What does the word compromise mean? - Learning English with Mr Duncan

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English Addict with Mr Duncan


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Today we are looking at a very interesting subject.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใ€็งใŸใกใฏ้žๅธธใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใƒ†ใƒผใƒžใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:02
The subject is compromise, making compromises.
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ใƒ†ใƒผใƒžใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:08
Sometimes we have to compromise things in life.
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ไบบ็”ŸใซใŠใ„ใฆๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:12
I would say that it is
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏ
00:15
inevitable, unavoidable,
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ใ€้ฟใ‘ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€้ฟใ‘ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใ ใจๆ€ใ„
00:18
that sometimes we have to compromise
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00:22
to make compromises.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:25
The word compromise means to accept or agree
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰
00:28
on something less than what was intended.
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ใฏใ€ๆ„ๅ›ณใ—ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅฐ‘ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:32
That is to say something you expect to happen
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
00:37
or maybe something you expect to receive
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ๆœŸๅพ…ใ™ใ‚‹ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ—ใ‘ๅ–ใ‚‹ใจๆœŸๅพ…ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไฝ•ใ‹ใŒ
00:40
is not what you were expecting.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœŸๅพ…ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
00:45
Sometimes we have to compromise and that is the word.
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ๆ™‚ใซใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:50
To lower the standard or expectation of a particular thing
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็‰นๅฎšใฎใ‚‚ใฎใฎๆจ™ๆบ–ใพใŸใฏๆœŸๅพ…ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
00:54
means that a compromise has taken place.
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ใฏใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใŒ่กŒใ‚ใ‚ŒใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™.
00:59
So to look at that sentence again, to lower
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ใใฎๆ–‡ใ‚’ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆ่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจใ€
01:02
the standard all expectation.
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ใ™ในใฆใฎๆœŸๅพ…ๅ€คใฎๅŸบๆบ–ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
01:06
So when we talk about expectation,
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใŸใกใŒๆœŸๅพ…ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใ€
01:08
it is the thing which you are waiting for.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
01:12
Your expectation is the feeling of waiting for something
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆœŸๅพ…ใฏใ€ ไฝ•ใ‹ใŒๅŸบๆบ–ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„Ÿ่ฆšใงใ™ใ€‚
01:18
to lower the standard or expectation of a particular thing
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ใพใŸใฏใ€็‰นๅฎšใฎใ“ใจใธใฎๆœŸๅพ…ใฏ
01:23
means that a compromise has taken place.
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ใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใŒ่กŒใ‚ใ‚ŒใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™. ไฝ•ใ‹
01:28
The lack of agreement on something might lead to those involved
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ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎๅˆๆ„ใฎๆฌ ๅฆ‚ใฏใ€ ้–ขไฟ‚่€…ใŒๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใซใคใชใŒใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
01:33
having to compromise.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:37
A good example, of course, would be if
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€่‰ฏใ„ไพ‹
01:40
some workers for a certain company,
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ใฏใ€็‰นๅฎšใฎไผš็คพใฎๅพ“ๆฅญๅ“กใŒใ€
01:44
maybe they want more money, maybe they want higher salary.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚ŠๅคšใใฎใŠ้‡‘ ใ‚’ๆฌฒใ—ใŒใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š้ซ˜ใ„็ตฆๆ–™ใ‚’ๆฌฒใ—ใŒใฃใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใงใ™ใ€‚
01:49
So quite often they will have to negotiate.
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
01:53
They will have to talk to another group of people
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ€ๅ–ๅผ•ใ‚’่ฉฆใฟใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๅˆฅใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใฎไบบใ€…ใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
01:56
to try and make a deal.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:59
So perhaps the workers want a certain percentage
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅŠดๅƒ่€…ใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ็ตฆๆ–™ใฎไธ€ๅฎšๅ‰ฒๅˆใ‚’ไธŠใ’ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
02:04
of their salary to be raised.
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ใ€‚
02:07
They might have to negotiate.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏไบคๆธ‰ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:10
And more often than not, you will have to compromise.
