How a "Hi Level" Mindset Helps You Realize Your Potential | Cordae | TED

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翻译人员: Rocky Stone 校对人员: Yip Yan Yeung
00:03
How's everybody doing today?
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大家好!
00:05
(Applause)
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(掌声)
00:08
So for those of you who may not know who I am,
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大家可能不太认识我,
00:13
which is probably the vast majority of you all.
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可能在座的绝大多数人都是这样。
00:15
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
00:17
My name is Cordae.
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我叫Cordae,
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I'm 24 years old.
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今年 24 岁。
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I was born in Raleigh, North Carolina.
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我出生于北卡罗来纳州 罗利市(Raleigh)。
00:24
but was raised majority in Suitland, Maryland,
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不过,我基本上在马里兰州 苏特兰(Suitland)长大,
00:26
which made me who I am today.
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在那里的生活 让我取得了今天的成就。
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I'm a hip-hop artist.
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我是一名说唱歌手。
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More specifically, a Grammy-nominated hip-hop artist.
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更具体地说, 一名获得格莱美提名的说唱歌手。
00:35
(Applause)
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(掌声)
00:40
A quote unquote critically acclaimed, world-renowned B-list celebrity.
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就是所谓的“深受好评、 享誉世界“的二线明星。
00:45
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
00:47
But to be honest, more like B minus.
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但老实说,应该比二线强一点点了。
00:50
But again, you all can just call me Cordae
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不过,大家只要 叫我Cordae就行了,
00:53
and assume that I'm almost kind of a big deal
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并默认我是某个大人物,
00:55
because I am here doing a TED Talk.
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因为毕竟我是来TED演讲的嘛!
00:58
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
00:59
Now I know what you're thinking.
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我知道大家是怎么想的。
01:02
What does a 24-year-old rapper possibly have to say during a TED Talk?
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一个才 24 岁的说唱歌手, 在TED演讲上有什么好说的呢?
01:07
Like, who cares what Ja Rule thinks, you know?
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或者,谁会关心杰·鲁 (Ja Rule)怎么想呢?
01:10
But I'm here to talk about my mantra
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不过,我来这里向大家介绍 我奉行的准则,
01:13
and my way of life that has gotten me this far
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以及我的生活方式, 它们帮助我获得了成功,
01:16
and can hopefully take me a lot further on my journey,
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并有望引领我取得更大的成就,
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as I'm just getting started.
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因为我的旅途才刚刚开始。
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And that’s the “Hi Level mindset.”
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它就是“高水准思维” (Hi Level mindset)。
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Now
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现在,
01:25
before I get into the details about the Hi Level mindset,
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在详细说明 高水准思维之前,
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I want to tell you about the original creator of the Hi Level mindset.
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我想向大家介绍 高水准思维的原创者。
01:33
And that's my mom. She doesn't even know it.
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她就是我妈妈。 她甚至都不知道这一点。
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My mom had me when she was 16 years old.
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我妈妈生下我时,她 16 岁。
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She was a single mom with all the odds stacked against her.
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她是位单亲妈妈,历经苦难。
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And yet, from an unbiased perspective,
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但是,不带偏见地说,
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I like to say she did a pretty decent job.
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我想说,她是位伟大的母亲。
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We lived in some pretty terrible neighborhoods, man.
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我们生活的街区情况非常糟糕。
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I switched elementary schools about five different times.
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读小学时,我就换了 五所不同的学校。
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I remember one time her car had got stolen twice in one week.
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我记得有一次, 她的汽车在一周内被偷了两次。
02:00
She overcame circumstance, obstacles, her environment and negativity.
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她克服了各种窘境、阻碍、 恶劣环境和负面影响。
02:06
As I watched, our living situations would continue to get better and better
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我注意到,这些年来,
02:10
as the years went by.
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我们的生存环境在不断改善。
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Now that's Hi Level.
