Break Up PERFECTLY in 5 Easy Steps! (No Crying! No Bad Feelings!)

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:00
- You're dating someone
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- ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€
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and they are rubbish, an awful person.
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์™€ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์“ฐ๋ ˆ๊ธฐ, ๋”์ฐํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:05
You want to end the relationship,
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๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
00:07
stop dating them immediately.
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์ฆ‰์‹œ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ค‘๋‹จํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
00:11
Say this.
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์ด๊ฑธ ๋งํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
00:12
- I'm done.
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- ๋๋‚ฌ์–ด.
00:13
(dramatic music)
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(๊ทน์ ์ธ ์Œ์•…)
00:17
- That is good if the person sucks.
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- ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ํ˜•ํŽธ์—†์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ๊ฑฐ๋‹ค.
00:20
But if the person's nice and you want the perfect breakup,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ฐฉํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ์ด๋ณ„์„ ์›ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
00:25
that means, no bad feelings and no crying.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚˜์œ ๊ฐ์ •์ด๋‚˜ ์šธ์Œ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:29
Then keep watching,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๊ณ„์† ์‹œ์ฒญํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ์ด๋ณ„์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”
00:30
because we need five very important things
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๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
00:33
for the perfect breakup.
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.
00:36
(soft electronic music)
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(๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ผ๋ ‰ํŠธ๋กœ๋‹‰ ์Œ์•…)
00:39
The greeting, the hello,
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์ธ์‚ฌ, ์•ˆ๋…•,
00:40
followed by a positive point.
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๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ง์ด ๋’ค๋”ฐ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:43
Next is the reason why you don't want
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๋‹ค์Œ์€
00:45
to see each other anymore.
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์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ด์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:47
Then the next steps.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„.
00:50
Do you want to never see this person,
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ๋Š” ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ,
00:52
never talk to this person again in your life,
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋‹ค์‹œ๋Š” ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ,
00:54
or do you want to just remain friends.
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ๋‚จ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
00:57
And finally the good bye.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์ž‘๋ณ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:00
Now, if English isn't your first language,
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์ž, ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋ฉด ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฒŒ ๋  ์ด
01:03
all of these points,
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๋ชจ๋“  ์š”์ 
01:04
and all of the expressions, idioms and phrasal verbs
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๊ณผ ๋ชจ๋“  ํ‘œํ˜„, ์ˆ™์–ด ๋ฐ ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ๋Š”
01:07
that you'll learn today have subtle meanings.
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๋ฏธ๋ฌ˜ํ•œ ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:11
Different words evoke different feelings when we read them.
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ฝ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์ผ์œผํ‚จ๋‹ค.
01:15
I don't know why, they just do.
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์ด์œ ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:17
But for that reason, I'll add bonuses.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ด์œ ๋กœ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:20
These bonuses are finality.
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋Š” ์ตœ์ข…์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:22
If you want to never see this person again,
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์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ๋Š” ๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด
01:25
it will have a finality bonus.
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์ตœ์ข… ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:27
The friendly bonus, however,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋Š”
01:29
those words and expressions will help you
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๋‹น์‹ 
01:32
and the other person not hate each other.
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๊ณผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ๋„์™€์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:37
And any words or expressions without those bonuses
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๊ฐ€ ์—†๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋‚˜ ํ‘œํ˜„์€
01:41
will be neutral, unless I say different.
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ํ•œ ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:44
First, of course, is the greeting.
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ธ์‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:46
Now, you might think this is easy,
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์ž, ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์‰ฝ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„
01:48
but actually, how you start the breakup is very important.
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ด๋ณ„์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:52
If we start with a hey, hi,
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์•ˆ๋…•, ์•ˆ๋…•,
01:56
seems friendly, seems neutral, no problem.
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์นœ๊ทผํ•ด ๋ณด์ด๊ณ , ์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ , ๋ฌธ์ œ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:59
But if I have been dating you for a while,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•œ๋™์•ˆ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ 
02:04
and you send me a message that starts with hello,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋ฉด
02:08
it seems kind of impersonal
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹ค์†Œ ๋น„์ธ๊ฒฉ์ ์ด๊ณ 
02:10
and a bit formal and a bit serious.
