How revenge porn turns lives upside down | Darieth Chisolm

149,847 views ใƒป 2018-11-14

TED


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Dongjae Jeong ๊ฒ€ํ† : Jihyeon J. Kim
00:12
I had about five minutes before I was set to deliver a talk
0
12929
3237
์ €์—๊ฒ 5๋ถ„์ด ๋‚จ์•„์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฒฝ์˜์ž๋“ค ์•ž์—์„œ
00:16
to a bunch of business owners
1
16190
1403
00:17
about visibility and being on camera.
2
17617
2724
๋ณด์—ฌ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ์นด๋ฉ”๋ผ ์•ž์— ์„œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ•์—ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „ ๊นŒ์ง€์š”
00:20
After all, I was the so-called expert there,
3
20365
2887
์ €๋Š” 20๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ TV ๋‰ด์Šค ์•ต์ปค๋กœ ์ผํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
00:23
the former 20-year television news anchor and life and business coach.
4
23276
5104
์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์‚ถ๊ณผ ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์ฝ”์น˜๋กœ ํ™œ๋™ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด ๋ถ„์•ผ์˜ ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:28
I happened to take a look down at my cell phone just to catch the time,
5
28957
3369
์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ธ๋“œํฐ์„ ํ™•์ธํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
์ œ ์ „๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ๋ถ€์žฌ์ค‘ ์ „ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์™€์žˆ๋˜ ๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:32
and I noticed that I had a missed call from my ex-husband.
6
32350
2786
00:36
I can still hear his voice.
7
36585
1800
์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ๊ทธ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:39
"Darieth, what is going on?
8
39553
2726
"๋Œ€๋ฆฌ์–ด์Šค, ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋œ๊ฑฐ์•ผ?
00:43
I just got a call from some strange man who told me to go to this website,
9
43128
4690
๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ „ํ™”์™€์„œ ์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ์— ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๋ณด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
00:47
and now I'm looking at all of these photos of you naked.
10
47842
3809
์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋„ˆ์˜ ๋‚˜์ฒด ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์–ด.
00:52
Your private parts are all over this website.
11
52010
2746
๋„ˆ์˜ ์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ๋ถ€๋ถ„๋“ค๊นŒ์ง€ ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ์— ๋‹ค ์˜ฌ๋ผ์™€ ์žˆ์–ด.
00:55
Who's seen this?"
12
55241
1247
๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์ด๊ฑธ ๋ณธ ๊ฑฐ์ง€?"
00:58
I couldn't think. I couldn't breathe.
13
58479
2667
์ €๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ๋„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ๊ณ , ์ˆจ์กฐ์ฐจ ์‰ด ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:02
I was so humiliated and so embarrassed and so ashamed.
14
62223
3964
๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ตด์š•์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ˆ˜์น˜์Šค๋Ÿฌ์› ์–ด์š”.
01:06
I felt like my world was coming to an end.
15
66211
2620
๋งˆ์น˜ ์ œ ์„ธ์ƒ์ด ๋‹ค ๋๋‚˜๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:09
And yet, this began for me months of pain and depression
16
69196
4484
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด ์ผ๋กœ ์ €๋Š”
๊ณ ํ†ต๊ณผ ์šฐ์šธํ•จ, ๋ถ„๋…ธ, ํ˜ผ๋ž€์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›€๊ณผ ์นจ๋ฌต์œผ๋กœ ๋ช‡๋‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์–ด์š”.
01:13
and anger and confusion and silence.
17
73704
2400
01:16
My manipulative, jealous, stalker ex-boyfriend
18
76992
4454
์ œ ๊ตํ™œํ•˜๊ณ  ์งˆํˆฌ์‹ฌ ๋งŽ์€ ์Šคํ† ์ปค ์ „๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€
01:21
did exactly what he said he would do:
19
81470
2134
์ž์‹ ์ด ํ•˜๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:23
he put up a website with my name on it,
20
83628
2636
์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋‹ด๊ธด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ 
01:26
and he posted this.