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现在来说说高水准思维。
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Now the Hi Level mindset wasn’t something that she directly taught me
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高水准思维 不是她直接教给我,
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or purposefully instilled in me,
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也不是她有意灌输给我的东西,
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but something I learned simply by observation.
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而是我通过观察学到的内容。
02:25
The Hi Level mindset is a philosophy.
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高水准思维是一种哲学。
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It’s a wavelength to apply to your everyday thoughts and regiment.
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这种思维适用于 大家的日常思考和活动。
02:33
The Hi Level mindset will be of great service to you,
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高水准思维 将会给大家带来巨大帮助,
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especially when things aren't going as planned.
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在出现意外的情况下尤其如此。
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These trying times that I speak of, or life testers, if you may,
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我提到的那些困难时刻, 或生活的考验,
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are what truly make us man and woman.
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让我们成为了真正的人。
02:46
Actually scratch that.
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算了,我换一种说法。
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How we handle these lifetimes,
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我们如何过完这一生,
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these trying times, or life testers,
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如何克服困难, 或面对生活的考验,
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is what decides a person's destiny.
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将决定我们个人的命运。
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Which brings me to step one of the Hi Level mindset.
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这就引出了高水准思维的第一步。
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And that's always remain positive,
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也就是,不管他人 或生活如何折磨你,
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no matter what people or life may throw at you.
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都要始终保持积极乐观。
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Now I'm going to give you a little bit of background about myself.
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现在,我向大家 简单介绍一下我自己。
03:08
Funny enough, I was actually voted most likely to be famous
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实际上,搞笑的是, 在初中和高中的时候,
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in both middle school and high school.
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人们就投票认为 我最有可能会出名。
03:16
Now I know what you're thinking. I'm sorry.
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我知道大家在想什么。不好意思。
03:18
I haven't always been this good looking, it takes a little bit of time.
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我不是一直这么帅, 做出改变花了我一段时间。
03:22
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
03:23
My goal was to graduate high school and to immediately blow up.
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那时,我的目标是高中毕业, 然后立即去混社会。
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But that didn't happen.
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但并没有发生那种情况。
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So I went to college
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相反,我上了大学。
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and as soon as I went to college, boy, did life hit me hard.
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不过,我一到大学, 就受到了生活的暴击。
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Within the first couple of weeks of school,
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在到校的前几周内,
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one of my best friends that I called my brother
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我的一个与我称兄道弟的好朋友
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had gotten sentenced to 24 years in prison.
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就被判处 24 年监禁。
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I had gotten detained for driving with a suspended license,
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我曾因使用 被吊销的驾照而被拘留,
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amongst other things,
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还有其他事情,
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like having a pound of weed in the car before it was legal.
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比如在大麻合法之前, 在车里带了一磅大麻。
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And my grandmother had passed.
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期间我的祖母去世了。
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Not to mention I was already a terrible student with horrific grades
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不用说,我已经是一个差生, 不但成绩糟糕,
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and a broke teenager.
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而且身无分文。
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And I wonder why my grades were so bad.
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我也不知道, 为什么我的成绩会那么差。
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Now that's just disrespectful. I wasn't even trying to hide it.
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既然已经那样了, 我也就破罐子破摔了。
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But on top of all of these things,
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但除了所有这些事情,
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what was really the breaking point for me
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真正让我崩溃的是,
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was that I had released a mixtape that I worked on the entire summer
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我花了整个夏天 制作的一盘混音磁带,
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and it had only gotten 200 downloads.
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下载量却只有 200 次。
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Now my previous two mixtapes got 2,000 downloads,
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如今,我的前两盘混音磁带 有 2000 次下载,
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so I was not happy with the regression, to say the least.
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至少可以这样说, 我对那个数量很不满意。
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Again, this almost pushed me to the brink of quitting and insanity.
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再一次,这几乎将我推向 退学和精神失常的边缘。
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But the Hi Level mindset made me think, "Man.
