How I get out of awkward conversations

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English with Ronnie


ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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Has this ever happened to you? No, don't lie. Maybe you're at a party. Have you
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ตทใ“ใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ๅ˜˜ใ‚’ใคใ‹ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:09
ever been to a party? Or maybe you're having a conversation with someone that
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ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€้“ใงๅถ็„ถไผšใฃใŸ ่ชฐใ‹ใจไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ
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you've bumped into, which means met by chance on the street โ€” hello โ€” and they
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00:23
don't stop talking. Now, I have friends like this. And sometimes I'm like: "Oh,
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ไปŠใ€็งใซใฏใ“ใ‚“ใชๅ‹้” ใŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆ™‚ใ€…็งใฏใ“ใ†่จ€ใ„ใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€
00:32
do you know what? I have an extra hour and a half." I would love to listen to
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ็งใซใฏไฝ™ๅˆ†ใช1 ๆ™‚้–“ๅŠใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
00:36
them talk because they're fun, amazing, wonderful people. Then there's other
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆฅฝใ—ใใฆใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใใฆใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ไบบใŸใกใชใฎใงใ€ใœใฒ่ฉฑใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใฟใŸใ„ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ
00:41
people that, when you talk to them, you wish you had not started the
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ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ ๅง‹ใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใ‚ˆใ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ†ไบบใ‚‚ใ„
00:45
conversation because maybe they're super boring, or what they're talking about
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ใพใ™
00:50
makes you angry, or whatever. Maybe they're just creepy. Maybe you're in a
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ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ† ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŸใ ไธๆฐ—ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
00:55
bar and someone is bothering you; trying to hit on you; trying to pick you up,
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ใƒใƒผใซใ„ใฆใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‚ฉใพใ›ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ”ปๆ’ƒใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใซ่กŒใ“ใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€
01:01
and you just want them to go away, but maybe you're too polite to say anything.
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ใŸใ ็ซ‹ใกๅŽปใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใฎ ใงใ™ใŒใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใŽใฆไฝ•ใ‚‚่จ€ใˆใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
01:07
Well, here's where Ronnie is going to help you. How to get outta... and
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ใ•ใฆใ€ใ“ใ“ใงใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใŒ ใŠๆ‰‹ไผใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใฉใ†ใ‚„ใฃใฆๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ใ‹...ใใ—ใฆ
01:13
"outta" is how we say: "out of". So, when I'm speaking naturally, I'm not
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ใ€ŒๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ใ€ใฏ็งใŸใกใŒ่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™๏ผšใ€ŒๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ใ€. ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ ใ€็งใŒ่‡ช็„ถใซ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใฏใ€
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going to say: "Get out of. How to get out of". I would say: "How to get
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ใ€ŒๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€‚ๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใ€ใจใฏ่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ็งใฏ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†๏ผšใ€ŒๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ๆ–นๆณ•
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outta". And this is a new word, and you think: "Oh, Ronnie, you spelled
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ใ€ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆ–ฐใ—ใ„่จ€่‘‰ใง ใ€ใ€Œใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใ€
01:29
'situations' wrong." But, actually, I haven't. It's: "shituations". So,
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ใ€Žใ‚ทใƒใƒฅใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ€ใฎใคใฅใ‚ŠใŒ้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏใ€็ง ใฏใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ€Œใ‚ทใƒใƒฅใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
01:36
"shit"; "shituations" are bad situations, because "shit" means, like,
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ใ€ŒใŸใ‚ใ”ใจใ€; ใ€Œใ‚ทใƒใƒฅใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ€ใฏๆ‚ชใ„ ็Šถๆณใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€Œใ‚ทใƒƒใƒˆใ€ใฏใ€
01:41
a bad thing โ€” obviously. Unless you're into that; that's fine, but whatever.
