What does the word compromise mean? - Learning English with Mr Duncan

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
Today we are looking at a very interesting subject.
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:02
The subject is compromise, making compromises.
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์ฃผ์ œ๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘, ํƒ€ํ˜‘์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:08
Sometimes we have to compromise things in life.
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ถ์—์„œ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:12
I would say that it is
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00:15
inevitable, unavoidable,
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00:18
that sometimes we have to compromise
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š”
00:22
to make compromises.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€ํ”ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€ํ”ผํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:25
The word compromise means to accept or agree
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š”
00:28
on something less than what was intended.
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์˜๋„ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:32
That is to say something you expect to happen
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์ฆ‰, ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‚˜
00:37
or maybe something you expect to receive
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๋ฐ›์„ ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
00:40
is not what you were expecting.
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๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:45
Sometimes we have to compromise and that is the word.
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹จ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:50
To lower the standard or expectation of a particular thing
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ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ์ค€์ด๋‚˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
00:54
means that a compromise has taken place.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:59
So to look at that sentence again, to lower
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ณด๋ฉด ๊ธฐ์ค€์„ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
01:02
the standard all expectation.
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:06
So when we talk about expectation,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ
01:08
it is the thing which you are waiting for.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:12
Your expectation is the feeling of waiting for something
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋Š” ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
01:18
to lower the standard or expectation of a particular thing
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๊ธฐ์ค€์„ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋Š”
01:23
means that a compromise has taken place.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ์Œ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ
01:28
The lack of agreement on something might lead to those involved
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ํ•ฉ์˜๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€์กฑํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
01:33
having to compromise.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:37
A good example, of course, would be if
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ข‹์€ ์˜ˆ๋Š”
01:40
some workers for a certain company,
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ํŠน์ • ํšŒ์‚ฌ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€ ์ง์›์ด
01:44
maybe they want more money, maybe they want higher salary.
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๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๋ˆ์„ ์›ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋” ๋†’์€ ๊ธ‰์—ฌ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:49
So quite often they will have to negotiate.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ฝค ์ž์ฃผ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ˜‘์ƒํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:53
They will have to talk to another group of people
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์„ฑ์‚ฌ์‹œํ‚ค๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ทธ๋ฃน์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:56
to try and make a deal.
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.
01:59
So perhaps the workers want a certain percentage
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทผ๋กœ์ž๋“ค์€
02:04
of their salary to be raised.
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๊ธ‰์—ฌ์˜ ์ผ์ • ๋น„์œจ์ด ์ธ์ƒ๋˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:07
They might have to negotiate.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ˜‘์ƒํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:10
And more often than not, you will have to compromise.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:15
So when you are trying to agree on something, whatever it is,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“ 
02:19
quite often you will have to compromise on that thing.
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๊ฝค ์ž์ฃผ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:23
If we say compromise, it can be the thing that is the noun.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ช…์‚ฌ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
02:29
So we are using it in the sense of being the noun compromise.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ช…์‚ฌ ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:35
It is the thing that is being compromised
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘๋˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
02:40
or the thing that is being negotiated
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ˜‘์ƒ๋˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„
02:43
to compromise can also be the action.
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ํ–‰๋™์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
And in this situation, we are looking at the verb.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:50
A compromise can be the thing
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์€ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„
02:53
or it can be the actual action.
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์žˆ๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ ํ–‰๋™์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํƒ€ํ˜‘์„
02:56
The action of compromising
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํ–‰๋™์€
03:00
a compromise was reached between the two groups.
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๋‘ ๊ทธ๋ฃน ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:04
So in that particular sentence in Greve,
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Greve์˜ ํŠน์ • ๋ฌธ์žฅ์—์„œ
03:08
you can see we are using the noun, the noun compromise.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ช…์‚ฌ ํƒ€ํ˜‘์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:14
And underneath in blue
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
03:17
to move forward, we must compromise.
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์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ํŒŒ๋ž€์ƒ‰ ์•„๋ž˜์—์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:21
So that means we have to make an agreement.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํ•ฉ์˜๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:25
We are using the verb, the verb form, which is compromise.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘์„ ๋œปํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ, ๋™์‚ฌ ํ˜•ํƒœ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
03:31
The word concession
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์–‘๋ณด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š”
03:34
can also be used to show that a compromise was made.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ์Œ์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:38
So when we are talking about compromise,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํƒ€ํ˜‘์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ
03:41
we can also use the word concession.
