Advanced English Conversation Lesson #10: Greetings ๐Ÿค— (learn real English w/ subtitles)

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

00:00
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:01
- You still say it like, go ahead.
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-ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใพใ ใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ€ใฉใ†ใžใ€‚
00:02
No, you, go.
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ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่กŒใ
00:03
Sorry. (laughing)
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ใ€‚ ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใ€‚ (็ฌ‘ใ„)
00:06
(energetic music)
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(ใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅใช้Ÿณๆฅฝ)
00:08
Hello everybody, this is Jack and Kate from tofluency.com.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€tofluency.com ใฎใ‚ธใƒฃใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใจใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚
00:12
And in this lesson, we are going to talk about greetings.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€ ๆŒจๆ‹ถใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใฎ
00:16
How to greet people in America, what to do,
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ไบบใ€…ใธใฎๆŒจๆ‹ถใฎไป•ๆ–น ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ€
00:20
and some questions to ask and what to say.
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ใใ—ใฆๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ในใใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใจไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ในใใ‹.
00:23
So I thought we would start by just showing you
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ใใ“ใงใ€ๆŒจๆ‹ถใฎไป•ๆ–นใ‚’ ใ„ใใคใ‹็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ—
00:27
some ways that you can greet people.
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ใŸใ€‚
00:29
First one, it's a handshake.
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ใพใšใฏๆกๆ‰‹ไผšใงใ™ใ€‚
00:32
Okay, and that's a handshake.
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ใ‚ˆใ—ใ€ๆกๆ‰‹ใ ใ€‚
00:34
There's also the hug, like this.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใงๆŠฑใฃใ“ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:37
There are the two kisses.
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2ใคใฎใ‚ญใ‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:40
And then there's one I didn't talk about,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใŒ่ฉฑใ•ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใฏ
00:44
the fist bump, the fist bump.
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ใ€ๆ‹ณใฎ่ก็ชใ€ๆ‹ณใฎ่ก็ชใงใ™ใ€‚
00:47
So we're gonna talk about which one
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏ
00:48
is appropriate in which setting.
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ใ€ใฉใฎ่จญๅฎšใงใฉใกใ‚‰ใŒ้ฉๅˆ‡ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:50
And I thought a good place to start
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ไบบใซไผšใฃใŸใจใใซไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
00:53
is with what you do when you meet somebody you don't know.
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.
00:59
How do you greet that person in America?
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ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใงใฏใใฎไบบใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
01:02
- Handshake.
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-ๆกๆ‰‹ใ€‚
01:03
That is the only acceptable answer.
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ใใ‚ŒใŒๅ”ฏไธ€ใฎๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹็ญ”ใˆใงใ™ใ€‚
01:08
- I'm going to give you a scenario.
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- ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’ใŠๆธกใ—ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:10
- Okay.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
01:11
- What about if you are meeting my cousin
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- ็งใฎใ„ใจใ“ใซๅˆใ‚ใฆไผšใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใฏใฉใ†
01:16
for the first time?
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ใงใ™ใ‹?
01:17
And you've already been chatting away on Facebook.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ™ใงใซ Facebook ใงใƒใƒฃใƒƒใƒˆใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:20
What would you do in that situation?
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ใใฎ็Šถๆณใงใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:23
- I think that if it's somebody
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-
01:26
that you're meeting in person for the first time,
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ๅˆใ‚ใฆไผšใฃ
01:28
but you have a strong connection
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ใŸไบบใงใ€ๅผทใ„ใคใชใŒใ‚ŠใŒ
01:30
and you've been communicating with them
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅฐ‚้–€็š„ใงใฏใชใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ใจใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
01:32
in a not professional way,
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01:35
then probably a hug would feel more natural.
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ใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใƒใ‚ฐ ใŒใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‡ช็„ถใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™.
01:38
- Yeah, a hug.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใƒใ‚ฐใ€‚
01:40
And there's always that moment where both people,
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ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ไธกๆ–นใฎไบบ
01:45
they don't know what to do.
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ใŒไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„็žฌ้–“ใŒๅธธใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™.
01:47
They don't know which one is the best one to do.
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ ใฏใ€ใฉใ‚ŒใŒๆœ€ๅ–„ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
01:50
And that can lead to awkward situations,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏๅŽ„ไป‹ใช็ŠถๆณใซใคใชใŒใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ
01:53
and later we're gonna talk about living in Spain.
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅพŒใง ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณใงใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™.
01:56
- Right.
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- ๅณใ€‚
01:57
- And doing that too.
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚‚ใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:58
- Can I just say too?
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01:59
There's also the hug/handshake.
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ใƒใ‚ฐ/ๆกๆ‰‹ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:03
Do you know what I'm talking about?
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็งใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:04
- Like, like that? - Like, yeah.
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- ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ๏ผŸ -ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
02:06
- It's like a side on hug with a handshake.
