3 Ideas for Communicating Across the Political Divide | Isaac Saul | TED
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翻译人员: Sue Lu
校对人员: Yip Yan Yeung
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So I asked for a podium today,
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我今天要了一个讲台支架,
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and I'm going to read
from some notes when I give this talk,
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因为会在演讲时念一些笔记。
00:09
because I care a great deal
about language choices,
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我非常注重用语的选择,
00:13
and I want to be absolutely precise
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所以希望表达绝对准确,
00:15
in some of the words
that I'm going to use today.
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尤其是今天要用的一些词语。
00:17
I'm going to start by telling you
the same piece of information twice,
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首先,我将说两遍同一条信息,
00:21
but I'm going to say it
in two different ways.
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但我会用两种不同方式来说。
00:24
Here's the first way: "1,000 illegal
aliens were arrested by US Border Patrol
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第一种方式:“周一有 1,000 名
‘非法入境者’被美国边境巡逻队‘逮捕’,
00:30
after crossing the southern
border on Monday."
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当时他们刚刚越过南部边境。”
00:33
Here's the second way.
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第二种方式如下。
00:35
"1,000 undocumented immigrants
turned themselves in to US Border Patrol
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“周一有 1,000 名‘无证移民’
向美国边境巡逻队‘自首’,
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after crossing the southern
border on Monday."
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当时他们刚刚越过南部边境。”
00:43
You may be able to see the difference
between these statements.
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你可以看到这些陈述之间的区别。
00:47
The first one is written
to cater to a conservative audience
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第一种是为迎合美国保守派读者
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in the United States,
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而写的,
00:51
and the second is meant to cater
to a liberal audience.
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第二种是为了迎合自由派读者。
00:54
The difference in how straightforward
news stories like this are conveyed
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像这种直截了当的新闻故事的表述差异,
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underscores just how polarized
our politics have become.
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凸显了我们的政治已两极分化。
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Everyone knows
that polarization is a big issue
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众所周知,两极分化是个严重问题,
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in the United States and across the globe.
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无论是在美国还是全世界。
01:09
But what fewer people talk about
is the language choices
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但是, 鲜有人谈论的是,
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that the media
and political partisans make
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媒体和政党选择的用词,
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that push people away
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往往将人们拒之门外,
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who might have a different
perspective than them,
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因为他们对同一观点有不同看法。
01:20
despite the fact there are often
less alienating ways
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事实上,我们可以用更友善的方式
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to communicate the same ideas.
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来表达同一观点。
01:26
For media companies
that thrive on engagement,
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对于靠互动度生存的媒体公司而言,
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those choices might be intentional.
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这些用语选择可能是有意为之。
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It doesn't matter if a news outlet
loses half the country
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新闻媒体不在乎是否得罪一半国民,
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calling migrants illegal aliens,
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他们有意称移民为“非法入境者”,
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so long as it retains the other half.
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只要还有另一半国民支持就行。
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As individuals, however,
we sometimes make those choices
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但是,作为个人,
我们有时也会做出那种用语选择,
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without even realizing it.
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而不自知。
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I'd like to share some examples
of language choices
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我想分享一些用语选择的例子,
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that I think signal
what I call a political tribe.
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它们标志着我所说的“政治部落”。
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I'm going to start with some on the left.
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我将从左边这行的一些词语开始。
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"Equity." "Lived experience."
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“公正”、“亲身经历”、
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"Oppression."
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“压迫”。
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Someone may be sharing their pronouns
or talking about gender affirming care
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有的人会分享自己的代名词,
或谈论性别平等关怀,
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or using the term "Latinx."
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或使用 “Latinx“ 来称呼拉丁裔。
02:04
On the right, you might see words
like "snowflake" or "deep state,"
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右边这行有 “雪花” 、“深层政府”、
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"mainstream media," "alpha,"
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“主流媒体”、“阿尔法”、
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"illegal alien," "woke,"
"social justice warrior."