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ๆ˜Žใ‚‰ใ‹ใซๆ‚ชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใชใ„้™ใ‚Š ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ„ใ„ใ‘ใฉใ€ใฉใ†ใงใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใ€‚
01:47
So, how to get out of shituations or bad situations, or, you know... how to end a
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ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ทใƒใƒฅใ‚จใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚„ๆ‚ชใ„็Šถๆณใ‹ใ‚‰ๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ๆ–นๆณ• ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹... ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ไบ†ใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•
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conversation. People think it's rude to end the conversation. I disagree. If
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. ไบบใ€…ใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใฏๅคฑ็คผใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:02
someone is yapping at you for ages โ€” which means a long time โ€” and what
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒไฝ•ๅนดใซใ‚‚ใ‚ใŸใฃใฆใ€ใคใพใ‚Š้•ทใ„้–“ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ€’้ณดใฃ
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they're talking about is boring: "Hey, I... Do you know what? I just can't be
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ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ†…ๅฎนใŒใคใพใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ:
02:11
bothered to stand here or sit here, and listen to you anymore; I'm leaving."
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ใ€ ใ‚‚ใ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚็งใฏๅŽปใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
02:16
Okay? But there are polite ways to do it, and there are more โ€” shall we say โ€”
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใŸใ‚ใฎไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใŸใ‚ใฎ
02:21
rude ways to do it. People are... people are worried that they would offend the
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ๅคฑ็คผใชๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚‚ใฃใจใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใฏ... ไบบใ€… ใฏใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’้›ขใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงไป–ใฎไบบใ€…ใฎๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใ‚’ๅฎณใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใจๅฟƒ้…ใ—ใฆใ„
02:30
other people by leaving the conversation. I disagree. It's your
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ใพใ™. ๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
02:36
time, it's your energy, it's your day, so I don't think it's rude. You can do
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ๆ™‚้–“ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚จใƒใƒซใ‚ฎใƒผใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธ€ๆ—ฅใช ใฎใงใ€ๅคฑ็คผใ ใจใฏๆ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
02:41
it in a rude fashion. Cartman, thank you; you can go: "Screw you guys; I'm
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ๅคฑ็คผใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™. ใ‚ซใƒผใƒˆใƒžใƒณใ€ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่กŒใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใŸใกใ‚’ใญใ˜่พผใฟใพใ™ใ€‚็งใฏ
02:46
out of here." So, basically, he's just saying, like: "Hmm, I'm leaving." I've
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ใ“ใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‡บใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใซใ€ๅฝผใฏ ใ€Œใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€็งใฏๅŽปใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใพใ—
02:51
done that. I've done that; I was at a party and some guy's: "Ma-ma-ma" or some
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ใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๅ‚ๅŠ ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€็”ทๆ€งใฎใ€Œใƒžใƒžใƒžใƒžใ€ใพใŸใฏ
02:56
girl's: "Ma-ma" โ€” I'm like: "Bye!" And I just leave, because I don't want to talk
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ๅฅณใฎๅญใฎใ€Œใƒžใƒžใ€โ€”็งใฏใ€Œใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰๏ผใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€็งใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใŸใ ๅŽปใ‚Š
03:00
to them. Do they care? No. Do they get offended? No. Do they notice? I don't
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆฐ—ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ ๆฐ—ๅˆ†ใ‚’ๅฎณใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆฐ—ใฅใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„
03:06
know. I'm gone. I just don't care. So, please don't think that you have to
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ใ€‚ ็งใฏ่กŒใฃใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏๆฐ—ใซใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใชใ„ใฎ ใซ
03:11
stand, or sit and listen to someone yabber on about something, if you're not
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็ซ‹ใฃใŸใ‚ŠๅบงใฃใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆใ—ใ‚ƒในใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใฏๆ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
03:17
enjoying it. It's cool to excuse yourself from a conversation; it's cool
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ใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‹ใ‚‰ๆŠœใ‘ๅ‡บใ™ใฎใฏใ‚ฏใƒผใƒซ ใงใ™ใ€‚
03:22
to end the conversation.