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-ๆกๆ‰‹ใงใƒใ‚ฐใ™ใ‚‹ๅดใฎใ‚ˆใ† ใงใ™ใ€‚
02:11
- A side on hug, yeah I know what you mean.
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-ใƒใ‚ฐใฎๅดใ€ใˆใˆใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:14
Yeah, and sometimes you can use that handshake
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ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใชใ‚‰ใ€ ใใฎๆกๆ‰‹
02:18
to bring and pull somebody into a hug
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ใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ๆŠฑๆ“ใ—ใŸใ‚Šๅผ•ใๅฏ„ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
02:21
if that's what you want to do.
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.
02:23
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:24
- Yeah, for example, guys do that.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใฟใ‚“ใชใใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:27
- Do they? - Yeah.
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- ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ๏ผŸ - ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:28
So the other night, I met a friend,
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ใใ‚Œใงๅ…ˆๆ—ฅใฎๅคœใ€ๅ‹ไบบใซไผšใฃ
02:32
I won't mention him here,
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ใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ“ใ“ใงใฏ่งฆใ‚Œ
02:33
I hadn't seen him for a long time,
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€้•ทใ„้–“ไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸ
02:36
so I went to give him a handshake,
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ใฎใงใ€ๆกๆ‰‹ใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰
02:38
and he was like, "Bring it in."
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ใ€ๅฝผใฏใ€ŒๆŒใฃใฆใใฆใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
02:40
He said, "Bring it in."
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ๅฝผใฏใ€Œใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ€‚
02:42
Which just means bring it in for a hug.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ๆŠฑๆ“ใฎใŸใ‚ใซๆŒใก่พผใ‚€ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:45
So, guys do that all the time.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใฟใ‚“ใชใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:47
- Really?
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- ๆœฌๅฝ“๏ผŸ
02:48
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:49
- Interesting.
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- ้ข็™ฝใ„ใ€‚
02:50
I think in general though, that when women meet,
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ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ ใซใ€ๅฅณๆ€งๅŒๅฃซใงไผšใ†
02:55
we're probably more likely to hug.
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ใจใƒใ‚ฐใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒๅผทใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:58
- Yes, I think so.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€ใใ†ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
02:59
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:00
- And when a guy and a woman, man and a woman,
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€็”ทใจ ๅฅณใ€็”ทใจๅฅณ
03:05
meet for the first time, the default is a handshake.
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ใŒๅˆใ‚ใฆไผšใ†ใจใ ใ€ใƒ‡ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒซใƒˆใฏๆกๆ‰‹ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:09
- Yes.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
03:10
- And I'll also say, this is very similar in the UK as well.
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- ใพใŸใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ่‹ฑๅ›ฝใงใ‚‚้žๅธธใซใ‚ˆใไผผใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:15
These are very similar things that you do there too.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ“ใง่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใจ้žๅธธใซใ‚ˆใไผผใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:18
Yeah, and the fist bump.
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ใˆใˆใ€ใใ—ใฆๆ‹ณใฎ่ก็ชใ€‚
03:22
When is that appropriate?
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ใใ‚ŒใŒ้ฉๅˆ‡ใชใฎใฏใ„ใคใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
03:24
- Um, I think it depends.
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-ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ‚Œใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:28
It's probably better for somebody
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่ชฐใ‹
03:29
that you have a closer relationship with
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ใจๅ†—่ซ‡ใ‚’่จ€ใ„ๅˆใˆใ‚‹็จ‹ๅบฆใฎ่ฆชๅฏ†ใช้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใ„ใŸใปใ†ใŒใ„ใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ
03:31
that's a little bit, like, you can joke with them.
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:35
- Yeah, it's, we do it a lot at soccer.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ‚ตใƒƒใ‚ซใƒผใงใ‚ˆใใ‚„ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
03:39
That is very common.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:41
- I think that it's also less of a greeting,
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- ใพใŸใ€ๆŒจๆ‹ถ
03:44
and more of a, like a way to go gesture.
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ใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใฏใ€่กŒใๅ…ˆใฎใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚นใƒใƒฃใƒผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:48
- Yeah, like a celebration.
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใŠ็ฅใ„ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚
03:50
- Yeah, like a high five.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใƒใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒƒใƒใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚
03:51
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:52
Oh, the high five too.
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ใ‚ใ€ใƒใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒƒใƒใ‚‚ใ€‚
03:54
(clapping) Like that.
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(ๆ‹ๆ‰‹ ) ใใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
03:56
You were going to do that one,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Š
03:58
weren't you? - I was, I was.
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ใงใ—ใŸใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ - ็งใฏใใ†ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
03:59
Wait, hold on let's-- - So you can do it...
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ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ€ๅพ…ใฃใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† -- - ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™...
04:01
Like that.
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ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚
04:02
We needed to practice this before.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไบ‹ๅ‰ใซ็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:05
This can lead to awkward situations, right?
