How to Successfully Negotiate in English | 4 Tips + 20 Essential Phrases

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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How many times have you negotiated this past year? You might be thinking, Well,
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ใ“ใฎ 1 ๅนด้–“ใงไฝ•ๅ›žไบคๆธ‰ใ— ใพใ—ใŸใ‹ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ
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never. I don't really negotiate in English as part of my job,
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ไป•ไบ‹ไธŠใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎไบคๆธ‰ใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“
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but let me ask you this.
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ใŒใ€่ณชๅ•ใ•ใ›ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
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When was the last time you negotiated for an extended deadline
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซ ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใฎๅปถ้•ทใซใคใ„ใฆไบคๆธ‰ใ—
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or asked for a change in your job schedule?
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ใŸใ‚Šใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใฎใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใฎๅค‰ๆ›ดใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใŸใฎใฏ ใ„ใคใงใ™ใ‹?
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When was the last time you asked for a promotion or a raise at work?
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ๆœ€ๅพŒ ใซ่ทๅ ดใงๆ˜‡้€ฒใพใŸใฏๆ˜‡็ตฆใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใŸใฎใฏใ„ใคใงใ™ใ‹?
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When was the last time you negotiated with your spouse or partner to finish up
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซ ้…ๅถ่€…ใ‚„ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใƒŠใƒผใจๅค•้ฃŸใฎๆ–™็†ใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ
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the dinner dishes or when was the last time you negotiate with your kids to wake
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ไบคๆธ‰ใ—ใŸใฎใฏใ„ใคใงใ™ใ‹ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€ๅญฆๆ กใซ้–“ใซๅˆใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ตทใใฆ็€ๆ›ฟใˆใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๅญไพ›ใŸใกใจๆœ€ๅพŒใซไบคๆธ‰ใ—ใŸใฎใฏ
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up and get dressed on time for school?
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ใ„ใคใงใ™ใ‹?
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It's surprising just how often we negotiate in our everyday lives.
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็งใŸใกใŒๆ—ฅๅธธ็”Ÿๆดปใงไบคๆธ‰ใ™ใ‚‹้ ปๅบฆใฏ้ฉšใในใใ‚‚ใฎ ใงใ™ใ€‚
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Knowing how to successfully negotiate not only helps you resolve conflict or
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ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ๆˆๅŠŸใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ ๅฏพ็ซ‹ใ‚’่งฃๆฑบใ—ใŸใ‚Š
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get what you want,
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ใ€ๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€
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but it also helps you build better relationships and create
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00:50
lasting solutions. And this Confident English lesson today,
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ๆฐธ็ถš็š„ใช่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ‚’็”Ÿใฟๅ‡บใ™ใฎใซใ‚‚ๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™. ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใ“ใฎ่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€
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you're going to learn four essential strategies,
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4 ใคใฎๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใชๆˆฆ็•ฅ
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plus 20 phrases to help you successfully negotiate in English.
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ใจใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ๆˆๅŠŸใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 20 ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๅญฆใณใพใ™ ใ€‚
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But first, if you don't already know,
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใซใ€ใพใ ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
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I'm Annemarie with Speak Confident English.
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็ตžใฃใŸๆ–‡ๆณ•ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ€ ใ‚ณใƒŸใƒฅใƒ‹ใ‚ฑใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณ ใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซใฎใƒˆใƒฌใƒผใƒ‹ใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
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just like in this lesson today. So while you watch this lesson,
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’่ฆ‹้€ƒใ•ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ๆˆฆ็•ฅ
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let's get right to it with strategy. Number one,
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ใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ็ฌฌไธ€ใซใ€
01:53
identify your ultimate goals, limits and alternatives.
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ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใช็›ฎๆจ™ใ€ ๅˆถ้™ใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Before you enter into a negotiation,
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ไบคๆธ‰ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซ
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you have to know what you want in the end. In other words,
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ไฝ•ใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€
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you need to know your ultimate goal. To help you figure that out,
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ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใช็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ
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ask yourself this question,
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ใ€
02:10
What do I want the outcome of this negotiation to be?
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ใ€Œใ“ใฎไบคๆธ‰ใฎ็ตๆžœใ‚’ใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใ„ ใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่ณชๅ•ใ‚’่‡ชๅ•ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
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When you know the answer to that question,
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ใใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹็ญ”ใˆใŒใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ
02:16
it's important to communicate it clearly and directly in the
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ใฏใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใฎ้š›ใซไฝ™่จˆใชใ“ใจใ‚’ใ›ใšใซใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใ‹ใค็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใซไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆ
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negotiation without any bells or whistles. In other words,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่จ€ใ„ๆ›ใˆใ‚Œใฐใ€
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without any enhancements or extra additions, you want to keep it simple.
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ๆฉŸ่ƒฝๅผทๅŒ–ใ‚„ไฝ™ๅˆ†ใช ่ฟฝๅŠ ใ‚’ใ›ใšใซใ€ใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซใซไฟใคๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™.
