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翻译人员: DongFang Xiang
校对人员: Faye Zhou
00:12
(Sikh Prayer) Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,
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(锡克教祷告语)
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,
00:15
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.
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Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh。
00:20
There is a moment on the birthing table
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在我的分娩过程中有个时刻,
00:24
that feels like dying.
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我感觉自己就要死了。
00:28
The body in labor stretches
to form an impossible circle.
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分娩中的身体紧绷,
形成一个不可思议的圆。
00:31
The contractions
are less than a minute apart.
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子宫收缩间隔不到 1 分钟。
00:34
Wave after wave,
there is barely time to breathe.
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一波接着一波,
几乎没有喘息的时间。
00:38
The medical term:
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对此,医学上说法是
00:39
"transition,"
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“过渡期”。
00:42
because "feels like dying"
is not scientific enough.
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因为“感觉像要死了”
并不够科学。
00:45
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
00:46
I checked.
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我有查过。
00:49
During my transition,
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在我的过渡期中,
00:50
my husband was pressing down on my sacrum
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我丈夫压着我的骨盆,
00:52
to keep my body from breaking.
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以避免我的身体断裂。
00:53
My father was waiting
behind the hospital curtain ...
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父亲在医院的
帘子后面等待...
00:58
more like hiding.
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更像是在躲避。
01:00
But my mother was at my side.
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但母亲在我身旁,
01:03
The midwife said
she could see the baby's head,
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助产士说
她能看到宝宝的头了,
01:07
but all I could feel was a ring of fire.
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而我只感到有个火圈。
01:10
I turned to my mother and said, "I can't,"
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我转向母亲说,“我做不到,”
01:12
but she was already pouring
my grandfather's prayer in my ear.
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可她已经在我耳边
念起了祖父的祷告,
01:16
(Sikh Prayer) "Tati Vao Na Lagi,
Par Brahm Sarnai."
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(锡克教祷告语)“Tati Vao Na Lagi,
Par Brahm Saenai.”
01:19
"The hot winds cannot touch you."
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“热风无法触及你。”
01:23
"You are brave," she said.
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“你很勇敢,”她说,
01:25
"You are brave."
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“你很勇敢。”
01:30
And suddenly I saw my grandmother
standing behind my mother.
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突然,我看见外婆
正站在母亲身后。
01:37
And her mother behind her.
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而她的母亲站在她的身后,
01:39
And her mother behind her.
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还有她的母亲在她身后,
01:42
A long line of women who had
pushed through the fire before me.
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很多女性都曾在我之前
通过了烈火的考验。
01:45
I took a breath;
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我深呼吸,
01:46
I pushed;
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用力一推,
01:48
my son was born.
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我儿子出生了。
01:51
As I held him in my arms,
shaking and sobbing
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我把他揽在怀里,
一边发抖一边啜泣,
01:53
from the rush of oxytocin
that flooded my body,
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我体内涌流的催产素
使我情绪激烈,
01:57
my mother was already
preparing to feed me.
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我的母亲已经
准备好喂我东西吃。
02:00
Nursing her baby as I nursed mine.
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当我照料我的宝贝时,
她也要照料她的宝贝。
02:04
My mother had never stopped
laboring for me,
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母亲从未停止过为我付出,
02:08
from my birth to my son's birth.
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从我出生到我儿子出生。
02:10
She already knew
what I was just beginning to name.
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那些我刚开始知道的,
她早已了解。
02:14
That love is more than a rush of feeling
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爱不仅是幸运时
02:18
that happens to us if we're lucky.
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偶然袭来的强烈情感。
02:21
Love is sweet labor.
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爱是甜蜜的分娩。
02:25
Fierce.
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强烈的,
02:26
Bloody.
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血腥的,
02:28
Imperfect.
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不完美的,
02:30
Life-giving.
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给予生命的。
02:32
A choice we make over and over again.
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一个我们一而再,再而三
做出的选择。
02:39
I am an American civil rights activist
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我是一个美国民权活动者,
02:41
who has labored with communities
of color since September 11,
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从 911 开始,就与
有色人群一起努力,
02:45
fighting unjust policies by the state
and acts of hate in the street.
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对抗国家不公平的政策,
和街头的仇恨行为。
02:49
And in our most painful moments,
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在我们最痛苦的时刻,
02:52
in the face of the fires of injustice,
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面临不公正的烈火,
02:54
I have seen labors of love deliver us.
