Why Most People Don't Have SUCCESS — Podcast for English Learners

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So I was born in São Paulo  Capital and I grew up there. 
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I thought you were going for  that, um, Fresh Prince line,  
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like in West Philadelphia, born and raised  on the playground is where I spent, anyway...
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What does your English learning and  Leonardo DiCaprio have in common? Well,  
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more than you might think. In this episode, we  talk about achievements and why just focusing on  
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your goals is a bad strategy when it comes to your  English learning. I'm joined in the global studio  
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today by the most lekker teacher in all South  Africa, the one, the only Casse! Hey, Casse. 
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Hey, Thiago. How's it going? I'm doing well. How are you? 
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I'm good. I'm, I'm really good  today. Thank you for asking. 
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Awesome. So, Casse, today we are talking  all about achievements, right? But what  
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does it mean? Could you define to our viewers  and listeners here what an achievement is? 
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Uh, yeah, so an achievement is something  that you succeed at. Something that you, you,  
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a goal that you are successful at or something  that you manage to be really good at in life. 
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Yeah. Yeah. And I think achievements  are so important in our lives,  
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right? Because if you don't have achievements,  what's the purpose of living? Right? I mean,  
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it, it gives us meaning. You work hard for  something, for a goal, and then you achieve it,  
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and then you go like, yes. Awesome. What's the  next challenge? Yeah. So today we're gonna be  
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talking all about that and, we're gonna be sharing  with you guys today, um, some achievements that  
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we have experienced in our personal lives, you  know, I hope that you enjoy it. And also we're  
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gonna explain exactly what Leonardo DiCaprio  have to do with all of that. Okay? So Casse,  
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um, I would like to ask you first, what is  one achievement you're proud of in your life? 
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So, one thing that I'm really proud of is that,  like, near the end of my high school career,  
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like I was going through some really difficult  times, like in my family, and I'll spare you guys,  
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like, the details, it's not a sad podcast  episode. I'll save it for next time. Um,  
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but yeah. Anyway, so I went through some really  difficult times in my family and I was really  
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struggling to stay, um, inspired or stay motivated  or to see, you know, in terms of my self-esteem,  
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and, you know, like young kids always think like,  oh, what am I gonna become when I'm older? Like,  
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am I doomed? Am I destined to just like fail?  Or, you know, is my life gonna be mediocre or  
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am I ever gonna know what I wanted to do the rest  of my life? And I struggled with that too. But,  
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um, I kept working hard. I kept studying hard,  and I was able to successfully, um, be accepted  
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at the top university in the country. And actually  it's the top university on the continent - I found  
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that out recently - so I was really, it made me  feel, it filled me with like this huge amount of  
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self, not confidence, wouldn't say  self-confidence, but it gave me that boost,  
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you know, in terms of my self-esteem and, and  just, it was like getting that confirmation  
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or affirmation that I am able to do great  things if I set my mind to it. And, you know,  
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once I had achieved that, once I was able to, you  know, register and, and attend this university,  
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I, I think what also helped me to recognize my  potential and, and my strengths was that I also  
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managed to have really great relationships, or  that's not a good word, but I had a really great,  
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um, set of teachers and lecturers at this  university who, who, um, enforced or reiterated  
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that those ideas and those, and affirmed me,  you know, in terms of the things that I wanted  
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to do. And, um, I, I know this sounds like I'm  just, like I was just a kid who was lost and  
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needed a self-esteem boost, but it, it was bigger  than that because I think it shaped the way that  
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I think about myself now. And, you know, that  might seem like a tiny moment in, in my past,  
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but I think it paved, it paved the way, um,  to the person that I am today. And it really,  
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it really is something that set the  foundation of like who I am today and  
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how I see myself and where I see myself  going. So that to me was an achievement. 
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Yeah, it's a great one. Yeah. So that was when  you got into a journalism school, right? (No) No? 
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Actually, not journalism school. It, I  studied film, media and drama. So, (Before?)  
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those were... Yes. Oh, I did. I didn't know that. You see. 
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It's, it's a back back story  to like who Casse is. But yeah,  
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I studied that before I, I  ended up doing journalism. 