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For example, you might have a meeting with your boss and say,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐ ใ€ไธŠๅธใจใฎใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใงใ€
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I want to discuss getting a raise that matches my current level of expertise and
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่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ็พๅœจใฎๅฐ‚้–€็Ÿฅ่ญ˜ใจ่ฒฌไปปใฎใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใซ่ฆ‹ๅˆใฃใŸๆ˜‡็ตฆใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ„ใŸใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
02:38
responsibilities. With that statement,
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ใ€‚ ใใฎๅฃฐๆ˜Žใงใ€
02:40
it's extremely clear what you are looking for. With that said,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใฏ้žๅธธใซๆ˜Ž็ขบ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ†ใฏ่จ€ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ€
02:44
we don't always get exactly what we want.
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็งใŸใกใฏๅธธใซ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒๆœ›ใ‚€ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใฏ้™ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใฎไบคๆธ‰ใฎใฉใ“ใ‹ใง
02:47
There tends to be a compromise somewhere in that negotiation,
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ๅฆฅๅ”ใŒ็”Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹
02:52
so you need to be prepared for that,
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ใŸใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใซๅ‚™ใˆใฆใŠใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
02:54
and that's where knowing your ultimate limits and alternatives is important as
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใช ้™็•Œใจไปฃๆ›ฟๆ‰‹ๆฎตใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้‡่ฆ
02:59
well. In other words,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่จ€ใ„ๆ›ใˆใ‚Œใฐใ€
03:01
if you have an ideal amount for the raise that you're looking for,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆ˜‡็ตฆใฎ็†ๆƒณ็š„ใช้‡‘้กใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ
03:06
what is the bottom limit? What is the ultimate minimum that you'd accept?
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ใ€ไธ‹้™ใฏใ„ใใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ‹? ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ๅ—ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹็ฉถๆฅตใฎๆœ€ๅฐๅ€คใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹?
03:10
That's your bottom limit,
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ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธ‹้™ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€
03:12
or are there any alternatives you're willing to discuss? Instead of a raise,
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ใใ‚Œใจใ‚‚่ญฐ่ซ–ใ—ใŸใ„ไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ‹? ๆ˜‡็ตฆใฎไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€
03:17
are you willing to look at increased benefits?
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็ฆๅˆฉๅŽš็”Ÿใฎๅข—ๅŠ ใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ—ใพใ™ใ‹?
03:21
Knowing the answers to those questions are essential Before you go into
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹็ญ”ใˆใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจ ใฏไธๅฏๆฌ ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:26
that negotiation, in thinking through your goals,
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ไบคๆธ‰ใซ ๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€็›ฎๆจ™ใ€
03:29
limits and alternatives,
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ๅˆถ้™ใ€ไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆ
03:31
essentially what you're doing is identifying your bottom line.
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ใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹้š›ใซใ€ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใซ่กŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใช็ตๆžœใ‚’ ็‰นๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
03:34
And once you know what that bottom line is,
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็ต่ซ–ใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚‰ ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹
03:37
here are several phrases you can use in English to communicate it. Clearly,
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ใŸใ‚ใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใงไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใ€
03:42
I draw the line at X because of Y. For example,
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็งใฏ Y ใฎใŸใ‚ใซ X ใซ็ทšใ‚’ๅผ•ใใพใ™ ใ€‚ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€็ตฆไธŽใฎๅข—ๅŠ ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใ„ใฎใง
03:47
I draw the line at getting a raise because I want to see an increase in my
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ใ€ๆ˜‡็ตฆใซ็ทšใ‚’ๅผ•ใ
03:51
salary. With that statement,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ็™บ่จ€ใง
03:53
what you're saying is you're not interested in alternatives,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใซใฏ่ˆˆๅ‘ณ
03:56
you're not willing to discuss anything else other than an increase in your
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ใŒใชใใ€ๅŽๅ…ฅใฎๅข—ๅŠ ไปฅๅค–ใฎใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ†ๆฐ—ใŒใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™
04:01
income. Similar to saying that you're drawing a line or setting a boundary,
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. ็ทšใ‚’ๅผ•ใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅขƒ็•Œใ‚’่จญๅฎšใ—
04:06
you can say X is non-negotiable because of Y.
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใจๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€X ใฏ Y ใฎใŸใ‚ใซไบคๆธ‰ไธๅฏ่ƒฝใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚็ตฆไธŽใฎๅข—ๅŠ ใ‚’
04:11
A raise is non-negotiable because I want to see an increase in my salary
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่ฆ‹ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ€ๆ˜‡็ตฆใฏไบคๆธ‰ไธๅฏ่ƒฝใง
04:16
or anything less than X will not meet my needs.
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€X ๆœชๆบ€ใฎใ‚‚ใฎ ใฏใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฎใƒ‹ใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๆบ€ใŸใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:22
And lastly, I'm willing to meet you halfway at X,
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ X ใฎ้€”ไธญใงใŠไผšใ„ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™
04:26
but anything less than that is non-negotiable.
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ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œไปฅไธ‹ใฎ ใ“ใจใฏไบคๆธ‰ใฎไฝ™ๅœฐใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:29
When you're willing to meet someone halfway,
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04:32
you're willing to compromise With this first strategy,
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ใ“ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅ
04:36
I'm using several example sentences around the topic of asking for a raise
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ใงใฏใ€ไป•ไบ‹ ใงๆ˜‡็ตฆใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไพ‹ๆ–‡ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ
04:40
at work. I did that intentionally because asking for a raise is often quite
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ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ˜‡็ตฆใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ—ใฐใ—ใฐ้žๅธธใซ
04:45
uncomfortable and I want you to know how to do it successfully.
