3 ways to practice civility | Steven Petrow

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Seungmee Yun ๊ฒ€ํ† : Jihyeon J. Kim
00:12
I want to start by telling you two things about myself
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๋ณธ๊ฒฉ์ ์ธ ์‹œ์ž‘์— ์•ž์„œ์„œ
์ €์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฐ•์—ฐ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:15
before I get into the full talk.
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00:18
And the first is that I've been writing about manners and civility
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ฑ… ์ €์ž๋กœ์„œ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žก์ง€ ์ •๊ธฐ ๊ธฐ๊ณ ์ž๋กœ์„œ
00:21
for more than 20 years,
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20๋…„ ์ด์ƒ
00:22
as a book author and as a magazine columnist.
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์˜ˆ์˜๋ฒ”์ ˆ๊ณผ ์‹œ๋ฏผ์˜์‹์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธ€์„ ์จ ์™”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:25
The second is,
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š”
00:27
my friends know to be very wary of inviting me over for dinner
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์ œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด ์ €๋ฅผ ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•  ๋•Œ ์•„์ฃผ ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด๋ฐ์š”.
00:32
because any faux pas that happens at the table
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์™œ๋ƒ๋ฉด ๋งŒ์ฐฌ ์ค‘์— ์กฐ๊ธˆ์ด๋ผ๋„ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•˜๋ฉด
00:34
is likely to wind up in print.
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ํ™œ์ž๋กœ ์ฐํž ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ๋†’๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:36
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
00:37
So, I'm watching, I can see back there and I can see through the portals, too.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ง€์ผœ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์ €๊ธฐ ๋’ค๋„, ๋ฌธ ๋„ˆ๋จธ๋„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
00:41
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
00:43
So, speaking of dinner parties,
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์ €๋… ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์–˜๊ธด๋ฐ์š”.
00:45
I want to take you back to 2015 and a dinner party that I went to.
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2015์— ๊ฐ”๋˜ ์ €๋… ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:51
To place this in time,
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์–ธ์ œ์ฏค์ด๋ƒ ํ•˜๋ฉด
00:53
this was when Caitlyn Jenner was first coming out,
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์ผ€์ดํ‹€๋ฆฐ ์ œ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ ์„ฑ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์„ ๋ฐํžˆ๊ณ 
00:56
shedding her identity as a Kardashian
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์นด๋‹ค์‹œ์•ˆ์œผ๋กœ์„œ์˜ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์„ ๋ฒ—๊ณ 
00:58
and moving into her life as a transgender activist.
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์„ฑ์ „ํ™˜ ์šด๋™๊ฐ€๋กœ์„œ์˜ ์‚ถ์œผ๋กœ ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ๊ฐ„ ๋•Œ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:02
I wrote a column in People magazine at the time,
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๊ทธ๋•Œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ "ํ”ผํ”Œ"์— ๊ธ€์„ ๊ธฐ๊ณ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
01:04
talking about the importance of names
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์ด๋ฆ„์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ๊ณผ
01:06
and how names are our identity.
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์ด ๋˜๋Š”์ง€ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์˜ค์šฉํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด
01:09
And that to misuse them or not to use them erases us in a certain way.
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์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฉด์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์ด ์ง€์›Œ์ง€๋Š”๊ฐ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธ€์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:13
And especially with Caitlyn Jenner,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํŠนํžˆ ์ผ€์ดํ‹€๋ฆฐ ์ œ๋„ˆ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”
01:15
I talked about Caitlyn, but also the use of her pronouns.
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์–˜๊ธฐ์™€ ๋”๋ถˆ์–ด ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ๋Œ€๋ช…์‚ฌ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋„ ์–˜๊ธฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:19
Her pronouns.
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๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ๋Œ€๋ช…์‚ฌ์š”.
01:20
So I'm at this dinner -- delicious, wonderful, fun --
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๋ง›์žˆ๊ณ , ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜๊ณ , ์žฌ๋ฐŒ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
01:23
when my host goes on a rant about Caitlyn Jenner.
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์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•˜์‹  ๋ถ„์ด ์ผ€์ดํ‹€๋ฆฐ ์ œ๋„ˆ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ณ„์† ์š”๋ž€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ถˆํ‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:28
And she is saying that it is disrespectful for Caitlyn Jenner
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๊ทธ๋ถ„ ๋ง์”€์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ์ผ€์ดํ‹€๋ฆฐ ์ œ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ด๋ฆ„๊ณผ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋Œ€๋ช…์‚ฌ๋ฅผ
01:33
to force her to use a new name and to use these new pronouns.
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์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋„๋ก ๊ฐ•์š”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ž๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์ฒ˜์‚ฌ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
01:39
She's not buying it,
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๊ทธ๋ถ„์€ ์ผ€์ดํ‹€๋ฆฐ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ณ 
01:40
and I'm listening, and because I do meditation,
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์ „ ๊ทธ ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ฐ€, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ช…์ƒ์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
01:43
I took my sacred pause before I responded.
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๋ชฐ๋ž˜ ์ผ์‹œ ์ •์ง€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ ๋‚˜์„œ ์ œ ๋Œ€๋‹ต์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์ฃ .
01:46
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
01:49
And I reminded her that when she got married,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ถ„๊ป˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ
01:52
she changed her name,
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์„ฑ๋ช…์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ณ  ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋ƒ๊ณ  ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ ธ์–ด์š”.
