An English Lesson: What to say after someone says, "I'm sorry!"

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Hi Bob the Canadian here.
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Welcome to this English lesson.
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Have you ever had it where someone apologized
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to you in English or someone said sorry to you in English?
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And did you know what to say afterwards?
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Well in this English lesson
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I will go over eight different phrases
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that you can use after somebody apologizes to you,
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or after they say sorry to you in English.
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(upbeat music)
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Well hey, welcome to this little English lesson
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on what to say after someone apologizes to you in English.
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If this is your first time here though don't forget to click
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and give me a thumbs up at some point during this video
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if it's helping you learn just a little bit more English.
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So what I'm going to try and do is
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give you eight different situations
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where someone might apologize to you.
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And then give you the best phrase I think
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that you should use in that situation.
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The first example would be if someone forgets your birthday.
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Maybe your birthday is on July 1st and it is now July 2nd
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and your brother has not phoned you
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to say happy birthday to you.
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Maybe on July 2nd the phone rings and it's your brother.
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And your brother says, "I'm sorry I forgot your birthday."
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Two things you could say, "It's ok!" or "That's ok!"
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Those would both be great responses in a situation
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where someone forgets your birthday.
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Hopefully people don't forget your birthday too often.
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For our second phrase let's imagine a situation
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where you are sitting at a restaurant
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waiting for a friend of yours to meet you.
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Maybe you have planned to have lunch together at one o'clock
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and the clock is ticking and your friend is late.
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When your friend shows up they might say
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"I'm sorry I'm late I had a few things
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to take care of at work
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and it was hard for me to get here on time."
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You could respond by saying, "Hey, it happens!"
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That is a great way to make your friend feel at ease.
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I'm assuming you're not upset that they're late
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if you respond that way.
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And I would say that is just a great way
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to accept their apology for being late.
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For our third way to respond to an apology,
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let's imagine that your car is in the garage being repaired
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and the mechanic told you
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that they would have your car done by four o'clock.
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Maybe your mechanic phones you and says,
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"We're sorry your car isn't going to be done until five."
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A great way to respond would be to say,
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"That's no problem!" or "That's not a problem!"
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Because hopefully you can wait
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just one more hour to have your car repaired.
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For our fourth phrase let's imagine a situation
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where a friend of yours has borrowed your car
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and when they return your car they say, "Hey,
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thank you so much for letting me borrow your car,
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but I'm sorry I forgot to put a little bit
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of gas in the gas tank."
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You would just say to them, "It's cool!"
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Hopefully that's what you would say to your friend.
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Usually when you borrow someone's car
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it is nice to put a little bit of gas in the tank.
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But if your friend was genuinely sorry
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and said, "I'm sorry I forgot to put
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a little bit of gas in the tank."
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It would be very nice of you to just say, "Hey, it's cool!"
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For our fifth phrase let's imagine a situation
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where you lent your phone to a friend
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and while they were using it they dropped it
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on the ground and broke it.
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If it was an old phone
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and if you were planning to buy a new phone anyways,
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when your friend says, "I'm so sorry I dropped your phone
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on the ground and broke it!"
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You could respond by saying, "Don't worry about it
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I was going to buy a new one next week anyways."
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Or there's a shorter form of don't worry about it
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which is, "No worries!"
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We often in English in an informal way
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will respond to someone who apologizes by saying,
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"Ah, no worries, I was going to buy
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a new one next week anyways."
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I'm not sure what you would say though if your phone
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was brand new and your friend dropped it on the ground.
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But I'll let you think about that one.
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For our sixth phrase imagine you're at a busy subway station
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and someone bumps into you and they say,
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of course, "I'm sorry!"
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a great response would be to say, "It's all good."
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When someone bumps into you and you don't get hurt
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and they say that they are sorry,
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when you say it's all good,
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what you're saying is that it's okay,
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I wasn't hurt, it was just a soft bump, everything is okay.
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So a great way to respond is to say, "It's all good."
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So the last two phrases I'm going
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to look at at the same time.
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And those phrases are, "I forgive you."
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or "I accept your apology."
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Both of these you would use in a more serious situation
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when someone is apologizing
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for something very, very serious.
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A good example would be maybe a brother or sister of yours
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was really mean to you when you were a kid,
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and later in life as an adult
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they might come and apologize to you.
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They might come and say, "I just want to apologize
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for being so mean to you when we were kids."
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This would be a more serious apology
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and therefore it merits or it deserves
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a more serious response.
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So you would respond to that by saying,
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"I accept your apology" or "I forgive you."
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Those would be two really good answers
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for that type of apology.
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Well hey that was just a few ways to respond in English
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if someone was to apologize to you for something.
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I hope that you were able to learn
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just a few more English words and phrases from me today.
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I'm Bob the Canadian, thank you so much for watching.
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