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ไธๅฟซใงใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ๆˆๅŠŸใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใฎใงใ€ๆ„ๅ›ณ็š„ใซใใ†ใ—ใพใ—ใŸ.
04:49
So let's finish strategy number one with a scenario that really
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ™ในใฆ ใ‚’ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใพใจใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใงใ€ๆˆฆ็•ฅ 1 ใ‚’็ต‚ไบ†ใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
04:54
brings all of this together.
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04:56
Let's say you've been in conversations with your boss about a raise
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ๆ˜‡็ตฆใซใคใ„ใฆไธŠๅธ
05:01
and your boss has proposed an alternative rather than an increase in
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ใจ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€ไธŠๅธใŒๆ˜‡็ตฆใงใฏใชใไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใ‚’ๆๆกˆใ—ใŸใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡
05:06
salary, the company wants to offer other benefits.
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ใ†ใ€‚ไผš็คพใฏ ไป–ใฎ็ฆๅˆฉๅŽš็”Ÿใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:09
You're not really interested in that,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใซใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Š่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใชใ„
05:11
so here's how you could respond using what you've learned in this strategy.
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ใฎใงใ€ใ“ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใงๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅฏพๅฟœใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ไปฅไธ‹ใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ .
05:16
An increase in my salary is non-negotiable because it will ensure that I'm
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็ตฆไธŽใฎๅข—ๅŠ ใฏไบคๆธ‰ใฎไฝ™ๅœฐใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใฎ้ƒฝๅธ‚
05:21
able to keep up with the current cost of living in this city and it matches
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ใงใฎ็พๅœจใฎ็”Ÿๆดป่ฒปใซ่ฟฝใ„ใคใใ“ใจใŒ
05:26
my current workload here in the company.
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ใงใใ€ไผš็คพใงใฎ็พๅœจใฎไป•ไบ‹้‡ใจไธ€่‡ดใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆˆฆ็•ฅ 2 ใซ้€ฒใ‚€ๅ‰ใซใ€ใ“ใ“ใง
05:29
There's one last thing I want to mention here before we go on to strategy number
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ๆœ€ๅพŒใซ 1 ใค่ฟฐในใฆใŠใใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
05:33
two, and I want to underscore the importance of identifying your goals,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚็›ฎๆจ™ใ€ๅˆถ้™ใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณไปฃๆ›ฟๆ‰‹ๆฎตใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎ้‡่ฆๆ€งใ‚’ๅผท่ชฟใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
05:38
limits and alternatives.
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05:40
Negotiating is also cultural, and in English speaking culture,
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ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚‚ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใง ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใงใฏใ€ใ‚ฆใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฆใ‚ฃใƒณใฎ่งฃๆฑบ
05:45
it's common for us to seek a win-win solution.
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็ญ–ใ‚’ๆŽขใ™ใฎใŒไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใงใ™ .
05:50
In other words, a situation in which everyone wins,
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ ่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒๅ‹ใคใ€
05:54
everyone gets something that they want. Going into a negotiation,
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่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†็Šถๆณ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’้–‹ๅง‹ใ—
05:59
knowing your upper limits, your bottom limits,
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ใ€ไธŠ้™ใ€ไธ‹้™ใ€
06:02
and any alternatives you're open to discussing will help you have a
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ใŠใ‚ˆใณ่ญฐ่ซ–ใงใใ‚‹ไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใ‚’ๆŠŠๆกใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ
06:07
successful win in the end. And that leads me into strategy number two,
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ใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซๆˆๅŠŸใ‚’ๅŽใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏ็งใ‚’ๆˆฆ็•ฅ2ใซๅฐŽใใ€
06:12
find common ground and build rapport.
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ๅ…ฑ้€š็‚นใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆไฟก้ ผ้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใพใ™.
06:15
This is part of creating an environment of seeking a
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€
06:19
win-win solution.
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Win-Win ใฎ่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ‚’ๆจก็ดขใ™ใ‚‹็’ฐๅขƒใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎไธ€้ƒจใงใ™ใ€‚
06:21
What this means is rather than go into a negotiation or discussion
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใคใพใ‚Š ใ€
06:26
immediately demanding what you want,
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ใ™ใใซๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใฆไบคๆธ‰ใ‚„่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ„ใซ
06:28
it's important to enter into the negotiation slowly and keep in mind the
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ๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใจ ใฎ้–ขไฟ‚ๆ€งใ‚’่€ƒใˆใชใŒใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚†ใฃใใ‚Šใจไบคๆธ‰ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™
06:33
relationship you have with the other person.
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ใ€‚
06:37
If you know that individual or even if it's someone new to you,
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ใใฎๅ€‹ไบบใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใพใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆๅˆใ‚ใฆใฎไบบ
06:40
a potential client, it's important to establish rapport,
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ใ€ๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใชใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใงใ‚ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ€ ่ฆชๅฏ†ใช้–ขไฟ‚
06:45
to build a relationship, and we do that through small talk.
