6 Exercises to Feel More CONFIDENT When Speaking English

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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All right, so take a look at these two speakers.ย  Which of the two do you think is more confident?ย ย 
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ์ด ๋‘ ์Šคํ”ผ์ปค๋ฅผ ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋‘˜ ์ค‘ ์–ด๋Š ์ชฝ์ด ๋” ์ž์‹  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
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Now, it doesn't take a genius to know that thisย  person looks and probably also feels a lot moreย ย 
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์ž, ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
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confident than the other one. But how exactlyย  did they get there? What exactly makes thisย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋ณด๋‹ค ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•„๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ฒœ์žฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋„์ฐฉํ–ˆ์„๊นŒ์š”? ์ด
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person more confident, while this person seemsย  more insecure? Well, being a confident Englishย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋” ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•ด ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋Š” ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ธ€์Ž„์š”, ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด
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speaker or speaker of any language, for thatย  matter, involves so much more than just the wordsย ย 
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๊ตฌ์‚ฌ์ž ๋˜๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ์–ธ์–ด ๊ตฌ์‚ฌ์ž๋Š” ์ž…์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด ๊ทธ ์ด์ƒ์„ ํฌํ•จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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that come out of your mouth. In fact, the majorityย  of your perceived confidence actually comes fromย ย 
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. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์ธ์ง€๋œ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์˜ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ํ‘œํ˜„์—์„œ ๋น„๋กฏ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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your non-verbals. Now, non-verbal communicationย  really has to do with things like eye contact,ย ย 
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. ์ด์ œ ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์€ ๋ˆˆ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์น˜๊ธฐ,
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facial expressions, gestures that you make withย  your hands and other parts of your body and,ย ย 
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์–ผ๊ตด ํ‘œ์ •, ์†๊ณผ ์‹ ์ฒด์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ์ œ์Šค์ฒ˜,
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of course, your posture, how you hold yourself. Soย  today I'm going to give you six practical tips andย ย 
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ž์„ธ, ์ž์„ธ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ €๋Š” ํ•œ ๋งˆ๋””๋„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ ๋„ ์ฆ‰์‹œ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๋†’์ด๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๋Š” 6๊ฐ€์ง€ ์‹ค์šฉ์ ์ธ ํŒ๊ณผ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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exercises that will help you to instantly increaseย  your confidence without speaking a single word.
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All right so it goes without saying that if youย  do not feel very confident speaking your nativeย ย 
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์ž, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚€๋‹ค๋ฉด
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language, then you're probably not going to feelย  very confident when it comes to speaking Englishย ย 
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, ์•„๋งˆ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ๋„ ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งํ•  ํ•„์š”๋„ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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either, right? So all of the tips that I'm goingย  to give you today will help you to speak Englishย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋“œ๋ฆด ๋ชจ๋“  ํŒ์€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ
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more confidently, yes, but more importantlyย  they're going to help you feel more confident as aย ย 
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๋” ์ž์‹  ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋„์™€์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด
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person no matter what language you're speaking. Inย  fact, like just through my own personal experienceย ย 
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๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๊ฐ„์— ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ์„œ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๋„์™€์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์–ธ์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ํ†ตํ•ด์„œ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
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of learning languages, in my 20s when I wasย  more dedicated to it I used to go to languageย ย 
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, 20๋Œ€์— ๋” ํ—Œ์‹ ์ ์ด์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด ๊ตํ™˜์— ๊ฐ€๊ณค ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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exchanges. And I've always been shy throughoutย  my life, so this was, you know, at first a veryย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ํ‰์ƒ ๋™์•ˆ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ˆ˜์ค์Œ์ด ๋งŽ์•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ
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terrifying experience, but I found that when Iย  started doing it more and more, I could actuallyย ย 
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๋ฌด์„œ์šด ๊ฒฝํ—˜์ด์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ ์  ๋” ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
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feel, you know, a lot more confident. And thenย  when I actually went into situations where I wasย ย 
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๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ๋„˜์นœ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
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speaking English, my native tongue, then I alsoย  felt more confident. So let's look at some bodyย ย 
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์ œ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด์ธ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์ €๋„ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๊ผˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์‹ ์ฒด
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language changes that if you make them, willย  make other people perceive you as being moreย ย 
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์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ท€ํ•˜๋ฅผ ๋”
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confident and will make you feel more confidentย  yourself. So try to distribute your weight evenlyย ย 
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ์ธ์‹ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์–‘์ชฝ ๋ฐœ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ์ฒด์ค‘์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋ถ„์‚ฐ์‹œํ‚ค์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค
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between both feet, which means avoid when youย  can putting too much of your weight to one side.ย ย 
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. ์ฆ‰, ์ฒด์ค‘์„ ํ•œ์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ์‹ฃ์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
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Or maybe tucking one leg behind the other.ย  You can kind of imagine as if the Earth wereย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ํ•œ์ชฝ ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ชฝ ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ ๋’ค๋กœ ์ง‘์–ด๋„ฃ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งˆ์น˜ ์ง€๊ตฌ๊ฐ€
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like pulling you down, you really want to haveย  your feet grounded. So practice standing tall,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋Œ์–ด๋‹น๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋กœ ์„œ์„œ ๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋กœ ์„œ์„œ ๋“ฑ์„ ๊ณง๊ฒŒ ํŽด๊ณ 
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stand up straight, straighten your back, holdย  your head up high so really make yourself asย ย 
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๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋†’์ด ๋“ค๊ณ  ๋ฐœ๋์ด ๋ป—์นœ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
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tall as you can without seeming like you're goingย  onto your tippy toes. Let your shoulders relaxed.ย ย 
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๋ณด์ด์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ‚ค๊ฐ€ ์ปค์ง€๋„๋ก ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š” . ์–ด๊นจ๋ฅผ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
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A lot of times when you try to stand up tall,ย  our shoulders will naturally sort of go up andย ย 
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์šฐ๋š ์„œ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์–ด๊นจ๊ฐ€ ์œ„๋กœ ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€๊ณ 
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be tense with our neck, so make sure to have themย  lowered. You can do this by actually rolling themย ย 
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๋ชฉ์ด ๊ธด์žฅ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ์–ด๊นจ๋ฅผ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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backwards and forwards so they're relaxed, asย  long as you're not surrounded by people in thatย ย 
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๊ทธ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์— ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ์‹ธ์—ฌ ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ 
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moment but something good to practice at home. Breathing is also really important for beingย ย 
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์ง‘์—์„œ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ์ข‹์€ ํ•œ, ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์•ž๋’ค๋กœ ๊ตด๋ ค์„œ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ˜ธํก์€ ๋˜ํ•œ ์ ‘์ง€์— ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋ฏ€๋กœ
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grounded, so actually practice your breathingย  and if you're in a situation, maybe where you'reย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ํ˜ธํก์„ ์—ฐ์Šต ํ•˜๊ณ 
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feeling stressed, you can use this really to makeย  yourself more present. So breathe deeply from theย ย 
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์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋” ํ˜„์‹ค์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํšก๊ฒฝ๋ง‰์—์„œ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ํ˜ธํกํ•˜์—ฌ ์œ„๊ฐ€
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diaphragm, so like your stomach should sortย  of open up a little bit, your ribs should alsoย ย 
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์—ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐˆ๋น„๋ผˆ๋„
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expand out, you don't want to have your breathingย  be too shallow, so it shouldn't be from high up inย ย 
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ํ™•์žฅ๋˜์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ˜ธํก์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์–•์•„์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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your chest. Another negative thing that thisย  does is if you're not breathing deep enough,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์Šด. ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์ ์€ ์ˆจ์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ์‰ฌ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด
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your voice tends to sound more nasally. Eye contact is also really important,ย ย 
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๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋” ์ฝง์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์†Œ๋ฆ„๋ผ์น  ์ •๋„๋กœ
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you don't want to stare someone down to the pointย  that, you know, it's awkward or you seem creepy.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋นคํžˆ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
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But you should really avoid looking downย  at the ground, looking at your feet,ย ย 
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ฐ”๋‹ฅ์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ฐœ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
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looking off in the distance like you'reย  distracted. One way you can practice thisย ย 
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๋จผ ๊ณณ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •๋ง ํ”ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€
03:34
is actually when you're walking on theย  street and you meet someone's eyes tryย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฑท๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์ณค์„ ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ
03:40
not to be the first person that breaks eyeย  contact. Wait for them to break it first.ย ย 
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๋จผ์ € ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋–ผ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋จผ์ € ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊นจ๋œจ๋ฆด ๋•Œ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:45
This can feel like really awkward at first,ย  but if you practice it, you'll get better andย ย 
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์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ์ •๋ง ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋ฉด ๋” ์ž˜ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜๊ณ 
03:49
better at it and then when you're actually in aย  situation where you're talking to someone, youย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
03:53
won't feel as awkward holding their eye contact.ย  If you're sitting, usually it's best to actuallyย ย 
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์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์•ˆ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด ๋“ค์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ ์ ‘์ด‰. ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
03:57
relax a bit in your chair, so lean back, don'tย  like slouch down into your chair, but actuallyย ย 
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์˜์ž์—์„œ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ธด์žฅ์„ ํ‘ธ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋“ฑ์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ณ  ์˜์ž ์— ๋ชธ์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š”
04:03
use the back of it, spread yourself out. Avoidย  crossing your legs, if you do cross your legs,ย ย 
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๋“ฑ๋ฐ›์ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ชธ์„ ๋ฒŒ๋ฆฌ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ผฌ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ผฌ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
04:08
do it in a more open way. And if you're, like,ย  sitting on a sofa, for example, you can actuallyย ย 
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๋” ๊ฐœ๋ฐฉ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ์†ŒํŒŒ์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์†ŒํŒŒ์— ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์–ด
04:14
lean back on it and drape your arm across it, likeย  even, maybe, behind the person that you're talkingย ย 
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ํŒ”์„ ๊ฑธ์น  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:19
to, as long as it's a close enough relationship,ย  as you're looking at them and talking to them.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ๊ด€๊ณ„.
04:24
Number two, practice power poses. So social psychologist Amy Cuddy has this reallyย ย 
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ, ํŒŒ์›Œํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์‚ฌํšŒ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™์ž ์—์ด๋ฏธ ์ปค๋””(Amy Cuddy)๋Š” ์ด ์ •๋ง
04:31
famous Ted Talk, that later turns into a book,ย  all about how our body language affects our mood,ย ย 
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์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ Ted Talk๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ์ฑ…์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐœ๊ฐ„๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„,
04:37
our emotions and ultimately how confidentย  we feel. So she discusses how having moreย ย 
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๊ฐ์ •, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ถ๊ทน์ ์œผ๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋” ๋งŽ์€
04:41
open body language makes us feel more powerful,ย  more confident, but when we feel more insecure,ย ย 
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๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋” ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ  ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:47
what we tend to do is close up our bodyย  language, you know. Maybe crossing our arms,ย ย 
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. ํŒ”์งฑ์„ ๋ผ๊ณ 
04:52
getting really small in our chair. So Amy Cuddyย  teaches us that if we do power poses, this canย ย 
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์˜์ž์— ์•‰์œผ๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ์ž‘์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ Amy Cuddy๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํŒŒ์›Œ ํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ์ทจํ•˜๋ฉด
04:57
actually help us to feel more confident. So thisย  generally is taking some sort of pose that is moreย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์นฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋”
05:04
open and makes us feel more powerful. This couldย  be having your hands up, your arms up in the air,ย ย 
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๊ฐœ๋ฐฉ์ ์ด๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋” ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์ข…์˜ ํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ์ทจํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Š” ์†์„ ๋“ค๊ณ , ํŒ”์„ ์œ„๋กœ ๋“ค๊ณ ,
05:09
could be having your hands on your hips. Now,ย  obviously not all these you could do while you'reย ย 
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์†์„ ์—‰๋ฉ์ด์— ์˜ฌ๋ ค๋†“๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž, ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:13
talking other people, because you're not goingย  to be, like, talking to someone like this. Butย ย 
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. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
05:17
some of them you could do, for example, before youย  have a high pressure situation. So maybe if you'reย ย 
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๊ณ ์••์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์˜์–ด๋กœ
05:22
going to a social event where you'll be speakingย  English, or if you're speaking even your nativeย ย 
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๋งํ•  ์‚ฌ๊ต ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ๊ฐ€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
05:25
language, but you're nervous about it, or if youย  are going in for a job interview, for example,ย ย 
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๊ธด์žฅ๋˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘์— ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด,
05:30
then right before the job interview you couldย  go to the bathroom, close yourself in there andย ย 
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๋ฉด์ ‘ ์ง์ „์— ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์— ๊ฐ€์„œ ๋ฌธ์„ ๋‹ซ๊ณ 
05:36
stand for at least two minutes with your handsย  up in the air, with your feet firmly groundedย ย 
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์†์„ ๊ณต์ค‘์— ๋“ค๊ณ  ๋ฐœ์„ ๋‹จ๋‹จํžˆ ์ง€๋ฉด์— ๋Œ€๊ณ 
05:40
and wide on the floor. And if you do this, it'sย  actually going to change your brain chemistry asย ย 
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๋„“๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ”๋‹ฅ์— ๋Œ€๊ณ  ์ตœ์†Œ 2๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์„œ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๋กœ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋‡Œ ํ™”ํ•™์ด ๋ฐ”๋€” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
05:46
she explains. In fact, this is so effective thatย  for a little bit of behind the scenes information,ย ย 
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. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ด์–ด์„œ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋น„ํ•˜์ธ๋“œ ์Šคํ† ๋ฆฌ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ํŒŸ์บ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฅผ
05:50
we do this in preparation before recording anyย  podcast, because it helps us just to feel moreย ย 
