How I get out of awkward conversations

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋œ ์ž๋ง‰์€ ๊ธฐ๊ณ„ ๋ฒˆ์—ญ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

00:01
Has this ever happened to you? No, don't lie. Maybe you're at a party. Have you
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ผ์–ด๋‚œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ, ๊ฑฐ์ง“๋ง ํ•˜์ง€๋งˆ. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:09
ever been to a party? Or maybe you're having a conversation with someone that
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ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ๊ฐ€๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์šฐ์—ฐํžˆ ๋งˆ์ฃผ์นœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:15
you've bumped into, which means met by chance on the street โ€” hello โ€” and they
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์ฆ‰, ๊ธธ์—์„œ ์šฐ์—ฐํžˆ ๋งŒ๋‚œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” โ€” ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
00:23
don't stop talking. Now, I have friends like this. And sometimes I'm like: "Oh,
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๋ง์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋”์€ "์˜ค,
00:32
do you know what? I have an extra hour and a half." I would love to listen to
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋ฐ˜ ๋” ์žˆ์–ด ." ๋‚˜๋Š”
00:36
them talk because they're fun, amazing, wonderful people. Then there's other
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋†€๋ž๊ณ  ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ
00:41
people that, when you talk to them, you wish you had not started the
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด
00:45
conversation because maybe they're super boring, or what they're talking about
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๋งค์šฐ ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด
00:50
makes you angry, or whatever. Maybe they're just creepy. Maybe you're in a
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๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ™”๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ธฐํƒ€ ๋“ฑ๋“ฑ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹จ์ง€ ์˜ค์‹นํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
00:55
bar and someone is bothering you; trying to hit on you; trying to pick you up,
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๋ฐ”์— ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๊ดด๋กญํž ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๊ณต๊ฒฉํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ ; ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋ฐ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ,
01:01
and you just want them to go away, but maybe you're too polite to say anything.
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฐ€๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ธธ ์›ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜์—ฌ ์•„๋ฌด ๋ง๋„ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:07
Well, here's where Ronnie is going to help you. How to get outta... and
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๊ธ€์Ž„, ์—ฌ๊ธฐ Ronnie๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋„์šธ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•... ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
01:13
"outta" is how we say: "out of". So, when I'm speaking naturally, I'm not
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"outta"๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค: "out of". ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ
01:19
going to say: "Get out of. How to get out of". I would say: "How to get
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"๋‚˜๊ฐ€. ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋น ์ ธ๋‚˜์˜ค์ง€ "๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” "๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
01:25
outta". And this is a new word, and you think: "Oh, Ronnie, you spelled
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. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์˜ค, ๋กœ๋‹ˆ,
01:29
'situations' wrong." But, actually, I haven't. It's: "shituations". So,
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'situations' ์ฒ ์ž๊ฐ€ ํ‹€๋ ธ๊ตฐ." ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ "์ƒํ™ฉ"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
01:36
"shit"; "shituations" are bad situations, because "shit" means, like,
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"์  ์žฅ"; "shituations"๋Š” ๋‚˜์œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "shit"์€
01:41
a bad thing โ€” obviously. Unless you're into that; that's fine, but whatever.
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๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ๋‚˜์œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์—†๋‹ค๋ฉด; ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๋งŒ, ๋ญ๋“ ์ง€.
01:47
So, how to get out of shituations or bad situations, or, you know... how to end a
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋˜ฅ์ด๋‚˜ ๋‚˜์œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• , ๋˜๋Š”... ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•
01:53
conversation. People think it's rude to end the conversation. I disagree. If
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. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค.
02:02
someone is yapping at you for ages โ€” which means a long time โ€” and what
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ค๋žœ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋™์•ˆ ์•ผ์˜น๊ฑฐ๋ ธ๋Š”๋ฐ
02:08
they're talking about is boring: "Hey, I... Do you know what? I just can't be
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๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด: "์ด๋ด, ๋‚˜... ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ๋‚œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ
02:11
bothered to stand here or sit here, and listen to you anymore; I'm leaving."