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我曾见证分娩之爱解救了我们。
03:00
My life on the frontlines of fighting
hate in America has been a study
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我在美国前线
对抗仇恨的经验,
03:04
in what I've come to call
revolutionary love.
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成了一项我所谓的
“革命之爱”的研究。
03:10
Revolutionary love
is the choice to enter into labor
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革命之爱,
即选择为他人而“分娩”,
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for others who do not look like us,
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为那些外表与我们不同的人,
03:19
for our opponents who hurt us
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为那些伤害我们的敌人,
03:22
and for ourselves.
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也为了我们自己。
03:25
In this era of enormous rage,
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在这盛怒的时代,
03:28
when the fires are burning all around us,
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我们周围烈火熊熊,
03:32
I believe that revolutionary love
is the call of our times.
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我相信,革命之爱
是时代的呼唤。
03:40
Now, if you cringe when people say,
"Love is the answer ..."
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如果当人们说“爱是答案”时,,
你开始畏缩不前。
03:45
I do, too.
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我也是如此。
03:46
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
03:47
I am a lawyer.
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我是个律师。
03:49
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
03:51
So let me show you how I came to see love
as a force for social justice
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那么,我想跟各位聊一聊,
我如何通过三堂课,学会了
03:56
through three lessons.
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把爱视作社会正义的力量。
04:01
My first encounter with hate
was in the schoolyard.
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我初次遭遇仇恨,
是在校园。
04:05
I was a little girl
growing up in California,
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我是一个在加利福尼亚
长大的小女孩。
04:08
where my family has lived
and farmed for a century.
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我的家族在那里居住并
耕种了近一个世纪。
04:12
When I was told that I would go to hell
because I was not Christian,
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当我被告知我会下地狱,
因为我不信基督,
04:15
called a "black dog"
because I was not white,
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当我被称为“黑狗”,
因为我不是白人,
04:18
I ran to my grandfather's arms.
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我跑到祖父的怀抱,
04:20
Papa Ji dried my tears --
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他会擦干我的眼泪,
04:22
gave me the words of Guru Nanak,
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引述锡克教创始人,
04:24
the founder of the Sikh faith.
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那纳克大师的话,
04:27
"I see no stranger," said Nanak.
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“我看见的都不是陌生人”他说,
04:29
"I see no enemy."
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“我看见的都不是敌人。”
04:33
My grandfather taught me
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我的祖父告诉我,
04:34
that I could choose
to see all the faces I meet
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我可以选择去看见
所有我遇见的人,
04:39
and wonder about them.
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并对他们感到好奇。
04:42
And if I wonder about them,
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而如果我对他们感到好奇,
04:44
then I will listen to their stories
even when it's hard.
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我就会去倾听他们的故事,
即使这很困难。
04:48
I will refuse to hate them
even when they hate me.
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我将不会憎恨他们,
即使他们恨我。
04:51
I will even vow to protect them
when they are in harm's way.
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当他们身处危机时,
我甚至会发誓保护他们。
04:54
That's what it means to be a Sikh:
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那就是身为锡克教徒的意义:
04:56
S-i-k-h.
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S-i-k-h(锡克教徒)。
04:58
To walk the path of a warrior saint.
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追随战士信徒的路。
05:00
He told me the story
of the first Sikh woman warrior,
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祖父为我讲述了关于
第一位锡克教女战士的故事。
05:03
Mai Bhago.
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她叫麦巴果。
05:05
The story goes there were 40 soldiers
who abandoned their post
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故事讲述了
在对抗帝国的伟大战役中,
05:08
during a great battle against an empire.
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有 40 名士兵临阵脱逃。
05:10
They returned to a village,
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他们逃到一个村落,
05:12
and this village woman
turned to them and said,
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一位村妇对他们说,
05:15
"You will not abandon the fight.
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“你们不能弃战而逃,
05:18
You will return to the fire,
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你们要回到战火中,
05:21
and I will lead you."
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我会指引你们。”
05:24
She mounted a horse.
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于是她骑上马,
05:26
She donned a turban.
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缠上头巾,
05:28
And with sword in her hand
and fire in her eyes,
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执剑在手,眼中透着斗志的火焰,
05:31
she led them where no one else would.