01:54
and that she took the name of her husband.
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01:56
And that's the name all of us now use.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์ง€๊ธˆ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ ์š”.
01:59
We don't use it just because it's her legal name,
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ฒ•์ ์ธ ์„ฑ๋ช…์ด์–ด์„œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
02:01
but we use it because it's respectful.
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์กด์ค‘์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด์–ด์„œ ๊ทธ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ 
02:04
Ditto for Miss Jenner.
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์ œ๋„ˆ ์–‘์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋„ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ ์š”.
02:06
She didn't buy it and we didn't speak for years.
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๊ทธ๋ถ„์€ ์ œ ๋ง์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ˆ˜๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์–ด์š”.
02:08
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
02:10
So ...
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ...
02:13
I am known as the Civilist.
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์ €๋Š” ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌ์ŠคํŠธ(Civilist)๋กœ ์•Œ๋ ค์ ธ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:15
And it's probably a word that you're not that familiar with.
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์•„๋งˆ ์ต์ˆ™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๋‹จ์–ด์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:20
It's not in common parlance
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ํ”ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์“ฐ์ด๋Š” ๋ง์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:21
and it comes from the Latin and the French,
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๋ผํ‹ด์–ด์™€ ํ”„๋ž‘์Šค์–ด์—์„œ ์˜จ ๋ง์ธ๋ฐ
02:24
and it means an individual who tries to live by a moral code,
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๋„๋•์  ๊ทœ๋ฒ”์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์‚ด๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ ํ•œ ์‹œ๋ฏผ์ด ๋˜๊ณ ์ž ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š”
02:28
who is striving to be a good citizen.
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๊ฐœ์ธ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:31
The word "civility" is derived from that,
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Civility(์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ, ๊ณต์†ํ•จ)์ด๋ž€ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ํŒŒ์ƒ๋˜์—ˆ๊ณ 
02:34
and the original definition of civility
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ์›๋ž˜ ์ •์˜๋Š”
02:36
is citizens willing to give of themselves for the good of the city,
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๋„์‹œ์˜ ์ด์ต์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์—ฐ๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ด์ต์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋Œ€์˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด
02:40
for the good of the commonwealth, for the larger good.
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์‹œ๋ฏผ๋“ค์ด ๊ธฐ๊บผ์ด ํ—Œ์‹ ํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ชจ์Šต์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:44
So, in this talk,
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์ด ๊ฐ•์—ฐ์—์„œ
02:45
you're going to learn three new ways to be civil, I hope,
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์‹œ๋ฏผ ์˜์‹์„ ์‹ค์ฒœํ•˜๋Š” ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์…จ์œผ๋ฉด ํ•ด์š”.
02:49
and it will be according to the original definition of civility.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ์›๋ž˜ ์ •์˜์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:54
My first problem is:
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์ œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š”
02:57
civility is an obsolete word.
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ํ์–ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:59
My second problem is:
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์ œ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š”
03:01
civility has become a dirty word in this country.
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์ด ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋”๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:04
And that is whether you lean right or whether you lean left.
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์šฐํŽธํ–ฅ์ด๋ƒ ์ขŒํŽธํ–ฅ์ด๋ƒ์˜ ์–˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋์–ด์š”.
03:08
And in part, that's because modern usage equates civility with decorum,
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๋ถ€๋ถ„์ ์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ํ˜„๋Œ€ ์šฉ๋ฒ• ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ์˜ˆ์˜, ๊ฒฉ์‹์žˆ๋Š” ์˜ˆ์ ˆ,
03:13
with formal politeness, formal behavior.
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๊ฒฉ์‹์„ ๊ฐ–์ถ˜ ํ–‰๋™๊ณผ ๋™์ผํ•œ ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:17
We've gotten away from the idea of citizenship.
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์‹œ๋ฏผ ์˜์‹์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฐœ๋…์—์„œ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ ธ ๋ฒ„๋ ธ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:20
So, let me start by talking a little bit about my friends on the right,
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์šฐํŽธํ–ฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:24
who have conflated civility with what they call political correctness.
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ์ž๊ธฐ๋“ค์ด ์ •์น˜์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ์œตํ•ฉ์‹œ์ผฐ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.
03:28
And to them, callouts for civility
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์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ตฌํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
03:31
are really very much like what George Orwell wrote in "1984" --
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์กฐ์ง€ ์˜ค์›ฐ์ด "1984"์— ์“ด ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:35
he called it "newspeak."
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์กฐ์ง€ ์˜ค์›ฐ์€ "์‹ ์–ธ์–ด"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ €์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:37
And this was an attempt to change the way we talk
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์ด๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ•์ œ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟˆ์œผ๋กœ์จ
03:40
by forcibly changing the language that we use.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋ ค๋Š” ์‹œ๋„์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:43
To change our ideas by changing the meaning of words.
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๋‹จ์–ด์˜ ๋œป์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟˆ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
03:46
And I think my dinner host might have had some of that
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์—๋Š” ์ €๋ฅผ ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ถ„์ด
03:50
rattling around there.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์ข€ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ณ„์…จ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
03:53
And I first personally understood, though,
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๋„๋„๋“œ ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„๊ฐ€ ํ›„๋ณด์ž์˜€๋˜ ๋•Œ์—
03:55
the right's problem with civility
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ธ€์„ ๊ธฐ๊ณ ํ•œ ํ›„์—์•ผ ์šฐํŒŒ ์ชฝ์—์„œ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋ฅผ
03:57
when I wrote a column about then-candidate Donald Trump.
