How to be CONFIDENT!

1,053,068 views ・ 2017-03-30

English with Ronnie


μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ²ˆμ—­λœ μžλ§‰μ€ 기계 λ²ˆμ—­λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

00:01
Hello.
0
1852
1019
μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
00:03
My name's Ronnie.
1
3671
1750
제 이름은 λ‘œλ‹ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:06
I'm very confident, and I really like talking.
2
6009
6211
μžμ‹ κ°μ΄ λ„˜μΉ˜κ³  λ§ν•˜λŠ” κ±Έ 정말 μ’‹μ•„ν•΄μš”.
00:12
[Sighs] Oh, god.
3
12966
1291
[ν•œμˆ¨] 였, 세상에.
00:14
[Laughs]
4
14282
1890
[μ›ƒμŒ]
00:16
Do you think that one of the reasons why you don't like to speak English is because
5
16361
8834
μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό ν•˜κΈ° 싫은 이유 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€ λ§ν•˜κΈ°λ‚˜ μ“°κΈ°,
00:25
you lack confidence maybe in speaking or in writing, or just in your daily life?
6
25220
8968
μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ κ·Έλƒ₯ μΌμƒμƒν™œμ— μžμ‹ κ°μ΄ μ—†μ–΄μ„œλΌκ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹œλ‚˜μš”?
00:34
Confidence is the number one problem that you have while learning English.
7
34629
6866
μžμ‹ κ°μ€ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό λ°°μš°λŠ” λ™μ•ˆ κ°€μž₯ 큰 λ¬Έμ œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:41
So, a lot of people talk to me and say:
8
41520
2891
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ €μ—κ²Œ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:44
"Ronnie, I can't speak English. I'm terrible."
9
44436
4046
"λ‘œλ‹ˆ, λ‚œ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό λͺ»ν•΄. λ‚œ 끔찍해."
00:48
And I say:
10
48513
978
00:49
"Oh, no. You can speak English. You are not terrible."
11
49568
5166
"였, μ•ˆλΌ. 당신은 μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό ν•  쀄 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€. 당신은 λ”μ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€."
00:54
So, I want to help you and I want you to become more confident in your daily life, whatever
12
54759
7101
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ 돕고 μ‹Άκ³  μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 무엇을
01:01
you do, not only English, for everything.
13
61860
2649
ν•˜λ“  μ˜μ–΄λΏλ§Œ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ λͺ¨λ“  것에 μΌμƒμƒν™œμ— μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°–κΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:04
So, I'm going to teach you some tricks or some methods to become more confident.
14
64509
5251
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ’€ 더 μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆλŠ” μš”λ Ήμ΄λ‚˜ 방법을 μ•Œλ €λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:09
Thumbs up.
15
69785
1538
엄지척.
01:11
Even if you're not, then just pretend.
16
71799
3312
그렇지 μ•Šλ”λΌλ„ κ·Έλƒ₯ μ²™ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
01:15
Everyone pretends.
17
75272
1560
λͺ¨λ‘ μ²™ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:17
So, I'm going to go through things that are bad and the reasons why you and I are not
18
77074
8630
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 쒋지 μ•Šμ€ 일듀과 λ‹Ήμ‹ κ³Ό λ‚΄κ°€
01:25
confident people.
19
85729
1000
μžμ‹ κ° μ—†λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 된 μ΄μœ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ§šμ–΄λ³΄λ €κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:27
First of all, we have a fear.
20
87108
2172
μš°μ„  μš°λ¦¬μ—κ²ŒλŠ” 두렀움이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:29
We have a fear of the unknown.
21
89280
2140
μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 미지에 λŒ€ν•œ 두렀움이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:31
We have fear that we don't know what's going to happen.
22
91420
3299
μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 무슨 일이 일어날지 λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€λŠ” 두렀움이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:34
Maybe you're going to go for a job interview, or you're starting a new class, or you're
23
94744
5890
면접을 보러 κ°€κ±°λ‚˜, μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ μ‹œμž‘ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜,
01:40
going to go on a date, or you're meeting new people, you're going to a party - we have
24
100659
4420
데이트λ₯Ό ν•˜λŸ¬ κ°€κ±°λ‚˜, μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚˜κ±°λ‚˜, νŒŒν‹°μ— 갈 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:45
no idea what's going to happen.
25
105079
3531
무슨 일이 일어날지 λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:48
That's cool, let it happen.
26
108798
2436
λ©‹μ§€λ„€μš”. κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
01:51
We can't change the future.
27
111259
2051
μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 미래λ₯Ό λ°”κΏ€ 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:53
We don't know about the future, so what we can do is we can prepare our self.
28
113310
4287
μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 미래λ₯Ό λͺ¨λ₯΄κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 것은 슀슀둜 μ€€λΉ„ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:57
Now, if we're talking about doing something, like a presentation or standing up in front
29
117622
5343
자, ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ΄λ‚˜
02:02
of people, going to a party, especially if you're trying to speak English, what you can
30
122990
5960
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€ μ•žμ— μ„œλŠ” 것, νŒŒν‹°μ— κ°€λŠ” 것, 특히 μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ λ§ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•  λ•Œ
02:08
do if you're worried about your English is you can practice speaking at home.
31
128950
6629
μ˜μ–΄κ°€ 걱정될 λ•Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 일은 μ§‘μ—μ„œ λ§ν•˜κΈ° μ—°μŠ΅μ„ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:15
Now, this might sound a little crazy, but who cares?
32
135579
4154
자, 이것은 μ•½κ°„ 미친 μ†Œλ¦¬λ‘œ 듀릴지 λͺ¨λ₯΄μ§€λ§Œ λˆ„κ°€ μ‹ κ²½ μ“°λ‚˜μš”?
02:19
What you can do is take your phone, you can record yourself speaking English.
33
139758
5681
당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 것은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ „ν™”λ₯Ό 가지고, 당신이 μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 λ…ΉμŒν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:25
Maybe you're doing a presentation, so record your presentation, listen to it.
34
145464
4489
ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμœΌλ―€λ‘œ ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ λ…ΉμŒν•˜κ³  λ“€μ–΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
02:30
[Gasps] You think it's terrible?