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“非法移民”、“觉醒者”、
“社会正义战士”等词语。
02:13
For over a decade, I've been obsessing
over language choices like this.
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十多年来,我一直沉迷于这些用语选择。
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I'm a politics reporter
from Bucks County, Pennsylvania,
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我是来自宾夕法尼亚州
雄鹿县的政治记者,
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a bellwether county in a bellwether state.
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该县是领头羊州的领头羊县。
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And in 2019, I started an independent,
nonpartisan news outlet called Tangle
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2019 年,我创办了独立、
无党派的新闻媒体 Tangle,
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in response to the bias and partisanship
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以回应偏见和党派倾向
02:31
that I saw flourishing
in major newsrooms all across America.
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在全美各大新闻编辑室的迅速发展。
02:35
In fact, I started Tangle
to solve the problem
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我创立 Tangle 是为了解决
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of what I like to call
"news polarization."
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我称之为“新闻两极分化”的问题。
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I wanted to create a place
where all Americans
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我想创造一个空间,让所有美国人,
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from the most hardcore MAGA Republican
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从最铁杆的 MAGA 共和党人,
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to the most progressive,
blue-blooded liberal
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到最进步、最纯正的自由派,
02:47
could trust as a source
of wide-ranging perspectives
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都可以信赖这里提供的视野宽泛的信息
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and balanced reporting.
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和均衡的报道。
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And a place where
an international audience
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在这里,国际读者
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could read about US news
without the typical partisan slant.
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可以读到没有党派倾向的美国新闻。
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Our approach is simple.
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我们的方法很简单,
03:00
It's just to share perspectives
from across the political spectrum
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就是分享各个政治派别的观点,
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in language that reaches
as many people as possible.
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使用尽可能多的人能接受的语言。
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But, as you might imagine,
we ran into some problems.
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但是,我们遇到了一些麻烦。
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We found that while attempting to bring
conservatives and liberals under one roof,
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在试图将保守派和自由派拉到一起时,
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we were often losing people
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我们常常失去读者,
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before they even read
the different ideas we were presenting.
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他们甚至连报道的不同观点都还没看!
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Early on, I would get emails
from liberal readers
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早些时候,我会收到自由派读者的电邮,
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saying they were unsubscribing
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说他们要取消订阅,
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over things like my use
of the term "pro-life"
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因为我使用“支持生命”一词,
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instead of "anti-abortion"
or "anti-choice."
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而不是“反堕胎”或“反选择”。
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At the same time, I would get emails
from conservative readers
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同时,我会收到保守派读者的电邮,
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saying they were unsubscribing
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说他们也要取消订阅,
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because I described abortion
as women's health care,
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因为我将堕胎描述为女性的医疗保健,
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which made them feel like
I was in the tank for the pro-choice side.
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让他们觉得我站在赞成选择一方。
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We realized that if we wanted people
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我们意识到,如果想让人们
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to actually hear arguments
from the other side,
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真正听到另一方的论点,
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we had to make some changes
to our language choices.
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就必须改变我们的用语选择。
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So I'd like to talk about how I navigate
this problem of polarizing language
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因此,我想谈谈我如何
解决语言两极分化问题的——
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as a reporter seeking to communicate
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作为一名记者如何寻求
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with an audience
from across the political spectrum,
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与来自不同政治派别的读者沟通,
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but also how I do it in my personal life.
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我也会谈谈在个人生活中如何做到这点。
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First, we really want to avoid
making language choices
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首先,我们希望避免选错用词,
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that signal to people,
"you are not on my team."
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让人误以为“你和我不是一边的”。
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That's incredibly difficult.
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但是这极其困难。
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Immigration is one subject
where news organizations
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移民,是新闻机构
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most commonly signal tribe,
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最常发出派别信号的话题,
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like in our first example,
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就如我们第一例中,
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"undocumented immigrant"
versus "illegal immigrant."