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๋ฌธ์ œ ์‚ผ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ฒ˜์Œ ์ดํ•ดํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:01
And he had just said
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๋„๋„๋“œ ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ๋•Œ ๋ง‰
04:03
he did not have time for total political correctness,
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์ž์‹ ์€ ์™„์ „ํ•œ ์ •์น˜์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์— ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์—†์œผ๋ฉฐ
04:07
and he did not believe the country did either.
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๊ตญ๊ฐ€์ ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€์ผ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:09
And I took that to heart, it was very --
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋ง์„ ๊นŠ์ด ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์˜€๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, ๊ทธ๊ฑด ์ •๋ง
04:14
The audience was very engaged about that online, as you can imagine.
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์ง์ž‘ํ•˜์‹œ๋“ฏ์ด ๊ทธ ๋ง์ด ๋‚˜์˜ค๊ณ ๋‚˜์„œ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์—์„œ ํ™œ๋ฐœํ•œ ๋…ผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
04:17
There was a thousand responses, and this one stood out to me
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์ฒœ ๊ฐ€์ง€์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ด ๋ง์ด ๋ˆˆ์— ๋„์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
04:22
because it was representative:
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ด ๋ง์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ž…์žฅ์„ ๋Œ€๋ณ€ํ•ด ์ฃผ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
04:25
"Political correctness is a pathological system
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"์ •์น˜์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์ด๋ž€ ์ง„๋ณด์ฃผ์˜์ž๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์ž๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
04:28
that lets liberals dominate a conversation,
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๋”ฑ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ถ™์ด๊ณ  ์•…๋งˆ๋กœ ๋ชฐ์•„๋ถ™์—ฌ
04:30
label, demonize and shout down the opposition."
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์ž…์„ ๋‹ซ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์—ฌ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์žฅ์•…ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ณ‘์ ์ธ ์ฒด๊ณ„์ด๋‹ค."
04:35
So I think, to the right, civility translates into censure.
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์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์—” ์šฐํŽธํ–ฅ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ฒ€์—ด๋กœ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
04:41
So that's the right.
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์šฐํŽธํ–ฅ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ์–˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ณ ์š”.
04:43
Now, my friends on the left also have a problem with it.
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์ขŒํŽธํ–ฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๋„ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:47
And for example, there have been those
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ฉด ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„ ๋Œ€ํ†ต๋ น์˜
04:49
who have harassed Trump administration officials
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๊ตญ๊ฒฝ ์žฅ๋ฒฝ์„ ์˜นํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ํŠธ๋Ÿผํ”„ ํ–‰์ • ์‚ฌ๋ฌด ์ง์›๋“ค์„
04:51
who support the President's border wall.
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๊ดด๋กญํžˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:54
They've been called out as rude, they've been called out as nasty,
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๋‹ค, ๋ชป๋๋‹ค,
04:58
they've been called out as worse.
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๋” ์‹ฌํ•œ ๋ง๋“ค๋„ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:59
And after one such incident last year,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ž‘๋…„์— ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์ด ์žˆ์€ ํ›„์—
05:01
even the Washington Post --
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"์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ด ํฌ์ŠคํŠธ" ์กฐ์ฐจ๋„
05:03
you know, left-leaning Washington Post --
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์•„์‹œ์ฃ , ์ขŒํŽธํ–ฅ "์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ด ํฌ์ŠคํŠธ"
05:05
wrote an editorial and sided with decorum.
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์‚ฌ์„ค์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•ด ์˜ˆ์˜์˜ ํŽธ์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:08
And they argued that officials should be allowed to dine in peace.
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๊ทธ ์ง์›๋“ค์ด ํ‰ํ™”๋กญ๊ฒŒ ์‹์‚ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ฃผ์žฅํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
05:13
Hm.
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ํ .
05:15
"You know, the wall is the real incivility here.
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"์ €๊ธฐ์š”, ๊ทธ ์žฅ๋ฒฝ์ด์•ผ๋ง๋กœ ์ง„์งœ ์ธ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ(๋ถˆ์†ํ•จ)๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
05:19
The tear-gassing of kids, the separation of families."
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์•„์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ตœ๋ฃจ ๊ฐ€์Šค๋ฅผ ์˜๊ณ  ์ด์‚ฐ ๊ฐ€์กฑ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ๋ง์ด์ฃ ."
05:22
That's what the protestors say.
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๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์ž๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ์–˜๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:25
And imagine if we had sided, in this country,
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์ด ๋‚˜๋ผ์—์„œ ์—ญ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ‹€์–ด์„œ ์ญˆ์šฑ
05:27
with decorum and courtesy throughout our history.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์˜ˆ์˜์˜ ํŽธ์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋• ์„์ง€ ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
05:31
You know, I think about the suffragettes.
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์—ฌ์„ฑ์ฐธ์ •๊ถŒ๋ก ์ž์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:34
They marched, they picketed.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ–‰์ง„์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ํŒป๋ง์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
They were chastised, they were arrested
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1920๋…„๋Œ€์— ์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ํˆฌํ‘œ๊ถŒ์„ ์ถ”๊ตฌํ–ˆ๊ธฐ์—
05:39
for pursuing the vote for women in the 1920s.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋ฒŒ ๋ฐ›์•˜๊ณ  ์ฒดํฌ๋‹นํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:42
You know, I also think about the Reverend Martin Luther King Jr.,
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๋งˆํ‹ด ๋ฃจํ„ฐ ํ‚น ์ฃผ๋‹ˆ์–ด ๋ชฉ์‚ฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:46
the father of American nonviolent civil disobedience.
