25 Ways to Say "NO" in English: Advanced Vocabulary Lesson

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Vanessa: Hi.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€‚
00:01
I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.
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SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.comใฎVanessaใงใ™ใ€‚
00:04
Do you know how to say no 25 different ways?
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25ใฎ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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Let's talk about it.
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ใงใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใŒ่žใ
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Saying no can be tricky because it's often the answer that the other person doesn't wanna
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ใŸใใชใ„็ญ”ใˆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅคšใ„ใฎใงใ€ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏ้›ฃใ—ใ„ๅ ดๅˆใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Š
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hear.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:22
But, you know what?
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
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Sometimes you just have to say no.
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ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:26
Don't shy away from the word "no".
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ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใŒใ‚‰ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
00:29
Shy away from means avoid the word no.
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ๆฅใšใ‹ใ—ใŒใ‚Šๅฑ‹ใฏใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’้ฟใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:32
Sometimes no is the strongest clearest answer.
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ๆ™‚ใซใฏใ€ๆœ€ใ‚‚ๆ˜Ž็ขบใช็ญ”ใˆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:36
Maybe someone asks you, "Hey.
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ใŸใถใ‚“่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€Œใญใˆใ€‚
00:38
Can you help me with this project?"
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ใ“ใฎใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ธใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
00:39
And, you say, "No.
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆ
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Sorry.
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ใ€‚ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€‚
00:42
I'm really busy.
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็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:43
I have too much going on."
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็งใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šใซใ‚‚ๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:44
Great.
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ใ™ใ”ใ„ใ€‚
00:45
It's clear, straightforward, and strong.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๆ˜Ž็ขบใงใ€็Ž‡็›ดใงใ€ๅผทๅŠ›ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:48
But, sometimes you wanna say other things besides just no.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ ใƒŽใƒผไปฅๅค–ใซไป–ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:52
So, today I'd like to add some tools to your vocabulary toolbox and help you learn more
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ชžๅฝ™ใƒ„ใƒผใƒซใƒœใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใซใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใƒ„ใƒผใƒซใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
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ways to say no for different situations.
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ใŒใ•ใพใ–ใพใช็ŠถๆณใฎใŸใ‚ใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅญฆใถใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:02
We already talked about how to say yes in 22 different ways.
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็งใŸใกใฏใ™ใงใซ22ใฎ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใจ่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
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You can click on the link up here to watch that video.
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ใ“ใกใ‚‰ใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
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But, today we're gonna talk about 25 ways to say no.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†25ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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First, let's focus on 10 ways to say no in normal daily conversations.
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ใพใšใ€้€šๅธธใฎๆ—ฅๅธธไผš่ฉฑใงใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†10ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
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Then, we're gonna focus on five ways to say no super strongly, and then, 10 ways to say
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ๆฌกใซใ€่ถ…ๅผทๅŠ›ใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†5ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆ ใ€ๆฌกใซใ€ไฝ™ๅˆ†ใซไธๅฏงใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†10ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใซ็„ฆ็‚นใ‚’ๅฝ“ใฆใพใ™
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no extra politely.
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01:28
Are you ready?
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ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใฏใงใใŸใ‹๏ผŸ ๆ—ฅๅธธไผš่ฉฑใง
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Let's start with the 10 ways to say no in daily conversation.
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ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†10ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
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Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:35
Dan: Nah.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใ„ใ‚„ใ€‚
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Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cut vegetables?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš้‡Ž่œใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:38
Dan: Nah.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใ„ใ‚„ใ€‚
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Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:41
Neh.
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ใญใˆใ€‚
01:42
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cut vegetables?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš้‡Ž่œใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
01:44
Dan: Nah.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใ„ใ‚„ใ€‚
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Vanessa: You just heard me ask, "Do you want to help me cook dinner?"
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็งใŒใ€Œ ๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่žใ„ใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
01:50
But, this question actually sounded like, "Do you wanna help me cook dinner?"
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ ใ€Œ็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
01:55
Want to often changes to wanna.
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้ ป็นใซๅค‰ๆ›ดใ—ใŸใ„ใ€‚
01:57
You're gonna hear this question a lot in this video, so I wanna make sure that you can hear
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใฏใ“ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ่žใใฎใงใ€็™บ้Ÿณใฎใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆ ใ‚’็ขบๅฎŸใซ่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
02:01
that pronunciation tip.
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02:03
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:05
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:07
And, how did Dan respond?
