Practice English Conversation (How to make new friends.) English Conversation Practice

how do you feel son your mom is making  dinner right now a delicious chicken soup

儿子，你感觉如何，你妈妈现在正在做晚餐 美味的鸡汤

and find that I mean I feel much better  I'm not hungry I won't have dinner

，发现我的意思是我感觉好多了 我不饿 我不会吃晚饭

why is that do you still feel sick I can  go to the drugstore to buy some pills

为什么你仍然感到恶心 我可以去药店买些药

no dad I feel better it's  just that no everything's fine

不 爸爸 我感觉好多了 只是没有 一切都很好

you don't need to lie to me you can tell  me you don't feel well what's happening

你不需要对我撒谎 你可以告诉我你感觉不舒服 发生了什么好事

well I was sick all day and  nobody called me that nobody  

我一整天都病了 没有人打电话给我说 没有人

oh I see not even your best  friend didn't he call you

哦 我甚至连你最好的朋友都看不到他不叫你

oh Mario he's not my best friend  he's just a person I know that's it

哦马里奥他不是我最好的朋友他只是一个人我知道就是这样

I don't have any friends that I didn't  care about that before but now I feel alone

我没有任何朋友我以前不关心但现在我感到孤独

I get it son we all need to have  friends people who care about us

我得到儿子，我们都需要有关心我们的朋友，

I know now I know that but I don't  know how to make friends that

我现在知道了，但我不知道如何交朋友，

that's okay son I'm gonna tell you  how you can make good friends okay

没关系，儿子，我要告诉你如何结交好朋友，好吧，

I don't know do you really  think I can make new friends

我不知道知道吗，你真的认为我可以结交新朋友吗

of course it's important for all of us to  

？当然，对我们所有人来说，

have friends people who care  about us and make us a smile

拥有关心我们并让我们微笑的朋友

whether you're feeling lonely starting a new  career or just open to exploring new friendships

是很重要的

here's how you can make friends new friends the  first thing you need to do is meet other people

，无论你是在开始新的职业生涯时感到孤独，还是只是愿意探索新的友谊，

joining a club yeah the group online Forum  or getting involved in an activity you enjoy

这就是方法 你可以

it's a great way of meeting new people it's also a  boost to your confidence to do something you love

结交 新朋友 你需要做的第一件事就是结识其他 人 做 一些你喜欢的

do some research about what's available in your  area and choose something that interests you

事情 研究一下你所在地区的可用事物并选择你感兴趣的事情

if you are unsure of where to start ask someone  to help you or ask others for ideas also you  

如果你不确定从哪里开始 请求别人帮助你或向其他人征求意见 你也

can help other people volunteering in your local  community can be a great way to meet other people  

可以帮助其他人 在你当地社区做志愿者可以是结识其他人的好方法

but you need to be a great listener introduce  yourself to new people ask questions about them  

，但您需要成为一名出色的倾听者 向新朋友介绍自己 向他们提出问题

really listen to their answers and  look for a common ground it's amazing

认真倾听他们的回答并 寻找共同点 太棒了

you can also take a class sign up for a class  at your local College Senior Center or gym

College Senior Center 或 gym

learn a language dancing or a new  card game when the topic interests you

学习语言舞蹈或新的纸牌游戏，当您感兴趣时，

you're likely to find people who  share your passion it really works

您可能会找到与您有共同爱好的人，这确实有效

or now that everything's online you can  make friends online that's a good idea

，或者现在一切都在线，您可以在网上结交朋友，这

it may seem easier to make friends online  because you can find people around the world

似乎 是个好主意 更容易在网上交朋友，因为你可以找到世界各地的人，

especially people who have similar  interests if you are an introvert  

尤其是志趣相投的人 如果你是一个内向的人，

online friendships may feel more comfortable  

网上交友可能会感觉更舒服，

but if you live in different areas you  can't easily meet up or hang out in person

但如果你住在不同的地区，你就不容易见面或亲自出去

making new friends online is cool and fascinating  but it can get challenging that's the thing

玩网上结交新朋友很酷，也很吸引人，但它可能会变得具有挑战性，这就是

we are okay those are good ways  to meet new people I get it but

我们所接受的，这是结识新朋友的好方法我明白了，但是

once I meet them how can I do so they can  become my friends my new friends I don't know  

一旦我遇到了他们，我该怎么做才能让他们成为我的朋友我的新朋友我不 如果你 不知道

all right then what you need to  know is how to start a friendship

，那么你需要知道的是如何开始一段友谊

friendships take time but you can take steps to  spark a relationship and nurture a connection  