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋น„ํญ๋ ฅ ์‹œ๋ฏผ ๋ถˆ๋ณต์ข… ์šด๋™์˜ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์ฃ .
05:49
He was labeled as uncivil in his attempt to promote racial and economic justice.
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์ธ์ข… ๋ฐ ๊ฒฝ์ œ์  ์ •์˜๋ฅผ ์ฆ์ง„์‹œํ‚ค๋ ค ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ์— ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋”ฑ์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋ถ™์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:56
So I think you get a sense
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์™œ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋๋Š”์ง€,
05:58
of why civility has become a problem, a dirty word, here.
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๋”๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋๋Š”์ง€ ๊ฐ์„ ์žก์œผ์…จ์„ ๊ฒƒ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:03
Now, does this mean we can't disagree, that we can't speak our minds?
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๋‚จ๊ณผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ณ  ๋‚ด ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ผ๊นŒ์š”?
06:08
Absolutely not.
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์ „ํ˜€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:10
I recently spoke with Dr. Carolyn Lukensmeyer.
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์ตœ๊ทผ์— ์บ๋กค๋ฆฐ ๋ฃจํฐ์Šค๋ฏธ์–ด ๋ฐ•์‚ฌ์™€ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆด์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:13
She's kind of the guru of civility in this country,
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์ด ๋‚˜๋ผ์˜ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ ๊ถŒ์œ„์ž๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ถ„์ธ๋ฐ์š”.
06:16
and the executive director of a body
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๊ตญ๋ฆฝ์‹œ๋ฏผ๋‹ด๋ก ์› ์ƒ์ž„์ด์‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:18
called the National Institute for Civil Discourse.
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06:20
And she told me,
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๊ทธ ๋ถ„์ด ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:21
"Civility does not mean appeasement or avoiding important differences.
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"์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์„ ๋‹ฌ๋ž˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ฐจ์ด์ ์„ ํšŒํ”ผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:26
It means listening and talking about those differences with respect."
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ฐจ์ด์ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
06:32
In a healthy democracy, we need to do that.
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๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๋ฏผ์ฃผ์ฃผ์˜ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:35
And I call that respectful engagement.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์กด์ค‘์— ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ํ•œ ๊ต๋ฅ˜๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:39
But civil discourse also needs rules, it needs boundaries.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹œ๋ฏผ ๋‹ด๋ก ์—๋Š” ๊ทœ์น™, ํ•œ๊ณ„๋„ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:43
For instance, there's a difference
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ฉด,
๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ชจ์š•์ ์ธ ์–ธ์–ด์™€
06:46
between language that is simply rude or demeaning,
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06:49
and speech that invokes hatred and intolerance.
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์ฆ์˜ค ๋ฐ ๋ถˆ๊ด€์šฉ์„ ์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐœ์–ธ์—๋Š” ์ฐจ์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:53
And specifically of groups.
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ํŠนํžˆ ํŠน์ • ์ง‘๋‹จ์„ ๋Œ€์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:55
And I'm thinking of racial and ethnic groups,
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์ €๋Š” ์ธ์ข…, ๋ฏผ์กฑ์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:57
I'm thinking of the LGBTQ community,
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์„ฑ์†Œ์ˆ˜์ž ์ง‘๋‹จ์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ 
06:59
I'm thinking of the disabled.
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์žฅ์• ์ธ๋“ค์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:02
We snowflakes call this speech "hate speech."
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์„ฌ์„ธํ•œ ์ขŒํŒŒ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋ฅผ "ํ˜์˜ค ๋ฐœ์–ธ."์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:06
And hate speech can lead to violence.
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ํ˜์˜ค ๋ฐœ์–ธ์€ ํญ๋ ฅ์œผ๋กœ ์ด์–ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:11
So, to that point, in the fall of 2018,
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์š”์ ์„ ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, 2018๋…„ ๊ฐ€์„์—
07:14
I wrote a column about Dr. Christine Blasey Ford.
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์ €๋Š” ํฌ๋ฆฌ์Šคํ‹ด ๋ธ”๋ž˜์‹œ ํฌ๋“œ ๋ฐ•์‚ฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธ€์„ ๊ธฐ๊ณ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:18
You may remember her,
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์ด๋ถ„์ด ๊ธฐ์–ต๋‚˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.
07:19
she was one of the women who accused Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh
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๋Œ€๋ฒ•๊ด€ ํ›„๋ณด์ž ๋ธŒ๋ › ์บ๋ฒ„๋…ธ๊ฐ€ ์„ฑํญํ–‰์„ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ฃผ์žฅํ•œ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•œ ๋ช…์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:24
of sexual assault.
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07:25
And among the responses,
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๊ธ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฐ˜์‘์˜ ์ผํ™˜์œผ๋กœ
07:27
I received this message, a personal message,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ด ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.
07:30
which you can see here on the slide.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์Šฌ๋ผ์ด๋“œ์—์„œ ๋ณด์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:33
It's been largely redacted.
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๋งŽ์€ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ด ์‚ญ์ œ๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:35
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
07:36
This message was 50 words long. 10 of them were the f-bomb.
