First conditional conversation (Father giving advice) English Conversation Practice

Brandon where are you Brandon where are you son

布兰登你在哪儿布兰登你在哪儿儿子

Brandon hey son what are you  doing here you were supposed to

布兰登嘿儿子你在这里做什么你应该是

are you starting now if you start studying  now you won't have time to come downstairs

你现在开始如果你现在开始学习你就没有时间下楼了

now that I'm not starting this  is my diary where I used to write

因为我不开始这是我的日记我曾经写过的地方

I see there you used to write everything  that happened to you when you were

我看到那里你曾经写过当你是的时候发生在你身上的一切

yes that when I was a child what will  happen if I make a lot of mistakes

当我还是个孩子的时候如果我犯了很多错误会发生什么

oh my boy that's part of  being an adult make mistakes

我的孩子这是成年人的一部分

now that you'll turn 18 and become an  adult you will see things differently

现在 犯错误

I need to explain you some things about being  an adult maybe that way you'll feel better

你会年满 18 岁，你会看到

if you stop reading that diary and listen  to me you will understand many things please

不同 的 事情

yeah I'm sorry that I'm just worried  about being an adult I'm scared

对不起，我只是担心成为一个成年人 我很害怕 别

don't worry here is your father to  help you tell me what are you afraid of

担心 这里是你父亲来帮助你告诉我你害怕什么

I don't know many things for  example work I have never worked

我不知道很多事情例如工作 我从未工作过

what will happen if I can't work as well as  you and because of that I can never have money

如果我不能像你一样工作会发生什么，因此我永远不能有钱

oh you don't have to worry about that I  am sure you'll do fine wherever you work

哦，你不必担心，我相信无论你在哪里工作，你都会做得很好

and if you don't know something you will  investigate and learn that thing right

，如果你不知道什么，你会调查并正确地学习那件事

I mean you're good at investigating you  got the best grades at the school Brandon

我的意思是你善于调查你得到了在学校成绩最好 Brandon

yeah I suppose you're right that but if  I make a mistake at work they'll fire me

是的，我想你是对的，但如果我在工作中犯了错误，他们会解雇我，

that's not gonna happen nobody gets  fired just because of a mistake no way  

那不会发生，没有人会因为错误而被解雇，无论如何

and if that happens I'm sure you will  get another job in no time a better one

，如果发生这种情况，我相信你很快就会找到另一份更好的工作

remember this if we fail at doing something there  will almost always be another chance to do it  

请记住这一点 如果我们做某事失败了 几乎总会有另一次机会去做

and I'm saying almost always because  sometimes that's not gonna happen

，我说几乎总是因为有时那不会发生

but that's part of life that's part of being a  novelt coping with problems and their consequences

，但这是生活的一部分，也是存在的一部分

um okay but now I will have more  responsibilities I have to be more responsible

处理问题及其后果 的 小说

what will happen if for example I have to get  married I don't feel prepared for that yet

嗯好吧 但现在我将 承担

it's too soon to worry about  that my son you are still young

更多责任 我的儿子，你还年轻，

you will have the chance to meet a lot of  girls before finding your future wife son

你会有在找到你未来的妻子儿子之前有机会认识很多女孩

and if that moment comes I will  be here to advise you I promise

，如果那一刻到来，我会在这里为你提供建议，我保证

and if you are not sure about getting married  you won't have to do it that's okay too

，如果你不确定是否要结婚，你也不必结婚，那也没关系，

I know you've already had a few girlfriends  and probably you will have many more

我知道你已经有几个女朋友了，也许你还会有更多，

plus if you find your true love I will be so  happy but don't be impatient that moment will come  

如果你找到了你的真爱，我会很高兴，但不要不耐烦，那一刻会到来，

okay but now I will have to go  to the university the thing is

好吧，但现在我必须去上大学这件事是

I don't really know what to study  that I'm so confused what can I do

我真的不知道要学什么，所以我很困惑我能做什么我

I think my life has no purpose yet  not until I choose the right career

认为我的生活没有目标，直到我选择了正确的职业

and even if I choose a career it will  probably be the wrong one I will be a loser

，即使我选择了一个职业，它也可能是错误的我将是一个失败者

okay you need to understand something your  career or one career doesn't Define you

好吧你需要了解一些你的职业或一个职业没有定义你

what I mean is if you don't like your career  you will always be able to change it my son

我的意思是如果你不喜欢你的职业你将永远能够改变它我的儿子

your mother and I and probably your  true friends won't judge you never

你的母亲和我可能还有你的真实朋友永远不会评判你

so if you decide to stop studying something  we will support you no matter what

，所以如果你决定停止学习某些东西，无论如何我们都会支持你

and if you decide not studying anything that  will also be okay for us it's up to you all  