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“无证移民”与“非法移民”。
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We know that a conservative
might see "undocumented immigrant"
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我们知道,保守派看到“无证移民”
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and unsubscribe, suspecting
that we're soft on immigration,
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就会取消订阅,
怀疑我们对移民持温和态度;
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while a liberal
might see "illegal immigrant"
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而自由派看到“非法移民”,
04:29
and write in to tell us
that no person is illegal
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就会写信告诉我们没人是非法的,
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before canceling their account.
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然后取消订阅。
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That leads us to our first solution.
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这导致了我们的第一个解决方法,
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When possible, find a compromise.
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尽可能找到折衷方案。
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We settled on the term
"unauthorized migrant,"
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我们最终决定使用“未经许可的移民”。
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a legal expression
that seems not to offend
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这种法律表述似乎不会冒犯
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the sensibilities of either side,
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任何一方的感受,
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instead allowing readers
to take in the arguments we're presenting
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反而让读者能够
接受我们报道的论点,
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while also accurately portraying
what we're trying to communicate.
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同时让我们也能准确传达信息。
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Unfortunately, not every problem
has a simple compromise.
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不幸的是,并非每个问题
都有简单的折衷方案。
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So let's go to a classic example.
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让我们来看个经典例子。
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Abortion is a big indicator
of political tribe.
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堕胎是政治部落的一个重要标志。
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Is a person pro-life for wanting
to make the killing of a fetus illegal,
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一个人是为了支持生命而
将杀死胎儿定为非法行为,
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or are they anti-choice?
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还是为了反对选择?
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Is another person pro-choice
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另一个人赞成选择
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for wanting a woman to be able to choose
what happens to her body,
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是为了支持女性主宰自己身体的权利,
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or are they anti-life?
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还是为了反对生命?
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Ardent supporters of one side
of this debate or the other
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这场辩论一方或另一方的热心支持者
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will insist on using
their preferred terms.
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会坚持使用他们喜欢的术语。
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So what do you do?
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那你怎么办?
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Solution number two.
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第二种解决方法,
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We tend to use a group's preferred term.
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我们倾向于使用他们喜欢的术语。
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That allows us to maintain
a neutral tone in the discussion
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这使我们能够在讨论中保持中立基调,
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and treat everyone's position
with tolerance.
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宽容地对待每个人的立场。
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Pro-life people say they're pro-life,
so we call them that.
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反对堕胎的人称自己为“支持生命”,
那我们就这样称呼他们。
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Pro-choice people say they're pro-choice,
so we say that, too.
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支持堕胎的人称自己为“赞成选择”,
所以我们也这么称呼他们。
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We may use a term like "anti-abortion"
to describe a pro-life group,
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我们可能用像“反堕胎”这类术语
来描述一个“支持生命”的群体,
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but only if we've seen them
use that language themselves,
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但前提是我们看到
他们自己在使用这种语言。
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which, by the way, many of them do.
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顺便,他们许多人确实是这么用的。
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We ran into a similar issue
with the term "Latinx,"
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我们在 “Latinx” 这个词上
遇到了类似问题。
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a gender-neutral word invented
to describe people of Hispanic descent.
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这是一个性别中立的词,
为描述西班牙裔人而发明。
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In theory, it's a decent idea,
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从理论上讲,这个主意不错,
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but it has a major problem.
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但它有个大问题。
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The people whom that word refers to,
people of Hispanic or Latin descent,
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这个词所指的人群,
西班牙裔或拉丁裔人,
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they don't like it.
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并不喜欢它。
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I got emails and emails
from Latino and Latina people
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我不断收到来自拉丁裔人的电邮,
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telling me that
when referring to the group,
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告诉我在提及他们的群体时,
最好用 “Hispanic(西班牙裔)”
或 “Latino(拉丁裔)”。
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they preferred "Hispanic" or "Latino."
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06:15
And that's not just anecdotal.
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这不是凭空捏造的,
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Polling shows this too.