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That's cool. Yeah. I, I imagine you must  have enjoyed that course. I would've  
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enjoyed that course, I think, you know. The person I am today would appreciate  
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that course a lot more than the person  I was back then. I think I was still,  
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I think I was 17 when I, when I started  university. And I think my mind wasn't quite  
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ready for it. But I always, there's a quote that  I love. I, oh, and I, English, English literature  
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was, was one of my majors as well. That's why  I love poetry. I love English so much. But, um,  
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there's a quote by George Elliot, that says, ""It  is never too late to be what you might have been.  
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It is never too late to be what you might  have been."" So I think that, you know,  
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if I think about like what I, what I, who I was  back then and who I am now, I still think the two  
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can connect. And somehow that like, media and  film studies, English literature, it's gonna,  
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it's gonna play a role. I'm gonna, I'm still gonna  do what I was supposed to do when I was there, so. 
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That's amazing. That actually reminds me of that  famous, uh, Steve Jobs commencement speech that  
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he gave, I think at Stanford in 2005, if  I remember correctly. And in that speech,  
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he talks about connecting the dots. How sometimes  you take some courses or you do some things in  
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your life, you don't know exactly how you're  gonna use that information in the future,  
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but you cannot connect the dots looking forward,  only looking backwards, right? So maybe in the  
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future you look back and then you go like, oh,  yeah, now it makes sense why I studied that,  
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why I was interested in that, because, you  know, then I can connect the dots. Uh, one  
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point that you mentioned that I thought it was  interesting was the fact that Casse from today  
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would probably enjoy that course, the media course  more than Casse from the past. And I think there  
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is some truth to that in all of us, because we are  so young, yeah, when we have to make a decision  
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on what to study, like what course to take at  college, for example, like 17-18, I think. Um,  
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yeah. I mean, maybe if you took that course older  and more mature, you would enjoy it more. I guess  
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that's why some countries have the, the gap year.  Right? Could you explain to the listeners and the  
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viewers what a gap year is in that context? Sure. So a gap year is basically  
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one year, or sometimes people take gap years. It's  just a, a break between studying. So usually after  
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you finish high school, you know, you go straight  to college. But some people prefer to take some  
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time off from studying, do something else, maybe  go to work, maybe do an internship, or, you know,  
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travel abroad or do something that doesn't require  them to study. And usually it's a period where  
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they find themselves - that's what people  like to say - find out what they want to do,  
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or maybe save some money for some people in,  you know, it's not a matter of like choice,  
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right? So some people need to take some time off  studying and to go and work to save some money,  
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or, you know, just to figure out what they  want to do for the rest of their lives. 
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Yeah. I think it's a, it's a good idea, you  know, uh, to see some of the world first,  
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you know, before going back to school again  and start studying again. So, yeah, I mean,  
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I, I do see the validity in that. We don't have  that here in Brazil. Uh, but, um, I think it's a,  
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it's a good practice, you know, for young people.  Uh, before I share with you my achievement, Casse,  
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I do have some vocabulary questions to  ask you. So you said the word spare at  
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the beginning. Uh, I wanna spare you the details  or spare you that story. What does that mean? 
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So if you spare someone from something, it means  I'm gonna save you. I'm gonna save you from it.  
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In other words, I, I won't bother you  by telling you the details. Um, I'm  
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gonna spare you from it. I won't put you  through having to listen to the details. 
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And you used a very nice word also. You  said doomed. Oh, I'm doomed to...What  
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does that mean to be doomed? Yeah. So if you're doomed to do something,  
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um, you know, maybe, you know, if  you study something you don't like,  
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and now you are doomed to, to follow  that career path means that you have  
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no choice. It's your destiny to do  it. But in a, it's a more negative,  
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in a more negative sense. So like, oh, you're  gonna be, you're doomed to do it. You have, you're  
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gonna have to suffer through that process. Like you're sentenced, right? 
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Yes, exactly. So it's a, it's a bad thing,  
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right? (Yeah) Yeah. Okay. Uh, you, you said the  word mediocre. Um, so something mediocre means  
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average, something average, mediocre. But I, I  would like to highlight that word because I love  
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the sound of that word. The pronunciation  - mediocre we say. Right? Can you say that  
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again? Mediocre? (Mediocre) Uh, there you go.  You got a little bit -kuh at the end there.  
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Yeah? The schwa. Yeah. The schwa, and the, and the  R is not really pronounced in your case. Right? 
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No, no, no. We don't, we don't  use the, the rolled R - mediocre. 