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ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ‚ฏใƒผใƒซใงใ™ใ€‚
03:24
One really good technique is... you can use this on the phone, on the internet โ€”
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้žๅธธใซๅ„ชใ‚ŒใŸใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใฎ 1 ใคใฏ ใ€้›ป่ฉฑใ‚„ใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒผใƒใƒƒใƒˆใงใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ
03:32
what you can do with people is make future plans. So, let's say you're
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ใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ไบบใ€…ใจไธ€็ท’ใซใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ ๅฐ†ๆฅใฎ่จˆ็”ปใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€
03:35
talking to your Mom and you're like: "Oh". Your mom's talking to you, and
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใŠๆฏใ•ใ‚“ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใ ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใŠๆฏใ•ใ‚“ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใฆใ€
03:38
you're like: "Well, Mom. Okay, so I'll see you, like, tomorrow at seven", and
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
03:43
that automatically โ€” it cues the person โ€” I don't know; some magic โ€” to know:
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ใ“ใ†่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ้ญ”ๆณ•โ€”็ŸฅใฃใฆใŠใในใใ“ใจ๏ผš
03:49
"Oh, this person wants to end the conversation." But it's never that โ€” I
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ“ใฎไบบใฏไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆ ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆ โ€” ็งใซ
03:55
don't know โ€” obvious. We just automatically, in our brain, think: "Oh,
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ใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ โ€” ๆ˜Ž็™ฝใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ ่‡ชๅ‹•็š„ใซใ€่„ณๅ†…ใงใ“ใ†่€ƒใˆ
03:58
yeah, okay. Yeah, tomorrow. Oh, let's do it." And then the conversation ends.
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ไผš่ฉฑใฏ็ต‚ไบ†ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
04:02
It's perfect. So, you're talking to someone; you say: "Ah, you...? Do you
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ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ•ใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆ ใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่จ€ใ†๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ...? ไฝ•ใ‚’
04:06
know what? I'll see you at work tomorrow." Like: "Yeah, okay โ€”
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็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ๆ˜Žๆ—ฅไป•ไบ‹ใงไผšใ„ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ใ€ ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ: ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ โ€”
04:09
tomorrow", and then they forget about what they're talking about, and you're
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ๆ˜Žๆ—ฅใ€ใ€ใใ—ใฆ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใ€
04:13
out of there. You say: "Bye-bye. See you later." This is fun at parties. Do you
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ“ใ‹ใ‚‰้›ขใ‚Œใพใ™. ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่จ€ใ†๏ผšใ€Œใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ใพใŸ ใญใ€‚ใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใงๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:20
have, like, uncomfortable staff parties, or โ€”I don't know โ€” cocktail parties?
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ไธๅฟซใชใ‚นใ‚ฟใƒƒใƒ• ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚„ใ€ ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ใ‚ซใ‚ฏใƒ†ใƒซ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?
04:28
Where are all the cocks? And what happens is maybe there's a group of
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ใ™ในใฆใฎใ‚ณใƒƒใ‚ฏใฏใฉใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹? ใใ—ใฆ
04:35
people talking that you say: "Oh, those are the fun people over there; I want to
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ€…ใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ ใพใ›
04:38
talk to them." And you're stuck talking to Chatty Kathy. And here's a great
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ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŠใ—ใ‚ƒในใ‚Šใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚ทใƒผใจ่ฉฑใ™ใฎใซ่กŒใ่ฉฐใพใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ“ใซ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„
04:45
technique: You grab another victim or person. So, if there's another person
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ใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ๅˆฅใฎ็Š ็‰ฒ่€…ใพใŸใฏ ไบบใ‚’ใคใ‹ใฟใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
04:51
walking by in the conversation, you physically grab them... whoa, careful.
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ไผš่ฉฑไธญใซๅˆฅใฎไบบใŒ ้€šใ‚Šใ‹ใ‹ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€็‰ฉ็†็š„ใซใคใ‹ใฟใพใ™... ใŠใฃใจใ€ๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
04:55
Okay? Don't wanna get assaulted or anything, but you can say: "Oh, hey!
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ๆšด่กŒใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใ ใชใ„ใ‘ใฉใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ๏ผ
05:00
Kevin! Come here!" And Kevin's like: -"No, I don't want to go over there."
