Conversation Skills: DON'T BE SHY!

3,479,195 views ・ 2014-09-22

English with Ronnie


μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

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Hi, there. My name is Ronnie. Today, I'm going to teach you something very fun and exciting
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μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 제 이름은 λ‘œλ‹ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 였늘 μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ 맀우 재미있고 μ‹ λ‚˜κ³  μ€‘μš”ν•œ 것을 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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and important. It's how to improve your speaking. Whether you're speaking English or whether
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. λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό ν–₯μƒμ‹œν‚€λŠ” λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신이 μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ λ§ν•˜λ“ ,
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you're doing public speaking in front of people or whether you're just speaking to a neighbor,
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€ μ•žμ—μ„œ 연섀을 ν•˜λ“ , 이웃,
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someone on the bus, someone in a store, or a taxi driver, you might be shy. What does
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λ²„μŠ€μ— μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ, 상점에 μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ, νƒμ‹œ μš΄μ „μ‚¬μ—κ²Œ 말을 ν•˜λ“ , 당신은 수쀍음이 λ§Žμ„ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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"shy" mean? "Shy" means you don't like -- or you're nervous -- to speak to strangers or
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"μˆ˜μ€λ‹€"은(λŠ”) 무슨 λœ»μΈκ°€μš”? "μˆ˜μ€μ€"은 λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λ‚˜
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to speak to other people. So if you are naturally a shy person, I'm sure you've heard people
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ κΈ΄μž₯ν•œλ‹€λŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ”°λΌμ„œ 당신이 μ²œμ„±μ μœΌλ‘œ 수쀍음이 λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄
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over and over again say, "Don't be shy! Come on. Don't be shy!" Easier said than done,
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"λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”! μ–΄μ„œ . λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”! "λΌλŠ” 말을 λ°˜λ³΅ν•΄μ„œ λ“€μ—ˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 말처럼 쉽지
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isn't it, shy people? So I want to give you some tips or some pointers maybe to help you
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μ•Šμ£ , μˆ˜μ€μ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€? κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 덜 λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 될 수 μžˆλŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 νŒμ΄λ‚˜ 쑰언을 λ“œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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to be less shy. It's impossible to be 100 percent outgoing if you are naturally a shy
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. νƒ€κ³ λ‚œ μ†Œμ‹¬ν•œ 성격이라면 100% μ™Έν–₯μ μ΄κΈ°λŠ” λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•˜λ‹€
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person.
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.
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So today's lesson is how you improve your speaking. Don't be shy!
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 였늘의 μˆ˜μ—…μ€ λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό ν–₯μƒμ‹œν‚€λŠ” λ°©λ²•μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”!
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The first thing that you have to do is think about why. "Why am I shy?" There may be many
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κ°€μž₯ λ¨Όμ € ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일은 κ·Έ μ΄μœ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . "λ‚΄κ°€ μ™œ λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œ?" μ—¬λŸ¬ 가지 μ΄μœ κ°€ μžˆμ„ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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different reasons. I'm just going to go through a couple of them. The number one reason, probably,
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. λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ“€ 쀑 λͺ‡ 가지λ₯Ό μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³Ό κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이 λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ₯Ό 보고 μžˆλŠ” κ°€μž₯ 큰 μ΄μœ λŠ” μ•„λ§ˆλ„
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if you're watching these videos, is because you are trying to speak a new language. Maybe
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μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό λ§ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬ΈμΌ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ§ˆλ„
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it is English. And you are shy to make a mistake. You don't want to say something bad, funny,
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μ˜μ–΄ 일 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 당신은 μ‹€μˆ˜ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜μ˜κ³ , 웃기고,
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rude, embarrassing. You don't want your face to go red and they'll go, "Ha ha! You said
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λ¬΄λ‘€ν•˜κ³ , λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μš΄ 말을 ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 얼꡴이 λΆ‰μ–΄μ§€λŠ” 것을 μ›ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌλ©° 그듀은 "ν•˜ν•˜! 당신은
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a funny word!" Okay. That will happen. And you know what? Who cares? It happens all the
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μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” 단어λ₯Ό λ§ν–ˆλ‹€!" μ’‹μ•„μš”. κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„? 무슨 상관이야? 항상 λ°œμƒν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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time. I say funny things a lot, too.