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์„œ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์•‰๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๊ท€์ฐฎ์•„. , ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋” ์ด์ƒ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋ง์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋‚œ ๋– ๋‚ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
02:16
Okay? But there are polite ways to do it, and there are more โ€” shall we say โ€”
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์ข‹์•„์š”? ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ณต์†ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
02:21
rude ways to do it. People are... people are worried that they would offend the
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. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€... ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€
02:30
other people by leaving the conversation. I disagree. It's your
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋ถˆ์พŒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ• ๊นŒ ๋ด ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋™์˜ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์˜
02:36
time, it's your energy, it's your day, so I don't think it's rude. You can do
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์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์—๋„ˆ์ง€์ด๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ•˜๋ฃจ์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:41
it in a rude fashion. Cartman, thank you; you can go: "Screw you guys; I'm
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๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์นดํŠธ๋งจ, ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค : "๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค ์—ฟ ๋จน์–ด๋ผ. ๋‚˜๋Š”
02:46
out of here." So, basically, he's just saying, like: "Hmm, I'm leaving." I've
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐˆ๊ฑฐ์•ผ." ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค: "ํ , ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋– ๋‚ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ." ๋‚ด๊ฐ€
02:51
done that. I've done that; I was at a party and some guy's: "Ma-ma-ma" or some
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ํ•ด๋ƒˆ์–ด. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค; ๋‚˜๋Š” ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ  ์–ด๋–ค ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” "์—„๋งˆ-๋งˆ-๋งˆ"๋˜๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค
02:56
girl's: "Ma-ma" โ€” I'm like: "Bye!" And I just leave, because I don't want to talk
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์—ฌ์ž๋Š” "์—„๋งˆ"- ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งˆ์น˜ "์•ˆ๋…•!" ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋– ๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
03:00
to them. Do they care? No. Do they get offended? No. Do they notice? I don't
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. ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๋‚˜์š”? ์•„๋‹ˆ์š”. ๊ธฐ๋ถ„ ์ด ์ƒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ์•„๋‹ˆ์š”. ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฌ๋‚˜์š”?
03:06
know. I'm gone. I just don't care. So, please don't think that you have to
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๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐ”๋‹ค. ๋‚œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์–ด. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์ฆ๊ฒ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด
03:11
stand, or sit and listen to someone yabber on about something, if you're not
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์„œ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์•‰์•„์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋– ๋“œ๋Š” ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”
03:17
enjoying it. It's cool to excuse yourself from a conversation; it's cool
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. ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณ€๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:22
to end the conversation.
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๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:24
One really good technique is... you can use this on the phone, on the internet โ€”
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์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐ์ˆ  ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š”... ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ „ํ™”๋‚˜ ์ธํ„ฐ๋„ท์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:32
what you can do with people is make future plans. So, let's say you're
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜ ๊ณ„ํš์„ ์„ธ์šฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ, ๋‹น์‹ ์ด
03:35
talking to your Mom and you're like: "Oh". Your mom's talking to you, and
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์—„๋งˆ์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์ •ํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค: "์˜ค". ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์—„๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€
03:38
you're like: "Well, Mom. Okay, so I'll see you, like, tomorrow at seven", and
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"๊ธ€์Ž„, ์—„๋งˆ. ์ข‹์•„, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๋‚ด์ผ 7์‹œ์— ๋ณด์ž"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด
03:43
that automatically โ€” it cues the person โ€” I don't know; some magic โ€” to know:
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์ž๋™์œผ๋กœ โ€” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์‹ ํ˜ธ๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โ€” ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๋งˆ๋ฒ• โ€”
03:49
"Oh, this person wants to end the conversation." But it's never that โ€” I
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"์˜ค, ์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ." ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” โ€“ ๋‚˜๋„
03:55
don't know โ€” obvious. We just automatically, in our brain, think: "Oh,
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๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โ€“ ๋ช…๋ฐฑํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ž๋™์œผ๋กœ ๋‡Œ์—์„œ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์˜ค,
03:58
yeah, okay. Yeah, tomorrow. Oh, let's do it." And then the conversation ends.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด. ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚ด์ผ. ์˜ค, ํ•ด๋ณด์ž." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:02
It's perfect. So, you're talking to someone; you say: "Ah, you...? Do you
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์™„๋ฒฝ. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . "์•„, ๋„ˆ...? ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ
04:06
know what? I'll see you at work tomorrow." Like: "Yeah, okay โ€”
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์•Œ์•„? ๋‚ด์ผ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ณด์ž ." ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๋ฉด "๊ทธ๋ž˜, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด โ€”
04:09
tomorrow", and then they forget about what they're talking about, and you're
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๋‚ด์ผ", ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์žŠ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€
04:13
out of there. You say: "Bye-bye. See you later." This is fun at parties. Do you
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์•ˆ๋…•. ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๋ณด์ž." ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์—์„œ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:20
have, like, uncomfortable staff parties, or โ€”I don't know โ€” cocktail parties?