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ใ‚ฑใƒ“ใƒณ๏ผใ“ใ“ใซๆฅใฆ๏ผใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ฑใƒ“ใƒณ ใฏใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใ‚ใใ“ใซ่กŒใใŸใใชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
05:04
-"Ke-... Kev-... Kevin! Have you met Kathy?" and then Kevin's like: "Oh,
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-ใ€ŒKe-... Kev-... ใ‚ฑใƒ“ใƒณ! ใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚ทใƒผใซไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ฑใƒ“ใƒณใฏใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็ฅžๆง˜ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
05:08
God." So, then you can put Kevin there to speak to Kathy. And, you... again,
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ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ฑใƒ“ใƒณใ‚’ใใ“ใซ็ฝฎใ„ใฆ ใ€ใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚ทใƒผใจ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ...ใพใŸใ€
05:15
you can leave. So, grabbing another victim or two. It's always good to have
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅŽปใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ๅˆฅใฎ ็Š ็‰ฒ่€…ใ‚’1ใคใ‹2ใคใคใ‹ใฟใพใ™ใ€‚
05:19
a group of people come up: "Oh, guys, come here! Have you met Kathy?" And they
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ใ€Œใฟใ‚“ใชใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซๆฅใฆ๏ผใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚ทใƒผใซไผšใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚ใ‚‹๏ผŸใ€ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ
05:23
all have, but that's fine still. "Oh, yeah, yeah. Come here, come here." So,
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ใ™ในใฆๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใงใ‚‚ๅ•้กŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ‚ใ€ ใใ†ใใ†ใใ†ใ€‚ใ“ใฃใกๆฅใ„ใ“ใฃใกๆฅใ„ใ€ ใใ‚Œใง
05:27
then you exit. Exit; enter; exit. You exit the conversation. And Kathy has
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ‡บใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ‡บๅฃ; ๅ…ฅๅŠ›; ๅ‡บๅฃใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ไบ†ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚ทใƒผใซใฏ
05:32
another person to talk to, so it's a great technique. I like this one โ€”
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่ฉฑใ™็›ธๆ‰‹ใŒใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ไบบใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใƒ†ใ‚ฏใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™โ€”
05:37
mm-hmm. This one, I'm not too fond of because it's like: You actually might
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ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€็งใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šๅฅฝใใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Š
05:41
have to see the person again, so be careful how you use that one. Okay? I
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ใพใ›ใ‚“. ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ
05:47
use this a lot; I like this. So... and my Mom taught me this; thanks, Mom.
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็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅฅฝใใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰...ใใ—ใฆ ็งใฎๆฏใฏ็งใซใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ‚Œใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใƒžใƒžใ€‚
05:54
Favourite phrase on the phone: "I'll let you go." Go where? I don't have any
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้›ป่ฉฑใงใฎๅฅฝใใช่จ€่‘‰๏ผšใ€Œ่กŒใ‹ใ› ใฆใ‚ใ’ใ‚‹ใ€ ใฉใ“ใธ่กŒใ๏ผŸ ่กŒใๅ ดใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›
06:00
place to go. But you're basically giving the person permission to hang up, like:
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ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅŸบๆœฌ็š„ใซ็›ธๆ‰‹ใซ้›ป่ฉฑ ใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹่จฑๅฏใ‚’ไธŽใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ
06:05
"Okay, well, I'll let you go now because, you know... we have nothing
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06:10
else to talk about." And it kind of puts the pressure on them, like: "Oh, yes,
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ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใฏใ„ใ€
06:14
yes, I'm busy. No, I have to go." Probably don't have a plan after, but it
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ใฏใ„ใ€ๅฟ™ใ—ใ„ใ€‚ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€่กŒใ‹ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใ‚ใ‚‹็จฎใฎใƒ—ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฃใƒผใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŠใใ‚‰ใใใฎๅพŒใฎ่จˆ็”ปใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
06:20
puts the onus, as we say, or the responsibility on them. There's a couple
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็งใŸใกใŒ่จ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ่ฒ ๆ‹…ใ€ใพใŸใฏ่ฒฌไปปใ‚’่ฒ ใ‚ใ›ใพใ™. ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซไฝฟใˆใ‚‹ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใŒไป–ใซใ‚‚ใ„ใใค
06:24
more phrases like this that you can use. If you make it, or you make the
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ใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’ไฝœใ‚‹ใ‹
06:30
situation about them. Oh, wow, we're standing outside, having a smoke or
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ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ†ใ‚ใƒผใ€็งใŸใกใฏ ๅค–ใซ็ซ‹ใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ฟใƒใ‚ณใ‚’ๅธใฃใŸใ‚Š
06:37
whatever: "Oh, do you know what, Steve? You must be cold. You know... I... I
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ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™:ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใ‚นใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒ–? ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฏ’ใ„ใซ้•ใ„ใชใ„. ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹... ็งใฏ.