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. 웃긴 μ–˜κΈ°λ„ 많이 ν•œλ‹€.
02:15
Another reason why you may be shy is because you "talk funny". Lots of people have different
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당신이 λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜λŠ” 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ΄μœ λŠ” 당신이 "재미있게 λ§ν•˜κΈ°" λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄
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problems with their mouths. Some people have a speech impediment. Some people have a lisp,
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μž…μ— λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ 문제λ₯Ό 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ–Έμ–΄ μž₯μ• κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ ν˜€κ°€ μžˆμ–΄μ„œ
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so they don't pronounce words probably like me. Maybe you have a very strange or different
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μ €μ²˜λŸΌ 단어λ₯Ό λ°œμŒν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•„λ§ˆλ„ 당신은 μ£Όλ³€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό 맀우 μ΄μƒν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ λ‹€λ₯Έ 얡양을 가지고 μžˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
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accent than the other people around you. People often ask me, "Ronnie, where are you from?"
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. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ’…μ’… "λ‘œλ‹ˆ, μ–΄λ””μ„œ μ™”λ‹ˆ?"라고 λ¬»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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And I say, "Canada." And they say, "No, you're not." "Yes, I am." "But you have an accent."
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그리고 μ €λŠ” "μΊλ‚˜λ‹€"라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 그듀은 "μ•„λ‹ˆμš”, 당신은 μ•„λ‹ˆμ—μš”."라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "예, κ·Έλ ‡μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€." "ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신은 μ•…μ„ΌνŠΈκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€."
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"Yes. I have an accent. I talk funny. Who cares? I'm from Canada. Nice to meet you."
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"λ„€. μ €λŠ” 얡양이 μžˆμ–΄μš”. μ €λŠ” μ›ƒκΈ°κ²Œ λ§ν•΄μš”. λˆ„κ°€ μ‹ κ²½ μ“°κ² μ–΄μš”? μ €λŠ” μΊλ‚˜λ‹€μ—μ„œ μ™”μ–΄μš”. λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ λ°˜κ°€μ›Œμš”."
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So even if you do talk funny or you do have an accent, rock with it. Yeah. You speak differently.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ 당신이 μ›ƒκΈ°κ²Œ λ§ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ μ•…μ„ΌνŠΈκ°€ μžˆλ”λΌλ„ 그걸둜 ν”λ“œμ„Έμš”. 응. 당신은 λ‹€λ₯΄κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:08
Good. Don't be like other people. Other people are boring.
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쒋은. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ²˜λŸΌ λ˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ§€λ£¨ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:13
This is a problem. Maybe you just don't like to talk. Okay? Maybe you are quiet. Maybe
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이것은 λ¬Έμ œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ’‹μ•„μš”? μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 μ‘°μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:20
you don't want to talk to anyone ever, at all. That's cool. If you don't like people
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λˆ„κ΅¬μ™€λ„ μ „ν˜€ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ©‹μ§€λ„€μš”. μ‚¬λžŒλ„ μ‹«κ³ 
03:27
and you don't like to talk, don't force yourself to talk. Maybe you could write something.
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λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ„ μ‹«λ‹€λ©΄ μ–΅μ§€λ‘œ 말을 μ‹œν‚€μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”. μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ 당신은 λ­”κ°€λ₯Ό μ“Έ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:33
Maybe you could text message or email someone. But that's not going to improve your speaking.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ 문자 λ©”μ‹œμ§€λ₯Ό λ³΄λ‚΄κ±°λ‚˜ 이메일을 보낼 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ 그것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ₯Ό ν–₯μƒμ‹œν‚€μ§€ μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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If you do not like to talk to people, that's your choice. But I'm trying to help you overcome
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ 그것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ„ νƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 μˆ˜μ€μŒμ„ κ·Ήλ³΅ν•˜λ„λ‘ λ•κ³ μž λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
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your shyness. So let's go through a couple ways to actually do this. Don't be shy!
