Maiden and Married Names ๐Ÿ‘ฐ U.S. Culture with Jennifer, Rachel & Vanessa

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English with Jennifer


์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:05
What are some of the biggest decisions people make in life? Would you agree with this list of my top five?
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๊ฒฐ์ •์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์ด ์ƒ์œ„ 5๊ฐœ ๋ชฉ๋ก์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜์‹œ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
00:16
One. Going to college: Should I go? Where to go? What to study?
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ํ•˜๋‚˜. ๋Œ€ํ•™์— ๊ฐ€๋‹ค: ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ? ์–ด๋””๋กœ ๊ฐ€์•ผ? ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?
00:25
Two. Getting a job: What to do? Where to work?
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๋‘˜. ์ทจ์—…: ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์ผํ•  ๊ณณ?
00:34
Three. Deciding where to live: the location, the type of housing.
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์‚ผ. ๊ฑฐ์ฃผ์ง€ ๊ฒฐ์ •: ์œ„์น˜, ์ฃผํƒ ์œ ํ˜•.
00:44
Four. Getting married: Should I get married? Who should I marry? When to marry?
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๋„ท. ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ธฐ: ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”? ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•  ๋•Œ?
00:54
Five. Having kids:
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๋‹ค์„ฏ. ์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ:
00:58
Should I have kids? How many?
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์•„์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜?
01:01
When?
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์–ธ์ œ?
01:04
Of course each major decision leads to more decisions, perhaps smaller ones, but still important ones.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฐ ์ฃผ์š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์€ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์œผ๋กœ ์ด์–ด์ง€๋ฉฐ, ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋” ์ž‘์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:13
Take for example getting married. There are a lot of decisions to make about the wedding.
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:20
But for women, there's also the matter of whether or not to change our last name.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์„ฑ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š๋ƒ ๋งˆ๋Š๋ƒ์˜ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:25
At least this is a big decision for women in the U.S.
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์ ์–ด๋„ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ํฐ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:32
A woman's maiden name is the last name she has before getting married.
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์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „์˜ ์„ฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:38
One's married name, obviously, is the last name one has after getting married.
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•œ ํ›„์˜ ์„ฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:45
As a woman, you're allowed to keep your maiden name after getting married.
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์—ฌ์„ฑ์œผ๋กœ์„œ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ํ›„์—๋„ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์„ฑ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:50
But past generations have followed the tradition of taking the husband's family name.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ง€๋‚œ ์„ธ๋Œ€๋Š” ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋Š” ์ „ํ†ต์„ ๋”ฐ๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:58
I'm only one woman, and I'm happy to share my experience with you.
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์ €๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ช…์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด๊ณ  ์ œ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๊ณผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ๊ธฐ์ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:03
But for this lesson on American culture, I brought in reinforcements.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ์ €๋Š” ์ฆ์›๊ตฐ์„ ๋ฐ๋ ค์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:08
Do you know what that means?
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๋„ˆ๋Š”์ด ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ์•„๋‹ˆ?
02:11
If you bring in reinforcements or call for reinforcements, you're requesting backup.
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์ง€์›๊ตฐ์„ ๋ฐ๋ ค์˜ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง€์›๊ตฐ์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฐฑ์—…์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:18
That's additional support or help.
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์ถ”๊ฐ€ ์ง€์› ๋˜๋Š” ๋„์›€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:22
In my case, I need the help of other women, and not just any women.
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๋‚ด ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” ์•„๋ฌด ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž๋“ค์˜ ๋„์›€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค.
02:27
Other American women who are married and who happen to be online English teachers like me.
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์ €์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๋œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค.
02:36
You're going to hear from two wonderful ladies who do amazing work on their own YouTube channels.
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์ž์‹ ์˜ YouTube ์ฑ„๋„์—์„œ ๋†€๋ผ์šด ์ž‘์—…์„ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‘ ๋ช…์˜ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋“ฃ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:41
I bet many of you know them already.
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๋งŽ์€ ๋ถ„๋“ค์ด ์ด๋ฏธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹ค ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:45
Rachel of Rachel's English and Teacher Vanessa of Speak English with Vanessa.
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Rachel's English์˜ Rachel๊ณผ Vanessa์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ Speak English์˜ ๊ต์‚ฌ Vanessa.
02:52
If you haven't subscribed to their channels already, then take the time to visit them and check out their lessons.
