Conversation Skills - How to END a conversation politely

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Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In today's lesson, I'm going to show you how
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to end a conversation. Now, many people know how to start a conversation, but it's not
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always clear exactly how you can end a conversation politely. So I'm going to show you a three-step
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technique that you can use anytime you need to leave or end a conversation with someone.
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So let's have a look at the board.
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Basically, what you want to do is something like this. You want to give a reason; you
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want to refer to the future; and then, you want to say goodbye.
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So you could combine something from here, here, and here. Let's try it out.
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You could say, "Oh, look at the time. I'm afraid I have another appointment. Let's get
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together soon, okay? Bye for now. Take care."
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So something from here, something from here, something from here. Of course, a person might
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say something between, but even if you're saying these three things, it's a very polite
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way to exit the conversation.
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Another way that you can use which we often use to be polite to the other person is rather
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than indicating that you are in a hurry to go, your turn around, and you say to them,
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"Well, I won't keep you any longer. You're probably busy." Or, "I'll let you go." Something
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like that. You could then add something from here. "Let's do lunch sometime"; or "I'll
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give you a call next week"; and "All right. See you. Bye for now." Something like that.
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A little more formal situation. Let's say you've been to a meeting or a cocktail party
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or something like that. You could say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you." We're in
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a business situation, right? "It's been a pleasure talking to you." "It's been a pleasure
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meeting you." "I'll call you next week.", or "May I call you next week?" if you want
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to, all right?
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Here, you might skip this part because if it's a very formal situation, you might not
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be the one who calls them. You might say something like, "I'll look forward to hearing from you"
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if that's relevant. Or you could just say, "It's been a pleasure talking to you. Thank
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you very much." Because in a formal situation, that might be enough.
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So by following this simple three-step rule, you can exit any conversation in a polite way.
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If you'd like to do a little quiz on this, please go to our website www.engvid.com, and
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you can practice exactly how to do this so you can do it easily in your own life. If
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you enjoyed this video, please subscribe to my channel on YouTube as well. All right?
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Good luck with your English. Bye for now.
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