Jane Walsh: The rise of predatory scams -- and how to prevent them | TED
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When we're seven, getting older
and turning eight sounds great.
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当我们 7 岁时,
成长到 8 岁听起来很好。
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Then once we're in our teens,
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然后一旦我们进入 10 岁左右,
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the very idea of getting older
and being 16 is amazing.
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长大成为 16 岁的想法非常棒。
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But show me one single person
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但你找个在他 50 岁生日时
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who wakes up on their 50th birthday
and says, "Wow, I can't wait till I'm 70."
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醒来说,“喔,我迫不及待进入 70 岁了”
的人给我看看。
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"Getting old is not for sissies."
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“变老不是为了受气的。”
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That's what my 90-year-old
mother-in-law says when she's cross
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这是几年前我的婆婆生气时说的,
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because something, physically or mentally,
just isn't working the way it should,
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因为有些东西,身体的或者精神的,
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and did, years ago.
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不再像以前那样好使了。
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But there are other surprises ahead of us.
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但还有其他意外在前头等着我们。
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There is something else
that goes along with aging,
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这是其他和老龄化相伴的,
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and it's not something
we ever think about.
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这是我们从未想过的。
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One in 10 adults over 60
will be abused during their lifetime.
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每 10 个年龄在 60 以上的人中
就有 1 个会被伤害。
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That is five million people every year.
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相当于每年 500 万人。
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Even worse,
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更糟的是,
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half of those who develop dementia
will experience some kind of abuse.
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一半患上痴呆的人会遭受某种虐待。
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And more often than not,
the abuser will be a family member.
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通常情况下,施暴者是家人。
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We never think
that this is going to happen
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我们从来没有想过这会发生在
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to us or to our loved ones.
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我们或我们所爱的人身上。
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But it's happening, right now,
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但这正在发生,就在当下,
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to our parents, our grandparents
and our neighbors.
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发生在我们的父母,
祖父母或邻居上。
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I first learned elder abuse was a thing
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我第一次知道老年虐待是在
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when my dad fell victim
to a classic elder scam.
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我父亲成为一个典型的
老年骗局受害者时。
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He was retired and he was living alone,
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他退休了并且独立生活,
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and although he was hiding it really well,
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尽管他隐藏着很好,
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he was starting to struggle with tasks
that had once been simple for him.
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他开始为曾经对他来说
简单的任务而挣扎。
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The medical term would probably be
"mild cognitive impairment."
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医疗术语是“轻度认知障碍”。
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Then, one day, I found
a detective's business card
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然后,有天,我在厨房桌子上
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sitting on his kitchen table.
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发现了一张侦探名片。
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He'd been ripped off
by a phony roofing contractor.
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他被一个冒牌的屋顶承包商骗了。
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He'd given this guy
a lot of money up front,
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他预先给了这个人一大笔钱,
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and the guy took his money
and then took off.
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而这个人拿走钱后跑路了。
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Despite my dad's police report,
no one was ever charged or prosecuted.
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尽管我父亲报了案,
但没人被指控或起诉。
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I was a criminal defense attorney
at the time, but even still,
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我当时是一名刑事辩护律师,
但即便如此,
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I was shocked that it had happened.
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我还是被发生的事情震惊了。
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And as his daughter, I was horrified
that I hadn't seen it coming.
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作为他的女儿,我害怕的是
我都没有看到这个的到来。
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Years later, I moved to Colorado,
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几年后,我搬到科罗拉多州,
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and I started working
as a deputy district attorney,
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开始了地方副检察官的工作,
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prosecuting crimes against older adults
and folks with disabilities.
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起诉针对老年人和残疾人的犯罪。
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I soon learned that there were a ton
of these crimes out there,
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我很快意识到有一大堆此类案件,
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but not so many of them
were getting reported.
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但并不是很多案件都有报案。
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The statistics said maybe one in 14.
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统计数据说可能是 1/14。
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And when those crimes did get reported,
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并且当这些犯罪真的被报案时,
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as I'd already seen, very few of them
got charged or prosecuted,
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就如我所看到的,
很少的案件会被指控或起诉,
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and only the tiniest proportion
resulted in a conviction.
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并且只有很少的一部分罪名成立。
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So let's just think
about domestic violence
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让我们考虑下家庭暴力
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and child abuse, for a second.
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和虐待儿童一会。
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Think about all the resources
of public-service campaigns
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相信有如此多社会服务资源
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poured into those issues --
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倾泻到这些问题中——
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and yet, still, those crimes
remain way too high.