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๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ์Šคํƒœํ”„ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ ๋‚˜ ์นตํ…Œ์ผ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
04:28
Where are all the cocks? And what happens is maybe there's a group of
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์ž์ง€๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ ์ง€๋Š” ์•„๋งˆ๋„
04:35
people talking that you say: "Oh, those are the fun people over there; I want to
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด "์˜ค, ์ €๊ธฐ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๊ตฐ์š”.
04:38
talk to them." And you're stuck talking to Chatty Kathy. And here's a great
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๊ทธ๋“ค๊ณผ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด์š”."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ฃน์ด ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ Chatty Kathy์™€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋ง‰ํ˜”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ
04:45
technique: You grab another victim or person. So, if there's another person
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๊ธฐ์ˆ ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํฌ์ƒ์ž๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ถ™์žก์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ
04:51
walking by in the conversation, you physically grab them... whoa, careful.
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๋Œ€ํ™” ์ค‘์— ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ง€๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋ฉด ๋ฌผ๋ฆฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ถ™์žก๊ณ ... ์›Œ, ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•ด.
04:55
Okay? Don't wanna get assaulted or anything, but you can say: "Oh, hey!
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์ข‹์•„์š”? ํญํ–‰์„ ๋‹นํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ "์˜ค, ์ด๋ด!
05:00
Kevin! Come here!" And Kevin's like: -"No, I don't want to go over there."
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์ผ€๋นˆ! ์ด๋ฆฌ์™€!"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  Kevin์€ "์•„๋‹ˆ, ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์•„."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:04
-"Ke-... Kev-... Kevin! Have you met Kathy?" and then Kevin's like: "Oh,
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-"์ผ€-... ์ผ€๋ธŒ-... ์ผ€๋นˆ! ์บ์‹œ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚ฌ์–ด?" ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  Kevin์€ "์˜ค,
05:08
God." So, then you can put Kevin there to speak to Kathy. And, you... again,
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ํ•˜๋Š๋‹˜." ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด Kevin์„ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์— ๋ฐฐ์น˜ํ•˜์—ฌ Kathy์™€ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์€... ๋‹ค์‹œ,
05:15
you can leave. So, grabbing another victim or two. It's always good to have
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋– ๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํฌ์ƒ์ž๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‘ ๋ช… ๋ถ™์žก์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•œ
05:19
a group of people come up: "Oh, guys, come here! Have you met Kathy?" And they
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๋ฌด๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์˜ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
05:23
all have, but that's fine still. "Oh, yeah, yeah. Come here, come here." So,
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๋ชจ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์—ฌ์ „ํžˆ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์˜ค, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ์ด๋ฆฌ์™€, ์ด๋ฆฌ์™€." ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ,
05:27
then you exit. Exit; enter; exit. You exit the conversation. And Kathy has
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ถœ๊ตฌ; ์ž…๋ ฅํ•˜๋‹ค; ์ถœ๊ตฌ. ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ข…๋ฃŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  Kathy๋Š”
05:32
another person to talk to, so it's a great technique. I like this one โ€”
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๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•  ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•œ๋‹ค โ€“
05:37
mm-hmm. This one, I'm not too fond of because it's like: You actually might
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mm-hmm. ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋‹ค์ง€ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ
05:41
have to see the person again, so be careful how you use that one. Okay? I
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๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์•ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ์ฃผ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์ข‹์•„์š”? ๋‚˜๋Š”
05:47
use this a lot; I like this. So... and my Mom taught me this; thanks, Mom.