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. μ‹€μ œλ‘œ 이λ₯Ό μˆ˜ν–‰ν•˜λŠ” λͺ‡ 가지 방법을 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”!
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Just say, "Hi!" So if you're standing at a bus stop or the subway station or anywhere,
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"μ•ˆλ…•!" κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Œμ•½ 당신이 λ²„μŠ€ μ •λ₯˜μž₯μ΄λ‚˜ μ§€ν•˜μ² μ—­μ— μ„œ 있고
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and there's another human being beside you -- let's say that you're at a bar, and there's
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λ‹Ήμ‹  μ˜†μ— λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ -- 당신이 바에 있고 거기에
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a beautiful girl or a very handsome boy. The quickest, the easiest, and the best way to
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μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ μ†Œλ…€λ‚˜ μ•„μ£Ό μž˜μƒκΈ΄ μ†Œλ…„μ΄ μžˆλ‹€κ³  ν•©μ‹œλ‹€. λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ λŒ€ν™”ν•˜λŠ” κ°€μž₯ λΉ λ₯΄κ³  쉽고 κ°€μž₯ 쒋은 방법은
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speak to someone is just to say, "Hi! My name is Ronnie." Don't use "Ronnie", though. That's
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"μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”! 제 이름은 λ‘œλ‹ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ "Ronnie"λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. 그게
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my name. You have to use your name. So just say "hi" to people. If they want to speak
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λ‚΄ 이름이야. 당신은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 이름을 μ‚¬μš©ν•΄μ•Όν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”"라고 λ§ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 그듀이
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to you, they will start the conversation. They will say, "Oh, hi. My name is --. Nice
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άλ‹€λ©΄ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 제 이름은 --μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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to meet you." "Oh, nice to meet you, too." Uh-oh! And then, your shyness sets in because
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λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ λ°˜κ°€μ›Œμš”." "μ•„, 저도 λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ λ°˜κ°€μ›Œμš”." μ–΄ 였! 그리고 λ‚˜μ„œ, λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 수쀍음이 μ‹œμž‘λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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-- "What do I say? Shoes. I have shoes. Do you have shoes? Oh, God. I'm such an idiot.
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I can't even speak." Maybe the other person will have asked you a person. You can always
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. μ•„λ§ˆλ„ μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ¬Όμ—ˆμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 항상
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ask people basic questions, like, "Where are you from? Why do you talk funny? Why are you
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ "μ–΄λ””μ„œ μ™”μ–΄? μ™œ μ›ƒκΈ°λ‹ˆ? μ™œ
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shy?" All those fun questions.
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λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•΄?"와 같은 기본적인 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έ λͺ¨λ“  μž¬λ―ΈμžˆλŠ” 질문.
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When you're actually speaking to someone, it's really important that you choose a topic
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μ‹€μ œλ‘œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ λŒ€ν™”ν•  λ•Œ μžμ‹ μ΄ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 주제λ₯Ό μ„ νƒν•˜λŠ” 것이 정말 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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that you like. So if I were to meet someone -- "Hi. My name is Ronnie." "Hi." "Cool. So
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. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ œκ°€ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚œλ‹€λ©΄ -- "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 제 이름은 λ‘œλ‹ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€." "μ•ˆλ…•." "멋지닀. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ
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-- oh, I like music. Do you like the Sex Pistols?" "Yeah." "Me, too. Oh, my God. No way! What
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-- 였, λ‚˜λŠ” μŒμ•…μ„ μ’‹μ•„ν•œλ‹€. μ„ΉμŠ€ ν”ΌμŠ€ν†¨μ¦ˆλ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λ‹ˆ?" "응." "λ‚˜λ„. λ§™μ†Œμ‚¬. μ•ˆλΌ!
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other kind of music to you like?" So I like to talk to people about music. The only problem
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λ‹€λ₯Έ μ–΄λ–€ μŒμ•…μ„ μ’‹μ•„ν•΄?" κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μŒμ•…μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μœ μΌν•œ λ¬Έμ œλŠ”
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is not a lot of people like the same music I do. So you have to choose a topic that you
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λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ‚΄κ°€ ν•˜λŠ” 것과 같은 μŒμ•…μ„ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . λ”°λΌμ„œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢은 주제λ₯Ό 선택해야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
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like to talk about. If you're lucky, the other person will also like the topic.