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然而,这些犯罪仍然保持高位。
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Efforts to address elder abuse
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解决老年虐待的努力
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are said to be 20 years behind
both of those issues.
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比这些问题要落后 20 年之久。
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But we need to get better,
and we need to get better fast,
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但我们需要做的更好,
我们需要行动更快,
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because this problem is exploding.
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因为这个问题正在爆发。
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Elder abuse is growing,
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老年虐待正在增长,
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but it still remains hidden
because of shame,
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但它仍然被掩盖了,因为羞耻,
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because of embarrassment,
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因为难堪,
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because of affection
between perpetrator and victim.
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因为施暴者和受害者之间的感情。
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And most of all, because everyone
has a deep, instinctive fear
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更重要的,因为每个人对于缺陷有种
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of admitting to impairment.
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深深的、本能的恐惧。
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So we see lots of different
types of elder crime.
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于是我们看到各种各样的老年犯罪。
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We see physical abuse,
we see emotional abuse.
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有身体施虐,有感情虐待。
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Sometimes, we'll see neglect
or sexual abuse.
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有时候,我们会看到忽视或性虐待。
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But every single day,
we see fraud and exploitation.
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但每一天,我们都看到欺诈和剥削。
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Financial crimes against seniors in the US
cost an astonishing amount.
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在美国针对老年人的
经济犯罪金额吓人。
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The estimates put it up
to 36.5 billion dollars every year.
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估计每年高达 365 亿美元。
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We know that seniors get bombarded
by phone scams and internet scams
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我们知道老年人
被电话和互联网诈骗轰炸
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even more than the rest of us.
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远高于我们其他人。
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And this is lazy-boy crime.
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这是懒汉犯罪。
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Why would anyone go out and rob a bank?
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为什么还有人会出去抢银行呢?
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They can sit at home,
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他们能坐在家中,
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they call seniors and they terrify them
that they're about to get arrested
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他们拨打老年人电话,
恐吓要逮捕他们
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or that their grandsons are in jail.
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或者他们的孙子入狱了。
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Then, they pressure them to buy
multiple gift cards and Bitcoin.
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然后,他们压迫他们
购买多张礼品卡和比特币。
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So many seniors have saved for decades,
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很多老年人存了几十年,
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and those nest eggs, or sometimes,
their whole life savings,
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这些储蓄存款,有时候,
他们一生的存款,
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just get wiped out in hours,
or sometimes days.
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在数小时或者数天内就被一扫而光。
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It's low-risk crime,
and it's very lucrative.
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这是低风险的犯罪,
并且非常有利可图。
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But what's the reason
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那么是什么原因
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that seniors are falling
for these scams so often?
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让老年人经常掉入这些欺诈呢?
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And why do criminals target them?
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为什么犯罪分子会瞄准他们呢?
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One possible answer lies
in what happens to our brain as we age.
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一个可能的答案在于随着我们变老,
大脑中发生的事情。
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By the time we're 60,
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但我们 60 岁时,
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neuroscience says
that every single one of us
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神经科学家说我们每个人
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is going to have some kind
of cognitive change or deficit.
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会有某种认知变化或损害。
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Of course, our brains compensate,
and no two individuals are the same.
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当然,我们的大脑进行补偿,
没有两个人的大脑是一样的。
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But as our executive functioning
for complex tasks starts to decline,
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但随着我们对复杂任务的
执行能力开始降低,
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we might find it more difficult
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我们可能会发现很难
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to figure out if someone is trying
to manipulate or exploit us.
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搞清楚某个人是不是
在操纵或剥削我们。
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And at the same time,
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同时,
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we'll very likely have less insight
into the fact that these deficits exist.
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我们可能对这些损伤存在
的事实了解更少。
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And this combination
creates perfect victims.
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这个结合创造了完美的犯罪。
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It also goes to explain
another type of crime
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这也解释了另一种
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that we see seniors falling for,
again and again,
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我们看到老年人
一再陷入的犯罪类型,
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and this is financial exploitation.
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这就是金融剥削。
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In this type of crime,
a third party homes in on the senior.
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在这种类型的犯罪中,
第三方瞄准这些老年人。
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They start to use
persuasion and influence,
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他们施加说服和影响,
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and really almost grooming,
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几乎是诱骗的方式,
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to get them to give them money or assets.
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让老年人给他们钱或资产。
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This can be a new person
in the senior's life,
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他可能是进入老年人生活
的一个新面孔,
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and sometimes, it'll seem
like someone who's really great.
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有时候,这个人看起来还很棒。
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It'll be the new best friend
or the fabulous new caregiver.