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但是,高水准思维让我这样想:
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These misfortunes are just going to make my triumph story a lot cooler."
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“朋友,这些不幸只会 让你的成功经历更酷一些。”
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
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I used this as fuel to the fire,
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我把这当作是一种力量,
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motivation, if you will.
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也可以说是生活的动力。
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It made me think, you know, life is just a book.
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它让我想到, 生活就像是一本书。
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Not every chapter is going to be perfect.
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不是每一章都是完美的。
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But it's about how it ends.
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但重要的是,书的结尾是什么。
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Which brings me to the second step of the Hi Level mindset.
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这引出了我要讲的 高水准思维的第二步。
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Always be intentional with your desires.
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要有意识地去实现自己的愿望。
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Know exactly what you want.
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知道你到底想要什么。
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In 2018, I created a vision board --
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2018 年,我做了一块愿景板——
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at the beginning of 2018, excuse me --
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抱歉,是在 2018 年初,
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I created a vision board.
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我做了一块愿景板。
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And I'm proud to say that with the Hi Level mindset,
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可以自豪地说,利用高水准思维,
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within one year I almost accomplished everything on here.
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我在一年内几乎实现了 板子上的所有愿望。
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Ya’ll can clap for that.
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此处应该有掌声。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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So I encourage you to just write down your goals.
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因此,我鼓励大家 写下自己的目标。
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Starting off your day with reading your goals and dreams aloud
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每天一大早, 都大声朗读自己的目标和梦想,
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gives you a boost of positive energy.
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为自己带来满满的正能量。
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This energy can be transmuted into something we call faith.
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这种能量可以转化为某种东西, 我们称之为信仰。
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Faith in your ability, faith in yourself,
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相信你的能力,相信你自己,
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faith in a higher power
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更坚定的信仰
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will take you to places you can't even imagine.
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将引领你到达无法想像的高度。
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Know exactly what you want.
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知道你到底想要什么。
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How can you be Hi Level if you don't know what Hi Level is to you?
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如果你都不知道你的高水准是什么, 又怎么能达到高水准呢?
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And in order to do all these things,
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为了做到这些,
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it brings me to the third step of the Hi Level mindset.
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这就引出了我要讲的 高水准思维的第三步。
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Discipline.
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自律。
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Growing up,
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在成长的过程中,
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discipline was always taught in such a lame way
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我们一直以蹩脚的方式学习自律,
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that I always tried my best to avoid it.
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以至于我总是会设法逃避自律。
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
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But where motivation is low, that's where discipline kicks in.
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但是,只有在缺乏动力的时候, 才需要自律。
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Anybody who's done something noteworthy with their lives
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任何人如果做出了瞩目的成就,
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all have one thing in common,
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他们都有一个共同点,
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and that's discipline.
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那就是自律。
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Mastering the art of discipline will literally change your life.
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不夸张地说, 坚持自律会改变你的命运。
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I witnessed this close hand by studying a friend up close.
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我通过近距离观察一个朋友, 亲自见证了这一点。
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This friend of mine noticed
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我的这个朋友注意到,
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that every time he stopped doing drugs and alcohol,
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每次他停止吸毒和饮酒,
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something good would happen.
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都会有好事发生。
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
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He felt as though this was a divine calling
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他觉得这好像是来自天堂
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from heaven above to halt all his vices.
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神明的召唤, 要求他停止所有恶习。
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Now can anyone tell me the three main vices
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现在,有人可以说出
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of a 19-year-old college student?
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一个 19 岁的大学生的 三个主要恶习吗?
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It's sex, alcohol and drugs.
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它们就是滥性、酗酒和吸毒。
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If you all didn't know that already.
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如果你们还不知道的话。
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And after the first six months of him stopping his vices,
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在停止这些恶习后的前六个月,
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I seen his whole life change completely.