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏๅŽ„ไป‹ใช็ŠถๆณใซใคใชใŒใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
04:09
Okay, living in Spain, how did you greet people in Spain?
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณใซไฝใ‚“ใง ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณใฎไบบใ€…ใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ‹?
04:15
- It was the double kiss.
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- ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ญใ‚นใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:17
- Always?
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- ใ„ใคใ‚‚๏ผŸ
04:18
- Yes.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
04:19
- Yeah, with a woman and a woman, a man and a woman.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ๅฅณๆ€งใจ ๅฅณๆ€งใ€็”ทๆ€งใจๅฅณๆ€งใงใ€‚
04:26
I think two guys, it was more of a handshake.
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ไบŒไบบใฎ็”ทใ ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏๆกๆ‰‹ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:29
- Really?
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- ๆœฌๅฝ“๏ผŸ
04:30
- Yeah, if I remember correctly.
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-ใˆใˆใ€็งใฎ่จ˜ๆ†ถใŒๆญฃใ—ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ€‚
04:32
If you are from Spain, please let us know,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณๅ‡บ่บซใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€็งใŸใกใซ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
04:35
because I don't have the best memory of that.
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04:39
But I do know that it sometimes led to awkward situations.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒๆ™‚ใ€…ๅŽ„ไป‹ใช็ŠถๆณใซใคใชใŒใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:45
For example, when somebody from the UK
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚น
04:49
and somebody from America met each other in Spain,
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ใฎไบบใจใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใฎไบบใจใŒ ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณใงๅ‡บไผšใฃใŸใจใใ€ใฉใกใ‚‰ใŒๅ„ชใ‚Œ
04:55
it was difficult to know which one was best.
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅˆคๆ–ญใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏๅ›ฐ้›ฃใงใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
04:59
Because, do you shake hands like you do in the UK?
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใจๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆกๆ‰‹ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:03
Or do you kiss like you do in Spain?
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ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ‚ญใ‚นใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:06
Do you remember that?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:07
- I do remember that, and I think that
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- ็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:11
just whichever one you choose, you have to commit to it.
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ใฉใกใ‚‰ใ‚’้ธๆŠžใ— ใฆใ‚‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใซใ‚ณใƒŸใƒƒใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:16
- Yes, I like that.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
05:18
- And usually like a, like a casual handshake
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€้€šๅธธ ใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชๆกๆ‰‹
05:22
or a casual hug is not going to be awkward.
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ใ‚„ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใชใƒใ‚ฐใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ ๆฐ—ใพใšใใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
05:25
Not always, but most of the time.
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ๅธธใซใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎๅ ดๅˆใงใ™ใ€‚
05:28
You know, if you're just, there's little like,
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05:32
a pat on the back, it's like very, I don't know, casual.
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ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€่ƒŒไธญใ‚’่ปฝใใŸใŸใใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใฏใปใจใ‚“ใฉใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใจใฆใ‚‚ใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใงใ™ใ€‚
05:38
- I like that.
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- ็งใฏใ™ใใงใ™ใ€‚
05:39
And obviously, in business settings,
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ใใ—ใฆๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใ€ใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใฎๅ ดใง
05:41
the handshake is king. - Yes, yes.
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ใฏๆกๆ‰‹ใŒ็Ž‹ๆง˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ - ใฏใ„ใฏใ„ใ€‚
05:43
When in doubt, don't hug.
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็–‘ใ‚ใ—ใ„ใจใใฏใ€ๆŠฑใใ—ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
05:46
- Yeah, I like that.
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-ใˆใˆใ€็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
05:49
And can I show you something?
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:51
- I'm afraid.
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- ็งใฏๆ€–ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
05:52
What' gonna happen?
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ใฉใ†ใชใ‚‹๏ผŸ
05:53
- The firm handshake.
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ใƒปๅ›บใ„ๆกๆ‰‹ใ€‚
05:54
- Oh, yes, the firm handshake.
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05:56
- Yeah, which is, I think it's a power play in some ways.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ„ๅ‘ณใƒ‘ใƒฏใƒผใƒ—ใƒฌใ‚คใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:01
- Really?
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- ๆœฌๅฝ“๏ผŸ
06:02
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:03
Like, if you meet somebody in a business setting,
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06:06
and they give you a really firm handshake,
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ใซไผšใฃใฆใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅ›บใ„ๆกๆ‰‹ใ‚’ใ—
06:08
they're liking control of that situation.
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ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใใฎไบบใฏใใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’ใ‚ณใƒณใƒˆใƒญใƒผใƒซใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
06:11
- Right, okay.
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- ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
06:13
- It's like a dominance thing.
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06:15
- I feel like whenever I shake hands,
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- ๆกๆ‰‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใณใซใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆกใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจ
06:17
I just wanna hold my own.