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I love the sound of that word. And mediocre,  or mediocre. Yeah. It's great. And you also  
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said paved the way, that experience paved  the way for you. Uh, what does that mean? 
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Yeah. So when something paves the way for  something else, it means, think of bricks,  
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like put you, and you're laying bricks, if you've  ever seen that process, or if you think about it,  
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uh, maybe the game Tetris, I don't know. I'm  thinking of like bricks on top of each other. So,  
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um, if you, if something paves the way for  something else, it means that it's preparing  
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the path or it, it creates the stepping stones.  It create, it creates the pathway to something  
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else. So you can even say that someone paved  the way for me. In other words, someone  
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set the example, they went through  it first and they, they created the,  
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the way for me to do it, the opportunity for  me to do it because someone else did it first,  
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I now have the opportunity to do it cuz they  paved the way they went through it first,  
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and now I know what to do. So that's my  little achievement from when I was younger.  
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How about you, Thiago? Tell us about yours. Yeah. In my case, Casse, um, I think the  
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obvious one for us here is learning English in  my home country. Um, I think I, I was able to  
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learn English very well, never having traveled  abroad. That's an achievement that I'm proud of  
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and I will be proud of until I die. Right? Uh,  but I'm not gonna get into this today because,  
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you know, uh, we've already done a video, where  I share my story. So, by the way, guys, if you  
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wanna see my story, uh, on how I learned English  here in my home country, Brazil, you can check out  
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this lesson here that we're gonna, um, link in the  description and then you can watch it later. Okay.  
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But for this episode, I think the achievement  I wanted to share was leaving my parents' house  
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when I was 24. You know, I left my parents'  house when I was 24, and I moved not only, uh,  
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from their house, but also I moved cities. Yeah.  So I am originally from Sao Paulo capital, and I,  
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I was born and raised there. Um, and then at 24,  I came to the city where I live today in Curitiba,  
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which is in the south of the country. And I'm very  proud of that because, you know, um, I wanted my  
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independence at that time. You know, I wanted, I  wanted to, you know, get out of my, get, get, get,  
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what's the, the expression, get away or get out  of my parents' wing? Is that correct to say that? 
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You can say, I, I wanted to get out from under my  parents' wing. (Ah) like a chicken, you know, the,  
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the hen - it walks and her chicks are under here. So the correct way to say this is I wanted to get  
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out from under my parents' wings. Yeah. That's  what I wanted. Yeah. So I wanted to have my life  
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and my place and, you know, not having to explain  myself to it, to everybody. So I did it. Yeah.  
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I came here with a couple more friends at that  time. We had kind of a similar goal of making it,  
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right, in this new city, in this new state. Um,  unfortunately they didn't adapt very well to the  
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city, so they left a few months later. But I did,  I left the city and I, I got a job at that time,  
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uh, rather quickly, you know, and I stayed. Yeah.  And I think it was, uh, a great decision for  
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me, you know, because then I met my, my wife, she  is from here, and then, you know, now we have kids  
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together. Yeah. So, um, yeah, it was a, it was a  great decision. Yeah. But this idea of leaving,  
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yeah, relatively young, I think that was, uh,  good. It wasn't easy. Of course, I had some  
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challenges. Yeah. Because, you know, you have  to do everything on, uh, by yourself, right? And  
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I did have, I did have some people along the way  who helped me, especially at the beginning, right.  
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Um, with some key things. But overall,  I'm proud of that, of leaving early. Yeah. 
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I think like the, the level of independence, um,  that, and like self-reliance, I think that's,  
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that's it. Because you, you cannot  turn to mom and dad and go like, oh,  
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you know, I'm struggling right now. Of course you  can, I'm sure your parents would never turn you  
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away. But I, I, I think it's, you wanna show them  that, you know, I made this decision. I'm grown.  
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So I think that's really, really awesome. Yeah. Yeah. I love that word that you use,  
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by the way. Self-reliance. What's that? So when you rely, think of the word rely, so when  
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you rely on someone, you're, you need them.  You know, I'm relying on you. I need you to  
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help me with this. Um, when you self-rely, you are  only, you only need yourself, you're depending on  
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yourself, your own strengths, your own abilities.  I'm self-reliant. I can do it by myself. It's  
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similar to, to being an independent, I guess. But,  um, yeah, think of it more like, I don't depend,  
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I don't need anyone else to do this. I'm  able to do this on my own. I'm self-reliant. 
