The 5 Tenets of Turning Pain Into Power | Christine Schuler Deschryver | TED

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翻译人员: Fangxi Qin 校对人员: Yanyan Hong
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The history of the country I come from,
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我来自的国家,
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the Democratic Republic of Congo,
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刚果民主共和国,
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has been one of colonizing, disempowering,
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有殖民、剥夺权力、
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extracting resources
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榨取资源、
00:14
and removing the people's agency
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以及剥夺人民对自己的身体、
00:17
over their bodies, their land, their hearts, their destinies.
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土地、心灵和命运的控制权的历史。
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The reason for this unrelenting violence
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这种无休止的暴力,
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is an ongoing proxy war for the country's vast mineral resources,
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是因为对刚果庞大矿产资源的持续代理战,
00:30
which are essential to the production of your computers, phones and electronics.
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这些资源对计算机、手机 和电子产品的生产至关重要。
00:37
In Congo, rape is a weapon of war
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在刚果,强奸是一种战争武器,
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used by militias to rip apart our communities,
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民兵使用强奸来分裂我们的社区。
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resulting in catastrophic sexual violence,
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导致了灾难性的性暴力、
00:48
political upheaval, displacement and disease.
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政治动荡、流离失所和疾病。
00:53
But the Democratic Republic of Congo is also a place of extreme beauty,
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但是,刚果民主共和国 也是一个极其美丽的地方,
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lush greenery and lakes and forests,
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拥有郁郁葱葱的绿色植物、湖泊和森林,
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where anything can grow if you plant it.
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任何种下的东西,都可以生长出来。
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Our people are beautiful, fierce, generous.
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我们的人民美丽、强大,而且慷慨。
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And our women are formidable, creative.
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我们的女性令人敬仰,富有创造力。
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When they dance, they change the world.
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她们的舞蹈,可以改变世界。
01:16
After my best friend was murdered in 1998,
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在我最好的朋友在 1998 年被谋杀后,
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I devoted my life to the women of Congo
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我把我的一生奉献给了刚果妇女,
01:23
and to ending the sexual terrorism that plagues our country.
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致力于终结扰乱我们国家的性恐怖主义。
01:29
City of Joy, located in Bukavu, in eastern DRC,
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欢乐之城, 位于刚果民主共和国东部的布卡武。
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is a transformational leadership community
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是一个变革型领导社区,
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for women survivors of gender violence
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面向性别暴力的女性幸存者。
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that serves 90 women ages 18 to 30
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这里为 90 名在 18 至 30 岁之间的女性,
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at a time for six months.
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提供为期六个月的服务。
01:46
Women are selected based on their leadership potential
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将伤痛转化为力量,
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by our graduates who are spread across the country,
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我们分布在全国各地的毕业生
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turning pain to power.
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根据领导潜力选择了这些女性。
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City of Joy returns women to their bodies, educates them about their rights
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欢乐之城让女性重返自己的身体, 教育她们了解自己的权利,
02:01
and develops them as leaders who will one day take back their country.
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并培养她们, 成为有朝一日将夺回祖国的领导者。
02:06
City of Joy is a physical place,
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欢乐之城是一个实体场所,
02:08
but it is also a desire, a vision, a metaphor for turning pain into power.
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但它也是一种欲望、愿景, 和将痛苦转化为力量的隐喻。
02:14
And by power we mean care, compassion, community.
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我们所说的权力, 是指关怀、同情心,和社区。
02:19
We opened a sanctuary for healing
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我们在世界上最贫困、最不可能的地方,
02:22
and a revolutionary center
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开设了一个疗愈避难所,
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in the most impoverished, impossible place in the world,
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和一个革命中心。
02:28
and we were able to succeed at our mission.
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我们成功地完成了我们的使命。
02:31
This may look like a miracle,
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这可能看起来像一个奇迹,
02:33
but it is based on a set of hard-earned guiding principles.
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但它建立在一套来之不易的指导原则上。
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I share them with you in the hope that they may inspire you.
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希望分享它们后, 你们也能有所收获。
02:42
[They] are:
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(这些原则)是:
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rebirth is possible.
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重生是可能的。
02:46
Firstly, we believe that there is no woman,
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首先我们认为,所有的女性,
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no matter how hurt or violated, broken or lost,
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无论受到多重的伤害或侵犯, 无论多么破碎或迷茫,
02:54
who cannot be restored.
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都是可以康复的。
02:56
This, like all the tenets, is a living principle,
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与所有教义一样, 这是一项活生生的原则,
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repeated often at City of Joy.
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我们在欢乐之城经常重复强调。
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We learn from experience
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我们从经验中学到,
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that women who have survived the most violence
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在最严重的暴力中幸存下来的女性,
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can, with support and training, become the most visionary leaders.
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在支持和训练下, 可以成为最有远见的领导者。
03:12
Most women who come to City of Joy have been marginalized
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大多数来到欢乐之城的女性,
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due to the stigma surrounding rape.