35
150157
1990
[Gasps] λ”μ°ν•˜λ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
02:32
Do it again.
36
152172
1500
λ‹€μ‹œ ν• .
02:33
We have an expression: "Practice makes perfect."
37
153697
4277
"μ—°μŠ΅μ΄ 완벽을 λ§Œλ“ λ‹€."λΌλŠ” ν‘œν˜„μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ™„λ²½
02:39
It's not going to be perfect, but it'll be good.
38
159177
2773
ν•˜μ§€λŠ” μ•Šκ² μ§€ 만 잘 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:41
So the more you practice something, the more comfortable you're going to feel, the more
39
161950
4315
λ”°λΌμ„œ 무언가λ₯Ό 더 많이 μ—°μŠ΅ν• μˆ˜λ‘ 더 νŽΈμ•ˆν•˜κ²Œ 느끼고 더 λ§Žμ€
02:46
confidence you're going to have, and you're going to rock that.
40
166290
2814
μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°€μ§€κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
02:49
You're going to go to the party and be like: "Yeah! I'm the best party person ever."
41
169129
3680
당신은 νŒŒν‹°μ— κ°€μ„œ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 말할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. "그래! λ‚˜λŠ” 졜고의 νŒŒν‹°μ›μ΄μ•Ό."
02:52
Or you're going to go to your job interview and you're going to get the job.
42
172809
4180
λ˜λŠ” 면접을 보러 갈 것이고 일자리λ₯Ό μ–»κ²Œ 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:56
I feel like I'm an infomercial.
43
176989
1970
μ œκ°€ 정보톡신원이 된 κΈ°λΆ„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:58
Okay, the next one and probably one of the hardest is criticism.
44
178959
5178
자, λ‹€μŒμœΌλ‘œ μ•„λ§ˆλ„ κ°€μž₯ μ–΄λ €μš΄ 것 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ” λΉ„νŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:04
Criticism means people tell you what you do wrong.
45
184162
6238
λΉ„νŒμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 당신이 잘λͺ»ν•œ 것을 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:10
People tell you bad things about you.
46
190592
2701
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 당신에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ‚˜μœ 말을 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:13
People tell you your pronunciation is terrible, your work is awful.
47
193318
5387
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 발음이 ν˜•νŽΈμ—†κ³  λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μž‘μ—…μ΄ ν˜•νŽΈμ—†λ‹€κ³  λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:19
How do you feel? You feel: "Oh my god. Why am I even alive?"
48
199190
4899
기뢄이 μ–΄λ•Œ? 당신은 "였 마이 κ°“. μ™œ λ‚΄κ°€ μ‚΄μ•„μžˆλŠ” 거지?"
03:24
So people criticize you, and depending on how they do it...
49
204089
4451
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 당신을 λΉ„νŒν•˜κ³ , μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•˜λŠλƒμ— 따라...
03:28
For example, if you have a boss who only tells you bad things, this is not a very good boss.
50
208540
6890
예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ‚˜μœ 말만 ν•˜λŠ” 상사가 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 이것은 그닀지 쒋은 상사가 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:35
But if you have a boss who criticizes you and tells you positive things, this is getting better.
51
215430
5818
ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신을 λΉ„νŒν•˜κ³  긍정적인 말을 ν•˜λŠ” 상사가 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ 이것은 점점 λ‚˜μ•„μ§€κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:41
But what we have to do is we have to learn from the criticism.
52
221273
5541
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‚˜ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일은 λΉ„νŒμœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„° λ°°μ›Œμ•Ό ν•œλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:46
We have an expression: "Don't take it personally."
53
226839
3959
"개인적으둜 받아듀이지 λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€."λΌλŠ” ν‘œν˜„μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:51
This means, for example, if your boss says:
54
231024
2302
예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄, 상사가
03:53
"You know what? Your... Your presentation wasn't that good."
55
233351
3798
"κ·Έκ±° μ•Œμ•„μš”? λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜... ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ΄ λ³„λ‘œμ˜€μ–΄μš”."라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” 경우λ₯Ό μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:57
Instead of: "Oh my god", instead of feeling negative or feeling bad, just go:
56
237174
5409
"λ§™μ†Œμ‚¬" λŒ€μ‹ μ— 뢀정적인 κ°μ •μ΄λ‚˜ κΈ°λΆ„ λ‚˜μœ 감정 λŒ€μ‹ μ—
04:02
"Okay. Well, please tell me how I can make it better."
57
242685
4589
"μ•Œμ•˜μ–΄. λ‚΄κ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•˜λ©΄ 더 λ‚˜μ•„μ§ˆ 수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€ λ§ν•΄μ€˜." ν˜•νŽΈμ—†λŠ”
04:07
Your boss is there maybe to help you, unless you have a terrible boss, but always try and
58
247299
6320
상사가 μžˆμ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” ν•œ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μƒμ‚¬λŠ” 당신을 도와쀄 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ , 항상
04:13
learn from the criticism.
59
253619
2481
λΉ„νŒμœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„° 배우렀고 λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
04:16
If you've done something wrong, admit it and go: "Oh, do you know what?
60
256100
3219
당신이 λ­”κ°€ 잘λͺ»ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄, 그것을 μΈμ •ν•˜κ³  λ‹€μŒκ³Ό 같이 ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. "였, κ·Έκ±° μ•„μ„Έμš”?
04:19
You know...
61
259319
1000
μžˆμž–μ•„μš”...
04:20
You know, that was terrible, but I can do next time better."
62
260319
4421
그건 λ”μ°ν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ λ‹€μŒμ—λŠ” 더 μž˜ν•  수 μžˆμ–΄μš”."
04:24
So always try to improve from your criticism.
63
264740
3433
λ”°λΌμ„œ 항상 λΉ„νŒμœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„° κ°œμ„ ν•˜λ €κ³  λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
04:28
Critics are maybe your best friends because they tell you what's wrong and you have to listen to that.
64
268198
7172
비평가듀은 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 무엇이 잘λͺ»λ˜μ—ˆλŠ”지 λ§ν•˜κ³  당신은 그것을 λ“€μ–΄μ•Ό ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ•„λ§ˆλ„ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ κ°€μž₯ μΉœν•œ 친ꡬ일 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:35
Next one.
65
275370
1139
λ‹€μŒ.
