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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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Every human happiness or sadness in lifeย  comes from action. But it is in our actionsย ย 
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์‚ถ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ธ๊ฐ„์˜ ํ–‰๋ณต์ด๋‚˜ ์Šฌํ””์€ ํ–‰๋™์—์„œ ๋น„๋กฏ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
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where we can find that happiness (or theย  contrary). That's why we do it. ย ย 
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๊ทธ ํ–‰๋ณต(๋˜๋Š” ๊ทธ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€)์„ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ณณ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ํ–‰๋™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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This quote comes from Aristotle's Poetics, aย  book that was published in 335 a.C.
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์ด ์ธ์šฉ๋ฌธ์€ ๊ธฐ์›์ „ 335๋…„์— ์ถœํŒ๋œ ์ฑ…์ธ ์•„๋ฆฌ์Šคํ† ํ…”๋ ˆ์Šค์˜ ์‹œํ•™์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜จ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Now we can do the math on how many years haveย  passed since then, but this timeless idea is moreย ย 
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์ด์ œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ ์ดํ›„๋กœ ๋ช‡ ๋…„์ด ํ˜๋ €๋Š”์ง€ ๊ณ„์‚ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ์‹œ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์ดˆ์›”ํ•œ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋Š”
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relevant than ever today. How manyย  things in life put us into motion?
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚  ๊ทธ ์–ด๋Š ๋•Œ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๊ด€๋ จ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์›€์ง์ด๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
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So why is this important? I think that since we areย  little everything forces us into action.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์™œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ๊ฐ€์š”? ๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ž‘๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Learning how to walk and taking your first steps, going toย  school. And then, not long after that, starting yourย ย 
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๊ฑท๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์ฒซ ๊ฑธ์Œ์„ ๋–ผ๊ณ  ํ•™๊ต์— ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ผ๋งˆ ์ง€๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„
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first job, and then your first business or project.ย And on and on and on it goes.
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์ฒซ ์ง์žฅ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค๋‚˜ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์†ํ•ด์„œ ๊ณ„์†๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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And I can't think ofย ย any of these things that don't involve competition.
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๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์ด ์ˆ˜๋ฐ˜๋˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Our instincts tell us to go bigger, to do better.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋ณธ๋Šฅ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋” ํฌ๊ฒŒ, ๋” ์ž˜ํ•˜๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์„ฑ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ ์ž ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
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Toย go ahead and try to come out on top of whateverย  we are trying to achieve.
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๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ์•ž์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
01:11
And who's not up for competition?
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๊ฒฝ์Ÿ ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹Œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
01:13
Look at these pictures and tell me ifย  you can't feel the power that they transmit.
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์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„๋“ค์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ํž˜์„ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š”์ง€ ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
01:18
But why do we feel this spirit of competition soย deeply?
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์™œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ ์ •์‹ ์„ ๊ทธํ† ๋ก ๊นŠ์ด ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ๊นŒ์š”?
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Why is it that our self-consciousnessย tells us that we need to compare ourselvesย to others
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์™œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ž์˜์‹์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์„ฑ์žฅ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋น„๊ตํ•  ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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in order to feel good about ourย own growth.
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And it goes without saying, English isย  not an exception in this competition driven world.
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๋งํ•  ํ•„์š”๋„ ์—†์ด ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์ด ์ฃผ๋„ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด ์„ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด๋„ ์˜ˆ์™ธ๋Š” ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:41
Obviously, feeling the need to improveย  ourselves is a positive thing.
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๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ํ•„์š”์„ฑ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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You don'tย want to just spend your life lazing about on theย couch.
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์†ŒํŒŒ์—์„œ ๋นˆ๋‘ฅ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฉฐ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:47
Whether intentional or not, we as humans,ย ย 
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์˜๋„์ ์ด๋“  ์•„๋‹ˆ๋“  ์ธ๊ฐ„์œผ๋กœ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
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are always learning. We are always takingย  information and applying it to our own life.ย 
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ •๋ณด๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜์ง‘ํ•˜์—ฌ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ถ์— ์ ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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It was just so transformative in the senseย  it taught me, uh, just grit. ย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ, ์–ด, ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ทธ๋ฆฟ์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ ์ฃผ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์—์„œ ์ •๋ง ๋ณ€ํ˜์ ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:02
Really being able to dig deep, work hard, go through failure.