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์–‘๋ณด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:46
You might go into a department store
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๋ฐฑํ™”์ ์— ๊ฐ€๋„ ๋˜๊ณ 
03:50
and in the department store you might see some well-known shops.
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๋ฐฑํ™”์  ์•ˆ์— ๊ฐ€๋ฉด ์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ๊ฐ€ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:55
But the size of the shop is much smaller
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ์˜ ๊ทœ๋ชจ๋Š” ํ›จ์”ฌ ์ž‘๊ณ 
04:01
and we often call that a concession.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข…์ข… ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–‘๋ณด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:04
So a reduced version of something
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์ถ•์†Œ๋œ ๋ฒ„์ „
04:08
can also be described as a concession.
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๋„ ์–‘๋ณด๋กœ ์„ค๋ช…๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:12
The word concession can also be used to show
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์–‘๋ณด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์กŒ์Œ์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:15
that a compromise was made.
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. ๋งˆ๋•…ํžˆ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ
04:18
You are making something less than it should have been.
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๋ณด๋‹ค ์ ๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:22
We might say that someone has to settle for less.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋œ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:27
This happens a lot.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:29
I think it's very fair to say that in life you can you can't always have what you want.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ํƒ€๋‹นํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
04:34
So we might say that we settle for less.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋œ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:39
You are agreeing to take something, but it isn't as good.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ธฐ๋กœ ๋™์˜ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:45
We might say that someone has to settle for less.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋œ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:49
And there might be lots of situations where you have to do that.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ๋งŽ์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
04:54
For example, I want a big house, but I can't afford one.
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‚˜๋Š” ํฐ ์ง‘์„ ์›ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ด ์—ฌ์œ ๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:59
So instead I have to compromise.
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๋Œ€์‹  ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:04
I want a big house, but I can't afford it.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ํฐ ์ง‘์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์—ฌ์œ ๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค.
05:08
So instead I have to buy a small house.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋Œ€์‹ ์— ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ž‘์€ ์ง‘์„ ์‚ฌ์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค.
05:13
Sometimes you have to compromise.
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:16
I want a big fast car like this, but
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํฌ๊ณ  ๋น ๋ฅธ ์ฐจ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
05:19
I can't afford the fuel to run it.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆด ์—ฐ๋ฃŒ๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:22
So instead, I must compromise.
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๋Œ€์‹  ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:25
I must make a compromise.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค.
05:29
I must have a small car.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ž‘์€ ์ฐจ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:32
Instead, because a large car will use lots of fuel.
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๋Œ€์‹  ๋Œ€ํ˜•์ฐจ๋Š” ์—ฐ๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:37
I want a beautiful girlfriend.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ์—ฌ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:40
Hello there.
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์•ˆ๋…•.
05:41
Wow. You will. Rather lovely.
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์šฐ์™€. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์Šค๋Ÿฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:44
Yes. Hello.
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์˜ˆ. ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
05:45
Would you like to be my girlfriend?
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๋‚ด ์—ฌ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€๋˜์–ด ์ค„๋ž˜?
05:48
Would you like to go out with me sometime?
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์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜๋ž‘ ์™ธ์ถœํ• ๋ž˜?
05:51
No. Okay.
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์•„๋‡จ. ์ข‹์•„์š”.
05:54
Unfortunately, she doesn't want to go out with me, so instead
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๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ๋„ ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋‚˜์™€ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€์‹ 
05:59
I will have to compromise.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:02
You want the beautiful supermodel,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ์Šˆํผ๋ชจ๋ธ์„ ์›
06:06
but unfortunately, you can't have her.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ๋„ ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:09
So instead, you must
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ€์‹  ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:13
compromise.
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.
06:15
You must
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06:16
settle for less.
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๋œ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:19
There are many phrases connected to the word compromise.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด์™€ ๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ๋งŽ์€ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:24
The first phrase we have is make, do,
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๊ตฌ๋Š” make, do,
06:29
make, do.
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make, do์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:31
In this particular phrase, we are expressing
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์ด ํŠน์ • ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ์—์„œ
06:34
the fact that we have to use what is available.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ฌ์šฉ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:39
Unfortunately, we can't have what we want.
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๋ถˆํ–‰ํžˆ๋„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:42
So instead you have to make do.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋Œ€์‹  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:46
Here's another one.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:47
I know this one very well.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์•„์ฃผ ์ž˜ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:48
Beggars can't be choosers.