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๋…น์Œํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์ด๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š” ํŒŸ์บ์ŠคํŠธ์—์„œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š”
05:56
present and more confident about whatever we'reย  talking about in that podcast. So how does thisย ย 
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๋‚ด์šฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋” ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. . ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด
06:02
actually work? So Amy Cuddy points us to someย  scientific studies that show that when we feelย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ž‘๋™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ Amy Cuddy๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
06:07
more stressed, the level of cortisol, which isย  also known as the stress hormone, increases inย ย 
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์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ›์„ ๋•Œ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค ํ˜ธ๋ฅด๋ชฌ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์•Œ๋ ค์ง„ ์ฝ”๋ฅดํ‹ฐ์†” ์ˆ˜์น˜๊ฐ€ ๋‡Œ์—์„œ ์ฆ๊ฐ€ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ณผํ•™์  ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ง€์ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:12
our brain, but by doing these power poses that weย  discussed or doing anything that makes you feelย ย 
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06:18
more confident, in general, helps to lower theย  stress level. So you can imagine, you know, ifย ย 
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์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค ์ˆ˜์ค€์„ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‹น์‹ 
06:22
you're in one of these situations, especially ifย  you are someone like me that's shy or introverted,ย ย 
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์ด ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ํŠนํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‚˜์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ˆ˜์ค์Œ์ด ๋งŽ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‚ด์„ฑ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
06:27
it can cause a high level of stress. Maybe evenย  you begin to like sweat or something like that,ย ย 
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๋†’์€ ์ˆ˜์ค€์˜ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์œ ๋ฐœํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋•€์„ ํ˜๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ,
06:32
a really physical response right to that stress,ย  but if you do these power poses beforehand,ย ย 
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๊ทธ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์‹ ์ฒด์  ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์ด ํŒŒ์›Œ ํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ํ•˜๋ฉด
06:37
then it can help you to feel a bit more at ease.ย  Maybe you'll still be a little bit stressed,ย ย 
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
06:41
but less so than if you had not done this. And aย  really amazing thing about body language is it canย ย 
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์ด ์ž‘์—…์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์˜ ์ •๋ง ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ ์€
06:46
help you bring up more presence to your speech.ย  So oftentimes, it's not just what we're saying,ย ย 
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๋ง์— ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์กด์žฌ๊ฐ์„ ๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์ผ์œผํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข…์ข… ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด
06:51
but actually how we're saying it. So, forย  example, if you're speaking to someone andย ย 
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ
06:55
your arms are crossed, that might make them thinkย  one thing, but if you are speaking to them and youย ย 
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ํŒ”์งฑ์„ ๋ผ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
07:01
have your hands on your hips, for example, thatย  makes you seem like someone who is confident,ย ย 
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋ง์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์—‰๋ฉ์ด์— ์†์„ ์–น๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ,
07:05
who is powerful, who knows what they're talkingย  about, who feels comfortable with who they areย ย 
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๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ, ์ž์‹ ์ด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•„๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ , ์ž์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ,
07:10
so you know just pay attention to this. Even ifย  you're like watching TV or if you're watchingย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์— ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด TV๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ด๋„, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
07:14
people you're people watching on the street andย  see what kind of body language are they having andย ย 
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๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์–ด๋–ค ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
07:19
how does that make your perception of them change.ย  So the exercise here is pretty simple and you canย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ธ์‹์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ์˜ ์šด๋™์€ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๋ฉฐ
07:25
even try it out right now if you're somewhereย  where people can't see you. It's actually doingย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ณณ์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋‹น์žฅ ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
07:29
one of these power poses for just a couple minutesย  and paying attention to how you feel beforeย ย 
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๋ช‡ ๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํŒŒ์›Œ ํฌ์ฆˆ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ „ํ›„์— ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š”์ง€ ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:34
and after. So check out, these are some of theย  different power poses that you can do. And eitherย ย 
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. ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํŒŒ์›Œ ํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด
07:39
or close yourself up somewhere or even if you'reย  watching this alone right now in your bedroom,ย ย 
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์–ด๋”˜๊ฐ€์— ํ‹€์–ด๋ฐ•ํ˜€ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง€๊ธˆ ์นจ์‹ค์—์„œ ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค์—์„œ ์ด ์˜์ƒ์„ ํ˜ผ์ž ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋”๋ผ๋„
07:43
in your office, then give it a go and seeย  how it makes you feel. Two minutes at least.ย 
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์–ด๋–ค์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ตœ์†Œ 2๋ถ„.
07:48
If you are someone who is prone to shynessย  or anxiety, you should not expect that youย ย 
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์ˆ˜์ค์Œ์ด ๋งŽ ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
07:54
can just turn things around by watching aย  YouTube video like this. One and then goingย ย 
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์ด์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฐ˜์ „์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ
07:57
to an event that is crowded with strangers or toย  a high pressure situation like a job interview.ย ย 
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๋กœ ๋ถ๋น„๋Š” ํ–‰์‚ฌ๋‚˜ ์ทจ์—… ๋ฉด์ ‘๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์••๋ฐ•์ด ์‹ฌํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:02
Well the good news is that there are some waysย  that you can practice first, even at home alone,ย ย 
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์ข‹์€ ์†Œ์‹์€ ์ง‘์—์„œ ํ˜ผ์ž๋ผ๋„
08:08
in low pressure situations, that will help youย  to master some of the principles of confidentย ย 
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๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด ์ ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ๋จผ์ € ์—ฐ์Šตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์˜ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์›์น™์„ ์ˆ™์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:14
body language. And if you're the type of personย  who really suffers from anxiety, well you canย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๋ถˆ์•ˆ์œผ๋กœ ๊ณ ํ†ต๋ฐ›๋Š” ์œ ํ˜•์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด,
08:19
kind of build your way up by first practicingย  alone and then you can maybe do it with peopleย ย 
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๋จผ์ € ํ˜ผ์ž ์—ฐ์Šตํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ
08:24
who you feel close to, who don't judge you, likeย  friends and family, before you actually go outย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์นœํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํŒ๋‹จํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์•ผ์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์นœ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด
08:28
into the wild and try this out with strangers. Okay, so if you want to practice this first,ย ย 
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๋‚ฏ์„  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ž, ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋จผ์ € ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
08:34
you should try speaking in front of the mirror.ย  You can even film yourself and then watch itย ย 
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๊ฑฐ์šธ ์•ž์—์„œ ๋ง์„ ํ•ด๋ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ดฌ์˜ํ•œ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:39
back. Really try to focus in on the details ofย  your body language, pay special attention toย ย 
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. ๋ชธ์ง“ ์–ธ์–ด์˜ ์„ธ๋ถ€์‚ฌํ•ญ์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๊ณ 
08:44
what you do with your facial expressions, withย  your hands, with your arms and your shoulders,ย ย 
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์–ผ๊ตด ํ‘œ์ •, ์†, ํŒ”, ์–ด๊นจ,
08:49
your general posture and any other body languageย  that might make you seem anxious or nervous. Andย ย 
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์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ธ ์ž์„ธ ๋ฐ ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•ด ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐํƒ€ ๋ชธ์ง“ ์–ธ์–ด๋กœ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ํŠนํžˆ ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋˜๋Š” ๊ธด์žฅ. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ
08:55
then, when you do this, you can become moreย  mindful about correcting any ticks that youย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ธด์žฅํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋˜‘๋”ฑ์ด๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋” ๋” ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:59