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์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ๊ฒฉ์‹์ ์ด๊ณ  ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์ง„์ง€ํ•ด ๋ณด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:13
That's why I've given it that finality bonus.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ตœ์ข… ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์ค€ ์ด์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
02:16
So in a weird way, if you want to say good bye forever,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด์ƒํ•œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ์˜์›ํžˆ ์ž‘๋ณ„ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
02:21
start with hello.
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์•ˆ๋…•์œผ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
02:24
You're going to break someone's heart,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์•„ํ”„๊ฒŒ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ
02:26
so it could be a good idea to start with some positivity.
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๊ธ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:31
Hope you're good, I hope you're well.
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์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ž˜, ์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ž˜
02:33
Don't write in the comments
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02:34
that good is wrong in this situation.
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์ด ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์ข‹๋‹ค ๋‚˜์˜๋‹ค ๋Œ“๊ธ€์— ์“ฐ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
02:37
This is just how we speak.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:39
You good?
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์ž˜ ์ง€๋‚ด?
02:40
I'm good, you good?
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๋‚œ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„, ๋„Œ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„?
02:41
Good.
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์ข‹์€.
02:42
And this gives it that friendly bonus.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:44
You don't want them to hate you forever.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์˜์›ํžˆ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์›ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:47
Maybe you do,
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ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€
02:48
but if you don't, add something friendly.
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์•Š์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
02:51
Woo, you started it and that's the most difficult part
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์šฐ, ๋„ค๊ฐ€ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์–ด๋ ค์šด ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ด๊ณ 
02:55
and that's finished.
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋์ด์•ผ.
02:56
You can smell freedom.
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์ž์œ ์˜ ๋ƒ„์ƒˆ๋ฅผ ๋งก์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:58
Now you need to add something positive.
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์ด์ œ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:00
This should be something nice about that person
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
03:03
or about your time together.
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์ด๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:06
Yes, maybe they were boring,
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์˜ˆ, ์ง€๋ฃจํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
03:08
but you don't have to lie or say anything crazy.
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๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง์„ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฏธ์นœ ๋ง์„ ํ•  ํ•„์š”๋Š” ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:11
Keep it simple.
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๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:12
Let's start with this,
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์ด๊ฒƒ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:13
I don't know if you feel the same, but,
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๋‹น์‹ ๋„ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ธ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ
03:16
or, I have to be honest,
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๋˜๋Š” ์†”์งํžˆ ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด
03:19
Grammar plays a very important role
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๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์€ ์ด๋ณ„์˜ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:21
in the psychology of this breakup.
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.
03:23
So, it's been really fun, it was really fun,
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์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์–ด์š”, ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์–ด์š”,
03:27
or I've really enjoyed or I really enjoyed.
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์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์–ด์š”, ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์–ด์š”.
03:31
What do you notice about the grammar here?
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
03:34
If you say I've really enjoyed, that's present perfect,
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์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ํ˜„์žฌ์™„๋ฃŒ,
03:38
that's that feeling of from the past until now.
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์˜›๋‚ ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ง€๊ธˆ๊นŒ์ง€์˜ ๊ทธ ๋Š๋‚Œ.
03:42
Maybe it still continues.
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์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ๊ณ„์†๋˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์„์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:45
Whereas, it was really fun, past simple.
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๋ฐ˜๋ฉด์— ์ •๋ง ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์—๋Š” ๋‹จ์ˆœํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:51
I enjoyed, past simple.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์˜ ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•จ์„ ์ฆ๊ฒผ๋‹ค.
03:56
They get a finality bonus.
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์ตœ์ข… ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
If you use past simple, you're saying,
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๋‹จ์ˆœ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐํ˜•์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด
04:01
our time together, all of this,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„, ์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ด
04:04
that's in the past.
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๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:06
Definitely not going to continue.
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ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ๊ณ„์†ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:08
And then, how long have you been dating that person?
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์‚ฌ๊ท€์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
04:12
Maybe you just had one date, two dates,
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ, ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ,
04:15
in a cafe or over drinks.
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์นดํŽ˜์—์„œ ๋˜๋Š” ์ˆ ์„ ๋งˆ์…จ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:18
All you did was talk, maybe.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•œ ์ผ์€ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋ง๋ฟ์ด์—ˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
I've really enjoyed chatting,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ฑ„ํŒ…์ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› 
04:23
or I've really enjoyed chatting with you.
