Being polite in English: Useful expressions

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ไธ‹ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅญ—ๅน•ใ‚’ใƒ€ใƒ–ใƒซใ‚ฏใƒชใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจๅ‹•็”ปใ‚’ๅ†็”Ÿใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ฟป่จณใ•ใ‚ŒใŸๅญ—ๅน•ใฏๆฉŸๆขฐ็ฟป่จณใงใ™ใ€‚

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- Being polite in English is not that easy to do
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- ่‹ฑ่ชžใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใ‚’่ฆ‹ ใชใ„้™ใ‚Š็ฐกๅ˜ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
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unless you watch this video.
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ใ€‚
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Ha ha, let's do it.
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ใฏใฏใฏใ€ใ‚„ใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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(upbeat music)
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(้™ฝๆฐ—ใช้Ÿณๆฅฝ
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Some people think the British are very polite.
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) ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นไบบใฏใจใฆใ‚‚็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
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(graphics whoosh)
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(ใ‚ฐใƒฉใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใ‚ทใƒฅใƒผใƒƒใจใ„ใ†้Ÿณ)
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"Could I possibly dare to ask you to be so kind
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ใ€Œๅกฉใ‚’ๆธกใ™ ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใฆใ‚‚
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as to pass the salt?
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ใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹?
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Thank you.
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ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
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Seriously?"
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็œŸๅ‰ฃใซ?ใ€
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(graphics whoosh)
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(ใ‚ฐใƒฉใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ฏ ใ‚ทใƒฅใƒผใƒƒใจใ„ใ†้Ÿณ)
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Now that's a bit over the top.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚„ใ‚Š้ŽใŽใงใ™ใ€‚
00:41
A bit over the top means too much, right?
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ๅฐ‘ใ—ไธŠใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€ๅคšใ™ใŽใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
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But if you're meeting foreign friends
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ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅค–ๅ›ฝไบบใฎๅ‹้”ใซไผšใ†ๅ ดๅˆ
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or you're gonna travel abroad or even immigrate
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ใ‚„ๆตทๅค–ๆ—…่กŒใ‚’ ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใพใŸใฏ่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎๅ›ฝใซ็งปไฝ
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and work and study in an English-speaking country,
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ใ—ใฆๅƒใใ€ๅ‹‰ๅผทใ™ใ‚‹
00:54
it is important to be polite in English.
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ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธ–็•Œไธญ
00:57
I've noticed on my travels around the world,
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ใ‚’ๆ—…ใ—ใฆๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€
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many countries are actually much more direct
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏๅคšใใฎๅ›ฝใŒ
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than in England, for example...
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใ€ไพ‹ใˆใฐ...
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(graphics whoosh)
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(ใ‚ฐใƒฉใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ทใƒฅใƒƒใจ้Ÿณใ‚’็ซ‹ใฆใ‚‹)
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(speaks Spanish)
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(ใ‚นใƒšใ‚คใƒณ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™)
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So you see in England, we would probably say,
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใง ใฏใ€ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ“ใ†่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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"Can I have a beer?" rather than, "Give me a beer."
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ใƒ“ใƒผใƒซ๏ผŸ" ใ€Œใƒ“ใƒผใƒซใ‚’ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใงใฏใชใใ€‚
01:20
We tend not to use the imperative,
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็งใŸใกใฏๅ‘ฝไปคๅฝขใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใชใ„ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒ
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but maybe switch to a question.
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ใ€่ณชๅ•ใซๅˆ‡ใ‚Šๆ›ฟใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
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That's one example.
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ใใ‚Œใฏไธ€ไพ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚
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So being less direct is an important skill
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็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใชใ„ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใƒใ‚คใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ– ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ซใƒผใซใจใฃใฆใ‚‚้‡่ฆใชใ‚นใ‚ญใƒซ
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even for native speakers.
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ใงใ™ใ€‚
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Now in this video, I'll show you some ways
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใฏใ€็Ž‡็›ดใซใชใ‚‰
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of being less direct and how to be polite in English,
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ใชใ„ ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใจใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’
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and also kind of show you when it's appropriate
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็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€็Ž‡็›ดใซ ใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒ้ฉๅˆ‡ใชๅ ดๅˆใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ™
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to be less direct, and just to note, right,
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01:46
I'm from Britain, so the examples I'm giving
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็งใฏ่‹ฑๅ›ฝๅ‡บ่บซใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใฎใง ใ€็งใŒๆŒ™ใ’ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไพ‹ใฏ
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are based on British English, but I would say, by and large,
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚น่‹ฑ่ชžใซๅŸบใฅใ„ใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใŒใ€ๆฆ‚ใ—ใฆใ€
01:54
these can be applied across the board
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ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏ
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in many English-speaking countries.