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใƒ€ใƒณใฏใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅๅฟœใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
02:08
Well, he said, "Neh."
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ใˆใˆใจใ€ๅฝผใฏใ€Œใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
02:11
Or, he could've said, "Nah."
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ๅฝผใฏใ€Œใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใŸใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
02:15
Here we have two different choices for really casual no answers, neh and nah.
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ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใช็„กๅ›ž็ญ”ใฎ2ใคใฎ็•ฐใชใ‚‹้ธๆŠž่‚ข ใ€nehใจnahใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:21
Neh and nah.
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ใƒใจใƒŠใ€‚
02:23
As you can imagine, this is pretty casual, so it's best to be used with people you're
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ใ”ๆƒณๅƒใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Šใ‚ซใ‚ธใƒฅใ‚ขใƒซใช ใฎใง
02:27
really familiar with, and in situations that aren't too serious.
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ใ€ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚„ ใใ‚Œใปใฉๆทฑๅˆปใงใฏใชใ„็Šถๆณใงไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๆœ€้ฉใงใ™ใ€‚
02:31
If someone asks you, "Oh.
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€Œใ‚ใ‚
02:34
I have an emergency.
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ใ€็ทŠๆ€ฅไบ‹ๆ…‹
02:35
I really need some help.
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ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅŠฉใ‘ใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
02:36
Can you please help me?"
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ๅŠฉใ‘ใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‰ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ใ€‚
02:37
And you said, "Neh."
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œใ„ใ‚„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
02:39
It's not too polite.
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅพŒใง็ง
02:41
You should decline in one of our other ways we talk about later in polite ways to say
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ใŸใกใŒ่ฉฑใ™ไป–ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใฎ1ใคใงใ€ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง่พž้€€ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
02:45
no.
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02:46
But, when you use "neh", it should be for pretty light informal situations.
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ใŸใ ใ—ใ€ใ€Œnehใ€ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ใ‹ใชใ‚Š่ปฝใ„้žๅ…ฌๅผใฎ็Šถๆณใซไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:52
Hey.
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ใŠใ„ใ€‚
02:53
Do you want some more chicken?
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02:54
Dan: Nope.
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02:55
Vanessa: Do you want some more broccoli?
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02:56
Dan: Noppers.
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02:57
Vanessa: Hey.
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02:58
Do you want some more chicken?
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02:59
Dan: Nope.
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03:00
Vanessa: Do you want some more broccoli?
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03:02
Dan: Noppers.
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03:04
Vanessa: Let's imagine that you're sitting at the dinner table, and someone offers you
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03:07
some more chicken.
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03:08
But, you're full.
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03:09
You don't want any more.
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03:11
How can you decline?
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03:12
Well, you might say, "Nope, I've had enough.
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03:15
Nope.
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03:16
I'm full.
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03:17
Nope.
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03:18
Nope."
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03:19
If you wanna use this in a slang way, it's just kind of funny, joking.
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03:23
You might say, "Noppers."
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03:26
This is something, as you can imagine, that's pretty casual, and you only wanna use when
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03:31
you wanna be funny.
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03:32
But, you might hear this in TV shows or movies.
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03:35
"Noppers.
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03:36
No thanks."
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03:37
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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03:38
Dan: Mm Mm.
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03:39
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cut vegetables?
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03:41
Dan: Uh Uh.
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03:42
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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03:43
Dan: Mm Mm.
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03:44
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cut vegetables?
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03:46
Dan: Uh Uh.
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03:47
Vanessa: You just heard "Mm Mm" and "Uh Uh".
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03:52
Here the intonation of your voice is really important.
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03:55
If you say "Mm Mm", it means no.
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03:58
But, if you say, "Mm-hmm (affirmative)", it means yes.
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04:02
So, make sure that your voice sounds like mine.
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04:05
Mm Mm.
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04:06
Mm Mm.
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04:08
Mm Mm.
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04:09
When you say, "Uh Uh.
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04:12
Uh Uh."
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04:14
You're going from high to low.
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04:16
Mm Mm.
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04:17
Uh Uh.
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04:18
This means no.
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04:20
Do you want some more food?
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04:21
Dan: I'm all set.
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04:22
Vanessa: Do you want another drink?
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04:25
Dan: I'm good.
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04:26
Vanessa: Do you want some more food?
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04:27
Dan: I'm all set.
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04:29
Vanessa: Do you want another drink?