06:42
won't keep you out in the cold too long; that... I'm gonna go inside", and the
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้•ทใ™ใŽใ‚‹; ใใ‚Œใฏ...็งใฏไธญใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€ใจใใฎ
06:46
person's like: "Oh, boy. I am cold. Thank you." Or, you know... they be
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ไบบใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็”ทใฎๅญใ€‚ๅฏ’ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ใ€ ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹...ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
06:50
Canadian, and they can say: -"I know, you know... I'm Canadian. I'm not cold."
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ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ไบบใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™๏ผš-ใ€Œ็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹...็งใฏใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ไบบใงใ™ใ€‚็งใฏๅฏ’ใใชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
06:57
-"Oh, you must be hot, okay. Well, I have to leave now. Shit, that didn't
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-ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๆš‘ใ„ใซ้•ใ„ใชใ„ใ€‚ๅคงไธˆๅคซใ€‚ใพใ‚ใ€็ง ใฏไปŠๅ‡บ็™บใ—ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„.ใŸใ‚ใ”ใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ†ใพใใ„ใ‹ใชใ‹ใฃ
07:00
work. What am I going to do?" So, you can always use... think about them. You
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ใŸ.็งใฏไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ไฝฟใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™...ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใซใคใ„ใฆ่€ƒใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
07:04
say: "I won't keep you." That's a perfect one because you're not really
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่จ€ใ†๏ผšใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟๆŒใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
07:10
giving them a chance to say: "Oh, no, it's fine". "I won't keep you", which,
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ๅคงไธˆๅคซใงใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ๆฉŸไผšใ‚’ไธŽใˆใฆใ„ใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŒ็’งใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ . ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ไฟๆŒใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใ€
07:16
"I'm going to keep you in my possession" โ€” it doesn't mean that; it just means,
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ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎๆ‰€ๆœ‰็‰ฉใซไฟๆŒใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€ โ€”ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏๅ˜ใซ
07:19
like: "I'll let you go; I won't keep you. I won't... I won't keep talking to
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ใ€ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๆ‰‹ๆ”พใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚็งใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็ถญๆŒใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ—็ถšใ‘
07:23
you", which is, like, you're saying it, like: "Oh, do you know what? I'm not
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚ ๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎ๏ผŸ็งใฏ
07:27
gonna keep talking to you", and people think that's polite; they're like: "Oh,
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ใ‚ใชใŸใจ่ฉฑใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใใ—ใฆไบบใ€… ใฏใใ‚ŒใŒ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
07:31
cool. Okay. Wow, that's really nice of her." Meanwhile, you're like: "Dodged
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ใ€‚ ใใฎ้–“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ€Œ
07:36
that bullet; I'm out here."
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ใ‚ใฎๅผพไธธใ‚’ใ‹ใ‚ใ—ใŸใ€‚็งใฏใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:39
If you're talking on the phone, it's a little easier; a little easier. "Oh...
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้›ป่ฉฑใง่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ ๅฐ‘ใ—็ฐกๅ˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฐ‘ใ—็ฐกๅ˜ใซใ€‚ ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚โ€ฆ
07:44
oh, my cell phone โ€” the reception is terrible. Sorry, I gotta go." You can
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ใ‚ใ‚ใ€็งใฎๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑโ€”ๅ—ไฟก็Šถๆ…‹ใŒ ใฒใฉใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€่กŒใ‹ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€
07:49
always blame it on your battery. "Oh, yeah. Yeah, sorry, Dad, my battery's
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ใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ใƒใƒƒใƒ†ใƒชใƒผใฎใ›ใ„ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ†ใ‚“ใ€ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใญใ€ใŠ็ˆถใ•ใ‚“ใ€้›ปๆฑ ใŒ
07:54
just gonna di-..." Make sure you hang up, though. Die, right? You go: "di-..."
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ๅˆ‡ใ‚Œใใ†โ€ฆใ€ ใงใ‚‚ใ€ๅฟ…ใš้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใฃ ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ๆญปใซใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่กŒใ๏ผšใ€Œใƒ‡ใ‚ฃ...ใ€
07:59
Be dramatic. People love the drama. So, if you have a cellphone, or a computer;
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ๅŠ‡็š„ใซใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใฏใƒ‰ใƒฉใƒžใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใพใŸใฏใ‚ณใƒณใƒ”ใƒฅใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚’ใŠๆŒใกใฎๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€
08:05
if you're on Skype, or Zoom, or whatever โ€” and you just want to leave that
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Skype ใ‚„ Zoom ใชใฉใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ใใฎไผš่ญฐใ‹ใ‚‰้€€ๅ‡บใ—ใŸใ„
08:10
meeting: "Do you know what? I'm sorry, my... my laptop battery just died.