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๋ฌธ์ž๋Š” 50๋‹จ์–ด ๊ธธ์ด์˜€๋Š”๋ฐ 10๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์”น- ์–ด์ฉŒ๊ตฌ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด์˜€์–ด์š”.
07:40
And the Democrats were called out, President Obama was called out,
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๋ฏผ์ฃผ๋‹น์„ ๋น„๋‚œํ•˜๊ณ  ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜ค๋ฐ”๋งˆ ๋Œ€ํ†ต๋ น์„ ๋น„๋‚œํ•˜๊ณ 
07:44
and I was referred to in a pretty darn vulgar and coarse way.
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์ €์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๊ฝค ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ €์†ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ฒœ๋ฐ•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
07:51
There was an explicit threat in that message,
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๋ฌธ์ž์—๋Š” ๋…ธ๊ณจ์ ์ธ ์œ„ํ˜‘์ด ํฌํ•จ๋˜์–ด์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
07:53
and that is why my editors at The Post sent it to authorities.
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"์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ด ํฌ์ŠคํŠธ"์˜ ํŽธ์ง‘์ž๋“ค์ด ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๊ด€๋ จ ์ •๋ถ€ ๊ธฐ๊ด€์— ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:58
This came shortly before the pipe bombs were sent to other media outlets,
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์–ผ๋งˆ ์ง€๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„ ํŒŒ์ดํ”„ ํญํƒ„์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์–ธ๋ก  ๋‹จ์ฒด์— ๋ฐฐ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์„œ
08:01
so everybody was really kind of on guard there.
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๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ๊ฒฝ๊ณ„๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
08:06
And the larger context was, only a few months before,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋” ํฐ ๋ฌธ๋งฅ์—์„œ ๋ณด์ž๋ฉด ๊ฒจ์šฐ ์ˆ˜ ๊ฐœ์›” ์ „์—
08:09
five staffers had been killed at a Maryland newspaper.
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๋ฉ”๋ฆด๋žœ๋“œ ์‹ ๋ฌธ์‚ฌ์—์„œ ์ง์›๋“ค ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๋ช…์ด ์‚ดํ•ด ๋‹นํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:11
They had been shot dead by a reader with a grudge.
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์•™์‹ฌ์„ ํ’ˆ์€ ๋…์ž์— ์˜ํ•ด ์ด์‚ด๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:16
"Shut up or else."
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"์ž… ๋‹ค๋ฌผ์–ด, ์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด."
08:20
And it was around that same time
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ์™€ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์‹œ๊ธฐ์—
08:23
that a different reader of mine started stalking me online.
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์ œ ๊ธ€์˜ ๋…์ž ์ค‘ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ €๋ฅผ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ์ƒ์—์„œ ์Šคํ† ํ‚นํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:26
And at first, it was ...
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์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š”, ๋ญ๋ž„๊นŒ...
08:28
I'll call it light and fluffy.
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๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ• ๊นŒ์š”.
08:30
It was around this time last year
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์ž‘๋…„ ์ด๋ง˜๋•Œ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:31
and I still had my Christmas decorations up
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ํฌ๋ฆฌ์Šค๋งˆ์Šค ์žฅ์‹์„ ์•„์ง ๋‹ฌ์•„๋‘๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
08:33
and he sent me a message saying,
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ €ํ•œํ…Œ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์–ด์š”.
08:35
"You should take your Christmas decorations down."
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"ํฌ๋ฆฌ์Šค๋งˆ์Šค ์žฅ์‹ ๋‚ด๋ ค์•ผ ํ• ํ…๋ฐ."
08:38
And then he noticed that my dog was off leash one day,
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์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€๋Š” ์ œ ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ๋ชฉ์ค„์—์„œ ํ’€๋ ค์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
08:41
and then he commented that I had gone to the market.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ์žฅ์— ๊ฐ”๋‹ค๋Š” ์–ธ๊ธ‰์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:45
And then he wrote me one that said,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:48
"If anyone were to shoot and kill you,
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"๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ด์„œ ์ฃฝ์—ฌ๋„
08:50
it would not be a loss at all."
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์•„์‰ฌ์šธ ๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ˜€ ์—†์„๊ฑฐ์•ผ."
08:54
I wish that were the end of the story.
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์ด๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์˜ ๋์ด๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:56
Because then, a few months later, he came to my door, my front door,
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋•Œ, ๋ช‡ ๋‹ฌ ํ›„์— ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ œ ๋ฌธ, ์ •๋ฌธ ์•ž์— ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ฌ๋Š”๋ฐ
08:59
in a rage and tried to break the door down.
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์•„์ฃผ ํ™”๊ฐ€๋‚˜์„œ๋Š” ๋ฌธ์„ ๋ถ€์ˆ˜๊ณ  ๋“ค์–ด์˜ค๋ ค๊ณ ํ–ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
09:02
I now own mace, a security system
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์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์ฒ ํ‡ด, ๋ณด์•ˆ ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ
09:05
and a Louisville Slugger baseball bat.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฃจ์ด์Šค๋นŒ ์Šฌ๋Ÿฌ๊ฑฐ ์•ผ๊ตฌ๋ฐฉ๋ง์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:08
(Sighs)
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(ํ•œ์ˆจ)
09:10
"Shut up or else."
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"์ž… ๋‹ค๋ฌผ์–ด, ์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด."