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์•„์ง ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์–ด ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๋ฐฉ๋ฌธํ•˜์—ฌ ๊ฐ•์˜๋ฅผ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
02:58
I'll put the links in the video description.
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์˜์ƒ ์„ค๋ช…๋ž€์— ๋งํฌ ๊ฑธ์–ด๋‘๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:04
Together the three of us women will tell you all of the different options a married woman has today in the U.S.,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์„ธ ๋ช…์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚  ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ๊ธฐํ˜ผ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์˜ต์…˜์„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆด ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฉฐ,
03:11
and we'll each tell you what we personally decided and why.
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๊ฐ์ž ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•œ ์‚ฌํ•ญ๊ณผ ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆด ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:18
Rachel will go first. Listen carefully. Try to hear the answers to these questions.
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๋ ˆ์ด์ฒผ์ด ๋จผ์ € ๊ฐˆ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด. ์ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‹ต์„ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
03:25
Did she change her name after getting married?
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ํ›„ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋ฐ”๋€Œ์—ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
03:30
What was her husband's opinion about this choice?
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์ด ์„ ํƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์€ ์–ด๋• ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
03:35
What did her female friends and relatives decide after getting married?
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๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ์—ฌ์ž ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์นœ์ฒ™๋“ค์€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ํ›„ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ ธ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
03:41
Hi Jennifer. So when I got married four years ago, I decided to keep my name and not change anything about it.
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์•ˆ๋…• ์ œ๋‹ˆํผ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ 4๋…„ ์ „ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚ด ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:48
So I have kept my maiden name. My husband didn't mind at all.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ณธ๋ช…์„ ์ง€์ผฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚จํŽธ์€ ์ „ํ˜€ ๊ฐœ์˜์น˜ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:52
In fact, he also kind of wanted me to keep my own name.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค, ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋˜ํ•œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์›ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:55
I don't know why. That's just what felt right to both of us.
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์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ณ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๊ผˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:58
I do have lots of friends who have changed their name when they got married.
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๋ฐ”๊พผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด ๋งŽ์•„์š”.
04:02
And I have a few friends who not just
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
04:06
hyphenated their names, but took both last names and stuck them together in one word with no space.
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์ด๋ฆ„์— ํ•˜์ดํ”ˆ์„ ๋„ฃ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์„ฑ์„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์™€์„œ ๊ณต๋ฐฑ ์—†์ด ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋กœ ๋ถ™์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ช‡ ๋ช… ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:11
Actually, my cousin, her last name ends in an L.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ œ ์‚ฌ์ดŒ์˜ ์„ฑ์€ L๋กœ ๋๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:15
Her husband's last name begins in an L, and they stuck that together into one word and joined them with just a single a single letter L.
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๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์€ L๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋กœ ๋ถ™์ธ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ๋ฌธ์ž L๋กœ ๊ฒฐํ•ฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:22
So there are lots of ways to do it.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ.
04:26
So Rachel decided to keep her maiden name and her husband was perfectly fine with that.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ Rachel์€ ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ๋‚จํŽธ์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:31
I think that's how a lot of American men feel today.
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์˜ค๋Š˜๋‚  ๋งŽ์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋‚จ์„ฑ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:36
They're understanding and supportive of the wife's decision.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์•„๋‚ด์˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง€์ง€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:41
Rachel said, "It's just what felt right to both of us."
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Rachel์€ "์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ณ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๊ผˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:47
Rachel also listed a number of choices American women make,
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Rachel์€ ๋˜ํ•œ
04:52
including changing their last name and
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์„ฑ์„ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•˜๊ณ  ํ•˜์ดํ”ˆ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์šฉ
04:55
joining the two last names together with or without a hyphen.
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ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋‘ ์„ฑ์„ ๊ฒฐํ•ฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ํฌํ•จํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์„ ํƒ ์‚ฌํ•ญ์„ ๋‚˜์—ดํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:02
I rather like the idea that Rachel's cousin came up with.
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๋‚˜๋Š” ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค Rachel์˜ ์‚ฌ์ดŒ์ด ๋‚ด๋†“์€ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. Hallee Neillang Mitchellawrence์™€
05:07
Imagine having a very musical name, like
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๊ฐ™์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์Œ์•…์ ์ธ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด ๋ณด์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
05:10
Hallee
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05:12
Neillang
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05:14
Mitchellawrence
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05:19
Now you'll hear from Vanessa. Listen carefully and be ready to answer these questions.