might have when you're nervous. And, of course,ย  if you're trying to build up your confidence,ย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ๋ก , ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ํ‚ค์šฐ๊ณ ์ž ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
09:02
it is fantastic, if you are practicing at homeย  alone but eventually you're going to have to getย ย 
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ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง‘์—์„œ ํ˜ผ์ž ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ์—๋Š”
09:08
out there and practice with real people, right?ย  And sometimes it can be really difficult to findย ย 
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๋‚˜๊ฐ€์„œ ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๊ฒ ์ฃ ? ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š”
09:12
good situations in which to do this, especially ifย  you're wanting to do it in your target language,ย ย 
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์ด๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ์ข‹์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •๋ง ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ ์˜์–ด์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋Œ€์ƒ ์–ธ์–ด๋กœ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” ๋”์šฑ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:17
like English. So we have a really fantasticย  way that you can do this for free, anytime,ย ย 
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณณ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์–ธ์ œ ์–ด๋””์„œ๋‚˜ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ๋กœ ์ด ์ž‘์—…์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ •๋ง ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:22
anywhere that you have an internet connection. Andย  that's with the RealLife App. And the really greatย ย 
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. RealLife ์•ฑ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€
09:27
thing here is that you can connect with peopleย  from all around the world who are just like you,ย ย 
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์ ์€ ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ
09:32
in the same boat, trying to learn a language andย  maybe feeling not so comfortable communicatingย ย 
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๋˜‘๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฐฐ๋ฅผ ํƒ€๊ณ  ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
09:37
in it yet. alright, so you can give itย  a try, download it for free right nowย ย 
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์•„์ง ๊ทธ ์•ˆ์—์„œ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํŽธํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด ๋ณด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
09:41
in your favorite app store or just clickย  up here or down in the description below.
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์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ์•ฑ ์Šคํ† ์–ด์—์„œ ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ๋กœ ๋‹ค์šด๋กœ๋“œํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•„๋ž˜ ์„ค๋ช…์—์„œ ์•„๋ž˜๋ฅผ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
09:47
Number four, practice mindful listening. So depending on who you're talking to,ย ย 
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๋„ท์งธ, ๋งˆ์Œ์ฑ™๊น€ ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ƒ๋Œ€์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€
09:51
it can feel quite awkward when you're in aย  conversation with someone and they don't reallyย ย 
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๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘์ผ ๋•Œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋‚ด ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์„ ๋•Œ ์ƒ๋‹นํžˆ ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
09:56
seem to be listening to you. Maybe they'reย  pretending to be listening, maybe they'reย ย 
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. ๋“ฃ๋Š” ์ฒ™ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
10:01
double tasking and so you know that they're notย  really fully listening. You can be someone whoย ย 
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์ด์ค‘ ์ž‘์—…์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
10:06
really connects to people by practicing activeย  listening. And basically what this means is thatย ย 
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์ ๊ทน์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋Š”
10:12
you give your undivided attention to the otherย  person, really truly listening to what they'reย ย 
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „์ ์ธ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๊ณ  ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:16
saying. There is a quote that I really love thatย  paints a picture of this perfectly, that says:ย ย 
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. ์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์„ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ์ธ์šฉ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:21
"You have two ears and one mouth, use themย  proportionally." So this means that we shouldย ย 
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"๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‘ ๊ฐœ์˜ ๊ท€์™€ ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์˜ ์ž…์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ๋น„๋ก€์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์„ธ์š”." ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
10:27
listen twice as much as we speak. And everyoneย  loves to talk, and they love to talk especiallyย ย 
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๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋‘ ๋ฐฐ ๋” ๋“ค์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๊ณ , ํŠนํžˆ
10:32
about themselves, about the things that theyย  do great. Give other people the opportunity toย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด, ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ž˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
10:37
speak more and really listen and use your bodyย  language as well to show that you are listening.
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๋” ๋งŽ์ด ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Œ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:42
All right, so how do you actually do this?ย  So one thing that you can do is actuallyย ย 
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ์ด๊ฑธ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
10:47
use your body language as I said so. There areย  different ways you can do this. In most westernย ย 
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด ๋ชธ์ง“ ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์„œ์–‘
10:51
cultures English-speaking countries, nodding yourย  head looks like this, right? Do it tactfully,ย ย 
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๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด๊ถŒ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ ๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋„๋•์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฒผ์ฃ ? ์žฌ์น˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:57
which means, you know, don't do it too much, youย  don't want to just be like this the whole time,ย ย 
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์ฆ‰, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:01
because the person's going to thinkย  that there's something wrong, maybe,ย ย 
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
11:03
with your neck. But you can do it, you know, everyย  once in a while to show that you're following,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ชฉ์— ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ,
11:08
that you're listening, that you understandย  what they're saying. You can also use someย ย 
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๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ , ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ฐ€๋” ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์†Œ์Œ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:12
different noises to do this. So inย  English it would be things like:
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์˜์–ด๋กœ๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:15
So all those kind of things show that you knowย  you're following what they're saying and evenย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด
11:21
that you're finding it interesting. You don'tย  need to maintain eye contact 100%, but it'sย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กญ๊ฒŒ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ์„ ์„ 100% ์œ ์ง€ํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์ง€๋งŒ ์š”์ ์„ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ
11:26
especially important that you maintain eye contactย  when you're making a point. Usually when someoneย ย 
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์‹œ์„ ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํŠนํžˆ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ
11:30
else is talking I tend to find it helpful to lookย  them in the eye the entire time, when I'm talkingย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚ด๋‚ด ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋„์›€์ด ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ–ฅ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š”
11:36
though, oftentimes if I'm looking in the eye maybeย  I can't fully get my thoughts together and so,ย ย 
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์ข…์ข… ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ,
11:41
you know, I might, for a moment, break that eyeย  contact look and kind of think about putting myย ย 
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์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์ €๋Š” ์ž ์‹œ ๊ทธ โ€‹โ€‹์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:46
thoughts together. But, you know, when you'reย  listening, a great way to show that you'reย ย 
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. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด
11:49
listening is by, you know, not looking like you'reย  distracted, looking over there at someone else,ย ย 
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๋ณด์ด์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์ €๊ธฐ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:53
but that you're really present with that person.ย  It goes without saying, if you're maintainingย ย 
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์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ. ๋‘๋งํ•  ๋‚˜์œ„ ์—†์ด
11:56
eye contact also don't be looking down at yourย  feet, this is something people tend to do whenย ย 
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๋ˆˆ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๊ณ  ๋ฐœ์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฝ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ํ”ํžˆ ํ•˜๋Š” ํ–‰๋™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:01