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ๆ€ใ†.
06:19
- What do you mean?
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06:19
- Like, I don't wanna squeeze somebody's hand,
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- ใฉใ†่จ€ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
- ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ ่ชฐใ‹ใฎๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆกใ‚Š
06:21
but I don't wanna let somebody squeeze my hand.
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ใŸใใชใ„ใ‘ใฉใ€ ่ชฐใ‹ใซ็งใฎๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆกใ‚‰ใ›ใŸใใชใ„.
06:25
- Oh.
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- ใŠใƒผใ€‚
06:26
- Do you see what I'm saying?
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- ็งใŒ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?
06:27
- Kind of.
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- ใ™ใ“ใ—ใ€‚
06:30
So, show me.
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ใ˜ใ‚ƒใ‚ใ€่ฆ‹ใ›ใฆใ€‚
06:32
- Okay, if they go in for the firm, go in for the firm,
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-ใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒไผš็คพใฎใŸใ‚ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใใŸใ‚‰ ใ€
06:35
I'm just giving back the same amount of pressure.
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็งใฏๅŒใ˜้‡ใฎใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใ‚’่ฟ”ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ .
06:38
- Right, so you're reacting
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06:39
to the firmness of the handshake.
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ใใ†ใงใ™ใญใ€ๆกๆ‰‹ใฎๅ›บใ•ใซๅๅฟœใ—ใฆใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
06:41
- Exactly.
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- ไธๅบฆใ€‚
06:42
- Yeah.
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- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
06:43
This reminds me of these YouTube videos,
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ใ“ใ‚Œ
06:47
where the guy would see how long
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ใฏใ€็”ทๆ€งใŒ
06:50
he could shake someone's hand for.
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่ชฐใ‹ใจๆกๆ‰‹ใงใใ‚‹ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ YouTube ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ›ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:51
- This is reminding me of that,
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-ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
06:53
and all of the hugging.
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ใ€ใใ‚Œใจใ€ใƒใ‚ฐใฎใ™ในใฆใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ›ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:54
You didn't warn me
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06:55
that there would be so much hugging today.
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06:57
I love it, but--
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06:58
- Oh, good, good.
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---ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ„ใ„ใ€ใ„ใ„ใ€‚
07:00
Okay, so we have talked about handshakes, hugs, kisses,
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ใ•ใฆใ€ ๆกๆ‰‹ใ€ใƒใ‚ฐใ€ใ‚ญใ‚นใ€
07:03
fist bumps, all those, high fives.
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07:07
- High fives, secret handshakes.
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07:09
- Secret handshakes, yeah.
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07:10
- Well, we haven't talked about that,
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-ใพใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใฏ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
07:11
but maybe we'll make one later.
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07:13
- Yeah, we'll do that at the end of the video.
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- ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใง่กŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:15
- Okay.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
07:16
- People also want to know
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- ไบบใ€…ใฏใพใŸ
07:18
what you should say when you see someone,
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07:22
somebody you know, and someone you don't know.
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07:25
When you meet them, when you see them.
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07:28
- Right.
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07:29
- So I thought you could tell everyone
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07:31
what is a good thing to say in America
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07:34
when you see someone for the first time, for example.
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ใพใ— ใŸ.
07:36
- Okay, so I think that in general,
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07:43
there's, you have to ask somebody what their name is,
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07:47
or offer your name.
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07:50
- Okay, what...
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07:52
You go up to somebody who you don't know,
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07:56
but you want to talk to them for whatever reason.
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07:58
- Okay.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
07:59
- What's the first thing that you say?
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- ๆœ€ๅˆใซไฝ•ใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
08:01
- I would usually just say, "Hi, I'm Kate."
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- ็งใฏ้€šๅธธ ใ€ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:04
and let them tell me their name.
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08:07
- Yeah, I would say, "I'm Jack."
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08:09
and then you say?
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08:11
- "Nice to meet you."
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08:11
- Yes, yes, I was hoping you would say that.
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-ใฏใ„ใ€ใฏใ„ใ€ ใใ†่จ€ใฃใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
08:14
Because "Nice to meet you" is, I think,
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08:17
the default thing to say in this situation.
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08:21
"Nice to meet you."
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08:23
It works every time when you're meeting somebody.
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08:26
If it's formal, informal, family, you know,
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08:31
when you're meeting them for the first time.
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08:34
What about when you see a friend at the grocery store?
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08:44
What's a question you would ask them?
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08:47
- That's a really good thing to think about,
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08:52
and actually, I have noticed
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08:56
that when I go to the grocery store,
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08:59
I really enjoy going to a particular grocery store.
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09:03
- We won't mention it.
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09:05
I don't know why not, I feel like--
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09:07
- Trader Joe's. - Trader Joe's.
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09:09
- Because I always have a nice, casual conversation
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09:14
with the person who's helping me check out
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09:17
and bag my groceries.
