Family life conversation (My son's girlfriend is pregnant.) English Conversation Practice

Paulo did you hear what I've just  said Paulo are you okay Paulo  

oh hi Dad yeah Egypt just arrived  home how was work today how are you

no I haven't just arrived I'm leaving to my  work now didn't you hear hey what's going on  

uh what nothing everything's fine have a nice day

I don't believe you you have been very  thoughtful lately what's happening

a thoughtful no what are you  talking about I'm fine don't worry

you must be late for work I'm fine  dad are you coming to have lunch today

again I don't believe you you know you can  trust me I am your father come on tell me

I I can't tell you this is something I  have to figure out myself it's my fault  

look I know you are of age now  last month you turned 18 but  

I'm older than you and maybe I can  help you some ways on please trust me

oh okay Dad I will tell you but please  take a seat this is something important

all right now tell me is this  something about the college

no it's not about college it's not about  a study's career or something like that

then it's about your friends did  you fight with your best friend

know that I didn't fight with Patrick I  talked to him normally yesterday we were fine

then it's about your mom and I did  we do anything wrong please tell us

know that it's not about Mom and  you this is about this is about Mary

oh I knew it of course it was  about your girlfriend what happened

don't tell me you fight with her well  that's something very usual don't worry

no we didn't fight it's even worse than  that it's something really serious that

all right relax something serious could be  that she has become pregnant but that cannot be

so let's think Paulo No this must  be a joke right don't tell me  

yes that she's pregnant Mary  is pregnant we will have a baby

I knew you were funny but this  oh my God you almost caught me

so now tell me what is the real problem  did you break up with her or what

that stop it she's pregnant I'm  not lying we will have a baby

no no no this can't be truth Paulo  tell me this is a joke please

know that this is not a joke Mary  and I are going to be parents  

I'm sorry but how could this happen  we talked about this I advised you

I always supported your relationship  I trust you both you're studying

you're supposed to be a famous doctor you  told me you were gonna be the best doctor

I know I know that I told you those  things but this happened what could we do

oh my God I can't believe it I feel  I feel I don't know what to feel  

that please I know that I have  disappointed you but I need your help

I need your advice now I don't know what to do  I don't feel prepared I'm not ready for this

I need you as my father the person I can't  trust in please do not leave me alone now  

I'm scared I have been thinking  too much I have no idea what to do

all right just let me let  me take it in I'm shocked  

I didn't expect this but I guess it's already  done now what should we do I'm not sure

what do you mean you're not sure you  need to help me please that please

all right all right I need to clear my mind  I I also became a father when I was your age  

it's just that I have never expected you to  make the same mistakes but this is what it is

all right the first thing you  should do is is stay calm yeah

you don't look calm that you look even  more scared than I do that I need you

yeah I guess you're right you don't need me to  shout or fight with you I get it it's just that  

no all right let's do this we need to do something

all right let's stay calm yeah  

it's natural to feel overwhelmed worried and  even scared or embarrassed remember that your  

girlfriend probably feels the same way be  calm and compassionate as you talk to her  

don't raise your voice and don't place blame  now you will have to be more united than ever

have you already talked to her about this  I mean did you talk calmly about this

we have talked but you know she's  also scared more than I am in fact

I suppose so don't worry you'll talk  to her and you will be fine together

and this is something really important so please  listen to her pay attention to her feelings

be supportive as she shares her feelings with  you let her know that you will be there for her

and that you will figure it out  together she may be the one who  

is pregnant but you both have a responsibility now

I know you're scared but she's even more  scared now that's why you need to support her

and no never think or consider adoption or  other solution for that you will have the baby

I know you're both scared but you want to  have that baby right have you considered

that we have talked about that we want to have  this baby it was not our plan but we want to  

good good but that's the best decision  now you will have to get married I suppose

married we haven't talked about  that before I love Mary but

oh sure I'm sorry I always forget  that these are different times

you don't have to get married if you don't want  to but you need to talk about that at least

I love Mary I have no problem  marrying her I want to be her husband

great and that's good but please take your  time to take that decision it's not a game

when your mom got pregnant I was also  scared I couldn't believe that seriously

we became parents at a very young age  we also talked to our parents then

sadly they didn't support us they left us  alone but this time your case is different

I'm here for you soon and I will support you  and my daughter-in-law and of course my grandson

grandson oh my God I will become a grandfather

I hadn't noticed I will become a  grandfather I'm so happy my grandson oh God

are you serious then you're not  angry or disappointed anymore

well this is something huge and it's already  done we have to assume our responsibility

everything will be fine Paulo I promise  you we your mom and I will be here for you

and of course for our grandson  or granddaughter oh my God

thank you Dad I feel much better now oh  I need to call Mary I'll bring her home

absolutely tell her to come or you  can bring her home I love you son

I love you Dad you were always there for me and  this is not the exception thank you I hope you  

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