09:12
So, what's to be done
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ์ถ”ํ•ด์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
09:14
to forestall civility from turning ugly, from turning violent?
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ํญ๋ ฅ ์‚ฌํƒœ๋กœ ๋ฒˆ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐฉ์ง€ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
09:17
My first rule is to deescalate language.
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ทœ์น™์€ ์–ธ์–ด ์ˆ˜์œ„๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:20
And I've stopped using trigger words in print.
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์›๊ณ ์ƒ ์ž๊ทน์  ๋‹จ์–ด ์‚ฌ์šฉ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ท„์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:24
And by trigger words, I mean "homophobe," I mean "racist,"
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์ž๊ทน์  ๋‹จ์–ด๋ผํ•˜๋ฉด "๋™์„ฑ์• ํ˜์˜ค์ž", "์ธ์ข…์ฐจ๋ณ„์ฃผ์˜์ž"
09:27
I mean "xenophobe," I mean "sexist."
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"์™ธ๊ตญ์ธํ˜์˜ค์ž", "์„ฑ์ฐจ๋ณ„์ฃผ์˜์ž"๊ฐ™์€ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:30
All of those words.
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฅ˜์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹จ์–ด์š”.
09:32
They set people off.
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋‹จ์–ด๋“ค์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์ž๊ทนํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:34
They're incendiary
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ์„ ๋™ํ•˜๊ณ 
09:35
and they do not allow us to find common ground.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๊ณตํ†ต์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์„ ์ฐพ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:38
They do not allow us to find a common heart.
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๊ณต๊ฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์„ ์ฐพ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:41
And so to this point, when John McCain died in 2018,
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๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋กœ, 2018๋…„์— ์กด ๋งค์ผ€์ธ์ด ์‚ฌ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
09:47
his supporters noted that he never made personal attacks.
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๊ทธ์˜ ์ง€์ง€์ž๋“ค์€ ์กด์€ ์ธ์‹  ๊ณต๊ฒฉ์„ ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:51
But his opponents agreed as well,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์กด ๋งค์ผ€์ธ์˜ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์ž๋“ค๋„ ๋™์˜ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
09:53
and I though that was what was really noteworthy.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ์ฃผ๋ชฉํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ๋งค์šฐ ๋†’๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:55
He challenged people's policies, he challenged their positions,
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์ •์ฑ…๊ณผ ์ž…์žฅ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์˜๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ธฐํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
09:58
but he never made it personal.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ž์ฒด๋ฅผ ๊ณต๊ฒฉํ•œ ์ ์€ ์—†์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:00
And so that's the second rule.
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์ด๊ฒŒ ์ €์˜ ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ทœ์น™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:03
So the problem of civility is not only an American one.
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์ด ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—๋งŒ ๊ตญํ•œ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:07
In the Netherlands, there are calls for a civility offensive right now,
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์ง€๊ธˆ ๋„ค๋œ๋ž€๋“œ์—์„œ๋Š” ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ ๊ณต๊ฒฉ๊ถŒ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.
10:11
and as one Dutch philosopher has put it,
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๋„ค๋œ๋ž€๋“œ ์ฒ ํ•™์ž ์ค‘ ํ•œ๋ช…์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:13
the country has fallen under a spell of "verhuftering."
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์ด ๋‚˜๋ผ๋Š” "๋ฒ„ํํ”„ํ„ฐ๋ง"์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์— ํ•จ๋ฝ๋๋‹ค.
10:17
Now, this is not a word that I knew before and I did quite a bit of research.
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์ด ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ๋ชฐ๋ž๋˜ ๋‹จ์–ด์ธ๋ฐ์š”. ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์กฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ข€ ๋งŽ์ด ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:21
It loosely means bullying and the disappearance of good manners.
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๋Œ€์ถฉ ๊ดด๋กญํž˜์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฒ”์ ˆ์˜ ์†Œ์‹ค์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:26
It actually means much worse than that, but that's what I'm saying here.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ๋” ์‹ฌํ•œ ๋œป์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:31
When you have a specific word, though, to describe a problem like that,
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ฌ˜์‚ฌํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด
10:34
you know you really have a problem.
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๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด๊ฒ ์ฃ .
10:38
And in the United Kingdom, the [2016] Brexit vote ...
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์˜๊ตญ์—์„œ [2016] ์œ ๋Ÿฝ ์—ฐํ•ฉ ํƒˆํ‡ด ์ฐฌ๋ฐ˜ ํˆฌํ‘œ ๋•Œ...
10:42
you know, has divided a nation even more so.
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์•„์‹œ์ฃ , ๊ทธ ๋•Œ ์˜๊ตญ์ด ๋” ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ถ„์—ด๋์—ˆ์ฃ .
10:47
And one critic of the breakup called those who favor it --
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์œ ๋Ÿฝ์—ฐํ•ฉ ํƒˆํ‡ด ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์ž ์ค‘ ํ•œ๋ช…์ด ํƒˆํ‡ด ์ฐฌ์„ฑ์ž๋“ค์„ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์นญํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:51
I just love this phrase --
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์ •๋ง ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ธ๋ฐ์š”.
10:53
"the frightened parochial lizard brain of Britain."
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"๊ฒ์— ์งˆ๋ฆฐ ํŽธํ˜‘ํ•œ ๋„๋งˆ๋ฑ€ ๋‡Œ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์˜๊ตญ์ธ"
10:56
The frightened parochial lizard brain of Britain.
