Greetings and Goodbyes, Hug or Handshake? Hugging and American Culture

249,614 views ใƒป 2015-10-20

Rachel's English


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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In this American English pronunciation video, weโ€™re going to talk about the cultural use of hugging.
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ใ“ใฎใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎ็™บ้Ÿณใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใฏ ใ€ใƒใ‚ฐใฎๆ–‡ๅŒ–็š„ไฝฟ็”จใซใคใ„ใฆ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Thereโ€™s something Iโ€™ve been wanting to make a video about for a while, and thatโ€™s hugging.
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ใ—ใฐใ‚‰ใใฎ้–“ใ€็งใŒใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’ไฝœใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใƒใ‚ฐใงใ™ใ€‚
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Itโ€™s mostly because I think it must be weird for non-Americans; sometimes itโ€™s even weird
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ใใ‚Œใฏไธปใซใ€ ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซไบบไปฅๅค–ใฎไบบใซใจใฃใฆใฏๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใซ้•ใ„ใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆ™‚ใ€…ใใ‚Œ
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for me. If youโ€™ve spent much time in the US, you might have noticed that Americans
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ใฏ็งใซใจใฃใฆใ•ใˆๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงใ™ ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใงๅคšใใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸ ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซไบบใŒใŠไบ’ใ„ใซใŸใใ•ใ‚“ๆŠฑใๅˆใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใŸใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
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hug each other a lot. We do it in saying hello to someone and in saying good bye.
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ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ ่ชฐใ‹ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใ€ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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You donโ€™t do this with someone youโ€™ve never met when meeting, in that case you
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ไผšใฃใŸใจใใซไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใฎใชใ„ไบบใจใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏ
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probably do a hand shake.
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ใŠใใ‚‰ใๆกๆ‰‹ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:48
>> Hey Hilah, this is my boyfriend David. >> Hi David.
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>>ใญใˆใ€ใƒ’ใƒฉใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎใƒœใƒผใ‚คใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใฎใƒ‡ใƒ“ใƒƒใƒ‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ >>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใƒ‡ใƒ“ใƒƒใƒ‰ใ€‚
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>> Hey. >> Iโ€™m Hilah.
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00:51
>> Nice to meet you. >> Nice to meetโ€ฆ
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>>ใญใˆใ€‚ >>็งใฏใƒ’ใƒฉใงใ™ใ€‚
>>ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆใ€‚ >>ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆโ€ฆ
00:52
Also, you donโ€™t hug in business settings.
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ใพใŸใ€ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚น็’ฐๅขƒใซใƒใ‚ฐใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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>> Hello, Ms. Smith. Iโ€™m Tom Kelley. Thanks so much for coming in.
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>>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒŸใ‚นใ•ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใƒˆใƒ ใƒปใ‚ฑใƒชใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆฅใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
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>> Itโ€™s my pleasure. Thanks so much for meeting with me.
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>>ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎๅ–œใณใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใจไผšใฃใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
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In business settings, you shake hands when meeting or leaving someone, unless itโ€™s
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ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚น็’ฐๅขƒใงใฏใ€ใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ‚นใง
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more causal, like someone you see every day at your office. Then you can just say โ€˜helloโ€™
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ๆฏŽๆ—ฅ็›ฎใซใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅ› ๆžœ้–ขไฟ‚ใŒใชใ„้™ใ‚Šใ€่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใฃใŸใ‚Š้›ขใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซๆกๆ‰‹ ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆฌกใซใ€ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
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or โ€˜good-byeโ€™.
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ใ€‚
01:16
>> Morning Tom. >> Hey. Morning, Rach.
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>>ใƒขใƒผใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐใƒˆใƒ ใ€‚ >>ใญใˆใ€‚ ๆœใ€ใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ฏใ€‚
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But when itโ€™s a friend, you hug when you meet up or part ways with them.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒๅ‹้”ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใจไผšใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€้€”ไธญใงๅˆฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซๆŠฑใใ—ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚
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>> Hey! >> How ya feeling?
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>>ใญใˆ๏ผ >>ๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใฏใฉใ†๏ผŸ
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>> Long time no see. >> Itโ€™s good to see ya.
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>>ไน…ใ—ใถใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ >>ใŠไผšใ„ใงใใฆใ†ใ‚Œใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
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>> Hi. >> Hey.
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>>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚ >>ใญใˆใ€‚