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ์ฑ„ํŒ…์ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:25
If English isn't your first language,
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์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๊ตญ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ 
04:28
and you don't know the meaning of hang out,
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hang out์˜ ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ๋ชจ๋ฅธ๋‹ค๋ฉด ํ•จ๊ป˜
04:30
it means to spend time together, relax, have fun,
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์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ณ , ํœด์‹์„ ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ , ์ฆ๊ฒ๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด
04:34
or if you're dating, something more.
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์ค‘์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์ด์ƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:36
So yes, if you've been dating and you've, (claps hands)
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์˜ˆ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๊ณ  (์†๋ผ‰์„ ์น˜๋ฉฐ)
04:40
you know, you can use this one.
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์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:43
Next one.
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๋‹ค์Œ.
04:44
If you know about their family,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ,
04:46
their birthday, their pet name, go with this one.
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์ƒ์ผ, ์• ์™„ ๋™๋ฌผ ์ด๋ฆ„์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
04:49
It's been really fun getting to know you.
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:51
Maybe they're a nice person, but just really boring.
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์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ข‹์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์ •๋ง ์ง€๋ฃจํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:56
If you've been dating for a bit longer,
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์‚ฌ๊ท€์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
04:59
these might be better.
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์ด๊ฒŒ ๋” ๋‚˜์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:01
I really enjoyed our time together.
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:03
I really enjoyed being with you.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:05
But just now, no more, boring.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:09
Next we need the reason.
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๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ 
05:11
Why don't you want to date this person anymore?
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์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ด์œ ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ?
05:14
Maybe their face is really boring.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์–ผ๊ตด์€ ์ •๋ง ์ง€๋ฃจํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:16
Maybe they don't like the same movies as you.
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์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:19
True story, I stopped dating a girl once
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์‹คํ™”, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€
05:22
because she didn't laugh once during the movie Elf.
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์˜ํ™” ์—˜ํ”„์—์„œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ๋„ ์›ƒ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ๊ทธ๋งŒ ๋‘์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:26
I mean, really, that's the best movie ever,
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๋‚ด ๋ง์€, ์ •๋ง๋กœ, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์˜ํ™”์ด๊ณ 
05:28
and you don't find it funny,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žฌ๋ฏธ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:31
I don't see us having a future.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:33
So we have many different options,
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์˜ต์…˜์ด ์ œ๊ณต๋˜๋ฉฐ
05:36
and you can choose exactly what you want to say
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์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ
05:39
and how you want to say it.
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๊ณผ ์ „๋‹ฌ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:41
Let's break this down.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ถ„ํ•ดํ•ฉ์‹œ๋‹ค.
05:42
So I don't see, think or feel, we'll start there.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ณด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:46
The really is an option.
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์ •๋ง ์˜ต์…˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:48
It adds a little bit more of a nice feeling to it.
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ๋”ํ•ด์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:51
I don't really see us having a future sounds a bit nicer
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด
05:56
than I don't see us having a future.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:59
That's so much more direct, so much more (pow).
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ์ง์ ‘์ ์ด๊ณ  ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” (pow).
06:02
Now, I forgot actually, yeah.
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์ž, ์‚ฌ์‹ค ์žŠ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ ธ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋„ค.
06:04
I don't see this going anywhere.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋ฌด๋ฐ๋„ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:07
That's fine too.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:08
I don't see the relationship continuing.
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๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ์ง€์†๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:12
If we use the verb think with going anywhere,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋””๋“  ๊ฐ„๋‹ค๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ think๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
06:16
we also need is.
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is๋„ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:19
I don't really think this is going anywhere,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋ฌด๋ฐ๋„ ๊ฐ€์ง€
06:23
with the verb see,
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06:24
I don't really see this going anywhere.
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์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:28
No is, just remember that.
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์•„๋‹ˆ, ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ๋งŒ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ด.
06:31
I don't really think we're compatible.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:34
Latin languages, compatible translates nicely.
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ํ˜ธํ™˜๋˜๋Š” ๋ผํ‹ด์–ด๋Š” ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:38
Non-Latin languages,
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๋ผํ‹ด์–ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹Œ ์–ธ์–ด,
06:40
compatible for relationships
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๊ด€๊ณ„์— ํ˜ธํ™˜๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
06:42
is like me and you match well together.
