Family life conversation (My son doesn't want to get married) English Conversation Practice

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:01
Oscar your mother sent me to ask youย  if you're ready to Oscar what happened
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์˜ค์Šค์นด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ์˜ค์Šค์นด์— ๊ฐˆ ์ค€๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ €๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€
00:11
hello that I'm sorry I'mย  really sorry I can't do it
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ •๋ง ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:21
what do you mean you can't do itย  Oscar everyone is waiting for you
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๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์˜ค์Šค์นด ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:30
and why haven't you gotten dressedย  you're getting married in one hour
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์™œ ์˜ท ์•ˆ์ž…๊ณ  ํ•œ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋’ค์— ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
00:40
I know I know today is my wedding butย  I'm scared that I don't know what to do
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์˜ค๋Š˜์ด ๋‚ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์ธ๊ฑด ์•Œ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฒ๋‚˜์„œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒํ•ด์•ผ๋ ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์–ด
00:50
oh my boy I think we need to talkย  about what's happening let's see
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oh my boy ๋ฌด์Šจ์ผ์ธ์ง€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ด์•ผํ• ๊ฑฐ๊ฐ™์•„
01:00
all right tell me what'sย  happening why are you so scared
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋งํ•ด์ค˜ ์™œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์„œ์›Œ์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
01:09
that I'm scared I know I love Clara Iย  love her so much she's the love of my lifeย ย 
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๋ฌด์„œ์›Œํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๋‚œ ํด๋ผ๋ผ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•„ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ด ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋‚ด ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ด์•ผ
01:19
okay you love Clara we all know thatย  son you are one of the cutest couples
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์ข‹์•„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํด๋ผ๋ผ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ท€์—ฌ์šด ์ปคํ”Œ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:30
then what is the matter if you are so sure youย  love her why are you scared what's going onย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ™•์‹ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด ๋ฌธ์ œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์™œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
01:39
that's the thing I love her so much thatย  I want her to be happy the happiest womanย ย 
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๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ์—ฌ์ž
01:49
I want to make her happy but I'm not sure ifย  I'm the one the right one what if I mess it upย ย 
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ํ™•์‹คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งž๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–กํ•ด ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ์–ด๋–กํ•ด ๋‚œ
01:59
I'm in my 20s is it still too earlyย  to get married am I making a mistake
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20๋Œ€์ธ๋ฐ ์•„์ง ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ธฐ์—” ์ด๋ฅธ๊ฑด์ง€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ•œ๊ฑด์ง€ ์ฃผ์—ฐ์„ ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฑด์ง€
02:09
I'm about to start my own familyย  children a new house a dog oh damn
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t ๋‚ด ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์•„์ด๋“ค ์ƒˆ ์ง‘ ๊ฐœ ์˜ค ์  ์žฅ
02:18
okay stop that now Oscar what you'reย  feeling now is something very normal son
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„ ์ด์ œ ์˜ค์Šค์นด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„์ฃผ ํ‰๋ฒ”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์•„๋“ค ๋‹น์‹ ์€
02:29
you just got cold feet that'sย  it I don't think it's gamophobia
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๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋ฐœ์ด ์ฐจ๊ฐ€์›Œ์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:38
gamophobia what is that am Iย  sick or is something like that
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02:49
of course not gamophobia is aย  fear of commitment or marriage
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๋™์„ฑ์•  ๊ณตํฌ์ฆ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ—Œ์‹ ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
02:58
but that's not your case I told you youย  just got cold feet and that's normal
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋ฐœ์ด ์ฐจ๊ฐ€์›Œ์กŒ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:08
you feel too frightened to do something thatย  you had planned to do something important
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ณ„ํšํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ์—๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋‘๋ ต๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:18
but let me tell you something I alsoย  got cold feet before getting married
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ˆ ๋ญ์•ผ ๋‚˜๋„ ์ง„์ง€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋ƒ‰์ •ํ•ด์กŒ๋Š”๋ฐ
03:28
seriously but you and Mom youย  have an awesome marriage life
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๋„ˆ์™€ ์—„๋งˆ๋Š” ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ƒํ™œ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด
03:38
you love each other so much that I alwaysย  dreamed of having a marriage like yours
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์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ด์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋„ˆ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ๊ฟˆ๊ฟจ์–ด
03:48
well we've been together for more than 30 yearsย  and hasn't been easy but we love each other
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๋ญ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” 30๋…„ ๋„˜๊ฒŒ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ–ˆ๊ณ  ์‰ฝ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์„œ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
03:58
but as I was telling you I was alsoย  frightened one day before getting married
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๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฐ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์ €๋„ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ํ•˜๋ฃจ ์ „์—๋Š” ๊ฒ์ด ๋‚ฌ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋•Œ
04:07
my dad came to me and talked to me backย  then and he gave me some tips about marriage
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์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ์˜ค์…”์„œ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์‹œ ๋”๋‹ˆ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํŒ์„
04:17
and now I will tell you the same thingsย  he told me back then also my experience