they're feeling shy or feeling anxious, but,ย  you know, really try to keep your head up,ย ย 
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๊ณ ๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๊ณ 
12:05
try to keep that straight posture and make sureย  that you're fully present listening to them. Soย ย 
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๋˜‘๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ž์„ธ๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜์—ฌ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
12:11
this means actually and this is where meditationย  comes in handy, but this means actually notย ย 
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ช…์ƒ์ด ์œ ์šฉํ•œ ๊ณณ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
12:15
letting yourself get distracted by other thoughts.ย  Most people when they're in a conversation,ย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์— ์˜ํ•ด ์ฃผ์˜๊ฐ€ ์‚ฐ๋งŒํ•ด์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ
12:19
listening to someone else, they're not trulyย  listening, they're actually formulating theirย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์„ ๋•Œ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ '
12:22
head "How am I going to respond to this, whatย  can I say to impress the other person?", so youย ย 
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€์‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ? ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊นŠ์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ?' , ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
12:28
don't need to worry about this, just get in theย  habit of when those thoughts pop into your head,ย ย 
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๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋จธ๋ฆฟ์†์— ๋– ์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋•Œ
12:32
to actually say, you know, "Okay, pay attention,ย  pay attention." Don't need to think about that,ย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ "์•Œ์•˜์–ด, ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด, ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:36
once it comes time for you to speak, if they askย  you a question or something, it will come. Youย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๋˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ์˜ฌ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ
12:41
don't need to worry about formulating yourย  response while they're talking. Be sure toย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋Œ€๋‹ต์„ ๊ณต์‹ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
12:45
mute your devices, mute your phone or anythingย  else that could have a notification. You know,ย ย 
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๊ธฐ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ์†Œ๊ฑฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ์Œ์†Œ๊ฑฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋“ฑ ์•Œ๋ฆผ์„ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์Œ์†Œ๊ฑฐํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
12:49
nothing's worse than when you're talking toย  someone and they seem more interested in theย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ „ํ™”์˜ ์ง„๋™์ด๋‚˜ ์ฐจ์ž„๋ฒจ์— ๋” ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋‚˜์œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:52
vibrating or the chime on their phoneย  than they are in what you have to say.
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12:58
Number five, be the master of your emotions. So being non-reactive is about keeping yourย ย 
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๋‹ค์„ฏ์งธ, ๊ฐ์ •์˜ ์ฃผ์ธ์ด ๋˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
13:06
emotions in check, in other words, it's about notย  letting your emotions control you. Now this isย ย 
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๊ฐ์ •์„ ์–ต์ œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ, ์ฆ‰ ๊ฐ์ •์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ†ต์ œํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€
13:14
really difficult to do, but I assure you it isย  well worth the effort. Now don't get me wrong,ย ย 
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์ •๋ง ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ต์ง€๋งŒ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ™•์‹ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ์˜คํ•ดํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
13:19
it's really important that you show your emotions,ย  but when you let your negative emotions, such asย ย 
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๊ฐ์ •์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ •๋ง ์ค‘์š” ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋‚˜ ๋ถˆ์•ˆ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ •์— ์‚ฌ๋กœ์žกํžˆ๋ฉด
13:24
stress or anxiety really take hold of you, thenย  it can make the conversation really uncomfortableย ย 
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๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ๋ถˆํŽธํ•ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:30
both for you and the person that you're speakingย  to. So by remaining calm and non-reactive, youย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์นจ์ฐฉํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Œ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ฃผ๋ณ€์—์„œ
13:37
show that you're not pressured by what's happeningย  around you and others will feel much more at easeย ย 
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์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ
13:43
conversing with you or being in your presence. All right, so now let's look at some techniquesย ย 
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๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:47
for being non-reactive. So first of all, let'sย  look at a situation where you're sitting. So ifย ย 
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. ์šฐ์„ , ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด
13:52
you are sitting, for example, in a job interview.ย  This could actually happen for some people whenย ย 
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๊ตฌ์ง ๋ฉด์ ‘์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Š” ์ผ๋ถ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์„œ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋‚˜ ์•ˆ์ ˆ๋ถ€์ ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋•Œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:56
they're standing, as well, you don't want toย  fidget. Now fidgeting is when you are eitherย ย 
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. ์•ˆ์ ˆ๋ถ€์ ˆ ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
14:01
playing with, you know, something on your bodyย  or playing with an object even. So we all knowย ย 
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๋ชธ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ๋†€ ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฌผ๊ฑด์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด,
14:06
someone probably who, for example, if they have aย  pen in their hand, they're just gonna be the wholeย ย 
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์†์— ํŽœ์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด
14:10
time clicking that pen, right? Like crazy. Soย  that's one type of fidgeting, it's different waysย ย 
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์˜จ์ข…์ผ ๊ทธ ํŽœ์„ ํด๋ฆญํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ ? ๋ฏธ์นœ ๋“ฏ์ด. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•ˆ์ ˆ๋ถ€์ ˆ๋ชปํ•จ์˜ ํ•œ ์œ ํ˜•์ด๋ฉฐ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”
14:14
of like letting your anxiety come out physicallyย  which other people can notice and it can makeย ย 
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์‹ ์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ถˆ์•ˆ์„ ํ‘œ์ถœํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:19
you feel like, you know, if I'm speaking with youย  and you're fidgeting, it can seem like you're notย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด
14:23
very comfortable around me, which might make meย  feel comfortable, right? Avoid bouncing your leg,ย ย 
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๋‚ด ์ฃผ๋ณ€์—์„œ ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ  ? ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํŠ•๊ธฐ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
14:28
which really is a type of fidgeting. And if you'reย  sitting at a table, it's good to have your handsย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์•ˆ์ ˆ๋ถ€์ ˆ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ์œ ํ˜•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ํ…Œ์ด๋ธ”์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์†์ด ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์ง€๋งŒ ์†ํ†ฑ์ด ๊ธธ๋ฉด ์†๊ฐ€๋ฝ์ด๋‚˜ ์†ํ†ฑ์œผ๋กœ
14:33
in view, but also avoid like tapping the tableย  with your fingers or with your nails, maybe,ย ย 
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ํ…Œ์ด๋ธ”์„ ๋‘๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ํ”ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
14:38
if you have long nails. Also avoid touching yourย  face or maybe you have long hair, avoid playingย ย 
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. ๋˜ํ•œ ์–ผ๊ตด์„ ๋งŒ์ง€์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋˜๋Š” ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ธธ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:43
with your hair, twirling it. As I said, youย  know, if you're sitting at a table, it's goodย ย 
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๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ์ง€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋น™๋น™ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฐ ๋Œ€๋กœ ํ…Œ์ด๋ธ”์— ์•‰์•„ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋Š”
14:48
to show your hands, but even if you're standing,ย  don't hide your hands in your pocket. It's alwaysย ย 
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์†์„ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์ง€๋งŒ ์„œ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋„ ์ฃผ๋จธ๋‹ˆ์— ์†์„ ์ˆจ๊ธฐ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ํ•ญ์ƒ
14:52
better if you have your hands, if you're usingย  them to gesture, that shows a lot of confidenceย ย 
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์†์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ๋” ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์†์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ชธ์ง“์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋งŽ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ
14:56
and open body language. Avoid crossing your arms,ย  which is a much more closed type of body language,ย ย 
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๊ณผ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ๋ชธ์ง“์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŒ”์งฑ์„ ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ”ผํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ํ์‡„์ ์ธ ๋ฐ”๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:02
if you must cross your arms, then do it in a wayย  where your hands are still visible. And if you'reย ย 