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她带领士兵到无人愿往之处,
05:33
She became the one she was waiting for.
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化身她所期待之人。
05:38
"Don't abandon your posts, my dear."
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“不要弃守你的岗位,亲爱的。”
05:41
My grandfather saw me as a warrior.
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我的祖父把我视作一个战士。
05:43
I was a little girl in two long braids,
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而我当时只是一个
扎着两条长辫子的小女孩,
05:46
but I promised.
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但我做了承诺。
05:49
Fast-forward, I'm 20 years old,
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时间流转,我二十岁了,
05:54
watching the Twin Towers fall,
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看着世贸中心双子塔倒塌,
05:58
the horror stuck in my throat,
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恐惧卡在我喉咙中,
06:00
and then a face flashes on the screen:
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接着,一张面孔在屏幕上闪过,
06:03
a brown man with a turban and beard,
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一个褐色皮肤的男人,
绑着头巾,留着胡子,
06:05
and I realize that our nation's new enemy
looks like my grandfather.
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我意识到我们国家的新敌人,
看起来就像是我的祖父。
06:12
And these turbans meant to represent
our commitment to serve
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这头巾的本意是
象征我们对服务的承诺,
06:16
cast us as terrorists.
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却让我们被归为恐怖分子。
06:18
And Sikhs became targets of hate,
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而锡克教,与穆斯林的
兄弟姐妹一起
06:20
alongside our Muslim brothers and sisters.
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成为了仇恨的对象。
06:22
The first person killed in a hate crime
after September 11 was a Sikh man,
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911 之后,第一个在仇恨事件中
被杀害的,是一个锡克教男子,
06:27
standing in front
of his gas station in Arizona.
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在亚利桑那州他的加油站门口被杀。
06:31
Balbir Singh Sodhi
was a family friend I called "uncle,"
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伯比尔·辛格·索迪是我家的朋友,
我叫他“叔叔”。
06:38
murdered by a man
who called himself "patriot."
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他被一个自称
“爱国者”的人杀害。
06:45
He is the first of many
to have been killed,
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在他之后还有许多人被害。
06:50
but his story --
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但他的故事——
06:51
our stories barely made the evening news.
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我们的故事,
晚间新闻根本就不屑于播报。
06:57
I didn't know what to do,
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我不知道该怎么做才好,
06:58
but I had a camera,
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但我有相机,
07:00
I faced the fire.
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我决定直面烈火。
07:02
I went to his widow,
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我去找他的遗孀,
07:04
Joginder Kaur.
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裘金德·考尔。
07:06
I wept with her, and I asked her,
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我与她一起哭泣,我问她,
07:09
"What would you like to tell
the people of America?"
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“你希望告诉美国人什么呢?”
07:14
I was expecting blame.
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我期待着她的指责。
07:18
But she looked at me and said,
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但她看着我,说,
07:22
"Tell them, 'Thank you.'
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“告诉他们‘谢谢’。
07:25
3,000 Americans came
to my husband's memorial.
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有 3000 名美国人参加了
我丈夫的追悼会,
07:29
They did not know me,
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他们不认识我,
07:31
but they wept with me.
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但他们和我一起哭泣,
07:34
Tell them, 'Thank you.'"
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告诉他们,‘谢谢’。”
07:39
Thousands of people showed up,
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数千人出席,
07:41
because unlike national news,
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因为和全国新闻不同,
07:43
the local media told Balbir Uncle's story.
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当地新闻就报道了
伯比尔叔叔的故事。
07:47
Stories can create the wonder
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故事能够创造奇迹,
07:49
that turns strangers
into sisters and brothers.
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让陌生人也能
变成兄弟姐妹。
07:54
This was my first lesson
in revolutionary love --
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这是我关于革命之爱
学到的第一课——
07:58
that stories can help us see no stranger.
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故事能帮助我们
消除彼此的陌生感。
08:04
And so ...
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所以...
08:06
my camera became my sword.
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我的相机成了我手中之剑,
08:09
My law degree became my shield.
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我的法律学位成了我的盾牌,
08:12
My film partner became my husband.
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我的摄影搭档成了我的丈夫。
08:15
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
08:17
I didn't expect that.
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这我倒没预料到。
08:19
And we became part
of a generation of advocates
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而我们成了倡导者世代的一部分,
08:25
working with communities
facing their own fires.