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ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ€้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’ๆง‹็ฏ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
06:49
Small talk allows us to identify common ground and also
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ไธ–้–“่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใง ใ€ๅ…ฑ้€š็‚นใ‚’็‰นๅฎšใ—
06:54
feel out where the other person is, what is their point of view,
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ใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ ใŒ
06:59
how are they doing?
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ใฉใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่ฆ–็‚นใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่กŒๅ‹•ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
07:00
All of that will inform how you begin the process of negotiating.
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ใใฎใ™ในใฆใŒ ใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใฎใƒ—ใƒญใ‚ปใ‚นใ‚’้–‹ๅง‹ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’้€š็Ÿฅใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:06
So once you're ready for that negotiation, that meeting that you've scheduled,
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ไบคๆธ‰ใฎๆบ–ๅ‚™ใŒๆ•ดใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใ‚นใ‚ฑใ‚ธใƒฅใƒผใƒซใ—ใŸใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใงใ€
07:11
start with some basic small talk questions such as, how's your day going? Or,
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ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใช้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‹ใ‚‰ ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€‚ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎ่ชฟๅญใฏใฉใ†ใงใ™ใ‹? ใพใŸใฏใ€ไผ‘ๆš‡
07:15
I heard you just got back from vacation. How was it?
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ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆˆปใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใ ใจ่žใใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใฉใ†ใ ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ
07:19
Then once you've had a little bit of time to get comfortable with each other,
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ใใฎๅพŒ ใ€ใŠไบ’ใ„ใซๆ…ฃใ‚Œใ‚‹ใพใงๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’ใจใฃ
07:24
you can transition into the point of the conversation.
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ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใฎใƒใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใซ็งปใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚
07:28
You might do that with something such as, Well, I don't wanna waste your time,
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ใ€Œ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’็„ก้ง„ใซใ—ใŸใใชใ„
07:32
so let me get right to the point.
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ใฎใงใ€่ฆ็‚นใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†.
07:34
I'd like to discuss a raise that matches my current level of expertise
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็พๅœจใฎๅฐ‚้–€็Ÿฅ่ญ˜ใฎใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใจไผš็คพ
07:39
and the responsibilities I have here at the company.
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ใงใฎ่ฒฌไปปใซ่ฆ‹ๅˆใฃใŸๆ˜‡็ตฆใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ„ใŸใ„ใจ ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:42
Before we move on to strategy number three,
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ๆˆฆ็•ฅ 3 ใซ้€ฒใ‚€ๅ‰ใซใ€ๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใช่ณผๅ…ฅ่€…ใพใŸใฏๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใชใ‚ฏใƒฉใ‚คใ‚ขใƒณใƒˆใซไผšใ†ๅ ดๅˆใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹
07:44
let's look at one more example of a small top question you could use if
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07:49
you're meeting a potential buyer or a potential client.
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07:54
Imagine you're meeting with a potential buyer of your product for the very first
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07:58
time. You've shaken hands,
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ใ€‚ ๆกๆ‰‹ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€
07:59
you've just sat down and you're feeling a little bit awkward.
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ๅบงใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใง ใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ใŽใ“ใกใชใๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
08:03
How do you get things going?
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ใฉใ†ใ‚„ใฃใฆ็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’้€ฒใ‚ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:05
Here's a small talk question you could use in organizing this meeting with you
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒŸใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’ไผ็”ปใ™ใ‚‹้š›ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹้›‘่ซ‡ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ™
08:10
today. I had the opportunity to interact with quite a few of your team members.
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ใ€‚ ๅคšใใฎใƒใƒผใƒ ใƒกใƒณใƒใƒผใจไบคๆตใ™ใ‚‹ๆฉŸไผšใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
08:13
You seem super organized. What's the secret in your organization?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ้žๅธธใซ็ต„็น”ๅŒ–ใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ต„็น”ใฎ็ง˜ๅฏ†ใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
08:17
With that small top question,
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ใใฎๅฐใ•ใชใƒˆใƒƒใƒ—ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใงใ€
08:19
you are creating a friendly open environment,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒณใƒ‰ใƒชใƒผใงใ‚ชใƒผใƒ—ใƒณใช็’ฐๅขƒใ‚’ไฝœใ‚Šใ€
08:23
starting out with something positive and allowing a little bit of small talk to
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08:27
occur before you get into the negotiation. And now, strategy Number three,
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ใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸไธ–้–“่ฉฑใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™. ใใ—ใฆไปŠใ€็ฌฌ 3 ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใฏใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใ€ๅˆถ้™ใ€ไปฃๆ›ฟๆ‰‹ๆฎตใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹
08:32
understand the other side just as you want to know exactly
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ใ‹ใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใฎใจๅŒใ˜
08:37
what your goals, limits and alternatives might be.
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ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๅๅฏพๅดใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅๅฏพๅด
08:41
You want to have a sense of what the goals, limits,
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ใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใ€ๅˆถ้™ใ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณไปฃๆ›ฟๆกˆใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆŠŠๆกใ—ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„
08:44
and alternatives of the other side might be.
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08:47
Knowing what the other side is thinking or what their point of view is will
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็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒ ไฝ•ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ่ฆ–็‚นใŒไฝ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰
08:52
allow you to make a better decision and weigh your options
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ใซใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ ๆฑบๅฎšใ‚’ไธ‹ใ—ใ€้ธๆŠž่‚ขใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽ
08:56
before you go into the negotiation.