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可能是新交的最好朋友
或者神奇的新看护人。
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Maybe a romantic interest,
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可能包含着浪漫的利益,
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or even a financial or legal professional.
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或者甚至是位金融或法律专业人士。
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And what we see is that the bond
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我们看到
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that the perpetrator creates
with the senior is so strong
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犯罪者与老年人建立
的关系是如此强劲,
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that even if they're
cleaned out and penniless,
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以致即便他们一贫如洗和身无分文,
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they're often incurring credit card debt,
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他们也常常背负信用债务,
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and even taking out reverse mortgages
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甚至申请反向抵押贷款,
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so they can give more
to the person scamming them.
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以便能够给欺诈他们的人更多钱。
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But right now, on some level,
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但现在,某种程度上,
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we're still thinking that this is not
something that's going to happen to us.
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我们仍然认为这不会发生在我们身上。
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We couldn't get scammed, not us,
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我们不会被欺诈,我们不会,
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not our smart friends and family.
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也不会是我们那聪明的朋友和家人。
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Are we so sure about that?
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我们如此确信吗?
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Howard and Charlotte
were 89 and 83 when they came forward.
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霍华德和夏洛特站出来的时候
已经 89 和 83 了。
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They'd both had careers
as successful psychotherapists,
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他们都是成功的心理治疗师,
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and they had six college
degrees between them.
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他们有 6 个大学学位。
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Years before, a receptionist
from their eye doctor’s office
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几年前,来自他们
眼科办公室的接待员
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had showed up unexpectedly at their home
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毫无征兆地出现在他们家中
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and asked if she could borrow 300 dollars.
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问能否借她 300 美元。
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She came back again and again,
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她一再回来,
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and often, she brought
her small child with her.
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通常,她带着她的小孩。
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And every time she showed up,
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每次她出现,
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she had something new to tell them
about why she needed money urgently:
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她总有新理由为什么急需用钱:
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eviction costs, a lawsuit,
medical bills or surgery.
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驱逐费、诉讼费、医疗费或手术费。
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She rarely left without a check in hand.
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她很少不带支票就走。
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And after this had gone on for some time,
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在这样一段时间后,
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she had got almost 600,000 dollars
from this couple.
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她从这对夫妇上
获取了将近 60 万美元。
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And all the time, they told no one.
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整个期间,他们没有告诉任何人。
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It wasn't until their accountant
asked them questions
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直到他们的会计师询问
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that they couldn't avoid,
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他们无法回避的问题,
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and then told them this was a crime,
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并且然后告诉他们这是犯罪,
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and that they had to call it in.
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他们必须得报案。
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Even then, they waited
another couple of weeks,
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即便那时,他们也等了几个星期,
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until, mortified,
they finally took his advice.
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直到他们羞愧地接受了他的建议。
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This case is also a great example
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这是个很好的例子,
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of how delays inherent
in the criminal justice system
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说明司法系统固有的拖延
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make achieving justice for seniors
a really difficult task.
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为老年人赢得公正
是多么困难的一件事。
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Howard was already dying of heart failure
at the time that this case was charged.
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当案子被起诉的时候,
霍华德因为心脏衰竭已经岌岌可危。
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His cardiologist said
that he only had a few months to live.
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他的心脏医生说他只能活几个月。
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So trial might be a year or more out.
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所以审判可能需要一年或更长的时间。
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And Howard was an essential witness,
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霍华德是个重要的证人,
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but he wasn't going to be around.
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但他不会出现了。
08:00
We litigated, to take his testimony
ahead of time, by a deposition.
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我们进行了诉讼,提前以取证的方式
取得了他的证词。
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That's something that's really
fairly rare in criminal cases.
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这在刑事案件中是非常罕见的。
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Finally, Howard testified from his home.
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最终,霍华德在家中做了证。
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And he spent the entire next day
in bed, exhausted.
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他第二天整天卧床不起,精疲力尽。
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He passed away only six weeks later.
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他只在六周后就去世了。
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And we were so lucky.
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我们如此幸运。
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If Howard had cognitive issues,
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如果霍华德有认知问题,
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important details
might already have been lost.
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重要的细节可能已经丢失了。
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And this is what happens in these cases.
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这是在这些案件中发生的。
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The clock's running against us,
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我们在与时间赛跑,
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and that clock runs out,
and cases get dismissed.
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时间停止了,案子就丢失了。
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The victims and their voices
simply fade away.