21
86288
1605
์ด๊ฑธ ํฌ์ŠคํŒ…ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:29
And this.
22
89167
1150
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ๋„.
01:31
And several explicit photos
23
91317
2054
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ž๋ฉ”์ด์นด์—์„œ ์ „๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์‚ด์•˜์„ ๋•Œ
01:33
that he had taken of me while I was asleep,
24
93395
2368
์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ž˜ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ์ฐ์€
01:35
living with him in Jamaica.
25
95787
1957
๋ช‡๋ช‡ ๋…ธ๊ณจ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค๊นŒ์ง€์š”.
01:37
For months prior to that, he had been sending me
26
97768
2317
์ด ์ผ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋ช‡๋‹ฌ ์ „๋ถ€ํ„ฐ
01:40
threatening text messages like this.
27
100109
2420
๊ทธ๋Š” ์ œ๊ฒŒ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์–ด์š”.
01:42
He was trying to make me out to be some sleazy, low-life slut.
28
102553
3912
์ €๋ฅผ ์ฒœ๋ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ €๊ธ‰ํ•œ ๋งค์ถ˜๋ถ€๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“ค๋ ค๋˜ ๊ฑฐ์˜€์ฃ .
01:47
He had even threatened to kill me.
29
107618
1699
์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ์ €๋ฅผ ์ฃฝ์ด๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ˜‘๋ฐ•๊นŒ์ง€ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:49
He told me that he would shoot me in my head and stab me in my heart,
30
109341
4943
์ œ ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ด์œผ๋กœ ์˜๊ณ  ์‹ฌ์žฅ์„ ์ฐŒ๋ฅด๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
01:54
simply because I wanted to end the controlling relationship.
31
114308
3240
๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜ฅ์ฃ„๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋กœ ๋ง์ด์—์š”.
01:58
I couldn't believe this was happening to me.
32
118977
2532
์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ๋“ค์ด ์ œ๊ฒŒ ๋ฒŒ์–ด์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๋ฏฟ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
02:01
I didn't even know what to call it.
33
121890
1889
์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์„ ๋ญ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€๋„ ๋ชฐ๋ž์ฃ .
02:03
You might know it as cyberharassment or cyberbullying.
34
123803
3649
์‚ฌ์ด๋ฒ„๊ดด๋กญํž˜์ด๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์ด๋ฒ„ํญ๋ ฅ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:07
The media calls it "revenge porn."
35
127768
2420
๋ฏธ๋””์–ด์—์„œ๋Š” "๋ณด๋ณต ํฌ๋ฅด๋…ธ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด์ฃ .
02:10
I now call it "digital domestic violence."
36
130625
3269
์ €๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ "๋””์ง€ํ„ธ ๊ฐ€์ •ํญ๋ ฅ"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:14
It typically stems from a relationship gone bad,
37
134387
3117
๋ณดํ†ต ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋๋‚œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ
02:17
where a controlling, jilted ex-lover can't handle rejection,
38
137528
4105
ํ†ต์ œ์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ฒ„๋ ค์ง„ ์ „์• ์ธ์ด ์ด๋ณ„์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ฒŒ๋˜์ž
02:21
so when they can't physically put their hands on you,
39
141657
2730
๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฌผ๋ฆฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ž
02:24
they use different weapons: cell phones and laptops.
40
144411
3777
๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฌด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค: ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์™€ ๋…ธํŠธ๋ถ์ด์ฃ .
02:28
The ammunition?
41
148212
1159
๊ณต๊ฒฉ ์ˆ˜๋‹จ์€์š”?
02:29
Photos, videos, explicit information, content -- all posted online,
42
149395
5639
์‚ฌ์ง„, ์˜์ƒ, ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•œ ์ •๋ณด๋‚˜ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์— ๊ฒŒ์‹œํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
02:35
without your consent.
