Family life conversation (My son's girlfriend is pregnant.) English Conversation Practice

Paulo did you hear what I've just  said Paulo are you okay Paulo  

Paulo 你听到我刚才说的话了吗 Paulo 你还好吗 Paulo

oh hi Dad yeah Egypt just arrived  home how was work today how are you

哦嗨爸爸是的 Egypt 刚到家 今天工作怎么样 你还好吗

no I haven't just arrived I'm leaving to my  work now didn't you hear hey what's going on  

我还没到 我现在要去上班了 你没听到吗嘿，发生

uh what nothing everything's fine have a nice day

什么事了，嗯，没什么事，一切都很好，祝你有美好的一天，

I don't believe you you have been very  thoughtful lately what's happening

我不相信你，你最近很体贴，发生了

a thoughtful no what are you  talking about I'm fine don't worry

什么事，很体贴，不，你在说什么，我很好，别担心，

you must be late for work I'm fine  dad are you coming to have lunch today

你一定是上班迟到了，我很好爸爸，你今天又来吃午饭了吗

again I don't believe you you know you can  trust me I am your father come on tell me

我不相信你你知道你可以相信我我是你的父亲拜托告诉我

I I can't tell you this is something I  have to figure out myself it's my fault  

我不能告诉你这是我必须自己弄清楚的事情这是我的错

look I know you are of age now  last month you turned 18 but  

看，我知道你现在已经成年了，上个月你满 18 岁了，但

I'm older than you and maybe I can  help you some ways on please trust me

我比你大，也许我可以在某些方面帮助你，请相信我，哦

oh okay Dad I will tell you but please  take a seat this is something important

，好吧，爸爸，我会告诉你的，但请坐，这很重要，

all right now tell me is this  something about the college

好吧现在告诉我这是关于大学的事情

no it's not about college it's not about  a study's career or something like that

吗不这不是关于大学这不是关于学习的职业或类似的

then it's about your friends did  you fight with your best friend

事情那么这是关于你的朋友你和你最好的朋友打架

know that I didn't fight with Patrick I  talked to him normally yesterday we were fine

知道我没有和帕特里克打架我昨天和他正常说话我们很好

then it's about your mom and I did  we do anything wrong please tell us

然后这是关于你妈妈我做错了什么请告诉我们

know that it's not about Mom and  you this is about this is about Mary

知道这不是关于妈妈和你，这是关于玛丽的，

oh I knew it of course it was  about your girlfriend what happened

哦，我当然知道，这是关于你

don't tell me you fight with her well  that's something very usual don't worry

女朋友 的

no we didn't fight it's even worse than  that it's something really serious that

比那真的很严重 好吧

all right relax something serious could be  that she has become pregnant but that cannot be

放松 一些严重的事情可能是她怀孕了 但那不可能

so let's think Paulo No this must  be a joke right don't tell me  

所以让我们想想

yes that she's pregnant Mary  is pregnant we will have a baby

保罗宝贝

I knew you were funny but this  oh my God you almost caught me

，我知道你很有趣，但是天啊，你差点抓住我，

so now tell me what is the real problem  did you break up with her or what

所以现在告诉我你和她分手的真正问题是什么，或者是什么

that stop it she's pregnant I'm  not lying we will have a baby

阻止了它，她怀孕了，我没有撒谎，我们会有一个孩子

no no no this can't be truth Paulo  tell me this is a joke please

不不不这不可能是真的保罗告诉我这是个笑话请

know that this is not a joke Mary  and I are going to be parents  

知道这不是开玩笑 玛丽和我要当父母了

I'm sorry but how could this happen  we talked about this I advised you

对不起，这怎么可能发生 我们谈过这个 我建议过你

I always supported your relationship  I trust you both you're studying

我一直支持你们的关系 我相信你们俩 你正在学习

you're supposed to be a famous doctor you  told me you were gonna be the best doctor

你应该是 著名医生

I know I know that I told you those  things but this happened what could we do

， 你告诉我你会成为

oh my God I can't believe it I feel  I feel I don't know what to feel  

我所知道的 最好的医生

that please I know that I have  disappointed you but I need your help

拜托，我知道我让你失望了，但我需要你的帮助，我

I need your advice now I don't know what to do  I don't feel prepared I'm not ready for this

现在需要你的建议，我不知道该怎么办，我觉得自己没有准备好，我还没有准备好，

I need you as my father the person I can't  trust in please do not leave me alone now  

我需要你作为我的父亲，我能做到的人不信任请不要离开我现在

I'm scared I have been thinking  too much I have no idea what to do

我很害怕我一直在想太多我不知道该怎么做好吧

all right just let me let  me take it in I'm shocked  

让我让我接受它我很震惊

I didn't expect this but I guess it's already  done now what should we do I'm not sure

我没想到这个但我我猜现在已经完成了 我们应该做什么 我不确定

what do you mean you're not sure you  need to help me please that please

你是什么意思 你不确定你需要帮助我 求求你 好吧

all right all right I need to clear my mind  I I also became a father when I was your age  

