Conversation Skills - How to END a conversation politely

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:01
Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In today's lesson, I'm going to show you how
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์•ˆ๋…•. ์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ www.engvid.com์˜ Rebecca์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ๋Š”
00:07
to end a conversation. Now, many people know how to start a conversation, but it's not
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ
00:13
always clear exactly how you can end a conversation politely. So I'm going to show you a three-step
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
00:19
technique that you can use anytime you need to leave or end a conversation with someone.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€์˜ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋๋‚ด์•ผ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์–ธ์ œ๋“ ์ง€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” 3๋‹จ๊ณ„ ๊ธฐ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:26
So let's have a look at the board.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๊ฒŒ์‹œํŒ์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”?
00:28
Basically, what you want to do is something like this. You want to give a reason; you
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์ œ์‹œํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
00:35
want to refer to the future; and then, you want to say goodbye.
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๋ฏธ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์ฐธ์กฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค; ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์ž‘๋ณ„ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:40
So you could combine something from here, here, and here. Let's try it out.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๊ฒฐํ•ฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์‹œ๋„ํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.
00:47
You could say, "Oh, look at the time. I'm afraid I have another appointment. Let's get
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"์˜ค, ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ข€ ๋ด. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์•ฝ์†์ด ์žˆ์–ด.
00:54
together soon, okay? Bye for now. Take care."
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๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์ž, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€? ์ผ๋‹จ์€ ์•ˆ๋…•. ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•ด."
00:59
So something from here, something from here, something from here. Of course, a person might
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ๋ญ๋ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ,
01:05
say something between, but even if you're saying these three things, it's a very polite
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์ด ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋”๋ผ๋„ ๋งค์šฐ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ
01:11
way to exit the conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–์ถ”๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
01:14
Another way that you can use which we often use to be polite to the other person is rather
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์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€
01:19
than indicating that you are in a hurry to go, your turn around, and you say to them,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์„œ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Œ์•„์„œ์„œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ "
01:25
"Well, I won't keep you any longer. You're probably busy." Or, "I'll let you go." Something
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์กฐ๊ธˆ๋„ ๋ถ™์žก์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์•„๋งˆ ๋ฐ”์  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ๋˜๋Š” "๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
01:32
like that. You could then add something from here. "Let's do lunch sometime"; or "I'll
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ํ•ญ๋ชฉ์„ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . "์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€ ์ ์‹ฌ ๋จน์ž"; ๋˜๋Š” "
01:38
give you a call next week"; and "All right. See you. Bye for now." Something like that.
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ์ „ํ™” ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  "์ข‹์•„์š”. ๋˜ ๋ด์š”. ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š”." ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ.
01:46
A little more formal situation. Let's say you've been to a meeting or a cocktail party
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ. ํšŒ์˜๋‚˜ ์นตํ…Œ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ ๋“ฑ์— ๊ฐ€๋ดค๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค
01:52
or something like that. You could say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you." We're in
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. " ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
01:57
a business situation, right? "It's been a pleasure talking to you." "It's been a pleasure
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๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ฒ˜ํ•ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. " ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." "๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์› ์–ด์š”
02:01
meeting you." "I'll call you next week.", or "May I call you next week?" if you want
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." "๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ์ „ํ™”ํ• ๊ฒŒ์š”." ๋˜๋Š” "๋‹ค์Œ ์ฃผ์— ์ „ํ™”ํ•ด๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?" ์›ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
02:07
to, all right?
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, ์•Œ์•˜์ง€?
02:09
Here, you might skip this part because if it's a very formal situation, you might not
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ๋Š” ์ด ๋ถ€๋ถ„์„ ๊ฑด๋„ˆ๋›ธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฒฉ์‹ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ฑด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ž์‹ ์ด ์•„๋‹ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:14
be the one who calls them. You might say something like, "I'll look forward to hearing from you"
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. ๊ด€๋ จ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ "๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค"์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ง์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:20
if that's relevant. Or you could just say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you. Thank
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. ๋˜๋Š” "๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:26
you very much." Because in a formal situation, that might be enough.
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์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:30
So by following this simple three-step rule, you can exit any conversation in a polite way.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ด ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ 3๋‹จ๊ณ„ ๊ทœ์น™์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ๋ชจ๋“  ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:38
If you'd like to do a little quiz on this, please go to our website www.engvid.com, and
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์ด๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ํ€ด์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ํ’€๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ €ํฌ ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ www.engvid.com์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
02:45
you can practice exactly how to do this so you can do it easily in your own life. If
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:50
you enjoyed this video, please subscribe to my channel on YouTube as well. All right?
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์ด ์˜์ƒ์ด ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ œ ์œ ํŠœ๋ธŒ ์ฑ„๋„๋„ ๊ตฌ๋… ๋ถ€ํƒ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์€?
02:55
Good luck with your English. Bye for now.
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์˜์–ด์— ํ–‰์šด์„ ๋น•๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์•ˆ๋…•.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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