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ๅคšใใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžๅœใฎๅ›ฝใงๅ…จ้ข็š„ใซ้ฉ็”จใงใใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
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All right.
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ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚
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Let's get stuck in. (chuckles)
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(็ฌ‘ใ„)
02:07
Right, first of all, probably one of the most common ways
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ใพใš็ฌฌ ไธ€ใซใ€็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใชใ„ๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๆ–นๆณ•ใฎ 1 ใคใฏใ€ๅ‘ฝไปคใฎไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ
02:11
of being less direct and polite is by using questions
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02:15
like "can", "could", or "would" instead of imperatives.
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ใ€Œใงใใพใ™ใ€ใ€ใ€Œใงใใพใ™ใ€ใ€ใพใŸใฏ ใ€Œใ ใ‚ใ†ใ€ใชใฉใฎ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
02:20
So the imperative, by the way, is when you say,
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ใจใ“ใ‚ใงใ€
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"Do this," "Do that," "Stand up," "Sit down," right?
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ใ€Œใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ใ€ใ€Œ็ซ‹ใฃ ใฆใ€ใ€Œๅบงใฃใฆใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใใฏๅฟ…้ ˆใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
02:28
That's not normally how we talk in social situations.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้€šๅธธใ€็คพไบคใฎๅ ดใง็งใŸใกใŒ่ฉฑใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚
02:32
We normally ask questions, so instead of saying,
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ใตใ ใ‚“ใฏ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ ใฎใง
02:37
for example, let's take the scenario in the office
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ใ€ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ ใ‚ชใƒ•ใ‚ฃใ‚นใ‚„ๆ•™ๅฎคใงใ‚ทใƒŠใƒชใ‚ชใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
02:40
or in the classroom, instead of saying, "Give me your pen,"
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ใจ่จ€ใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ€Œใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€ใ€Œใƒšใƒณใ‚’
02:44
I would say, "Can I have your pen?
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ใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹? ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
02:48
Thanks."
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ใ€‚
02:51
Right?
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ๅณ๏ผŸ
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(with upward inflexion) "Can I have your pen?"
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๏ผˆไธŠๅ‘ใใฎๅฑˆๆŠ˜ใง๏ผ‰ ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
02:53
Notice the intonation.
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ใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใƒใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
02:55
"Can I" becomes (words run together) "Can-I".
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"Can I" ใฏ (ๅ˜่ชžใŒ ้€ฃ็ถšใ—ใฆ) "Can-I" ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:57
"Can-I have your pen?"
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ใ€Œใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:00
Can you say that?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
03:02
"Can I, can I have your pen?"
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ใ€Œใ‚ˆใ‚ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹ใ€ใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:06
That's it, perfect.
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ใใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€ๅฎŒ็’งใงใ™ใ€‚
03:08
Or even, "Could I have your pen?"
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ใพใŸใฏใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:11
Listen again.
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ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆใ€่žใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
03:12
(with upward inflexion) "Could I, could I,
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๏ผˆไธŠๅ‘ใใฎๅฑˆๆŠ˜ใง๏ผ‰ใ€Œ็งใ€็งใ€
03:14
could I have your pen?"
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:17
Repeat the whole thing.
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ๅ…จไฝ“ใ‚’็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:19
"Could I have your pen?"
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:21
Yeah, fantastic, right?
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ใˆใˆใ€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
03:23
That's a much more polite way of doing it
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ใใฎๆ–นใŒใฏใ‚‹ใ‹ใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ
03:27
or even, "Excuse me, can I have your pen?"
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ใ€ใ€Œใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใƒšใƒณใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:31
In Britain, we love to say, "Excuse me."
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ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นใงใฏใ€ใ€Œใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใŒๅคงๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚
03:34
"Excuse me, (chuckles) can I borrow your pen?"