43
155058
1619
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋™์˜ ์—†์ด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:37
I mean, let's face it -- we all live our lives online.
44
157082
3241
์ œ ๋ง์€์š”, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:40
And the internet is a really small world.
45
160347
2754
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์€ ์•„์ฃผ ์ž‘์€ ์„ธ๊ณ„์˜ˆ์š”.
02:43
We show off our baby photos,
46
163125
1865
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์— ์•„์ด๋“ค์˜ ์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ์ž๋ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
02:45
we start and grow our businesses, we make new relationships,
47
165014
2833
์‚ฌ์—…์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ™•์žฅํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
we let the world in, one Facebook like at a time.
48
167871
4716
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ช‡๋ฒˆ์˜ ํŽ˜์ด์Šค๋ถ ์ข‹์•„์š”๋กœ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์„ธ๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ฃ .
02:53
And you know what I found?
49
173323
1516
์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋˜ ๋ญ˜ ์ฐพ์•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•„์„ธ์š”?
02:54
An even smaller world.
50
174863
1467
์ด๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ž‘์€ ์„ธ์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:56
One in 25 women say they have been impacted by revenge porn.
51
176728
4214
์—ฌ์„ฑ 25๋ช… ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ๋””์ง€ํ„ธ์„ฑ๋ฒ”์ฃ„์˜ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฐ›์€ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:01
For women under the age of 30, that number looks like one in 10.
52
181395
4143
30์„ธ ์ดํ•˜์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์—์„œ๋Š” 10๋ช…์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด์ฃ .
03:06
And that leaves a few of you in this audience as potential victims.
53
186186
3933
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๊ณ„์‹  ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„ ์ค‘ ๋ช‡๋ช…๋„ ํ”ผํ•ด์ž์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:10
You want to know what's even more alarming?
54
190630
2103
๋” ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ์ง€ ์•„์‹œ๋‚˜์š”?
03:12
Lack of legislation and laws to adequately protect victims
55
192757
3998
๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ํ”ผํ•ด์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ€ํ•ด์ž๋ฅผ ์ฒ˜๋ฒŒํ•  ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์ด ๋ถ€์กฑํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:16
and punish perpetrators.
56
196779
1560
03:18
There's only one federal bill pending;
57
198363
2373
์ด์™€ ๊ด€๋ จ๋˜์–ด ๊ณ„๋ฅ˜์ค‘์ธ ๋ฒ•์•ˆ์ด ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:20
it's called the ENOUGH Act, by Senator Kamala Harris.
58
200760
3117
์นด๋ง๋ผ ํ•ด๋ฆฌ์Šค ์˜์›์˜ ENOUGH Act ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:24
It would criminalize revenge porn.
59
204712
2705
๋””์ง€ํ„ธ์„ฑ๋ฒ”์ฃ„๋ฅผ ๋ฒ”์ฃ„๋กœ ๊ทœ์ •ํ•˜์ฃ .
03:27
But that could take years to pass.
60
207441
2175
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ๋ฒ•์•ˆ์ด ํ†ต๊ณผํ•˜๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๋…„์ด ๊ฑธ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:29
So what are we left with in the meantime?
61
209640
2030
๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋™์•ˆ์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?
03:31
Flimsy civil misdemeanors.
62
211694
1930
์‚ฌ์†Œํ•œ ๊ฒฝ๋ฒ”์ฃ„๋กœ ์ฒ˜๋ฆฌ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:33
Currently, only 40 states and DC have some laws in place for revenge porn.
63
213648
6484
ํ˜„์žฌ๋Š” ์˜ค์ง 40๊ฐœ ์ฃผ์™€ ์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ดDC๋งŒ ๋””์ง€ํ„ธ์„ฑ๋ฒ”์ฃ„ ๊ด€๋ จ ๋ฒ•์•ˆ์ด ์กด์žฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:40
And those penalties vary -- we're talking $500 fines.