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04:31
Dan: I'm good.
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04:33
Vanessa: This is a good expression for a restaurant.
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04:35
Do you want some more food?
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04:36
I'm all set.
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04:37
I'm good.
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04:38
I'm all set.
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04:39
I'm good.
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04:40
Let's imagine that you're having lunch with the President of your country.
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04:44
You should probably say, "I'm all set."
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04:47
This is a little bit more polite.
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04:49
It's not super polite.
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04:51
You can use this if you're visiting your in-laws or maybe your grandparents' house.
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04:57
If you say, "I'm good."
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04:59
It's more for casual situations.
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05:02
So, if you're at a restaurant that's not too formal, and the server asks you, "Oh, would
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05:07
you like another drink?"
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05:08
You could say, "I'm good."
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05:10
And, this means, "No thanks.
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05:12
I don't want any more.
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05:13
I'm good."
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05:15
Let's eat ice cream for dinner.
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05:17
Dan: Let's not and say we did.
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05:19
Vanessa: Let's eat ice cream for dinner.
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05:22
Dan: Let's not and say we did.
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05:24
Vanessa: Now we're getting into some more advanced ways to say no.
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05:29
Let's imagine that someone asks you something crazy or maybe something a little bit risky.
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05:35
Do you wanna have ice cream for dinner?
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05:37
Well, maybe you wanna be healthy.
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05:39
You wanna be a little practical.
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05:41
But, you don't want to just kill your friend's energy and excitement.
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05:46
So you wanna say something clever.
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05:48
You could say this expression, "Let's not and say we did."
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05:53
The full expression is "Let's not do it, but let's say that we did it."
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06:00
So, you're pretending that you did something, but you're not really doing it.
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06:05
So, you can imagine this situation where you're driving down the road and you see an old abandoned
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06:11
house, and your friend says, "Hey.
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06:14
Let's go check out that house.
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06:15
I wonder what's there."
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06:17
And, you're thinking, "I don't really want to, but it sounds like a fun idea."
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06:22
You can use this expression.
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06:23
You could say, "Let's not and say we did."
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06:26
You're kind of laughing at their idea.
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06:29
You're thinking, oh it sounds like fun, but no way.
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06:31
I'm not gonna do it.
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06:32
Let's not and say we did.
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06:35
Let's eat ice cream for dinner.
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06:36
Dan: No, no, no.
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06:38
Vanessa: Let's eat ice cream for dinner.
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06:39
Dan: No, no, no.
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06:41
Vanessa: When you were a kid, did you ever ask your parents for ice cream for dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšๅญไพ›ใฎ้ ƒใ€ ไธก่ฆชใซๅค•้ฃŸใซใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚นใ‚ฏใƒชใƒผใƒ ใ‚’้ ผใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
06:45
I know that I did all the time.
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06:47
I loved ice cream.
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06:48
I still do.
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06:49
But, my parents said, "No, no, no.
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06:52
No, no, no."
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06:53
This triple no is kind of childish.
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06:57
It's something that's often used towards children.
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06:59
So, you're gonna see it in TV shows or movies when someone is saying something towards a
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07:04
child.
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07:05
They might repeat this three times, "No, no, no."
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07:07
That's not a good idea.
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07:08
"No, no, no.
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07:09
Don't do that.
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07:10
No, no, no."
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07:11
So, if you say this to a friend or a coworker it's gonna sound a little bit strange, kind
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07:16
of like you're an authority.
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07:19
You're the parent.
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07:20
So, make sure that this is directed only towards children.
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07:23
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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07:24
Dan: No way.
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07:26
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me prepare the turkey?
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07:28
Dan: No way, Jose.
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07:30
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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07:32
Dan: No way.
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07:33
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me prepare the turkey?
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07:35
Dan: No way, Jose.
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07:37
Vanessa: In the U.S., Thanksgiving dinner is a big deal, but it's also a lot of work.
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07:42
So, if I ask Dan, "Hey.
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07:45
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?"
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07:46
And, he said, "No way.
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07:49
It's too much work."
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07:51
Maybe he could also say, "No way, Jose."
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ใŸใถใ‚“ๅฝผใฏใ€Œใพใ•ใ‹ใ€ใƒ›ใ‚ปใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใŸใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
07:53
Just as a little joke.