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ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ๆฌกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™
08:15
Yeah." And the next day, and you're just like: "I lost the plug, it seems." Yeah,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ็ฟŒๆ—ฅใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใพใ‚‹ใงใ€Œใƒ—ใƒฉใ‚ฐใ‚’ใชใใ—ใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใ ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ†ใ‚“
08:20
that's fine. But, yeah, any excuse like that; any electronic excuse, like: "Oh,
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ใ€ใ„ใ„ใ‚ˆใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใˆใˆใ€ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช่จ€ใ„่จณใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€
08:25
we lost connection; doesn't work." I do this one, and I do it because it's real
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ๆŽฅ็ถšใŒๅˆ‡ใ‚ŒใŸใ€‚ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‹ใชใ„ใ€ใชใฉใฎ้›ปๅญ็š„ใช่จ€ใ„่จณใ€‚ ็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ— ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚ŒใŒ็พๅฎŸ
08:31
and it's true, but maybe if you weren't in the position that I am โ€” make a...
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ใงใ‚ใ‚Š็œŸๅฎŸใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒ็งใฎ็ซ‹ๅ ดใซใ„ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใชใ‚‰โ€”ไฝœใ‚‹...
08:36
make a mental time limit. So, for example, you're at work and you have a
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็ฒพ็ฅž็š„ใชๆ™‚้–“ๅˆถ้™ใ‚’ไฝœใ‚Šใพใ™. ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€5 ๅˆ†้–“ใฎไผ‘ๆ†ฉใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™
08:41
five-minute break. And you know that a person at your work is super-talkative,
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ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ทๅ ดใฎไบบใฏ่ถ…ใŠใ—ใ‚ƒในใ‚Šใง
08:46
and they're going to talk to you on your five-minute break. So, you go: "Okay,
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ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ 5 ๅˆ†้–“ใฎไผ‘ๆ†ฉๆ™‚้–“ใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ“ใ†่จ€ใ„ใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€
08:51
well, one minute I can stand talking to that person." So, "Oh, do you know what?
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ใพใ‚ใ€1ๅˆ†้–“ใ€ใใฎไบบใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?
08:57
I have one minute till my break's over; what did you want to talk about?" And
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ไผ‘ๆ†ฉใŒ็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใพใงใ‚ใจ 1 ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ‹?ใ€ ใใ—ใฆ
09:02
they go: "Ooh, a minute to talk โ€” perfect." So, you actually set a time
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ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ“ใ†่จ€ใ„ใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใใ‚Œ - ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ•ใ‚งใ‚ฏใƒˆใ€ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซๅˆถ้™ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’
09:07
limit. The way that... that my life is, my work is, is that I teach people
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่จญๅฎšใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฎไบบ็”Ÿใ€ ็งใฎไป•ไบ‹ใฏใ€ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใงไบบใ€…ใซๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
09:12
online โ€” www.EnglishWithRonnie.com โ€” and I have... how long is it? Fifteen
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ใงใ™ โ€” www.EnglishWithRonnie.com โ€” ใใ—ใฆ ็งใฏโ€ฆ ใฉใฎใใ‚‰ใ„ใฎๆœŸ้–“ใงใ™ใ‹?
09:17
minutes in between each lesson. So, sometimes I, you know... I have to go
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ๅ„ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎ้–“ใซ 15 ๅˆ†ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ๆ™‚ใ€…็งใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹... ็งใฏใŠใ—ใฃใ“ใซ่กŒใ‹
09:22
pee, and I gotta get a drink; and my friend will call and go: "Hey, Ronnie!
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ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏ้ฃฒใฟ็‰ฉใ‚’่ฒทใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚ ็งใฎ ๅ‹ไบบใฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆ่กŒใใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œใญใˆใ€ใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผ๏ผ
09:27
What's up?" I'm like: "No! I have fifteen... I have twelve minutes. What's
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ใฉใ†ใ—ใŸใฎ๏ผŸใ€ ็งใฏใ€ใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆ! 15 ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™... 12 ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใฉใ†ใ—ใŸ
09:32
up?" And I know โ€” it's not rude; it's just life, but you can do that, too.