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™.
08:59
To weigh one's options means to assess the pros and cons of
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้ธๆŠž่‚ขใ‚’ๆคœ่จŽใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ† ใ“ใจใฏใ€็ŠถๆณใพใŸใฏๆฝœๅœจ็š„ใชๆฑบๅฎšใฎ้•ทๆ‰€ใจ็Ÿญๆ‰€ใ‚’่ฉ•ไพกใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
09:04
a situation or potential decision. In addition to that,
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ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใซๅŠ ใˆใฆ
09:07
understanding the other side's position will help you have stronger
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ใ€็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎ ็ซ‹ๅ ดใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅผทใ„ไธปๅผตใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Š
09:12
arguments. When you're ready to discuss what you want,
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ ไฝ•ใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใ†ๆบ–ๅ‚™
09:15
not only can you anticipate what the other side wants prior to the negotiation,
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ใŒใงใใŸใ‚‰ใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใฎๅ‰ใซ็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒไฝ•ใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’ไบˆๆธฌใงใใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใชใ
09:20
you can also ask questions during the conversation to get better insight,
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ใ€ไผš่ฉฑไธญใซ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใฆๆดžๅฏŸใ‚’ๆทฑใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚
09:24
and here are several questions you can use.
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ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:27
What do you think is a fair and reasonable solution,
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ๅ…ฌๆญฃ ใงๅˆ็†็š„ใช่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ€
09:31
outcome or number and why?
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็ตๆžœใ€ใพใŸใฏๆ•ฐๅ€คใจใฏไฝ•ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใพใŸใใฎ็†็”ฑใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹? Xใซ
09:34
Could you please tell me more about how you arrived at X? For example,
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ใŸใฉใ‚Š็€ใ„ใŸ็ตŒ็ทฏใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉณใ—ใๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
09:39
could you please tell me more about how you arrived at that decision,
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ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใฎๆฑบๅฎšใซ่‡ณใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏใชใœใใฎๆฑบๅฎšใซ่‡ณใฃใŸใฎ
09:42
or could you tell me more about why you arrived at deciding?
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ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉณใ—ใๆ•™ใˆใฆ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹?
09:46
Offering benefits is a better choice than offering the raise.
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็ฆๅˆฉๅŽš็”Ÿใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ ใ€ๆ˜‡็ตฆใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸ้ธๆŠžใงใ™ใ€‚
09:51
Similarly, why do you believe X?
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ๅŒๆง˜ใซใ€ใชใœ X ใ‚’ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ‹?
09:54
Why is X important to you?
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X ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ้‡่ฆใช็†็”ฑใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹? ็ตฆไธŽใฎๅข—ๅŠ ใงใฏใชใใ€็ฆๅˆฉๅŽš็”Ÿ
09:56
Why is it important to you to offer benefits as opposed to an increase in
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ใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใจใฃใฆ้‡่ฆใชใฎใฏใชใœ
10:01
salary?
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10:02
What part of my proposal causes hesitancy or what part
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็งใฎๆๆกˆใฎใฉใฎ้ƒจๅˆ† ใŒใŸใ‚ใ‚‰ใ„
10:07
of my proposal is causing you concern?
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ใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏ็งใฎๆๆกˆใฎใฉใฎ้ƒจๅˆ†ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ‡ธๅฟตใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
10:10
Each one of those questions will help you understand the other
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฎใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œ ใฏใ€ไป–ใฎ
10:15
motives and anything influencing their decision. As a result,
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ๅ‹•ๆฉŸใ‚„ๆฑบๅฎšใซๅฝฑ้Ÿฟใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™ . ใใฎ็ตๆžœใ€
10:20
you are more equipped to respond appropriately,
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้ฉๅˆ‡ใซๅฏพๅฟœใ—
10:24
argue for what you want or compromise successfully.
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ใŸใ‚Šใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒๆœ›ใ‚€ใ‚‚ใฎใซใคใ„ใฆ่ญฐ่ซ–ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅฆฅๅ”ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’
10:28
The last strategy for a successful negotiation in English is to
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ๆˆๅŠŸใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใฏใ€
10:33
establish trust and everything that we've talked about prior to this strategy
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ไฟก้ ผใ‚’็ขบ็ซ‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใฎๅ‰ใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใŸใ“ใจใฏใ™ในใฆใ€ไฟก้ ผใ‚’็ขบ็ซ‹
10:38
helps you do that. Establishing common ground, building rapport,
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ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใกใพใ™. ๅ…ฑ้€šใฎๅŸบ็›คใ‚’็ขบ็ซ‹ใ—ใ€่ฆชๅฏ†ใช้–ขไฟ‚ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ€
10:42
asking open ended questions to better understand someone's motive or
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็›ธๆ‰‹ใฎๅ‹•ๆฉŸใ‚„็Šถๆณใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚ˆใ็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ่‡ช็”ฑๅ›ž็ญ”ๅผใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™
10:47
situation. In addition to those strategies,
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ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใซๅŠ ใˆใฆใ€
10:50
here are four more techniques you can use to gain trust.
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ไฟก้ ผใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 4 ใคใฎใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ๆฌกใซ็คบใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:54
Number one, speak directly and concisely.