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์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งŽ์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•œ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ... ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์—„๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ์ด๊ฑธ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ ์ฃผ์…จ์–ด์š”; ๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ, ์—„๋งˆ.
05:54
Favourite phrase on the phone: "I'll let you go." Go where? I don't have any
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์ „ํ™”์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ: "I'll let you go." ์–ด๋””๋กœ ๊ฐ€์•ผ?
06:00
place to go. But you're basically giving the person permission to hang up, like:
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๊ฐˆ ๊ณณ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ถŒํ•œ์„ ๋ถ€์—ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:05
"Okay, well, I'll let you go now because, you know... we have nothing
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"์•Œ์•˜์–ด, ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๋งŒ ๋†”์ค„๊ฒŒ . ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ... ์šฐ๋ฆฐ
06:10
else to talk about." And it kind of puts the pressure on them, like: "Oh, yes,
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๋” ์ด์ƒ ํ•  ์–˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์—†์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ์••๋ ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜,
06:14
yes, I'm busy. No, I have to go." Probably don't have a plan after, but it
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๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋‚œ ๋ฐ”๋น . ์•„๋‹ˆ, ๊ฐ€์•ผ ํ•ด." ์•„๋งˆ๋„ ์ดํ›„ ๊ณ„ํš์ด ์—†์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€
06:20
puts the onus, as we say, or the responsibility on them. There's a couple
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด ๋ถ€๋‹ด์ด๋‚˜ ์ฑ…์ž„์„ ๊ทธ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€์—ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:24
more phrases like this that you can use. If you make it, or you make the
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์ด์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ช‡ ๊ฐœ ๋” ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
06:30
situation about them. Oh, wow, we're standing outside, having a smoke or
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๊ทธ๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ ๋‹ค๋ฉด. ์˜ค, ์™€์šฐ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐ–์— ์„œ์„œ ๋‹ด๋ฐฐ๋ฅผ ํ”ผ์šฐ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:37
whatever: "Oh, do you know what, Steve? You must be cold. You know... I... I
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"์˜ค, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„, ์Šคํ‹ฐ๋ธŒ? ๋„ˆ ์ถ”์›Œ๋ณด์ด๋„ค. ์•Œ์ž–์•„... ๋‚œ...
06:42
won't keep you out in the cold too long; that... I'm gonna go inside", and the
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๋„ ์ถ”์œ„์— ๋ชฐ์•„๋„ฃ์ง„ ์•Š์„๊ฑฐ์•ผ. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ธธ์–ด, ๊ทธ... ์•ˆ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๊ฒ ์–ด", ๊ทธ
06:46
person's like: "Oh, boy. I am cold. Thank you." Or, you know... they be
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ "์˜ค ์ด๋Ÿฐ. ๋‚˜ ์ถ”์›Œ. ๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ." ๋˜๋Š”, ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ... ๊ทธ๋“ค์€
06:50
Canadian, and they can say: -"I know, you know... I'm Canadian. I'm not cold."
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์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค์ธ์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . -
06:57
-"Oh, you must be hot, okay. Well, I have to leave now. Shit, that didn't
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"์•„, ํ™”๋‚ฌ๋‚˜๋ด, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด. ์ด์ œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์•ผ๊ฒ ์–ด. ์  ์žฅ, ์•ˆ ๋์–ด.
07:00
work. What am I going to do?" So, you can always use... think about them. You
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ญ˜ ํ• ๊นŒ?" ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค... ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋‹น์‹ ์€
07:04
say: "I won't keep you." That's a perfect one because you're not really
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"๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:10
giving them a chance to say: "Oh, no, it's fine". "I won't keep you", which,
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"์˜ค, ์•ˆ๋ผ, ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•  ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . "I won't keep you",
07:16
"I'm going to keep you in my possession" โ€” it doesn't mean that; it just means,
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"I'm going to keep you in my own"์€ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹จ์ง€ ๋‹ค์Œ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜๋ฏธ์ผ ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:19
like: "I'll let you go; I won't keep you. I won't... I won't keep talking to
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07:23
you", which is, like, you're saying it, like: "Oh, do you know what? I'm not
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: "์˜ค, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„?