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受害者和他们的声音就消失了。
08:41
Let's talk about
another problem that we face,
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让我们谈下另一个面临的问题,
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which is based on fundamental
legal principle.
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这个问题基于基本的法律原则。
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It's the confrontation clause
of the Constitution.
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这是宪法中的对抗条款。
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This means that when someone
is accused of a crime,
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意思是当某人被指控犯罪时,
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they have the right
to bring in their accuser,
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他们有权利把控告他的人叫来,
08:55
confront them face-to-face in court,
and cross-examine them.
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在法庭上当面对质,质证告发者。
09:00
The person who's accused of abuse
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被起诉虐待的人可以
09:02
can insist on bringing in the senior
to have their lawyer question them.
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坚持叫来老年人
接受他们律师的质问。
09:08
As you can imagine,
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你可以想象,
09:10
this is very tough
in cases with older victims.
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这对老龄受害者中非常难。
09:13
I think of one case I prosecuted,
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我想起我起诉过的一个案子,
09:16
where the elderly woman
sat in her wheelchair
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那个案子老年妇女坐在她的轮椅里
09:19
outside the courtroom for hours,
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在法庭外呆了几个小时,
09:20
waiting to testify.
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等待作证。
09:23
Other cases overran.
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其他案子超时了。
09:25
Eventually, cold and tired
and in pain, she just started crying.
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最终,寒冷、疲劳和疼痛之下,
她开始哭泣了。
09:31
We really need to figure out
better solutions.
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我们真的需要想出好的解决方案。
09:34
Sometimes, we can carve out
small exceptions
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有时候,我们可以根据公共政策
09:36
to the confrontation clause,
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和案件的必要性,
09:38
based on public policy
and the necessities of the case.
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为对抗条款划出一些小小的例外。
09:42
Sometimes, remote testimony
can be a substitute
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有时候,远程作证可以
09:45
for in-person presence,
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作为个人到庭的替代,
09:47
particularly if we build in
due process safeguards,
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特别是如果我们建立正当程序保障,
09:50
like having a person
from each side present,
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比如每一边派一个代表,
09:52
to make sure there isn't any
prompting or interference.
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确保没有任何偏袒和干扰。
09:56
During the pandemic,
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在疫情期间,
09:58
judges have sometimes permitted
remote testimony
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考虑到公共健康危机
10:01
based on the public health crisis
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和会增加老年人风险,
10:03
and the elevated risks
that that presents to seniors.
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法官有时候会允许远程作证。
10:06
There's one other thing
that's really worth mentioning,
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还有另一件值得提的事情,
10:09
which is that in other legal systems,
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那就是在其他法律系统中,
10:11
where confrontation
isn't quite so fundamental,
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当庭对抗不是那么根本,
10:14
they're really headed
in an entirely different direction.
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它们发展的方向完全不同。
10:18
Special measures
to protect vulnerable victims
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保护脆弱的受害者的特殊举措
10:20
are becoming more common,
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变得愈来愈平常,
10:22
and what's driving these changes
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驱动这些改变的是
10:24
is the focus on really getting the best
and most reliable testimony
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专注在确实获得证人
10:29
from the witness,
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完美和可靠的证词,
10:31
which kind of makes sense.
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这多少更说得通。
10:33
Also, in California, initiatives
around specialty courts have been set up
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同样,在加利福尼亚,
已经设立了专门的法庭
10:38
to address some of these specific barriers
to elder justice that we're talking about.
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去解决我们谈到的老年人司法
的一切特殊障碍。
10:43
So we can make this system better.
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所以我们能够让这个系统变得更好。
10:46
We can also take action ourselves
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我们也可以亲自采取行动
10:49
to prevent those we love
being affected by predatory behavior.
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来预防我们所爱的人
被欺诈行为伤害。
10:53
It is time that we had the talk.
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是时候该谈谈这个话题了。
10:57
No, it's not that talk.
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不是,这不是那样的谈话。
10:59
This is the talk that we need
to have with our parents
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这是我们需要和父母
11:02
or other elder adults that we talk to.
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或者其他我要谈话的老年人的谈话。
11:05
And it is every bit as awkward,
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这多少有点尴尬,
11:08
because it goes against the grain
of the relationship.
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因为和我们的关系背道而驰。
11:11
Roles have changed forever,
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角色永远改变了,
11:13
and the person
who used to be our protector
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习惯于成为我们保护者的人
11:15
might now need some protection themselves.
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现在可能也需要保护。
11:17
So before we even start this process,
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所以在我们开始这个流程前,
11:20
we can reach out to family friends,
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我们可以求助于家人朋友,
11:21
because they often have
a great idea of what's going on.