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. 운이 μ’‹μœΌλ©΄ μƒλŒ€λ°©λ„ κ·Έ 주제λ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
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The next one: Get a job. Now, this might be very strange for you to even comprehend, but
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λ‹€μŒ 것: 직업을 κ΅¬ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 자, 이것은 당신이 μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κΈ°μ‘°μ°¨ 맀우 이상할 수 μžˆμ§€λ§Œ,
06:04
I -- right here -- am shy. When I was a child, I wasn't shy. I would do anything and go anywhere.
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μ €λŠ” λ°”λ‘œ μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 어렸을 λ•Œ λ‚˜λŠ” λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›€μ΄ μ—†μ—ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” 무엇이든 ν•  것이고 μ–΄λ””λ“  갈 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:12
But as I got older -- high school, university -- I just didn't want to talk to people. I
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 고등학ꡐ, λŒ€ν•™κ΅λ₯Ό λ‹€λ‹ˆλ©΄μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:19
think people are boring, and I'd rather think by myself and think about things. So I became
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ§€λ£¨ν•˜λ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜κ³ , 차라리 혼자 μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  이것저것 μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ” 편이 λ‚«λ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ
06:26
shy. I didn't want to talk to people. People would talk to me, and I'd rather be, like,
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λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œμ‘ŒμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ €μ—κ²Œ 말을 κ±Έκ³  μ €λŠ”
06:29
"I don't know what to say. Hi." One thing that I did do when I was in high school, I
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"무슨 말을 ν•΄μ•Ό 할지 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”. μ•ˆλ…•." 고등학ꡐ λ•Œ ν•œ 일 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ”
06:36
got a job as a waitress. Gulp. So guess what. Every time somebody came into my restaurant,
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μ›¨μ΄νŠΈλ¦¬μŠ€λ‘œ μ·¨μ§ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κΏ€κΊ½. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 무엇을 λ§žμΆ°λ³΄μ„Έμš”. λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ λ‚΄ 식당에 λ“€μ–΄μ˜¬ λ•Œλ§ˆλ‹€
06:44
I had to talk to them. I had to be nice to them. I had to smile. I don't want to smile,
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λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό 이야기해야 ν–ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ μΉœμ ˆν•΄μ•Ό ν–ˆλ‹€ . λ‚˜λŠ” μ›ƒμ–΄μ•Όλ§Œ ν–ˆλ‹€. 웃고 싢지 μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ
06:52
but I had to. Getting a job where you have to talk to people, like being a waiter or
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웃어야 ν–ˆλ‹€. μ›¨μ΄ν„°λ‚˜ μ›¨μ΄νŠΈλ¦¬μŠ€μ²˜λŸΌ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”ν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ” 직업을 μ–»λŠ” 것,
06:58
a waitress, even something in the back like working in a kitchen, working in a store -- if
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심지어 λΆ€μ—Œμ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 것, μƒμ μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 것과 같이 λ’€μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” 것 -- μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό
07:04
you can get a job where you are forced to talk to people, I guarantee you, you will
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κ°•μš”λ°›λŠ” 직업을 얻을 수 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ , λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이
07:10
overcome your shyness because you are forced to talk to people. Please also be careful
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•΄μ•Όν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μˆ˜μ€μŒμ„ 극볡 ν•  것이라고 μž₯λ‹΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ˜ν•œ μ‘°μ‹¬ν•˜μ„Έμš”
07:17
-- people are boring, as I mentioned before.
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. μ•žμ„œ μ–ΈκΈ‰ν–ˆλ“―μ΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ§€λ£¨ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:21
The next one is: Get a dog. "Get a dog? What? Are you going to talk to the dog?" No. But
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λ‹€μŒμ€ 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. "개λ₯Ό ν‚€μšΈκΉŒ? 뭐야? κ°œλž‘ μ–˜κΈ°ν• κ±°μ•Ό?" μ•„λ‹ˆμš”. ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ
07:30
guess what? I don't know why, but people who have dogs always like to talk to other people
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μ–΄λ•Œμš”? μ΄μœ λŠ” λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ§€λ§Œ 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 항상 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λŠ” λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€
07:38
who have dogs. For example, in the morning, when I walk my dog, people talk to me about
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. 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 아침에 λ‚΄κ°€ 개λ₯Ό μ‚°μ±…μ‹œν‚¬ λ•Œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€
07:45
stupid things about my dog. "How old is your dog?" "Who cares?" "What's your dog's name?"