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我看到他的整个生活 发生了翻天覆地的变化。
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Again he thought this is a sign
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而且,他认为这是一个信号:
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that maybe God doesn't want me to do drugs,
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可能上帝不希望我吸毒、
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drink alcohol or have sex.
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饮酒或滥性。
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But no, that's not the case.
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但并不是这样。
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Thank you.
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谢谢大家!
07:47
He was just simply learning discipline without knowing.
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他只是不知不觉地学会了自律。
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Alright. I have a confession to make.
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好吧,我要承认一件事。
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Because I don't want to make this entire TED Talk about myself,
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因为我不想在这整段TED 演讲中一直只讲我自己,
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I lied and said that this is a friend.
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于是我说谎了, 说这是我的一个朋友。
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
08:03
It was actually me.
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它实际上说的就是我。
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
08:06
(Applause)
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(掌声)
08:11
Now a cheat code to ensure that you're staying disciplined
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现在,秘诀就是 确保你在追求任何目标时
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to whatever you're striving for is to prime your environment for success.
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都保持自律,以便改善环境, 进而取得成功。
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Your habits are based on your habitat.
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你的习惯与生存环境息息相关。
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And the main product of your habitat are the people in your life.
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你生存环境的主要“产品”, 是你生活中的人。
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Which brings me to a very important step of the Hi Level mindset.
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这引出了高水准思维的 一个非常重要的步骤。
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The fourth step, to be exact.
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也就是第四步。
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Remove all negative people out of your life immediately.
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立即将思想消极的人 从你生命中赶出去。
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Anybody that's semidoubtful or naysaying, get them out.
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任何人只要半信半疑或表示反对, 就将他们清理出去。
08:45
If you're talking about your dreams and goals
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如果你谈到自己的梦想和目标,
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and they give small, sarcastic remarks ...
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而他们说出贬低、讽刺的话……
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boot them.
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就把他们踢出去。
08:52
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
08:53
Just an all-around negative Nancy?
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一个满满负能量的人?
08:56
Kick them out of there, man.
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朋友,把他们踢走。
08:58
Does anybody in the audience know somebody that's like that?
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在座的有人认识那样的人吗?
09:01
Please raise your hand.
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请举手。
09:03
I need you all to do me a favor.
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我需要大家帮我一个忙。
09:05
Pull your phones out and block them immediately.
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拿出手机,立即把他们拉黑。
09:08
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
09:10
No, no, no. I'm dead serious.
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不,不,我没有开玩笑。
09:13
Don’t let someone else’s negativity cancel out your light,
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不要让任何负能量的人 熄灭你心中的光,
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for it can temporarily get in the way of you achieving what's owed to you.
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因为这会暂时阻止 你去实现自己的目标。
09:22
You are a product of those who you hang around.
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近朱者赤,近墨者黑。
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Let's make sure we're hanging around other positive, Hi Level individuals.
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我们要确保与其他正能量、 高水准的人呆在一起。
09:30
Now -- (Applause)
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现在—— (掌声)
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Thank you.
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谢谢大家!
09:36
Now I like to consider myself a master at this Hi Level stuff.
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现在,我认为自己是 高水准思维的大师。
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I mean, I am here for a reason, right?
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我是说, 我来这里是有原因的,是吧?
09:43
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
09:46
But that doesn't mean things always go my way.
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但是,那并不表示 我做什么事情都会顺利。
09:50
Even now,
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即使是现在,
09:52
I just recently released my sophomore album
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我刚刚发行了我的第二张专辑,
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"From a Birds Eye View" that I spent two full years creating.
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《From a Bird’s Eye View》, 我花了整整两年制作的专辑。
09:59
My debut album, "The Lost Boy,"
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我的首张专辑《The Lost Boy》
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was met with massive critical acclaim and success,
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受到了广泛好评, 取得了巨大成功,
10:05
and I had a lot of pressure on myself, to outdo myself.