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๊ฒ์— ์งˆ๋ฆฐ ํŽธํ˜‘ํ•œ ๋„๋งˆ๋ฑ€ ๋‡Œ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์˜๊ตญ์ธ
10:59
That's personal.
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์ด๊ฑด ์ธ์‹  ๊ณต๊ฒฉ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:01
And it makes me miss "Downton Abbey"
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋“ค์œผ๋ฉด "๋‹ค์šดํŠผ ์• ๋น„"๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ์›Œ์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:04
and its patina of civility.
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š” ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ๊ณ ์ƒ‰ ์ฐฝ์—ฐํ•จ์ด ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ์›Œ์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:08
But therein lies the third rule:
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค:
11:11
don't mistake decorum for civility.
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์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์™€ ์ฐฉ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง ๊ฒƒ.
11:14
Even if you have a dowager countess as fabulous as Dame Maggie Smith.
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๋ฐ์ž„ ๋งค๊ธฐ ์Šค๋ฏธ์Šค๋งŒํผ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๋ฏธ๋ง์ธ ๋ฐฑ์ž‘๋ถ€์ธ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ด๋„ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
11:18
(Laughter)
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11:19
[Don't be defeatist. It's so middle class.]
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[ํŒจ๋ฐฐ์ฃผ์˜์ž๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ง€ ๋งˆ. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ค‘์‚ฐ์ธต์Šค๋Ÿฝ์ž–์•„.]
11:20
So let me end with one last story.
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋งŒ ๋” ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:23
Not that long ago, I was at a bakery, and they make these amazing scones.
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์–ผ๋งˆ ์ „์—, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋นต์ง‘์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ์•„์ฃผ ๋ง›์žˆ๋Š” ์Šค์ฝ˜์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
11:27
So, long line -- there are a lot of scones.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ. ์ค„์ด ๊ธธ๊ฒŒ ์„œ์žˆ๊ณ  ์Šค์ฝ˜์ด ์•„์ฃผ ๋งŽ์•„์š”.
11:29
And one by one, the scones were disappearing
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋‚˜์”ฉ ํ•˜๋‚˜์”ฉ ์Šค์ฝ˜์ด ์—†์–ด์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
11:31
until there was one woman in between me and that last scone.
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๊ฒฐ๊ตญ์€ ๊ทธ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์Šค์ฝ˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ € ์‚ฌ์ด์— ์—ฌ์„ฑ ํ•œ ๋ถ„์ด ๋‚จ์•„์žˆ์—ˆ์ฃ .
11:34
(Laughter)
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11:36
Praise the Lord, she said, "I'll have a croissant."
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์ •๋ง ๋‹คํ–‰์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ๋„, ์—ฌ์ž ๋ถ„์ด ์ด๋Ÿฌ์‹œ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. "ํฌ๋ฃจ์•„์ƒ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”."
11:39
(Laughter)
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11:40
So when it became my turn, I said, "I'll take that scone."
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ ์ฐจ๋ก€๊ฐ€ ๋๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ์ฃ . "์ € ์Šค์ฝ˜ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”"
11:44
The guy behind me --
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๊ทธ๋žฌ๋”๋‹ˆ ์ œ ๋’ค์— ์žˆ๋˜ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€
11:46
I'd never turned around, never seen him --
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์ „ ๋’ค๋Œ์•„ ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”. ๊ทธ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชฐ๋ž์–ด์š”
11:48
he shouted, "That's my scone!
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์น˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. "๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ๋‚ด ์Šค์ฝ˜์ธ๋ฐ์š”!!
11:51
I've been waiting in line 20 minutes."
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20๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์„œ์„œ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ ธ๋‹จ ๋ง์ด์—์š”."
11:53
And I was like, "Who are you?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ๋ง‰, "๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์‹ ๋ฐ์š”?
11:55
I've been waiting in line 20 minutes, and you're behind me."
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์ €๋„ 20๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์ค„์„œ์„œ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ ธ๊ณ ์š”, ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜์€ ์ œ ๋’ค์ž–์•„์š”."
11:58
So, I grew up here in New York,
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์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋‰ด์š•์—์„œ ์ž๋ž๊ณ 
12:01
and went to high school not that far from here.
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๊ณ ๋“ฑํ•™๊ต๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ฉ€์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ณณ์œผ๋กœ ๋‹ค๋…”์–ด์š”.
12:03
And I may seem, you know, very civil here and so on,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋ณด์‹œ๊ธฐ์—” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„์ฃผ ์ •์ค‘ํ•ด๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ
12:07
but I can hip check anybody for a taxicab in this room, on these streets.
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์ด ๊ฐ•์—ฐ์žฅ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ผ๋„ ๊ธธ์—์„œ ๋ฐ€์ณ๋‚ด๊ณ  ํƒ์‹œ๋ฅผ ์ฑ„ ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
12:12
So I was surprised when I said to this guy ...
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์— ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ๋‚จ์ž์—๊ฒŒ ํ•œ ๋ง์— ์ €๋„ ๋†€๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:16
"Would you like half?"
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"๋ฐ˜ ๋‚˜๋ˆ  ๋“œ๋ ค์š”?"
12:18
"Would you like half?"
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"๋ฐ˜ ๋‚˜๋ˆ  ๋“œ๋ ค์š”?"
12:19
I didn't think about it, it just came out.
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์ƒ๊ฐ๋„ ์•ˆ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ง์ด ๋‚˜์™”์–ด์š”.
