Family life conversation (My son doesn't want to get married) English Conversation Practice

Oscar your mother sent me to ask you  if you're ready to Oscar what happened

Oscar pinadala ako ng nanay mo para tanungin ka kung handa ka na ba Oscar anong nangyari

hello that I'm sorry I'm  really sorry I can't do it

hello that I'm sorry sorry talaga hindi ko na kaya

what do you mean you can't do it  Oscar everyone is waiting for you

ang ibig mong sabihin hindi mo na kaya Oscar lahat naghihintay sayo

and why haven't you gotten dressed  you're getting married in one hour

at bakit hindi ka pa nagbibihis ikakasal ka na sa loob ng isang oras

I know I know today is my wedding but  I'm scared that I don't know what to do

alam kong ngayon ang kasal ko pero natatakot ako na hindi ko alam ang gagawin

oh my boy I think we need to talk  about what's happening let's see

oh my boy I think we need to talk about what's happening. tara na sige

all right tell me what's  happening why are you so scared

sabihin mo sakin kung anong nangyayari bakit takot na takot ka

that I'm scared I know I love Clara I  love her so much she's the love of my life  

na takot ako alam ko mahal ko si Clara mahal na mahal ko sya love of my life

okay you love Clara we all know that  son you are one of the cutest couples

okay you love Clara alam naman nating lahat yan anak isa ka sa pinaka cute na mag asawa.

then what is the matter if you are so sure you  love her why are you scared what's going on  

saka ano bang problema kung sigurado kang mahal mo siya bakit ka natatakot sa nangyayari yun yung

that's the thing I love her so much that  I want her to be happy the happiest woman  

bagay na mahal na mahal ko siya na gusto ko siyang maging masaya yung pinaka masayang babae

I want to make her happy but I'm not sure if  I'm the one the right one what if I mess it up  

gusto ko siyang pasayahin pero hindi ako sigurado. kung ako ang tama paano kung guluhin ko

I'm in my 20s is it still too early  to get married am I making a mistake

nasa 20s na ako masyado pang maaga para magpakasal nagkakamali ba ako

I'm about to start my own family  children a new house a dog oh damn

bubuo na ako ng sarili kong anak. ren a new house a dog oh damn

okay stop that now Oscar what you're  feeling now is something very normal son

okay stop that now Oscar what you're feeling now is something very normal son

you just got cold feet that's  it I don't think it's gamophobia

nanlamig ka lang paa ayan na di ko akalain na gamophobia

gamophobia what is that am I  sick or is something like that

gamophobia ano yun may sakit ba ako o may ganyan.

of course not gamophobia is a  fear of commitment or marriage

of course not gamophobia is a fear of commitment or marriage

but that's not your case I told you you  just got cold feet and that's normal

but that's not your case sabi ko naman sayo nanlamig ka lang at normal lang yun na

you feel too frightened to do something that  you had planned to do something important

sobrang takot kang gumawa ng isang bagay na may plano kang gawin na importante

but let me tell you something I also  got cold feet before getting married

pero hayaan mo akong may sabihin din sayo. got cold feet before married

seriously but you and Mom you  have an awesome marriage life

seriously but you and Mom you have a awesome marriage life

you love each other so much that I always  dreamed of having a marriage like yours

mahal na mahal niyo ang isa't isa kaya lagi kong pinangarap na magkaroon ng kasal na tulad mo

well we've been together for more than 30 years  and hasn't been easy but we love each other

well more than 30 years na tayo at hindi naging madali but we love each other

but as I was telling you I was also  frightened one day before getting married

but as I was telling you natakot din ako nung isang araw bago ako ikasal

my dad came to me and talked to me back  then and he gave me some tips about marriage

lumapit sakin si papa at kinausap ako noon at binigyan niya ako ng tips about marriage

and now I will tell you the same things  he told me back then also my experience

and now I will tell you the same things he told ako noon din expe ko rience

the first thing you should understand is  that marriage is not easy it's not perfect

ang unang bagay na dapat mong intindihin ay hindi madali ang pag-aasawa hindi ito perpekto

you will have arguments many times but  you will have to talk about those problems

magkakaroon ka ng mga pagtatalo ng maraming beses ngunit kailangan mong pag-usapan ang mga problemang iyon

because that's the key to have a good  marriage communication you understand

dahil iyon ang susi upang magkaroon ng magandang komunikasyon sa pag-aasawa naiintindihan mo naiintindihan ko si