好吧 我需要理清思路 II我在你这个年纪的时候也当了父亲

it's just that I have never expected you to  make the same mistakes but this is what it is

只是我从没想过你会犯同样的错误但这没关系

all right the first thing you  should do is is stay calm yeah

你应该做的第一件事就是保持冷静是的

you don't look calm that you look even  more scared than I do that I need you

你看起来并不冷静你看起来比我更害怕我需要你是

yeah I guess you're right you don't need me to  shout or fight with you I get it it's just that  

的我想你是对的你不需要我大喊大叫或与你打架我明白这只是不，好吧让我们这样做

no all right let's do this we need to do something

我们需要做一些

all right let's stay calm yeah  

好吧让我们留下来冷静 是的，

it's natural to feel overwhelmed worried and  even scared or embarrassed remember that your  

感到不知所措、担心甚至害怕或尴尬是很自然的 请记住，你的

girlfriend probably feels the same way be  calm and compassionate as you talk to her  

女朋友可能也有同样的感觉 当你和她说话时要冷静和富有同情心

don't raise your voice and don't place blame  now you will have to be more united than ever

不要提高你的声音，也不要责怪现在你必须更加比以往任何时候都更团结

have you already talked to her about this  I mean did you talk calmly about this

你已经和她谈过这件事了 我的意思是你是否冷静地谈论过这个

we have talked but you know she's  also scared more than I am in fact

我们已经谈过了 但你知道她也比我更害怕事实上

I suppose so don't worry you'll talk  to her and you will be fine together

我想 所以别担心你会和她谈谈你会的在一起很好

and this is something really important so please  listen to her pay attention to her feelings

，这真的很重要，所以请听听她爸爸的话你注意她的感受

be supportive as she shares her feelings with  you let her know that you will be there for her

当她与你分享她的感受时给予支持 让她知道你会在她身边

and that you will figure it out  together she may be the one who  

，你们会一起解决问题 她可能是

is pregnant but you both have a responsibility now

怀孕的人，但现在你们都有责任

I know you're scared but she's even more  scared now that's why you need to support her

我知道你很害怕，但她现在更害怕了，这就是为什么你需要支持她

and no never think or consider adoption or  other solution for that you will have the baby

并且永远不会考虑或考虑收养或其他解决方案，因为你会生孩子

I know you're both scared but you want to  have that baby right have you considered

我知道你们都很害怕但你想要那个孩子是对的你认为

that we have talked about that we want to have  this baby it was not our plan but we want to  

我们已经谈过了吗关于我们想要这个孩子，这不是我们的计划，但我们想要

good good but that's the best decision  now you will have to get married I suppose

好的，但这是最好的决定，现在你必须结婚，我想结婚了，

married we haven't talked about  that before I love Mary but

在我爱玛丽之前我们没有谈过这个，但是

oh sure I'm sorry I always forget  that these are different times

哦，我确定对不起，我总是忘记现在是不同的时代，

you don't have to get married if you don't want  to but you need to talk about that at least

如果你不想结婚，你不必结婚，但你需要谈谈，至少

I love Mary I have no problem  marrying her I want to be her husband

我爱玛丽，我嫁给她没问题，我想成为她的丈夫，

great and that's good but please take your  time to take that decision it's not a game

太棒了这很好，但请花点时间做出决定 当你妈妈怀孕的时候 这不是一场比赛

when your mom got pregnant I was also  scared I couldn't believe that seriously

我也很害怕我不敢相信

we became parents at a very young age  we also talked to our parents then

我们在很小的时候就成为了父母我们也和我们的父母谈过然后

sadly they didn't support us they left us  alone but this time your case is different

遗憾的是他们不支持我们他们让我们独自一人但是这次你的情况不一样

I'm here for you soon and I will support you  and my daughter-in-law and of course my grandson

我很快就会来找你 我会支持你和我的儿媳妇，当然还有我的孙子孙子 哦天哪 我

grandson oh my God I will become a grandfather

会成为祖父

I hadn't noticed I will become a  grandfather I'm so happy my grandson oh God

我没有注意到我会成为祖父 我是太高兴了我的孙子哦上帝

are you serious then you're not  angry or disappointed anymore

你是认真的然后你不再生气或失望好

well this is something huge and it's already  done we have to assume our responsibility

这是一件大事而且已经完成我们必须承担我们的责任

everything will be fine Paulo I promise  you we your mom and I will be here for you

一切都会好的保罗我向你保证我们你的妈妈我会在这里你

and of course for our grandson  or granddaughter oh my God

，当然还有我们的孙子或孙女哦我的上帝

thank you Dad I feel much better now oh  I need to call Mary I'll bring her home

谢谢你爸爸我现在感觉好多了哦我需要打电话给玛丽我会带她回家

absolutely tell her to come or you  can bring her home I love you son

绝对告诉她来或者你可以带她回家我爱你儿子我爱

I love you Dad you were always there for me and  this is not the exception thank you I hope you  

你爸爸，你一直在我身边，这也不例外，谢谢你，我希望你 如果你能提高你的英语水平， 你

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