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都是因为强奸带来的耻辱而被边缘化的。
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Jane Mukunilwa was one of those women, born in the village of Lulingu,
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简·穆库尼尔瓦(Jane Mukunilwa) 就是其中一位。她出生在卢林古村,
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one of the worst places for women.
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一个对女性最糟糕的地方。
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In 2005, after being physically and psychologically destroyed
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2005 年,因为遭受了轮奸,
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through gang rape,
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导致身心受创后,
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Jane underwent nine surgeries to repair the damage that was done to her body.
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简接受了九次手术, 以修复对身体造成的损伤。
03:42
During a long hospital stay,
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在长期住院期间,
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Jane committed herself to helping other women
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简投身于帮助其他妇女,
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who had undergone similar atrocities,
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帮助那些遭受过类似暴行的人,
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and she imagined creating a shelter of sorts for them.
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她构想能够为她们建造一种避难所。
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During a chance encounter in May 2007,
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在2007年5月的一次偶然相遇中,
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Jane revealed her deepest desire to V, formerly Eve Ensler,
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简向 V【夏娃·恩斯勒(Eve Ensler)】 透露了她最深切的愿望,
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to build a place for women survivors
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希望为女性幸存者,
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to live together
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建造一个共同生活的地方,
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so that they could heal, transform and lead.
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让她们能够康复、转变和领导。
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Jane was in the first class of women at City of Joy,
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简是欢乐之城的最出色的女性之一,
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where she proved that change is possible
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在那里她证明了,
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even after one's life has seemingly been destroyed.
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即使一个人的生活看似被摧毁, 改变也是可能的。
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Jane arrived at City of Joy illiterate,
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简以文盲的身份来到欢乐之城,
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and she graduated able to read and write,
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毕业后,她能读能写,
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with the skills to rebuild her life.
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具备了重建生活的技能。
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She was able to buy a plot of land and build a small house.
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她可以买一块地,建一座小房子。
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She joined the staff
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她成为了员工,
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and is a strong role model for other women living there.
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是其他生活在那里的女性仰望的榜样。
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When she arrived, her name was Jeanne.
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当她到刚来时,她的名字叫珍妮。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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When she arrived, her name was Jeanne.
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当她到刚来时,她的名字叫珍妮。
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She renamed herself Jane.
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她给自己改名为简。
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Jane is now a powerful leader and a woman of magnificent energy,
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简现在是一位强大的领导者,
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vision and life force.
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是一位充满活力、远见和生命力的女性。
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Two: grassroots women know what they need.
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二:底层女性知道她们需要什么。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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They don't need direction or coercion from outside funders.
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她们不需要外部资助者的指导或胁迫。
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They need resources and respect.
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她们需要的是资源和尊重。
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The women of Congo envisioned the City of Joy,
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刚果的女性构想了欢乐之城,
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and they are the ones who run it.
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而她们是这座城市的管理者。
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Our sisters in the West help by providing resources
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我们在西方的姐妹们, 通过提供资源,
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and sharing our story
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分享我们的故事,
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by being wings at our back.
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通过成为我们的翅膀来帮助我们。
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Because of this, we have been able to take risks,
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正因为如此,我们可以进行冒险,
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become innovators.
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成为创新者。
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City of Joy is modeling a new kind of program for survivors,
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欢乐之城示范了一种新型的幸存者项目,
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one that has moved from social service to social justice.
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从社会服务转向社会正义。
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Three: women heal in community.
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三:女性在群体中康复。
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Women cannot heal outside community,
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女性无法在群体之外康复,
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for as long as the community remains ill or sexist or violent,
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只要群体仍然病态, 或存在性别歧视、暴力,
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women remain oppressed and unseen.
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女性就会受到压迫,从而隐身。
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At City of Joy, women come to understand
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在欢乐之城,女性开始理解,
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that their healing is intertwined with their sisters' healing.
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她们的治疗与其他姐妹的治疗相互交织。
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For example, there is no individual therapy at City of Joy,
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比如,欢乐之城没有个人疗法,
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only group therapy.
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只有团体疗法。
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As your sister changes and grows,
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随着姐妹的变化和成长,
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you change and grow.
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你也会随之变化和成长。
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As she is able to tell her story, it encourages you to tell yours.
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当她能够讲述自己的故事时, 这会鼓励你讲述自己的故事。
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As you watch your sister let go of her anger or sadness,
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当你看着姐妹让她的愤怒或悲伤释放,
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you begin to let go of yours.
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你也会开始放开自己的愤怒或悲伤。
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The collective healing of women leads to radical political awakening.
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女性的集体康复带来了激进的政治觉醒。
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It teaches women how to lead
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通过学习如何投资于整个群体,
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by learning how to lead by investing in the whole community.
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女性学习如何领导,并学会了如何领导。
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Four: the Earth is a central part of our healing.