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ใ€Œใ™ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€๏ผˆ็ฌ‘๏ผ‰ ใƒšใƒณใ‚’่ฒธใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸใ€
03:38
Even "borrow" maybe, okay?
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ใ€Œๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใ€ใงใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใ‹ใชใ€‚
03:41
Great.
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ๅ‰ๅคงใชใ€‚
03:42
And in addition, maybe for example, in a hotel
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ใพใŸ ใ€ใƒ›ใƒ†ใƒซ
03:45
or a restaurant or a bar, we would also say that,
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ใ‚„ใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใ€ใƒใƒผใชใฉ ใงใฏ
03:49
so when the waiter comes, I might say,
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ใ€ใ‚ฆใ‚งใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒผใŒๆฅใŸใจใใซ
03:52
"Yes, can I have the club sandwich please?"
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ใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ ใ‚ฏใƒฉใƒ–ใ‚ตใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚คใƒƒใƒใ‚’ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
03:57
Now sometimes foreign friends say,
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03:59
"Well, what on earth are you doing?
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04:01
Why are you asking the waiter?
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๏ผŸใฉใ†ใ—ใฆใ‚ฆใ‚จใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒผใซ่žใใฎ๏ผŸ
04:03
Surely you're just telling him, "I want the club sandwich."
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04:07
It's true, and I'm not really asking him.
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ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใชใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใงใ™ใ€‚
04:10
It's just a way of being polite, right?
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04:12
When your boss in the international company says,
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04:16
"Can I have the report for tomorrow?"
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04:20
he's not really asking.
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04:22
He's telling you, but just being polite.
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04:26
What you don't say is, "Em, can you, can you?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใ“ใจ ใฏใ€ ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€ใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
04:30
Well, mm, I'm not sure.
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04:32
I'm a bit busy.
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04:33
How about the day after?"
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04:35
No, we don't do that.
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04:37
He's not asking.
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04:38
It's just a way of being polite.
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ใใ‚Œใฏๅ˜ใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™.
04:41
Great, so we've got questions about, "can I", or "could I".
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็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใฎใง ใ€ใ€Œใงใใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใงใใพใ™ใ‹ใ€ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ณชๅ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
04:45
It also works the other way around.
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04:47
We often say, "could you", "would you", right?
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04:50
So again, let's imagine the window's open,
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04:53
it's freezing cold, right?
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04:55
We don't normally say, "Oi!
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04:57
Close the window."
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05:00
In a social situation, in order to be more polite,
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05:03
we would say, "Excuse me, could you close the window?
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ใซ่จ€ใ†ใŸใ‚ใซใ€ใ€Œใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€็ช“ใ‚’้–‰ใ‚ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
05:07
Could you close the window?"
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05:10
Or, "Would you mind closing the window?
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05:14
Would you mind closing?"
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05:17
So after mind, it's I-N-G.
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05:20
"Would you mind opening?
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05:22
Would you mind closing the window?"
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05:24
Can you say that after me?
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05:26
"Would you mind closing the window?"
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?
05:30
Great.
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05:31
(with upward inflexion) "The window."
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05:33
That's it, nice.
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05:35
(graphics whoosh)
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05:35
To add a bit more indirectness, nice word, indirectness,
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้–“ๆŽฅๆ€งใ€ ใƒŠใ‚คใ‚นใƒฏใƒผใƒ‰ใ€้–“ๆŽฅๆ€งใ€
05:41
sometimes we add "a moment" and it doesn't mean
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ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ€Œ ไธ€็žฌใ€ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏใŸใ ใฎ็žฌ้–“ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใชใใ€
05:44
just a moment, it's just being polite, right?
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05:47
"Would you mind closing the window a moment?"
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05:50
"Would you mind opening the door a moment?"
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05:53
That's another way of adding extra politeness
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05:56
as well as, "excuse me", "please", "thank you", "a moment".
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ใฏใ€ใ€ŒExcuse meใ€ใ€ ใ€Œpleaseใ€ใ€ใ€Œthank youใ€ใ€ใ€Œa momentใ€ใจๅŒๆง˜ใซใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใ† 1 ใคใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
06:01
All of these, great ways to be a bit more polite
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06:04
and I guess the last one, thinking about it,
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06:07
we often say, "Can you do me a favour?"
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06:10
"Could you close the window?"