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ํŒ”์งฑ์„ ๋ผ์…”์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์†์ด ๋ณด์ด๋„๋ก ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
15:07
really feeling anxious, avoid this coming outย  in a physical way, instead, try to anchor ontoย ย 
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์ •๋ง ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฌผ๋ฆฌ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋Œ€์‹  ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ๊ณ ์ •ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜์„ธ์š”
15:11
something. And a really great anchor is always theย  breath. So just try to make yourself more presentย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ •๋ง ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋‹ป์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ˆจ๊ฒฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ
15:16
by paying attention, not controlling, but payingย  attention to your inhale and your exhale and thisย ย 
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๊ธฐ์šธ์ด๊ณ  ์ œ์–ดํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋“ค์ˆจ๊ณผ ๋‚ ์ˆจ์— ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์ž„์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋” ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ด๋Š” ์ง„์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋” ํ˜„์žฌ์— ์žˆ์Œ์„
15:22
should really help you to calm down a bit and feelย  more present. You also don't need to feel superย ย 
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๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ •๋ง ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋˜ํ•œ
15:26
pressured to speak right away. So, for example,ย  someone asks you a question, you can take a momentย ย 
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์ฆ‰์‹œ ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž ์‹œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์–ด
15:31
to think and to gather yourself. And to likeย  really lower your anxiety before responding. So ifย ย 
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์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์ •๋ฆฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ข‹์•„์š”๋Š” ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋ถˆ์•ˆ๊ฐ์„ ์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋‚ฎ์ถฅ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๊ตฌ์ง ๋ฉด์ ‘๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด
15:36
you're in a high pressure situation, for example,ย  at a job interview, then you might want to, youย ย 
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์••๋ฐ•์ด ์‹ฌํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
15:41
know, just take a breath. You can kind of like,ย  you know, look up look not directly at the personย ย 
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์ˆจ์„ ์‰ฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž ์‹œ ๋™์•ˆ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ง์ ‘ ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์œ„๋ฅผ ์˜ฌ๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณด๊ณ 
15:46
for a moment and kind of gather your thoughtsย  and then respond. There's nothing at all wrongย ย 
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์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋ชจ์€ ๋‹ค์Œ ์‘๋‹ตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:51
with making the person wait just a little bit. And just before we move into today's last tip,ย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ „ํ˜€ ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ํŒ์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋™ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ง์ „์—
15:55
I want to let you know that if you are newย  to RealLife English, well every single weekย ย 
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RealLife English๋ฅผ ์ฒ˜์Œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ๋งค์ฃผ
16:00
we bring you a new video like this one thatย  helps you not only to improve your English,ย ย 
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์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
16:04
but also to improve your life. Just like we'reย  saying today that being more confident not only isย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์„ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋“ฏ์ด, ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฉด
16:10
going to help you speak English better, but it'sย  going to help you connect better with other peopleย ย 
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์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋” ์ž˜ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ, ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋” ์ž˜ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ๋˜๊ณ 
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and ultimately just feel better in your life. Soย  be sure to hit that subscribe button and the bellย ย 
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๊ถ๊ทน์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ถ์ด ๋” ๋‚˜์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๊ตฌ๋… ๋ฒ„ํŠผ์„ ๋ˆ„๋ฅด๊ณ  ์•„๋ž˜์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฒจ์„ ๋ˆ„๋ฅด์„ธ์š”.
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down below so that every single week we can helpย  you go from being a lost insecure English learner,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋งค์ฃผ ์ €ํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๊ธธ ์žƒ์€ ๋ถˆ์•ˆ์ •ํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์ž์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜
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feeling like a natural and confident Englishย  speaker that, you know, you have all thisย ย 
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์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๊ตฌ์‚ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋Š๋ผ๋ฉฐ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ์ž ์žฌ๋ ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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potential to be, so we look forward to seeingย  you every single week here at RealLife English.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ RealLife English์—์„œ ๋งค์ฃผ ๋ต™๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Number six Embrace vulnerability. So it is just impossible to gain confidence ifย ย 
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์—ฌ์„ฏ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์„ ํฌ์šฉํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋จผ์ € ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ์–ป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
16:40
you do not first have vulnerability, many peopleย  actually see confidence as the sort of set traitย ย 
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. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚  ๋•Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ข…์˜ ๊ณ ์ •๋œ ํŠน์„ฑ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ„์ฃผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
16:46
that we have at birth, which is not at all true.ย  Confidence actually comes out of vulnerability.ย ย 
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. ์ด๋Š” ์ „ํ˜€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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In fact Mark Manson, who is the author of thisย  really fantastic book I read a couple years ago,ย ย 
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ช‡ ๋…„ ์ „์— ์ฝ์€ ์ •๋ง ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ธ ์ฑ…์˜ ์ €์ž์ธ Mark Manson์€
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called the subtle art of not giving a f***, saysย  that "True confidence is being more invested inย ย 
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์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๋ฏธ๋ฌ˜ํ•œ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ €์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์€
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your perception of yourself, than in someoneย  else's perceptions of you." So in other words,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ์ธ์‹." ์ฆ‰,
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vulnerability comes out of accepting and embracingย  who you are, even if other people don't accept itย ย 
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์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
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or don't like it. In fact, it probably soundsย  really clichรฉ, but if you don't first likeย ย 
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์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋”๋ผ๋„ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ณ  ํฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ง„๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆด์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด์ง€๋งŒ ๋จผ์ €
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yourself, how can you ever expect other people toย  like you? Now there's no one better to look to forย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์ด์ œ ์‚ฌํšŒ๊ณผํ•™์ž์ธ
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advice on vulnerability than Brenรฉ Brown, who is aย  social scientist. Now she says that "vulnerabilityย ย 
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Brenรฉ Brown๋ณด๋‹ค ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๋” ์ž˜ ๊ตฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” "์ทจ์•ฝํ•จ์€
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leads to courage, which leads to confidence,ย  so actually courage is much more important thanย ย 
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์šฉ๊ธฐ๋กœ ์ด์–ด์ง€๊ณ , ์ด๋Š” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์œผ๋กœ ์ด์–ด์ง€๋ฏ€๋กœ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์šฉ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๋ณด๋‹ค ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
17:38
confidence." You know, the people who we viewย  as just naturally confident, are so not becauseย ย 
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."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๊ธฐ์— ๊ทธ์ € ์„ ์ฒœ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
17:43
of a natural personality trait that they have,ย  but because over and over and over again they'veย ย 
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ํƒ€๊ณ ๋‚œ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ
17:49
made the courageous choice to step out of theirย  comfort zone. So if you want to be perceived asย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ์•ˆ์ „์ง€๋Œ€์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์šฉ๊ฐํ•œ ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
17:54
being more confident, then there's no shortcut,ย  you have to actually embrace your vulnerabilityย ย 
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๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ ์ธ์‹๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ง€๋ฆ„๊ธธ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์„ ํฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ 
17:59