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四:地球是我们康复的核心部分。
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I grew up with a deep love and respect of the Earth,
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在成长中,我一直怀着 对地球的深切爱护和尊重,
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and a vision for connecting the healing of women
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以及将女性的康复,
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with the healing of the Earth.
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与地球的康复联系起来的愿景。
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City of Joy was able to acquire a 350-hectare farm,
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欢乐之城得以收购 一个占地 350 公顷的农场,
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which became a centerpiece for our healing.
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它是我们康复的核心。
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Turning pain to power to planting.
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将痛苦转化为种植的力量。
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There, women learn how to grow cassava,
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在那里,她们学习如何种植木薯、
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rice, avocados, mangoes, sweet potatoes, beans.
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水稻、牛油果、芒果、红薯和豆类。
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They learn to take care of pigs and cows,
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她们学会照顾猪和牛,
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to harvest nine tilapia ponds
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养殖了九个池塘的罗非鱼,
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and dry fish,
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收获了鱼干,
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to make honey from beehives,
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用蜂箱做蜂蜜,
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to advance their understanding of permaculture.
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增进了对永久养殖的理解。
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The farm is a living classroom,
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农场是一间活的教室,
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and we have witnessed the profound healing of survivors
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我们见证了幸存者通过和地球建立联系,
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as they connect with and cherish the Earth.
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珍惜地球,取得了显著康复。
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And the whole farm is stunningly beautiful,
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而且整个农场都非常漂亮,
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which is as healing in itself.
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这本身也是一种治愈。
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Five: art, theater, music, dance are critical to recovery.
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五:艺术、戏剧、音乐、舞蹈 对康复至关重要。
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At City of Joy, song is the delivery system
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在欢乐之城,
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for many of our principles and ideas.
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歌曲传递着许多我们的原则和理念。
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We sing together and dance throughout every day.
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我们每天都在一起唱歌跳舞。
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As we move our bodies,
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当我们晃动身体时,
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we move the trauma out and bring in new energy.
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我们会将创伤转移到身体外, 将新的能量注入身体。
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Dance is central to healing,
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舞蹈是康复的核心,
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as it allows women to feel the expanse of their power and energy,
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因为它使女性感受到 自己广阔的力量和能量,
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to begin to love their bodies,
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开始热爱自己的身体、
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to move in community, to express their creativity,
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融入社区、 表达自己的创造力、
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to share community tribal dances,
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分享部落舞蹈、
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and thus remove cultural barriers.
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最终消除文化障碍。
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To date, 1987 women have graduated from the City of Joy.
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迄今为止, 已有 1987 名女性从欢乐之城毕业。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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They are now leaders in their communities, educators, journalists,
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她们现在是社区的领导者、 教育工作者、记者、
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university students, entrepreneurs of small businesses,
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大学生、小企业的企业家、
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initiators of collectives, restaurant owners,
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团体的发起者、餐馆老板、
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farmers and advocates, etc.
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农民和倡导者,等等。
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1987 women have healed, studied and become empowered,
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1987 位女性已经康复,学习并获得了权力,
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and have joined into a network of love and revolution
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拥有了由爱和革命构建的人脉,
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in over 64 villages and urban areas
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她们遍布在,
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in the Democratic Republic of Congo.
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刚果民主共和国的 64 个村庄和城市,
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One --
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1——
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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1987 women have released massive trauma
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1987 位女性释放了巨大的创伤,
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and horrific memories.
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和可怕的回忆。
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They have danced, sang, learned their rights, performed plays,
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她们跳舞、唱歌、 了解她们的权利、表演戏剧、
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developed agricultural skills
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发展农业技能,
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and come to love their bodies.
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并学会爱上自己的身体。
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1987 women have become leaders in their communities
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1987 位妇女已成为了社区的领袖,
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and are no longer stigmatized for being raped.
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不再因被强奸而蒙受耻辱。
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1987 women
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1987 位女性,
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have turned poison into medicine,
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把毒药变成了药物,
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isolation into community,
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把孤立变成了社区,
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shame into self-love,
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把羞辱变成了自爱,
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silence into story.
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把沉默变成了故事。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
10:31
When we named our sanctuary City of Joy,
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当我们为避难所命名欢乐之城时,
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we were told it was inappropriate to use the word "joy"
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我们被告知,当女性经历过 如此多可怕的强奸和暴行时,
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when women had experienced so many horrific rapes and atrocities.
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使用“欢乐”一词是不合适的。
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But we learned the opposite is true.
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但是我们知道,事实正相反。
10:47
Joy is possibility, gratitude,
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欢乐是可能,是感激,
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and the bodily expression of freedom
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是当痛苦转化为力量时,
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when pain has turned to power.
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身体的自由表达。
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Joy is the opposite of violence,
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欢乐是暴力的反义,
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a far more powerful force in the world.
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是世界上更为强大的一种力量。
11:02
Love ignited in action.
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行动能点燃爱。
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Thank you.
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谢谢。
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
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