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใ€Œ็ช“ใ‚’้–‰ใ‚ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€
06:12
"Can you do me a favour?"
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06:15
"Can you do me a favour?" and then you ask politely,
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06:19
"Could you close the window, please?
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06:22
Thank you."
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06:24
Let's move on.
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06:31
Now, moving on to the word "just",
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06:34
"just" is such a common word that we use to be polite
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06:38
and to be a bit softer, to make the things we say
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06:43
less direct and softer.
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06:45
We use it all the time, right?
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06:47
For example, imagine you're in a house or a room
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06:51
and the television is really noisy, and you want to say,
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ใฆใ€ใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ใŒใจใฆใ‚‚ ใ†ใ‚‹ใ•ใ„ใฎใซใ€
06:54
"Turn down the TV!"
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ใ€Œใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ใ‚’ๆถˆใ—ใฆ!ใ€ใ€Œใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ใ‚’ๆถˆใ—ใฆ
06:56
"Turn down the TV!"
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!ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:58
I mean, reduce the volume, right?
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ใคใพใ‚Šใ€้Ÿณ้‡ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ?
07:00
Now, we don't say, "Turn down the TV".
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ไปŠใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ€Œใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ใฎ้Ÿณ้‡ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใจใฏ่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“.ใ€Œใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ใฎ้Ÿณ้‡ใ‚’ไธ‹ใ’ใฆใใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹
07:03
We would say, "Can you, can you turn down the TV?"
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?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†.
07:07
Remember?
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07:08
But we would often add "just".
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07:12
"Can you just turn down the TV?"
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07:15
"Can you just turn down the TV?"
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07:18
Great.
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07:20
You use it all the time.
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ใ„ใคใ‚‚ไฝฟใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:21
Another example, we're in a meeting
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07:24
and I want to say something, so I want to say something.
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ไฝ•ใ‹ ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‹่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„.
07:28
I think dah, dah, dah, dah, dah.
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07:30
I would probably say, "Can I just say something?
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07:33
I think that..."
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ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™โ€ฆใ€
07:35
"Can I just say something?"
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07:37
It's a lovely, polite way to interrupt people, right?
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ใ€ ไบบใฎ่ฉฑใ‚’้ฎใ‚‹็ด ๆ•ตใงไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•
07:42
"Can I just say something?
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07:43
"I think dah, dah, dah, dah, dah."
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07:46
Remember, it's not a question.
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่ฆšใˆใฆใŠใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ่ณชๅ•ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:47
You're not asking.
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฐ‹ใญใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
07:48
You're just being polite.
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07:50
So you can use "just" all over the place, right?
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07:54
Let's move on to the next one.
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08:00
Right, let's continue with that situation
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08:03
of being in a meeting at work, right?
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่ทๅ ดใงไผš่ญฐไธญใฎ็Šถๆณใ‚’็ถšใ‘ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใญใ€‚
08:05
And the use of "would" as a conditional,
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08:08
not as a question, right?
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08:10
It's another great way of softening what you're doing.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅ’Œใ‚‰ใ’ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™.
08:14
So for example, instead of saying,
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08:17
"I think that's a good idea," you might say,
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08:23
"I would think that's a good idea."
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08:26
"I would think that's a good idea."
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08:29
It's just being less direct or even,
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08:33
"Yeah, I would say that's a good idea."
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08:36
"I would say that's a good idea,"
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08:38
or, "I'd say, I'd say that's a good idea."
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08:43
Can you say that?
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08:43
"I'd say that's a good idea."
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ใ€Œใใ‚Œใฏใ„ใ„่€ƒใˆใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ€
08:49
So what's happening here, the conditional is exactly that.
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08:52
It's making it a bit hypothetical, like it's not real.
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08:57
This is a way of protecting yourself,
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใ‚’ๅฎˆใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚‹
09:00
as well as softening what you say.
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09:02
We call it hedging.
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09:03
Hedging is being less direct, so one way to hedge
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09:08
is to use a conditional.
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09:10
It's really useful because
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09:12
you're not sticking your neck out.
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09:14
So imagine you're in a meeting and maybe some of the bosses
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09:18
say, "Well, I think we should do that.
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09:20
And what do you think, Keith?"