and make those decisions every time you can toย  be courageous and step out of your comfort zoneย ย 
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๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ํ•œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค ์šฉ๊ฐํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ์•ˆ์ „์ง€๋Œ€์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
18:04
too. So the exercise to master this tip actuallyย  has to do with putting yourself in uncomfortableย ย 
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด ํŒ์„ ์ˆ™๋‹ฌํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ์—ฐ์Šต์€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค
18:10
situations that might even make you a bit scared.ย  A fantastic way that you can do this is actuallyย ย 
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๊ฒ์ด ๋‚  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋‘๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ™˜์ƒ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
18:15
making a list of the things that you fear. Inย  fact, author Tim Ferriss has an exercise calledย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์˜ ๋ชฉ๋ก์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์ €์ž Tim Ferriss๋Š”
18:20
"fear setting" that helps you to do exactly this.ย  And he actually attributes a lot of his success toย ย 
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์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ์ด๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๋Š” "๋‘๋ ค์›€ ์„ค์ •"์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋งŽ์€ ์„ฑ๊ณต์ด
18:26
doing this a few times a year. So let's look atย  the steps to do this exercise. So you start offย ย 
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1๋…„์— ๋ช‡ ๋ฒˆ ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€
18:30
thinking about something that you fear and thenย  writing on the phrase "what if I..." and then theย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•œ ๋‹ค์Œ, "๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€..."๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ์— ๊ธ€์„ ์“ด ๋‹ค์Œ
18:35
thing that you fear. Then you try to define theย  worst things that could happen in that situation,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ธ€์„ ์”๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๊ทธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ,
18:39
ways you can prevent those things and if thoseย  worse things came to pass, how could you repairย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฐฉ์ง€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ๋” ๋‚˜์œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ณ ์น  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ •์˜ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
18:45
them. And if you're someone who really likesย  these kind of exercises, there's another reallyย ย 
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. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ข…๋ฅ˜์˜ ์šด๋™์„ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด Gabrielle Oettingen์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™ ๊ต์ˆ˜๊ฐ€
18:49
great and simple one called WOOP, who comes from aย  professor of psychology named Gabrielle Oettingen.ย ย 
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๋งŒ๋“  WOOP๋ผ๋Š” ์ •๋ง ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์šด๋™์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
18:55
And I actually had the pleasure of interviewingย  her back at the beginning of this year, so Iย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์˜ฌํ•ด ์ดˆ์— ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์ธํ„ฐ๋ทฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
19:00
highly recommend that you check out my interviewย  with her, where you can learn this exercise.ย 
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์ด ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€์™€์˜ ์ธํ„ฐ๋ทฐ๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:05
So just in finishing talking about this tip,ย  courage does not need to be this huge act,ย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด ํŒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์น˜๋ฉด์„œ ์šฉ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํฐ ํ–‰๋™์ผ ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
19:11
this huge change that you're making. It can justย  be doing something small that gets you out of yourย ย 
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. ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ž‘์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
19:15
comfort zone. In fact true vulnerability reallyย  is if you're someone who is shy or introvertedย ย 
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. ์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์ทจ์•ฝ์„ฑ์€ ๋‚˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์ˆ˜์ค์Œ์ด ๋งŽ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‚ด์„ฑ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด
19:21
like myself, just going up to someone and saying,ย  you know, "hi, I'm really nervous to come up andย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๊ฐ€๊ฐ€
19:27
approach you, but I just thought that you'd beย  an interesting person to speak to", you know,ย ย 
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.", ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ,
19:31
this could be if you're dating, if you're,ย  you know, looking to meet someone and goingย ย 
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์ค‘์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ,
19:35
up and just saying that you think cute or thatย  they're handsome or beautiful. Or it can just be,ย ย 
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์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ท€์—ฝ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹ค์‹œ ์ž˜์ƒ๊ฒผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ต์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ
19:40
you know, if you're looking for, you're at aย  networking event and you're looking to meet otherย ย 
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๋„คํŠธ์›Œํ‚น ํ–‰์‚ฌ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ 
19:44
people who have a similar interest to you, goingย  up to a small group and introducing yourself.ย ย 
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๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ์†Œ๊ทธ๋ฃน์— ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
19:49
It's a small thing, but for many of us it justย  seems like something that can be quite scary,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ž‘์€ ์ผ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ค‘ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฝค ๋ฌด์„œ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
19:54
but really, if you just get yourself outย  there, if you just push yourself a little bit,ย ย 
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19:57
you'll see that is much easier than you, know,ย  you're building it up to be in your mind. And,ย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ ์†์— ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ , โ€™์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€ ๋ง์„ ๊บผ๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋–จ
20:03
you know, even if you are nervous about goingย  up to someone and starting a conversation,ย ย 
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๋ฆฌ๋”๋ผ๋„
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the fact that you were brave enough to take theย  initiative and go and introduce yourself will makeย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์ด ๋จผ์ € ๋‚˜์„œ์„œ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•  ๋งŒํผ ์šฉ๊ฐํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด
20:12
people see you as a confident person. And a caveatย  here since we're talking about English learning,ย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์˜๊ธฐ์–‘์–‘ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ ์ธ์‹๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ์ฃผ์˜ํ•  ์ ์€ ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
20:17
never apologize for your English, you know. You'reย  a learner, you've put a lot of hard work into it,ย ย 
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์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์˜์–ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•™์Šต์ž์ด๊ณ  ๋งŽ์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ๊ธฐ์šธ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
20:22
whatever level you are currently at and that'sย  something that you should be proud of. Soย ย 
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ํ˜„์žฌ ์–ด๋–ค ์ˆ˜์ค€์— ์žˆ๋“  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ž๋ž‘์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
20:27
instead of saying, you know, I'm sorry for my badย  English, or sorry that my English isn't very good,ย ย 
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๋‚ด ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด , ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ 
20:31
you can actually say, you know, that I'm stillย  learning English, my English isn't at the levelย ย 
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์•„์ง ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋Š” ์ค‘์ด๊ณ  ๋‚ด ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ์•„์ง ๋ถ€์กฑํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
20:36
that I want to be, but you know, I'm reallyย  committed to it. You can even say that I don'tย ย 
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์ˆ˜์ค€์ด์ง€๋งŒ, ์ €๋Š” ์ •๋ง ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ œ๊ฐ€
20:40
have a lot of experience speaking English yetย  and I'm a bit nervous, you know. Someone whoย ย 
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์•„์ง ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ—˜์ด ๋งŽ์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
20:45
can admit that their English still is not at theย  level that they want it to be or that they areย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ์ˆ˜์ค€์— ๋„๋‹ฌํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
20:49
nervous about communicating another language. Nowย  that is confidence. So put yourself out there inย ย 
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์–ธ์–ด๋กœ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ธด์žฅ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ. ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ
20:55
more situations that give you just a little bit ofย  fear and you're really going to see that over timeย ย 
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›€๋งŒ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ง€๋‚จ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ด๋ฅผ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
21:00
by doing more and more of this you can startย  to build up to doing bigger and bigger thingsย ย 
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ผ์„ ์ ์  ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ ์  ๋” ํฐ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
21:04
that make you more scared and you are going toย  become so much more confident than you are today.