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λ‚΄ κ°œμ— λŒ€ν•œ 어리석은 일에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ°œλŠ” λͺ‡ μ‚΄μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ ?" "무슨 상관이야?" "λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 개 이름은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?"
07:49
"Why? Are you going to send it a birthday card?" Okay. People that have dogs are usually
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"μ™œμš”? 생일 μΉ΄λ“œλ₯Ό 보낼 κ±΄κ°€μš” ?" μ’‹μ•„μš”. 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 일반적으둜
07:53
friendly, and it forces you to interact with other people. Sometimes, people ask me questions,
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우호적이며 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μƒν˜Έ μž‘μš©ν•˜λ„λ‘ κ°•μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 가끔 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 제게 μ§ˆλ¬Έμ„ ν•˜λ©΄
07:59
and I say, "Yes. Seven. Good. Okay." And I just stare at my dog. "Come on, dog. Come
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"예. 7. μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ’‹μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€."라고 λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그리고 λ‚˜λŠ” 단지 λ‚΄ 개λ₯Ό μ‘μ‹œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "μ–΄μ„œ, 개. μ–΄μ„œ
08:06
on, dog. Let's go, dog. Come on. I don't want to talk to these people." But getting a dog
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, 개. κ°€μž, 개. μ–΄μ„œ. 이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢지 μ•Šμ•„." ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λ©΄
08:10
will help you walk around the neighborhood. It will help you talk to people. It's an interesting
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동넀λ₯Ό μ‚°μ±…ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”ν•˜λŠ” 데 도움이 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:16
idea that if you have a cat, or if you're a cat person, you're shy. But people that
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고양이가 μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ 고양이λ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ©΄ 수쀍음이 λ§Žλ‹€λŠ” 것은 ν₯미둜운 μƒκ°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜
08:22
have dogs are usually -- but not always -- more friendly. Are you a cat person or a dog person?
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개λ₯Ό ν‚€μš°λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 항상 그런 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆμ§€λ§Œ 일반적으둜 더 μš°ν˜Έμ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 고양이 μ‚¬λžŒμž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ, 개 μ‚¬λžŒμž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
08:30
This is one of my favorite things in the world, ever. Travel. Okay? Leave your house; get
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이것은 μ œκ°€ μ„Έμƒμ—μ„œ κ°€μž₯ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 것 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ—¬ν–‰ν•˜λ‹€. μ’‹μ•„μš”? 집을 λ– λ‚˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
08:35
on an airplane -- get some money, first; get a job; get some money; jump on an airplane;
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λΉ„ν–‰κΈ°λ₯Ό νƒ€μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ¨Όμ € λˆμ„ κ΅¬ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. 일자리λ₯Ό ꡬ해; λˆμ„ λ²Œλ‹€; 비행기에 타닀;
08:42
and go traveling. Do it alone. How scary! If you travel by yourself without anyone -- that
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그리고 여행을 κ°€μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. ν˜Όμžν•˜μ„Έμš”. 무섭닀! 아무도 없이 혼자 μ—¬ν–‰ν•œλ‹€λ©΄, 즉
08:51
means alone -- you are forced to talk to people. You're going to be lonely. You're going to
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ν˜ΌμžλΌλŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 μ™Έλ‘œμšΈ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:57
want to talk to people. You're going to go to restaurants by yourself and sit there and
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  싢을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 혼자 식당에 κ°€μ„œ 거기에 μ•‰μ•„μ„œ
09:03
look at the menu all alone. You're going to see other people talking, and you'll go, "I
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혼자 메뉴λ₯Ό λ³Ό κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 보게 될 것이고, "
09:09
wish I had a friend." All you have to do is talk to people. Say the magic word, "Hi!"