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09:19
- Okay.
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- ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
09:20
- And I've noticed that
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€
09:23
they ask usually one of two questions.
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09:28
And it is always easy to start a conversation
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09:32
with these questions.
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09:33
So, the first one is, "How is your day so far?"
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09:39
- I like that, "How is your day so far?"
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09:41
or maybe, "How is your day going?"
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09:42
- Yeah, "How is your day going?"
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09:44
Or "How has your day been?"
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09:46
- Very good.
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09:47
- And then the other questions are,
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09:50
"Do you have any plans for the afternoon,
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09:53
"or the evening, or the weekend?"
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09:55
And I think that a lot of times,
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09:58
when we try to start a conversation with somebody,
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10:02
it puts all of this pressure on if we ask big questions.
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ใ™ในใฆใŒๅ…ฅใ‚Š่พผใ‚€ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™. ๅคงใใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจ ใ“ใฎใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜
10:08
And I don't know about you,
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10:10
but for me, I hate questions like,
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10:13
"What is your favorite band?"
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10:15
or "What is your favorite music?"
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10:18
- Do people at the grocery store ask that?
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?ใ€ ใจใ„ใฃใŸ่ณชๅ•ใฏๅซŒใ„ใงใ™ ้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใซ่žใ„ใŸใ‚‰
10:20
- Who knows?
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? -
10:21
Maybe not at the grocery store - I know what you're saying
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10:24
I know what you're saying.
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10:25
- But like, yeah, if you go to like, a language exchange,
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10:28
- This is a great example. - Or a party,
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10:30
somebody might ask you a question like that,
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10:32
and for me, I always have to stop and think.
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ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“. ็งใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ ็ซ‹ใกๆญขใพใฃใฆ่€ƒใˆ
10:35
Because I'm not, you know, my favorite music changes,
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10:39
or the book, and it feels like there's
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10:42
a lot of pressure on that answer.
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10:44
- And that's a very specific example.
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10:47
When you go to the store,
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10:50
and the person is, how would you say, checking you out?
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10:54
No, that doesn't make sense.
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10:55
- No, that means something different.
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. ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใใฎ็ง ไฝ•ใ‹้•ใ†ใจ็ญ”ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
10:57
- That means like, yeah...
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- ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใใ†ใงใ™ใญ...
10:59
I'll leave the definition of that in the description.
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ใใฎๅฎš็พฉ ใฏ่ชฌๆ˜Žใซๆฎ‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:03
But what, how would you say that?
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไฝ•ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
11:05
They are...
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11:08
- Um, yeah, that's a really good question,
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-ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„
11:09
because you would say that you're checking out
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่ณชๅ•ใงใ™
11:11
at the grocery store.
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ใ€‚้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใงใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ขใ‚ฆใƒˆใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:12
- Yeah, to check out means like,
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-ใˆใˆใ€ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ขใ‚ฆใƒˆใจใฏใ€
11:14
to put all your things on that belt,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ™ในใฆใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ใใฎใƒ™ใƒซใƒˆใซ
11:18
and then they scan them, and then you pay for them.
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11:22
Yeah, so in that situation that's very specific,
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11:27
because it can be quite difficult
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11:30
to know what to talk about,
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11:32
or if you should talk at all.
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่ฉฑใ™ในใใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏ่ฉฑใ™ในใใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’ๅˆคๆ–ญใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒ้žๅธธใซ้›ฃใ—ใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:34
And some people avoid that conversation
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11:37
by speaking on their phone or just head down,
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้›ป่ฉฑใง่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€้ ญใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ€
11:41
that type of thing.
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ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™.
11:44
But I've noticed that, at Trader Joe's,
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11:46
they ask you questions that you want to answer,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ญ”ใˆใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†่ณชๅ•ใ€
11:50
that are easy to answer, and little bit more specific.
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11:53
- Yeah, and I think especially when
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-ใˆใˆใ€็‰นใซ
11:56
you're just in your day, or doing something,
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11:59
then you're thinking about that in the moment,
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12:03
and you're thinking about what's happened so far,
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎ็žฌ้–“ใซใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ“ใ‚Œใพใงใซไฝ•ใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ€
12:06
and what you're going to do.
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ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ .
12:09
You know, you're not thinking about
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12:10
what your plans are for 10 years,
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12:13
you're not thinking about, you know, your childhood.
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ใ‚„ๅญไพ›ๆ™‚ไปฃใฎใ“ใจใฏ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:17
- No, no it's a really good point.
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- ใ„ใ‚„ใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„็‚นใงใ™ใ€‚
12:20
And it just made me think about something too,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๆฐทใ‚’ๅฃŠใ™ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใฎๆฆ‚ๅฟตใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใซใ‚‚ไฝ•ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใ•ใ›ใพใ—ใŸ
12:23
because there's this concept of breaking the ice.
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12:27
- Yes.
