Practice English Conversation (My son is stressed and tired) Improve English Speaking Skills

as I was telling your son I got an email  from your mother she says she's okay in Paris  

正如我告诉你儿子的那样，我收到了你母亲发来的电子邮件，她说她在巴黎一切都好，

yeah okay that you know what  I have to go now take her

是的，你知道我要做什么，现在让她等一下，

wait why are you in a hurry come here  and sit down let's talk for a while

你为什么这么着急，来这里坐下来，让我们聊一会儿，

no I can't I have a lot of things  to do that I have to go now

不我不能 我有很多事情要做，我现在必须离开 有

a lot of things to do yeah I get it  but you haven't visited me in months

很多事情要做 是的，我明白了，但你已经几个月没有来看我了，

why don't you stay for a moment and maybe  then we can drink some beer what do you say

为什么你不留下来一会儿，也许然后我们可以喝点啤酒你说什么我

that I'm telling you I can't stay I have to  go to the bank and after that to the mall

告诉你我不能留下来我必须去银行然后去商场

to the bank don't tell me you asked  for another loan don't tell me son

去银行不要告诉我你要求另一笔贷款不要告诉我儿子，

yes of course I had to do it because we  had no money to pay for Mary's College

是的，我当然必须这样做，因为我们没有钱支付玛丽学院的费用

and after that I had to go to the mall to buy  some books for Jamie that's why I can't stay  

，之后我不得不去商场给杰米买一些书，这就是为什么我不能留下来，

I understand but you don't look  good you look very worried stressed

我明白，但你不看很好，你看起来很担心，压力很大，

I am worried and stressed that I have  a lot of things to do I told you that

我很担心，压力很大，我有很多事情要做，我告诉你，好吧，

okay relax take a little break and  let's talk about your problems okay

放松一下，休息一下，让我们谈谈你的问题，好吧，

don't you understand I can't I have  to go to the bank and then to the

你不明白吗，我不能，我必须走了去银行，然后去是

yeah I heard you to the bank and then to the  mall but we need to talk so that's what we'll do

的，我听到你去银行，然后去商场，但我们需要谈谈，这样我们就可以做得

fine what do you want to talk about about Mom

很好，你想谈谈妈妈的事吗？

no I want you to tell me about your problems  you're always running what's happening

不，我想让你告诉我你的事你总是在逃避发生的事情

I don't know I have to work harder now  than Mary is going to study at the college

我不知道我现在必须比玛丽要在大学学习更努力

Celia my wife also works full day and then  we both arrive home very late and very tired  

西莉亚 我的妻子也工作一整天 然后我们都很晚才回家而且很累

I'm so tired I sleep only three hours a  day I feel tired and sleepy all the time

我很累累 我每天只睡三个小时 我一直感觉又累又困

I got a second job the payment is not bad but  it's very stressful I finish work at night  

我找到了第二份工作 报酬还不错，但是压力很大 我晚上完成工作，

because I start work at seven in the morning and  then I have to leave at four in the afternoon

因为我早上七点开始工作，然后我必须离开下午四点

run to my other job and then I finish  work at 11 PM I arrived home at midnight

跑去我的另一份工作，然后我在晚上 11 点完成工作我半夜回到家

and then I have to wake up at three or four in  the morning because I need to check some emails

，然后我必须在凌晨三四点醒来，因为我需要检查一些电子邮件，

you know we started our own business last  year we don't have many customers yet but

你知道我们开始了自己的工作去年的生意我们还没有很多客户，但

we have to make calls send and reply emails  to get new clients I'm so tired of course  

我们必须打电话、发送和回复电子邮件才能获得新客户，我当然很累了，

Celia works part-time at the pharmacy and then  the rest of the time she works in the company

西莉亚在药房做兼职，然后剩下的时间她在药房工作在公司，

but she also ends up very tired and I understand  it's not easy to be checking emails every day  

但她最终也很累，我知道每天整天查看电子邮件，也

all day make calls all day too  but we have to keep working hard

整天打电话并不容易，但我们必须继续努力工作，

are you sure I'm in are you sure you  really have to work that hard son

你确定我在吗？你确定你真的必须工作吗？那个努力的儿子

what do you mean of course I have to do  it life is not easy and you know that

，你是什么意思，当然我必须这样做生活并不容易，你知道

I know but what I mean is why do you  work hard why do you both work hard

我知道，但我的意思是为什么你努力工作为什么你们俩都努力工作

why I'm telling you Mary  will study at the University

为什么我告诉你玛丽将在大学

also we bought a new car and we have to  pay for the house we bought five years ago