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07:55
This is pretty strong, and if it means that I need to cook dinner all by myself I might
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Šๅผทใ„ใงใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚ŒใŒ ็งใŒไธ€ไบบใงๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€็งใฏ
08:00
not be too happy about his answer, but if it was someone else, maybe it could be a little
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ๅฝผใฎ็ญ”ใˆใซใ‚ใพใ‚Šๆบ€่ถณใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใใ‚ŒใŒไป–ใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅ†—่ซ‡ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
08:05
bit of a joke.
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08:07
This is really strong.
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08:09
"No way.
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08:10
No way."
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ใพใ•ใ‹ใ€‚ใ€
08:11
Stop.
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚
08:12
End of conversation.
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ไผš่ฉฑใฎ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€‚
08:14
No way.
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ใจใ‚“ใงใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ€‚
08:15
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:16
Dan: Not possible.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
08:18
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me pour drinks?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš้ฃฒใฟ็‰ฉใ‚’ๆณจใใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:20
Dan: Never.
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08:21
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:22
Dan: Not possible.
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08:24
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me pour drinks?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš้ฃฒใฟ็‰ฉใ‚’ๆณจใใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:25
Dan: Never.
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08:26
Vanessa: The next two ways to say no are also really strong.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ๆฌกใฎ2ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚‚ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅผทใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:31
Not possible.
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใˆใชใ„ใ€‚
08:32
Never.
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08:33
You can imagine if someone said this, it kind of ends the conversation.
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ ใจๆƒณๅƒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใฎไบบใฏ...ใ‹ใชใ‚Šๅผทใ„ๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹
08:36
There's nothing else you can say, because that person is ... has a pretty strong opinion.
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08:41
Not possible.
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08:42
Can you help me with dinner?
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ๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚
08:43
Never.
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ไธ€ๅบฆใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ€‚
08:44
Okay.
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
08:45
I guess that's it.
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08:46
I guess I'll go make it by myself.
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08:49
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:51
Dan: Heavens, no.
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08:53
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:55
Dan: Heavens, no.
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08:57
Vanessa: The next strong way to say no is fun one.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ๆฌกใฎๅผทๅŠ›ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใฏ ๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
09:00
You can add any swear word you want here.
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ใ“ใ“ใซไปปๆ„ใฎๅ†’ใจใ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:03
Or, you can add a euphemism.
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ๅฉ‰ๆ›ฒ่กจ็พใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:05
A euphemism is kind of a polite disguised swear word.
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ๅฉ‰ๆ›ฒ่กจ็พใฏใ€ไธ€็จฎใฎไธๅฏงใชๅฝ่ฃ…ใ•ใ‚ŒใŸ ๅ†’ใจใ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
09:10
So, you might say, "Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œ็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ‹๏ผŸ
09:13
Heavens, no.
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09:14
I'm too busy.
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09:15
Heavens, no.
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09:16
That seems like a really difficult Thanksgiving dinner you're making.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝœใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ้›ฃใ—ใ„ๆ„Ÿ่ฌ็ฅญใฎ ๅค•้ฃŸใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚
09:20
Heavens, no.
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09:21
I'm not gonna do it."
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็งใฏ้•ใ„ใพใ™ ใ‚„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ€
09:22
But, you could also add any swear word you want here.
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ใŸใ ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ“ใซไปปๆ„ใฎๅ†’ใจใ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:25
"Heavens" is kind of a euphemism, a polite word.
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09:29
You might say, "Goodness no."
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œ่‰ฏใ•ใฏใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
09:30
That's also a euphemism, polite, not too bad.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅฉ‰ๆ›ฒ่กจ็พใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ€ใใ‚Œใปใฉๆ‚ชใใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
09:34
But, if you wanna add a swear word here, it's gonna make it extra strong.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ“ใซๅ†’ใจใ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ•ใ‚‰ใซๅผทๅŠ›ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:38
Alright.
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ๅคงไธˆๅคซใ€‚
09:39
Let's move on to 10 polite ways to say no.
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ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†10ใฎไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใซ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
09:41
Just to let you know, you can add, "I'm sorry."
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09:44
at the beginning of any of these, and it's gonna make it even more polite.
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09:47
In fact, you can add, "I'm sorry" before any of these no expressions, but especially with
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09:52
these polite ones, it'll be a good fit.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎไธๅฏงใช่กจ็พใงใฏใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏใดใฃใŸใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
09:54
Do you want some more food?
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ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
09:55
Dan: Thanks, but no thanks.
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09:58
Vanessa: Do you want some more food?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
10:00
Dan: Thanks, but no thanks.
