5 English Conversation Tips | How to improve your communication skills*

hello and welcome back to english with

Pershendetje dhe mire se vini ne Anglisht me

Lucy today I wanted to talk to you

Lucy-n sot dua t'ju flas me ju

well actually I wanted to have a chat

Epo ne fakt dua te kemi nje bisede

with you just a casual informal

Me ju, thjesht nj bisede informale

conversation about how to improve your

Per menyren se si te permiresoni

conversation skills so I recently asked

Aftesite tuaja te bisedimit, prandaj kohet e fundit pyeta

all of my students on facebook and

Te gjithe studentet e mi ne Facebook dhe

instagram what sort of videos they'd

Instagram se cfare videosb ato do te

like to see in the near future because i

Pelqenin te shikonin ne nje te ardhme te afert sepse un

have had a little bit of a rest recently

Kam bere nje pushim te shkurter kohet e fundit

but I'm back in the game now and most

Por tani jam rikthyer ne loje dhe shumica

people wanted to see more grammar videos which

E njerezve donin te shikonin me shume video me gramatike te cilat

will definitely be coming soon more

Do te vijne se shpejti pa dyshim, me shume

vocabulary videos and also tips on how to

Video me fjalor dhe gjithashtu keshille per menyren se si te

improve their spoken english and also

Permirsojne anglishten e folur dhe gjithashtu

their listening skills now I've

Aftesite e te degjuarit. Tani une

already done a video on listening which

Kam bere disa video me te degjuarit te cilet

you can watch just up here but I haven't

Ju mund ti shikoni ketu siper por nuk kam

done a video on conversation yet so

Bere akoma nje video ne bisedim prandaj

that's what I'm going to do today but i

Kete do ta bej sot, por une

am going to provide you with some real

Do t'ju pajis juve me fjalor

vocabulary and some very useful grammar

Dhe gramatike shume te vlefshme

so I've squished everything that you

Prandaj kam shtrydhur cdogje qe ju

wanted into one video alright let's get

Donit ne nje video, ne rregull le te

started with tip number one number one

Fillojme me keshillen numer 1. Nr.1

is be aware of the sounds that you make

Eshte te jeni te kujdeshem per tingujt qe beni

when you think if you want to sound more

Kur mendoni. Nese doni te dukeni me shume si

native when speaking and not offend

Vendas kur flitni dhe te mos efendoni

anyone when speaking then you need to

Asnje kur flisni ateher ju duhet te

think like an Englishman when I was in

Mendoni si nje anglez. Kur isha ne

Spain I was quite surprised when i first

Spanje u surprizova kur kisha per here te pare

had proper conversations with people

Nje bisede te rregullt me njerezit

because they would be talking to me and

Sepse ato flisnin me mua dhe

then suddenly say eeeeeeeeh and I would think what was that

Pastaj papritur thonin eeeeeeh dhe une mendoja se cfare eshte ajo

that's quite loud mouth right open eeeeeeh and

Eshte nje hapje e madhe goje eeeeeh dhe

in the UK it's considered impolite have

Ne Mbreterine e Bashkuar konsiderohet e paedukate

your mouth open in somebody's face so

Te hapesh gojen ne fytyren e nje njeriu prandaj

when we think about what we're going to

Kur mendojme se cfare do te

say next in a conversation we tend to

Themi ne nje bisede ne tentojme te

say ummmm or hmm

Themi ummmm ose hmm

so we tend to hum with our mouths closed

Pra tentojme te bejme hum me goje mbyllur

so try practicing at home if you see any

Prandaj provoni te praktikoni ne shtepi nese shikoni ndonje

interviews of British celebrities and

Interviste te te famshmeve britanik dhe

personalities check to see what sort of

Te personaliteteve kontrolloni dhe shikoni se cfare lloj

noises they make when they are thinking

Zhurmash bejne kur mendojne

about how to respond to a question

Se si t'i pergjigjen nje pyetjeje

the next tip is be aware of

Keshilla tjeter eshte te jeni te kujdesshem per

interjections now what are interjections

Pasthirrmat. Tani c'jane pasthirrmat?