64
220156
3881
์ฒ˜๋ฒŒ๋„ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 500๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ ์ •๋„์˜ ๋ฒŒ๊ธˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:44
Five hundred dollars?
65
224061
1203
500๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ์š”?
03:45
Are you kidding me?
66
225288
1153
์ง€๊ธˆ ์žฅ๋‚œํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
03:46
Women are losing their jobs.
67
226465
1356
์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์€ ์ง์žฅ์„ ์žƒ์–ด์š”.
03:47
They're suffering from damaged relationships
68
227845
2307
๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ํ‹€์–ด์ง„ ๊ด€๊ณ„์™€ ์†์ƒ๋œ ๋ช…์„ฑ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ณ ํ†ต๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
03:50
and damaged reputations.
69
230176
1361
03:51
They're falling into illness and depression.
70
231561
2540
๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ณ‘์— ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์šฐ์šธ์ฆ์— ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
03:54
And the suicide rates are climbing.
71
234125
2488
์ž์‚ด๋ฅ ์ด ์ฆ๊ฐ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:57
You're looking at a woman who spent 11 months in court,
72
237802
4190
์ง€๊ธˆ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„ ์•ž์— ์„œ์žˆ๋Š” ์ €๋Š” 11๋‹ฌ ๋™์•ˆ ๋ฒ•์ •์‹ธ์›€์„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
04:02
thirteen trips to the courthouse
73
242016
2127
13๋ฒˆ ๋ฒ•์›์„ ๋“œ๋‚˜๋“ค์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ
04:04
and thousands of dollars in legal fees,
74
244167
2466
์ˆ˜์ฒœ ๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ์˜ ๋ฒ•๋ฅ  ๋น„์šฉ์„ ์ง€๋ถˆํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:06
just to get two things:
75
246657
1634
๋‹จ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์–ป๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
04:08
a protection from cyberstalking and cyberabuse,
76
248315
2897
์‚ฌ์ด๋ฒ„์Šคํ† ํ‚น๊ณผ ์‚ฌ์ด๋ฒ„ํญ๋ ฅ์œผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ์˜ ๋ณดํ˜ธ,
04:11
otherwise known as a PFA,
77
251236
2476
PFA๋ผ๊ณ ๋„ ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
04:13
and language from a judge
78
253736
1242
์ œ3์˜ ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ทํšŒ์‚ฌ์— ํ•ด๋‹น ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ์„ ์‚ญ์ œํ•˜๋ผ๋Š” ํŒ์‚ฌ์˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:15
that would force a third-party internet company
79
255002
2258
04:17
to remove the content.
80
257284
1598
04:19
It's expensive, complicated and confusing.
81
259815
3185
์ด ์ผ์€ ๋น„์‹ธ๊ณ  ๋ณต์žกํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ํ˜ผ๋ž€์Šค๋Ÿฌ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:23
And worse, legal loopholes and jurisdictional issues drag this out
82
263024
5446
๋” ๋‚˜์œ ๊ฑด, ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์  ํ—ˆ์ ๊ณผ ์ ˆ์ฐจ์  ๋ฌธ์ œ๋“ค๋กœ ์ธํ•ด
04:28
for months,
83
268494
1284
์ˆ˜ ๊ฐœ์›”๋™์•ˆ ์ง€์—ฐ๋˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ
04:29
while my private parts were on display for months.
84
269802
3839
์ œ ์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด ์ˆ˜๊ฐœ์›” ๋™์•ˆ ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:34
How would you feel if your naked body was exposed for the world to see,
85
274203
4032
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋‚˜์ฒด๊ฐ€ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ๋…ธ์ถœ๋œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์–ด๋–จ๊นŒ์š”.
04:38
and you waited helplessly for the content to be removed?
86
278259
3306
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์‚ญ์ œ๋˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฌด๊ธฐ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–จ๊นŒ์š”?