04:37
I'd like to inform everyone out there that you are not airbrushed models,
66
277215
7889
λ‚˜λŠ” 당신이 μ—μ–΄λΈŒλŸ¬μ‹œ λͺ¨λΈμ΄ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌλŠ” 것을 λͺ¨λ‘μ—κ²Œ μ•Œλ¦¬κ³  μ‹ΆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€
04:45
and I am sure far from being a model.
67
285339
3647
.
04:49
What happens is in magazines nowadays, we have these beautiful ladies.
68
289736
7185
μš”μ¦˜ μž‘μ§€μ—λŠ” 이런 μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ 여성듀이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:56
They are simply perfect.
69
296946
2329
그듀은 λ‹¨μˆœνžˆ μ™„λ²½ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:59
Look at her lips, and her nose, and her eyes...
70
299374
3031
κ·Έλ…€μ˜ μž…μˆ κ³Ό 코와 λˆˆμ„ λ³΄μ„Έμš”...
05:02
Actually, she doesn't have a nose.
71
302430
2164
사싀 κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ½”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:04
This woman has no nose.
72
304619
2000
이 μ—¬μžλŠ” μ½”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:06
Where's your nose?
73
306644
1260
λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ½”λŠ” 어디에 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
05:08
I have eyebrows, by the way.
74
308070
2249
참고둜 μ €λŠ” 눈썹이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:10
She does not have a nose.
75
310319
1270
κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ½”κ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:11
So, if you...
76
311614
1190
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Œμ•½ 당신이...
05:12
Oh my god, Angelina Jolie, she's gorgeous.
77
312829
3019
세상에, μ•ˆμ €λ¦¬λ‚˜ 쑸리, κ·Έλ…€λŠ” λ©‹μ Έμš”.
05:15
Her life's a mess, but she's gorgeous.
78
315873
2597
κ·Έλ…€μ˜ 삢은 엉망 μ΄μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ•„λ¦„λ‹΅μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:18
This is airbrushed. This is not real.
79
318495
2924
μ—μ–΄λΈŒλŸ¬μ‰¬μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이것은 μ§„μ§œκ°€ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:21
These are not real p-...
80
321419
1021
이것듀은 μ§„μ§œ p-...
05:22
Oh, hello.
81
322440
1000
였, μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
05:23
I'll just be over here, okay.
82
323440
2402
κ·Έλƒ₯ μ—¬κΈ° μžˆμ„κ²Œ, μ•Œμ•˜μ–΄.
05:25
These are not real people.
83
325867
1308
이듀은 μ‹€μ œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:27
These are processed, Photoshopped just images of bodies.
84
327200
6555
이듀은 처리되고 Photoshop 처리된 신체 이미지일 λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:33
And we cannot look at this and go:
85
333780
2716
그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이것을보고
05:36
"I don't look as pouty, as wonderful as she does in this Ralph Lauren jacket",
86
336521
6188
"λ‚˜λŠ” κ·Έλ…€ 가이 Ralph Lauren μž¬ν‚·μ„ μž…μ€ κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌ λ©‹μ Έ 보이지 μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€"라고 말할 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:42
which is not Ralph Lauren at all because they're terrible.
87
342734
3712
그듀은 λ”μ°ν•˜κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μ „ν˜€ Ralph Lauren이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:46
Never, ever think that you are not beautiful and wonderful, because you don't look like
88
346471
6852
μ ˆλŒ€, κ²°μ½” 당신이 아름닡 κ±°λ‚˜ ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 당신은 이 μ‘°κ°λ“€μ²˜λŸΌ 보이지
05:53
these pieces of...
89
353379
2271
05:55
I don't know, skeletons.
90
355650
1865
μ•ŠκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:57
So, everyone has a problem with their personal appearance.
91
357540
4145
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒμ€ μžμ‹ μ˜ μ™Έλͺ¨μ— λ¬Έμ œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
06:01
You've... We all have issues, what we don't like about yourself.
92
361710
4049
당신은... 우리 λͺ¨λ‘λŠ” μžμ‹ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ‹«μ–΄ν•˜λŠ” λ¬Έμ œκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:05
Hey, that's cool.
93
365759
1611
이봐, 멋지닀.
06:07
But what you have to do is you have to get over that and you have to think: "Do you know what?
94
367370
6309
ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 당신이 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일은 그것을 극볡해야 ν•˜κ³  생각해야 ν•œλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
06:13
I'm actually pretty good.
95
373704
2390
06:16
I have some things that I like about me."
96
376686
2400
.
06:19
Make a list.
97
379111
1000
λͺ©λ‘μ„ λ§Œλ“œμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:20
"Well, I quite like my left eyelash, I think it's pretty long and cute.
98
380250
5530
"κΈ€μŽ„μš”, 제 μ™Όμͺ½ μ†λˆˆμΉμ΄ κ½€ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“€μ–΄μš”. κ½€ κΈΈκ³  κ·€μ—¬μš΄ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
06:25
My baby fingers are pretty cute, too."
99
385780
1979
μ•„κΈ° 손가락 도 κ½€ κ·€μ—¬μ›Œμš”."
06:27
So think about things that you like about yourself.
100
387759
4112
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ μžμ‹ μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 점에 λŒ€ν•΄ μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ . 특히 직μž₯μ΄λ‚˜ μ·¨μ—… λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ
06:32
Another one that's really, really, really important especially at work or in a job interview
101
392083
4742
정말, 정말, 정말 μ€‘μš”ν•œ 또 λ‹€λ₯Έ λ¬Έμ œλŠ”
06:36
is lack of knowledge.
102
396849
1910
μ§€μ‹μ˜ λΆ€μ‘±μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:38
So, this is a doozy, which means it's important.
103
398759
4301
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 doozyμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이것은 μ€‘μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:43
If you're going for a job interview and you don't know anything about the job, you're
104
403060
4040
μ·¨μ—… 면접을 보러 κ°€λŠ”λ° κ·Έ 직업에 λŒ€ν•΄ 아무것도 λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€λ©΄, 당신은
06:47
not going to get it.
105
407100
1069
그것을 얻지 λͺ»ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:48
So what you have to do is you have to research.
106
408169
2459
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 당신이해야 ν•  일은 μ—°κ΅¬ν•΄μ•Όν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:50
Research the company, find out something about the company that you can talk about.