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10:02
Vanessa: In this first polite expression, you're not really even saying no.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎไธๅฏงใช่กจ็พใงใฏใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใƒŽใƒผใจใ•ใˆ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:06
You're saying thank you.
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10:07
"Thanks, but no thanks" and this is just kind of just disguising your answer which is really
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใใ—ใฆ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’ๅฝ่ฃ…ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ
10:12
no.
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10:13
Do you want some more food?
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10:14
Thanks, but no thanks.
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ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
10:15
Your dinner was great.
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10:17
Thanks, but no thanks.
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10:18
I don't want anymore.
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ใ‚‚ใ†ๆฌฒใ—ใใชใ„ใ€‚
10:19
Thanks, but no thanks.
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10:21
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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10:23
Dan: Not now, I'm busy.
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10:25
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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10:27
Dan: Not now, I'm busy.
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10:29
Vanessa: These next three are kind of delaying your answer which is really no at the moment.
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10:37
But, you're saying, "Not now.
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10:39
Not this time.
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10:40
Not today."
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10:41
You're kind of hinting that maybe you can do it in the future.
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10:45
So, it's a little bit softer, a little bit more polite.
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10:48
I recommend if you use this, make sure that it is actually a possibility that you could
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10:54
do it in the future.
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10:56
If someone asks you, "Oh.
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10:58
Can you help me paint my house?"
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11:00
That's a really big deal.
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11:01
If you say, "Not today.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ€ŒไปŠๆ—ฅใงใฏใชใ„ใ€‚
11:03
I have too much going on."
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11:04
Maybe they'll ask you another time, and you might need to say yes because you kind of
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11:10
hinted that you would do it in the future.
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11:12
So, if you use this, make sure that it is a possibility that you could do it the next
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11:16
time.
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11:17
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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11:18
Dan: I'm afraid I can't.
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11:20
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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11:22
Dan: I'm afraid I can't.
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11:24
Vanessa: I really like this expression because it's pretty polite.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใจใฆใ‚‚ไธๅฏงใชใฎใงใ€ใ“ใฎ่กจ็พใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฅฝใ ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:27
"I'm afraid I can't."
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ใ€Œ็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใฎใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
11:29
It doesn't mean that you're scared of something.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ€–ใŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
11:31
It just means that you're softening no.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใƒŽใƒผใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:34
No.
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11:35
Can you help me cook dinner tonight?
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11:37
I'm afraid I can't.
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11:39
I have to edit this YouTube video.
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ใ“ใฎYouTubeใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’็ทจ้›†ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:40
I'm feeling a little bit overwhelmed like I need to get it finished now.
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11:45
I'm afraid I can't.
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11:47
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
11:48
Dan: I'm sorry.
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11:49
If only I could.
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11:50
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
11:52
Dan: I'm sorry.
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11:54
If only I could.
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11:55
Vanessa: This expression is kind of an exaggeration.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใฎ่กจ็พใฏไธ€็จฎใฎ่ช‡ๅผตใงใ™ใ€‚
11:58
You're gonna see in this expression and the next couple the motor verbs could, would,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใฎ่กจ็พใจ ๆฌกใฎใ‚ซใƒƒใƒ—ใƒซใงใƒขใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผๅ‹•่ฉžใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ€ใ™ใ‚‹ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ™ในใใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
12:04
and should.
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12:05
If only I could.
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12:07
Here you're kind of imagining some extreme situation.
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ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใ€ๆฅต็ซฏใช็Šถๆณใ‚’ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:11
In my dreams, if only I could do it.
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็งใฎๅคขใฎไธญใงใ€็งใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚Œใฐใ€‚
12:15
It would be amazing.
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12:17
So, instead, you're shortening this expression.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ“ใฎๅผใ‚’็Ÿญ็ธฎใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:20
If only I could.
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12:22
You're dreaming about helping the other person.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป–ใฎไบบใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅคข่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:25
You're dreaming about saying yes.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅคข่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:28
Can you help me cook dinner tonight?
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12:29
Oh, if only I could, but I have too much to do.
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ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใงใใ‚Œใฐใ„ใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒๅคšใ™ใŽ ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:33
If only I could.
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12:35
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
12:36
Dan: I would if I could, but I can't.