友谊需要时间，但你可以采取措施来激发一段关系并培养一种联系

you can start by saying yes when you're invited  to a gathering or event accept the invitation  

当你被邀请参加聚会或活动时，你可以先说“是”邀请

return the favor by inviting them somewhere you  can ask them to drink some coffee or to have lunch

通过邀请他们到某个地方

take the initiative you don't need to wait for  anyone to reach out to you and take the first step  

来回馈你，你可以请 他们喝点咖啡或吃

instead become the kind initiator even  if you are an introvert you can do it son

午饭是一个内向的人，你也可以这样做，儿子，

also when you're with someone you'd  like to know better start a conversation

当你和一个你想更好地了解的人在一起时，也可以开始对话

share something about yourself likewise  let them share about themselves

分享一些关于你自己的事情同样让他们分享他们自己

and of course you need to show interest  even if you're just meeting someone

，当然你需要表现出兴趣，即使你只是见面你

you can make them feel comfortable by asking  the right questions and being a good listener

可以通过提出正确的问题并成为一个好的倾听者让他们感到舒服 提出

ask open-ended questions encourage them to  open up by saying things like tell me more

开放式问题 通过说一些话来鼓励他们敞开心扉，比如告诉我更多，

and you need to smile make eye  contact and a smile it's important

你需要微笑 进行眼神交流和微笑 保持微笑很

smiling while keeping good eye contact will  create a positive effect on the other person

重要良好的眼神交流会对对方产生积极的影响，

seriously they'll feel more comfortable  and interested in the conversation

他们会感觉更自在，对谈话

don't forget to share as you get  to know each other try sharing  

更 感兴趣

the small but more personal things about yourself

不要忘记分享，因为你开始了解对方

if you're open with them it gives  them permission to be open with you

如果你对他们敞开心扉，这允许他们对你敞开心扉，

but don't go overboard take it one step  at a time also you can do a small favor  

但不要过分一步一个脚印，你也可以帮个小忙

small acts of kindness often  lead to intimacy and connection

小善举往往会导致亲密和联系

it doesn't have to be big or obvious just a  little gesture creates a feeling of Good Vibes

它不必很大或很明显 只需一个小小的手势就能营造出良好的氛围

keep it going when you meet someone  exchange numbers all or message them later

当您遇到某人时，请保持联系 交换所有号码或稍后向他们发送消息

ask if they'd like to get together  again staying in touch is crucial

询问他们是否愿意再次聚在一起 保持联系是至关重要的

oh but you also need to know what not to  do for example don't change who you are

哦但你也需要知道不该做什么，例如，不要改变你自己，不要

don't act different just to fit in  always be yourself genuine and honest

表现得与众不同，只是为了适应，永远做你自己，诚实，

don't brag boasting gifts people a  negative impression and maybe a turn off

不要吹嘘，吹嘘自己的礼物，给人留下负面印象，也许会

don't be too aggressive coming on too  strong may turn people away believe me

让人 厌恶。 在你建议见面喝咖啡或跑步之前，

isn't with friendly conversations before  you suggest meeting up for coffee or a run

不要太咄咄逼人，太强势可能会让人们离开相信我 不是友好的谈话

and last but not least don't expect  results right away don't do that

，最后但并非最不重要的是不要马上期待结果不要这样做

it takes time to establish a strong bond  between two people it's not something fast

需要是时候在两个人之间建立牢固的联系了 这不是一件快速的

research suggests that it may take 10 to 15  conversations before you feel like friends

事情 研究表明，可能需要进行 10 到 15 次对话才能让你感觉像朋友，

so what you can do is do your best but  keep your expectations low remember that

所以你能做的就是尽力而为，但不要抱太大期望 请记住，

all right Dad now I'm ready to  make new friends I'm going now

好吧，爸爸，现在我”我准备结交新朋友我现在要走了

hey wait we need to have  dinner first aren't you hungry

嘿等等我们需要先吃晚饭你不饿吗

oh yeah you're right I'm going  after we have dinner then

哦是的你是对的我吃晚饭后就去然后

okay son I'm sure you will make a lot of friends

好吧孩子我相信你会赚很多朋友

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我希望你喜欢这个对话 如果你能再提高一点英语

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请订阅频道并与朋友分享这个视频 如果你想

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支持这个频道你可以加入我们或点击超级感谢按钮

thank you very much for your support take care

谢谢非常感谢您的支持保重