04:42
Eventually, I stumbled upon a private company
87
282966
2667
๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ €๋Š” ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ์‡„ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
04:45
to issue a DMCA notice to shut the website down.
88
285657
3128
DMCA ๊ฒฝ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ฏผ๊ฐ„๊ธฐ์—…์„ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:49
DMCA -- Digital Millennium Copyright Act.
89
289434
3383
DMCA - ๋””์ง€ํ„ธ ๋ฐ€๋ ˆ๋‹ˆ์—„ ์ €์ž‘๊ถŒ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:53
It's a law that regulates digital material and content.
90
293154
3115
๋””์ง€ํ„ธ ์ž๋ฃŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ปจํ…์ธ ๋ฅผ ๊ทœ์ œํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:56
Broadly, the aim of the DMCA is to protect both copyright owners and consumers.
91
296582
5048
๋„“๊ฒŒ ๋ณด๋ฉด, DMCA์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ์€ ์ €์ž‘๊ถŒ์ž์™€ ์†Œ๋น„์ž ๋ชจ๋‘์˜ ๋ณดํ˜ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:01
So get this:
92
301654
1162
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ด๊ฑธ ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
05:02
people who take and share nude photos own the rights to those selfies,
93
302840
5036
๋‚˜์ฒด ์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ์ฐ๊ณ  ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ ์…€์นด ์‚ฌ์ง„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ €์ž‘๊ถŒ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ ,
05:07
so they should be able to issue a DMCA to have the content removed.
94
307900
4952
๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ DMCA์— ์˜ํ•ด ํ•ด๋‹น ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค์„ ์‚ญ์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:12
But not so fast --
95
312876
1337
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š”
05:14
because the other fight we're dealing with
96
314237
2412
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ง€๊ธˆ ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•˜๋ ค ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”
05:16
is noncompliant and nonresponsive third-party internet companies.
97
316673
4333
๋น„ํ˜‘์กฐ์ ์ด๊ณ  ์‘๋‹ต์ด ์—†๋Š” ์ œ3์˜ ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท ๊ธฐ์—…๋“ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:21
And oh -- by the way,
98
321030
1702
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๋‹ด์ด์ง€๋งŒ
05:22
even in consenting relationships,
99
322756
2123
๋™์˜ ํ•˜์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—๋„,
05:24
just because you get a nude photo or a naked pic,
100
324903
3349
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋‚˜์ฒด ์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ์–ป์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ
05:28
does not give you the right to share it,
101
328276
2252
๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์œ ํฌํ•  ๊ถŒ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์–ป์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค,
05:31
even [without] the intent to do harm.
102
331053
2134
์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์ด ์•„๋ฌด๋Ÿฐ ํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ž…ํžˆ์ง€ ์•Š์•„๋„ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
05:34
Back to my case,
103
334157
1625
์•„๋ฌดํŠผ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์ œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋กœ ๋Œ์•„์™€์„œ,
05:35
which happens to be further complicated
104
335806
1953
๋‹ค์Œ์€ ๋” ๋ณต์žกํ•ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
because he was stalking and harassing me from another country,
105
337783
3167
์™œ๋ƒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์ €๋ฅผ ์Šคํ† ํ‚นํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ดด๋กญํžˆ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
05:40
making it nearly impossible to get help here.
106
340974
3966
์ด๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋„์›€์„ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ์˜ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
05:45
But wait a minute -- isn't the internet international?
107
345441
2993
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ž ๊น๋งŒ์š”, ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์€ ์›๋ž˜ ๊ตญ์ œ์ ์ด์ง€ ์•Š๋‚˜์š”?
05:48
Shouldn't we have some sort of policy in place
108
348458
2468
๊ตญ๊ฒฝ์ด๋‚˜ ์ œํ•œ์—†์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋ฅผ
05:50
that broadly protects us, regardless to borders or restrictions?