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๋” ๊ฒ์ด ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์˜ค๋Š˜๋ณด๋‹ค ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
21:09
And I just wanted to give a disclaimer inย  this video that there is no magic pill forย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์ด ๋™์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋งˆ๋ฒ•์˜ ์•ฝ์€ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ฉด์ฑ…์กฐํ•ญ์„ ์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
21:15
confidence. I'd be lying if I said I don't stillย  not feel confident sometimes when I'm in a newย ย 
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. ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด
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situation or when I go to a crowded place.ย  As someone who is both shy and introverted,ย ย 
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์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ถ๋น„๋Š” ์žฅ์†Œ์— ๊ฐˆ ๋•Œ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง์ด๊ฒ ์ฃ . ์ˆ˜์ค์Œ์ด ๋งŽ๊ณ  ๋‚ด์„ฑ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ์„œ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ƒํ™ฉ
21:26
it's completely normal to feel uncomfortable inย  new situations. So basically what I wanted toย ย 
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์—์„œ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ •์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ œ์•ˆํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€
21:33
suggest to you is that you try out the differentย  things that we've been learning about in thisย ย 
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์ด ๋™์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ๋ฐฐ์šด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ณด๊ณ 
21:38
video and don't think that you have to make someย  huge change in your life, you don't have to becomeย ย 
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์‚ถ์— ํฐ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ค„ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์‹ ์ด
21:42
someone who you're not, but just try to do toย  get into situations where you feel uncomfortable,ย ย 
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์•„๋‹Œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜์„ธ์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•˜๊ณ 
21:48
to push yourself out of your comfort zone and justย  try to get a little bit better every single time.ย 
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์•ˆ๋ฝํ•œ ์˜์—ญ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ  ๋งค๋ฒˆ ์กฐ๊ธˆ์”ฉ ๋‚˜์•„์ง€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
21:53
All right, and there you have it, that's six waysย  that you can improve your confidence speakingย ย 
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์•Œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
21:59
English or in anything else that's important toย  you in life just by using your body and your mind.ย ย 
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์˜์–ด ๋˜๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ชธ๊ณผ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” 6๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
22:04
So I want to hear from you, which of these tipsย  did you find the most surprising and which oneย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด ํŒ ์ค‘ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋†€๋ž๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์„
22:09
are you going to try out first? So let me knowย  down in the comments below and why don't youย ย 
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๋จผ์ € ์‹œ๋„ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ธ์ง€ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„๋ž˜ ๋Œ“๊ธ€๋กœ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ๊ณ 
22:13
see what your fellow learner said too. So to wrapย  up, let's look at something really fascinating soย ย 
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๋™๋ฃŒ ํ•™์Šต์ž๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ๋„ ํ™•์ธํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌ๋กœ
22:19
according to psychologists Albert Moravian who hasย  done extensive research on body language. He saysย ย 
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์‹ ์ฒด ์–ธ์–ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ด‘๋ฒ”์œ„ํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•œ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™์ž Albert Moravian์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ํฅ๋ฏธ๋กœ์šด ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š”
22:26
that communication is 55% non-verbal, 38% vocalย  and only 7% words. So by harnessing the powerย ย 
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์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์ด 55%๋Š” ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์ , 38%๋Š” ์Œ์„ฑ ์ด๋ฉฐ 7%๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋ณด๋”” ๋žญ๊ท€์ง€์˜ ํž˜์„ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด
22:35
of body language, you will feel more confidentย  and secure next time you get the opportunity toย ย 
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๋‹ค์Œ ๋ฒˆ์—
22:40
speak with someone in English. Be it on our appย  or be it out in a situation in the real world.ย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•  ๊ธฐํšŒ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์•ˆ์ •๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์•ฑ์— ์žˆ๋“  ์‹ค์ œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์žˆ๋“  ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
22:46
The most effective communicators in the worldย  don't just use words to get their message across,ย ย 
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์„ธ๊ณ„์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ดํ„ฐ๋Š” ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋ง์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
22:52
they also use their voice and especially theyย  use their body. So if you're wanting to be a moreย ย 
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๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ํŠนํžˆ ๋ชธ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋”
22:59
effective Communicator, then you can do the same. Alright so now it's time to get off your computerย ย 
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ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ดํ„ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž, ์ด์ œ ์ปดํ“จํ„ฐ
23:03
or your phone or wherever you're watching this,ย  go out into the real world and actually put someย ย 
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ํœด๋Œ€์ „ํ™” ๋˜๋Š” ์ด ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์‹œ์ฒญํ•˜๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋‚ด๋ ค ํ˜„์‹ค ์„ธ๊ณ„๋กœ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์„œ
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of this into practice. It's not enough justย  to watch a video and hope that you absorb itย ย 
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์ด ์ค‘ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์‹ค์ฒœ์— ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ๋ณผ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์‹œ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ํก์ˆ˜ํ•˜์—ฌ
23:12
and magically become more confident. Iย  believe in you, you can do it. Aw yeah!
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๋งˆ์ˆ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋” ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฏฟ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„ ์˜ˆ!
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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