well they are short little expressions

Epo, ato jane shprehje te shkurtra

that express how you are feeling so if I

Qe shprehin menyren se si ndihemi prandaj nese une

say something like oh it means i'm

Them dicka si "oh" do te thote se une

interested maybe I haven't heard that

Jam e interesuar, mbase nuk e kam degjuar ate

before

Me pare

maybe on a bit surprised oh and if I say

Mbase jam pak e surprizuar "oh" dhe ne qofte se them

something like hmm it could mean I don't

Dicka si "hmm" mund te thote se une nuk

quite believe you

Te besoj shume ty

the people from the UK of less inclined

Njerezit nga Mbreteria e Bashkuar jane me pak te prirur

to tell you exactly what they think and

Te thojne pikerisht ate qe mendojne dhe

more inclined to tell you through

Me shume te prirur te ta thojne nepermjet

interjections and body language if you'd

Pasthirrmave dhe gjuhes se trupi. Nese do te

like more information on interjections

Doni me shume informacion rreth pasthirrmave

like oh right yuck eww then i can

Si oh right yuck eww atehere une mundem

definitely make a video all about them

Deinitivisht te bej nje video vetem per to

it really is good to know them because

Eshte me te vertete gje e mire te dish per ta sepse

it will help you understand what speaker

Ju ndihmon te kuptoninse cfare folesi

thinking and also convey what you are

Mendon dhe gjithashtu te perconi ate qe ju

thinking as well tip number four (three) is

Mendoni gjithashtu. Keshilla numer kater (tre) eshte

learn to use question tags properly now

Mesoni te perdorni mire pjesezat pyetese. Tani

what are question tags they are short little

Cfare jane pjesezat pyetese? Ato janpyetje te shkurtra

questions that go at the end of

Qe vendosen ne fund te

sentences things like you're not married

Fjalise. Gjera si "ti nuk je i martuar,

are you?

Apo jo?

or he didn't go did he? or you like tea

Ose "ai nuk shkoi, apo jo" ose "ty te pelqen caji,

don't you?

Apo jo?

now they can mean two different

Tani, ato mund te kene dy kuptime te ndryshme

things they can be a genuine question or

Ato mund te jene pyetje e vertete ose

they can be almost a request for

Mund te jene pothuajse si nje kerkese per

confirmation of something that the

Konfirmim per dicka qe

speaker already knew

Folesi tashme e di

you're very tanned you've been on holiday

"Je me te verte e nxire, ke qene me pushime,

haven't you

Apo jo?"

I know that they've been on holiday

Une e di qe ti ke qene me pushime

I'm just asking for confirmation now

Thjesht po pyes per konfirmim. Tani

question tags are very simple to form and

Pjesezat pyetese jane shume te thjeshta per tu formuar dhe

use if you have a positive statement you

Perdorur nese ke nje fjali pohore- ti

are coming then you'd add a negative

do te vish- pastaj shton pjesezen

question tag on the end aren't you you

Negative te pyetjes ne fund -apo jo?

are coming aren't you

"Ti do te vish, apo jo?"

and if you have a negative sentence she

Dhe ne qoftese ke nje fjali negative

didn't say

-ajo nuk e tha

that then you add a positive question

Pastaj shto pjesen pozitive pyetese

tag at the end did she she didn't say

Ne fund- apo e tha "ajo nuk e tha, apo e tha?"

that did shee right now we've spoken a

Tani kemi folur

little bit about noises a bit of

Pak per zhurmat, pak per fjalorin

vocabulary and a bit of grammar that you

Dhe pak per gramatiken qe ju

can use to improve your conversation

Mund te perdorni per te permirsuar

skills

Aftesite e tua biseduese

well now I'd like to talk about some

Epo tani dua te flas pak per

real hardcore practice so when I was

Praktiken e vertete kryesore. Kur punoja

working as a private English teacher a

Si mesuese private anglishteje

lot of people wanted conversation

Shume njerez donin mesime ne lidhje

lessons and they would come in and say I

Me biseden dhe ato vinin e thonin "une

just want to talk which is great but I

Thjesht dua te flas" gje qe eshte e shkelqyer por une

had a small handful of students that

Kisha nje grup te vogel studentesh te cilet

really knew how to improve their

Me te vertete dine se si te permirsojne

conversation skills and I actually

Aftesite e tyre bashkebiseduese dhe une ne fakt

learned from them i had a couple of

Mesova prej tyre. Kisha nje cift studentesh

students come in and say I want

Qe vinin dhe thonin " une dua

conversation lessons but I want to practice my

Mesime bashkebisedimi por dua te praktikoj

story and this was great they would come

Historite e mija" dhe kjo ishte fantastike. Ato vinin

in with a handful of stories that they

Me nje grusht me treime qe ato

would tell on a daily basis maybe where

Do t'i thonin ne perditshmeri, ndoshta

you're from

Nga je

why you're living in London something

Pse po jeton ne Londer? Dicka

funny that happened to you onholiday

Qesharake qe te ka ndodhur gjate pushimeve.

something that they like to tell they

Dicka qe parapelqejne te thojne

like to be interesting they like to be

Pelqejne te jene interesant, te jene

funny in group situations it's good to

Qesharak ne situata ne grup. Eshte nje gje e mire te

have a few stories up your sleeve

Kesh disa histori nen menge.

well they would come to me and i would

Epo, ata vinin tek une dhe une

ask to practice them and perfect them

Kerkoja ti praktikoja e t'i persosja ata

so they could tell their stories

Ne menyre qe te mund te tregonin historite e tyre

fluently and efficiently and make people

Rrjedhshem dhe me efikasitet dhe t'i bejne njerezit

laugh and make people feel interested

Te qeshin, te ndjehen te interesuar

and make people enjoy their company so i

Dhe ta shijojne shoqerine e tyre. Prandaj une

really really recommend that apart from

Ju rekomandoj shume qe pervec se

practicing your conversation you

Praktikoni bisedimin,

practice your stories you go over them

Praktikoni tregimet tuaja dhe rikthehuni atyre

again and again and again until you have

Prap e prap e prap deri sa

them sorted until they're perfect and fluent

T'i keni te rreshtuara, te jene perfekte dhe te rrjedhshme

and natural more than anything

Dhe mbi te gjitha te natyrshme.