109
350950
3860
ํฌ๊ด„์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ์ •์ฑ…์ด ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‚˜์š”?
05:55
I just couldnโ€™t give up; I had to keep fighting.
110
355800
2864
์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ฉˆ์ถœ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”, ๊ณ„์† ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ํ–ˆ์ฃ .
05:59
So I willingly, on three occasions,
111
359149
3587
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ๊ธฐ๊บผ์ด ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์”ฉ์ด๋‚˜
06:02
allowed for the invasion of both my cell phone and my laptop
112
362760
4539
์ œ ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”์™€ ๋…ธํŠธ๋ถ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ
06:07
by the Department of Homeland Security and the Jamaican Embassy
113
367323
3960
๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๊ตญํ† ๋ณด์•ˆ๋ถ€์™€ ์ž๋ฉ”์ด์นด ๋Œ€์‚ฌ๊ด€์˜ ์นจ์ž…์„ ํ—ˆ์šฉํ–ˆ์–ด์š”
06:11
for thorough forensic investigation,
114
371307
2222
์ฒ ์ €ํ•œ ํฌ๋ Œ์‹ ์ˆ˜์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
06:13
because I had maintained all of the evidence.
115
373553
2746
์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ฆ๊ฑฐ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์ฃ .
06:17
I painstakingly shared my private parts with the all-male investigative team.
116
377680
5278
์ €๋Š” ๊ณ ํ†ต์„ ๊ฐ๋‚ดํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ œ ์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‚จ์„ฑ ๋ฟ์ธ ์กฐ์‚ฌํŒ€๊ณผ ๊ณต์œ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:23
And it was an embarrassing, humiliating additional hoop to jump through.
117
383735
4317
๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ˆ˜์น˜์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด, ๋„˜์–ด์•ผํ•  ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์–ธ๋•์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
06:29
But then something happened.
118
389315
1802
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ์ž ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ผ์ด ์ƒ๊ฒผ์–ด์š”.
06:31
Jamaican authorities actually arrested him.
119
391982
2934
์ž๋ฉ”์ด์นด์—์„œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์†ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
06:35
He's now facing charges under their malicious communications act,
120
395562
4838
๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž๋ฉ”์ด์นด์˜ ์•…์˜์  ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต ๊ด€๋ จ ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์˜ ํ˜์˜๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:40
and if found guilty, could face thousands of dollars in fines
121
400424
4293
์œ ์ฃ„๊ฐ€ ํ™•์ •๋œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ˆ˜์ฒœ ๋‹ฌ๋Ÿฌ์˜ ๋ฒŒ๊ธˆ์„ ๋‚ด์•ผํ•˜๊ณ 
06:44
and up to 10 years in prison.
122
404741
1912
์ตœ๋Œ€ ์ง•์—ญ 10๋…„์— ์ฒ˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:46
And I've also learned that my case is making history --
123
406677
2599
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๊ฐ€ ์—ญ์‚ฌ์— ๋‚จ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž„๋„ ์•Œ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:49
it is the first international case under this new crime.
124
409300
4555
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋ฒ”์ฃ„์˜ ์ฒซ ๊ตญ์ œ์  ์‚ฌ๋ก€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:54
Wow, finally some justice.
125
414595
3654
๋งˆ์นจ๋‚ด ์ •์˜๋ผ๋‹ˆ.
06:58
But this got me to thinking.
126
418273
2079
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:00
Nobody deserves this.
127
420376
2074
์•„๋ฌด๋„ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์„ ๊ฒช์ง€ ๋ง์•„์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:02
Nobody deserves this level of humiliation
128
422474
3587
๊ทธ ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ •๋„์˜ ์ˆ˜์น˜์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฒช๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:06
and having to jump through all of these hoops.
129
426085
3683
์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ์žฅ์• ๋ฌผ์„ ๋„˜์–ด์•ผ ํ•ด์„  ์•ˆ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:10
Our cyber civil rights are at stake.