107
410653
6289
νšŒμ‚¬λ₯Ό μ‘°μ‚¬ν•˜κ³  이야기할 수 μžˆλŠ” νšŒμ‚¬μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ•Œμ•„λ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
06:57
If it's English, watch my videos.
108
417138
4051
μ˜μ–΄λΌλ©΄ λ‚΄ λΉ„λ””μ˜€λ₯Όλ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
07:01
Watch www.engvid.com, and you can learn so that you have more knowledge about your topic.
109
421220
6410
www.engvid.com을 μ‹œμ²­ν•˜λ©΄ ν•΄λ‹Ή μ£Όμ œμ— λŒ€ν•΄ 더 λ§Žμ€ 지식을 얻을 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ ν•™μŠ΅ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:07
This, again, is not only for English.
110
427810
2550
λ‹€μ‹œ λ§ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 μ˜μ–΄μ—λ§Œ κ΅­ν•œλœ 것이 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:10
If you're doing...
111
430360
735
λ§Œμ•½ 당신이 ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄... λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 직μž₯
07:11
Making a presentation at your work, research it.
112
431120
2660
μ—μ„œ ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ ν•˜κ³  그것을 μ‘°μ‚¬ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
07:13
Just get information.
113
433805
2009
정보λ₯Ό μ–»μœΌμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
07:15
The more information you have in your brain, the more confident you will be because you
114
435839
4700
λ‡Œμ— 정보가 λ§Žμ„μˆ˜λ‘
07:20
know what you're going to say.
115
440564
3030
λ§ν•˜λ €λŠ” λ‚΄μš©μ„ μ•ŒκΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 더 μžμ‹ κ°μ΄ μƒκΉλ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:26
I'd like to show you guys something.
116
446709
2494
λ„ˆν¬λ“€μ—κ²Œ λ­”κ°€λ₯Ό 보여주고 μ‹Άλ‹€.
07:29
This is my notebook of what I do about five hours before I stand here.
117
449228
11410
이것은 μ œκ°€ 여기에 μ„œκΈ° μ•½ 5μ‹œκ°„ 전에 ν•œ 일에 λŒ€ν•œ 제 κ³΅μ±…μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:40
This is my notebook of notes about what I'm going to teach you.
118
460804
6700
이것은 μ œκ°€ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  λ‚΄μš©μ— λŒ€ν•œ 제 λ…ΈνŠΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:47
And sometimes I cross it off, and last night I couldn't really sleep too well because I thought:
119
467529
7466
그리고 λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ λ‚˜λŠ” 그것을 μ§€μš°κ³  어젯밀에 생각 λ•Œλ¬Έμ— μž μ„ 잘 수 μ—†μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:55
"What am I going to do? What am I going to teach on the videos?"
120
475020
3427
"λ‚΄κ°€ 무엇을 ν•  것인가? λΉ„λ””μ˜€μ—μ„œ 무엇을 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  것인가?"
07:58
So what I do is I have to prepare myself.
121
478472
4630
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ ν•  일은 λ‚˜ μžμ‹ μ„ μ€€λΉ„ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:03
So at nighttime I lie awake at night and I think: "What can I do? What can I do?"
122
483127
4621
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 밀에 λ‚˜λŠ” 밀에 κΉ¨μ–΄ λˆ„μ›Œ μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "λ‚΄κ°€ 무엇을 ν•  수 μžˆμ„κΉŒ? 무엇을 ν•  수 μžˆμ„κΉŒ?"
08:07
And then it gets better. So what I do is I prepare myself.
123
487773
3307
그러면 λ‚˜μ•„μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚΄κ°€ ν•˜λŠ” 일은 λ‚˜ μžμ‹ μ„ μ€€λΉ„ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:11
I know what I'm going to tell you.
124
491080
2050
λ‚΄κ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ 무엇을 말할 것인지 μ••λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:13
I've written it down, it's in my brain.
125
493130
2315
λ‚˜λŠ” 그것을 적어 λ‘μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 그것은 λ‚΄ 머리 속에 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:15
This gives me the confidence to stand in front of you and teach you this.
126
495470
4963
이것은 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ μ•žμ— μ„œμ„œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ 이것을 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ  수 μžˆλŠ” μžμ‹ κ°μ„ μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:21
Yeah, I'm doing pretty good.
127
501894
2376
λ„€, κ½€ μž˜ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ–΄μš”.
08:24
The... One of the things that is the worst thing you can do to yourself is have negative thinking.
128
504694
5106
κ·Έ... μžμ‹ μ—κ²Œ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ΅œμ•…μ˜ 일 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ” 뢀정적인 생각을 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:29
So, so many people tell me this: "Ronnie, I can't speak English. My English is terrible."
129
509825
6696
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ €μ—κ²Œ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. "λ‘œλ‹ˆ, λ‚˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό λͺ»ν•΄μš”. 제 μ˜μ–΄λŠ” ν˜•νŽΈμ—†μ–΄μš”."
08:36
Guess what? You've just said two wonderful sentences to me,
130
516745
4075
뭔지 맞좰봐? 당신은 방금 λ‚˜μ—κ²Œ 두 개의 멋진 λ¬Έμž₯을 λ§ν–ˆκ³ 
08:40
and I know you can speak English, but
131
520845
2556
당신이 μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό 말할 수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œκ³  μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
08:43
your brain goes: "That was terrible. My pronunciation's awful."
132
523401
5149
λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ λ‘λ‡ŒλŠ” "그건 λ”μ°ν–ˆμ–΄. λ‚΄ 발음이 λ”μ°ν–ˆμ–΄."
08:48
Guess what?
133
528550
1000
뭔지 맞좰봐?
08:49
Your pronunciation may not be perfect, but at least you're trying and you will do it.
134
529550
8690
λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 발음이 μ™„λ²½ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ 적어도 당신은 λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜κ³  있고 ν•΄λ‚Ό κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:58
The more you practice it, the more you record it, the better you will become.
135
538240
4380
더 많이 μ—°μŠ΅ν•˜κ³  더 많이 λ…ΉμŒν• μˆ˜λ‘ μ‹€λ ₯이 ν–₯상될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:02
You have to take these negative ideas and get them out of your head.