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Awesome. Cool. I wanna ask you,  
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you said your friends didn't make it. What  does it mean when someone doesn't make it? 
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When you have a goal and you don't achieve  that, you know, you can say that you didn't  
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make it. Uh, so when you are not successful  at executing a plan, or achieving a goal that  
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you have, you can say that you don't make it.  The opposite is also true. If you achieve the,  
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the goal that you set for yourself, or  if you were able to carry out the plan,  
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yeah, that you created, you made it. Uh,  we usually say that to refer to success,  
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right? When a person becomes very successful at  something, we say that the person has made it. 
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You also answered, like you said, you were  born and raised, um. What does that mean? 
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Born and raised. Yeah. So I was born in Sao  Paulo Capital, and I grew up there. Yeah.  
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So my first 24 years of life were spent there. I  was raised there. Um, your raise you for example,  
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or any close family member, maybe a grandparent.  Yeah. But typically your parents, right? So your  
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mom and dad, they raise you. They help you grow  up well with education and clothing and food  
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and health, right? This is raising someone.  If you have kids, you have to raise them. 
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I, I thought you were growing, you were  going for that, um, Fresh Prince line,  
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like in West Philadelphia, born and raised on  the playground is where I spent, anyway, sorry.  
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I love that episode you did with, with Ethan. I  was watching it again. Yeah. It, it's great that  
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you mentioned that. So, uh, we can also link  that episode in the description below, uh, for  
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the viewers and the listeners, uh, to listen or  watch later. It's episode 325, where we practice  
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listening skills with the Fresh Prince of Bel Air.  That was a fun one to do. Okay, Casse. So now that  
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we have both shared a couple of achievements here  that we have experienced, I thought it would be  
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cool for us to share, briefly share, um, a story  about someone who has achieved huge success only  
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later in their lives. Because many people have  this misconception that past a certain age, you  
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are too old, right? Oh, past 40, past 50, or even  60, right? I'm too old, I can't do anything else,  
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or I can't accomplish anything else. But these  stories that we're gonna briefly share with you  
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guys actually prove the opposite. And you do  have a couple of nice examples to give, right? 
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I wanna add to what you're saying because I  think that for women, I'm not saying it's only  
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for women, but I think a lot of the time, you  know, women have a different biological clock.  
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So I think women are always thinking about the  time they get to 30. They need to have certain,  
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certain things in order. So like, usually it's  the family life needs to be, I dunno, at least by  
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your early thirties, you need to have that family  life, husband, kids or whatever. You're starting  
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to think about the future. But when it comes to  the career, like they always feel like there has  
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to be a choice: I'm gonna be a career woman, or  I'm gonna be a family woman. And this is usually  
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that decision that has, that falls on women. But  I think one amazing, uh, example of someone who,  
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um, really hit her stride, like after 30  is J.K. Rolling. I think she's like the,  
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the best example that I can think of,  of someone who really, truly found,  
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um, success later in life, right? When I say  later, I'm saying relative because she found  
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it at 32. Um, and that's not late at all. For  those of you listening, if you're older than 32,  
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it's, you're not late. But I think in terms of  what society thinks of as, um, older tends to,  
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you know, by the time you're 32, you should have  your life on track. But let me talk about J.K.. So  
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like, what she did was, she was going through  a really tough time, you know, like she was,  
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um, I believe she was struggling with depression.  She was, you know, dealing with financial issues  
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and going through a really bad divorce. And,  you know, she, she was also a mom, you know,  
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at the time. And while going through all of  that, she started to write Harry Potter. And,  
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um, this book obviously then blew, took the  world by storm, it blew up. And, um, it was  
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published in 1997, and I think she was, yeah, she  was 32 at the time, but it really was the start.  
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It was like the spark that just like ignited her  career, like it's in a, in a positive way. Like,  
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she really blew up after that. I think, uh, maybe, I think I,  
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I heard that she wrote the first Harry Potter  book in a coffee shop, right? Because I don't  
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know if it was cuz of the, the heating system  they had, or the wifi, I don't know. But. 