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็ฌฌไธ€ใซใ€็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใ‹ใค็ฐกๆฝ”ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:58
We talked about this a bit in strategy number one,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ€ ็ฌฌ 1 ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใงใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒๆœ›ใ‚€ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹
11:01
when I said it's important to communicate what you want.
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ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่ฟฐในใŸใจใใซๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚
11:04
Clearly this is essential for the other side,
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ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็›ธๆ‰‹ๅดใซใจใฃใฆไธๅฏๆฌ ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ ใŸใ‚ใ€
11:07
so there's no gray area or room for misunderstanding.
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็ฐ่‰ฒใฎ้ ˜ๅŸŸใ‚„ ่ชค่งฃใฎไฝ™ๅœฐใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
11:12
What this means is using concrete, straightforward language,
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ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใง็Ž‡็›ดใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
11:17
for example, rather than give a range of numbers, for example,
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ๆ•ฐๅ€คใฎ็ฏ„ๅ›ฒใ‚’็คบใ™ใฎใงใฏใชใ
11:21
we'd like to have this finished within the next three to five months.
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ใ€ๆฌกใฎ 3 ๏ฝž 5 ใ‹ๆœˆไปฅๅ†…ใซใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฎŒๆˆใ•ใ›ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:26
Be clear with what you want,
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ๅธŒๆœ›ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ†…ๅฎนใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ—ใ€
11:28
provide dates and the specific results you're looking for. For example,
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ๆ—ฅไป˜ใจๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ…ทไฝ“็š„ใช็ตๆžœใ‚’ๆไพ›ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€
11:33
we want this finished by January 5th next year.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ ๆฅๅนดใฎ 1 ๆœˆ 5 ๆ—ฅใพใงใซ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใŸใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:37
Do you notice the difference?
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้•ใ„ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ 3 ใ‹ๆœˆใ‹ใ‚‰ 5 ใ‹ๆœˆใจใ„ใ†
11:38
Rather than giving some gray estimate of three to five months,
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ใ‚ใ„ใพใ„ใช่ฆ‹็ฉใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ‚’ๆ็คบใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใ
11:42
we're giving an ultimate deadline of a date.
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ใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใช ็ท ใ‚ๅˆ‡ใ‚Šๆ—ฅใ‚’ๆ็คบใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ชค่งฃใ‚„่ชค่งฃ
11:46
Reducing the potential for misunderstanding or miscommunication is
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ใฎๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใ‚’ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใ™ใ“ใจใฏใ€
11:51
part of building trust.
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ไฟก้ ผใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใ“ใจใฎไธ€้ƒจใงใ™ใ€‚
11:53
The second technique you can use is to show interest and openness.
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ไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 2 ใค็›ฎใฎใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใฏใ€้–ขๅฟƒใจ้–‹ๆ”พๆ€งใ‚’็คบใ™ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไบคๆธ‰ใง็œŸๅฎŸ
11:59
Instead of bending the truth in the negotiation,
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ใ‚’ๆ›ฒใ’ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€
12:02
it's important to be sincere and honest.
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่ช ๅฎŸใงๆญฃ็›ดใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
12:05
When communicating your goals and the reasons for them to bend the truth is a
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็›ฎๆจ™ใจใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒ็œŸๅฎŸใ‚’ๆ›ฒใ’ใ‚‹็†็”ฑใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
12:10
fantastic expression to know. In English,
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็ŸฅใฃใฆใŠใในใ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่กจ็พใงใ™. ่‹ฑ่ชžใง
12:13
it means to say some of the truth, but not all of it.
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ใฏใ€็œŸๅฎŸใฎไธ€้ƒจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ ใŒใ€ใ™ในใฆใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
12:17
There are some things that you're hiding so that you are likely to get the
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆœ›ใ‚€ๅๅฟœใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ้ซ˜ใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้š ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Š
12:22
response that you want.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:23
In addition to communicating your goals with sincerity and honesty,
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่ช ๆ„ใจ่ช ๅฎŸใ•ใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใฆ็›ฎๆจ™ใ‚’ไผใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๅŠ ใˆใฆ ใ€่ช ๅฎŸใ•ใจ่ช ๅฎŸใ•ใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใฆๆˆฆ็•ฅ 3 ใง
12:28
it's important to also ask those questions we talked about in strategy number
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่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใŸ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้‡่ฆ
12:33
three with sincerity and honesty,
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12:36
express genuine curiosity to understand someone
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12:41
else's position,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ไป–ใฎไบบใฎ็ซ‹ๅ ดใ€
12:42
what they're having to think through and the decisions they have to make in
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่€ƒใˆใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจ ใ€ๆฑบๅฎšไบ‹้ …ใ‚’็†่งฃใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ็ด”็ฒ‹ใชๅฅฝๅฅ‡ๅฟƒใ‚’่กจๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
12:46
order to meet you halfway.
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้€”ไธญใงใ‚ใชใŸใซไผšใ†ใŸใ‚ใซใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
12:48
The third technique you can use to build trust is to actively listen.
