Practice English Conversation (Family life - Man to man conversation) English Conversation Practice

all right here we are don't  you have to go to classes today

好吧，我们今天不是你必须去上课吗

yes that I have to go to my chemistry class  today but you told me you wanted to talk to me

是的，我今天必须去上我的化学课，但你告诉我你想和我谈谈是的，

yeah sure I want to talk to you  about something very important son

我想和你谈谈一些非常重要的事情，

sure I'm here Dad and I'm  listening to you what is that

当然爸爸，我在这儿，我在听你说什么，

well I have been hearing some things about you  I mean some friends of mine told me about that

我听到了一些关于你的

they're talking about me okay but what is that  are they good or bad things I want to know  

事我想知道的事情

no it's something common in children  your age or you're not a child anymore

不，这在你这个年龄的孩子中很常见，或者你不再是孩子了，

I mean you'll be 15 this December I have  to admit that you're not a kid anymore

我的意思是你今年 12 月就满 15 岁了，我不得不承认你不再是孩子了，

that come on be direct with me tell  me what's happening I don't get it

直接跟我说我怎么了我不太明白

well our neighbors told me they saw you with  a girl I mean I suppose she's your girlfriend  

我们的邻居告诉我他们看到你和一个女孩在一起我的意思是我想她是你的女朋友

and that's okay you can have a girlfriend  whenever you want but I also want to meet her  

没关系你可以随时有女朋友但我也想见见她

I would like to know who she is where she comes  from where she lives and what kind of person she  

我想知道她是谁 她来自哪里 她住在哪里 她

is I know I sound like a tiresome old man but  it's important for me to meet your girlfriend

是什么样的人 我知道我听起来像个令人厌烦的老头 但对我来说见到你的女朋友很重要

so why don't you bring her home we  could have lunch someday or dinner

所以你为什么不带她回家 我们可以有一天吃午饭或者晚餐

what does she like to eat I mean what's her  favorite dish I'm not an expert chef but I  

她喜欢吃什么我的意思是她最喜欢的菜是什么我不是专家厨师但我

can cook well does she like pasta or maybe she  prefers chicken or I can also cook some stew

可以做饭她喜欢意大利面还是她更喜欢鸡肉或者我也可以做一些炖菜

that stop what are you talking  about I don't have a girlfriend

来停止你在说什么我不知道没有女朋友

you don't have to lie to me I know you're dating  someone and I just want to meet her that's all

你不必对我撒谎我知道你在和某人约会我只是想见见她就这样

we don't have to eat lunch maybe we can go  for a cup of coffee or we can go to the mall

我们不必吃午饭也许我们可以去喝杯咖啡或者我们可以去商场

I am free on Saturday I won't work that  day why don't we go to the mall that day

我周六有空我那天不工作为什么我们那天不去商场

do you like the idea we can have some ice cream  and then go to the movies if you both want

你喜欢我们可以吃冰淇淋然后去看电影的想法吗如果你们都想要

that you're very funny I'm telling  you I don't have a girlfriend

你很有趣，我告诉你我真的没有女朋友

seriously and that girl you were with last  time don't tell me she's only your friend

，你上次在一起的那个女孩不要告诉我她只是你的朋友，

well yeah she's only my friend well  in fact she's my best friend Maritza

是的，她只是我的朋友，事实上，她是我最好的朋友 Maritza

and we were going to her house to pick  up some books to study for the final exam

，我们要去她家拿些书准备期末考试

oh I feel relieved I mean it's not that I don't  want you to have a girlfriend no of course not  

oh 我松了口气 我的意思是我不是不想让你有女朋友 不当然不是

but I was worried that you wouldn't introduce her  to me I thought you didn't trust me anymore son

但我担心你不会介绍她对我来说，我以为你不再信任我了，儿子，

of course I trust you you're my  dad and I also my best friend

当然我相信你，你是我爸爸，我也是我最好的朋友

but you don't need to worry about that I  am not interested in having a girlfriend

，但你不必担心我对交女朋友不感兴趣，

I mean I'm too young for that I don't want to have  distractions now you need to focus on my studies  

我是说我的意思是我”我太年轻了我不想分心现在你需要专注于我的学习

so I won't waste my time with a girl no  absolutely not that's not gonna happen

所以我不会浪费我的时间和一个女孩不绝对不会那不会发生

don't say that it's true you're still young but  one day you will meet a girl who will drive you  