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I heard that too. She wrote that in a coffee shop. I don't know if  
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it was the whole book or the first chapters. Yeah. And, and just think about like, you know, how,  
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not only how successful the, the books are or the  films are, but like, if we think about our own,  
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like Learn English with TV lessons, like  think about how many fans absolutely adore  
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those lessons because it's become such  a staple for English learners as well.  
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Um, so yeah, it's amazing. By the way, what does that mean, when  
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something becomes a staple for a group of people? Like essential, it's like an, yeah. So when  
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something is a staple, it's like an essential,  it's like a go-to thing. So if you think of like  
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staple foods of countries, we might say that, I  don't know, rice and beans is a staple in Brazil,  
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um, you know, corn tends to be a staple  here in South Africa. Things like that. 
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Essential, nice. It's a staple. That's a, it's a  great piece of vocabulary. I like that. Yeah. And  
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one example that I have of someone who achieved  huge success only later in life is actually,  
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uh, Steve Carell. Um, because, you know, I have, I  even have here, um, a paragraph that I got from an  
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article, and let me read it to you guys. Beloved  comedian, Steve Carell is known for his many  
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blockbuster hits, including The 40-Year-Old Virgin  and the Big Short. But he didn't land his hit role  
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as Michael Scott in The Office until he was 42.  So, you know, I think that show really made his  
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career. Yeah. And we, we both love The Office.  It's such a hilarious, uh, TV show. And, uh, it's  
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crazy to think that when he got that role, he was  42 years old already. Right? So, you know, it,  
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it's a good example of maybe he was, I, I think  he, maybe he had made movies before already. He  
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was already working on it, uh, in the industry.  But the big break, let's say, yeah, or the,  
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that role that made his career, yeah, or that  really put it on the, put him on the map - it  
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only came in his forties. Right? So that's another  example that I can think of, yeah, about that. 
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I like what you said, putting, putting  him on the map. What does that mean? 
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When, in this case, a person becomes more evident  or more famous. Yeah. Maybe he was making small  
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movies or small productions before he was maybe  somewhat well known, but after The Office,  
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he became worldwide famous. So that show put  him on the map. But, um, still talking about  
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achievements, right? Uh, another point that I  think is important to mention here is that it's  
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important to enjoy the journey, right? Because  sometimes we might feel obsessed with the goal,  
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maybe, oh, like learning English or being  fluent. But if you don't enjoy the journey,  
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it's gonna be very hard for you to actually  get your destination. Yeah. Because the journey  
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is not pleasant. And these are examples that  we are sharing here. For example, like Steve  
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Carell or even J.K. Roland, for example, yeah,  they were doing the work for a while, yeah,  
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before, uh, getting that goal or achieving  that level of success. And another example  
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that I can think of is Leonardo DiCaprio. Now  bringing DiCaprio into the discussion because,  
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um, I remember watching his first movie, I  think in the nineties. He, he, I don't know if  
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it was his first movie or one of his first movies  called Basketball Diaries or something like that,  
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The Basketball Diaries. And he plays, uh, a  teenager who is addicted to drugs. And, uh, I, I  
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could see back then that he was such a good  actor already, but he didn't stop there. I think  
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two years later he did Titanic, which was huge,  you know? And ever since, you know, he has been  
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making lots of good movies, but he only won the  Oscars recently. Yeah. I think with the Revenant,  
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and it was a few years ago. And, there was even  talk already of, oh, when is Leo DiCaprio gonna  
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win the Oscar for best actor? When, you know?  People were kind of expecting it, but it wasn't  
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happening until it finally happened, happened,  like, you know, years later. Yeah. Did you see  
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that, by the way, uh, his acceptance speech? I did. I did. And something that I,  
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I, I think as well, just to touch on what  you mentioned before, like, it's like  
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people could be telling you, oh, you're such,  you're so good at this, or you should keep going,  
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and you're feeling, you're thinking to yourself,  nah, I should give up. If, um, I was good,  
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I would've been winning awards. If I would've  been recognized by the film industry a long,  
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a long time ago. I've been doing this for years,  I should just give up. I'm not that good. Um, and  
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I think with Leonardo DiCaprio in this example, I  keep thinking that, I don't think he was fazed by,  
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um, the idea of like, I need to win the  award in order to feel good about myself,  
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or I need to win this award in, in order for  me to recognize myself as a good actor. He was  
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take still taking on roles. He was never going  bankrupt, you know, he wasn't declining anything.  