我们还买了一辆新车，我们必须支付五年前买的房子的费用，

all these things require a lot of money  that's why we need to work hard every day

所有这些东西都需要很多钱，这就是为什么我们需要每天努力工作，

I see but why do you want to make  a lot of money that's the question

我明白了，但是为什么你想赚很多钱钱，这就是问题，

don't you understand I'm telling you to  pay for the new car the house and so on

你不明白吗？我告诉你要付新车钱、房子钱等等，是的，

yes you already told me that but there is  one thing I really don't understand son

你已经告诉过我了，但有一件事我真的不明白，儿子，

you told me you work hard to get all these  things to be happy you have those things

你告诉我你努力工作是为了得到所有这些东西才能快乐你拥有这些东西

but I don't see you happy that's why I  don't understand you work hard to be happy

但我看不到你快乐这就是为什么我不明白你努力工作是为了快乐

but you are not happy then why do  you work hard every day to be happy

但你不快乐那为什么你每天努力工作是为了快乐

yeah now we have to work hard but maybe in  10 or 20 years we could save enough money to  

现在是的我们必须努力工作，但也许在 10 或 20 年内，我们可以存足够的钱

to travel around the world to buy a  bigger house or a better car to be happy

环游世界，购买更大的房子或更好的汽车，以便在 10 或 20 年后幸福，

in 10 or 20 years now you're  35 in 10 years you'll be 45.  

现在你在 10 年后就 35 岁了，你将45岁

and in 20 years you'll be almost  60. you won't be young anymore

。20年后你将接近60岁。你不再年轻了

I know that don't think I haven't  thought about it before because I have

我知道，我想我以前没有想过这个问题，因为我有过，

but what can I do should I quit my  jobs and close my company and then what

但如果我辞职我能做什么然后关闭我的公司，然后什么

no of course not I'm not telling you to  quit your job or the company don't do that

不，当然不是，我不是告诉你辞职，或者公司不这样做，

I'm just asking you to consider something is  it worth to spend years working hard like this  

我只是要求你考虑一些事情，是否值得像这样花费数年努力

to have more money and then start being happy  in 10 or 20 years is that really worth it

工作更多的钱，然后在 10 或 20 年后开始快乐，这真的很值得，

I did the same 40 years ago I was  your age and I wanted everything

我 40 年前也做过同样的事，我和你一样大，我想要一切，

a new card a beautiful house travel around  the world wanted to have a lot of money

一张新卡，一栋漂亮的房子，环游世界，想要有很多钱

and you made it you have a big house  you have a nice car and you have money

，你成功了，你有一座大房子，有一辆好车，你有钱

yes son but at what cost I think  I lost reaches years of my life  

是的，儿子，但我想我失去了生命中的岁月，

I worked all day I never had time to go  out or to travel 30 years working hard  

我整天工作，我从来没有时间出去或旅行，我努力工作了30年，

and when I got the money I was too  old to enjoy that money you see

当我拿到钱时，我已经太老了，无法享受这些钱了，你看

what I mean is don't quit your job  keep working hard work really hard

什么我的意思是不要辞职，继续努力工作，努力工作，

but don't wait till you have my age to  start living your life and to be happy Maybe

但不要等到我这个年纪才开始过你的生活并快乐也许

you don't need to have two jobs  maybe just one and your company

你不需要有两份工作，也许只需要一份工作和你的公司

maybe you don't need that luxury car or a  bigger house maybe you need less to be happy

也许你不需要那辆豪华车或更大的房子也许你需要更少的东西才能快乐

don't sacrifice your happiness  only to have money think about it

不要为了钱而牺牲你的快乐想想吧

I think I understand I get your point of  view maybe you're right I will think about it  

我想我理解我明白你的观点也许你是对的我会的想一想，

that's great and what about you did  you understand the idea let me know

这太棒了，你呢，你明白这个想法了吗，请告诉我，

I hope you liked this conversation if you  could improve your English a little more  

我希望你喜欢这个对话，如果你能再提高一点英语，

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to support this channel you can join  us or click on the super thanks button  

支持这个频道您可以加入我们或点击超级感谢按钮

thank you very much for your support take care

非常感谢您的支持保重