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与面对烈火考验的群体一起合作,
08:28
I worked inside of supermax prisons,
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我在超高度戒备
的监狱工作过,
08:32
on the shores of Guantanamo,
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见证过关塔那摩湾的海滨,
08:34
at the sites of mass shootings
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大规模枪击事件现场,
08:35
when the blood
was still fresh on the ground.
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地上的血还是新鲜的。
08:39
And every time,
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15 年来
08:41
for 15 years,
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的每一天,
08:43
with every film, with every lawsuit,
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通过每部影片,每次诉讼,
08:45
with every campaign,
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每次活动,
08:46
I thought we were making the nation safer
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我想我们都在为了下一代,
08:49
for the next generation.
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让这个国家更加安全。
08:54
And then my son was born.
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之后,我儿子出生了——
09:05
In a time ...
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在这样一个时代...
09:08
when hate crimes against our communities
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当针对我们种族的仇恨犯罪,
09:10
are at the highest
they have been since 9/11.
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达到了 911 事件后的最高点;
09:15
When right-wing nationalist movements
are on the rise around the globe
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当全球各地的右翼势力,
民族主义持续高涨,
09:19
and have captured
the presidency of the United States.
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且已获得美国总统的职位;
09:25
When white supremacists
march in our streets,
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当白人优越主义者
在我们的街道上游行示威,
09:28
torches high, hoods off.
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高举火把,毫不遮掩。
09:32
And I have to reckon with the fact
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我必须面对这个事实,
09:37
that my son is growing up
in a country more dangerous for him
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我儿子将在一个对他来说
比我当时的国家
09:42
than the one I was given.
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更危险的世界长大。
09:47
And there will be moments
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将会有一些时候,
09:51
when I cannot protect him
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我不能保护他,
09:54
when he is seen as a terrorist ...
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当他被视作恐怖分子...
10:00
just as black people in America
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就像在美国的黑人,
10:05
are still seen as criminal.
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仍然被视为罪犯。
10:08
Brown people, illegal.
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棕色人种是非法移民。
10:11
Queer and trans people, immoral.
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同性恋和变性者是不道德的。
10:14
Indigenous people, savage.
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原住民是野蛮人。
10:17
Women and girls as property.
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女人和女孩是资产。
10:19
And when they fail to see our bodies
as some mother's child,
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当他们不把我们的身体,
视作某个母亲的孩子时,
10:22
it becomes easier to ban us,
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就更容易禁止我们,
10:26
detain us,
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扣留我们,
10:27
deport us,
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驱逐我们,
10:29
imprison us,
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监禁我们,
10:30
sacrifice us for the illusion of security.
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为了安全的幻影而牺牲我们。
10:38
(Applause)
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(掌声)
10:50
I wanted to abandon my post.
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我想要弃守岗位,
10:54
But I made a promise,
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可我做了承诺,
10:58
so I returned to the gas station
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所以我回到加油站,
11:01
where Balbir Singh Sodhi was killed
15 years to the day.
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那里是伯比尔·辛格·索迪
15 年前被杀害的地方,
11:07
I set down a candle
in the spot where he bled to death.
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在他流血至死的地点,
我点了一根蜡烛。
11:12
His brother, Rana, turned to me
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他的兄弟,拉纳,转向我,
11:15
and said, "Nothing has changed."
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说,“什么也没有改变。”
11:19
And I asked,
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我问,
11:21
"Who have we not yet tried to love?"
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“还有谁我们没有尝试去爱吗?”
11:27
We decided to call the murderer in prison.
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我们决定打电话给监狱里的凶手。
11:32
The phone rings.
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电话响了,
11:34
My heart is beating in my ears.
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我可以听见自己的心跳,
11:37
I hear the voice of Frank Roque,
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我听到了法兰克·洛克的声音,
11:40
a man who once said ...
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这个人曾经说...
11:44
"I'm going to go out
and shoot some towel heads.
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“我要出去射杀一些
包着头巾的人,
11:51
We should kill their children, too."
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我们也会杀掉他们孩子。”
11:55
And every emotional impulse
in me says, "I can't."
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我所有涌动的情绪
都在说,“我做不到。”
12:04
It becomes an act of will to wonder.
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这是对意志力的考验,
12:10
"Why?" I ask.