07:27
gonna keep talking to you", and people think that's polite; they're like: "Oh,
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๋„ˆ๋ž‘ ๊ณ„์† ์–˜๊ธฐ ์•ˆ ํ• ๊ฑฐ์•ผ", ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜ˆ์˜๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์˜ค,
07:31
cool. Okay. Wow, that's really nice of her." Meanwhile, you're like: "Dodged
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๋ฉ‹์ ธ์š”. ์ข‹์•„์š”. ์™€, ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋„ค์š” ." ํ•œํŽธ, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ "
07:36
that bullet; I'm out here."
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์ด์•Œ์„ ํ”ผํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์žˆ๋‹ค."
07:39
If you're talking on the phone, it's a little easier; a little easier. "Oh...
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์ „ํ™”๋กœ ํ†ตํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์‰ฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ. "์˜ค...
07:44
oh, my cell phone โ€” the reception is terrible. Sorry, I gotta go." You can
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์˜ค, ๋‚ด ํœด๋Œ€ ์ „ํ™” - ์ˆ˜์‹  ์ƒํƒœ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๋ด์•ผ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
07:49
always blame it on your battery. "Oh, yeah. Yeah, sorry, Dad, my battery's
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ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ฐฐํ„ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํƒ“ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์˜ค, ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด, ์•„๋น , ๋ฐฐํ„ฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€
07:54
just gonna di-..." Make sure you hang up, though. Die, right? You go: "di-..."
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๋‹ค ๋‹ณ์•„..." ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋Š์œผ์„ธ์š”. ์ฃฝ์–ด, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€? ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ฐ„๋‹ค: "di-..."
07:59
Be dramatic. People love the drama. So, if you have a cellphone, or a computer;
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๊ทน์ ์œผ๋กœ. ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํœด๋Œ€ํฐ์ด๋‚˜ ์ปดํ“จํ„ฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ;
08:05
if you're on Skype, or Zoom, or whatever โ€” and you just want to leave that
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Skype, Zoom ๋“ฑ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ์ค‘์ด๊ณ  ๊ทธ ํšŒ์˜์—์„œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ
08:10
meeting: "Do you know what? I'm sorry, my... my laptop battery just died.
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: "๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด, ๋‚ด... ๋…ธํŠธ๋ถ ๋ฐฐํ„ฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์–ด.
08:15
Yeah." And the next day, and you're just like: "I lost the plug, it seems." Yeah,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹ค์Œ๋‚ , ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋งˆ์น˜ "ํ”Œ๋Ÿฌ๊ทธ๋ฅผ ์žƒ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆฐ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ๊ทธ๋ž˜,
08:20
that's fine. But, yeah, any excuse like that; any electronic excuse, like: "Oh,
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ทธ๋ž˜, ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ณ€๋ช…์€ ์—†์–ด . "์˜ค,
08:25
we lost connection; doesn't work." I do this one, and I do it because it's real
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์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์ด ๋Š๊ฒผ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž‘๋™ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ „์ž ๋ณ€๋ช…. ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ , ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ˜„์‹ค์ ์ด๊ณ  ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
08:31
and it's true, but maybe if you weren't in the position that I am โ€” make a...
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. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งŒ์•ฝ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์ €์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์œ„์น˜์— ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ...
08:36
make a mental time limit. So, for example, you're at work and you have a
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์ •์‹ ์ ์ธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ œํ•œ์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ์„ธ์š”. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ง์žฅ์— ์žˆ๊ณ 
08:41
five-minute break. And you know that a person at your work is super-talkative,
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5๋ถ„๊ฐ„ ํœด์‹์„ ์ทจํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ง์žฅ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์ˆ˜๋‹ค์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œ์„œ ๋‹น์‹ 
08:46
and they're going to talk to you on your five-minute break. So, you go: "Okay,
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์˜ 5๋ถ„ ํœด์‹ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์— ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ๊ฑธ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "
08:51
well, one minute I can stand talking to that person." So, "Oh, do you know what?
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์ข‹์•„์š”, ์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ž ์‹œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š” ." ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ "์•„, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„?