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12:38
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
12:41
Dan: I would if I could, but I can't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใงใใ‚Œใฐใใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:43
Vanessa: Here again, you're seeing these motor verbs, I would if I could, but I can't.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใ“ใงใ‚‚ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ้‹ๅ‹• ๅ‹•่ฉžใŒ่กจ็คบใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใงใใ‚Œใฐใใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:49
This makes it really polite.
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12:50
You're not saying, "I can't do it."
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œ็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:53
You're saying, "I would do it if I could do it, but I can't do it."
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ใ€Œใงใใ‚Œใฐ ใ‚„ใ‚‹ใ‘ใฉใ€ใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจใŠใฃใ—ใ‚ƒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:58
I know this uses a lot of words, but really it makes it more polite, because you're softening
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅคšใใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Š็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใชใ‚Š
13:03
you're answer.
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13:04
I'm sorry.
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ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€‚
13:05
I would if I could, but I can't.
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ใงใใ‚Œใฐใใ†ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
13:08
Do you wanna help me cook dinner.
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚
13:09
Dan: I really shouldn't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผš็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
13:11
I'm sick.
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ใ†ใ‚“ใ–ใ‚Šใ ใ€‚
13:12
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
13:14
Dan: I really shouldn't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผš็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
13:15
I'm sick.
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ใ†ใ‚“ใ–ใ‚Šใ ใ€‚
13:16
Vanessa: This expression is pretty clever, because instead of you saying, "I can't do
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใฎ่กจ็พใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š่ณขใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ€Œ็งใซใฏใงใใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Š
13:22
it."
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13:23
You're kind of blaming something else.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‹ไป–ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’้ž้›ฃใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
13:25
By saying, "I really shouldn't."
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ใ€Œ็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆใ€‚
13:28
This means that something else is stopping you from saying yes.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ไป–ใฎไฝ•ใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚คใ‚จใ‚นใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใ‚’ๅฆจใ’ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:32
So, let's imagine that you need to clean your house because you have some guests coming
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ไบบใ‹ใฎใ‚ฒใ‚นใƒˆใŒใ‚„ใฃใฆๆฅใ‚‹ใฎใงใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎถใ‚’ๆŽƒ้™คใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡
13:38
over, but your partner, your husband, your wife say, "Hey.
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ใ†ใ€ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใƒŠใƒผใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅคซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ ๅฆปใฏใ€Œใญใˆใ€‚
13:43
Can you help me cook dinner?"
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:45
And you say, "I really shouldn't, because I need to clean the house."
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œๅฎถใ‚’ๆŽƒ้™คใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
13:49
In this situation you're blaming the house.
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ใ“ใฎ็Šถๆณใงใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฎถใ‚’้ž้›ฃใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:52
By saying, "I really shouldn't" you have some other priority and that is the thing to blame.
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ใ€Œ็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใชใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซใฏ ไป–ใฎๅ„ชๅ…ˆ้ †ไฝใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ่ฒฌไปปใงใ™ใ€‚
13:58
So here you're kind of pushing off the blame on something else and making more polite.
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ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใ€ไป–ใฎไฝ•ใ‹ใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹่ฒฌไปปใ‚’ๆŠผใ—ใฎใ‘ใฆ ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Š็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
14:03
I really shouldn't.
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็งใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ™ในใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:05
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:06
Dan: I'd love to, but I can't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:08
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook the Thanksgiving turkey?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšๆ„Ÿ่ฌ็ฅญใฎไธƒ้ข้ณฅใ‚’ๆ–™็†ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ‹๏ผŸ
14:11
Dan: I'm honored, but I can't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:14
Vanessa: These final two expressions include your feelings.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎ2ใคใฎ่กจ็พใซใฏใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆฐ—ๆŒใกใŒๅซใพใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:18
I'd love to, but I can't.
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ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:21
I'm honored, but I can't.
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ๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:23
You would use these in situations where someone asks you to do something that involves your
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ชฐใ‹ ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฐ‚้–€็Ÿฅ่ญ˜ใ‚’ๅซใ‚€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ‚ใชใŸใซ้ ผใ‚€็Šถๆณใงใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
14:29
expertise.
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14:30
Or, maybe when they ask you to do something, you feel like it's really special that they
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ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ
14:36
asked you to help them.
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้ ผใ‚“ใ ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้ ผใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็‰นๅˆฅใ ใจๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:38
Maybe your friend is having some relationship problems and they ask you, "Hey.
