Conversation Skills - How to END a conversation politely

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In today's lesson, I'm going to show you how
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ใ‚„ใ‚ใ€‚ ็งใฎๅๅ‰ใฏ www.engvid.com ใฎใƒฌใƒ™ใƒƒใ‚ซใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠๆ—ฅใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใฏใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™
00:07
to end a conversation. Now, many people know how to start a conversation, but it's not
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ใ€‚ ็พๅœจใ€ๅคšใใฎไบบใŒ ไผš่ฉฑใฎๅง‹ใ‚ๆ–นใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
00:13
always clear exactly how you can end a conversation politely. So I'm going to show you a three-step
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ใพใ™ใŒใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ไธๅฏงใซ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒๆญฃ็ขบใซใ‚ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใฏ้™ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ“ใง
00:19
technique that you can use anytime you need to leave or end a conversation with someone.
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ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใจใฎไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ไบ†ใพใŸใฏ็ต‚ไบ†ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ไฝฟ็”จใงใใ‚‹ 3 ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใฎใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:26
So let's have a look at the board.
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ใใ‚Œใงใฏใ€ใƒœใƒผใƒ‰ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
00:28
Basically, what you want to do is something like this. You want to give a reason; you
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ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ“ใจใฏ ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็†็”ฑใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:35
want to refer to the future; and then, you want to say goodbye.
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ๆœชๆฅใ‚’ๅ‚็…งใ—ใŸใ„ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏใ•ใ‚ˆใชใ‚‰ใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:40
So you could combine something from here, here, and here. Let's try it out.
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ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ“ใ€ใ“ใ“ใ€ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’็ต„ใฟๅˆใ‚ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ฉฆใ—ใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
00:47
You could say, "Oh, look at the time. I'm afraid I have another appointment. Let's get
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ๅˆฅใฎ็ด„ๆŸใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
00:54
together soon, okay? Bye for now. Take care."
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ใ™ใใซ้›†ใพใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ๆฐ—ใ‚’ใคใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใ€
00:59
So something from here, something from here, something from here. Of course, a person might
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ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ ไฝ•ใ‹ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€้€”ไธญใง
01:05
say something between, but even if you're saying these three things, it's a very polite
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใŒ ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ 3 ใคใฎใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใงใ‚‚
01:11
way to exit the conversation.
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ใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ไบ†ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎ้žๅธธใซไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
01:14
Another way that you can use which we often use to be polite to the other person is rather
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ไป–ใฎไบบใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ†ๅˆฅใฎ่จ€ใ„ๆ–นใฏใ€
01:19
than indicating that you are in a hurry to go, your turn around, and you say to them,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ€ฅใ„ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’็คบใ™ใฎใงใฏใชใ ใ€ๆŒฏใ‚Šๅ‘ใ„ใฆใ€ใ€Œใพใ‚ใ€็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใง
01:25
"Well, I won't keep you any longer. You're probably busy." Or, "I'll let you go." Something
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ใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“. ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ใ€ ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‰‹ๆ”พใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
01:32
like that. You could then add something from here. "Let's do lunch sometime"; or "I'll
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ใใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ„ใคใ‹ใƒฉใƒณใƒใซใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€; ใพใŸใฏใ€Œ
01:38
give you a call next week"; and "All right. See you. Bye for now." Something like that.
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ๆฅ้€ฑ้›ป่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€; ใจใ€Œ ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ใพใŸใญใ€‚ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ใ€ ใใ‚“ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ€‚
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A little more formal situation. Let's say you've been to a meeting or a cocktail party
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ใ‚‚ใ†ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆญฃๅผใช็Šถๆณใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไผš่ญฐใ‚„ใ‚ซใ‚ฏใƒ†ใƒซใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผ
01:52
or something like that. You could say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you." We're in
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ใชใฉใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ€ŒใŠ่ฉฑใงใใฆๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ—ใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃ ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚‹ใจๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใก
01:57
a business situation, right? "It's been a pleasure talking to you." "It's been a pleasure
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ใฏใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใฎ็Šถๆณใซใ„ใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ ใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ›ใฆๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ใ€ ใ€ŒใŠไผšใ„ใงใใฆๅ…‰ๆ „
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meeting you." "I'll call you next week.", or "May I call you next week?" if you want
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ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ใ€ ใ€Œๆฅ้€ฑ้›ป่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€ ใพใŸใฏใ€Œๆฅ้€ฑ้›ป่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€ ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ„ใ„ใงใ™
02:07
to, all right?
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ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:09
Here, you might skip this part because if it's a very formal situation, you might not
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ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใ€ใ“ใฎ้ƒจๅˆ†ใ‚’ใ‚นใ‚ญใƒƒใƒ—ใ—ใฆ ใ‚‚ใ‹ใพใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚้žๅธธใซใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใช็Šถๆณใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
02:14
be the one who calls them. You might say something like, "I'll look forward to hearing from you"
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้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ไบบใงใฏใชใ„ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ้–ข้€ฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใฏใ€ใ€Œใ”้€ฃ็ตกใ‚’ใŠๅพ…ใกใ—ใฆใŠใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€ใชใฉใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
02:20
if that's relevant. Or you could just say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you. Thank
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ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏใ€ ใ€ŒใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใงใใฆๅ…‰ๆ „ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ใฉใ†ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ใงใ‚‚ใ‹ใพใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:26
you very much." Because in a formal situation, that might be enough.
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ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใƒžใƒซใชๅ ด้ขใงใฏ ใ€ใใ‚Œใงๅๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
02:30
So by following this simple three-step rule, you can exit any conversation in a polite way.
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใฎ็ฐกๅ˜ใช 3 ใ‚นใƒ†ใƒƒใƒ—ใฎใƒซใƒผใƒซใซๅพ“ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ€ ใฉใ‚“ใชไผš่ฉฑใ‚‚ไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง็ต‚ไบ†ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
02:38
If you'd like to do a little quiz on this, please go to our website www.engvid.com, and
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ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚ฏใ‚คใ‚บใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ๅฝ“็คพใฎใ‚ฆใ‚งใƒ–ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆ www.engvid.com ใซใ‚ขใ‚ฏใ‚ปใ‚น
02:45
you can practice exactly how to do this so you can do it easily in your own life. If
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ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๆญฃ็ขบใซ็ทด็ฟ’ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใง ใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎไบบ็”Ÿใง็ฐกๅ˜ใซ่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
02:50
you enjoyed this video, please subscribe to my channel on YouTube as well. All right?
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02:55
Good luck with your English. Bye for now.
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