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ใใ—ใฆๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:15
So when you are trying to agree on something, whatever it is,
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚Œใ€
02:19
quite often you will have to compromise on that thing.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:23
If we say compromise, it can be the thing that is the noun.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใจ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๅ่ฉžใงใ‚ใ‚‹็‰ฉใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
02:29
So we are using it in the sense of being the noun compromise.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆ ใ€ๅ่ฉžใฎๅฆฅๅ”ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:35
It is the thing that is being compromised
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€
02:40
or the thing that is being negotiated
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ใพใŸใฏ
02:43
to compromise can also be the action.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไบคๆธ‰ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:47
And in this situation, we are looking at the verb.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใฎ็Šถๆณใงใฏใ€ๅ‹•่ฉžใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:50
A compromise can be the thing
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใฏใƒขใƒŽใซ
02:53
or it can be the actual action.
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ใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎ่กŒๅ‹•ใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:56
The action of compromising
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03:00
a compromise was reached between the two groups.
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2 ใคใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใฎ้–“ใงใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ๆกˆใ‚’ๆ็คบใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซ้”ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
03:04
So in that particular sentence in Greve,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€Greve ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎๆ–‡ใง
03:08
you can see we are using the noun, the noun compromise.
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ใฏใ€ๅ่ฉžใ€ๅ่ฉžใฎๅฆฅๅ”ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:14
And underneath in blue
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ใใ—ใฆๅ‰้€ฒใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ้’่‰ฒใฎไธ‹ใซ
03:17
to move forward, we must compromise.
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ใ€็งใŸใกใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:21
So that means we have to make an agreement.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ๅฅ‘็ด„ใ‚’็ตใถๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:25
We are using the verb, the verb form, which is compromise.
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ๅ‹•่ฉžใ€ๅ‹•่ฉžๅฝขใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:31
The word concession
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่ญฒๆญฉใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰
03:34
can also be used to show that a compromise was made.
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ใฏใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใŒ่กŒใ‚ใ‚ŒใŸใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚‚ไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
03:38
So when we are talking about compromise,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ
03:41
we can also use the word concession.
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ใ€่ญฒๆญฉใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚‚ไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
03:46
You might go into a department store
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03:50
and in the department store you might see some well-known shops.
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ใจใ€ใใฎใƒ‡ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใฎ ไธญใซๆœ‰ๅใชใŠๅบ—ใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:55
But the size of the shop is much smaller
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅบ—ใฎใ‚ตใ‚คใ‚บใฏใฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใซๅฐใ•ใ
04:01
and we often call that a concession.
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ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ—ใฐใ—ใฐใใ‚Œใ‚’่ญฒๆญฉใจๅ‘ผใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™.
04:04
So a reduced version of something
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใฎ็ธฎๅฐ็‰ˆ
04:08
can also be described as a concession.
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ใ‚‚่ญฒๆญฉใจใ—ใฆ่ชฌๆ˜Žใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:12
The word concession can also be used to show
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่ญฒๆญฉใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰
04:15
that a compromise was made.
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ใฏใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใŒ่กŒใ‚ใ‚ŒใŸใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚‚ไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
04:18
You are making something less than it should have been.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆœฌๆฅใ‚ใ‚‹ในใใ‚‚ใฎใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅฐ‘ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไฝœใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:22
We might say that someone has to settle for less.
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐ‘ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใง่งฃๆฑบใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“.
04:27
This happens a lot.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ˆใ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
04:29
I think it's very fair to say that in life you can you can't always have what you want.
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ไบบ็”ŸใซใŠใ„ใฆใ€ ใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใจใฏ้™ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‚‚้Ž่จ€ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:34
So we might say that we settle for less.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐ‘ใชใใฆๆธˆใ‚€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:39
You are agreeing to take something, but it isn't as good.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉ่‰ฏใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:45
We might say that someone has to settle for less.
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐ‘ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใง่งฃๆฑบใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“.
04:49
And there might be lots of situations where you have to do that.
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ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„็ŠถๆณใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:54
For example, I want a big house, but I can't afford one.
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ใŸใจใˆใฐ ใ€ๅคงใใชๅฎถใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ไฝ™่ฃ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:59
So instead I have to compromise.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ็งใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:04
I want a big house, but I can't afford it.
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ๅคงใใชๅฎถใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ไฝ™่ฃ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:08
So instead I have to buy a small house.
