Top 20 English Verbs for Dating

If you like dating, or talking about dating  then stay tuned as I teach you the top 20  

如果您喜欢约会或谈论约会，请继续关注，因为我会教您

most important dating phrases.  Subscribe, like, and let’s get started.

最重要的 20个 最重要的约会短语。订阅即可，让我们开始吧。

1. To ask out. 
To ‘ask someone out’ means to  invite them to go on a date with you. 
“So I’m  

1.询问。 “要求某人出去”意味着邀请他们与您约会。 “因此 ，如果您想和我一起看电影，

going to the cinema tonight to see that new Marvel  movie, if you want to come and see it with me.” 

我 今晚将去电影院看那部新的Marvel电影。”

“Are you asking me out?”
 

“你要我出去吗？”

2. To be seeing. 
To ‘be seeing’ someone means you  are going on dates with them but you are not,  

2.待见。 “见到”某人意味着您正在与他们约会，但您

or not yet, officially in a relationship. So it's at the very start. “What’s  the deal with you and Cameron? You’re spending  

尚未或尚未正式建立恋爱关系。所以这是一开始的。 “你和卡梅伦怎么办？您在一起度过

a lot of time together.” “Well, we’re kind of  seeing each other I guess.” “WHAT!? That’s HUGE,  

了很多时间。” “好吧，我猜我们彼此见面。” “什么！？ 你和卡梅隆在一起

you and Cameron, together?” “Shh, it’s still  early days, so don't tell anyone, just keep it to yourself ok?” 

，真是太好 了？” “嘘，还很早，所以不要告诉任何人，让它自己好吗？”

3. To chat up. 
To ‘chat someone up’ means to  talk flirtatiously with someone in the hopes  

3.聊天。 “跟某人聊天”意味着与某人调情地交谈，以

of getting them interested in you. 
“Remember me?  Oh, that’s right, I’ve met you only in my dreams.”  

期使他们对您产生兴趣。 “记得我？哦，是的，我只有在梦中才见到你。”

“Seriously? If you are gonna chat me up  then you need to work on your material.” 

“严重地？如果您要和我聊天，那么您需要处理您的材料。”

4. To cheat on. 
To ‘cheat on’ a partner  means to go behind their back, betray  

4.作弊。 “欺骗”伴侣意味着背对 他们，浪漫地或性地与他人

them, romantically or sexually with someone else.  
“Have you seen the picture Beth posted online?  

背叛 他们。 “您看过贝丝在网上发布的图片吗？

It’s proof that Justin has cheated on her.”
 5. To come on to. 
To ‘come on to someone’  

证明贾斯汀欺骗了她。” 5.来吧。 “与某人见面”

means to show sexual interest in them. It’s  like propositioning them, or making a move  

意味着对他们表现出性兴趣。就像 对它们 提出主张或 对它们

on them. Some people may consider chatting  a person up to be a come-on but to come on  

采取行动 一样。某些人可能会认为与某人聊天是很容易的事，但

to someone is a stronger, it's a more direct signal.  
“I’m hiding, Franko came on to me earlier.  

与某人 聊天会 更强，这是一个更直接的信号。 “我躲起来了，弗兰科早些时候来找我。

We were both in the kitchen and he just  leant over and tried to kiss me." Now 

that's  

我们在厨房里都是，他只是向前探身，试图吻我。”现在的

called unrequited love, Franko really likes  this girl but she doesn’t like him back. Have you  

所谓的单相思，弗兰科真的很喜欢这个女孩，但她不喜欢他。你

ever been in a situation where someone, you didn’t  really like, came on to you? What did you do?  

曾经 在一个情况下有人，你没“T真的很喜欢，就到你吗？你做了什么？

Tell me about your experience in the comments  section below. 
In these situations it’s important  

告诉我你在下面的评论部分的经验。在这些情况下 ，你可以

that you can communicate confidently  so that there isn’t a misunderstanding.  

在第二语言 沟通理直气壮所以不存在一个误区。


Dating in a second language can be exciting,  it’s certainly motivating, but it can also be  

约会 是非常重要的 令人兴奋的是，它肯定会激励人，但也可能会

terrifying, and frustrating. Lingoda, are  brilliant at building your confidence,  

令人恐惧和沮丧。Lingoda非常擅长建立信心，

especially when it comes to speaking a language.  Their 60 minute group classes consist of only 3 to a maximum of 5  

尤其是在说一种语言时，他们60分钟的小组课程只有3到最多5堂课

students, and 
because of these small class  sizes, your teacher is able get you involved  

学生，由于班级人数少，您的老师能够让您参与

in the exercises and give individual feedback. I  remember being amazed at how my Lingoda teacher  