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ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใฏใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ้–ขไฟ‚ใฎ ๅ•้กŒใ‚’ๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซใ€Œใญใˆใ€‚
14:42
Can you come over this afternoon and help me go through these problems."
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎๅˆๅพŒใซๆฅใฆใ€ ็งใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅ•้กŒใ‚’ไน—ใ‚Š่ถŠใˆใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€ใจๅฐ‹ใญใพใ™ใ€‚
14:48
But, you're really busy instead, and you can't do it.
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฟ™ใ—ใใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใงใ ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:51
You might say, "Oh.
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14:52
I'd love to come over this afternoon, but I can't.
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ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎๅˆๅพŒใซๆฅใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ ใงใใพใ›
14:55
I have too much going on.
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ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ‚ใพใ‚Šใซใ‚‚ๅคšใใฎใ“ใจใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:58
I'm honored that you would think that I could help you.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅŠฉใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ…‰ๆ „ใซๆ€ใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:01
That's amazing.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:02
I feel so honored, but I can't."
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็งใฏใใ†ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ™ใŒใ€ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€
15:05
Here you're kind of softening and being polite, but also saying no.
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ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไธ€็จฎใฎๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใใฆ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใ ใ‘ใง ใชใใ€ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:10
Man, you're not very helpful today.
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็”ทใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใŸใชใ„ใ€‚
15:12
Dan: But, I don't know how to say yes.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใงใ‚‚ใ€ใใ†่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:14
Vanessa: Oh, maybe you should watch my video, 22 Ways to Say Yes.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšใ‚ใ‚ใ€ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็งใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€ ใฏใ„ใ‚’่จ€ใ†22ใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใ€‚
15:18
Dan: Yeah.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:19
I mean, no.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€้•ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:20
I mean, yeah.
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใˆใˆใ€‚
15:21
Vanessa: Link in the description.
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš่ชฌๆ˜Žใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ€‚
15:23
Make sure that you check it out.
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ๅฟ…ใšใƒใ‚งใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็งใจไธ€็ท’ใซ
15:26
Thanks so much for learning these 25 No Expressions with me.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ25ใฎ่กจ็พใชใ—ใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใงใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ† ใ€‚
15:29
Let me know in the comments.
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ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใงๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
15:31
Were any of these new for you?
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใฉใ‚Œใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ—ใŸใ‹๏ผŸ
15:33
I hope that this will just help to add to your vocabulary toolbox so that you can say
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ชžๅฝ™ใƒ„ใƒผใƒซใƒœใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใซ่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ“ใจใ‚’้ก˜ใฃใฆ ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใใ†ใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
15:38
no politely and say a no that will fit that situation.
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ไธๅฏงใซใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ€ใใฎ็Šถๆณใซๅˆใ†ใƒŽใƒผใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
15:42
Thanks so much, and I'll see you again next Friday for a new lesson here on my YouTube
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ใฉใ†ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ๆฅ้€ฑใฎ ้‡‘ๆ›œๆ—ฅใซใ€YouTube
15:46
channel.
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ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใงๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:48
I'll see you later.
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ๅพŒใงไผšใ„ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:53
Bye.
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ใ•ใ‚ˆใชใ‚‰ใ€‚
15:54
Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:00
... Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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...็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚
16:02
Dan: I'm afraid I can't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใงใใชใ„ใฎใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:04
Vanessa: Do you wanna help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผš็งใŒๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:06
Dan: I'm afraid I can't.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใงใใชใ„ใฎใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:07
Vanessa: Can you help me cook dinner?
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ใƒดใ‚กใƒใƒƒใ‚ต๏ผšๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ไผใฃใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ
16:10
Dan: Eh.
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ใƒ€ใƒณ๏ผšใˆใˆใ€‚
16:11
If only I could.
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ใงใใ‚Œใฐใ€‚
16:14
My back.
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็งใฎ่ƒŒไธญใ€‚
16:15
It hurts.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็—›ใ„ใ€‚
16:16
Vanessa: The next step is to download my free eBook, Five Steps to Becoming a Confident
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16:22
English Speaker.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆๆตๆšข
16:23
You'll learn what you need to do to speak confidently and fluently.
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ใซ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใซไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎ็„กๆ–™ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎใŸใ‚
16:28
Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more free lessons.
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ใซ็งใฎYouTubeใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใ‚’่ณผ่ชญใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
16:32
Thanks so much.
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ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚
16:33
Bye.
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