136
542620
5535
μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 뢀정적인 생각을 λ¨Έλ¦¬μ—μ„œ μ œκ±°ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
09:08
This also goes along with negative people.
137
548180
6072
이것은 λ˜ν•œ 뢀정적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λ‚˜μ²˜λŸΌ "발음"을 말할 수 μ—†κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμ— 항상 당신을 κΉŽμ•„λ‚΄λ¦¬λŠ”
09:15
Maybe you have people in your life who are always putting you down because you can't
138
555128
7457
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 인생에 μžˆμ„μ§€λ„ λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€
09:22
say "pronunciation", like me.
139
562610
2870
.
09:25
[Laughs] Okay?
140
565505
1440
[μ›ƒμŒ] μ•Œμ•˜μ–΄?
09:26
Maybe you have people who say:
141
566970
2134
09:29
"Oh, no, no. Your English is awful.
142
569129
2830
"였, μ•ˆλΌ, μ•ˆλΌ. μ˜μ–΄κ°€ ν˜•νŽΈμ—†μ–΄. λ‚˜λŠ”
09:31
I can say 'pronunciation' and you can't."
143
571959
3351
'발음'이라고 말할 수 μžˆλŠ”λ° λ„ˆλŠ” λͺ»ν•΄."라고 λ§ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μžˆμ„μ§€λ„ λͺ¨λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:35
What you have to do is you have to remove these people, or if you can't physically remove
144
575310
4779
당신이 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일은 이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μ œκ±°ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 물리적으둜 μ œκ±°ν•  수 μ—†λ‹€λ©΄
09:40
them, don't listen to them.
145
580089
3210
κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 듣지 μ•ŠλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:43
Other people will always be jealous of your achievements, if they're bad people, and other
146
583324
5360
λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 그듀이 λ‚˜μœ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ©΄ 항상 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ 업적을 μ§ˆνˆ¬ν•  것이고, λ‹€λ₯Έ
09:48
people will try to bring you down to make them look better.
147
588709
3792
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 당신을 더 μ’‹κ²Œ 보이게 ν•˜κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ 당신을 λŒμ–΄λ‚΄λ¦¬λ € ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:52
So you know what we're doing to these people - ignore them, carry on.
148
592526
4248
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 무슨 짓을 ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ•„μ‹œμ£  ? λ¬΄μ‹œν•˜κ³  κ³„μ†ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
09:56
Even if it's your boss or people around you all the time, your mom and your dad, your
149
596799
4676
항상 μƒμ‚¬λ‚˜ μ£Όλ³€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄μ–΄λ„ μ—„λ§ˆ, μ•„λΉ ,
10:01
brothers or sisters, ignore them.
150
601500
2200
ν˜•μ œμžλ§€ 듀은 λ¬΄μ‹œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:03
They're not perfect, I'm not perfect, you're not perfect, but at least you're going to
151
603700
4340
그듀은 μ™„λ²½ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³ , λ‚˜λ„ μ™„λ²½ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³ , 당신도 μ™„λ²½ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ 적어도 당신은
10:08
try to do it.
152
608040
1000
κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜λ €κ³  λ…Έλ ₯ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:09
What are they doing? Nothing.
153
609040
2288
그듀은 λ¬΄μ—‡μ„ν•˜κ³  μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? 아무것도 μ•„λ‹˜.
10:12
Now, we get to the good things.
154
612279
1705
이제 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 쒋은 일에 λ„λ‹¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:14
So, you've got all these bad things and I've told you how to get rid of them, but let's
155
614009
5766
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, 당신은 이 λͺ¨λ“  λ‚˜μœ 것듀을 가지고 있고 λ‚˜λŠ” 그것듀을 μ œκ±°ν•˜λŠ” 방법을 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ§ν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ,
10:19
focus on what you can do now to make you more confident.
156
619800
3647
당신을 더 μžμ‹ κ° 있게 λ§Œλ“€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ μ§€κΈˆ ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 것에 μ§‘μ€‘ν•©μ‹œλ‹€.
10:23
First one is reward yourself.
157
623472
2850
첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” μžμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ³΄μƒν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:26
So what does this mean?
158
626457
1560
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이것은 무엇을 μ˜λ―Έν•©λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
10:28
This means if you do something well, you got a job at the job interview-woohoo-or you did...
159
628220
7760
이것은 당신이 μ–΄λ–€ 일을 μž˜ν•˜λ©΄ λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ 일자리λ₯Ό μ–»μ—ˆκ±°λ‚˜-μš°ν›„-λ˜λŠ” 당신이... 당신이
10:35
You passed your presentation and you didn't die-amazing-or you got a promotion at work,
160
635980
6890
λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ ν”„λ ˆμ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ ν†΅κ³Όν–ˆκ³  당신은 놀라지 μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€-λ˜λŠ” 당신이 직μž₯μ—μ„œ μŠΉμ§„μ„ ν–ˆλ‹€λ©΄,
10:42
go out and celebrate.
161
642870
2020
λ‚˜κ°€μ„œ μΆ•ν•˜ν•˜μ„Έμš” .
10:44
Buy yourself something you want.
162
644890
2190
μ›ν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ‚¬μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
10:47
Grab some chocolate.
163
647080
1620
초콜릿 μ’€ λ¨Ήμ–΄.
10:48
Do something that you like because you can celebrate doing something well.
164
648700
5184
당신이 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 일을 ν•˜μ„Έμš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 당신이 μ–΄λ–€ 일을 μž˜ν•œ 것을 μΆ•ν•˜ν•  수 있기 λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:53
The next thing...
165
653909
1046
λ‹€μŒμ€...
10:54
[Laughs]
166
654990
2007
[μ›ƒμŒ]
10:57
Is a fortune cookie.
167
657022
1962
포좘 μΏ ν‚€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:59
If you do something well, you can get a fortune cookie.
168
659009
6981
무언가λ₯Ό μž˜ν•˜λ©΄ 포좘 μΏ ν‚€λ₯Ό 얻을 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:05
It's free with every video that I do.
169
665990
3157
λ‚΄κ°€ ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  λΉ„λ””μ˜€λŠ” λ¬΄λ£Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:09
Good.
170
669172
1405
쒋은.
11:10
And I can't throw.