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์ด์ œ Vanessa์˜ ์†Œ์‹์„ ๋“ฃ๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋‹ตํ•  ์ค€๋น„๋ฅผ ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
05:28
Did she make the same decision as Rachel and keep her last name? Why or why not?
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๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” Rachel๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์„ฑ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡?
05:36
What does Vanessa say that most American women decide to do?
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Vanessa๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
05:42
I'd say that the majority of women in the U.S. who get married decide to take their husband's last name, and that's what I did.
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์€ ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:48
It was kind of a hassle at the beginning because I had to change my license, change my passport...
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์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๋ฉดํ—ˆ์ฆ๋„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ณ  ์—ฌ๊ถŒ๋„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์•ผ ํ•ด์„œ ์ข€ ๋ฒˆ๊ฑฐ๋กœ์› ๋Š”๋ฐ...
05:53
But after I got through all of that, it's pretty cool.
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๋‹ค ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋‹ˆ ๊ฝค ๊ดœ์ฐฎ๋„ค์š”.
05:56
How many times in your life do you get to change your name? Some people feel really strongly about it.
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์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋ช‡ ๋ฒˆ์ด๋‚˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ€ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ •๋ง๋กœ ๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:00
They feel like their name is such a part of their identity that they don't want to change their name.
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์˜ ์ผ๋ถ€๋ผ๊ณ  ๋Š๋ผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:04
But I didn't really care. I'm still me even though my last name has changed.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ณ„๋กœ ์‹ ๊ฒฝ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค. ์„ฑ์ด ๋ฐ”๋€Œ์–ด๋„ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๋‚˜์•ผ.
06:09
So some people might decide to hyphenate their last name with their maiden name and then their husband's last name.
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๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ผ๋ถ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์„ฑ์„ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„๊ณผ ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ํ•˜์ดํ”ˆ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:14
Or maybe they decide to keep their maiden name and rarely
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๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์„ฑ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋“œ๋ฌผ๊ฒŒ
06:17
maybe the husband takes the wife's last name. But for me, I just wanted to keep it simple and take his last name. Pretty cool.
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๋‚จํŽธ์ด ์•„๋‚ด์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ €์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ์ทจํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„.
06:25
So what did Vanessa decide to do?
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ Vanessa๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
06:29
She changed her name. And why? Because she viewed the
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๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟจ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์™œ?
06:33
possibility of changing her name as a cool opportunity in life.
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๊ฐœ๋ช… ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์„ ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋กœ ์—ฌ๊ฒผ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด๋‹ค.
06:37
For her, her maiden name was not strongly attached to her sense of identity.
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๊ทธ๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๊ทธ๋…€์˜ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์— ๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ถ™์–ด ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:42
But as she said, other woman can feel differently.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋Š๋‚„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:47
Vanessa said that the majority of women in the U.S. decide to take their husband's last name.
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Vanessa๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์„ฑ ๋Œ€๋‹ค์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ๋‚จํŽธ์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:55
She also correctly noted that changing your name on all your documents can be a hassle.
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๊ทธ๋…€๋Š” ๋˜ํ•œ ๋ชจ๋“  ๋ฌธ์„œ์—์„œ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฒˆ๊ฑฐ๋กœ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ง€์ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:01
In other words, it causes problems and it can be a little annoying to deal with.
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์ฆ‰, ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์ผ์œผํ‚ค๊ณ  ์ฒ˜๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„ ์„ฑ๊ฐ€์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:09
Did you catch one other possibility?
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๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์„ ํฌ์ฐฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:12
It's something that a man could do after getting married.
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๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ด๋‹ค.
07:17
Vanessa said that the husband could take the wife's last name.
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Vanessa๋Š” ๋‚จํŽธ์ด ์•„๋‚ด์˜ ์„ฑ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:22
It's rare, but it could happen.
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๋“œ๋ฌผ์ง€๋งŒ ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:27
Now what about me?
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์ด์ œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ป์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
07:29
My name is Jennifer Lebedev. As you likely know, I'm not Russian,
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์ œ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ์ œ๋‹ˆํผ ๋ ˆ๋ฒ ๋ฐํ”„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์ €๋Š” ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์ธ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
07:33
but my husband is. He really didn't care one way or the other.
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์ œ ๋‚จํŽธ์€ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Š” ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์–ด๋Š ์ชฝ์ด๋“  ์ƒ๊ด€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:38
So it was my decision to follow tradition and changed my last name.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ „ํ†ต์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์„ฑ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:43
It's what my mother, my grandmother, and my great-grandmother all did so the choice felt natural.
