Family life conversation (My son's girlfriend is pregnant.) English Conversation Practice

Paulo did you hear what I've just  said Paulo are you okay Paulo  

Paulo narinig mo ba ang kakasabi ko lang Paulo okay ka lang Paulo

oh hi Dad yeah Egypt just arrived  home how was work today how are you

oh hi Dad yeah Egypt just arrive home how was work today how are you

no I haven't just arrived I'm leaving to my  work now didn't you hear hey what's going on  

hindi pa lang ako nakarating paalis na ako sa trabaho ko di mo ba narinig hey anong nangyayari

uh what nothing everything's fine have a nice day

uh ano wala okay lang ang lahat have a nice day

I don't believe you you have been very  thoughtful lately what's happening

hindi ako naniniwala sayo lately masyado kang nag-iisip kung ano ang nangyayari

a thoughtful no what are you  talking about I'm fine don't worry

a thoughtful no what are you talking about okay lang ako don't worry

you must be late for work I'm fine  dad are you coming to have lunch today

baka male-late ka na sa trabaho ko. ayos lang tatay pupunta ka ba

again I don't believe you you know you can  trust me I am your father come on tell me

ulit ngayong tanghalian hindi ako naniniwala sa iyo alam mong mapagkakatiwalaan mo ako ako ang iyong ama halika sabihin mo sa akin

I I can't tell you this is something I  have to figure out myself it's my fault  

hindi ko masabi sa iyo ito ay isang bagay na kailangan kong malaman ang aking sarili kasalanan ko

look I know you are of age now  last month you turned 18 but  

tignan ko alam kong nasa edad ka na ngayon last month 18 ka na pero

I'm older than you and maybe I can  help you some ways on please trust me

mas matanda ako sayo at baka may maitutulong ako sayo please trust me

oh okay Dad I will tell you but please  take a seat this is something important

oh okay Dad sasabihin ko sayo pero please take a seat this is something important

all right now tell me is this  something about the college

all right ngayon sabihin mo sa akin ito ba ay tungkol sa kolehiyo

no it's not about college it's not about  a study's career or something like that

hindi ito tungkol sa kolehiyo hindi ito tungkol sa karera ng pag-aaral o isang bagay na tulad nito

then it's about your friends did  you fight with your best friend

t hen it's about your friends nag away ba kayo ng best friend mo

know that I didn't fight with Patrick I  talked to him normally yesterday we were fine

alam mo na hindi ko inaway si Patrick nakausap ko siya ng normal kahapon okay naman kami

then it's about your mom and I did  we do anything wrong please tell us

then it's about your mom and I did we do anything wrong please tell us

know that it's not about Mom and  you this is about this is about Mary

know that it's not about Mom and you this is about this is about Mary

oh I knew it of course it was  about your girlfriend what happened

oh I knew it of course about your girlfriend what happened

don't tell me you fight with her well  that's something very usual don't worry

don't tell me awayin mo siya well that's something very usual don't worry

no we didn't fight it's even worse than  that it's something really serious that

no hindi tayo nag-away mas malala pa. than that it's something really serious na sige

all right relax something serious could be  that she has become pregnant but that cannot be

relax something serious could be that she has been pregnant but that cannot be

so let's think Paulo No this must  be a joke right don't tell me  

so let's think Paulo No it must be a joke right don't tell me

yes that she's pregnant Mary  is pregnant we will have a baby

yes na buntis siya Mary is pregnant we will have a baby

I knew you were funny but this  oh my God you almost caught me

I knew you were funny but this oh my God muntik mo na akong mahuli

so now tell me what is the real problem  did you break up with her or what

kaya ngayon sabihin mo sa akin kung ano ba talaga ang problema nakipaghiwalay ka ba sa kanya o what that

that stop it she's pregnant I'm  not lying we will have a baby

stop it buntis siya hindi ako nagsisinungaling magkakaroon tayo ng baby

no no no this can't be truth Paulo  tell me this is a joke please

no no no this can't be truth Paulo tell me joke lang to please

know that this is not a joke Mary  and I are going to be parents  

know t hat ito ay hindi biro magiging magulang na kami ni Mary

I'm sorry but how could this happen  we talked about this I advised you

Pasensya na pero paano nangyari ito napag-usapan namin ito pinayuhan ko kayo

I always supported your relationship  I trust you both you're studying

lagi kong sinusuportahan ang relasyon ninyo may tiwala ako sa inyong dalawa nag-aaral kayo

you're supposed to be a famous doctor you  told me you were gonna be the best doctor

dapat ay isang sikat na doctor you told me you were gonna be the best doctor

I know I know that I told you those  things but this happened what could we do

I know I know that I told you those things but this happened what can we do

oh my God I can't believe it I feel  I feel I don't know what to feel  

oh my God I can't believe it Pakiramdam ko hindi ko alam kung anong mararamdaman

that please I know that I have  disappointed you but I need your help

na pakiusap alam ko na binigo kita ngunit kailangan ko ang iyong tulong

I need your advice now I don't know what to do  I don't feel prepared I'm not ready for this

kailangan ko ang iyong payo ngayon hindi ko alam kung ano ang gagawin ko hindi ako handa na hindi ako handa para dito

I need you as my father the person I can't  trust in please do not leave me alone now  

kailangan kita bilang aking ama ang taong kaya ko. 'wag kang magtiwala please wag mo akong iwan ngayon