171
670784
1630
그리고 던질 수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:12
Next one: Don't compare yourself.
172
672860
3320
λ‹€μŒ: μžμ‹ μ„ λΉ„κ΅ν•˜μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
11:16
So, I've told you before that people will always say:
173
676180
3580
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 항상
11:19
"Oh, Bobby's better than you are at this." That's great.
174
679785
3900
"였, Bobbyκ°€ 당신보닀 λ‚«λ‹€ "κ³  말할 것이라고 이전에 말씀 λ“œλ ΈμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. ν›Œλ₯­ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:23
Bobby, suck it.
175
683710
1640
λ°”λΉ„, λΉ¨μ•„.
11:25
It doesn't matter if somebody's better than you are.
176
685542
3350
λˆ„κ΅°κ°€κ°€ 당신보닀 λ‚«λ‹€λŠ” 것은 μ€‘μš”ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:29
What matters is that you are yourself, you are unique, and that you're doing the best
177
689002
7153
μ€‘μš”ν•œ 것은 당신이 λ‹Ήμ‹  μžμ‹ μ΄κ³ , 당신이 λ…νŠΉν•˜κ³ , 당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” μ΅œμ„ μ„ λ‹€ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
11:36
you can do.
178
696180
1000
.
11:37
I know this might come as a surprise to some people, but I'm pretty strange and all through
179
697180
6930
이것이 μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²ŒλŠ” λ†€λΌμš΄ 일이 될 수 μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œμ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” κ½€ μ΄μƒν•˜κ³ 
11:44
my life people told me:
180
704110
1614
제 평생 λ™μ•ˆ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ €μ—κ²Œ λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:45
"Ronnie, you're weird. Ronnie, you're different."
181
705749
2690
"λ‘œλ‹ˆ, 당신은 이상해. λ‘œλ‹ˆ, 당신은 달라."
11:48
Yeah. And, who cares? Rock it.
182
708464
3978
응. 그리고 λˆ„κ°€ μ‹ κ²½ μ“°λ‚˜μš”? 흔듀어.
11:52
Okay?
183
712467
533
μ’‹μ•„μš”?
11:53
Be unique.
184
713000
863
11:53
Don't let other people bring you down.
185
713888
2100
κ³ μœ ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 당신을 μ‹€λ§μ‹œν‚€μ§€ λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
11:56
Don't listen to them.
186
716013
1539
κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 말을 듣지 λ§ˆμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
11:57
They want to make you bad.
187
717577
2046
그듀은 당신을 λ‚˜μ˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“€κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:59
You're better than that.
188
719709
1409
당신은 그것보닀 λ‚«λ‹€.
12:01
This is a really important thing that you can do every day in your life, job interviews,
189
721268
6557
이것은 직μž₯μ—μ„œ, 직μž₯μ—μ„œ, ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ, 직μž₯μ—μ„œ, λ°μ΄νŠΈμ—μ„œ, 직μž₯ λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ 맀일 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” 정말 μ€‘μš”ν•œ μΌμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
12:07
at your job, at your school, at your work, on a date.
190
727850
3310
. μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ”
12:11
If there's a girl or a boy that you like, go get 'em, tigers.
191
731160
3888
μ—¬μžμ•„μ΄λ‚˜ λ‚¨μžμ•„μ΄κ°€ 있으면 κ°€μ„œ μž‘μ•„λΌ, ν˜Έλž‘μ΄λ“€μ•„.
12:15
Grr.
192
735073
1000
κ·Έλ₯΄.
12:16
But body language is really important.
193
736098
2419
ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λ°”λ”” λž­κ·€μ§€λŠ” 정말 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:18
If you are standing...
194
738802
1681
μ„œ 있으면...
12:20
We say slumped over like this...
195
740508
2869
μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ κ΅¬λΆ€μ •ν•˜κ²Œ...
12:23
Hi.
196
743402
1421
μ•ˆλ…•.
12:25
People might think that you have a problem with your back.
197
745323
1769
μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ ν—ˆλ¦¬μ— λ¬Έμ œκ°€ μžˆλ‹€κ³  생각할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:27
But the first thing that you have to do is stand tall.
198
747117
3061
ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ°€μž₯ λ¨Όμ € ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  일은 우뚝 μ„œλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:30
When you stand tall or straight it makes the person think that you're confident.
199
750203
5790
ν‚€κ°€ ν¬κ±°λ‚˜ λ˜‘λ°”λ‘œ μ„œ 있으면 μƒλŒ€λ°©μ΄ 당신이 μžμ‹ κ°μ΄ μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:36
If you're slouched over and walking like this, people aren't going to respect you, people
200
756091
5080
μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ κ΅¬λΆ€μ •ν•˜κ²Œ κ΅¬λΆ€μ •ν•˜κ²Œ κ±·λŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 당신을 μ‘΄κ²½ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ 것이고
12:41
are not going to take you seriously.
201
761196
2506
당신을 μ§„μ§€ν•˜κ²Œ 받아듀이지 μ•Šμ„ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:43
One of the biggest and most amazing things that you can do is smile.
202
763727
8161
당신이 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” κ°€μž₯ 크고 λ†€λΌμš΄ 일 쀑 ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ” λ―Έμ†Œ μ§“λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:52
And I thought: "Ronnie, why? What...?
203
772036
2402
그리고 μ €λŠ” μƒκ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. "λ‘œλ‹ˆ, μ™œ? 뭐...?
12:54
What are you talking about? Why do you...?
204
774463
1636
무슨 μ†Œλ¦¬μ•Ό? μ™œ 그래...?
12:56
Why does smiling help you?"
205
776124
1820
λ―Έμ†Œκ°€ 도움이 λ˜λŠ” μ΄μœ κ°€ 뭐야?"
12:57
It will instantly change someone's face from: "Oh, I'm going to kill you", to:
206
777969
5371
"였, λ‚΄κ°€ 널 죽일거야"μ—μ„œ
13:03
"Hey, this is kind of good".
207
783365
2045
"이봐, 이건 μ’€ μ’‹μ•„"둜 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ 얼꡴을 μ¦‰μ‹œ λ°”κΏ€ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:05
So if you feel uncomfortable, or if you feel unconfident or not confident,
208
785410
4990
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 마음이 λΆˆνŽΈν•˜κ±°λ‚˜, μžμ‹ μ΄ μ—†κ±°λ‚˜ μžμ‹ μ΄ μ—†λ‹€λ©΄
13:10
all you have to do is smile.