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“为什么?”我问。
12:15
"Why did you agree to speak with us?"
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“为什么你愿意和我们交谈?”
12:21
Frank says, "I'm sorry for what happened,
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法兰克说,“对于发生的事,
我真的很抱歉,
12:24
but I'm also sorry
for all the people killed on 9/11."
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但我也对 911 所有的
受害者感到遗憾。”
12:28
He fails to take responsibility.
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他拒绝承担责任,
12:30
I become angry to protect Rana,
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我很生气,想保护拉纳,
12:34
but Rana is still wondering about Frank --
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可是拉纳仍对法兰克感到好奇——
12:41
listening --
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倾听着——
12:43
responds.
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回应,
12:45
"Frank, this is the first time
I'm hearing you say
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“法兰克,这是第一次,
我听到你说,
12:49
that you feel sorry."
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你感到抱歉。”
12:55
And Frank --
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而法兰克——
12:57
Frank says, "Yes.
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法兰克说,“是的,
13:02
I am sorry for what I did to your brother.
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我为对你兄弟做的事感到抱歉。
13:07
One day when I go to heaven
to be judged by God,
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当有一天我在天堂
面临上帝的审判,
13:13
I will ask to see your brother.
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我会要求见见你的兄弟。
13:16
And I will hug him.
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我将拥抱他,
13:19
And I will ask him for forgiveness."
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我将向他请求原谅。”
13:25
And Rana says ...
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而拉纳说...
13:29
"We already forgave you."
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“我们已经原谅你了。”
13:35
Forgiveness is not forgetting.
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原谅不是忘却。
13:40
Forgiveness is freedom from hate.
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原谅是从仇恨中解脱。
13:45
Because when we are free from hate,
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因为当我们脱离仇恨,
13:48
we see the ones who hurt us
not as monsters,
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我们才不会把伤害
我们的人视为野兽,
13:51
but as people who themselves are wounded,
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而是看作本身也受伤的人,
13:54
who themselves feel threatened,
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会感到被威胁的人,
13:56
who don't know what else
to do with their insecurity
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他们不知道如何处理
不安全感,
13:58
but to hurt us, to pull the trigger,
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只好伤害我们,扣下扳机,
14:00
or cast the vote,
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投下那一票,
14:02
or pass the policy aimed at us.
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或者通过针对我们的政策。
14:04
But if some of us
begin to wonder about them,
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但是如果我们当中一些人,
开始对他们感到好奇,
14:08
listen even to their stories,
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倾听他们的故事,
14:12
we learn that participation
in oppression comes at a cost.
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我们会学到,迫害他人
是有代价的。
14:18
It cuts them off
from their own capacity to love.
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那就是失去爱的能力。
14:27
This was my second lesson
in revolutionary love.
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这是我学到的
关于革命之爱的第二课。
14:34
We love our opponents
when we tend the wound in them.
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当我们在照料对手的
伤口时,我们是在爱他们。
14:42
Tending to the wound
is not healing them --
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照料伤口不等于治愈它们——
14:45
only they can do that.
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只有他们自己才能做到。
14:47
Just tending to it allows us
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仅仅是照料,就能使我们
14:51
to see our opponents:
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看见我们的对手:
14:54
the terrorist, the fanatic, the demagogue.
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恐怖分子,狂热者,煽动者。
14:59
They've been radicalized by cultures
and policies that we together can change.
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他们被文化和政策极端化,
这是我们齐心协力能改变的。
15:07
I looked back on all of our campaigns,
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我回顾了我们所有的活动,
15:12
and I realized that any time
we fought bad actors,
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我发现,任何时候,
当我们对抗坏的人时,
15:16
we didn't change very much.
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我们没有改变很多。
15:20
But when we chose
to wield our swords and shields
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但当我们选择用
剑和盾
15:24
to battle bad systems,
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来对抗坏的体制时,
15:27
that's when we saw change.
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我们就能看见改变。
15:30
I have worked on campaigns
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我曾参与过一些运动,
15:32
that released hundreds of people
out of solitary confinement,
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将数百人从单独监禁中解放,
15:38
reformed a corrupt police department,
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改革一个腐败的警局,
15:40
changed federal hate crimes policy.