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๋‚˜์™€ ๊ฐ™๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:45
We're a good match.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:47
I don't really think we're meant to be a couple.
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์ •๋ง ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ปคํ”Œ์ด ๋  ์šด๋ช…์€ ์•„๋‹Œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
06:50
Again, if you're learning English, meant to be.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋ฐ–์— ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:53
You're talking about fate, destiny,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์šด๋ช…, ์šด๋ช…,
06:57
what should happen in the future.
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๋ฏธ๋ž˜์— ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
So, if you believe in all that fate and destiny bullshit,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ ๋ชจ๋“  ์šด๋ช…๊ณผ ์ˆ™๋ช…์„ ๋ฏฟ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:03
or you think that the other person does,
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์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋ฏฟ๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
07:05
that's a great expression to use.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ข‹์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:08
I don't really think, I don't really feel,
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๋‚œ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„,
07:12
(chuckles) that's probably better,
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07:13
I don't really feel that we're meant to be a couple.
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๋‚œ ๋ณ„๋กœ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š์•„ .
07:17
Now, if you just returned from your date
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์ด์ œ ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ์—์„œ ๋Œ์•„์™”
07:20
or your date was recent,
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๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์ตœ๊ทผ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
07:22
you might want to say in past tense,
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๊ณผ๊ฑฐํ˜•์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:24
I didn't really feel any connection,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ,
07:28
any spark, any chemistry.
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์ŠคํŒŒํฌ, ์ผ€๋ฏธ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ „ํ˜€ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:30
For me, this is the most important thing to have,
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์ €์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์ด๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”
07:33
and also, the most important thing to be honest about.
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ํ•˜๊ณ  ์†”์งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
07:37
When you meet someone
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ 
07:38
and you have a connection, a spark, chemistry.
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์—ฐ๊ฒฐ, ์ŠคํŒŒํฌ, ์ผ€๋ฏธ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ.
07:42
It means you look like the heart eye emoji
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•˜ํŠธ ๋ˆˆ ์ด๋ชจํ‹ฐ์ฝ˜์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋ฉฐ
07:44
and conversation just flows naturally without effort,
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07:48
and you can't wait to see them again.
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:51
But, of course, sometimes when you're texting,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฐ€๋”์€ ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ ๋ฐ›์„ ๋•Œ๋„
07:55
everything is great,
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค ์ข‹์ง€๋งŒ,
07:57
but when you meet up, it's like.
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๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ฃ .
08:02
Sometimes, there is no connection, spark or chemistry.
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๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ, ์ŠคํŒŒํฌ ๋˜๋Š” ํ™”ํ•™์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:06
But be honest about it.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ •์งํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
08:08
I have sent this message before,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ „์— ์ด ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ธ ์ ์ด
08:10
and I've received this message before.
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์žˆ๊ณ , ์ „์—๋„ ์ด ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์€ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:12
Trust me, it's completely fine.
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์ €๋ฅผ ๋ฏฟ์œผ์„ธ์š”. ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:15
90% of the time, the response is like this.
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90%๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด๋‹ค.
08:18
Yeah, I didn't feel anything either.
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๋„ค ์ €๋„ ๋ณ„ ๋Š๋‚Œ ์—†์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:21
I thought we would, but we didn't.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:23
That's fine.
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„.
08:24
There's like seven billion people in this world.
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์ด ์„ธ์ƒ์—๋Š” 70์–ต ๋ช…์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:27
You're gonna have chemistry
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๋‹น์‹ ์€
08:28
with at least one of them, trust me.
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์ ์–ด๋„ ๊ทธ๋“ค ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์™€ ์ผ€๋ฏธ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋ฅผ ๋ฏฟ์œผ์„ธ์š”.
08:30
But of course, maybe the reason is you.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹  ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:34
If you're very busy,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐ”์˜๋‹ค๋ฉด,
08:35
you've got a lot going on at the moment.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํ˜„์žฌ ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:37
I've taught in my previous videos
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์ด์ „ ๋น„๋””์˜ค์—์„œ
08:39
that to have a lot on means that you have a lot of things
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have a lot on์€ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์ด ๋งŽ๊ณ 
08:43
that you need to do, you're very busy.