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๊ฑฐ์ง€๋Š” ์„ ํƒ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:51
Sometimes when you are desperate,
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ฐ„์ ˆํ•  ๋•Œ,
06:54
maybe sometimes when you really need something,
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์ •๋ง ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ
06:58
you can't be fussy.
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๊นŒ๋‹ค๋กœ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:03
You don't have any choice.
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์„ ํƒ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:05
You have to take what you are given.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ฃผ์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:07
Sometimes beggars can't be choosers.
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๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ๊ฑฐ์ง€๋Š” ์„ ํƒ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:11
You might also have to lower your expectations on a situation.
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์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถฐ์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:16
Something that you want.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ.
07:18
Something that you need.
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ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ.
07:20
You have to lower your expectations.
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๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”์…”์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:23
You reduce your expectations.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ค„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:27
You lower your expectations.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถฅ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:30
Maybe you have the last turkey in the shop.
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๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ์— ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์น ๋ฉด์กฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:33
You have no choice.
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ์„ ํƒ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด.
07:34
Maybe it is the last thing.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์ผ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:37
Maybe there is no other choice.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ ํƒ์ด ์—†์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:39
It is the last turkey in the shop.
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๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ์˜ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์น ๋ฉด์กฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:43
It is the worst of all.
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์ตœ์•…์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:45
But it is all that is available.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ „๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:49
You have no choice.
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๋„ˆ๋Š” ์„ ํƒ์˜ ์—ฌ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์—†์–ด.
07:50
Maybe you want a nice, big, juicy turkey.
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๋ฉ‹์ง€๊ณ  ํฌ๊ณ  ์œก์ฆ™์ด ๋งŽ์€ ์น ๋ฉด์กฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:54
You want a big, juicy one, but you can't have it.
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ํฌ๊ณ  ์œก์ฆ™์ด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์›ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:57
Because sometimes in life, you can't have what you want.
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์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:00
It's true.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:01
We have some words connected to compromise.
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:06
You make a compromise.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:08
You make or have a negotiation.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ˜‘์ƒ์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:11
You give and take.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€์ฃผ๊ณ ๋ฐ›์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:14
You have a concession.
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์–‘๋ณด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:17
You have a cable operation.
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์ผ€์ด๋ธ” ์ž‘์—…์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:19
Cooperation is an interesting word because it means that two groups of people
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ํ˜‘๋ ฅ์€ ๋‘ ๊ทธ๋ฃน์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
08:24
join together and they agree on many things.
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋™์˜ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:30
They agree to work together.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ผํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๋™์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:32
So quite often when there is cooperation.
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ํ˜‘๋ ฅ์ด์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋งค์šฐ ์ž์ฃผ.
08:35
Quite often you have to make compromises.
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๊ฝค ์ž์ฃผ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:39
Sometimes you might find the middle ground.
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ง€์ ์„ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:45
If you find the middle ground, it means that you are agreeing with each other.
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์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ง€์ ์„ ์ฐพ์œผ๋ฉด ์„œ๋กœ ๋™์˜ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:50
You might not agree completely, but you are finding the middle ground.
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ง€์ ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:58
You are coming together.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•จ๊ป˜์˜ค๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:59
You are discussing the differences.
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์ฐจ์ด์ ์„ ๋…ผ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:02
And hopefully you will make an agreement.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ•ฉ์˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜์‹œ๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:06
You find the middle ground and finally, with this list,
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์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ง€์ ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์ด ๋ชฉ๋ก์„ ํ†ตํ•ด
09:12
you meet in the middle two people who do not agree.
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๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ค‘๊ฐ„์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:17
Maybe they are trying to make a deal or come to a bargain or make a decision together.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์„ฑ์‚ฌ์‹œํ‚ค ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํฅ์ •์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:24
But they can't agree.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋™์˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:26
Sometimes you have to make compromise noises.
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ํƒ€ํ˜‘์ ์ธ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:30
You have to compromise.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:32
So you meet in the middle. You come
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ค‘๊ฐ„์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚œ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
09:36
to an agreement.
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ํ•ฉ์˜์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:38
You make a compromise.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:41
The basic lesson from having to compromise
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ํƒ€ํ˜‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์—์„œ ์–ป์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๊ตํ›ˆ์€
09:44
is that quite often it is hard to get what you want.
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์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–ป๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งค์šฐ ์–ด๋ ต๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:49
For some people, it is the hardest lesson to learn
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์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ธฐ ํž˜๋“  ๊ตํ›ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:53
in life.
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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