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์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ, ํ• ๋จธ๋‹ˆ, ์ฆ์กฐํ• ๋จธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ์…”์„œ ์„ ํƒ์ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์› ๋‹ค.
07:51
However, I didn't exactly give up my maiden name. My maiden name became one of my middle names.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ํฌ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์€ ๋‚ด ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ด๋ฆ„ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:58
So I felt it was symbolic. I'm still me, but I added on another layer.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ƒ์ง•์ ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋Š๊ผˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๋‚˜์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ ˆ์ด์–ด์— ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:05
Speaking of hassles, I decided to break the Russian tradition of writing my last name with an A at the end.
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๋ฒˆ๊ฑฐ๋กœ์›€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ์ €๋Š” ์„ฑ์„ ๋์— A๋กœ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„ ์ „ํ†ต์„ ๊นจ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:11
That's what Russian women do. On our Russian marriage license, I'm Jennifer Lebedeva.
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„ ์—ฌ์ž๋“ค์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ํ—ˆ๊ฐ€์„œ์— ์ œ๋‹ˆํผ ๋ ˆ๋ฒ ๋ฐ๋ฐ”๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:17
But I knew that the two different spellings of the last name would cause problems down the line for me and any future children.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์„ฑ์˜ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ฒ ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์™€ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ž๋…€์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ์ผ์œผํ‚ฌ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:25
So here in the U.S. I'm Jennifer Lebedev and we are the Lebedev family.
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์ €๋Š” Jennifer Lebedev์ด๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” Lebedev ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:31
Incidentally, our children have my maiden name as their middle name.
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๋ง๋ถ™์—ฌ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์•„์ด๋“ค์€ ๋‚ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์ „ ์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์ค‘๊ฐ„ ์ด๋ฆ„์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:38
So, what's the tradition in your culture? Is the practice changing?
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์—๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ „ํ†ต์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ด€ํ–‰์ด ๋ฐ”๋€Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
08:43
Do you have an opinion one way or the other about a wife's last name?
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์•„๋‚ด์˜์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–ด๋–ค ์‹ ์œผ๋กœ๋“  ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
08:49
Do you like the idea of following tradition or breaking tradition? Post your thoughts in the comments.
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์ „ํ†ต์„ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ „ํ†ต์„ ๊นจ๋Š” ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋“œ์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์˜๊ฒฌ์— ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๊ฒŒ์‹œํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
08:59
Please like this video if you enjoyed hearing from three different teachers.
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์„ธ ๋ช…์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šฐ์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด ์˜์ƒ์— ์ข‹์•„์š”๋ฅผ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
09:04
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๋ชจ๋“  ์ฑ„๋„์„ ๊ตฌ๋…ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
09:06
I'll put the links to Rachel's English and Speak English with Vanessa in the video description.
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๋น„๋””์˜ค ์„ค๋ช…์— Rachel's English ๋ฐ Speak English with Vanessa์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋งํฌ๋ฅผ ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:14
A very special thank you to Rachel and Vanessa for all their help in making this video.
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์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์„ ์ฃผ์‹  Rachel๊ณผ Vanessa์—๊ฒŒ ๋งค์šฐ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:21
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๋Š˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋“ฏ์ด ์‹œ์ฒญํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”!
09:27
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๋‚ด ํ•™์Šต ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆํ‹ฐ์˜ ํšŒ์›์ด ๋˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. JOIN ๋ฒ„ํŠผ์„ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ ์ œ๋‹ˆํผ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์ œ ์œ ํŠœ๋ธŒ ์˜์–ด ์ฑ„๋„์˜ ํšŒ์›์ด ๋˜์„ธ์š”.
09:34
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ํŠน๋ณ„ ๋ฐฐ์ง€, ๋ณด๋„ˆ์Šค ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ,
09:38
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์˜จ์Šคํฌ๋ฆฐ ํฌ๋ ˆ๋”ง ๋ฐ ์›”๊ฐ„ ๋ผ์ด๋ธŒ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆผ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ˜„์žฌ ์ผ๋ถ€ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ๋Š” YouTube ์ฑ„๋„ ๋ฉค๋ฒ„์‹ญ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:47
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์ €๋ฅผ ํŒ”๋กœ์šฐํ•˜๊ณ  Facebook๊ณผ Twitter์—์„œ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ธ์Šคํƒ€๊ทธ๋žจ์— ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์˜์ƒ๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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