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09:22
Now you don't wanna stick your neck out and go,
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09:25
"Well, yeah, I think it's a good idea,"
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09:27
or, "I think it's a bad idea," because what if
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ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใจใ‹ใ€Œๆ‚ชใ„่€ƒใˆใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€
09:30
the opinions change and you're left pmm,
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09:33
you get your head chopped off.
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09:35
The conditional is like,
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09:38
"Well, yeah, I would say it's a good idea, you know,
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09:40
if we go ahead," right?
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09:42
I'm not saying it's a good idea.
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09:45
Just hypothetically, I would say it's a good idea.
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ไปฎ่ชฌใงใ™ ใŒใ€ใ„ใ„ใ‚ขใ‚คใƒ‡ใ‚ขใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
09:49
So you can see, you're kind of protecting yourself
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09:52
by hedging.
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09:53
It's a great technique.
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09:55
We use it all the time.
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09:57
It's kind of just being polite,
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09:59
but it's also not sticking your neck out
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10:01
and getting it cut off in politically-charged meetings.
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10:07
Now, let's carry on in the context of meetings.
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10:12
Another way we are polite is to use "sort of", or "kind of".
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10:18
Okay, for example, if you want to say, "I disagree,"
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10:23
the most polite way is to say, "I sort of agree,
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10:27
but..." and it's clear you disagree, but it's very unusual
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10:32
to say, "Well, no, I disagree,"
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10:36
especially if you don't know the people in the room.
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10:38
"I sort of agree, but..." and people understand
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10:42
what you're saying.
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10:43
"I kind of agree, but I think this might be better."
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10:47
"I kind of agree, but this might be better."
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ใ€Œ็งใฏๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใ€
10:52
Or even, "Maybe that's true, but I actually think this."
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10:58
"Maybe that's true, but this might be a better idea," okay?
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11:03
So these are all ways of hedging and being polite,
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ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ™ในใฆ ใƒ˜ใƒƒใ‚ธใจ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใฎใ™ในใฆใฎๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:07
especially in the workplace where you don't know everybody
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็‰นใซใ€ ๅ…จๅ“กใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ
11:09
and often politics is going on.
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11:12
You have to be a little bit careful, sometimes.
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11:15
Great, let's move on.
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11:21
Now, the next one is "at all", "at all", "at all",
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11:28
and this is used quite a lot, especially in situations
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11:31
where somebody may be reluctant to give you something,
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่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ใŸใ‚ใ‚‰ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„
11:36
but you want to be really polite so you can get it, right?
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11:41
Let's imagine you're ringing up somebody
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11:43
and you want to say, "I need to speak to Tom.
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ใ€ใ€Œ ใƒˆใƒ ใจ่ฉฑใ™ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
11:47
Do you have his phone number?"
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ๅฝผใฎ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใŸใ„ใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
11:49
Now that person may not want
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ใใฎไบบใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใŸใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
11:51
to give you the phone number, right?
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ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
11:53
You know, people are often reluctant
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ใ”ๅญ˜็Ÿฅใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ไบบใ€…ใฏ
11:54
to give out other people's phone numbers,
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ไป–ไบบใฎ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใŸใŒใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
11:58
so what you could say is, "I need to teak...
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ใใฎใŸใ‚ ใ€ใ€Œใƒใƒผใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™...
12:00
(chuckles) I need to teak?
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(็ฌ‘ใ„ๅฃฐ) ใƒใƒผใ‚ฏ
12:01
I need to speak to Tom.
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ใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹? ใƒˆใƒ ใจ่ฉฑใ™ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
12:03
Do you have his phone number at all?"
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ใพใ™ใ€‚ๅฝผใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚‚ใใ‚‚ๆ•ฐ๏ผŸใ€
12:06
(with upward inflexion) Do you have his phone number
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๏ผˆไธŠๅ‘ใใฎๆŠ‘ๆšใง๏ผ‰ ๅฝผใฎ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
12:07
at all?" with that rising intonation.
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ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใจใ‚คใƒณใƒˆใƒใƒผใ‚ทใƒงใƒณใ‚’ไธŠใ’ใชใŒใ‚‰
12:11
Can you say that?
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่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใ
12:12
"Do you have his phone number at all?"
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ใพใ™ใ‹? ใ€Œๅฝผใฎ้›ป่ฉฑ็•ชๅทใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€
12:16
Yeah, that's it, and that just makes it
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ใˆใˆใ€ใใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
12:19
much, much softer and hopefully the person
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ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐใ€ใใฎไบบ
12:22
will give it to you, hopefully.