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๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐ”์˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:46
So, if you're very busy,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ๋ฐ”์˜๋‹ค๋ฉด,
08:48
I've just got a lot going on at the moment,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜,
08:51
or I've got a lot on at the moment.
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๋˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:55
Going in this context is an option.
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์ด ๋งฅ๋ฝ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์„ ํƒ ์‚ฌํ•ญ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:58
It means the same thing, with or without that word.
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๊ทธ ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋“  ์—†๋“  ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:03
(sighs) I've just got so much going on at the moment.
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(ํ•œ์ˆจ) ์ง€๊ธˆ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
09:06
I've got these books to read,
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์ฝ์„ ์ฑ…๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ ,
09:07
I've got my Sims family to take care of.
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๋Œ๋ด์•ผ ํ•  ์‹ฌ์ฆˆ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
09:10
We can't date anymore.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋” ์ด์ƒ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:12
The next one, I'm not ready to date
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๋‹ค์Œ์€ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•  ์ค€๋น„๊ฐ€ ์•ˆ ๋˜์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
09:14
or I'm not in a place to date.
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๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•  ์žฅ์†Œ๊ฐ€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:16
That's exciting.
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์‹ ๋‚œ๋‹ค. ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ
09:18
Unless you just got divorced or widowed,
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์ดํ˜ผํ–ˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ๋ณ„ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋ฉด,
09:23
that kinda seems like bullshit.
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ๊ฐœ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋“ค๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ ์ž„์ž๋ผ๋ฉด
09:24
Everyone's ready to date, if it's the right person.
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•  ์ค€๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
09:28
But sure, if you want to use this in your message, fine,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€์— ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:33
but it might seem like bullshit.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ํ—›์†Œ๋ฆฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:35
And finally, I can't offer you more than my friendship.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ, ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด ์šฐ์ •๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:39
Of course, this gets the friendly bonus.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐํ˜ธ์  ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:42
But also know that you're saying,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ
09:44
nothing more than friends will happen between us.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ด์ƒ์€ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•Œ์•„๋‘์„ธ์š”.
09:49
You, the brother or sister that I never had,
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๋‹น์‹ , ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์ ธ๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์—†๋Š” ํ˜•์ œ ์ž๋งค,
09:53
you're in the friend zone.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์˜์—ญ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:55
All these expressions are great.
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์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:57
If you want to say, the problem, it's not you, it's me.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋‚˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:01
Don't worry, you and I both know it's the other person.
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๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:04
Okay, now what should happen next?
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์ž, ์ด์ œ ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
10:07
What are the next steps?
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๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์ผ์ด ์ž˜ ํ’€๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์€
10:09
It's no one's fault that things didn't work,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์˜ ์ž˜๋ชป๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ,
10:11
but we're British and we like to say sorry for everything,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜๊ตญ์ธ์ด๊ณ  ๋ชจ๋“  ์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:14
so I'm really sorry how things turned out.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ผ์ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ •๋ง ์œ ๊ฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:18
This is a great phrasal verb.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:20
Turn out often matches with how,
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Turn out์€ how์™€ ์ž์ฃผ ์ผ์น˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:24
because you're asking about the way something finished.
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์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋๋‚ฌ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:29
So, how did your relationship turn out?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
10:33
How did the date turn out?
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๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋๋‚˜์š”?
10:36
It turned out really well.
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์ •๋ง ์ž˜๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:38
It turned out really strange.
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์ •๋ง ์ด์ƒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฐํ˜€์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:40
It finished in this way.
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์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:43
I think we've all said a version
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชจ๋‘
10:45
of I'd really love us to be friends.
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์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ง์„ ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:48
I know, we didn't mean it.
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๋‚˜๋„ ์•Œ์•„, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค.
10:50
But, by chance, if you do actually
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ์—ฐํžˆ
10:54
want to continue being friends, just add that.
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๊ณ„์† ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:58
I'd really love us to be friends,
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ •๋ง ์ข‹๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:00
if you're okay with it,
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ดœ์ฐฎ๋‹ค๋ฉด
11:02
because maybe they still have feelings for you,
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๋‹น์‹ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ 
11:05
and it's too difficult to be friends,
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์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:08
but maybe you both agree.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹  ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ๋™์˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:10
Yeah, there's no connection, spark or chemistry,
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์˜ˆ, ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ, ์ŠคํŒŒํฌ ๋˜๋Š” ํ™”ํ•™์ด ์—†์ง€๋งŒ
11:13
but as friends, you're quite compatible and it might work.