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我给了自己很大压力, 想要超越自己。
10:10
And in my eyes and in the eyes of many, I did.
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在我看来,在许多人看来, 我做到了。
10:14
I had huge expectations for this album,
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我对这张专辑抱有非常大的期望,
10:17
but when it finally released
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但当它最终发行时,
10:19
and it wasn't received as well as I'd hoped,
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它并没获得我期待的好评。
10:22
I completely broke down.
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我完全崩溃了。
10:25
I did my fasting. I stayed positive.
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我节食。我积极乐观。
10:27
I wrote down my dreams and goals. I was disciplined.
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我写下自己的梦想和目标。 我保持自律。
10:31
I was doing this every day to make sure
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每一天,我都努力确保
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that this big moment that it was leading up to,
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实现这个重大目标,
10:37
that would change the entire world, would go perfectly.
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那会改变整个世界,实现圆满。
10:42
But that didn't happen.
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但那并没有成真。
10:43
I did not meet the expectations that I had set for myself,
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我没有满足我为自己设定的期待,
10:47
that the world had set for me.
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世界对我的期待。
10:49
And this is the first time as a major artist
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作为知名歌手,这是第一次
10:52
that I had received mixed reviews of my art.
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人们对我的作品褒贬不一。
10:54
And again, it broke me down, man.
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这又一次让我崩溃了。
10:58
I became unmotivated,
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我失去了动力,
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I started overindulging in things that I'm not proud of.
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我开始过于沉溺于 那些并不光彩的事情。
11:04
I was almost thinking about canceling my upcoming tour.
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我差点决定取消即将开始的巡演。
11:08
I was in a very dark place.
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我的世界一片漆黑。
11:11
But then I heard this Yiddish proverb
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然后,我听到了这句犹太谚语,
11:13
that A$AP Rocky actually told me about at a most important time,
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实际上,它是A$AP Rocky 在一个非常重要的时刻告诉我的,
11:17
and I’m sure he didn’t even know it.
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我相信他也不清楚这一点。
11:20
It’s “We plan, and God laughs.”
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它就是“人算不如天算”。
11:23
And that made me think.
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那让我陷入了思考。
11:25
The Hi Level mindset is not a recipe for perfection
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高水准思维不是完美的秘诀,
11:30
but a commitment to honoring your potential
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而是一种承诺, 你必须尊重自己的潜能,
11:33
and what you have to offer the world.
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对世界有所贡献。
11:36
Don't let your small failures make you lose sight of your bigger picture.
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不要因为小小的失败 而丢失更长远的目标。
11:42
I'll leave you all with this.
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这就是我想说的。
11:45
We only have one life to live.
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我们只有一次生命。
11:48
110 years maximum
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即使你是健康达人, 买了全套医疗保险,
11:51
if you are a health guru and you have great health insurance.
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你最多也只能活 110 岁。
11:54
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
11:58
How are you going to maximize your time on this Earth?
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你如何充实地过完这一生呢?
12:02
Do you want your name to be remembered long after you're gone?
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你希望在你死后很长时间, 人们仍记得你的名字吗?
12:06
The Hi Level mindset is about doing everything that you put your hands on
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高水准思维的核心,
12:12
at the highest level that you're capable of doing.
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是以最高水准、 尽最大努力去做每一件事情。
12:16
Think of your life as a book.
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把你的生活看作一本书。
12:18
Again, each chapter isn't going to be perfect.
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当然,每一章都并不完美。
12:23
But how do you want your story to end?
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但是,你希望你的故事如何结束呢?
12:25
In anguish?
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是痛苦不堪?
12:27
A bunch of what-ifs?
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满怀遗憾?
12:30
Or leaving a legacy?
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还是留下遗产?
12:32
I choose legacy.
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我选择留下遗产。
12:34
The Hi Level way. Thank you.
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以高水准的方式过完一生。 谢谢大家!
12:36
(Applause)
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(掌声)
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