08:57
I have one minute till my break's over; what did you want to talk about?" And
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ํœด์‹ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด 1๋ถ„ ๋‚จ์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์–ด?" ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ 
09:02
they go: "Ooh, a minute to talk โ€” perfect." So, you actually set a time
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ "์˜ค, ์ž ๊น ์–˜๊ธฐํ•  ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™„๋ฒฝํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์‹œ๊ฐ„
09:07
limit. The way that... that my life is, my work is, is that I teach people
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์ œํ•œ์„ ์„ค์ •ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ์‚ถ๊ณผ ์ผ์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„
09:12
online โ€” www.EnglishWithRonnie.com โ€” and I have... how long is it? Fifteen
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์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โ€” www.EnglishWithRonnie.com โ€” ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š”... ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
09:17
minutes in between each lesson. So, sometimes I, you know... I have to go
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๊ฐ ์ˆ˜์—… ์‚ฌ์ด์— 15๋ถ„. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ฐ€๋”์€... ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ...
09:22
pee, and I gotta get a drink; and my friend will call and go: "Hey, Ronnie!
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์˜ค์คŒ๋„ ์‹ธ๊ณ  ์ˆ ๋„ ๋งˆ์…”์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ „ํ™”ํ•ด์„œ "์•ˆ๋…•, ๋กœ๋‹ˆ!
09:27
What's up?" I'm like: "No! I have fifteen... I have twelve minutes. What's
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด์•ผ?" ๋‚˜๋Š” "์•„๋‹ˆ! 15๋ถ„ ๋‚จ์•˜์–ด... 12๋ถ„ ๋‚จ์•˜์–ด. ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด์•ผ
09:32
up?" And I know โ€” it's not rude; it's just life, but you can do that, too.
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?" ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์••๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹จ์ง€ ์ธ์ƒ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹น์‹ ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:37
Say: "Oh, do you know what? I'm in... I've... I've got... I've got... I've got
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"์˜ค, ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•„์„ธ์š”? ์ €... ์ €... ์ €... ์ €... ์ €... ์ € ... ์ €
09:42
ten minutes before my next meeting." And I say: "I got", which is grammatically
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๋‹ค์Œ ํšŒ์˜๊นŒ์ง€ 10๋ถ„ ๋‚จ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” "I got"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์ ์œผ๋กœ
09:47
wrong โ€” shh; don't tell my mom. We should say: "I've got", "I have got". I
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์ž˜๋ชป๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. โ€” shh; ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์—„๋งˆ์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” "I've got", "I have got"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:52
should say: "I've got ten minutes before my next meeting, and then I have to hang
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"๋‹ค์Œ ํšŒ์˜๊นŒ์ง€ 10๋ถ„์ด ๋‚จ์•˜์œผ๋‹ˆ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ
09:58
up. Sorry." But we just say: "I've got". You can say both, but please be aware
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๋Š์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ "I've got"์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
10:03
that this is grammatically incorrect; but that's how I speak. So, this gives a
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์ด๋Š” ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์ ์œผ๋กœ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅด์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด๊ฒƒ์€
10:08
person: "Oh, ten minutes. Cool." And you can go over the ten minutes, if you
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ "์˜ค, 10๋ถ„. ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋‹ค." ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ 10๋ถ„์„ ์ดˆ๊ณผํ•  ์ˆ˜
10:14
want, but you've got a time limit. "Ding, ding, ding." Set your alarm.
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์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ œํ•œ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "๋”ฉ, ๋”ฉ, ๋”ฉ." ์•Œ๋žŒ์„ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
10:18
"Hey, Google, set my alarm."
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"ํ—ค์ด, ๊ตฌ๊ธ€, ์•Œ๋žŒ ๋งž์ถฐ์ค˜."
10:20
You can also do physical things, and this... I mean, you could do it on... on
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๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๋˜ํ•œ ๋ฌผ๋ฆฌ์ ์ธ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ด๊ฒƒ์€... ๋‚ด ๋ง์€, ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์—์„œ๋„... ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์—์„œ๋„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:26
online as well. You could just, like: "Mom." Instead of ending the
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. "์—„๋งˆ." ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋๋‚ด์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ 
10:30
conversation, just disappear; just off screen. You know? "Where's Ronnie gone?
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๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์‚ฌ๋ผ์ง€์„ธ์š”. ํ™”๋ฉด ๋ฐ–์— ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ์ž–์•„? "๋กœ๋‹ˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋”” ๊ฐ”์–ด?