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ใฎ?ใ€ ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™โ€”ๅคฑ็คผใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ใŸใ ใฎไบบ็”Ÿใงใ™ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚‚ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:37
Say: "Oh, do you know what? I'm in... I've... I've got... I've got... I've got
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่จ€ใ„ใพใ™: ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไฝ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ็งใฏๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™... ็งใฏ... ็งใฏๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™... ็งใฏๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™...
09:42
ten minutes before my next meeting." And I say: "I got", which is grammatically
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ๆฌกใฎไผš่ญฐใพใงใซ 10 ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€ ใใ—ใฆ ็งใฏ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™๏ผšใ€Œ็งใฏๅพ—ใŸใ€ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆ–‡ๆณ•็š„ใซ
09:47
wrong โ€” shh; don't tell my mom. We should say: "I've got", "I have got". I
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้–“้•ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ โ€” shh; ใƒžใƒžใซใฏ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใ€‚ ใ€ŒI have gotใ€ใ€ใ€ŒI have gotใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ในใใงใ™ใ€‚
09:52
should say: "I've got ten minutes before my next meeting, and then I have to hang
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ใ€Œ ๆฌกใฎไผš่ญฐใพใง 10 ๅˆ†ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‰ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚Š
09:58
up. Sorry." But we just say: "I've got". You can say both, but please be aware
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ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ในใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ€Œ็งใฏๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚่จ€ใˆใพใ™ใŒ
10:03
that this is grammatically incorrect; but that's how I speak. So, this gives a
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ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆ–‡ๆณ•็š„ใซๆญฃใ—ใใชใ„ใ“ใจใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒ็งใŒ่ฉฑใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
10:08
person: "Oh, ten minutes. Cool." And you can go over the ten minutes, if you
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ไบบใซใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€10ๅˆ†ใ€‚ใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฟ…่ฆ ใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆ 10 ๅˆ†ใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚
10:14
want, but you've got a time limit. "Ding, ding, ding." Set your alarm.
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ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€ๆ™‚้–“ๅˆถ้™ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€Œใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒณใ€ใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒณใ€ใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒณใ€ ใ‚ขใƒฉใƒผใƒ ใ‚’่จญๅฎšใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:18
"Hey, Google, set my alarm."
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ใ€Œใƒ˜ใ‚คใ€ใ‚ฐใƒผใ‚ฐใƒซใ€ใ‚ขใƒฉใƒผใƒ ใ‚’ใ‚ปใƒƒใƒˆใ—ใฆใ€
10:20
You can also do physical things, and this... I mean, you could do it on... on
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็‰ฉ็†็š„ใชใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏโ€ฆ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€
10:26
online as well. You could just, like: "Mom." Instead of ending the
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ใ‚ชใƒณใƒฉใ‚คใƒณใงใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ€ŒใŠๆฏใ•ใ‚“ใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’็ต‚ใ‚ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ
10:30
conversation, just disappear; just off screen. You know? "Where's Ronnie gone?