I'm scared I have been thinking  too much I have no idea what to do

natatakot ako masyado akong nag-iisip wala akong idea kung ano ang gagawin ko

all right just let me let  me take it in I'm shocked  

sige hayaan mo lang akong kunin nabigla ako

I didn't expect this but I guess it's already  done now what should we do I'm not sure

hindi ko inaasahan pero hulaan mo na ngayon kung ano ang dapat nating gawin hindi ko sigurado

what do you mean you're not sure you  need to help me please that please

kung ano ang ibig mong sabihin hindi ka sigurado na kailangan mo akong tulungan please na please

all right all right I need to clear my mind  I I also became a father when I was your age  

sige sige kailangan kong linisin ang isip ko II naging tatay din ako nung kasing edad mo

it's just that I have never expected you to  make the same mistakes but this is what it is

lang ako hindi ko inaasahan na magkakamali ka pero ito ang tama ang

all right the first thing you  should do is is stay calm yeah

una mong gawin ay manatiling kalmado oo

you don't look calm that you look even  more scared than I do that I need you

mukhang hindi ka kalmado ang itsura mo. mas natakot pa ako na kailangan kita

yeah I guess you're right you don't need me to  shout or fight with you I get it it's just that  

oo tama ka siguro hindi mo ako kailangan sumigaw o makipag-away sayo I get it buti na lang

no all right let's do this we need to do something

hindi sige gawin natin to kailangan natin gawin

all right let's stay calm yeah  

sige let's stay kalmado oo

it's natural to feel overwhelmed worried and  even scared or embarrassed remember that your  

natural na makaramdam ng labis na pag-aalala at kahit na natatakot o napahiya tandaan na ang iyong

girlfriend probably feels the same way be  calm and compassionate as you talk to her  

kasintahan ay malamang na ganoon din ang pakiramdam ng maging mahinahon at mahabagin habang nakikipag-usap ka sa kanya

don't raise your voice and don't place blame  now you will have to be more united than ever

. united than ever

have you already talked to her about this  I mean did you talk calmly about this

have you already talked to her about this I mean did you talk calmly about this

we have talked but you know she's  also scared more than I am in fact

napag-usapan na natin pero alam mo na mas natatakot din siya kaysa sa akin in fact

I suppose so don't worry you'll talk  to her and you will be fine together

I suppose so don't worry kakausapin mo siya at gagawin mo. be fine together

and this is something really important so please  listen to her pay attention to her feelings

and this is something really important so please listen to her pa y pansin sa kanyang damdamin

be supportive as she shares her feelings with  you let her know that you will be there for her

be supportive as she share her feelings with you let her know that you will be there for her

and that you will figure it out  together she may be the one who  

and that you will figure out together maaring siya yung buntis

is pregnant but you both have a responsibility now

pero pareho kayong may responsibilidad ngayon

I know you're scared but she's even more  scared now that's why you need to support her

alam kong natatakot ka pero siya. mas natatakot ngayon kaya kailangan mo siyang suportahan

and no never think or consider adoption or  other solution for that you will have the baby

and no never think or consider adoption or other solution for that you will have the baby

I know you're both scared but you want to  have that baby right have you considered

I know you're both scared but you want to have that baby right have you consider

that we have talked about that we want to have  this baby it was not our plan but we want to  

that we have talked about that we want to have this baby it was not our plan but we want to

good good but that's the best decision  now you will have to get married I suppose

good good but that's the best decision now you will have to get married I suppose

married we haven't talked about  that before I love Mary but

married we haven't talk about that before I love Mary but

oh sure I'm sorry I always forget  that these are different times

oh sure I' m sorry lagi kong nakakalimutan na magkaiba ang panahon na

you don't have to get married if you don't want  to but you need to talk about that at least

hindi mo kailangan magpakasal kung ayaw mo pero kailangan mong pag usapan yan atleast

I love Mary I have no problem  marrying her I want to be her husband

mahal ko si Mary wala akong problema pakasalan ko siya gusto ko maging asawa niya

great and that's good but please take your  time to take that decision it's not a game

mahusay. at mabuti iyon ngunit mangyaring maglaan ng oras upang gawin ang desisyong iyon 's not a game

when your mom got pregnant I was also  scared I couldn't believe that seriously

when your mom got pregnant natakot din ako I couldn't believe na seriously

we became parents at a very young age  we also talked to our parents then

naging magulang kami sa murang edad nag usap din kami ng parents namin then

sadly they didn't support us they left us  alone but this time your case is different

sadly hindi nila kami sinuportahan iniwan kami pero this time iba ang kaso mo

I'm here for you soon and I will support you  and my daughter-in-law and of course my grandson

andito na ako para sayo at susuportahan kita ng manugang ko at syempre apo apo ko

grandson oh my God I will become a grandfather

oh my god magiging lolo na ako

I hadn't noticed I will become a  grandfather I'm so happy my grandson oh God

hindi ko napansin magiging lolo na pala ako. so happy apo ko oh God

are you serious then you're not  angry or disappointed anymore

seryoso ka tapos hindi ka na galit or bigo

well this is something huge and it's already  done we have to assume our responsibility

well this is something huge and it is already done we have to assume our responsibility

everything will be fine Paulo I promise  you we your mom and I will be here for you

everything will be fine Paulo I promise you we your mom and I will be here for ikaw

and of course for our grandson  or granddaughter oh my God

at syempre para sa apo o apo natin oh my God

thank you Dad I feel much better now oh  I need to call Mary I'll bring her home

thank you Dad I feel better now oh I need to call Mary I'll bring her home

absolutely tell her to come or you  can bring her home I love you son

absolutely tell her to come or you can bring her home I love you anak

I love you Dad you were always there for me and  this is not the exception thank you I hope you  

I love you Dad you were always there for me and this is not the exception thank you sana y Nagustuhan mo

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