most tested men in the United States military, saying,
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"We need women to help us wage this war."
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"America would never kill its way to the end of its wars," it argued.
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"Needed more knowledge and more understanding."
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And as everyone knows,
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if you want to understand what's happening in a community and in a home,
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you talk to women,
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whether you're talking about Southern Afghanistan,
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or Southern California.
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But in this case, men could not talk to women,
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because in a conservative and traditional society like Afghanistan,
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that would cause grave offense.
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So you needed women soldiers out there.
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That meant, at this time in the war, that the women who would be recruited
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to serve alongside Army Rangers and Navy SEALs,
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would be seeing the kind of combat experienced by less than five percent
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of the entire United States military.
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Less than five percent.
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So the call went out.
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"Female soldiers: Become a part of history.
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Join Special Operations on the battlefield in Afghanistan."
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This is in 2011.
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And from Alabama to Alaska,
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a group of women who had always wanted to do something that mattered
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alongside the best of the best,
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and to make a difference for their country,
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answered that call to serve.
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And for them it was not about politics, it was about serving with purpose.
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And so, the women who came to North Carolina
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to compete for a spot on these teams
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which would put women on the Special Operations front lines,
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landed and found very quickly a community,
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the likes of which they had never seen.
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Full of women who were as fierce and as fit as they were,
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and as driven to make a difference.
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They didn't have to apologize for who they were,
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and in fact, they could celebrate it.
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And what they found when they were there was that all of a sudden,
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there were lots of people like them.
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As one of them said,
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"It was like you looked around and realized
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there was more than one giraffe at the zoo."
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Among this team of standouts was Cassie,
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a young woman who managed to be an ROTC cadet, a sorority sister
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and a Women's Studies minor, all in one person.
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Tristan, a West Point track star, who always ran and road marched
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with no socks,
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and had shoes whose smell proved it.
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(Laughter)
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Amber, a Heidi look-alike, who had always wanted to be in the infantry,
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and when she found out that women couldn't be,
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she decided to become an intel officer.
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She served in Bosnia,
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and later helped the FBI to bust drug gangs in Pennsylvania.
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And then there was Kate, who played high school football
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all four years,
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and actually wanted to drop out after the first,
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to go into the glee club,
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but when boys told her that girls couldn't play football,
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she decided to stay
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for all the little girls who would come after her.
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For them, biology had shaped part of their destiny,
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and put, as Cassie once said,
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"everything noble out of reach for girls."
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And yet, here was a chance to serve with the best of the best
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on a mission that mattered to their country,
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not despite the fact that they were female,
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but because of it.
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This team of women, in many ways, was like women everywhere.
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They wore makeup, and in fact,
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they would bond in the ladies' room over eyeliner and eye pencil.
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They also wore body armor.
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They would put 50 pounds of weight on their backs,
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and board the helicopter for an operation,
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and they would come back and watch a movie called "Bridesmaids."
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(Laughter)
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They even wore a thing called Spanx,
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because, as they found very quickly,
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the uniforms made for men were big where they should be small,
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and small where they should be big.
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So Lane, an Iraq War veteran -- you see her here on my left --
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decided she was going to go on Amazon
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and order a pair of Spanx to her base,
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so that her pants would fit better when she went out on mission each night.
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These women would get together over video conference
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from all around Afghanistan from their various bases,
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and they would talk about what it was like
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to be one of the only women doing what they were doing.
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They would swap jokes,
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they would talk about what was working, what wasn't,
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what they had learned to do well, what they needed to do better.
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And they would talk about some of the lighter moments of being women
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out on the Special Operations front lines,
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including the Shewee,
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which was a tool that let you pee like a guy,
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although it's said to have had only a 40 percent accuracy rate out there.
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(Laughter)
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These women lived in the "and."
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They proved you could be fierce and you could be feminine.
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You could wear mascara and body armor.
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You could love CrossFit, and really like cross-stitch.
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You could love to climb out of helicopters and you could also love to bake cookies.
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Women live in the and every single day,
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and these women brought that to this mission as well.