now you guys already know that I work

Tani ju tashme e dini se une punoj

with a company called Lingoda if you

Me nje kompani te quajtur Lingoda, nese

haven't seen my review video for Lingoda

Nuk e keni pare videon time me pershtypjet per Lingoden

you can find it just up here and this is

Mund ti gjeni ketu lart dhe kjo eshte faqja e internetit

a website that i really would

Te cilen une

recommend if you want to practice your

Do t'jua rekomandoja ju nese doni te praktikoni

conversation because every single one of

Bisedat tuaja, secili nga

their lessons encourages speaking you

Mesimet e tyre inkurajon te folurit. Ju

sign up on a monthly basis and you have

Beni regjistrim mujor dhe keni

a mixture of group lessons and private

Nje perzierje te leksioneve ne grup dhe private

lessons and the great thing about it is

Dhe gjeja e meekullueshme ne lidhje me te eshte se

with the private lessons you can choose

Me mesimet private ju mund te zgjidhni

the topic that you want you can say

Temen qe soni dhe mund te thoni

right today I want to practice my

Pikerisht sot dua te praktikoj

stories and they will organise that for

Tregimet e mija dhe ata i organizojne per

you

so they've given me another discount

Ju

Ata me kane dhene mua nje tjeter kupon

voucher to offer you you can get 50 euros or

Zbrijeje per tju ofeuar. Mund ta merrni me 50 euro ose

fifty dollars off your first

50 dollar me pak muakin tuaj te pare ne Lingoda

month at Lingoda if you're interested

Nese neni te interesuar

in that offer click on the link in the

Ne kene oferte klikoni linkun

description box now my final tip for you

Ne kutine e pershkrimit. Tani keshilla ime e fundit

is reflection

Eshte reflektimi

it's all very well going to a language

Eshte mire te keni nje shkembim gjuhesh

exchange and speaking and speaking and

Dhe te flasesh e te flasesh e te flasesh,

speaking but if you don't reflect on

Por nese nuk reflekton mbi

your mistakes you're never going to

Gabimet e tua kurr nuk do te

improve so after every single

Permiresoheni. Prandaj, pas cdo bisede

conversation that you have in a language

Qe keni ne nje gjuhe

that you're trying to learn

Te cilen po perpiqeni ta msoni

make sure you take some time afterwards

Sigurohuni te merrni pak kohe pas saj

to think back and ask yourself where was

Te rimendoheni dhe te pyesni veten se ku

i lacking and there could be a multitude

Kisha mungesa dhe mund te kete nje mori

of answers I didn't know enough

Pergjigjesh. Une nuk dija mjaftueshem

vocabulary to properly express myself or

Fjalor per te shprehur veten time si duhet ose

my listening skills weren't strong enough

Aftesite e mija te te degjuarir nuk ishin aq te forta

to fully understand my partner or I was

Per ta kuptuar plotesisht partnerin ose

telling a story and I wasn't comfortable

Po thoja nje histori dhe nuk isha e rehatshme

enough with the past tenses to tell it

Sa duhet me kohen e shkuart per ta treguar

accurately so make sure you analyze and

Saktesisht, prandaj sigurohu te analizoni dhe

reflect and then do some research about

Te reflektoni dhe pastaj te beni disa kerkime mbi

it so you can practice what you lacked

Te keshtu qe te praktikoni cfare ju mungoi

in in the last conversation now the

Ne biseden e fundit. Tani

world is your oyster here on YouTube you

Bota eshte gove deti ketu ne YouTube

just have to type in question tags

Thjesht duhet te shkruani pjesezat pyetese,

interjections past tenses and there will

Pasthirrmat, kohen e shkuar dhe

be some lovely person teaching you

Do te kete nje person te kesshem qe ju meson

exactly how to use it

Pikerisht se si t'i perdorni

you have just got so many dictionaries

Keni shume aplikacione fjaloresh

apps online schools there is everything

Te shkollave online . Keni cdogje

that you need to help you here online

Qe ju nevojitet ketu online

so make sure you take advantage of it

Prandaj sigurohuni qe te perfitoni prej saj

that's it for today's lesson I hope you

Kaq ishte per mesimin e sotem shpresoj

enjoyed it I hope you learnt something

Qe e shijuar dhe shpresoj qe keni msuar dicka

don't forget to connect with me on all

Mos harroni te lidheni me mua ne te gjitha

of my social media you've got my Instagram and

Mediat sociale. Me gjeni ne instagram,

my facebook where I host a free live

Facebook ku mbajn nje

pronunciation lesson every sunday at

Leksion shqiptimi cdo te diel ne oren

four thirty gmt more information on the

16:30 gmt. Me shume informacion per faqen

facebook page i will see you soon for

E facebookut. Shihemi se shpejti per

another lesson i've got lots of grammar and

Nje tjeter mesim, kam mjaft gramatike dhe

vocabulary videos coming out soon

Video fjalori qe do te vijne se shpejti

I can't wait to show you them mwah!

Me zi po pres t'jua tregoj mwah!