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民意调查也显示了这点。
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68 percent of people of Hispanic descent
favor the term "Hispanic,"
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68% 的西班牙裔人
赞成 “Hispanic” 一词,
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21 percent favor "Latina" or "Latino,"
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21% 赞成 “Latina” 或 “Latino”,
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and only 2 percent use the term "Latinx."
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只有 2% 使用 “Latinx”,
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On top of that, a whopping 40 percent
find the term "Latinx" offensive.
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但 40% 反感 “Latinx” 一词。
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So we stopped using it.
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所以我们就停止使用它了。
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I have another example
of a way you can work
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我还有个例子展示
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to communicate more neutrally.
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如何更中立地沟通。
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This one's a little bit of a doozy.
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这个例子有点棘手,
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This is one of the more controversial
things that we do.
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是我们所做的最具争议的一件事。
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The AP Stylebook,
which most media outlets use,
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大多数媒体使用的美联社写作手册,
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began calling for the capitalizing
of the B in "Black" in 2020
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从 2020 年开始呼吁
将 “黑人(Black)” 中的 B 大写,
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when referring to a race,
culture or ethnicity.
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当提及种族、文化或族裔时。
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They also offered the guidance
not to capitalize "white,"
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他们还建议了
“白人(white)” 不需大写 ,
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saying that "Black" communicated
a wider, shared cultural experience
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称 “Black” 传达了一种
更广泛、共同的文化体验,
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that "white" did not.
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而 “white” 却没有。
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For a long time we followed this guidance,
but we don't anymore.
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很长时间我们都在
遵循这个建议,但现在不了。
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Believe it or not, there's not actually
good polling on this that I could find,
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信不信由你,我找不到这方面
令人信服的民意调查,
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but there are a lot of arguments
for and against.
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但是有很多支持和反对的论点。
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And I found the arguments of Black writers
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我发现黑人作家的论点
07:15
who preferred the term to be lowercase
to be more persuasive.
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更有说服力,
他们偏爱小写的 black。
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Writers like Glenn Loury,
John McWhorter and Minna Salami.
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这些作家包括格伦·洛里、
约翰·麦克沃特和明娜·萨拉米。
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Loury put it like this:
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洛里是这样说的:
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"But if all the disparate groups
that constitute 'whites'
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“但是,如果构成‘白人’的
所有不同群体
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don't comprise a single people,
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都不是由一人组成,
07:30
why should all the disparate groups
that constitute 'blacks' do so?
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为什么构成‘黑人’的
所有不同群体都是呢?
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To be honest, I don't think they do.
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说实话,我认为他们也不是。
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I would probably have a hard time
seeing the sociological similarities,
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我会很难找到他们的社会相似性,
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say, between a wealthy member
of Lagos's business class
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比如,在拉各斯商务阶层的一位富豪
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and a man on Chicago's South Side
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和芝加哥南边一个
07:45
working three part-time jobs
just to pay his rent.
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为付房租打三份兼职工的人之间。
07:48
Learning that both are black
would tell me precisely nothing."
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知道两人都是黑人
恰恰说明不了什么。”
07:52
End quote.
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他的话引用完毕。
07:54
I agree, and I find this reasoning
much more compelling
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我赞同,这个理由更令人信服,
07:57
than the argument behind
the AP stylebook's decision.
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比美联社写作手册
支持的论点更有说服力。
08:00
And that is solution number three.
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这是第三个解决方法。
08:03
Sometimes you have to follow
your own thoughts,
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有时,你得遵从自己的想法,
08:06
state them honestly,
listen to the arguments,
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诚实地陈述它们,并倾听各种论点,
08:08
make a call as best you can,
and communicate your choice when asked.
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尽你所能做出判断,
在被问及时说出自己的选择。
08:13
Language choices
designed to connect people
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用语选择旨在连接不同
08:15
on all sides of the political spectrum
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政治派别的各方人士。
08:17
will never be perfect,
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虽然它不尽完美,
08:19
but we can try our very best.
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但我们可以尽力而为。
08:21
I believe it is our responsibility
to connect with people
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我认为这是我们的责任,
08:25
outside of our political tribes.