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>> How are ya? >> Good. How are you?
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>>ใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ >>่‰ฏใ„ใ€‚ ๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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>> Good. Thanks for having us.
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>>่‰ฏใ„ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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>> Hey Rick! >> Hi. Good to see ya.
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>>ใญใˆใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏ๏ผ >>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚ ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:35
>> You too.
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>>ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ใ€‚
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>> Bye HaQuyen. >> Bye Rachel.
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>>ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰HaQuyenใ€‚ >>ใƒใ‚คใƒฌใ‚คใƒใ‚งใƒซใ€‚
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>> It was great to see you. >> Itโ€™s always good to see you.
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>>ใŠไผšใ„ใงใใฆ่‰ฏใ‹ใฃใŸใงใ™ใ€‚ >>ใŠไผšใ„ใงใใฆใ†ใ‚Œใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
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This can happen even when youโ€™ve just met someone. Letโ€™s say youโ€™re at a small party,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใฎๅ ดๅˆใงใ‚‚็™บ็”Ÿใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฐใ•ใชใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซใ„
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and you meet someone for the first time.
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ใฆใ€ๅˆใ‚ใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใฃใŸใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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>> Rachel, this is my friend Jacob. >> Hi Jacob.
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>>ใƒฌใ‚คใƒใ‚งใƒซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎๅ‹้”ใฎใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚คใ‚ณใƒ–ใงใ™ใ€‚ >>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚คใ‚ณใƒ–ใ€‚
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>> Hi, nice to meet you. >> Nice to meet you. Thanks for having me.
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>>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆใ€‚ >>ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆใ€‚ ใŠๆ‹›ใใ„ใŸใ ใใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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At the end of the night, when you say goodbye, you might hug that person.
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ๅคœใฎ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎไบบใ‚’ๆŠฑใใ—ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
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>> Bye Jacob. >> Nice to meet you.
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>>ใƒใ‚คใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚คใ‚ณใƒ–ใ€‚ >>ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆใ€‚
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>> Nice to meet you!
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>>ใฏใ˜ใ‚ใพใ—ใฆ๏ผ
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Men and women alike hug as a greeting and as a good bye. Though sometimes, men do something
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็”ทๆ€งใ‚‚ๅฅณๆ€งใ‚‚ใ€ๆŒจๆ‹ถใจใ—ใฆใ€ใใ—ใฆใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใจใ—ใฆๆŠฑๆ“ใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ€็”ทๆ€งใฏ
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more of a slap than a hug.
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ๆŠฑๆ“ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅนณๆ‰‹ๆ‰“ใกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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>> Alright, man. >> Alright.
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>>ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€็”ทใ€‚ >>ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
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>> Talk to you soon. >> See ya. Bye.
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>>ใ™ใใซ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ >>ใ˜ใ‚ƒใ‚ใญใ€‚ ใ•ใ‚ˆใชใ‚‰ใ€‚
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It can get awkward through. Some people are less comfortable with hugging, and might offer
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ใใ‚ŒใฏๅŽ„ไป‹ใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€้ƒจใฎไบบใ€…ใฏๆŠฑใ็ท ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซ ใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆ…ฃใ‚ŒใฆใŠใ‚‰ใš
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you a hand right as you offer a hug. In these cases, you just have to figure out what to
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŠฑๆ“ใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใจๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๅทฎใ—ไผธในใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹
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do. If youโ€™re not sure what to do, you can try to wait for the other person to initiate.
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ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ‚ˆใ„ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒ้–‹ๅง‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใคใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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>> Hey. >> Ohโ€ฆ hi.
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>>ใญใˆใ€‚ >>ใ‚ใ‚โ€ฆใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚
02:40
>> Hi.
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02:40
So, in America, we hug when greeting someone, and when saying bye.
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>>ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚
ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใงใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ—ใฆใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏๆŠฑๆ“ใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚
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What is the custom in your country? Let me know in the comments below.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ›ฝใฎ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใงๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
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