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์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฝค ํ˜ธํ™˜ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๊ณ  ์ž‘๋™ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:17
So who knows?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ฐ€ ์••๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
11:19
Okay, let's end this.
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์ข‹์•„, ์ด๊ฑธ ๋๋‚ด์ž.
11:20
Let's say good bye forever.
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์˜์›ํžˆ ์ž‘๋ณ„ํ•˜์ž.
11:23
Remember I said grammar can change
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์ด
11:25
the meaning and feeling of it?
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์˜๋ฏธ์™€ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ€ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
11:27
Well, yeah, we've used past simple here
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์Œ, ์˜ˆ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š”
11:29
because we want to finish this,
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋‹จ์ˆœ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐํ˜•์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:32
we don't want to continue it.
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๊ณ„์†ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:33
So it was really nice, it was lovely meeting you.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ •๋ง ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์› ์–ด์š”, ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์› ์–ด์š”.
11:38
You've had one date, two dates, three dates,
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ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ, ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ, ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ,
11:40
maybe you just met.
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๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:44
If it's a bit longer than three dates
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3์ผ๋ณด๋‹ค ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๊ธธ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
11:46
or it feels like longer than three dates,
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3์ผ ์ด์ƒ ๊ธธ๊ฒŒ ๋Š๊ปด์ง„๋‹ค๋ฉด
11:50
I really enjoyed our time together.
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ๋‹ค.
11:53
Again, that grammar, that past simple,
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋‹จ์ˆœ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐํ˜• ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์€
11:55
adds that finality bonus,
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์ตœ์ข… ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:57
because we're saying whatever we did, whatever we had,
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ–ˆ๋“ , ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋“ ,
12:01
that's now in the past, it's finished.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด์ œ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์ด๊ณ , ๋๋‚ฌ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:05
And of course, they're very nice,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌผ๋ก , ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ฐฉํ•˜๊ณ 
12:08
they get the friendly bonus.
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์šฐํ˜ธ์ ์ธ ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:09
You're saying, I loved being with you,
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์•˜๊ณ 
12:12
I just don't ever want to do it again.
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๋‹ค์‹œ๋Š” ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋ฟ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:15
Of course, more simply, you could just say, bye,
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๋” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ฒŒ " ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š”" ๋˜๋Š” "๋˜
12:18
or see ya, see you around.
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๋ณด์ž, ๋˜ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์š”"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:22
It's neutral.
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์ค‘๋ฆฝ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:23
And lastly, good luck in the future.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์ž˜ ๋ถ€ํƒ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚  ๋•Œ
12:26
It sounds like what a boss says to someone
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์ƒ์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์—๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ง์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋“ค๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
12:29
when they leave the company.
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12:31
And to be honest, it might seem sarcastic.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋งํ•ด์„œ ๋น„๊ผฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:36
Pfft, good luck without me.
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Pfft, ๋‚˜์—†์ด ํ–‰์šด์„ ๋น•๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:40
But if you are a genuine person,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ง„์‹คํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๊ณ ,
12:43
and you have been quite friendly,
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๊ฝค ์นœํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ง€๋‚ด์™”๋‹ค๋ฉด,
12:46
this might seem genuine, and in that case, it's fine.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์ง„์‹คํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  , ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:50
Now of course, if you're in a long term relationship,
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์žฅ๊ธฐ์ ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
12:54
a text message isn't gonna be enough.
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๋ฌธ์ž ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋กœ๋Š” ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:56
You need to sit down and chat about
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12:58
why you want to break up.
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์™œ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€์ง€ ์•‰์•„์„œ ์ˆ˜๋‹ค๋ฅผ ๋–จ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค.
13:00
But here's a couple of reasons that you might need
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜
13:03
in order to express why you don't want to be
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13:07
in a relationship anymore.