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์ •๋ง ๊นŠ์ด ํŒŒ๊ณ ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ , ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ์ผํ•˜๊ณ , ์‹คํŒจ๋ฅผ ๊ฒช์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
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Workย with other people.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ž‘์—…ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
02:09
Find mentors. I had greatย ย 
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๋ฉ˜ํ† ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์œผ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ
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mentors. I had great coaches.
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๋ฉ˜ํ† ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ์ฝ”์น˜๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค.
02:13
My brotherย  was a runner too, he's a really good runner andย ย 
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์ œ ํ˜•๋„ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ๊ณ , ์ •๋ง ์ž˜ ๋‹ฌ๋ ธ์œผ๋ฉฐ
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he was an important mentor. He still is.
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์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ฉ˜ํ† ์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:17
But I hadย coaches who were really great leaders as well.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ •๋ง ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๋ฆฌ๋”์ด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•œ ์ฝ”์น˜๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:21
So, if you have ever been in a competitiveย  environment, like Justin was on the running team,ย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ Justin์ด ์‹คํ–‰ ํŒ€์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์ ์ธ ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๋˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ๋‹ฌ์„ฑํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๋Š” ์›๋™๋ ฅ์„
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you probably also noticed that it gave you aย  drive that helped you to reach objectives that youย ย 
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์ œ๊ณตํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ ธ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:31
thought were impossible.
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02:33
However, this competitiveย  spirit is not always a positive thing.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ ์ •์‹ ์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:36
When you start to drown in constant self-criticism it canย  be paralyzing.
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๋Š์ž„์—†๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ ๋น„ํŒ์— ๋น ์ง€๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋งˆ๋น„๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:41
The voice inside your head tricksย ย 
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๋จธ๋ฆฌ ์†์˜ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
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you into believing that those negative thoughtsย  define who you are,
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๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ •์˜ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ฏฟ๋„๋ก ์†์—ฌ์„œ
02:47
so you can't move forward.
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์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:49
Every time you want to take action on something,ย  that negativity surfaces.
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๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กฐ์น˜๋ฅผ ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฉด์ด ๋“œ๋Ÿฌ๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:54
You beat yourself up.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋•Œ๋ ธ๋‹ค.
03:01
I remember a student of mine, Pep, that wasย  consistently improving his english by readingย ย 
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์ œ ํ•™์ƒ์ธ Pep์€
03:06
a lot and watching tv series and movies.ย ย 
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๋งŽ์ด ์ฝ๊ณ  TV ์‹œ๋ฆฌ์ฆˆ์™€ ์˜ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ฉด์„œ ์ง€์†์ ์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œ์ผฐ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:09
Andย although he understood all of it and he was
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๊ทธ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ 
03:11
really enjoying the process, he felt that he stillย  needed to improve the way that he spoke the language.
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๊ทธ ๊ณผ์ •์„ ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ธฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์–ธ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๊ผˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:17
Pep worked as a social media manager, so oneย  day he decided to make a video of himselfย ย 
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Pep์€ ์†Œ์…œ ๋ฏธ๋””์–ด ๊ด€๋ฆฌ์ž๋กœ ์ผํ–ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ์ž์‹ ์ด
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speaking English about something he was trulyย  passionate about and posted on his Instagram.ย ย 
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์ง„์ •์œผ๋กœ ์—ด์ •์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌ ํ•˜๊ณ  Instagram์— ๊ฒŒ์‹œํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:27
One day, he came to me saying that he read onย  one of his comments that although he was a goodย ย 
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์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ์ฐพ์•„์™€์„œ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ข‹์€
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entertainer and content creator, he shouldn't doย  it in English because he didn't speak it very well.ย ย 
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์—ฐ์˜ˆ์ธ์ด์ž ์ฝ˜ํ…์ธ  ํฌ๋ฆฌ์—์ดํ„ฐ์ง€๋งŒ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ ๋ชปํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์•ˆ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Œ“๊ธ€์„ ์ฝ์—ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
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My advice to him was to not feel bad, because heย  was improving and learning with each passing day.ย ย 
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๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ์ œ ์ถฉ๊ณ ๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ถ„ ๋‚˜๋น ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‚ ์ด ๊ฐˆ์ˆ˜๋ก ๋ฐœ์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:42
And I shared with him this wisdom from Confucius.ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ๊ณต์ž์˜ ์ง€ํ˜œ๋ฅผ ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:51
I also askedย  him why this comment had affected him so much.ย ย 
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ์™œ ์ด ๋ง์ด ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํฐ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์ณค๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:55
Pep told me that the negative comment came fromย  a person that he really admired, who shared hisย mother tongue.
