Learn 6 Body Idioms in English: get cold feet, play by ear...

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Today's lesson is going to be about idioms,

everyday idioms that you will hear people use quite regularly in many situations,

and we're going to look at body idioms. All of these idioms have some part of the body

inside them.

Now, again, just a little refresh... To refresh our memories: What is an idiom? An idiom is

an expression whose words alone don't mean what the actual idiom means. What that means

is the words themselves and the actual meaning of the idiom are completely different.

So, for example: "to get cold feet". Now, of course, in the wintertime if you take your

socks off, your feet are going to get cold, but that's not what this means.

"To get cold feet" means to get scared. You're about to do something, you've been planning it, you

know it's coming, you want to do it, but then at the last minute, you get cold feet. It

means you get scared and you don't want to do it anymore; you want to back away from

doing this. Okay? You want to back out of it. So, the most common example of getting

cold feet is just before your wedding, and this happens to a lot of men. Tomorrow's the

wedding, let's say, I'm getting married tomorrow, and tonight I'm thinking:

"Oh my god, this is my last night of freedom. I don't want to do it. Forget it. Wedding's off."

So I have cold feet. Very common, happens to a lot of people. Doesn't have to be about wedding,

it could be about anything; you're about to start a new job, you're about to move to a

new house, you're about to do anything - last minute, you get scared, you don't want to

do it anymore.

"To get something off one's chest", to get something off your chest. Now, this sounds

like pretty straightforward, but if you have something on your chest it means you're holding

it and it's very heavy, and you really just want to... You just want to get it out. You

want to express something. It could be a secret, it could be a feeling you have for someone,

it could be a complaint you have, but you just didn't want to say it. You've been holding

it inside and holding it inside, and it's been sitting right here, and it's heavy, and

you don't want to carry it anymore. You want to get it off your chest. So, you go into

your boss and you say:

"Boss, I got to get something off my chest. You're a terrible boss. I don't want to work for you anymore.

Either pay me a lot more money or I'm leaving."

Or there's a girl you really like or a boy you really like, and you go up to this person and you say:

"I have to get something off my chest. I've been in love with you for like

five years. I can't hold it inside anymore. I have to get it off my chest, so I'm telling you."

Okay? Then you feel much lighter, in theory.

"To be in over one's head". Over one's head. Now, technically, if you go into the swimming

pool and you go below the surface of the water, then you're in over your head, but it's the

same idea in other situations. If you're doing something that you can't handle, it's too

difficult for you, then you're in over your head. So, for example, you got a job... You

just finished university, you got a job, and somebody hired you to be the manager of a

whole department, and you think: "Yeah, no problem. I can do this." You have no experience

doing it, but yeah, you can do it. So you go and it's... Right away you notice that

it's too difficult for you, you don't know what you're doing. The staff don't like you,

they don't respect you, they don't listen to you. You don't know what to do because

you're in over your head. You've taken on a job that's too big for you. Okay?

"To let one's hair down". Now, this obviously sounds like it should be for women, but it

could be for men, too. "To let your hair down" means to relax, just go do something fun,

enjoy yourself, do whatever you want. We... Generally, we do use this for women. For men,

we say: "Loosen your tie". It's the same idea. "To loosen the tie" means relax, don't be

so serious, don't be so stiff. Relax, have fun, do whatever you want. Tomorrow's another

day, so let your hair down.

"To stick one's neck out". So if you stick... If I stick my neck out, you can come and chop

it off, and I'm dead. So, "to stick one's neck out" is to take a risk, to take a big risk.

So if you... If you gamble, if you invest in something and you put all your money into

this investment, then you're sticking your neck out. Now, we can also use this when we

go to help a friend. My friend is in trouble, my colleague is in trouble with the boss,

and I decide: "You know what? I'm going to go talk to the boss and make sure he understands

that my friend is a good worker." Now, the problem is my boss can then hate me, too,

so I'm taking a big risk. I'm sticking my neck out for my friend. Okay? Actually, one

more thing. If you give an opinion, if you express an opinion out loud that's generally

not accepted by most people, you're also sticking your neck out because you're showing people

what you think, and who knows what their reaction will be. So, that's another way to do that.

Lastly: "to play it by ear". What does that mean? It means to just wait for whatever happens,

don't plan. So, me and my friends decide we're going to go to Las Vegas next week. Okay?

And one of my friends, he has to plan everything, he has to know where we're staying, where

we're going, where we're eating, everything. And I say: "Don't worry about it. We'll get

there and we'll play it by ear. Whatever happens, we'll adjust, we'll adapt. We'll work our

way around the situation." Okay? So, "to play it by ear", don't have any plans, just go

with the flow as it were. Okay?

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