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ใ€ใŸใ ๆถˆใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใ†ใฉใ‚ชใƒ• ใ‚นใ‚ฏใƒชใƒผใƒณใ€‚ ใปใ‚‰๏ผŸ ใ€Œใƒญใƒ‹ใƒผใฏใฉใ“ใธ่กŒใฃใŸใฎ๏ผŸ
10:34
Oh, I guess she doesn't want to talk." If you're sitting down at a party, you
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ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใŒใ‚‰ใชใ„ใฎใญใ€ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใงๅบงใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ
10:38
can stand up. Yeah. And: "Oh, I guess the person doesn't want to talk anymore
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ใฏใ€็ซ‹ใกไธŠใŒใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€ ใใฎไบบใฏ
10:43
because they've stood up". "Stand up" โ€” past tense: "stood up". You can move;
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็ซ‹ใกไธŠใŒใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ใ‚‚ใ†่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€. "็ซ‹ใกไธŠใŒใ‚‹" โ€” ้ŽๅŽปๅฝข: "็ซ‹ใกไธŠใŒใฃใŸ". ็งปๅ‹•ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
10:47
just all of a sudden, just: "Oh, you know..." start cracking some things
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็ช็„ถใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ใ€็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ‚‹ ใ‚ˆ...ใ€ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒƒใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐใ—ๅง‹ใ‚
10:52
that... People don't like that. I do this often if I'm at a nightclub,
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ใพใ™... ไบบใ€…ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฅฝใพใชใ„. ็งใฏ ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใƒŠใ‚คใƒˆใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใซ่กŒใใฎใงใ€ใƒŠใ‚คใƒˆใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใซใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’้ ป็นใซ่กŒใ„
10:57
because I go to nightclubs all the time; just a huge clubber. When I used to go
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใ ใฎๅทจๅคงใชใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒใƒผใ€‚
11:01
to nightclubs, or if I'm at a band โ€” which I do, honestly โ€” if somebody's
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ใƒŠใ‚คใƒˆใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใƒใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚’็ต„ใ‚“ ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ๆญฃ็›ด่จ€ใฃใฆใใ†ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€่ชฐใ‹
11:06
talking to me and I don't want to talk to them, I'm just like: "Okay!" Just
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ใŒ็งใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใใชใ„ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏ ใ€Œใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผ๏ผใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:09
physically turn your back and start dancing, or just like, do like a disco
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็‰ฉ็†็š„ใซ่ƒŒใ‚’ๅ‘ใ‘ใฆใƒ€ใƒณใ‚นใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใ‚นใ‚ณใƒ–ใ‚ฎใƒผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ธŠใฃใŸใ‚Šใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
11:13
boogie. "Oh, yeah. Bye. Okay." And just... it had happens; you just leave
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ใ€‚ ใ€Œใ‚ใ€ใใ†ใใ†ใ€‚ใ•ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ใ€ ใใ—ใฆ ใกใ‚‡ใ†ใฉ... ใใ‚Œใฏ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ; ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ซ‹ใกๅŽปใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใง
11:18
and they're just like: "Wow, okay. Okay." Eye contact is very important
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ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ€Œใ†ใ‚ใƒผใ€ใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€ใ‚ชใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใ€ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
11:24
when you're talking to people, so if you start to, like, look away โ€” you can look
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ไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ‚ขใ‚คใ‚ณใƒณใ‚ฟใ‚ฏใƒˆใŒ้žๅธธ
11:32
down at your shoes; go: "Wow! Do you know? My shoes are really cool today.
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ใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ go: ใ€Œใ†ใ‚ใƒผ๏ผ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ‚‹ ๏ผŸไปŠๆ—ฅใฎ็งใฎ้ดใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‹ใฃใ“ใ„ใ„ใ€‚
11:35
I'm glad I bought these." If you start looking away, the people automatically
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่ฒทใฃใฆใ‚ˆใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ใ€ ็›ฎใ‚’ใใ‚‰ใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ€ไบบใ€…
11:39
know that you've lost interest. And it's the fine art of letting the person know
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ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅคฑใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’่‡ชๅ‹•็š„ใซ่ช่ญ˜ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅคฑ็คผใซ
11:44
that you've lost interest without being rude; unless you want to be rude โ€”
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ใชใ‚‰ใšใซ่ˆˆๅ‘ณใ‚’ๅคฑใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใใฎไบบใซ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„่Šธ่ก“ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅคฑ็คผใชใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ„ใฎใงใชใ„้™ใ‚Šใ€ใใ‚Œใงๅ•้กŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
11:48
that's fine. Just disappear. But you can start, you know... Oh, well, I've done
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ใ€‚ ใŸใ ๆถˆใˆใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™... ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใพใ‚ใ€็งใ‚‚ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚„ใฃ
11:55
this, too โ€” just actually just go. Or you can, you know... start doing
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ใŸ - ใŸใ ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ่กŒใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ ใ€ๅˆฅใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚
11:59
something different, you know... Just, like: "Oh!" you know... "It was great
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ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใปใ‚‰โ€ฆใ€Œ
12:01
talking to you guys, but I'm off to steam my clothes right now, so I'll be
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ๅ›ใŸใกใจ่ฉฑใ›ใฆใ‚ˆใ‹ใฃใŸ ใ‘ใฉใ€ไปŠใ‹ใ‚‰ๆœใ‚’่’ธใ—ใซ่กŒใใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
12:05
back soon."
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