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ๅฐใ•ใชๅฎถใ‚’่ฒทใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:13
Sometimes you have to compromise.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
05:16
I want a big fast car like this, but
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ใ“ใ‚“ใชๅคงใใใฆ้€Ÿใ„่ปŠใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‘ใฉใ€
05:19
I can't afford the fuel to run it.
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’่ตฐใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹็‡ƒๆ–™ใŒ่ฒทใˆใชใ„ใ€‚
05:22
So instead, I must compromise.
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€็งใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:25
I must make a compromise.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
05:29
I must have a small car.
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็งใฏๅฐใ•ใช่ปŠใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
05:32
Instead, because a large car will use lots of fuel.
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ๅคงๅž‹่ปŠใฏๅคšใใฎ็‡ƒๆ–™ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:37
I want a beautiful girlfriend.
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็งใฏ็พŽใ—ใ„ใ‚ฌใƒผใƒซใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:40
Hello there.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚
05:41
Wow. You will. Rather lovely.
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ใ‚ใŠใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใ‚‹ใงใ‚ใ‚ใ†ใ€‚ ใ‚€ใ—ใ‚ๆ„›ใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ€‚
05:44
Yes. Hello.
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ใฏใ„ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚
05:45
Would you like to be my girlfriend?
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็งใฎใ‚ฌใƒผใƒซใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:48
Would you like to go out with me sometime?
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ใ„ใคใ‹ไธ€็ท’ใซๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:51
No. Okay.
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ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
05:54
Unfortunately, she doesn't want to go out with me, so instead
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ็งใจไป˜ใๅˆใ„ใŸใใชใ„ ใฎใงใ€ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ
05:59
I will have to compromise.
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็งใŒๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:02
You want the beautiful supermodel,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็พŽใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒผใƒ‘ใƒผใƒขใƒ‡ใƒซใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™
06:06
but unfortunately, you can't have her.
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ใŒใ€ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ๅฝผๅฅณใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“.
06:09
So instead, you must
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ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆ
06:13
compromise.
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ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:15
You must
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐ‘ใชใ่งฃๆฑบใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
06:16
settle for less.
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ใ€‚
06:19
There are many phrases connected to the word compromise.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใซ้–ข้€ฃใ™ใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฏใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:24
The first phrase we have is make, do,
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ๆœ€ๅˆใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฏใ€makeใ€doใ€
06:29
make, do.
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makeใ€do ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:31
In this particular phrase, we are expressing
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ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใง
06:34
the fact that we have to use what is available.
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ใฏใ€ๅˆฉ็”จๅฏ่ƒฝใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ไบ‹ๅฎŸใ‚’่กจ็พใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:39
Unfortunately, we can't have what we want.
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ๆฎ‹ๅฟตใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€็งใŸใกใฏๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:42
So instead you have to make do.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:46
Here's another one.
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ใ“ใ“ใซๅˆฅใฎใ‚‚ใฎใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:47
I know this one very well.
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็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:48
Beggars can't be choosers.
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็‰ฉไนžใ„ใฏ้ธใถใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:51
Sometimes when you are desperate,
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ๅฟ…ๆญปใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
06:54
maybe sometimes when you really need something,
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ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซไฝ•ใ‹ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชใจใใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚
06:58
you can't be fussy.
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ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:03
You don't have any choice.
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้ธๆŠžใฎไฝ™ๅœฐใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:05
You have to take what you are given.
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ไธŽใˆใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚‰ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:07
Sometimes beggars can't be choosers.
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็‰ฉไนžใ„ใฏ้ธๆŠžใงใใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:11
You might also have to lower your expectations on a situation.
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ใพใŸใ€็Šถๆณใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹ๆœŸๅพ…ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:16
Something that you want.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ€‚
07:18
Something that you need.
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ๅฟ…่ฆใชใ‚‚ใฎใ€‚
07:20
You have to lower your expectations.
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ๆœŸๅพ…ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
07:23
You reduce your expectations.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆœŸๅพ…ใ‚’ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:27
You lower your expectations.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆœŸๅพ…ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:30
Maybe you have the last turkey in the shop.
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ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅบ—ใซๆœ€ๅพŒใฎไธƒ้ข้ณฅใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™.
07:33
You have no choice.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:34
Maybe it is the last thing.