10:34
Oh, I guess she doesn't want to talk." If you're sitting down at a party, you
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์˜ค, ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๊ตฐ." ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์—์„œ ์•‰์•„์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ผ
10:38
can stand up. Yeah. And: "Oh, I guess the person doesn't want to talk anymore
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์–ด์„ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‘. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ : "์•„, ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ผ์–ด์„œ์„œ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”
10:43
because they've stood up". "Stand up" โ€” past tense: "stood up". You can move;
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." "Stand up" โ€” ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์‹œ์ œ: "Stand up". ์ด๋™ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:47
just all of a sudden, just: "Oh, you know..." start cracking some things
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๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ, ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ "์•„, ์•Œ ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ..." ๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ๊นจ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
10:52
that... People don't like that. I do this often if I'm at a nightclub,
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... ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‚˜์ดํŠธ ํด๋Ÿฝ์—
10:57
because I go to nightclubs all the time; just a huge clubber. When I used to go
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๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋‚˜์ดํŠธ ํด๋Ÿฝ์— ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ด๊ฒƒ์„ ์ž์ฃผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ฑฐ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํด๋Ÿฌ๋ฒ„. ์˜ˆ์ „์—
11:01
to nightclubs, or if I'm at a band โ€” which I do, honestly โ€” if somebody's
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๋‚˜์ดํŠธํด๋Ÿฝ์— ๊ฐ€๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฐด๋“œ์— ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ โ€“ ์†”์งํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โ€“ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€
11:06
talking to me and I don't want to talk to them, I'm just like: "Okay!" Just
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๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ๊ฑธ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š์„ ๋•Œ ์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ "์•Œ์•˜์–ด!"
11:09
physically turn your back and start dancing, or just like, do like a disco
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๋“ฑ์„ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ถค์„ ์ถ”๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋””์Šค์ฝ” ๋ถ€๊ธฐ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”
11:13
boogie. "Oh, yeah. Bye. Okay." And just... it had happens; you just leave
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. "์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜. ์•ˆ๋…•. ์•Œ์•˜์–ด." ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ... ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋– ๋‚˜๊ณ 
11:18
and they're just like: "Wow, okay. Okay." Eye contact is very important
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๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋งˆ์น˜ "์™€์šฐ, ์•Œ์•˜์–ด. ์•Œ์•˜์–ด." ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•  ๋•Œ ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:24
when you're talking to people, so if you start to, like, look away โ€” you can look
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. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋ฉด
11:32
down at your shoes; go: "Wow! Do you know? My shoes are really cool today.
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์‹ ๋ฐœ์„ ๋‚ด๋ ค๋‹ค๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. go: "์™€! ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์•Œ์•„? ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‚ด ์‹ ๋ฐœ์ด ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ ธ.
11:35
I'm glad I bought these." If you start looking away, the people automatically
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์ด๊ฑธ ์‚ฌ์„œ ๋‹คํ–‰์ด์•ผ." ์‹œ์„ ์„ ๋Œ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋ฉด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ž๋™์œผ๋กœ
11:39
know that you've lost interest. And it's the fine art of letting the person know
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๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์žƒ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์žƒ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•œ ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:44
that you've lost interest without being rude; unless you want to be rude โ€”
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๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ตด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด
11:48
that's fine. Just disappear. But you can start, you know... Oh, well, I've done
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๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์‚ฌ๋ผ์ ธ. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ... ์˜ค, ์ €๋„ ์ด ์ผ์„ ํ•ด๋ดค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
11:55
this, too โ€” just actually just go. Or you can, you know... start doing
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. ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด , ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ...
11:59
something different, you know... Just, like: "Oh!" you know... "It was great
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๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ผ์„ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์•Œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ... ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ, "์˜ค!" ์žˆ์ž–์•„... "
12:01
talking to you guys, but I'm off to steam my clothes right now, so I'll be
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๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค๊ณผ ์–˜๊ธฐํ•ด์„œ ์ข‹์•˜์–ด. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ์˜ท์— ๊น€์„ ์ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
12:05
back soon."
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๊ณง ๋Œ์•„์˜ฌ๊ฒŒ."
์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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