Ballroom dance that breaks gender roles | Trevor Copp and Jeff Fox

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Trevor Copp: When "Dancing With the Stars" first hit the airwaves,
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that is not what it looked like.
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(Laughter)
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Jeff and I were full-time ballroom dance instructors
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when the big TV ballroom revival hit,
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and this was incredible.
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I mean, one day we would say "foxtrot,"
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and people were like "Foxes trotting."
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(Laughter)
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And the next day they were telling us
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the finer points of a good feather step.
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And this blew our minds.
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I mean, all of the ballroom dance geeking out that we had always done
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on why salsa worked differently than the competitive rumba
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and why tango traveled unlike the waltz,
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all of that just hit the public consciousness,
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and it changed everything.
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But running parallel to this excitement,
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the excitement that suddenly, somehow, we were cool --
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(Laughter)
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there was also this reservation.
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Why this and why now?
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Jeff Fox: When Trevor and I would get together for training seminars
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or just for fun,
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we'd toss each other around, mix it up,
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take a break from having to lead all the time.
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We even came up with a system for switching lead and follow
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while we were dancing,
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as a way of taking turns and playing fair.
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It wasn't until we used that system as part of a performance
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in a small festival
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that we got an important tap on the shoulder.
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Lisa O'Connell, a dramaturge and director of a playwright center,
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pulled us aside after the show and said,
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"Do you have any idea how political that was?"
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(Laughter)
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So that began an eight-year collaboration to create a play
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which not only further developed our system for switching
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but also explored the impact of being locked into a single role,
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and what's worse,
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being defined by that single role.
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TC: Because, of course,
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classic Latin and ballroom dancing isn't just a system of dancing;
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it's a way of thinking, of being,
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of relating to each other
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that captured a whole period's values.
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There's one thing that stayed consistent, though:
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the man leads
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and the woman follows.
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So street salsa, championship tango, it's all the same --
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he leads, she follows.
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So this was gender training.
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You weren't just learning to dance --
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you were learning to "man" and to "woman."
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It's a relic.
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And in the way of relics, you don't throw it out,
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but you need to know that this is the past.
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This isn't the present.
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It's like Shakespeare: respect it, revive it -- great!
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But know that this is history.
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This doesn't represent how we think today.
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So we asked ourselves:
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If you strip it all down,
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what is at the core of partner dancing?
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JF: Well, the core principle of partner dancing
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is that one person leads, the other one follows.
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The machine works the same, regardless of who's playing which role.
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The physics of movement doesn't really give a crap about your gender.
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(Laughter)
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So if we were to update the existing form,
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we would need to make it more representative
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of how we interact here, now, in 2015.
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When you watch ballroom, don't just watch what's there.
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Watch what's not.
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The couple is always only a man and a woman.
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Together.
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Only.
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Ever.
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So, same-sex and gender nonconformist couples just disappear.
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In most mainstream international ballroom competitions,
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same-sex couples are rarely recognized on the floor,
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and in many cases,
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the rules prohibit them completely.
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TC: Try this: Google-image, "professional Latin dancer,"
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and then look for an actual Latino person.
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(Laughter)
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You'll be there for days.
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What you will get is page after page of white, straight Russian couples
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spray-tanned to the point of mahogany.
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(Laughter)
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There are no black people, there are no Asians,
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no mixed-race couples,
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so basically, non-white people just disappeared.
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Even within the white-straight- couple-only paradigm --
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she can't be taller,
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he can't be shorter.
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She can't be bolder,
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he can't be gentler.
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If you were to take a ballroom dance
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and translate that into a conversation
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and drop that into a movie,
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we, as a culture, would never stand for this.
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He dictates, she reacts.
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No relationship -- gay, straight or anything --
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that we would regard as remotely healthy or functional looks like that,
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and yet somehow,
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you put it on prime time, you slap some makeup on it,
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throw the glitter on, put it out there as movement, not as text,
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and we, as a culture,
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tune in and clap.
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We are applauding our own absence.
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Too many people have disappeared from partner dancing.
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(Music)
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(Applause)
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JF: Now, you just saw two men dancing together.
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(Laughter)
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And you thought it looked ...
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a little strange.