209
790595
2605
μ›ƒκΈ°λ§Œ ν•˜λ©΄ λœλ‹€.
13:13
I know it's hard, but try it.
210
793200
2283
μ–΄λ ΅λ‹€λŠ” κ±Έ μ•Œμ§€λ§Œ μ‹œλ„ν•΄ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
13:15
Go down the street tomorrow, next day, today, look at the people and smile at them.
211
795560
5841
내일도, κ·Έ λ‹€μŒλ‚ λ„, μ˜€λŠ˜λ„ 길을 걸으며 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ 보고 웃어라.
13:21
You're going to see they will smile back at you, and you will get a really, really cool
212
801426
4544
당신은 그듀이 λ‹Ήμ‹ μ—κ²Œ λ―Έμ†Œλ₯Ό 지을 것이고 당신은 κ·Έκ²ƒμœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„° 정말 정말 멋진 λŠλ‚Œμ„ 받을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
13:25
feeling from that.
213
805970
1928
.
13:28
Social experiment number seven: Smile at people, see what happens.
214
808144
4880
μ‚¬νšŒμ  μ‹€ν—˜ 7번: μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ―Έμ†Œλ₯Ό 짓고 무슨 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ”μ§€ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
13:33
It makes the other people feel very comfortable, very relaxed, and it makes them like you.
215
813049
6880
그것은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ 맀우 νŽΈμ•ˆν•˜κ³  νŽΈμ•ˆν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“€κ³  당신을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“­λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:41
A very important thing, I've told you this before: You got to look the people in the eye.
216
821020
5781
맀우 μ€‘μš”ν•œ 것은 μ œκ°€ 이전에 λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦° λ°” μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€ . μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ λˆˆμ„ λ˜‘λ°”λ‘œ 쳐닀봐야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜
13:46
If you don't look them in the eye, if you look down or if you're looking at the sky
217
826826
5449
λˆˆμ„ λ˜‘λ°”λ‘œ 쳐닀보지 μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜, μ•„λž˜λ₯Ό λ‚΄λ €λ‹€λ³΄κ±°λ‚˜, ν•˜λŠ˜
13:52
or the ceiling, people aren't too sure what you're doing.
218
832300
4740
μ΄λ‚˜ 천μž₯을 바라보고 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 당신이 무엇을 ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”μ§€ ν™•μ‹ ν•˜μ§€ λͺ»ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:57
I was told a really, really awful story by someone that ladies in either Venezuela or
219
837199
8821
μ €λŠ” λ² λ„€μˆ˜μ—˜λΌλ‚˜ μ½œλ‘¬λΉ„μ•„μ˜ 여성듀이
14:06
Colombia, if they're married or with someone who's a guy, they're not really allowed to
220
846020
9200
κ²°ν˜Όν–ˆκ±°λ‚˜ λ‚¨μžμΈ μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 있으면
14:15
look at other men in the eye.
221
855220
3071
λ‹€λ₯Έ λ‚¨μžμ˜ λˆˆμ„ μ³λ‹€λ³΄λŠ” 것이 정말 ν—ˆμš©λ˜μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λŠ” 정말 정말 λ”μ°ν•œ 이야기λ₯Ό λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ‘œλΆ€ν„° λ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:18
Are you absolutely joking?
222
858316
2741
당신은 μ ˆλŒ€μ μœΌλ‘œ λ†λ‹΄μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ?
14:21
So if I'm a married woman, I cannot look another man in the eyes?
223
861082
4833
그럼 λ‚΄κ°€ μœ λΆ€λ…€λΌλ©΄ λ‹€λ₯Έ λ‚¨μžμ˜ λˆˆμ„ λ˜‘λ°”λ‘œ 쳐닀볼 수 없단 말인가?
14:25
Oh, Ronnie's not having that.
224
865940
1920
였, λ‘œλ‹ˆλŠ” κ·Έκ±Έ 가지고 μžˆμ§€ μ•Šμ•„.
14:27
I'm coming to Colombia and Venezuela, and I'm looking at all of you guys in the eyes.
225
867860
3781
μ €λŠ” μ½œλ‘¬λΉ„μ•„μ™€ λ² λ„€μˆ˜μ—˜λΌμ— κ°€λŠ”λ° μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ λͺ¨λ‘μ˜ λˆˆμ„ 바라보고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:31
It's a form of respect.
226
871666
1640
쑴경의 ν•œ ν˜•νƒœμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:33
Women, if you don't look men in the eyes or anyone in the eyes, it tells them that you
227
873331
5644
μ—¬μžλ“€μ΄μ—¬, λ‚¨μžλ“€μ˜ λˆˆμ„ 쳐닀보지 μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ˜ λˆˆμ„ 쳐닀보지 μ•ŠλŠ”λ‹€λ©΄ 그것은 당신이 κ°•ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ•„λ‹ˆλΌλŠ” 것을 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•΄μ£ΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
14:39
are not a strong person.
228
879000
1618
.
14:40
Lift up your eyes and look them straight in the eyes.
229
880643
2238
λˆˆμ„ λ“€μ–΄ λˆˆμ„ λ˜‘λ°”λ‘œ λ°”λΌλ³΄μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
14:42
You got it, girl.
230
882906
1000
μ•Œκ² μ–΄, 여보.
14:43
You go, girlfriend.
231
883931
1660
당신은 κ°„λ‹€, μ—¬μž 친ꡬ.
14:45
So eye contact is very important.
232
885616
1795
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 눈맞좀이 맀우 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:47
And speak slowly.
233
887436
3934
그리고 천천히 λ§ν•˜μ„Έμš”.
14:51
Ronnie's not very good at this.
234
891498
1641
λ‘œλ‹ˆλŠ” 이것에 λŠ₯μˆ™ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:53
But especially if English is not your first language, or you're doing a presentation,
235
893501
5869
ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 특히 μ˜μ–΄κ°€ λͺ¨κ΅­μ–΄κ°€ μ•„λ‹ˆκ±°λ‚˜
14:59
in a job interview-I know you're nervous and you're like:
236
899370
3331
ꡬ직 λ©΄μ ‘μ—μ„œ ν”„λ¦¬μ  ν…Œμ΄μ…˜μ„ ν•˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λ©΄ κΈ΄μž₯ν•˜κ³ 
15:02
"La-la-la-la-la", you want to get this information out-try and speak slowly.