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์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ์…จ์–ด์š”. ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋‹น์‹œ ์ œ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด
04:27
the first thing you should understand isย  that marriage is not easy it's not perfect
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋จผ์ € ์ดํ•ดํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์ด ์‰ฝ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:37
you will have arguments many times butย  you will have to talk about those problems
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋ฒˆ ๋…ผ์Ÿ์„ ๋ฒŒ์ด๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:47
because that's the key to have a goodย  marriage communication you understand
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04:57
I understand Clara and I always tryย  to talk when something bothers us
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๋‚˜๋Š” ํด๋ผ๋ผ๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ํ•ญ์ƒ
05:07
that's great now that you live with herย  those arguments will probably more oftenย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋…€์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ดด๋กญํžˆ๋Š” ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋งํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋…ผ์Ÿ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋” ์ž์ฃผ
05:17
but if you learn how to communicate well youย  won't have any problem solving that issue
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์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:27
with love and good communication I'mย  sure you'll have a great relationship son
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ™•์‹ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
that's it it's not all I have to doย  to have a perfect marriage like yours
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ƒํ™œ์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ „๋ถ€๋Š” ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:47
well there are some other things you shouldย  do if you want to improve your relationship
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜
05:56
for example you can tell your spouse thatย  you're thankful for having her in your life
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๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:06
appreciate each other your relationshipย  your family and your lives together always
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06:16
show gratitude when your partnerย  cooks dinner helps the kids withย ย 
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์•„์ด๋“ค์€
06:22
their homework or does the grocery shoppingย ย 
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์ˆ™์ œ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์‹๋ฃŒํ’ˆ ์‡ผํ•‘์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:26
take a few minutes each evening to tell eachย  other at least one thing you appreciated that dayย ย 
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๋งค์ผ ์ €๋… ๋ช‡ ๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋‚  ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•œ ์ ์„ ์„œ๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ์ ์–ด๋„ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋ฉด
06:36
that will help you have a better relationship andย  your partner will feel you really appreciate her
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๋” ๋‚˜์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๊ณ  ํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์ •๋ง ๊ณ ๋ง™๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:46
I like that I love Clara so much I tell herย  I love her every day and that I'm so lucky
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ํด๋ผ๋ผ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งค์ผ ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ 
06:56
well keep doing that then alsoย  make time for you as a couple
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๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ์šด์ด ์ข‹๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ง์žฅ๊ณผ ๊ฐ€์กฑ ์ฑ…์ž„์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ€๋กœ์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:06
with work and family responsibilitiesย  it can be easy to lose the Romans Factor
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07:16
plan special dates either to go out or justย  stay at home but always spend time together
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์™ธ์ถœํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง‘์— ์žˆ์œผ๋˜ ์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํ•ญ์ƒ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
07:26
if you have children send them on a play dateย  while you relax talk and enjoy each other'sย ย 
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์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ž๋…€๋ฅผ ๋†€์ด ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ์— ๋ณด๋‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ํœด์‹์„ ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ  ์„œ๋กœ์˜
07:34
company many people believe that because theyย  have children they have to forget about Romans
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ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ฆ๊ธฐ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋กœ๋งˆ์„œ๋ฅผ ์žŠ์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ
07:46
and that's not true you're a still husbandย  and wife and you have to show your love
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์ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๋‚จํŽธ ๊ณผ ์•„๋‚ด์ด๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์•ผ
07:55
but what is also so important is to planย  for some personal time just for yourself
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋˜ํ•œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€
08:06
alone time is just as important as coupleย  time everyone needs time to rechurch thinkย ย 
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ํ˜ผ์ž๋งŒ์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๊ณ„ํšํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ถ€๋ถ€์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋งŒํผ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. o ์žฌ๊ตํšŒ๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํŠนํžˆ ์ž๋…€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
08:15
or just enjoy personal interests thatย  time is often lost when you're married
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•  ๋•Œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ญ๋น„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์ฆ๊ธฐ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
08:25
especially if you have kids go out withย  friends take a class or do volunteer work
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์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋“ฃ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ด‰์‚ฌ ํ™œ๋™์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:35
whatever you find enriching when you're backย ย 
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08:39
together with your spouse you'llย  appreciate each other even more
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08:46
that kind of makes sense we have talkedย  about that and we have our own friends too
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ดํ•ด๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์ดํ•ด๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋™์˜
08:55