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ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ก˜ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™.
12:25
For example, right, "I'm a bit short of money.
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ€Œ ็งใฏใŠ้‡‘ใŒๅฐ‘ใ—่ถณใ‚Šใชใ„.
12:28
Could you lend me ยฃ10 at all?"
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10 ใƒใƒณใƒ‰่ฒธใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?ใ€
12:32
"Yeah, sure."
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ใ€Œใˆใˆใ€ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€
12:33
"Thank you so much."
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ใ€Œใฉใ†ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€
12:34
Great, so "at all", really good to be polite
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12:39
when you want to get something.
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12:41
Next...
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12:47
Next, do you remember earlier I talked about using questions
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ๅ‰ ใซ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸ
12:51
to be polite, but they're not really questions?
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ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ่ณชๅ•ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?
12:54
Well, also to be polite, we can use the past tense,
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€้ŽๅŽปๅฝขใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใงใใพใ™ใŒใ€
12:58
but it's not really the past tense.
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ๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ้ŽๅŽปๅฝขใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“.
13:00
Well, it is grammatically.
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ใพใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆ–‡ๆณ•็š„ใซใงใ™.
13:02
(chuckles) Confused?
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(็ฌ‘ใ„) ) ๆททไนฑใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹? ๆททไนฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹
13:04
You should be.
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ใฏใšใงใ™.
13:05
English can be confusing.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใฏๆททไนฑใ™ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™.
13:07
All it is, we use the past tense to be a bit less direct.
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ใ™ในใฆใฏ, ้ŽๅŽปๅฝขใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ ใ—ใฆใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™.
13:11
It's a very strange thing, but listen to the examples
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใชใ“ใจใงใ™ ใŒ, ไพ‹
13:15
and I'll try and explain, right?
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ใ‚’่žใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„.
13:17
Let's imagine I'm having a party and I want you to come.
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ๆƒณๅƒใ—ใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ็งใŒ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆ ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆฅใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใŸใ„ใจใ—ใพใ™.
13:21
I might say, "Do you want to come to the party?"
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ใ€Œใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆฅใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹?ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
13:24
and that's fine, absolutely fine.
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. ใใ‚Œใฏ็ตๆง‹ใงใ™.
13:27
However, if I want to be less direct,
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13:31
maybe because I don't know you so well,
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€
13:34
or I think you don't really want to go,
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ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใพใ‚Š่กŒใใŸใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ๅ ดๅˆ
13:37
I might use the past tense, right?
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ใ€้ŽๅŽปๅฝขใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‚ˆใญ?
13:39
For example, "I was wondering if you wanted to come
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ใŸใจใˆใฐใ€ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซ่กŒใใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„
13:43
to the party."
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ใพใ—ใŸใ€
13:44
"I was wondering," past continuous, "if you wanted,"
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ใ€Œ็งใฏไธๆ€่ญฐใซๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ "้ŽๅŽป ็ถ™็ถšใ€"if you want,"
13:50
simple past, "to come to the party."
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ใ‚ทใƒณใƒ—ใƒซ ้ŽๅŽปใซใ€ใ€Œใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆฅใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ€
13:53
"I was wondering if you wanted to come to the party."
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆฅใชใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ€
13:57
"I was wondering if you wanted to go for a beer later."
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ใ€Œ ๅพŒใงใƒ“ใƒผใƒซใ‚’้ฃฒใฟใซ่กŒใใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ€
14:02
"I was wondering if you wanted to go out
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅค–ๅ‡บใ—ใŸใ„ใ‹ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ€
14:04
for dinner at all."
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ใพใฃใŸใๅค•้ฃŸใซใ€
14:07
Right?
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ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
14:08
Making it very soft and hopefully getting the person
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’้žๅธธใซๆŸ”ใ‚‰ใ‹ใใ—ใ€ ใงใใ‚Œใฐใใฎไบบ
14:11
to agree.
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ใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:13
Lovely ways of doing it, right?
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ใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†็ด ๆ•ตใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
14:16
So that's quite common.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใงใ™ใ€‚
14:18
Also, we might say, "I was going to ask you
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ใพใŸใ€ใ€Œใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆฅใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใฃใŸใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
14:21
if you wanted to come to the party,"
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14:23
which is bizarre, right?