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ๅคšๅˆ†ใใ‚Œใฏๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
07:37
Maybe there is no other choice.
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ไป–ใซ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:39
It is the last turkey in the shop.
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ๅฝ“ๅบ—ๆœ€ๅพŒใฎไธƒ้ข้ณฅใงใ™ใ€‚
07:43
It is the worst of all.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ™ในใฆใฎไธญใงๆœ€ๆ‚ชใงใ™ใ€‚
07:45
But it is all that is available.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅˆฉ็”จใงใใ‚‹ใฎใฏใใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:49
You have no choice.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้ธๆŠž่‚ขใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:50
Maybe you want a nice, big, juicy turkey.
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ๅคงใใใฆใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใ‚ทใƒผใชไธƒ้ข้ณฅใŒ้ฃŸในใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:54
You want a big, juicy one, but you can't have it.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅคงใใใฆใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใ‚ทใƒผใชใ‚‚ใฎใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใงใใพใ›ใ‚“.
07:57
Because sometimes in life, you can't have what you want.
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ไบบ็”Ÿใซใฏใ€ ๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใŒๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:00
It's true.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:01
We have some words connected to compromise.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใซ้–ข้€ฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:06
You make a compromise.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:08
You make or have a negotiation.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:11
You give and take.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ฎใƒ–ใ‚ขใƒณใƒ‰ใƒ†ใ‚คใ‚ฏใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:14
You have a concession.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏ่ญฒๆญฉใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:17
You have a cable operation.
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ใ‚ฑใƒผใƒ–ใƒซๆ“ไฝœใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:19
Cooperation is an interesting word because it means that two groups of people
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ๅ”ๅŠ›ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใฏ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„่จ€่‘‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€2 ใคใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใฎไบบใ€…
08:24
join together and they agree on many things.
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ใŒไธ€็ท’ใซใชใฃใฆๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใซๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:30
They agree to work together.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅ”ๅŠ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:32
So quite often when there is cooperation.
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ๅ”ๅŠ›ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š้ ป็นใซใใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:35
Quite often you have to make compromises.
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ๅคšใใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
08:39
Sometimes you might find the middle ground.
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ไธญ้–“ๅœฐ็‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:45
If you find the middle ground, it means that you are agreeing with each other.
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ๅฆฅๅ”็‚นใŒ่ฆ‹ใคใ‹ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€ ใใ‚ŒใฏใŠไบ’ใ„ใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:50
You might not agree completely, but you are finding the middle ground.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฎŒๅ…จใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ ใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ๅฆฅๅ”็‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ™.
08:58
You are coming together.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไธ€็ท’ใซๆฅใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:59
You are discussing the differences.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้•ใ„ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:02
And hopefully you will make an agreement.
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ใใ—ใฆใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅˆๆ„ใ‚’็ตใถใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:06
You find the middle ground and finally, with this list,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฆฅๅ”็‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซใ€ใ“ใฎใƒชใ‚นใƒˆใงใ€
09:12
you meet in the middle two people who do not agree.
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ๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใ„2ไบบใซๅ‡บไผšใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:17
Maybe they are trying to make a deal or come to a bargain or make a decision together.
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅ–ๅผ•ใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใ‹ใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไธ€็ท’ใซๆฑบๅฎšใ‚’ไธ‹ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:24
But they can't agree.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅŒๆ„ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
09:26
Sometimes you have to make compromise noises.
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ๆ™‚ใซใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใฎ้Ÿณใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:30
You have to compromise.
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:32
So you meet in the middle. You come
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็œŸใ‚“ไธญใซไผšใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸ
09:36
to an agreement.
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ใฏๅˆๆ„ใซ้”ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:38
You make a compromise.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:41
The basic lesson from having to compromise
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‹ใ‚‰ๅพ—ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใชๆ•™่จ“
09:44
is that quite often it is hard to get what you want.
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ใฏใ€ใŸใ„ใฆใ„ใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
09:49
For some people, it is the hardest lesson to learn
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ไธ€้ƒจใฎไบบใ€…ใซใจใฃใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏไบบ็”ŸใงๅญฆใถใฎใŒๆœ€ใ‚‚้›ฃใ—ใ„ๆ•™่จ“
09:53
in life.
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