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Interesting -- appealing, even --
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but a little bit odd.
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Even avid followers of the same-sex ballroom circuit can attest
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that while same-sex partner dancing can be dynamic and strong and exciting,
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it just doesn't quite seem to fit.
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Aesthetically speaking,
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if Alida and I take the classic closed ballroom hold ...
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this is considered beautiful.
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(Laughter)
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But why not this?
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(Laughter)
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See, the standard image that the leader must be larger and masculine
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and the follower smaller and feminine --
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this is a stumbling point.
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TC: So we wanted to look at this from a totally different angle.
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So, what if we could keep the idea of lead and follow
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but toss the idea that this was connected to gender?
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Further, what if a couple could lead and follow each other
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and then switch?
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And then switch back?
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What if it could be like a conversation,
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taking turns listening and speaking, just like we do in life?
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What if we could dance like that?
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We call it "Liquid Lead Dancing."
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JF: Let's try this with a Latin dance,
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salsa.
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In salsa, there's a key transitional step, called the cross-body lead.
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We use it as punctuation to break up the improvisation.
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It can be a little tricky to spot if you're not used to looking for it,
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so here it is.
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One more time for the cheap seats.
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(Laughter)
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And here's the action one more time,
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nice and slow.
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Now, if we apply liquid-lead thinking to this transitional step,
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the cross-body lead becomes a point
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where the lead and the follow can switch.
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The person following can elect to take over the lead,
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or the person leading can choose to surrender it,
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essentially making it a counter-cross-body lead.
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Here's how that looks in slow motion.
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And here's how it looked when we danced it in the opening dance.
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With this simple tweak, the dance moves from being a dictation
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to a negotiation.
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Anyone can lead. Anyone can follow.
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And more importantly, you can change your mind.
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Now, this is only one example of how this applies,
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but once the blinkers come off, anything can happen.
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TC: Let's look at how Liquid Lead thinking could apply to a classic waltz.
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Because, of course,
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it isn't just a system of switching leads;
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it's a way of thinking
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that can actually make the dance itself more efficient.
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So: the waltz.
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The waltz is a turning dance.
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This means that for the lead,
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you spend half of the dance traveling backwards,
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completely blind.
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And because of the follower's position,
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basically, no one can see where they're going.
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(Laughter)
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So you're out here on the floor,
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and then imagine that coming right at you.
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JF: Raaaaaah!
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(Laughter)
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TC: There are actually a lot of accidents out there
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that happen as a result of this blind spot.
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But what if the partners were to just allow for
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a switch of posture for a moment?
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A lot of accidents could be avoided.
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Even if one person led the whole dance but allowed this switch to happen,
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it would be a lot safer,
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while at the same time, offering new aesthetics into the waltz.
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Because physics doesn't give a damn about your gender.
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(Laughter)
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JF: Now, we've danced Liquid Lead in clubs, convention centers
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and as part of "First Dance," the play we created with Lisa,
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on stages in North America and in Europe.
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And it never fails to engage.
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I mean, beyond the unusual sight of seeing two men dancing together,
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it always evokes and engages.
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But why?
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The secret lies in what made Lisa see our initial demonstration
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as "political."
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It wasn't just that we were switching lead and follow;
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it's that we stayed consistent in our presence, our personality
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and our power, regardless of which role we were playing.
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We were still us.
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And that's where the true freedom lies --
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not just the freedom to switch roles,
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but the freedom from being defined by whichever role you're playing,
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the freedom to always remain true to yourself.
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Forget what a lead is supposed to look like, or a follow.
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Be a masculine follow
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or a feminine lead.
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Just be yourself.
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Obviously, this applies off the dance floor as well,
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but on the floor, it gives us the perfect opportunity
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to update an old paradigm, reinvigorate an old relic,
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and make it more representative of our era and our current way of being.
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TC: Jeff and I dance partner dancing all the time with women and men
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and we love it.
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But we dance with a consciousness that this is a historic form
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that can produce silence and produce invisibility
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across the spectrum of identity that we enjoy today.
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We invented Liquid Lead
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as a way of stripping out all the ideas that don't belong to us
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and taking partner dancing back to what it really always was:
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the fine art of taking care of each other.
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(Music)
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(Applause)
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