130
430506
3801
์‚ฌ์ด๋ฒ„ ๊ณต๊ฐ„์—์„œ์˜ ์‹œ๋ฏผ์  ๊ถŒ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์œ„ํ—˜์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:14
Here in the United States, we need to have clear, tough enforcement;
131
434331
4872
์ด๊ณณ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ์ œ์žฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:19
we need to demand the accountability and responsiveness from online companies;
132
439227
4856
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ๊ธฐ์—…๋“ค๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ฑ…์ž„๊ณผ ์˜๋ฌด๋ฅผ ์š”๊ตฌํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:24
we need to promote social responsibilities for posting, sharing and texting;
133
444107
4666
์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์— ๊ฒŒ์‹œํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฌธ์ž ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์‚ฌํšŒ์  ์ฑ…์ž„์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:28
and we need to restore dignity to victims.
134
448797
4119
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ”ผํ•ด์ž์˜ ์กด์—„์„ฑ์„ ๋˜์ฐพ์•„ ์ฃผ์–ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:33
And what about victims
135
453506
1696
๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ”ผํ•ด์ž๋“ค ์ค‘
07:36
who neither have the time, money or resources to wage war,
136
456210
3462
์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ „์Ÿ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด๋‚˜ ๋ˆ์ด ์—†๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์–ด๋–กํ• ๊นŒ์š”.
07:39
who are left disempowered, mislabeled and broken?
137
459696
3981
๊ถŒ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ•ํƒˆ ๋‹นํ•˜๊ณ  ํ”ผํ•ด์ž๋กœ ์ธ์ •๋ฐ›์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ง๊ฐ€์ง„ ์ด๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
07:44
Two things:
138
464362
1150
๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:46
release the shame and end the silence.
139
466805
2534
๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฌ์›€์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์นจ๋ฌต์„ ๊นจ์„ธ์š”.
07:50
Shame is at the core of all of this.
140
470212
2803
์ˆ˜์น˜์‹ฌ์€ ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:53
And for every silent prisoner of shame,
141
473474
3429
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋“  ์นจ๋ฌตํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฌ์›€์˜ ์ฃ„์ˆ˜๋“ค์„
07:56
it's the fear of judgment that's holding you hostage.
142
476927
3079
์ธ์งˆ๋กœ ์žก์•„๋‘๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํŒ๋‹จ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:00
And the price to pay is the stripping away of your self-worth.
143
480030
3802
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ๋Œ€๊ฐ€๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ์ž์กด๊ฐ์„ ์—†์• ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:05
The day I ended my silence, I freed myself from shame.
144
485045
3971
์ œ๊ฐ€ ์นจ๋ฌต์„ ๊นฌ ๋‚ , ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜์น˜์‹ฌ์—์„œ ํ•ด๋ฐฉ์‹œ์ผฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:09
And I freed myself from the fear of judgment
145
489593
3183
์ œ ์ž์‹ ์„ ํŒ๋‹จ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์—์„œ ํ•ด๋ฐฉ์‹œ์ผฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:12
from the one person who I thought would judge me the most --
146
492800
2880
์ €๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋งŽ์ด ํŒ๋‹จํ•  ๊ฑฐ๋ผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๋˜ ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์— ์˜ํ•œ ํŒ๋‹จ์ด์š”.
08:16
my son,
147
496109
1150
์ œ ์•„๋“ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค,
08:17
who actually told me,
148
497847
1992
์•„๋“ค์€ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์–ด์š”,
08:19
"Mom, you are the strongest person that I know.
149
499863
3873
"์—„๋งˆ, ์—„๋งˆ๋Š” ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋Š”์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ค‘ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ฐ•ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์•ผ.
08:24
You can get through this.
150
504117
1667
์—„๋งˆ๋Š” ์ด๊ฑธ ํ•ด๋‚ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด.