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- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
12:28
- The first thing you say to start a conversation.
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- ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆœ€ๅˆใซ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ€‚
12:31
And I was thinking about some situations
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ใใ—ใฆ
12:35
when it can be difficult to do, when people are shy.
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ใ€ไบบใŒๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใŒใ‚Šๅฑ‹ใงใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ้›ฃใ—ใ„็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
12:38
And one I thought of, was the first class at college,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใŒ่€ƒใˆใŸใฎใฏใ€ ๅคงๅญฆใงใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚นใง
12:46
when everybody is waiting to go into the class,
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ใ€่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒ ใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚นใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€
12:51
no one is saying anything, and then somebody breaks the ice.
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่ชฐใ‚‚ไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใ‚ใš ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆฐทใ‚’็ •ใ„ใŸ.
12:56
And it's difficult, because you don't know if you should
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12:59
speak to one person or to everyone.
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ไธ€ไบบใซ่ฉฑใ™ในใใ‹ใ€ๅ…จๅ“กใซ่ฉฑใ™ในใใ‹ๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
13:03
Have you got any examples of what you can say there?
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ใใ“ใง่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎไพ‹ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
13:07
- Well, I am often extremely shy,
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-ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใ—ใฐใ—ใฐ้žๅธธใซๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใŒใ‚Šๅฑ‹ใง
13:11
and feel really awkward, especially in situations like that,
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ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใŽใ“ใกใชใๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็‰นใซใ€่ชฐใ‚‚็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใงใฏ
13:16
where you don't know anyone,
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13:17
and I think that it's always solid advice
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13:20
to you know, introduce yourself.
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ใ€่‡ชๅทฑ็ดนไป‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏๅธธใซๅ …ๅฎŸใชใ‚ขใƒ‰ใƒใ‚คใ‚นใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™.
13:24
- How would you do that?
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- ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
13:26
- Just say, "Hi, I'm Kate."
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-ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
13:28
- Just go up to somebody and say, "Hi, I'm Kate."
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-่ชฐใ‹ใฎใจใ“ใ‚ ใซ่กŒใฃใฆใ€ใ€Œใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
13:30
- Mmhmm.
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-ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚
13:31
- I've noticed what women do a lot,
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- ็งใฏใ€ๅฅณๆ€งใŒใ‚ˆใ
13:33
is that they'll say, "I love your jacket, I love your bag."
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ€ใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚ธใƒฃใ‚ฑใƒƒใƒˆใŒๅฅฝใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒใƒƒใ‚ฐใŒๅฅฝใใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
13:37
And that's a way to break the ice, isn't it?
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏๆฐทใ‚’็ •ใๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใญใ€‚
13:41
- Giving someone a compliment.
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- ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ค’ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚
13:42
- Giving someone a compliment, yeah.
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- ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ค’ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€ใˆใˆใ€‚
13:44
And I think you have to do it quickly,
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13:47
because the longer you wait, the more difficult it is to do.
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ๅพ…ใคๆ™‚้–“ใŒ้•ทใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ้•ทใ„ใปใฉใ€ๅฎŸ่กŒ ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒ้›ฃใ—ใใชใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€่ฟ…้€ŸใซๅฎŸ่กŒใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:53
If it's silent for a long time,
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ใใ‚ŒใŒ้•ทใ„้–“ๆฒˆ้ป™ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‰ใ€
13:55
- And your brain starts going,
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- ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่„ณใฏๅ‹•ใๅง‹ใ‚
13:57
and you're thinking about things, but yeah, it's yeah.
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็‰ฉไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:00
- And the last thing I want to talk about
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- ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎ
14:02
is talking to people that you pass on the street.
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ใฏใ€้€šใ‚Šใ™ใŒใ‚Šใฎไบบใจ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจ ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:07
Because I have noticed the difference
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใจใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใฎ้•ใ„ใซๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใŸ
14:09
between the UK and America.
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ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:11
- Okay, what have you noticed?
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- ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใซๆฐ—ใฅใใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
14:13
- That it's more common to say hi
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14:15
to people that you pass in America
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้€šใ‚Šใ™ใŒใ‚ŠใฎไบบใซๆŒจๆ‹ถ
14:18
than it is in the UK.
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ใ‚ขใƒกใƒชใ‚ซใฎๆ–นใŒไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใงใ™.
14:20
- Really? - Yeah.
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- ๆœฌๅฝ“๏ผŸ - ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:21
- Interesting.
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- ้ข็™ฝใ„ใ€‚
14:22
- So let's say we are walking in our neighborhood,
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- ใŸใจใˆใฐ ใ€็งใŸใกใŒ่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใ‚’ๆญฉใ„
14:25
and we pass someone we don't, we've never seen before,
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ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ่ฆ‹ใŸใ“ใจใฎใชใ„ใ€่ฆ‹ใŸใ“ใจใฎใชใ„ไบบใ‚’ใ™ใ‚Œ้•ใ†ใจใ—
14:29
you would say hello, right?