练习并提供个人反馈，我记得令我惊讶的是我的Lingoda老师如何

was able to encourage me to join in and speak  German during my first lesson. And the teachers  

在我的第一堂课中鼓励我加入德语。 Lingoda 的老师

who work at Lingoda are fabulous, all native  speakers of the language and fully qualified,  

非常棒，都是该语言的母语使用者，并且完全合格，

who can not only take you through the class  specific curriculum but also give you a sense of  

他们不仅可以带您完成该课程的特定课程，而且还可以为您提供

real-life everyday language like idioms, cultural  references and local expressions.
 Lingoda can suit  

真实的日常语言 感， 例如成语，文化参考和本地语言。表达式。 Lingoda可以满足

your needs, offering courses at 6 different CEFR  levels, offering lessons 24/7, you just need to  

您的需求，提供6种不同的CEFR级别的课程，提供24/7的课程，您只需要

specify the days and times you want to learn, and  they offer courses in several different languages,  

指定要学习的日期和时间，它们就可以用几种不同的语言（ 包括英语）

including English. 
I have always enjoyed my  lessons with Lingoda and I am sure you will too,  

提供课程 。我一直很喜欢Lingoda上的课程，我相信您也一定会喜欢，

so why not try Lingoda for yourself! You can  experience a 7-day free trial that includes:  

所以为什么不亲自尝试Lingoda！您可以体验7天的免费试用期，其中包括：

3 classes (in 1 week) for free. Using the voucher code  GET30 when you sign up for the 7-day trial. It  

3个班级（1周内）免费。注册7天试用版时，请使用优惠券代码GET30。

will give you a 30% discount on the first-month  payment if you continue after that, valid for the Month to month and Marathon  

如果您在此之后继续付款 ， 它将在第一个月的付款中给您30％的折扣，适用于每月至每月和马拉松

packages. Click on the link below to find  out more. Now let’s get back to dating.
 

套餐。单击下面的链接以了解更多信息。现在让我们回到约会。

6. To date. 
To ‘date’ someone means to go  out with them in a romantic setting. If you  

6.迄今为止。与某人“约会”意味着在浪漫的氛围中与他们外出。如果您

say you are dating someone then it’s similar to  “seeing” someone. It means you are meeting up  

说您正在与某人约会，则类似于“见到某人”。这意味着您要

regularly and exploring the possibility of a  relationship. You wouldn’t say you were dating  

定期开会并探讨建立关系的可能性。 如果您只是一次约会甚至两次约会，

someone if you had only been on one date or  even two dates, it has to be an ongoing thing.  

您不会说要与 某人约会，那一定是一件持续不断的事情。


“Jessica and Edward have been dating for 3 months  now, I wish they would just make it official.”
 

“杰西卡和爱德华已经约会了三个月，我希望他们能正式宣布约会。”

7. To drool over
To ‘drool over’ someone is  a jokey way of saying that you find them very  

7.流口水“推倒”某人是一种开玩笑的方式，说你觉得他们很

attractive, imagining that person is a delicious  food and they make you salivate. Which actually  

诱人，想象那个人是一种美味的食物，他们会让你 流口水 。这

sounds really gross.
“I have to admit I spent  the whole film drooling over Bradley Cooper."
 

听起来真的很恶心。 “我不得不承认我整部电影都花了布拉德利·库珀（Bradley Cooper）流口水。”

8. To fall for
. To ‘fall for’ someone  means to develop feelings for them,  

8. 迷恋。“ 迷恋”某人意味着对他们产生感情，

or even begin to love them. 
“He’s so lovely.  I know I’ve only known him for a week but  

甚至开始爱他们。“他是如此可爱。我知道我“只认识他一个星期，但

I’m really falling for him.”
 9. To flirt  

我真的很喜欢他。” 9.调情


To ‘flirt’ means to behave in a way which  indicates sexual attraction, such as making lots  

“调情”是指表现出性吸引的行为，例如多与

of eye contact. “I didn’t  order a drink?” “I know, it’s on the house”
“I  

眼神交流，“我没有点酒吗？” “我知道，那是在房子上。”“我

think the waiter is flirting with me!”
 10. To go out with. 
To ‘go out with’  

认为服务生正和我调情！” 10.出去 约会 。与 某人“约会

somebody means to go on a date, or to spend  time together romantically. If you say you’re  

出去” 意味着去约会，或者浪漫地度过时光。如果您说您正在

‘going out with’ someone, it can either refer to  a specific date, for example: “I’m going out with  

与某人“约会出去”，则可以指一个特定的日期，例如：“我 星期五 要和

Robert on Friday”; or it can mean that you are  in a relationship with them and they are your  

罗伯特 出去 ”；或者可能意味着您与他们有恋爱关系，而他们是您的

boyfriend or girlfriend. For example: “Esme has  been going out with Peter for almost a year”.
 