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ไฟก้ ผใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 3 ใค็›ฎใฎใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใฏใ€็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซ่€ณใ‚’ๅ‚พใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
12:53
Now,
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12:53
I have a whole lesson on the topic of how to show that you're actively listening
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ใ•ใฆใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใง
็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซ่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซ้–ขใ™ใ‚‹ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณๅ…จไฝ“ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚่ฉณ็ดฐใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚ŠใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
12:58
in English, and I'll leave a link to that lesson below if you want to know more,
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ใ€ใใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใฎใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ‚’ไปฅไธ‹ใซๆฎ‹ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€็ฉๆฅต็š„ใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚
13:01
but here are a couple of keys to actively listening.
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ใฎ ้ตใ‚’ใ„ใใคใ‹็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚
13:06
In English speaking culture, we maintain eye contact. Now,
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่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใง ใฏใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’็ถญๆŒใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠใ€
13:10
we don't stare nonstop. Of course, we occasionally blink and look away,
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็งใŸใกใฏใƒŽใƒณใ‚นใƒˆใƒƒใƒ—ใง่ฆ‹ใคใ‚ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€ ใพใฐใŸใใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Š็›ฎใ‚’ใใ‚‰ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
13:15
but maintaining eye contact indicates that we're focused on you and
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ใŒใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’็ถญๆŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ ใ€็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ใชใŸใจใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซ้›†ไธญใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ—ใฆ
13:20
what you're saying.
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ใ„ใพใ™.
13:22
What you're expressing is important enough for me to listen carefully,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่กจ็พใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ ใ€็งใŒๆณจๆ„ๆทฑใ่€ณใ‚’ๅ‚พใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅๅˆ†้‡่ฆ
13:26
and I tell you that through eye contact. In addition to that,
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ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใ‚’้€šใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใซไผใˆใพใ™ . ใใ‚ŒใซๅŠ ใˆใฆใ€ๆญฃ็ขบ
13:30
we also tend to ask clarifying questions or repeat what
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13:35
we heard you say to make sure we understood correctly. For example,
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ใซ็†่งฃใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ๆ˜Ž็ขบใช่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
13:40
you're saying it's not possible for your team to get this finished by January
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใƒใƒผใƒ ใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ 1 ๆœˆ 5 ๆ—ฅใพใงใซ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏไธๅฏ่ƒฝใ ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™
13:44
5th. Is that correct? Or if I understood you correctly, you're thinking X,
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ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚Œใฏๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใพใŸใฏใ€็งใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใ็†่งฃใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚Œใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ X ใ ใจๆ€ใ„
13:49
Is that right? What I heard you say was X,
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ใพใ™ใ‹? ใใ†ใงใ™ใ‹? Xใจ่žใ„ใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€
13:54
Have I understood correctly? And lastly,
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ๆญฃใ—ใ็†่งฃใงใใพใ—ใŸใ‹? ๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€
13:57
could you clarify what you meant by and then repeat what it is
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ไฝ•ใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚’ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ— ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
14:02
that you're not really sure about?
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ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹?
14:04
Before we talk about the fourth technique you can use to build trust.
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ไฟก้ ผใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ‚ใซไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 4 ็•ช็›ฎใฎๆ‰‹ๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ่จ€่ชžใฎไธ€้ƒจ
14:07
Let's look at a scenario where you might hear some of this language.
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ใŒ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚
14:11
Imagine you're traveling with a friend and at the very last minute,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ‹ไบบใจไธ€็ท’ใซๆ—…่กŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
14:15
your friend wants to change the itinerary for the last couple days of your trip,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใฏใ€ๆ—…่กŒใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใฎๆ•ฐๆ—ฅ้–“ใฎๆ—…็จ‹ใ‚’ๅค‰ๆ›ดใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„
14:20
and you're not really so sure about this.
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ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:22
You like having a plan and sticking to the plan,
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ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏ่จˆ็”ปใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ€ใใฎ่จˆ็”ปใซๅ›บๅŸทใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใช
14:26
so your friend proposes an idea and you summarize what you've understood by
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ใฎใงใ€ๅ‹ไบบใŒใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆๆกˆใ—ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็†่งฃใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’่ฆ็ด„ใ—ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ
14:31
saying, I think I understand. So what you're saying is,
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ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Š
14:36
rather than go to the museum today,
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ใ€ไปŠๆ—ฅๅš็‰ฉ้คจใซ่กŒใใฎใงใฏใชใใ€ๆ—…่กŒ
14:38
you want to save it to the last day of our trip because you think it won't be as
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ใฎๆœ€็ต‚ๆ—ฅใซไฟๅญ˜ใ—ใŸใ„ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจ
14:42
crowded. Is that right? In saying that,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ†ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ†่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ€
14:45
you're letting your friend know that you've listened carefully and you're
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆณจๆ„ๆทฑใ่€ณใ‚’ๅ‚พใ‘ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎๅดใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ‡ธๅ‘ฝใซๅŠชๅŠ›ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ‹ไบบใซ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™
14:49
working hard to understand their side. Now,
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ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€
14:51
you may or may not agree with that. You may want to stick to the plan,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใซๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ—ใ€ๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใฎ่จˆ็”ปใซๅ›บๅŸทใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
14:56
but you are acknowledging that you've heard and understood what your friend has
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ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ‹ไบบใŒๆๆกˆใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’่žใ„ใฆ็†่งฃใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’่ชใ‚ใฆใ„ใพใ™
15:00
suggested.
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.