08:26
And besides, mom -- he chose the wrong woman to mess with."
151
506427
4737
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—„๋งˆ, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ž˜๋ชป ๊ฑด๋“œ๋ ธ์–ด."
08:31
(Laughter)
152
511188
1716
(์›ƒ์Œ)
08:32
(Applause)
153
512928
4616
(๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
08:37
It was on that day that I decided to use my platform
154
517568
3694
๊ทธ๋‚  ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ํ”Œ๋žซํผ์„ ์ด์šฉํ•˜๊ณ 
08:41
and my story and my voice.
155
521286
2499
์ œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์™€ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ด์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
08:44
And to get started, I asked myself this one simple question:
156
524633
3397
์ผ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ํ•œ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
08:48
Who do I need to become now?
157
528054
2100
์ด์ œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜์–ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ?
08:50
That question, in the face of everything that I was challenged with,
158
530784
4111
์ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์ฃผํ•œ ์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ ๋„์ „์˜ ํ˜•ํƒœ๋กœ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚˜
08:54
transformed my life and had me thinking about all kinds of possibilities.
159
534919
4253
์ œ ์‚ถ์„ ๋ณ€ํ™”์‹œ์ผฐ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:59
I now own my story, I speak my truth,
160
539196
3262
์ด์ œ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์ œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์ง„์‹ค์„ ๋งํ•˜์ฃ .
09:02
and I'm narrating a new chapter in my life.
161
542482
2603
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด์ œ ์ œ ์‚ถ์˜ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์žฅ์„ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:05
It's called "50 Shades of Silence."
162
545109
3218
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ "์นจ๋ฌต์˜ 50๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์ž" ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:08
It's a global social justice project,
163
548712
2579
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ตญ์ œ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌํšŒ ์ •์˜ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค,
09:11
and we're working to film an upcoming documentary
164
551315
2334
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ”ผํ•ด์ž๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฐœ์–ธ๊ถŒ๊ณผ ์กด์—„์„ฑ์„ ๋˜์ฐพ์•„์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ
09:13
to give voice and dignity to victims.
165
553673
2466
๋‹คํ๋ฉ˜ํ„ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ดฌ์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:16
If you are a victim or you know someone who is, know this:
166
556871
3667
๋งŒ์•ฝ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ํ”ผํ•ด์ž์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ”ผํ•ด์ž๋ฅผ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ด๊ฑธ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
09:21
in order to be empowered, you have to take care of yourself,
167
561101
3524
ํž˜์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์†Œ์ค‘ํžˆ ์—ฌ๊ฒจ์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:24
and you have to love yourself.
168
564649
1706
์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ด์•ผํ•ด์š”.
09:26
You have to turn your anger into action,
169
566379
2738
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋ถ„๋…ธ๋ฅผ ํ–‰๋™์œผ๋กœ ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค,
09:29
your pain into power
170
569141
1563
์•„ํ””์„ ํž˜์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:30
and your setback into a setup for what's next for your life.
171
570728
4440
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ขŒ์ ˆ์„ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋ฐœํŒ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ผ์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:36
This is a process, and it's a journey of self-discovery
172
576309
3738
์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ณผ์ •์ด๊ณ  ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ์šฉ์„œ๋ฅผ ํฌํ•จํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”
09:40
that might include forgiveness.
173
580071
2302
์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌํ•˜๋Š” ์—ฌ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:42
But it definitely requires bravery, confidence and conviction.
174
582397
5121
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์ด ์ผ์€ ์šฉ๊ธฐ์™€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๊ณผ ๊ฒฐ๋‹จ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:48
I call it:
175
588136
1484
์ €๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:49
finding your everyday courage.
176
589644
3122
์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ผ์ƒ์˜ ์šฉ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ.
09:54
Thank you.
177
594048
1159
๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:55
(Applause)
178
595231
4276
(๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

https://forms.gle/WvT1wiN1qDtmnspy7