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ํŽฉ์€ ๋ถ€์ •์ ์ธ ๋Œ“๊ธ€์ด ์ž์‹ ์ด ์ •๋ง ์กด๊ฒฝํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ์„œ ๋‚˜์™”๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
04:00
I'm sure that you can empathizeย  with Pep, just as I did. That hearing criticismย ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ๋„ ํŽฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ณต๊ฐํ•˜์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ ํ™•์‹ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ํŠนํžˆ ์šฐ๋Ÿฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ณด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋น„ํŒ์„ ๋“ฃ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
04:05
especially from someone you look up to, canย  feel like a knife to the heart.
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๋งˆ์Œ์— ์นผ๋‚ ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋Š๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:09
From that moment, Pep started to push himself and study harder thanย ever.
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๊ทธ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋ถ€ํ„ฐ Pep์€ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ฐ€์–ด๋ถ™์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์–ด๋Š ๋•Œ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:13
However, he also started to judge himself inย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์„ ํŒ๋‹จํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
04:15
a way that was not very healthy.
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.
04:18
Pep's competitiveย  self not only wanted to succeed and speak Englishย ย 
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Pep์˜ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ๋ ฅ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ž์•„๋Š” ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ
04:22
more fluently, but he also started judging thoseย  around him that were on the same path as he was.ย 
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๋” ์œ ์ฐฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ตฌ์‚ฌํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ–ˆ์„ ๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ธธ์„ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ์ฃผ๋ณ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ํŒ๋‹จํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:28
He wanted to be better than all of them, and he feltย  jealous of the ones that were ahead of him.ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค ๋ชจ๋‘๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋‚˜์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ๊ณ  ์ž๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ž์„œ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์งˆํˆฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:34
And then, Pep started losing focus on his job. He gotย  so insecure about what he was putting out there,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ํŽฉ์€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ง‘์ค‘๋ ฅ์„ ์žƒ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์ด ๊ฒŒ์‹œํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•ดํ•ด์„œ
04:39
that the quality of his content actually declined.ย  He was trying way too hard to achieve perfection.
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์ฝ˜ํ…์ธ ์˜ ํ’ˆ์งˆ์ด ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋–จ์–ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์™„๋ฒฝ์„ ๋‹ฌ์„ฑํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ
04:51
Let's take a look at the etymology behindย  it. If you Google "to compete", you'll seeย ย 
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์ด๋ฉด์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ด์›์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . Google์—์„œ '๊ฒฝ์Ÿํ•˜๋‹ค'๋ฅผ ๊ฒ€์ƒ‰ํ•˜๋ฉด
04:56
that in modern English it is a synonym ofย  "rivalyze" and "dispute".
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ํ˜„๋Œ€ ์˜์–ด์—์„œ '๊ฒฝ์Ÿํ•˜๋‹ค'์™€ '๋ถ„์Ÿํ•˜๋‹ค'์˜ ๋™์˜์–ด์ž„์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:00
However, originally "compete" comes from the Latin word "competere",
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์›๋ž˜ "compete"๋Š”
05:04
which can be translated to "to aspire together".