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ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
14:31
- Oh yeah, definitely.
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- ใˆใˆใ€็ขบใ‹ใซใ€‚
14:32
- And we're not talking about a busy New York street,
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- ใซใŽใ‚„ใ‹ใชใƒ‹ใƒฅใƒผใƒจใƒผใ‚ฏใฎ้€šใ‚Šใงใ€
14:35
where you say, "Hi, hi, hi" to everybody.
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ใฟใ‚“ใชใซใ€Œใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:38
But when it's in a setting
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14:40
where it's a little bit more quiet,
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14:41
you're in a neighborhood where people live, not downtown.
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ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ ใƒ€ใ‚ฆใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฆใƒณใงใฏใชใใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅœฐๅŸŸใซใ„ใพใ™.
14:47
And people do say hi to you.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:50
In the UK, people tend to keep their heads down more.
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่‹ฑๅ›ฝใงใฏใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏ ้ ญใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
14:55
- Yeah, I've noticed that actually.
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โ€•โ€•ใˆใˆใ€ๅฎŸใฏๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
14:56
- And they won't make eye contact,
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-ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆ
14:58
they won't smile, they won't say hi.
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ใ‚’ใจใ‚‰ใšใ€ๅพฎ็ฌ‘ใฟใ‚‚ใ›ใšใ€ๆŒจๆ‹ถใ‚‚ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:01
- And like when you go into a shop too,
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- ใŠๅบ—ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใจใใ‚‚
15:05
you won't necessarily say something nice
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15:08
to the person working the register,
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15:12
or somebody that you see in the aisle.
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ใ‚„้€š่ทฏใง่ฆ‹ใ‹ใ‘ใŸไบบใซใ„ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใจใฏ้™ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:14
Whereas when you're checking out, you do,
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ไธ€ๆ–นใ€ใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ขใ‚ฆใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ
15:19
like you would say, like, "Hey, how are you?"
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ใ€ใ€ŒใŠๅ…ƒๆฐ—ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:22
You know?
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15:23
And there's that expectation that you act
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15:25
like somebody is your friend,
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ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่กŒๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆœŸๅพ…ใŒ
15:27
whereas I feel like in the UK, it's much more--
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒ ใ€่‹ฑๅ›ฝใงใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใซ---
15:29
- Reserved.
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ไบˆ็ด„ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:31
- Reserved.
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- ไบˆ็ด„ๆธˆใฟใ€‚
15:32
- Well, I'd say in certain shops, people are quite friendly,
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- ใˆใˆใจใ€ๅง‰ใฎๅฎถใฎ่ฟ‘ใใฎใŠ ๅบ—ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ไบบใŒใจใฆใ‚‚ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใชๅบ—ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
15:36
like the one near my sister's house.
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15:39
Everybody knew everyone else,
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่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒไป–ใฎใ™ในใฆใฎไบบใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใฆ
15:42
and they all talked about things.
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ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ™ในใฆ็‰ฉไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
15:45
And the guy who worked there,
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15:48
he was very friendly to us,
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15:49
although he had never seen us before.
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็งใŸใกใซไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸใŒใ€ใจใฆใ‚‚ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใงใ—ใŸใ€‚
15:51
- But I think in general, smiling and nodding.
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-ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใฏไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซใ€ ็ฌ‘้ก”ใงใ†ใชใšใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:56
- Smiling and nodding when you pass someone.
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- ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฟฝใ„่ถŠใ™ใจใใฏ็ฌ‘้ก”ใงใ†ใชใšใใ€‚
15:59
- Just a little...
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- ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ ใ‘...
16:01
- Yeah, I love it when somebody does it.
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- ใˆใˆใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
16:04
You know, like, let's just say I'm driving in the car,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€็งใŒ่ปŠใ‚’้‹่ปขใ—ใฆใ„ใฆ
16:07
and there's a situation where
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16:10
you have to let them go or they let you go,
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ ใ‚’ๆ‰‹ๆ”พใ•ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‰‹
16:14
and they smile and wave.
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ๆ”พใ•ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„็ŠถๆณใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
16:15
I always feel happy about those situations.
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ใใ‚“ใช็Šถๆณใซใ„ใคใ‚‚ๅนธใ›ใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
16:18
- Oh, you do?
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16:18
- Yeah.
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-ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
- ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
16:19
- I hate that when that happens,
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-็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒ่ตทใ“ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅซŒใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใใ‚Œ
16:20
not because of the smiling and the waving,
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ใฏ็ฌ‘้ก”ใ‚„ๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆŒฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใฏ
16:23
but because somebody's like, "Okay, you go ahead."
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ใชใใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ€Œใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ…ˆใซ้€ฒใฟใพใ™ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™.
16:25
And then you're like, "No, you go ahead."