12:22
And then, he was very puzzled, and I could see his face change
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๊ทธ ๋ถ„์€ ์•„์ฃผ ์–ด๋ฆฌ๋‘ฅ์ ˆํ•ด ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ํ‘œ์ •์ด ๋ฐ”๋€Œ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:25
and he said to me,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ €ํ•œํ…Œ ๋งํ–ˆ์ฃ .
12:26
"Well, how about if I buy another pastry and we'll share both of them?"
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"์Œ, ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํŒจ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆฌ ๋นต์„ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์„œ ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ๋‚˜๋ˆ ๋จน๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋•Œ์š”?"
12:30
And he did, and we did.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋ถ„์ด ๋นต์„ ์‚ฌ๊ณ  ๊ฐ™์ด ๋‚˜๋ˆ  ๋จน์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:33
And we sat and talked.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์•‰์•„์„œ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:35
We had nothing in common.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ์ด์—” ๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ์ „ํ˜€ ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
12:37
(Laughter)
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12:38
We had nothing in common: nationality, sexual orientation, occupation.
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๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ด ์ „ํ˜€ ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ๊ตญ์ , ์„ฑ์  ์ง€ํ–ฅ์„ฑ, ์ง์—….
12:43
But through this moment of kindness, through this moment of connection,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ์นœ์ ˆ์˜ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„, ์ด ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์˜ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์„ ํ†ตํ•ด์„œ
12:47
we developed a friendship, we have stayed in touch.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์† ์—ฐ๋ฝ์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋ฐ›์•˜์–ด์š”
12:50
(Laughter)
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12:51
Although he was appalled to learn that I'm called the Civilist after that.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌ์ŠคํŠธ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•ˆ ๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š” ์ข€ ๋”์ฐํ•ดํ•˜๊ธด ํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ์š”.
12:54
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
12:56
But I call this the joy of civility.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €๋Š” ์ด๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ์จ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:59
The joy of civility.
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ์จ.
13:00
And it led me to wonder,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•œ ๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฒผ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:01
what is the good we forgo, not just the trouble we avoid,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ๋ฏผ ์˜์‹์„ ์‹ค์ฒœํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋•Œ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ณจ์นซ๋ฉ์ด๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
13:05
when we choose to be uncivil.
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๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ๋†“์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹Œ๊ฐ€ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:07
And by good, I mean friendship, I mean connection.
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์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค, ์šฐ์ • ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์ด์š”.
13:11
I mean sharing 1000 calories.
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์ฒœ ์นผ๋กœ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ  ๋จน๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:14
But I also mean it in a larger way.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋” ํฐ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
13:16
You know, as communities and as a country and as a world.
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๊ณต๋™์ฒด, ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„๋กœ์„œ์š”.
13:20
What are we missing out on?
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋†“์น˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ญ˜๊นŒ์š”?
13:22
So, today, we are engaged in a great civil war of ideas and identity.
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ฌ์ƒ๊ณผ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์˜ ๋Œ€์ „์— ์ฐธ์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:27
And we have no rules for them.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๋Ÿฐ ๊ทœ์น™์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:30
You know, there are rules for war.
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์•„์‹œ์ฃ , ์ „์Ÿ์—๋Š” ๊ทœ์น™์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:33
Think about the Geneva Conventions.
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์ œ๋„ค๋ฐ” ํ˜‘์•ฝ์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
13:35
They ensure that every soldier is treated humanely,
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ตฐ์ธ๋“ค์ด ์ „์žฅ ์•ˆํŒŽ์—์„œ
13:37
on and off the battlefield.
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์ธ๋„์  ๋Œ€์šฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋Š” ํ˜‘์•ฝ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:41
So, frankly, I think we need a Geneva Convention of civility,
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์†”์งํžˆ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์— ์ œ๋„ค๋ฐ” ํ˜‘์•ฝ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ
13:44
to set the rules for discourse for the parameters of that.
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๋‹ดํ™”์˜ ์„ ์„ ์ •ํ•ด ์ค„ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์š”.
13:47
To help us become better citizens of our communities and of our countries.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ณต๋™์ฒด ๋ฐ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ ๋” ๋‚˜์€ ์‹œ๋ฏผ์ด ๋˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:53
And if I have anything to say about it,
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์ถ”๊ฐ€๋กœ ๋” ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋ง์€
13:55
I would base those rules on the original definition of civility,
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์ด ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๋ผํ‹ด์–ด ๋ฐ ํ”„๋ž‘์Šค์—์„œ ์˜จ
13:59
from the Latin and from the French.
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์˜ ์›๋ž˜ ์ •์˜์— ๊ทผ๊ฑฐํ•ด์„œ ์ •ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:01
Civility:
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ.
14:03
citizens willing to give of themselves for the greater good.
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์‹œ๋ฏผ๋“ค์ด ๋Œ€์˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ธฐ๊บผ์ด ํ—Œ์‹ ํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ•จ.
14:07
For the good of the city.
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๋„์‹œ์˜ ์„ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ์š”.
14:09
So I think civility, with that understanding, is not a dirty word.
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ดํ•ดํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ๋Š” ๋”๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:13
And I hope the civilist will not become, or will not stay, obsolete.
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์‹œ๋นŒ๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ์ŠคํŠธ๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์ด ์‚ฌ๋ผ์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์˜›๋ง์ด ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:19
Thank you.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:20
(Applause)
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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