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ?
14:25
"I was going to ask you if you wanted to come
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ใ€Œใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซ ่กŒใใŸใ„ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹่žใใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใฃใŸ
14:30
to the party," and you're like, "Well, just ask me!"
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ใ€ใจใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ€ใ€Œใพใ‚ใ€็งใซ่žใ„ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„๏ผใ€
14:33
(laughs) "I was going to," but that's what we do
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๏ผˆ็ฌ‘๏ผ‰ใ€Œใใ† ใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใฃใŸใ€ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็ง
14:38
to be really soft, hedging, right?
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ใŸใกใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ฝใƒ•ใƒˆใงใƒ˜ใƒƒใ‚ธใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
14:40
Being less direct.
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็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใฏใชใ„ใ€‚
14:42
As I said, you may use that if you don't know the person
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ๅ…ˆใปใฉ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ ใใฎไบบใ‚’
14:46
very well, or if you feel they don't really want to go,
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ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ‚„ ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใฏ่กŒใใŸใใชใ„ใ‘ใฉ
14:49
but you want them to come, right?
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ๆฅใฆใปใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใงใใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ?
14:52
Yeah.
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ใ†ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:53
"I was going to ask you if you wanted to go
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ใ€ŒๅพŒใงใƒ“ใƒผใƒซใ‚’้ฃฒใฟ ใซ่กŒใใŸใ„ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹่žใใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใฃใŸ
14:55
for a beer later at all.
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14:59
What do you think?"
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ใ‚“ใ ใ‘ใฉใ€ใฉใ†ๆ€ใ†๏ผŸใ€
15:01
Right?
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ๅณ๏ผŸ
15:02
That's what you might say.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚
15:03
Another example, similar thing.
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ๅˆฅใฎไพ‹ใ€ๅŒๆง˜ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ€‚
15:05
If I say...
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ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰โ€ฆ
15:06
Hello, dust.
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ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ใกใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚
15:07
If I say, "I want to invite you to the party,"
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็งใŒใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผ
15:12
"I want to invite you to the..."
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ใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใ€ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’โ€ฆ
15:13
"I want to invite you to my party," perfectly fine.
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ใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใ€ใ€Œ็งใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ ใ€ใพใฃใŸใๅ•้กŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:17
Less direct, "I wanted to invite you to my party."
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ใ‚ใพใ‚Š็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใฏใชใใ€ใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
15:21
"I wanted," simple past, "to invite you to my party."
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ใ€Œ ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ€
15:25
Can you say that?
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
15:26
"I wanted to invite you to my party."
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ใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ใ€
15:32
Okay, it's just polite.
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ๅคงไธˆๅคซใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:34
It's not the past.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้ŽๅŽปใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:35
It's not, "I wanted to, but now I don't."
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ใ€Œใ‚„ใ‚ŠใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใ‘ใฉใ€ไปŠใฏใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
15:38
No, no, no, no, no.
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ใ„ใ‚„ใ„ใ‚„ใ„ใ‚„ใ„ใ‚„ใ„ใ‚„ใ€‚
15:39
It's, "I wanted to invite you to my party.
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ใใ‚Œใฏใ€Œใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’็งใฎใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใซๆ‹›ๅพ…ใ—ใŸใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€
15:42
Can you come?"
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ๆฅใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใˆใพใ™ใ‹?ใ€ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:43
It's just being polite.
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็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚
15:45
Curious, right?
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่ˆˆๅ‘ณใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ
15:47
Funny things about English language.
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่‹ฑ่ชžใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ้ข็™ฝใ„ใ“ใจ.
15:50
Right, move on.
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ใ‚ˆใ—ใ€ๅ…ˆใซ้€ฒใ‚‚ใ†ใ€‚
15:51
Let's move on.
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ๆฌกใธ็งปใ‚Šใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
15:53
"Oi, move on." (chuckles)
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ใ€ŒใŠใ„ใ€้€ฒใ‚ใ€ (็ฌ‘ใ„ๅฃฐ)
15:55
(graphics whoosh)
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(ใ‚ฐใƒฉใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚น ใ‚ทใƒฅใƒผใƒƒใจใ„ใ†้Ÿณ)
15:56
So there you have it.