如果你决定不学习任何对我们来说也可以的东西，这取决于你，

we want is you to be happy no matter what  career you study or what you do for a living

我们想要的只是你快乐，无论你学习什么职业或以什么为生，

you say that because you are my father but there  will be many people judging me all the time  

你说那是因为你是我的父亲，但会有很多人一直对我评价很好

well I can't lie to you that's gonna  happen for sure but it's not that bad

我不能骗你 这肯定会发生 但也不是那么糟糕

sometimes we also need this kind of people  to motivate ourselves to do the things better

有时我们也需要这种人来激励自己把事情做得更好

I mean if you just have many people telling you  are the best how will you improve impossible

我的意思是如果你有很多人告诉你是最好的 你将如何改进 不可能

sometimes we need these people to ask  ourselves how we can improve at something

有时我们需要这些人问自己我们如何才能改进某事

but you'll be fine if you choose the right  friends they will tell you the truth always

但如果你选择合适的朋友你会没事的 他们会告诉你真相

and that's one of the best advice I can give  you choose your friends well never knows

，这是最好的建议之一我可以给你很好地选择你的朋友永远不知道

not all of your friends will be good friends  some of them will just be people you know

不是你所有的朋友都会是好朋友他们中的一些只是你认识的人我

I don't know that now that I will be an adult  there are a lot of things that I'll have to do

不知道现在我将成为一个成年人有很多事情我'我必须做，

yeah but you don't have to know everything  now you will be learning little by little

是的，但你不必知道一切现在你会一点一点地学习

that's how an adult learn by making mistakes if  you rush you will probably take bad decisions

这就是成年人通过犯错误来学习的方式如果你匆忙你可能会做出错误的决定

keep calm and relax you'll see everything  will be fine we'll be here for you

保持冷静和

and maybe you didn't realize but  being an adult has some advantages to

放松， 你 会

advantages like what I didn't  know it could have advantages

发现一切都会好起来的

of course it has for example if you  want to get money you could just work

例如，如果你想得到钱，你可以工作

and if you want to get more money you  will just have to work harder that's it

，如果你想得到更多的钱，你将不得不更加努力地工作，这是认真的哇，

seriously wow I haven't thought  about that before that's exciting

我之前没有想过这一点，这很令人兴奋

so if I have more money will I be able to buy  a car I mean I always wanted to buy my own car

，所以如果我有更多的钱，我会能够买车 我的意思是我一直想买我自己的车

exactly and not only your car you  will be able to buy whatever you want

，不仅仅是你的车你可以买任何你想要的

it will all depend on how hard you work but  that's one of the best parts of being an adult

这一切都取决于你工作的努力程度但这是一个成年人最好的部分之一

fantastic then if I have more money I  will travel around the world buy my house

太棒了，如果我有更多的钱，我会环游世界买我的房子

yeah but relax you can make  it possible of course you can

是的，但放轻松，你可以让它成为可能，当然你可以

but if you want to get all those  things you say it won't be easy at all

，但如果你想得到所有这些东西，你说这根本不是一件容易的事，

you will have to work hard and take the right  decisions but yeah you could have those things

你将拥有努力工作并做出正确的决定但是是的你可以拥有那些

I'm so excited now being an adult  it's not a science bad as I thought  

我很兴奋的 东西 现在成年了，这不是一门坏科学，正如我想的那样，

thank you Dad don't worry but the most important  thing is no matter how many mistakes you make

谢谢爸爸，别担心，但最重要的是，无论你犯了多少错误，都要

always remember your mother and I will be here  for you even if you make terrible mistakes

永远记住你的妈妈，即使你犯了可怕的错误，我也会在这里支持你，

we will always be here for you my son so  enjoy your life but also be responsible

我们我的儿子会永远在你身边所以享受你的生活但也要负责任是的

yes that that can I ask you  something it's important for me

那我可以问你一些对我来说很重要的事情

absolutely you can ask me  whatever you want what's that

绝对你可以问我任何你想要的那是什么

will you and mom love me even if I make a  lot of mistakes in the future I need to know

你和妈妈会爱我即使我赚了很多未来的错误我需要知道

what kind of question is that  of course will always love you

什么样的问题当然会永远爱你

now get dressed and go downstairs  everybody is waiting for you

现在穿好衣服下楼每个人都在等你

today is your birthday and you turn  18. we have to celebrate it very well

今天是你的生日你满 18 岁了。我们必须很好地庆祝它是

yes that thank you so much you are  the best dad I love you so much

的非常感谢你，你是最好的爸爸我非常爱你

I love you too son and I'm so proud of  you come on hurry up I hope you liked  

我也爱你儿子我为你感到骄傲快点我希望你喜欢

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