I understand Clara and I always try  to talk when something bothers us

Clara at palagi kong sinusubukan na makipag-usap kapag may nakakaabala sa atin

that's great now that you live with her  those arguments will probably more often  

na maganda ngayong nakatira ka sa kanya ang mga pagtatalo na iyon ay malamang na mas madalas

but if you learn how to communicate well you  won't have any problem solving that issue

ngunit kung matututo ka kung paano makipag-usap nang maayos hindi ka magkakaroon ng anumang problema sa paglutas ng isyu na iyon

with love and good communication I'm  sure you'll have a great relationship son

sa pamamagitan ng pag-ibig at mabuting komunikasyon. have a great relationship son

that's it it's not all I have to do  to have a perfect marriage like yours

hindi lang yun ang kailangan kong gawin para magkaroon ng perfect marriage like yours

well there are some other things you should  do if you want to improve your relationship

well there are some other things you should do if you want to improve your relationship

for example you can tell your spouse that  you're thankful for having her in your life

for example you can tell your spouse that you're thankful for Ang pagkakaroon niya sa iyong buhay

appreciate each other your relationship  your family and your lives together always

ay pinahahalagahan ang iyong relasyon ang iyong pamilya at ang iyong buhay na magkasama ay palaging

show gratitude when your partner  cooks dinner helps the kids with  

nagpapakita ng pasasalamat kapag ang iyong kapareha ay nagluluto ng hapunan ay tumutulong sa mga bata sa

their homework or does the grocery shopping  

kanilang araling-bahay o nag-grocery sh opping

take a few minutes each evening to tell each  other at least one thing you appreciated that day  

maglaan ng ilang minuto bawat gabi para sabihin sa isa't isa kahit man lang isang bagay na pinahahalagahan mo noong araw na iyon

that will help you have a better relationship and  your partner will feel you really appreciate her

na makakatulong sa iyong magkaroon ng mas mabuting relasyon at mararamdaman ng iyong partner na talagang pinahahalagahan mo siya

I like that I love Clara so much I tell her  I love her every day and that I'm so lucky

Gusto ko na mahal na mahal ko si Clara sinasabi ko sa kanya na mahal ko siya araw-araw at napakaswerte ko

well keep doing that then also  make time for you as a couple

na ipagpatuloy mo iyan pagkatapos ay maglaan ka rin ng oras para sa iyo bilang mag-asawa

with work and family responsibilities  it can be easy to lose the Romans Factor

na may mga responsibilidad sa trabaho at pamilya, madaling mawala ang

plan special dates either to go out or just  stay at home but always spend time together

plano ng Romans Factor na mga espesyal na petsa para lumabas o manatili lang sa bahay ngunit palaging gumugol ng oras na magkasama

if you have children send them on a play date  while you relax talk and enjoy each other's  

kung mayroon kang mga anak na pinadalhan sila sa isang petsa ng paglalaro habang ikaw ay nakakarelaks na nag-uusap at nag-e-enjoy sa isa't isa

company many people believe that because they  have children they have to forget about Romans

maraming tao ang naniniwala na dahil may mga anak sila kailangan nilang kalimutan ang tungkol sa mga Romano

and that's not true you're a still husband  and wife and you have to show your love

at hindi iyon totoo ikaw ay mag-asawa pa rin at ikaw kailangan mong ipakita ang iyong pagmamahal

but what is also so important is to plan  for some personal time just for yourself

ngunit ang mahalaga din ay ang magplano para sa ilang personal na oras para lamang sa iyong sarili na

alone time is just as important as couple  time everyone needs time to rechurch think  

mag-isa ang oras ay kasinghalaga ng oras ng mag-asawa na kailangan ng lahat ng oras upang muling mag-isip

or just enjoy personal interests that  time is often lost when you're married

o magsaya sa mga personal na interes na ang oras ay madalas nawala kapag may asawa ka