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He was just living his life enjoying the process,  as you mentioned before. And I think this is so,  
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this is so important for all of us to think about,  like in our, where we are at in our careers or in  
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our learning journeys. Um, and yeah, I think it's,  it's, it's just a really great point that you, you  
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raised. But yes, on his acceptance speech, really,  I, I felt moved. I thought it was really, really,  
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um, I think there was so many memes about like  him before, like him not winning, like, uh,  
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Leo just always waiting for his, his turn. It was,  it was a proud moment for sure. (Yeah.) I think. 
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I think, uh, he, he's known for being, uh,  concerned about the environment? Yeah. And  
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I think he actually used that opportunity when  he accepted the Oscars, uh, to talk about that,  
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right, trying to raise people's awareness of the  environmental issues we have nowadays. Right? So  
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also, we could say that that was an example  of someone who was standing up for what they  
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believe in. So at that moment, he was standing  up for a belief that he had. And what does that  
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mean when you stand up for what you believe in? So, um, I remember we, we, when we were discussing  
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like, um, you know, today's episode, we were  talking about like the difference between like  
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standing up for, or standing up to, and, um,  you know, totally different things. So I'll  
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just explain the difference in preposition there  as well. So when you stand up for something,  
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you are saying that, you know, this is what I  believe in. This is the right way. I'm standing  
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up for this. I am, I'm in agreement. You're  aligning yourself with that thing or that idea,  
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and you're saying, um, I'm gonna support  this. I'm gonna back this, I'm going to,  
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you know, put myself, uh, in front. Like,  let's say you're standing up for human rights,  
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you're standing up for the environment. You're,  you're saying this is the cause that I believe  
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in. But if you stand up to someone or something,  you are, it's more confrontational. You're saying,  
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um, you know, I'm, I'm gonna stand up to the  government. I don't know, for some reason,  
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if you feel like standing up to your  government, it means that you're saying,  
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I don't agree with what you're saying, and I'm  gonna stand up to you now, I'm gonna have my say. 
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Yeah. And that actually reminds me, Casse, of  a fun fact about the Oscars that Ididn't know  
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about until a few years ago. Um, as you guys can  see here in my background, I am a huge Godfather  
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fan. Um, and Marlon Brando, who plays the main  character, one of the main characters in the  
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first movie, he won the Oscars for best actor in  the seventies. That was 1972 or three if I'm, I'm  
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mistaken. But he rejected the Oscars, he turned it  down. And actually, I thought it would be cool for  
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us to watch the clip here of when he was announced  as the winner and what happened. So, uh, Thiago,  
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could you please play it for us? The winner is  
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Marlon Brando  
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and the Godfather. 
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Hello, my name is Sashi Little Feather. I'm  Apache and I'm president of the National  
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Native American Affirmative Image Committee.  I'm representing Marlon Brando this evening,  
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and he has asked me to tell you in a very long  speech, which I cannot share with you presently  
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because of time, but I will be glad  to share with the press afterwards,  
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that he very regretfully cannot accept  this very generous award. And the reasons  
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for this being are the treatment of American  Indians today by the film industry, excuse me,  
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and on television, in movie reruns, and also with  recent happenings at Wounded Knee. I beg at this  
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time that I have not intruded upon this evening,  and that we will in the future, our hearts  
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and our understandings will meet with love and  generosity. Thank you on behalf of Marlon Brando. 
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I mean, can you imagine how shocking that must  have been at the time? I, I don't remember,  
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maybe there were other cases, but I don't  remember other people like rejecting the  
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Oscars. Maybe there are, but what did you think? Yeah. I, I, I think it is quite shocking and quite  
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like powerful, I think is, is the, the way  I would describe it. Because I think people  
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standing up for what they believe in tends to,  to connect with our emotions in a way. Like,  
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I mean, whether or not it was something that you  thought of before, or, I mean, it's that bravery.  