that's good also you need toย  understand that it's okay to disagree
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ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:05
you won't agree on everything but it is importantย  to be fair and respectful during disagreements
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ๊ณต์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ ๋ถˆ์ผ์น˜ ์ค‘์—
09:15
listen to your exposed pointย  of view try not to get angryย ย 
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๋…ธ์ถœ๋œ ๊ด€์ ์— ๊ท€๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๊ณ  ํ™”๋‚ด์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ๋…ธ๋ ฅ
09:19
and don't let yourself become too frustrated
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ขŒ์ ˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
09:25
walk away and calm down if you needย  to then discuss the problem again
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ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋น„์šฐ๊ณ  ์ง„์ •ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋…ผ์˜ํ•˜์—ฌ
09:34
compromise on problems so that you bothย  give a little remember that now you are one
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๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•˜๋‚˜
09:45
and you have to solve your problemsย  as a couple oh also build trust
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์ด๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ถ€๋กœ์„œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค ๋˜ํ•œ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค ์ด
09:54
the more you engage in this destructiveย  activities the more likely you are to divorce
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ํŒŒ๊ดด์ ์ธ ํ™œ๋™์— ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ์ฐธ์—ฌํ• ์ˆ˜๋ก ์ดํ˜ผํ•  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ๋†’์•„์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:04
you have to take responsibility forย  your actions always it's very important
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ฑ…์ž„์„ ์ ธ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค yo ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ–‰๋™์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:14
do not blame just your wife when you fightย  because you probably has responsibility to
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์‹ธ์šธ ๋•Œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์•„๋‚ด๋งŒ์„ ๋น„๋‚œํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š” ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋งˆ ์ฑ…์ž„์ด
10:24
and last but not least you should learn toย  forgive that's something really important
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์žˆ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์ ์–ด๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์šฉ์„œํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
10:34
everyone makes mistakes your spouse may hurtย  your feelings or do something that upsets you
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๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ์ €์ง€๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ƒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:44
and that may make you angry even Furious butย  it's important to deal with your feelings
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ถ„๋…ธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๋‹ค๋ฃจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ฐ์ •์„
10:54
let them go and move on don't keepย  bringing up the past it doesn't work
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๋†“์•„์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์† ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋ฅผ ๊บผ๋‚ด์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:04
remember to remain committed to your expose yourย  family and the life that you have built together
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์‚ถ์„ ํญ๋กœํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š”
11:14
support each other emotionally andย  in everyday ways support your spouse
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์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ์ •์„œ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ง€์›ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ผ์ƒ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž๋ฅผ ์ง€์›ํ•˜๊ธฐ
11:24
you you're exposed and your relationship Mayย  grow and change with the time that's for sure
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๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ง€๋‚จ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์„ฑ์žฅํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ณ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜
11:33
but these ideas can help your marriage stayย  successful over the years like your mom and me
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋Š” ๋‹น์‹  ์˜ ์—„๋งˆ์™€ ๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ช‡ ๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ƒํ™œ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:43
wow you know a lot thank you so much thatย  I think I feel much better now thank youย ย 
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๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ด์ œ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋‚˜์•„์ง„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š” ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:53
remember I will always be here for you my sonย  and now get up and get ready to get marriedย ย 
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ์•„๋“ค์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์„ธ์š” ์ด์ œ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์„œ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•  ์ค€๋น„๋ฅผ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”
12:03
you're right that I will get dressed rightย  now I will be the best husband in the world
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y ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์˜ท์„ ์ž…์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์ด ๋งž์•„์š” I will be the best husband in the world
12:13
you mean the second best husbandย  because I am the best one
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you means the second best husband because I am the best one
12:23
I hope you liked this conversation if youย  could improve your English a little moreย ย 
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์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํ–ฅ์ƒ๋œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“ค์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด
12:28
please subscribe to the channel and shareย  this video with a friend and if you wantย ย 
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์ข‹๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ฑ„๋„์—์„œ ์ด ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
12:32
to support this channel you can joinย  us or click on the super thanks buttonย ย 
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์ด ์ฑ„๋„์„ ์ง€์›ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ฐ€์ž… ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์Šˆํผ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ๋ฒ„ํŠผ์„ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
12:39
thank you very much for your support take care
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์ง€์›ํ•ด ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๋Œ€๋‹จํžˆ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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