男朋友或女友。例如：“埃斯梅和彼得一起出去已经快一年了”

11. To have a crush on. 
To ‘have a crush  on’ someone means to have romantic feelings  

11.迷恋。“迷恋”某人意味着 对他们 有浪漫的感觉

towards them but it's not necessarily requited.
 “You keep talking about  Kate, do you have a crush on her?”
 

，但并不一定会得到回报。“你一直在谈论凯特，对她有迷恋吗？”

12. To hit on. 
To ‘hit on’ someone means to make  a clear sexual advances on them, to flirt with  

12.殴打。“殴打”某人意味着对他们进行明显的性侵犯，以

them in an extreme way. Like ‘come on to’. 
“He  was hitting on her but she wasn’t interested.”
 

一种极端的方式 与 他们 调情 。就像“来吧”。 。”

13. To hook up with. 
The context of this  phrase can change depending on the context.  

13.挂钩。这个短语的上下文 会 根据上下文而变化：

Sometimes, ‘to hook up with’ someone means to  get together for the first time. For example:  

有时，“挂钩”是指某人第一次聚在一起，例如：

“When did you two first hook up?”. Sometimes, it  can refer to sexual activity. “Did you hear that  

“你们两个什么时候第一次挂钩？”有时，它可以指性活动：“你听说

Alice and Mike hooked up after the party?”
 14. To lead on. 
To ‘lead someone on’ means to  

聚会后爱丽丝和迈克迷上了吗？” 14.继续前进。“带领某人前进”意味着

pretend to have a romantic or sexual interest  in them with no intention of acting upon it.  

假装对他们有浪漫或性兴趣，无意对此采取行动。


“She really liked him but  he was leading her on.”
 

“她真的很喜欢他，但他正在带领她前进。”

15. To make out. 
To ‘make out’ with  someone means to kiss them passionately.  

15.表现出来与某人“表现出来”意味着热情地亲吻他们，

This is quite an American phrase but because of  the popularity of lots of films and television shows,  

这在美国是很普遍的意思，但是由于许多电影和电视节目的普及，

the vocabulary has started to be used much more  

该词汇 在英国 已开始被广泛使用。

in the UK too. 
“I saw Eric making  out with Angela last night.”
 

“昨天晚上我看到埃里克和安吉拉在一起。”

16. To ogle. 
To ‘ogle’ someone means  to stare at them in a sexual manner.  

16.盯着对方。“盯着”某人意味着以性的方式盯着他们。

Now this word is often used negatively to describe  someone who is creepy. 
“Did you see David  

现在这个词经常被否定地用来形容一个令人毛骨悚然的

ogling the waitress? I’m gonna kill him.”
 17. To pick up. 
To ‘pick someone up’ means  

人。 ” 17.回暖。要“接人”的手段

to successfully attract them. This is not a  particularly respectful way to speak about  

成功地吸引了他们。这不是一个特别尊重的方式来了解 另一个人 说话

another person, but it’s helpful to know so you  understand if you hear somebody else say it.  

，但它有助于了解，所以你如果你听到别人说明白了


“Yeah Johnny thinks he’s really  good at picking up women.”
 

。“ 是啊约翰尼认为他真的很擅长接女性。”

18. To reject. 
To ‘reject’ someone means to turn  down their romantic or sexual advances. For  

18.要拒绝。以“拒绝”有人手段调低他们的浪漫或性挑逗。

example if someone asks you on a date and you  say no, you would be rejecting them. 
“Yeah, Shelley  

例如 ，如果有人问你约会，你说没有，你会拒绝他们。“是啊，雪莱

asked me on a date but I didn’t want to go so I  rejected her. I hope she’s not too offended.”
 

问我一回，可是我不想走，所以我拒绝了她。希望她不要太冒犯。”

19. To stand up. 
To ‘stand someone up’ means to  arrange to meet them and then not arrive, and  

19.要站起来，为了“站人了”的意思，安排他们见面，然后不到货，并

not tell them. They are just left waiting. It’s  very rude to stand someone up. 
“So I was waiting  

没有告诉他们。他们是刚刚离开的等待。这是非常不礼貌站在别人的。“所以，我 在酒吧 等待

at the bar for half an hour. I started thinking  he had stood me up but he finally showed up.”
 

半个小时。我开始认为他让我站起来了，但他终于出现了。”

20. To turn down. 
To ‘turn someone down’ is to  reject or refuse them. It feels more gentle  

20. 拒绝。“ 拒绝某人”是拒绝或拒绝他们。感觉 比拒绝

than reject.
“I asked him out  last year but he turned me down.”

更柔和 。“我去年要求他离开，但他拒绝了我。”