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与不同政治部落的人建立联系。
08:27
But that responsibility
doesn't only belong to the people
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但这种责任不仅仅属于
08:30
communicating the news;
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传播新闻的人;
08:32
it also lies with you and with me,
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它也属于你和我,
08:35
the consumers.
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即消费新闻的大众。
08:36
And it requires that we all
listen more neutrally, too.
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这也要求我们都更中立地倾听。
08:40
If you disagree with my decision on that,
capitalizing the B in "Black,"
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比如,如果你不同意我的决定——
将 “Black” 中的 B 大写,
08:44
as I'm sure many people
in this room do, that's fine.
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我敢肯定,在座许多人都不同意,没关系。
08:47
I would hope that we can have
an honest disagreement about it
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我希望我们能就此达成诚实的分歧,
08:50
and be able to see each other
as people who disagree
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能将彼此视为意见不一的人,
08:53
instead of political enemies.
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而不是政治敌人。
08:55
But that takes work.
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但这需要付出努力。
08:57
And a lot of the time,
a person you're speaking with
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很多时候,与你交谈的人
08:59
will use a phrase intended to signal
their membership to a political tribe,
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会使用一个特定短语
表明自己所属政治部落,
09:03
but that doesn't always mean
the other person intended to pick a fight.
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但这并不总意味着对方有意找茬。
09:07
You can make the decision
not to take offense
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你可以决定不生气,
09:09
by someone's tribal language choices,
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不在意他人的政治部落用语选择,
09:11
and rather hear their intended meaning.
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而是倾听他们的所思所想。
09:14
Progressives or more liberal
media outlets, for example,
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例如,进步派或更自由的媒体,
09:17
may center lived experiences
or share the pronouns of authors,
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可能会以亲身经历为中心,
或分享作者的代名词,
09:20
while conservatives
and conservative pundits
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而保守派和保守派专家
09:22
might riff about the deep state
or the mainstream media.
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可能会对深层政府或主流媒体大肆抨击。
09:25
What's fascinating to me
about these signals
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这些派别信号令我着迷的是
09:28
is that they often give extra meaning
to mostly apolitical ideas.
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它们常为基本是非政治性的观点
赋予额外含义。
09:33
Deep state is really just code
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深层政府实际上只是个代号,
09:35
for a kind of sinister
federal bureaucracy run amok,
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代表某种邪恶的
联邦官僚机构肆意妄为。
09:37
something plenty of progressives
would be open to acknowledging
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很多进步派都会愿意承认这点,
09:40
if the wording were
just a little bit different.
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只要措辞能够稍有不同。
09:43
Meanwhile, discussing lived experiences
isn't about being extra sensitive
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同时,讨论亲身经历不需格外敏感
09:48
to every transgression
you've ever experienced.
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对待你的每一次违法行为。
09:50
It's just another way of saying,
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这只是用另一种方式陈述
09:52
these are the things
that have happened to me,
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这些发生在我身上的事,
09:54
something that conservatives center
in their politics all the time.
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而保守派在政治上一直对此大肆渲染。
09:59
And lastly, I think it's worth noting
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最后,我认为值得注意的是,
10:01
that sometimes a single word
can mean totally different things
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有时一个词会表达多种不同意思,
10:06
to different groups.
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由于不同群体各执一词。
10:07
In recent months, one of the most
controversial issues in the world
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最近几个月,
全球最具争议的一个问题
10:11
has been Israel's incursion in Gaza.
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是以色列入侵加沙。
10:14
That has set off a debate about Zionism,
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这引发了关于犹太复国运动的辩论。
10:16
a word that I've heard used
as both a political term and a slur,
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我听到这个词被用作
政治术语,或是诽谤中伤,
10:20
depending on the speaker.
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视发言者而定。
10:22
I'd like to share
three different definitions
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让我来分享它的三个不同定义,
10:24
for the word Zionism that I could find.