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改变政府的仇恨犯罪政策。
15:44
The choice to love our opponents
is moral and pragmatic,
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选择去爱我们的对手
是道德且务实的,
15:48
and it opens up the previously
unimaginable possibility
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且能打开之前无法
想象的可能性,
15:54
of reconciliation.
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和解的可能性。
15:59
But remember ...
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但请记住...
16:02
it took 15 years to make that phone call.
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我花了 15 年才打了那通电话。
16:06
I had to tend to my own rage
and grief first.
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我必须先照料自己
的怒火和悲戚。
16:12
Loving our opponents
requires us to love ourselves.
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爱对手需要
我们先爱自己。
16:19
Gandhi, King, Mandela --
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甘地,金恩,曼德拉——
16:21
they taught a lot about
how to love others and opponents.
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他们教会了我们许多,
关于如何去爱他人和对手。
16:26
They didn't talk a lot
about loving ourselves.
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他们没有讲很多
如何爱我们自己,
16:30
This is a feminist intervention.
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这是女权主义的干预行动。
16:33
(Applause)
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(掌声)
16:35
Yes.
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是的。
16:37
Yes.
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是的。
16:38
(Applause)
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(掌声)
16:41
Because for too long have women
and women of color been told
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因为长久以来,
女性和有色人种女性都被告诫,
16:45
to suppress their rage,
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去压抑她们的怒火,
16:47
suppress their grief
in the name of love and forgiveness.
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压抑她们的悲痛,
以爱和宽恕之名。
16:50
But when we suppress our rage,
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可是当我们压抑怒火,
16:52
that's when it hardens
into hate directed outward,
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它反而会强化为向外的仇恨,
16:55
but usually directed inward.
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但通常是向内的。
16:59
But mothering has taught me
that all of our emotions are necessary.
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但作为母亲,我知道,
我们所有的情绪都是必要的。
17:05
Joy is the gift of love.
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喜悦是爱的礼物,
17:09
Grief is the price of love.
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悲戚是爱的代价。
17:13
Anger is the force that protects it.
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愤怒是保护它的力量。
17:18
This was my third lesson
in revolutionary love.
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这是我关于革命之爱
学到的第三课。
17:23
We love ourselves
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当我们
17:24
when we breathe through the fire of pain
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在痛苦的烈焰中喘息,
并拒绝让它强化为仇恨,
17:29
and refuse to let it harden into hate.
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我们就是在爱我们自己,
17:34
That's why I believe
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这就是为什么我相信,
17:37
that love must be practiced
in all three directions
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爱需要在三个方向上进行练习,
17:40
to be revolutionary.
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才能成为革命之爱。
17:43
Loving just ourselves feels good,
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只爱自己,感觉很好,
17:47
but it's narcissism.
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但那是自恋。
17:49
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
17:53
Loving only our opponents
is self-loathing.
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只爱对手,是自我厌恶。
17:58
Loving only others is ineffective.
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只爱他人,是没有作用的。
18:03
This is where a lot
of our movements live right now.
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现在我们的很多运动
都在这个范围内。
18:08
We need to practice
all three forms of love.
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我们应该练习
所有三种形式的爱。
18:13
And so, how do we practice it?
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那么,我们该如何练习呢?
18:16
Ready?
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准备好了吗?
18:18
Number one ...
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第一点...
18:21
in order to love others,
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若要爱他人,
18:23
see no stranger.
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就不要把他们当做陌生人。
18:25
We can train our eyes
to look upon strangers on the street,
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我们可以训练双眼,
在街上、地铁上、
18:29
on the subway, on the screen,
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屏幕上看到陌生人时,
18:30
and say in our minds,
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在心里说,
18:32
"Brother,
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“兄弟,
18:34
sister,
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姐妹,
18:35
aunt,
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阿姨,
18:36
uncle."
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叔叔。”
18:38
And when we say this,
what we are saying is,
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当我们在说这些时,
我们实际上是在说,
18:40
"You are a part of me I do not yet know.
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“你们是我尚未了解的一部分。
18:44
I choose to wonder about you.
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我选择去对你感到好奇。
18:48
I will listen for your stories
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我将倾听你的故事,
18:50
and pick up a sword
when you are in harm's way."
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假如你身处危险,
我也会拔刀相助。”
18:55
And so, number two:
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第二点:
18:58
in order to love our opponents,
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若要爱对手,
19:00
tend the wound.