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ใงใฏใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใงใŠใ—ใพใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฑ่ชž
15:57
Lots of ways of being polite and less direct in English.
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ใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ ใ€็›ดๆŽฅ็š„ใงใฏใชใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:02
Of course, it depends on the situation,
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ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€็Šถๆณใซ
16:05
and it depends on who you're speaking to,
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ใ‚‚ใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใ—ใ€่ชฐใจ่ฉฑใ—
16:08
on how polite you're going to be, right?
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ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใ‚‚ใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†๏ผŸ
16:11
And please, don't think, please,
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ใใ—ใฆใ€ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€่€ƒใˆใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€
16:15
don't think that British people are always polite, right?
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ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€ใ‚คใ‚ฎใƒชใ‚นไบบ ใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใญ?
16:18
It's not true.
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ใใ‚Œใฏ็œŸๅฎŸใงใฏใชใ„ใ€‚
16:19
It depends.
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ๅ ดๅˆใซใ‚ˆใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:21
Don't think we spend all our days queuing going,
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16:24
"Thank you, please, thank you, thank you, sorry, thank you."
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ใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ€ไธ€ๆ—ฅไธญๅˆ—ใซไธฆใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใจใฏๆ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใง ใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
16:28
(chuckles)
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(็ฌ‘ใ„)
16:29
It's only partly true, right?
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ใใ‚Œใฏ้ƒจๅˆ†็š„ใซใ—ใ‹็œŸๅฎŸใ˜ใ‚ƒใชใ„ใ‚ˆใญ?
16:33
So that's it, ideas for you, and by the way,
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ใจใ“ใ‚ใง
16:35
if you're taking the IELTS speaking test,
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ใ€IELTS ใฎใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใ‚ญใƒณใ‚ฐ ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€่ฉฆ้จ“ๅฎ˜
16:39
it's perfectly okay to disagree with the examiner
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ใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใใฆใ‚‚ใพใฃใŸใๅ•้กŒ
16:42
and you could say, "Well, I disagree,"
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ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
16:45
but if you use hedging, then you can just show off
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16:50
more language.
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ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใใฎ่จ€่ชžใ‚’่ช‡็คบใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
16:51
You could say, "Well, that might be true,
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ใ€Œใพใ‚ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
16:53
but I would say..." right?
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็งใฏโ€ฆใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ ่‹ฑ่ชžใง
16:56
Show off a bit of the, that you know how to hedge
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ใƒ˜ใƒƒใ‚ธใ—ใฆ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฐ‘ใ—่‡ชๆ…ขใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
16:59
and be polite in English.
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ใ€‚
17:01
There you go.
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ใปใ‚‰ใญใ€‚
17:02
That's my tip for all the IELTS students.
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ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€IELTS ใฎๅญฆ็”Ÿๅ…จๅ“กใซๅ‘ใ‘ใŸใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใงใ™ใ€‚
17:04
For the rest of the world, good luck in being polite.
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ไธ–็•Œใฎๆฎ‹ใ‚Šใฎ้ƒจๅˆ†ใงใฏใ€ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ้ ‘ๅผตใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:08
Can't wait to see you again soon.
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ใพใŸใŠไผšใ„ใงใใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:10
Listen, if you've enjoyed this video
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ใ“ใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ช
17:12
and you've learned something new,
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ใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงไฝ•ใ‹ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ๅ ดๅˆใฏ
17:14
please do subscribe to the channel,
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ใ€ใƒใƒฃใƒณใƒใƒซใซ็™ป้Œฒ
17:16
turn on the notifications and leave me a comment down below.
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ใ—ใ€้€š็Ÿฅใ‚’ใ‚ชใƒณใซใ—ใฆใ€ ไธ‹ใซใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:20
Let me know which is your favourite expression
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ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฅฝใใช่กจ็พ
17:22
or way of being polite.
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ใ‚„็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ•ใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:26
Great, thank you so much.
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ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
17:27
I'll see you in the next video, just around the corner.
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ๆฌกใฎใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใงใŠไผšใ„ใ— ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
17:31
Take care, my friend.
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็งใฎๅ‹้”ใฎไธ–่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ€‚
17:33
Bye bye.
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ใƒใ‚คใƒใ‚คใ€‚
17:34
(upbeat music)
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