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ…ˆใซ้€ฒใฟใพใ™ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:28
And then it's this back and forth.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ“ใฎๅ‰ๅพŒใงใ™ใ€‚
16:29
Or even worse, when you do it at the same time.
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ใพใŸใฏใ•ใ‚‰ใซๆ‚ชใ„ ใ“ใจใซใ€ๅŒๆ™‚ใซ่กŒใ†ใจใ€‚
16:32
Like you're both say, "Go ahead, you drive your car."
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ€Œ ใฉใ†ใžใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ปŠใ‚’้‹่ปขใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใ€‚
16:35
And I don't know.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
16:38
- I love your in-car voice, when you're talking to people.
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- ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฎ่ปŠๅ†…ใฎๅฃฐใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
16:43
- Oh, no.
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16:43
Do I have an in-car voice?
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- ใชใ‚“ใฆใ“ใฃใŸใ€‚
่ปŠๅ†…้Ÿณๅฃฐใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?
16:45
- "Yeah, yeah, go ahead."
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-ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใฉใ†ใžใ€‚ใ€
16:47
You know, you say really quietly?
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ใปใ‚‰ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้™ใ‹ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:50
But they can't hear you.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใ‚’่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
16:51
And the only way they could hear you is if you shouted it.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใ‚’่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ๅ”ฏไธ€ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅซใ‚“ใ ๅ ดๅˆใงใ™.
16:58
But you still say it like, "Go ahead, no, you go."
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใพใ  ใ€Œใฉใ†ใžใ€ใ„ใ‚„ใ€่กŒใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:01
Sorry.
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ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใ€‚
17:04
It's a good impression.
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ๅฅฝๅฐ่ฑกใงใ™ใ€‚
17:05
- Well, what do you do?
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-ใ•ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
17:07
- I think I do the same thing.
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- ็งใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:09
(laughing)
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17:11
Okay, I hope you enjoyed that conversation.
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚
17:13
We've got Kate's question coming soon,
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ใ‚‚ใ†ใ™ใใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใฎ่ณชๅ•
17:15
and our secret handshake.
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ใจ็ง˜ๅฏ†ใฎๆกๆ‰‹ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™.
17:18
Did you forget about that?
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
17:20
- I did.
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- ใ‚„ใฃใŸใ€‚
17:21
- Be sure to check out the description
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- ใ“ใ‚Œใพใงใซ่ชฌๆ˜Ž
17:22
for some of the phrases we've talked about
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ใ—ใŸใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฎ่ชฌๆ˜Žใจใ€ไบบใ€…ใซ่ณชๅ•
17:26
and just the different ways you can ask people questions,
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–นๆณ• ใ€
17:30
and the language you can use.
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ใŠใ‚ˆใณไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹่จ€่ชžใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:32
Anyway, Kate's question.
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ใจใซใ‹ใใ€ใ‚ฑใ‚คใƒˆใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
17:34
- How do you greet people that you don't know,
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- ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ไบบใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?ใพใŸใ€็ทŠๅผตใ‚’ใปใใ™ใŸใ‚
17:39
and what kind of questions do you like to ask
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ใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใ
17:43
to break the ice?
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ใงใ™ใ‹?
17:45
- I love that.
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- ็งใฏใใ‚ŒใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
17:46
Yeah, so how do you greet people that you don't know
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ใˆใˆใ€ใงใฏ
17:48
in your country,
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ›ฝใงใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ไบบใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€
17:49
and the questions to break the ice.
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ใใ—ใฆๆฐทใ‚’็ •ใใŸใ‚ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ™.
17:52
- Yes.
401
1072170
833
- ใฏใ„ใ€‚
17:53
- Okay, secret handshake.
402
1073003
1307
โ€•โ€•ใ‚ˆใ—ใ€็ง˜ๅฏ†ใฎๆกๆ‰‹ใ€‚
17:54
- Okay, I want there to be a wave.
403
1074310
2560
-ใ•ใฆใ€ๆณขใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
17:56
- A wave?
404
1076870
1580
- ๆณข๏ผŸ
17:58
Before we do it?
405
1078450
1173
ใ‚„ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซ๏ผŸ
17:59
- Or we could do a wave backing away.
406
1079623
2610
- ใพใŸใฏใ€ๆณขใ‚’ๅพŒ้€€ใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
18:02
(electric guitar music) - Okay, you ready?
407
1082233
1397
(ใ‚จใƒฌใ‚ญใ‚ฎใ‚ฟใƒผใฎ้Ÿณๆฅฝ) - ใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใฏใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹?
18:06
- Ooo.
408
1086204
833
- ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚
18:08
(laughing)
409
1088052
838
18:08
- Bye.
410
1088890
833
(็ฌ‘)
- ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚
18:11
(upbeat music)
411
1091154
2583
(ๆ˜Žใ‚‹ใ„้Ÿณๆฅฝ)
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