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On this life and death battlefield they never forgot
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that being female may have brought them to the front lines,
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but being a soldier is what would prove themselves there.
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There was the night Amber went out on mission,
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and in talking to the women of the house,
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realized that there was a barricaded shooter lying in wait
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for the Afghan and American forces who were waiting to enter the home.
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Another night it was Tristan who found out
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that there were pieces that make up explosives
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all around the house in which they were standing,
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and that in fact, explosives lay all the way between there
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and where they were about to head that night.
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There was the night another one of their teammates proved herself
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to a decidedly skeptical team of SEALs,
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when she found the intel item they were looking for
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wrapped up in a baby's wet diaper.
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And there was the night that Isabel, another one of their teammates,
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found the things that they were looking for,
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and received an Impact Award from the Rangers
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who said that without her,
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the things and the people they were looking for that night
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would never have been found.
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That night and so many others,
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they went out to prove themselves, not only for one another,
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but for everybody who would come after them.
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And also for the men alongside whom they served.
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We talk a lot about how behind every great man is a good woman.
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And in this case,
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next to these women stood men who wanted to see them succeed.
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The Army Ranger who trained them had served 12 deployments.
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And when they told him that he had to go train girls,
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he had no idea what to expect.
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But at the end of eight days with these women in the summer of 2011,
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he told his fellow Ranger, "We have just witnessed history.
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These may well be our own Tuskegee Airmen."
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(Applause)
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At the heart of this team was the one person
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who everyone called "the best of us."
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She was a petite blonde dynamo,
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who barely reached five-foot-three.
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And she was this wild mix of Martha Stewart,
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and what we know as G.I. Jane.
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She was someone who loved to make dinner for her husband,
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her Kent State ROTC sweetheart who pushed her to be her best,
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and to trust herself,
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and to test every limit she could.
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She also loved to put 50 pounds of weight on her back and run for miles,
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and she loved to be a soldier.
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She was somebody who had a bread maker in her office in Kandahar,
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and would bake a batch of raisin bread, and then go to the gym
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and bust out 25 or 30 pull-ups from a dead hang.
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She was the person who, if you needed an extra pair of boots
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or a home-cooked dinner, would be on your speed dial.
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Because she never, ever would talk to you
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about how good she was,
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but let her character speak through action.
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She was famous for taking the hard right over the easy wrong.
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And she was also famous for walking up to a 15-foot rope,
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climbing it using only her arms,
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and then shuffling away and apologizing,
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because she knew she was supposed to use both her arms and her legs,
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as the Rangers had trained them.
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(Laughter)
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Some of our heroes return home to tell their stories.
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And some of them don't.
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And on October 22, 2011,
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First Lieutenant Ashley White was killed alongside two Rangers,
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Christopher Horns
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and Kristoffer Domeij.
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Her death threw this program built for the shadows
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into a very public spotlight.
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Because after all,
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the ban on women in combat was still very much in place.
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And at her funeral,
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the head of Army Special Operations came, and gave a public testimony
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not just to the courage of Ashley White,
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but to all her team of sisters.
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"Make no mistake about it," he said, "these women are warriors,
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and they have written a new chapter in what it means to be a female
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in the United States Army."
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Ashley's mom is a teacher's aide and a school bus driver,
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who bakes cookies on the side.
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She doesn't remember much about that overwhelming set of days,
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in which grief -- enormous grief --
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mixed with pride.
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But she does remember one moment.
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A stranger with a child in her hand came up to her
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and she said, "Mrs. White,
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I brought my daughter here today,
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because I wanted her to know what a hero was.
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And I wanted her to know that heroes could be women, too."
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It is time to celebrate all the unsung heroines
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who reach into their guts
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and find the heart and the grit to keep going and to test every limit.
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This very unlikely band of sisters bound forever in life and afterward
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did indeed become part of history,
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and they paved the way for so many who would come after them,
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as much as they stood on the shoulders of those who had come before.
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These women showed that warriors come in all shapes and sizes.
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And women can be heroes, too.
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Thank you so much.
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(Applause)
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