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๋” ์ด์ƒ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•„์š”ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:08
When you start to love someone,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋ฉด
13:10
you fall in love with someone,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ๋น ์ง€์ง€๋งŒ
13:13
but when that love dies,
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ด ์‹์œผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ
13:16
you fall out of love with them.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์—์„œ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:19
So you might want to explain why
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ์™€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ๋น ์ง„ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
13:22
you have fallen out of love with your partner.
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.
13:26
I think we've grown apart
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ€์–ด์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค.
13:28
or I think we've drifted apart.
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ€์–ด์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ๋‹ค.
13:31
Two very good phrasal verbs.
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์•„์ฃผ ์ข‹์€ ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ ๋‘ ๊ฐœ.
13:33
To grow apart from someone,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ง€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด,
13:36
okay, when you meet someone,
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์ข‹์•„, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ฉด
13:38
you start a relationship, you know that person.
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๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:41
But over time, your personality changes,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ํ๋ฅด๋ฉด์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์ด ๋ณ€ํ•˜๊ณ ,
13:45
that person's personality changes.
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ๋„ ๋ณ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:48
Maybe you become completely different people.
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค .
13:51
In that situation, you grow apart,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ง€๊ณ 
13:55
but maybe you live far away from each other
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์„œ๋กœ ๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์‚ด๊ณ 
13:59
and the communication has got less and less and less.
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์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์˜์‚ฌ ์†Œํ†ต์€ ์ ์  ์ค„์–ด๋“ค๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:04
It's been a week since we spoke,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•œ ์ง€ ์ผ์ฃผ์ผ์ด ์ง€๋‚ฌ๊ณ ,
14:07
we've drifted apart.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฉ€์–ด์กŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:10
To drift apart.
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๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ํ‘œ๋ฅ˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ์ž‘์—…์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋‹ค
14:12
Think of two boats in the ocean that just do this.
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์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‘ ์ฒ™์˜ ๋ณดํŠธ๋ฅผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค .
14:18
They drift apart.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ํ‘œ๋ฅ˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:20
So why do you want to break up?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์™œ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด?
14:22
Is it because over time you became different people?
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์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ง€๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
14:25
Or is it because over time,
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์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ง€๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ
14:28
the communication became rubbish?
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์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์ด ์“ฐ๋ ˆ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
14:32
So now you have a load
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์ด์ œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ํ—ค์–ด์งˆ ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”
14:34
of new expressions, idioms and phrasal verbs
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์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„, ์ˆ™์–ด, ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
14:37
that you can use to break up with someone.
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14:39
I want you to practice this
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14:42
by breaking up with me in the comments.
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๋Œ“๊ธ€๋กœ ์ €์™€ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€๋Š” ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•ด๋ณด์…จ์œผ๋ฉด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:44
You can pretend that we just started dating,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
14:47
that we've been together for a long time,
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์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์ฒ™ํ•ด๋„
14:50
it doesn't matter.
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์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
14:51
Be creative.
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์ฐฝ์˜๋ ฅ์„ ๋ฐœํœ˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
14:52
Practice what you've just learned.
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๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋ฐฐ์šด ๊ฒƒ์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
14:54
In the comments, break up with me.
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๋Œ“๊ธ€์— ์ €๋ž‘ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€์„ธ์š”.
14:57
Or, if you actually want to break up with someone
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๋˜๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€๋ฐ
15:00
and you really want me to check your breakup message,
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์ด๋ณ„ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด
15:04
let me know in your comment,
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๋Œ“๊ธ€๋กœ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ˆ˜์ •ํ•˜๋„๋ก
15:06
and I will do my best to correct it for you,
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์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:09
to make sure it's perfect before you send it.
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.
15:12
So thanks for watching.
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์‹œ์ฒญํ•ด ์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:13
I've really enjoyed our time together
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ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„
15:15
and getting to know you.
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๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์•Œ์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ •๋ง ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:17
But to be honest, I think that we've grown apart
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์†”์งํžˆ ๋งํ•ด์„œ
15:21
in these last few minutes
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์ง€๋‚œ ๋ช‡ ๋ถ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ€์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๊ณ 
15:22
and I'd like to see you again,
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ
15:25
but it would just be as friends.
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:27
I don't know how you feel about that.
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
15:30
See you in the next class?
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๋‹ค์Œ ์ˆ˜์—…์—์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์š”?
15:33
(soft electronic music)
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(๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ „์ž ์Œ์•…)
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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