237
902726
4283
"La-la-la-la-la"라고 말할 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 이 정보λ₯Ό μ‹œλ„ν•˜κ³  천천히 λ§ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
15:07
This is where you're going to record your voice and you're going to practice.
238
907009
4601
μ—¬κΈ°μ—μ„œ λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬λ₯Ό λ…ΉμŒν•˜κ³  μ—°μŠ΅ν•  κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:11
When I was a child and I had to do speeches, my parents would make me stand and recite
239
911610
5789
λ‚΄κ°€ 어렸을 λ•Œ 연섀을 ν•΄μ•Ό ν•  λ•Œ, λΆ€λͺ¨λ‹˜μ€ λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ„œμ„œ
15:17
the speech or say the speech many times.
240
917399
2432
연섀을 λ‚­λ…ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜ 연섀을 μ—¬λŸ¬ 번 ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:19
And my mom would always say: "Ronnie, slow down!"
241
919856
2609
그리고 우리 μ—„λ§ˆλŠ” 항상 "λ‘œλ‹ˆ, 천천히! "라고 λ§μ”€ν•˜μ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:22
I'd be like: "Ah-la-la-la."
242
922490
1180
λ‚˜λŠ” "Ah-la-la-la"와 같을 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:23
So, speak slowly.
243
923670
1289
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆ 천천히 λ§ν•˜μ„Έμš”. μ˜μ‚¬μ†Œν†΅μ—
15:24
It'll just help with communication.
244
924959
2455
도움이 될 λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€ .
15:27
Last one and I want you to do this now.
245
927439
2975
λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰μœΌλ‘œ μ§€κΈˆ 이 μž‘μ—…μ„ μˆ˜ν–‰ν•˜μ‹œκΈ° λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:30
Okay? Grab a pen, grab a pencil, I don't know.
246
930439
2821
μ’‹μ•„μš”? νŽœμ„ μž‘μ•„λΌ, 연필을 μž‘μ•„λΌ, λ‚˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ₯Έλ‹€. 당신이 ν›Œλ₯­ν•œ 이유
15:33
Create a list of why you are great.
247
933260
5819
에 λŒ€ν•œ λͺ©λ‘μ„ λ§Œλ“œμ‹­μ‹œμ˜€ .
15:39
Why are you amazing?
248
939956
1746
μ™œ λ†€λžμŠ΅λ‹ˆκΉŒ? μžμ‹ μ— λŒ€ν•΄
15:41
What things do you actually like about yourself?
249
941727
4401
μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜λŠ” 점은 λ¬΄μ—‡μž…λ‹ˆκΉŒ ?
15:46
So maybe you're really good at playing tennis, or maybe you're a fantastic soufflΓ© maker,
250
946232
6128
κ·Έλž˜μ„œ ν…Œλ‹ˆμŠ€λ₯Ό 정말 잘 μΉ  μˆ˜λ„ 있고 ν™˜μƒμ μΈ μˆ˜ν”Œλ ˆ 메이컀일 μˆ˜λ„ 있고
15:52
maybe you can make a mean margarita.
251
952385
3581
λΉ„μ—΄ν•œ λ§ˆκ°€λ¦¬νƒ€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ“€ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:55
Write that down.
252
955991
1239
그것을 적어 λ‘μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€. μžμ‹ μ—
15:57
Anything that you like about yourself, write it down in the list.
253
957255
4000
λŒ€ν•΄ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“œλŠ” 것이 있으면 λͺ©λ‘μ— 적어 λ‘μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.
16:01
If you're having a bad day or a hard time, or you just feel terrible, grab the list and
254
961477
6940
기뢄이 쒋지 μ•Šκ±°λ‚˜ νž˜λ“  μ‹œκ°„μ„ 보내고 μžˆκ±°λ‚˜ κ·Έμ € 기뢄이 쒋지 μ•Šλ‹€λ©΄ λͺ©λ‘μ„ 집어보고
16:08
look at it, and go: "Oh, do you know what actually?
255
968442
2978
"μ•„, 그게 뭔지 μ•Œμ•„?
16:11
My left eyelash is quite cute and this is a damn cute finger."
256
971420
6430
λ‚΄ μ™Όμͺ½ μ†λˆˆμΉμ€ κ½€ κ·€μ—½κ³  이건 μ  μž₯ κ·€μ—¬μš΄ 손가락."
16:17
I want you guys to be confident when you speak English
257
977850
3605
μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ˜μ–΄λ₯Ό 말할 λ•Œ μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°–κ³ 
16:21
and I want you to be confident in your life,
258
981480
2925
삢에 μžμ‹ κ°μ„ κ°–κΈ°λ₯Ό λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€
16:24
so go out, grab life by the balls.
259
984430
2631
.
16:27
See ya.
260
987086
662
λ‹€μŒμ— 봐.

Original video on YouTube.com
이 μ›Ήμ‚¬μ΄νŠΈ 정보

이 μ‚¬μ΄νŠΈλŠ” μ˜μ–΄ ν•™μŠ΅μ— μœ μš©ν•œ YouTube λ™μ˜μƒμ„ μ†Œκ°œν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ „ 세계 졜고의 μ„ μƒλ‹˜λ“€μ΄ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μˆ˜μ—…μ„ 보게 될 κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. 각 λ™μ˜μƒ νŽ˜μ΄μ§€μ— ν‘œμ‹œλ˜λŠ” μ˜μ–΄ μžλ§‰μ„ 더블 ν΄λ¦­ν•˜λ©΄ κ·Έκ³³μ—μ„œ λ™μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. λΉ„λ””μ˜€ μž¬μƒμ— 맞좰 μžλ§‰μ΄ μŠ€ν¬λ‘€λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ˜κ²¬μ΄λ‚˜ μš”μ²­μ΄ μžˆλŠ” 경우 이 문의 양식을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜μ—¬ λ¬Έμ˜ν•˜μ‹­μ‹œμ˜€.

https://forms.gle/WvT1wiN1qDtmnspy7