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It's like sort of like you're so courageous  to stand up and, and reject something that so  
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many thousands of actors in Hollywood, millions,  even , I mean over time, have like, wanted this  
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thing. And you're saying, I, I don't want it if  that means that you are going to keep treating,  
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um, native Americans in this way or,  you know, I just, I just, yeah. I mean,  
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in terms of the representation, uh, which we can  get into in a minute, but I, I really think it's  
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very powerful. I think it's brave. I think  it's courageous. I think it's something,  
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um, that the world needs more of. Yeah, I think there is a, there is  
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an interview that Marlon Brando gave after, at  a famous talk show in the seventies explaining  
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his reasoning, uh, why he decided to do this.  Uh, but did you hear how when she was speaking,  
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some people in the audience was booing her? You  know, what does it mean to boo somebody off stage? 
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If you're booing someone, you are  basically sort of making a negative, um,  
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having a negative reaction by making the sound  like boo, like sort of like a thumb's down . 
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I, I love the fact that, you know, in English,  that word is literally the sound that we make,  
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right? Boo. Yeah. The word is the sound  we make. In Portuguese, it is a completely  
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different word for that. Yeah. It's Vaiar,  Vaiar. It's completely different. Yeah. But  
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I love the fact that in English, we just, you  know, it is the sound Yeah. To boo boo. Yeah.  
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Um, she does say, one nice piece  of vocabulary there that I think  
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is nice to define. She talks about movie  reruns. What is a rerun? A movie rerun. 
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So a rerun is a repeat. So when  the movie runs, it's, it, it goes,  
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it plays, but when you're rerunning it, you  are playing it again for like, I don't know,  
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the second or third time. So whenever,  you know, the however many of the time.  
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So a rerun is a repeated episode. Episode or  movie that's been repeated more than once. 
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And, I, I wanted to bring this clip today because  recently I saw a piece of news from last year,  
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it's very recent in 2022, saying that, uh,  the Academy, right, actually issued a formal  
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apology to her only now 49 years later. Yeah. It  was, this is like very recent last year, yeah,  
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for the way that she was treated on that day, on  that in that evening. But can you imagine like,  
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you know, 50, almost 50 years later, yeah,  the Academy finally issues a formal apology.  
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Yeah. So, I thought it was very interesting. Yeah. I, I mean I'm, I'm, I'm not surprised,  
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let me put it that way. I think progress in  everything in society as well takes a while.  
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I think at the time, people's mindsets, their  perspectives on things were different to what they  
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are today. And I'm, I'm really not surprised. It's  terrible, but I'm, I'm really not not surprised  
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that it took them this long. I'm actually happy  that they at least got around to doing it because,  
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yeah, these, these things often go unaddressed. Yeah. Yeah. So, we were talking about beliefs and  
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standing up for what you believe in, right?  Uh, it also reminds me of Simon Sinek and,  
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uh, and his famous Tad talk. He talks about how  when you talk about things that you believe you  
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naturally attract, uh, people who believe what  you believe, who believe the same things you do.  
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It's really about finding your group of people,  your community, right? And for English learners,  
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I think a great way for you to do that is  by using our app. If you wanna connect with  
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other passionate English learners who just  like you are in this journey of, you know,  
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improving their English and becoming more  fluent in English, you should definitely  
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check out our app. And I think now is a perfect  moment for us to go to a shout out section here.
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So I would definitely say that this  connects with the mindset and you know,  
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we mentioned before about, you know, how our  achievements sort of shape us and how, you know,  
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even if it's a little achievement, even if it's  something small that seems insignificant in  
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the moment, uh, or small victory, let's call it  that. If it's a small victory that seems minor,  
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it's insignificant to, might seem insignificant  in the moment, but it could lead to great things  
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if you keep going, if you keep working at it.  And that starts with a really specific kind of  
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mindset, right? You have to have that sort of  willingness and that endurance to keep going. 
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Yeah, we talk about the growth mindset a lot here  too. Yeah. Instead of having a fixed mindset,  
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a growth mindset, I'm always learning. I'm open  to the journey. And life is an adventure. That's  
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pretty much it. Awesome. So, uh, now we wanna  hear from you guys, dear viewers and listeners.  
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The question for today is, have you seen any  movie lately that blew your mind or that blew  
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you away? Share with us in the comment section  below a nice movie that you have seen recently.  
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Or you can, again, you can also send us an email  at [email protected]. I hope you  
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enjoyed today's episode and stay tuned for next  week's one, because it's gonna be also packed with  
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info, vocab, inspiration, and other fun stuff.  And I'll talk to you soon. So 1, 2, 3. Aww Aww  
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yeah yeah! Alright. (Oh, nice.)
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