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即“犹太复国运动”的定义。
10:27
The first is a definition from Britannica,
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第一个定义来自
《大英百科全书》(Britannica),
10:30
which broadly defines it
as a Jewish nationalist movement.
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将其宽泛地定义为犹太民族主义运动。
10:34
The second is from the ADL,
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第二个来自反诽谤联盟(ADL),
10:36
which calls it a movement
for self-determination and statehood.
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将其称为争取自决权和建国的运动。
10:39
And the third is a definition
from Al Jazeera's website,
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第三个定义来自
半岛电视台(Al Jazeera)网站,
10:42
which describes it as a colonial movement
by any means necessary.
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描述其为不择手段的殖民运动。
10:47
Same word, three different definitions.
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同一个词,三个不同定义。
10:50
Zionism is one of many terms
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犹太复国运动只是
众多这类术语中的一个,
10:52
that people have completely
different definitions for.
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人们争相赋予它们迥异的定义。
10:55
And if you're talking with someone
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在与人交谈时,
10:57
who's using a term
in a way that you wouldn't,
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如果不接受他们使用某个词的方式,
10:59
a really simple and effective tactic
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一个非常简单有效的策略
11:01
is to ask them how
they would define that term.
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就是问他们,你如何定义这个词?
11:05
That can be a good pathway
to gaining mutual understanding,
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这是获得相互理解的有效途径,
11:07
whereas not doing so
is often a serious impediment.
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不这样做往往造成严重妨碍。
11:11
And if you're in the media,
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如果你在媒体工作,
11:13
defining these terms in your writing
is almost always helpful.
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定义这些术语多会有助于你的写作。
11:17
Disagreement between two people
over an idea can never be productive
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两个人对一个想法的分歧
永远不会有结果,
11:21
if both people are imagining
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尤其是,如果双方都想象
11:23
the other is saying something
that they aren't.
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对方在说一些他们其实并没说的话。
11:27
So how can you connect with people
who think differently than you?
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那么,如何与那些
想法和你不同的人建立联系?
11:30
For both media organizations
and individuals in their everyday life,
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在日常生活中,媒体组织和个人,
11:34
you have to be sincere.
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都必须保持真诚。
11:36
People know when
they're being pandered to.
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人们会察觉到
别人是否在假意迎合他们。
11:38
You don't have to make everybody happy,
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你不必让所有人开心,
11:40
and you don't even have to like
the people that you disagree with.
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甚至不必喜欢与你有分歧的人。
11:44
But you ought to try communicating in ways
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但是你应尝试不同的沟通方式,
11:46
that more than one
political tribe can hear you.
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让不同政治部落听到你的见解。
11:49
And when the other political tribe
is communicating,
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而且,当其他政治部落进行交流时,
11:51
you should try your best to be tolerant
of their language choices.
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你应尽量容忍他们的语言选择,
11:55
That sometimes means calling a group
something they prefer to be called,
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即按照该群体的意愿称呼他们,
11:59
even if you disagree.
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即使你并不赞同那个称谓。
12:00
And it often means really hearing
the intentions of another person,
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这通常意味着用心倾听他人的愿望,
12:04
even if they are using language
that puts you off.
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哪怕他们的用词让你反感。
12:07
The good news is
that using more neutral language
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好消息是,使用更中立的用语
12:10
isn't always difficult,
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并不总是很难,
12:11
and tolerance is a pretty easy bar
to clear if you try.
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只要努力尝试,你就容易变得宽容。
12:15
So please, if you have
some better suggestions
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在此恳请大家,如果有什么好建议,
12:17
for how to communicate and connect
across the political spectrum,
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针对如何与不同政治派别沟通联系,
12:20
I'm all ears.
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我一定洗耳恭听。
12:22
I'm always open to ideas
and changing my mind,
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我一贯乐于接受不同想法,
并不断改变自己的想法,
12:24
and I hope you are too.
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希望你也一样。
12:25
Thank you.
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谢谢大家。
12:26
(Applause)
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