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因为他们对发生了什么很有见地。
11:25
They may be able to tell us
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他们可能能够告诉我们
11:26
if they've seen signs and symptoms
that concern them.
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是否有看到
让他们担心的征兆或迹象。
11:30
Physicians or other
professionals can help too.
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医生和其他专业人士也能提供帮助。
11:34
Then let's talk about tone,
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然后我们来谈谈语气,
11:36
because this is not an easy conversation,
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因为这并非是个容易的谈话,
11:38
and it really needs a careful approach.
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它真的需要细致的方法。
11:41
What we can't do
is go in there ready to judge,
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我们不能做的事情是准备做评判,
11:44
because who wants to be judged,
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因为谁想要被评判,
11:46
who wants to be made to feel less than?
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谁想让自己被感觉无足轻重呢?
11:48
In my cases, I try to get
a photograph of the senior
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在我的案子中,我尝试拿到老年人
11:52
when they were a different age,
in a different context.
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不同年纪的照片,在不同的情景中。
11:55
It helps me see more of that person.
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这帮助我对这个人了解更多。
11:58
We didn't know our parents
when they were our age.
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我们对我们的父母
在我们这个年纪时所知甚少。
12:01
There is a lifetime of history between us,
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在我们之间有一辈子的历史,
12:04
but there are still new ways to connect.
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但仍然有新的方法可以连接。
12:07
And there are so many practical
and unobtrusive fixes
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有很多实用而不起眼的
12:11
that we can put in place.
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解决方法。
12:14
Maybe it's doorbell cameras
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这可以是门铃摄像头
12:15
or text alerts from the bank
that come to our phone,
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或者是来自银行的手机短信警告,
12:19
or maybe we're just going to help out
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或者也许我们只是去帮助
12:21
with that huge mountain of paperwork
that keeps regrowing.
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那些不断增长的
堆积如山的文书工作。
12:24
There is a whole industry out there,
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外面有一整个产业,
12:26
and we need to find
the solutions together.
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我们需要一起找到解决方案。
12:29
Also, this is a process,
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同样,这也是个过程,
12:32
so we need to keep it under review.
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所以我们需要继续审查。
12:35
And if right now,
we're feeling overwhelmed,
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如果现在,我们感到不知所措,
12:38
then nobody said it would be easy,
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那么没人说过这很容易,
12:41
and neither is getting old.
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并且没人不会变老。
12:43
But we can't wait,
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但我们不能等待,
12:45
because if we wait,
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因为如果我们等待,
12:46
we'll find out after
something has happened.
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我们就会事后才发现。
12:49
Like my family did,
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就像我家人那样,
12:50
or like Howard and Charlotte's family did.
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或者像霍华德和夏洛特家那样。
12:54
When I first meet with victims
of elder crime,
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当我第一次见到老年受害者时,
12:56
it can feel really heavy.
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这真让人感觉沉重。
12:58
They've taken a big blow
to their dignity and their self-respect.
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他们的尊严和自尊都受到了重击。
13:02
They tell me that they feel
tired and foolish,
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他们告诉我他感到疲劳和愚蠢,
13:04
and sometimes, they even say
that they feel like they're done.
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有时候,他们甚至说感到自己完了。
13:09
We try not to make this process
any harder for them.
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我们试图不让这个流程变得更难。
13:14
As in, "Wow, you've really been
through a lot ...
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像是,“喔,你真是经历了很多…
13:18
But wait, there's more."
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但等等,还有更多。”
13:21
And we get to share
in their amazing resiliency
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当我们一起在
13:24
and their humor,
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这个混乱的系统中前行时,
13:25
as we navigate our way
through this messy system together.
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我们需要开始分享他们惊人的弹性
和他们的幽默。
13:30
We can improve how the system responds
to their mistreatment.
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我们可以提升整个系统
响应他们的虐待的方法。
13:34
We can ramp up prevention,
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我们可以加强预防,
13:35
we can raise awareness,
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我们可以提升认知,
13:37
and we can do a better job
protecting our own friends and family.
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我们可以做更好的工作
保护我们的朋友和家人。
13:41
And who knows what lies ahead
for our future selves, either?
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谁知道前方等待我们的是啥呢?
13:44
But now that we absolutely know
that elder abuse can happen to anyone,
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但现在我们绝对知道老年虐待
可以发生在每个人身上,
13:49
it's time that we change that,
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我们是时候改变了,
13:51
to make sure that it can't,
and it doesn't.
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去确保它不能和不会发生。
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