不要说这是真的你仍然是年轻，但有一天你会遇到一个女孩，她

crazy really I've never thought about that I just  want to study that I am not ready to have a love  

真的会让你发疯我从来没有想过我只是想学习我还没有准备好恋爱关系

relationship I know son but it can happen someday  I just need to tell you some things about that

我知道儿子但有一天它会发生我只需要告诉关于

first looks aren't everything yes  Everyone likes a beautiful girl

第一眼的一些事情并不是一切是的每个人都喜欢一个漂亮的女孩

but that can't be all what I mean is don't plainly  go by looks Remember All That Glitters Is Not Gold  

但这不是我的意思是不要简单地看外表记住所有闪闪发光的都不是金子

so when you are looking at the qualities that  a perfect life partner should have look at the  

所以当你看品质时一个完美的生活伴侣应该考虑

overall picture the personality the compatibility  the similarities the similarities and ideologies  

整体情况 个性 相容性 相似点 相似点和意识形态

what's the point of a pretty girl being rude  to you for example so make a prudent choice

一个漂亮女孩对你粗鲁有什么意义 例如，做出谨慎的选择

also respect is really important son all said  and done you can weigh your options all you want  

尊重真的很重要 儿子说了又做了你可以随心所欲地权衡你的选择

but if a relationship lacks respect  it's as good as a death trap believe me  

，但如果一段关系缺乏尊重，它就像一个死亡陷阱一样好相信我，

you will end up feeling suffocated respect for  you your family your choices your ideologies

你最终会感到对你的尊重令人窒息你的家人你的选择你的意识形态

your priorities are all an important aspect  in your relationship so mind yourself

你的优先事项都是你们关系中的一个重要方面所以记住你自己

also you have to ask yourself something  how does this person treat their family

你也必须问自己一些事情 这个人如何对待他们的家人

her mom and dad her brothers and  sisters her grandparents her friends

她的妈妈和爸爸 她的兄弟姐妹 她的祖父母 她的朋友

it's simple if she does not treat them with  kindness and respect she's not the right person

如果她不善待和尊重他们就很简单 她不是合适的人 家庭是

families the core of our relationships these  are the people you have known the longest

我们关系的核心这些是你认识时间最长的人

and should have the deepest connection to  of course not all families get along and

，应该与他们有最深的联系当然不是所有的家庭都相处融洽，

unfortunately some people have really  

不幸的是有些人的

difficult family situations but  a person you're looking to love

家庭情况真的很困难，但他们是你想要爱的人

should not disrespect a family that  emotionally supports them remember that

不应该不尊重在情感上支持他们的家庭 请记住

another important thing are you thinking  you can change this person please don't

另一件重要的事情是你认为

as I've heard once when someone  chose you who you are believe them

你

you cannot change a person  the person you are dating  

可以改变这个人约会

should be right for you as they  are or they are not right for you

应该适合你，或者他们不

good you want the person you are dating to have  the idea of changing you into someone you are not

适合 你

it will not end well seriously  so be careful with that please  

很好

finally and as you had said before what's the rush

正如你之前所说的那样，

that they will come when you will meet that  beautiful and perfect girl for you so don't rush

当你遇到那个美丽而完美的女孩时，他们会匆匆赶来，所以不要急于花

take your time to make good friends and to  know them very well first that's the idea

时间结交好朋友并首先非常了解他们这就是

yes that I really appreciate your concern but  I told you I'm not interested in that topic now  

我真的很感激的想法是的你的担心，但我告诉过你我现在对那个话题不感兴趣

but I promise that when that day comes I will  tell you you will be the first person to know  

但我保证当那一天到来时我会告诉你你将是第一个知道的人

and of course I will also remember all  these tips you're given to me thank you that

当然我也会记住你得到的所有这些提示我谢谢你，

you're growing fast you're not  a child anymore I love you son

你长得很快，你不再是孩子了，我爱你，儿子，

I love you too Dad now why don't we go  for that ice cream you said before huh

我也爱你，爸爸，现在为什么我们不去吃你之前说的冰淇淋，嗯，

sure let's go and wait  didn't you have classes today

我们走吧，等一下，你有吗今天有课

yeah I had classes now it's very late I'm  not going to be on time as much as I'd like

是的，我有课，现在已经很晚了，我不会像我希望的那样准时了哦，这是我的错，对不起，

oh and it's my fault I'm sorry okay let's  eat some ice cream then I hope you liked  

好吧，让我们吃点冰淇淋，然后我希望你喜欢

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