especially if you have kids go out with  friends take a class or do volunteer work

lalo na kung mayroon kang mga anak na lumalabas kasama ang mga kaibigan na magklase o magboluntaryo

whatever you find enriching when you're back  

kahit anong makita mong nakakapagpayaman kapag nagkabalikan na kayo

together with your spouse you'll  appreciate each other even more

ng asawa mo mas pahahalagahan nyo ang isa't isa

that kind of makes sense we have talked  about that and we have our own friends too

that kind of sense napag usapan na namin yan at may sarili din kaming mga kaibigan

that's good also you need to  understand that it's okay to disagree

buti din yun kailangan mong intindihin na okay lang na hindi magkasundo.

you won't agree on everything but it is important  to be fair and respectful during disagreements

hindi ka sasang-ayon sa lahat ng bagay ngunit mahalaga na maging patas at magalang sa panahon ng mga hindi pagkakasundo

listen to your exposed point  of view try not to get angry  

makinig sa iyong nakalantad na pananaw subukang huwag magalit

and don't let yourself become too frustrated

at huwag hayaan ang iyong sarili na maging masyadong bigo

walk away and calm down if you need  to then discuss the problem again

lumayo at huminahon kung kailangan mong pag-usapan. ang problema ay muling

compromise on problems so that you both  give a little remember that now you are one

ikompromiso ang mga problema upang pareho kayong magbigay ng kaunti tandaan na ngayon ay isa na kayo

and you have to solve your problems  as a couple oh also build trust

at kailangan ninyong lutasin ang inyong mga problema bilang mag-asawa oh bumuo din ng tiwala

the more you engage in this destructive  activities the more likely you are to divorce

kapag mas marami kayong nakikibahagi sa mga mapanirang aktibidad na ito, mas malamang na kayo ay maghiwalay

you have to take responsibility for  your actions always it's very important

. to take responsibility for your actions always it's very important

do not blame just your wife when you fight  because you probably has responsibility to

wag mo lang sisihin ang asawa mo kapag nag-aaway kayo dahil malamang may responsibilidad ka

and last but not least you should learn to  forgive that's something really important

at last but not least you should learn to forgive that's something re kakampi mahalaga

everyone makes mistakes your spouse may hurt  your feelings or do something that upsets you

lahat ng tao ay nagkakamali ang iyong asawa ay maaaring makasakit sa iyong damdamin o gumawa ng isang bagay na ikagagalit mo

and that may make you angry even Furious but  it's important to deal with your feelings

at maaaring ikagalit mo kahit Galit na galit ngunit mahalaga na harapin ang iyong nararamdaman

let them go and move on don't keep  bringing up the past it doesn't work

hayaan mo sila at magpatuloy huwag mo nang ibalik ang nakaraan ito ay ' huwag magtrabaho

remember to remain committed to your expose your  family and the life that you have built together

tandaan na manatiling nakatuon sa iyong ilantad ang iyong pamilya at ang buhay na binuo mo nang sama-sama

support each other emotionally and  in everyday ways support your spouse

suportahan ang isa't isa sa emosyonal at sa araw-araw na paraan suportahan ang iyong asawa

you you're exposed and your relationship May  grow and change with the time that's for sure

ikaw ay nalantad at ang iyong relasyon ay maaaring lumago at magbago sa oras na tiyak

but these ideas can help your marriage stay  successful over the years like your mom and me

ngunit ito Ang mga ideya ay maaaring makatulong sa iyong pagsasama na manatiling matagumpay sa paglipas ng mga taon tulad ng iyong ina at ako

wow you know a lot thank you so much that  I think I feel much better now thank you  

wow marami kang alam salamat sa iyo kaya sa tingin ko ay mas gumaan ang pakiramdam ko ngayon salamat tandaan mo

remember I will always be here for you my son  and now get up and get ready to get married  

lagi akong nandito para sa iyo aking anak at ngayon bumangon ka at bumangon ready to get married

you're right that I will get dressed right  now I will be the best husband in the world

tama ka na magbibihis na ako ngayon ako na ang magiging pinakamagandang asawa sa buong mundo

you mean the second best husband  because I am the best one

you mean the second best husband because I am the best one

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