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请照料他们的伤口。
19:03
Can you see the wound
in the ones who hurt you?
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你是否能看到
伤你之人的伤口?
19:07
Can you wonder even about them?
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你是否能对他们抱有好奇?
19:11
And if this question
sends panic through your body,
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如果这个问题让你感到慌乱,
19:15
then your most revolutionary act
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那么你最革命性的行动,
19:18
is to wonder, listen and respond
to your own needs.
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就是去好奇,倾听并回应
你自己的需求。
19:22
Number three:
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第三点:
19:25
in order to love ourselves,
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若要爱自己,
19:27
breathe and push.
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就要呼吸,并推进(push)。
19:30
When we are pushing
into the fires in our bodies
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当我们朝体内的烈火,
19:32
or the fires in the world,
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或世间的烈火推进时,
19:35
we need to be breathing together
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我们需要一起呼吸,
19:38
in order to be pushing together.
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才能够一起推进。
19:40
How are you breathing each day?
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你每天是怎么呼吸的?
19:44
Who are you breathing with?
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你在和谁一起呼吸?
19:48
Because ...
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因为...
19:51
when executive orders
and news of violence hits our bodies hard,
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当行政命令和暴力新闻
重击我们的肉体时,
19:56
sometimes less than a minute apart,
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有时候间隔不到一分钟,
19:59
it feels like dying.
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感觉就像要死了。
20:03
In those moments,
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在那些时刻,
20:05
my son places his hand
on my cheek and says,
340
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3896
我儿子会把他的手
放在我的脸颊,说
20:09
"Dance time, mommy?"
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“该跳舞了,妈妈?”
20:13
And we dance.
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然后我们去跳舞。
20:15
In the darkness, we breathe and we dance.
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在黑暗中,我们呼吸,我们舞蹈。
20:18
Our family becomes
a pocket of revolutionary love.
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我们的家庭变为了
革命之爱的容器。
20:21
Our joy is an act of moral resistance.
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我们的喜悦是道德抗争。
20:24
How are you protecting your joy each day?
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你每天是如何守护你的喜悦呢?
20:26
Because in joy we see
even darkness with new eyes.
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因为在喜悦中,即使身处黑暗,
我们也能看到光亮。
20:33
And so the mother in me asks,
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所以,我体内的母性本能问道,
20:39
what if this darkness
is not the darkness of the tomb,
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如果这黑暗,
不是坟墓的黑暗,
20:45
but the darkness of the womb?
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而是子宫的黑暗呢?
20:49
What if our future is not dead,
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如果我们的未来并未消亡,
20:53
but still waiting to be born?
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而是等待降临呢?
20:57
What if this is our great transition?
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如果这是我们伟大的过渡期呢?
21:01
Remember the wisdom of the midwife.
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请牢记助产士的智慧。
21:04
"Breathe," she says.
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“呼吸,”她说
21:06
And then --
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然后——
21:07
"push."
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“用力(push)。”
21:09
Because if we don't push, we will die.
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因为如果我们不推进,
我们会死亡。
21:11
If we don't breathe, we will die.
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如果我们不呼吸,
我们会死亡。
21:13
Revolutionary love requires us
to breathe and push through the fire
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革命之爱需要我们
带着战士的心和圣人的眼睛。
21:18
with a warrior's heart and a saint's eyes
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在烈火中呼吸并推进。
21:20
so that one day ...
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那么总有一天,
21:24
one day you will see my son as your own
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总有一天,你会
把我的孩子当作你的孩子,
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and protect him when I am not there.
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保护他,即使我不在了。
21:34
You will tend to the wound
in the ones who want to hurt him.
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你将会照料
伤害他的人的伤口。
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You will teach him how to love himself
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你将会教会他如何自爱,
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because you love yourself.
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因为,你爱着你自己。
21:46
You will whisper in his ear,
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你将会在他耳边低语,
21:49
as I whisper in yours,
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如我在你耳边低语一般,
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"You are brave."
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“你很勇敢。”
21:55
You are brave.
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你很勇敢。
21:58
Thank you.
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谢谢。
(掌声)
21:59
(Applause)
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(锡克教祷告语)
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,
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(Sikh Prayer) Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa,
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Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.
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Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.
22:03
(Applause)
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(掌声)
22:05
(Cheering)
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(欢呼)
22:08
(Applause)
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(掌声)
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