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"to aspire together"๋กœ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ผํ‹ด์–ด "competere"์—์„œ ์œ ๋ž˜๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
I am competitive, but I'm also an individual who,ย  even though I like to compete, I also like to seeย ย others win.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ๋ ฅ์ด ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ฒฝ์Ÿํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ด๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:19
So I'm not a person that wants to winย  at all costs. I'd like to win and see everyone elseย ย win, so...
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ๋Œ€๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์น˜๋ฅด๋”๋ผ๋„ ์ด๊ธฐ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ธฐ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ณ  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๋„ ์ด๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ...
05:27
Competition is not actually about who'sย  the best. It shouldn't be an ego game.ย ย 
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๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์ตœ๊ณ ์ธ์ง€์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์ž์กด์‹ฌ ๊ฒŒ์ž„์ด๋˜์–ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:32
Instead, we need to go back to competition's originalย meaning.
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๋Œ€์‹  ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์˜ ์›๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:35
That striving together brings the bestย ย 
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
05:38
out of each individual. And this isย  especially true when learning English.ย ย 
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๊ฐ ๊ฐœ์ธ์˜ ์ตœ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ์ด๋Œ์–ด๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ๋•Œ ํŠนํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:42
We all need this language to surviveย  and thrive in a globalized world.ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์„ธ๊ณ„ํ™”๋œ ์„ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์ƒ์กดํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฒˆ์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ด ์–ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:47
So, we are all on our individual journeys to learnย  it and communicate naturally and confidently.ย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ž์‹  ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ์—ฌ์ •์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:53
It should never be about who speaks the best.ย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ž˜ ๋งํ•˜๋Š”์ง€์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋˜์–ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:56
Toxic competitiveness will always happenย 
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๋…์„ฑ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์€
05:58
to us at any stage in our lives. Comparingย  ourselves to others is part of human nature.ย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ถ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹จ๊ณ„์—์„œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ธ๊ฐ„ ๋ณธ์„ฑ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:03
And on the journey to learn English, or learningย  anything at all, you will definitely run into it.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ์—ฌ์ •์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งˆ์ฃผํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:15
So, what happened to Pep? As often happens in ourย  stories, he had to go through the deepest pointย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ํŽฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ๋Š”๊ฐ€? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ์ž์ฃผ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•˜๋“ฏ์ด , ๊ทธ๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ถ์˜
06:20
in his career to realize that one of the mostย  important aspects of our lives is communication.ย ย 
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ธก๋ฉด ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๊ฐ€ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ทธ์˜ ๊ฒฝ๋ ฅ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊นŠ์€ ์ง€์ ์„ ๊ฑฐ์ณ์•ผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
06:25
It affects our daily routines. It affects ourย  moods, and more often than not, can help usย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ผ์ƒ์— ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์นฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์— ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์น˜๋ฉฐ , ์ข…์ข… ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ด€์ ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ณ  ์‹ฌํ™”์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
06:30
change and deepen our perspectives.
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. ๋‹ค์‹œ
06:33
So, you're like,ย  again, just trying to please other people because...ย ย 
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๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ธฐ์˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด...
06:38
why do we want to assume a different identity?ย  It's not that it's like this deep desire, it'sย ย 
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์™œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์„ ์ทจํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์ด ๊นŠ์€ ์š•๋ง ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ ,
06:44
not that it would be, you know, our deepest passionย  or fulfilling our dream. Ultimately it's to fit in.ย ย 
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊นŠ์€ ์—ด์ • ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฟˆ์„ ์ด๋ฃจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ถ๊ทน์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ ์‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:50
Right? To not experience bias and prejudice.
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๋งž์ฃ ? ํŽธ๊ฒฌ๊ณผ ํŽธ๊ฒฌ์„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด.