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λ‚˜λŠ” μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ μžˆμ—ˆμœΌλ©΄ μ’‹κ² λ‹€"κ³  말할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κΈ° λ§Œν•˜λ©΄λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ§ˆλ²•μ˜ 단어 "μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”!"
09:17
And start a conversation. When you travel, you're forced to talk to people. When you
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그리고 λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μ‹œμž‘ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. 여행을 κ°€λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:22
check in at a hotel, when you take a bus, when you're asking for directions. And I guarantee
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ν˜Έν…”μ— 체크인할 λ•Œ, λ²„μŠ€λ₯Ό νƒˆ λ•Œ, 길을 물을 λ•Œ. 그리고 λ‚˜λŠ”
09:28
you will make some really good friends. You'll probably meet a lot of crazy people, too.
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당신이 정말 쒋은 친ꡬλ₯Ό μ‚¬κ·ˆ 것이라고 μž₯λ‹΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 μ•„λ§ˆ λ§Žμ€ 미친 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ λ§Œλ‚  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:34
They're the best.
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그듀은 μ΅œκ³ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:36
And last, but not least, when you're traveling alone, when you have a dog, when you're at
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λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ 혼자 μ—¬ν–‰ν•  λ•Œ , 개λ₯Ό ν‚€μšΈ λ•Œ, 직μž₯에 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ
09:42
your job, get drunk. Oh, yeah. There's a reason why alcohol has a name, Like "Six-Pack Attack"
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μˆ μ— μ·¨ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 였 예. μˆ μ— "Six-Pack Attack"
09:51
or "Liquid Lunch", because when you drink actual -- "Social Lubricant" is a good one.
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μ΄λ‚˜ "Liquid Lunch"와 같은 이름이 뢙은 μ΄μœ κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‹€μ œ μˆ μ„ λ§ˆμ‹€ λ•Œ "Social Lubricant"κ°€ μ’‹κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:59
When you drink alcohol, you are not as shy as you were. Now, I am being a little bit
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μˆ μ„ λ§ˆμ‹œλ©΄ μ˜ˆμ „μ²˜λŸΌ λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 이제
10:06
sarcastic when I say, "Get drunk." If you have one or two drinks, you're going to feel
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"μ·¨ν•˜μ„Έμš”"라고 λ§ν•˜λ©΄ μ•½κ°„ λΉ„κΌ¬λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν•œλ‘ μž” λ§ˆμ‹œλ©΄
10:14
less shy. When I write here, "Get drunk", I don't mean, like -- and throw up. That's
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λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›€μ΄ λœν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ œκ°€ μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ "μˆ μ— μ·¨ν•΄"라고 μ“Έ λ•Œ, 제 말은 -- 그리고 ν† ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 뜻이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:21
not cool. Nobody wants to talk to you. So have one or two alcoholic drinks -- or just
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멋지지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 아무도 λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ ν•œλ‘ μž”μ˜ μˆ μ„ λ§ˆμ‹œκ±°λ‚˜
10:27
some coke -- and you will become less shy naturally. It will happen. It's fun.
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콜라만 λ§ˆμ‹œλ©΄ μžμ—°νžˆ 수쀍음이 쀄어듀 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ . 일어날 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μž¬λ―Έμžˆλ‹€.
10:34
Are you shy? Don't be shy. Follow these tips. Figure out why you are shy. And please, write
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λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œ? λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. λ‹€μŒ νŒμ„ λ”°λ₯΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. μ™œ λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄μ„Έμš”. 그리고
10:43
in the comments and tell me why you are shy. Maybe I can help you. Maybe I can't. Maybe
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λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μš΄ 이유λ₯Ό λŒ“κΈ€λ‘œ μ μ–΄μ£Όμ„Έμš”. μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ λ‚΄κ°€ 당신을 λ„μšΈ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄ λ‚˜λŠ” ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ–΄μ©Œλ©΄
10:48
you're just shy. If you are, good luck. Bye.
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당신은 λΆ€λ„λŸ¬μ›Œ. κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ ν–‰μš΄μ„ λΉ•λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ•ˆλ…•.
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