15:02
And now the fourth technique you can use in strategy number four for building
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ไฟก้ ผ ใ‚’็ฏ‰ใใŸใ‚ใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅ 4 ใงไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 4 ใค็›ฎใฎๆ‰‹ๆณ•
15:06
trust is to use inclusive language.
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ใฏใ€ๅŒ…ๆ‹ฌ็š„ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
15:10
Let's compare these two sentences.
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ใ“ใฎไบŒใคใฎๆ–‡ใ‚’ๆฏ”่ผƒใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:13
I want a solution that satisfies these conditions versus
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆกไปถใ‚’ๆบ€ใŸใ™
15:18
we need a solution that satisfies these conditions.
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ใ‚ฝใƒชใƒฅใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชใฎใซๅฏพใ—ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๆกไปถใ‚’ๆบ€ใŸใ™ใ‚ฝใƒชใƒฅใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใŒๅฟ…่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚
15:22
What do you notice about those two sentences? Of course,
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ใ“ใฎ 2 ใคใฎๆ–‡ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใ ใพใ™ใ‹ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“
15:25
the first one begins with I.
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ใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใฏ I ใงๅง‹ใพใ‚Š
15:28
I'm creating a conversation in which it is me against you.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚็งใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ•ตๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ไฝœๆˆใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:33
We want different things. We're not in this together. However,
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็งใŸใกใฏใ•ใพใ–ใพใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—
15:37
when I switch to inclusive language with the word we,
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ใ€็ง ใŸใกใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใงๅŒ…ๆ‹ฌ็š„่จ€่ชžใซๅˆ‡ใ‚Šๆ›ฟใˆใ‚‹ใจใ€
15:42
I'm recognizing that we both want a solution.
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็งใŸใกใฏ ไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่ช่ญ˜ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™.
15:45
We both want an ideal outcome to this particular need that we have.
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็งใŸใกใฏไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚ ใ€็งใŸใกใŒๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใฎ็‰นๅฎšใฎใƒ‹ใƒผใ‚บใซๅฏพใ™ใ‚‹็†ๆƒณ็š„ใช็ตๆžœใ‚’ๆœ›ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™.
15:50
We're in this together.
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็งใŸใกใฏไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
15:52
We're going to work together to find a solution that makes everybody happy.
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ใฟใ‚“ใชใŒๅนธใ›ใซใชใ‚Œใ‚‹่งฃๆฑบ็ญ–ใ‚’ไธ€็ท’ใซ่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ใใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชžใง
15:57
Now that you have these four strategies on how to successfully negotiate in
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ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ๆˆๅŠŸใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ 4 ใคใฎๆˆฆ็•ฅใจใ€ไฝฟ็”จ
16:01
English as well as several phrases you can use, I have two questions for you.
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ใงใใ‚‹ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’็†่งฃ ใงใใŸใจใ“ใ‚ใงใ€2 ใคใฎ่ณชๅ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:06
Number one,
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ใพใšใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงไบคๆธ‰
16:07
give me an example of a situation in which you might need to negotiate in
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ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹็Šถๆณใฎไพ‹ใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
16:12
English. It could be a situation at work or outside of work.
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ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ไธญใพใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ไปฅๅค–ใฎ็Šถๆณใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:16
What strategy or phrase did you learn today that you will use to help you
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ไปŠๆ—ฅๅญฆใ‚“ใ ๆˆฆ็•ฅใ‚„ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฏใ€ๆฌกๅ›ž ใซๅฝน็ซ‹ใคใ‚‚ใฎใฏ
16:21
next time? And number two,
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ไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹? 2 ใค็›ฎใฏใ€ไบคๆธ‰ใ‚’ๆˆๅŠŸ
16:23
if you have a go-to strategy to help you successfully negotiate that
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ใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ้ ผใ‚Šใซใชใ‚‹ๆˆฆ็•ฅใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
16:28
I didn't share today, I would love to know what it is.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใŠไผใˆใงใใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ ใœใฒๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ ใใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
16:31
With both of those questions,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ่ณชๅ•ใฎไธกๆ–นใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ไปฅไธ‹ใฎใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใง
16:32
you can share your answers with me in the comments below.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็ญ”ใˆใ‚’็งใจๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ—ใฆ ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:36
That's also a great place to share any questions you have.
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ใพใŸใ€่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ๅ…ฑๆœ‰ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๆœ€้ฉใชๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:40
If you found today's lesson helpful, be sure to let me know.
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ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใŒ ๅฝนใซ็ซ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๅฟ…ใšใŠ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:43
You can do that in one very simple way.
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1 ใคใฎ้žๅธธใซ็ฐกๅ˜ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ YouTube ใง
16:46
Give this lesson a thumbs up here on YouTube, and while you're at it,
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ใ“ใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณ
16:49
don't forget to subscribe as well. Thank you so much for joining me,
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ใ‚’้ซ˜ใ่ฉ•ไพกใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซ็™ป้Œฒใ‚‚ใŠๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใใ€‚ ใ”ๅ‚ๅŠ ใ„ใŸใ ใใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†
16:53
and I look forward to seeing you next time for your Confident English lesson.
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ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ๆฌกๅ›žใ€่‡ชไฟกใซๆบ€ใกใŸ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใŠไผšใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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