06:55
So, uh, Iย  think that, if we want to be complete we haveย ย 
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ์–ด, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์™„์ „ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
06:59
to come to peace with who we are, how we sound. And that is the secret for real freedom, the way I see it.ย ย 
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์ธ์ง€, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ํ‰ํ™”๋กญ๊ฒŒ ์™€์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๋Š” ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์ž์œ ์˜ ๋น„๊ฒฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:09
Pep started reading the commentsย  again. And taking the criticism as an opportunityย ย 
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ํŽฉ์€ ๋Œ“๊ธ€์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋น„ํŒ์„ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋กœ ์‚ผ์•„
07:12
to improve himself by taking healthy actions,ย  instead of comparing himself to others andย ย 
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์ž์‹ ์„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜๊ณ 
07:17
trying to have his journey be and feel unnaturalย  to what he actually needed.
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ์—ฌ์ •์ด ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๋ถ€์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์ง€๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹  ๊ฑด์ „ํ•œ ํ–‰๋™์„ ์ทจํ•จ์œผ๋กœ์จ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:22
Competition can bringย us great motivation.ย 
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๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ํฐ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€์—ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:24
It can be a huge drive for usย  to move forward.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ํฐ ์›๋™๋ ฅ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
07:27
But it can also be painful if youย 
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
07:29
do it in the way that Pep did.
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ํŽฉ์ด ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๋ฐฉ์‹๋Œ€๋กœ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ณ ํ†ต์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šธ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ๋‚ด ์‚ถ์— ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์„
07:30
I'm still figuringย out how I can fit competition into my own life in a healthy way.
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์ ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ
07:35
I know for one, I feel betterย  competing with myself, beating my own personal best,ย 
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๊ฒฝ์Ÿํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚ด ๊ฐœ์ธ ์ตœ๊ณ  ๊ธฐ๋ก์„ ๊นจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋” ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
07:40
than trying to compete with others.
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.
07:42
How aboutย you?
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์–ด๋–ค๊ฐ€์š”?
07:43
What role does competition play in your life?ย 
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:46
And how does it make you feel?
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:48
It doesn't matterย  what environment I'm in. If I'm confident in myย ย 
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ค ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์— ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€๋Š” ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์— ์ž์‹ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
07:51
abilities, I'm okay. And I also still have theย  idea of... I want everybody to succeed.
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ... ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ž€๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:58
It's notย ย a competition like I'm going to be better thanย  anybody else, no.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ž˜ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
08:02
A lot of our competitive sides areย actually driven by a deeper need for perfectionism.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ ์ธก๋ฉด์€ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์™„๋ฒฝ์ฃผ์˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋” ๊นŠ์€ ์š”๊ตฌ์— ์˜ํ•ด ์ฃผ๋„๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:07
So if you feel like you have ever struggled fromย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์™„๋ฒฝ์ฃผ์˜๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ์–ด๋ ค์›€์„ ๊ฒช์€ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
08:09
perfectionism, then I highly recommend thatย  next you watch this lesson.
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๋‹ค์Œ์— ์ด ๊ฐ•์˜๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ฒญํ•  ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํžˆ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:14
Let's check out aย clip from that.
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ํด๋ฆฝ์„ ํ™•์ธํ•ด ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:15
So, the connection not perfection. The way I connect to that is I never want ourย ย 
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์€ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์€ ํ•™์Šต์ž๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์›ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:20
learners to feel that, right? I never want languageย  to get in the way of human connection.
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. ๋งž์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์ธ๊ฐ„ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋ฐฉํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ์›ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:27
That's what that's all about. It should always be the numberย  one goal. Is to maintain the connection,ย ย 
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์ „๋ถ€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•ญ์ƒ 1์ˆœ์œ„ ๋ชฉํ‘œ์—ฌ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:33
so if you make a mistake don't drop your eye contact,ย 
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์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๋„ ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋–จ์–ด๋œจ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ 
08:36
don't feel embarrassed, don't move away.
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๋‹นํ™ฉํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ์ž๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋œจ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
08:38
Look at the person in the eye and keep the connectionย  going. It's up to you at that moment whetherย ย 
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ˆˆ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ณ  ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์„ธ์š” . ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ๋Š์„์ง€ ์œ ์ง€ํ• ์ง€๋Š” ๊ทธ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹ฌ๋ ค ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:42
you lose the connection or you keep it, right? Soย  we have a lot more control than we think we do.
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. ๋งž์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ œ์–ด ๊ถŒํ•œ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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